A Viewer Sent Me a Song - It was Exactly What I Needed - Grieving

[@paulabrensinger2349]

You might not realize this but every time you talk about your wife and honor her you are healing ❤

[@biggirlmentalworld]

How beautiful

[@JodyHarris-j8p]

I wish others like family & friends viewed your comment the same Paula. I agree with you 100%.

[@ulrikadavidsson1086]

You are still lost in grief..it will get better. ❤💔❤️‍🩹❤️

[@lovereigns4017]

I agree ❤

[@daniellek90]

The hardest part of grief is just wanting to talk to that person & see them 😢

[@Gigiskin]

As an outsider I can say with 100% confidence that for every woman's dream to find their person and have a family unit would say you are the EPITOME of what a REAL man is...wanting to make their wife proud, wanting to do right by their children, seeing communication as key in a relationship....all those things point to success, not failure. Be kind..er to yourself Kyle. It's ok to have doubt and you need to start believing you are capable....because you already ARE. Much love...

[@ladybug-wb4tv]

This is what i was looking for. I’ve only heard tales of such United families. They honor her on the daily. She was truly loved ❤❤

[@robertahardwick4886]

Well said and what I was thinking too!!! Kyle, I think it depended on Jenny so much for affirmation that you’re doubting yourself when in fact, as so many of us are telling you, you are the kindest, loving, caring, man, and father!! Please give yourself credit for that!! you are so loving to your children and your pet babies now turn some of that love to yourself!! Jenny is undoubtedly so very proud of you! It sounds like she left you with a lot of instructions on how to live a life after her which has to help so much but put some trust in yourself too that you’re very capable of making smart decisions❤

[@robertahardwick4886]

Well said and what I was thinking too!!! Kyle, I think it depended on Jenny so much for affirmation that you’re doubting yourself when in fact, as so many of us are telling you, you are the kindest, loving, caring, man, and father!! Please give yourself credit for that!! you are so loving to your children and your pet babies now turn some of that love to yourself!! Jenny is undoubtedly so very proud of you! It sounds like she left you with a lot of instructions on how to live a life after her which has to help so much but put some trust in yourself too that you’re very capable of making smart decisions❤

[@Claire-x9f7k]

Oh Kyle as a 75 year old grandma and cancer survivor it breaks my heart that you wonder if you are good enough father! I’ve followed your journey for years now and you are among the elite. How you cared for your Jenny while tending gently to those beautiful babies amazed me. And I can also tell you there is a death worse than losing your spouse and that is losing your child. I lost my son after a 3 month battle with cancer and losing my husband paled in comparison to losing my child. There is another song by he Williams Brothers called Can’t Cry Hard Enough. Have you heard it? I’m going to listen to the Ed Sheeran song after I close with you. Please please take that load off your shoulders as to if you are doing well enough. If every child had a dad like you this world would be a much better place. Your Jenny is looking down smiling and saying “ that’s my Kyle… I knew he could do it!” Dry your tears love and take a deep breath. You’ve got this!

[@paulinesw2514]

What a beautiful message x

[@corrinnamichelle]

I very much agree. Beautifully said.

[@julieprince77]

I just lost my son a month ago. It is undesribeable, beyond any pain i have endured yet, I am emotionally wrecked. We also lost my step son- Hubbys son several years ago. Its so heartbreaking. Ill go listen to the song you said. I am so sorry for your loss as well. And Im so sorry for your loss Kyle!

[@Rita-yw2tn]

@@julieprince77I’m so sorry for your loss sweetie I can’t imagine your pain . You don’t know me nor I you but will be my thoughts and prayers . I pray that God wraps his healing arms around you and your family . 🙏🏻

[@amandawalker77]

Oh how perfectly said ❤

[@susanh3342]

My mom passed 3 years ago. All I would want is a hug, and tell her how much I appreciate everything she did for me. How much I miss her.

[@Rainorshine004]

❤ 🙏

[@donnacain9692]

🙏💐

[@S_J_banana]

it gets easier

[@Debbie-m7f]

Yes I agree🥹❤️

[@Debbie-m7f]

“Mom” by Donna Taggart is a beautiful song.. it will make you cry but listen to it ❤

[@marjanzijlstra1873]

Kyle, your wife was very special, but you are special too. What your doing for your kids, i think its amazing. So, don't forget who you are and what your doing. I lost my son, 5 years ago,, he was 42 years and had a braintumor. He was married and had 2 children, 7 and 9 years old. But his wife was not so strong as you are. I saw many things that made me cry. So, you are a special person too, Jenny can rest in oeace because you doing great, on your own way. And when you could see her for, maybe 5 minutes, you would have more, and more, and more. I heard this song a while ago and it kept me thinking. But we have to deal with how it is now. And i think, you doing great. Be proud of how you manage it. I have a lot of respect for you Kyle. This message comes from holland, from a mother of 78 years old. I would be veru proud with a son like you, as proud as i was with my own son!!!!!!!!

[@BeckyBarter]

Hi Kyle, I’m so sorry about Jenny. I lost my husband to suicide in January so I know the grief, it’s so so hard, always here for you

[@grupohorusinternational7608]

I am so sorry for your experience, my dear. Sending you a huge soul/heart hug from a friend in Mexico City, Marcela. 💖

[@BeckyBarter]

@@grupohorusinternational7608thank you

[@edda682]

So awful, I'm sorry.

[@pepsiyummie1]

Oh gosh. Very sorry for your loss. So much pain out there. Breaks my heart. Love from Mpls, MN ❤

[@pattilikar2581]

I’m so sorry

[@katiesunshine5921]

Dear Kyle ❤ i would like to give you a big hug as a mom of a 28 y old son and 3 daughters. You are a wonderful dad. You did & do it great. 🙏💫

[@cindymoore3798]

Kyle, Jenny was such a light in this world. I started watching almost from the beginning of her cancer journey. She taught me how to live each day to the fullest. She had so much courage, grace and compassion. I miss her too!

[@annmcgregor2080]

I lost my son June 28, 2023. A couple of songs that help me are Scars in Heaven by Casting Crowns, I Can Only Imagine by Mercy Me and Running Home by Cochren & Co. I cry every time I hear them. I was singing I Can Only Imagine to him when he passed. And, the song Running Home makes me think of how happy he must have been running into the arms of Jesus when he left this world. And, Scars in Heaven just assures me that he is no longer in pain. Love and prayers to you and your family Kyle.

[@RF1972.]

I lost my son too...I understand your grief so much... so hard😢

[@robinmiller1898]

Scars in Heaven is amazing. It has helped me just recently.

[@meganp5731]

I love both scars in heaven and I can only imagine

[@lyndaporayko3405]

So sorry for your loss …. Thank you for the reminder of running to Him ❤

[@annmcgregor2080]

@@RF1972. Sorry for your loss.

[@lisakingsley6515]

She definitely seemed like the kindest person.

[@soldonHim]

My husband passed in April, and my son 3 years ago, both from Cancer. If I didn’t have the Lord Jesus to talk to and comfort me I would not have the peace, confidence, and joy that can be found in no other. The Bible prophesies that are being fulfilled right now in the world, as never before, assure me that time as we know it is short and we will be reunited very soon with our loved ones. The song that comforts me the most right now is “Still Waters” by Leanna Crawford. Praying for you Kyle. Your family is precious.

[@duckman1956]

I lost my wife 4-19-2024 with brain cancer I no it hurt I am sorry for your loss

[@duckman1956]

I feel her every day next to me I no she was in a lot of pain but she better 😢😢I am so sorry God bless 🙏 you

[@jesusis1459]

Amen...Jesus is coming very soon.....oh, what a glorious day, that will be✝️😇🎉

[@amandamira8053]

Biggest hugs x

[@amandamira8053]

​@@duckman1956biggest hugs to you x

[@baglove8239]

Somebody who feels so much love for his spouse and his family, can't be a failure as a parent or human.

[@debbij3]

Kyle, remember Jenny was your encourager. She’s in your corner rooting for you, cheering you on. She’s still your number one fan. ❤❤

[@mela-d1m]

Ona jest w grobie!!! Śpi snem śmierci ! Nic nie słyszy nie widzi nie cierpi i nikomu nie kibicuje ! Piszesz głupoty bo nie masz wiedzy ! Bóg pamięta o zmarłych i w wyznaczonym czasie wybudzi ich ze snu śmierci i powstaną do życia wiecznego przez cud zmartwychwstania. Bóg zapewnił o tym w swoim Słowie - Biblii . Czytamy o tej cudownej Bożej obietnicy w Księdze Izajasza rozdział 26 wiersz 19. Dla Boga nie ma nic niemożliwego . Jest prawdomówny ! On nie pozostawia nas w niewiedzy co do umarłych . Informuje nas w jakim stanie są umarli ! Przeczytaj w Biblii Psalm 115 , Księgę Przysłów rozdział 9 . Bóg nas stworzył i wie jak przywrócić życie zmarłym . Obiecuje Nowy Świat na Ziemi w Księdze Objawienie Jana rozdział 21 wiersz 3-5. Będzie to świat bez złych ludzi bez polityki bez fałszywej religii ! Jest to możliwe dzięki temu że Jezus Syn Boga umarł za nas żebyśmy odzyskali życie wieczne utracone przez Adama i Ewę . To oni przekazali nam w genach śmierć i grzech i dlatego umieramy . Jezus nas wykupi z niewoli grzechu i śmierci . Czytamy o tym w Ewangelii Jana rozdział 3 wiersz 16. Gdyby Kail zaufał Bogu i Biblii i obietnicy zmartwychwstania nie płakałby i nie rozpaczał tylko żył tą nadzieją na spotkanie z Jenny ale on nie słucha żadnych rad które mu ludzie piszą w komentarzach . Chyba jest niewierzący . Szkoda bo ucieszyłby się i uspokoił gdyby zaufał Bogu i Jego obietnicy co do wskrzeszenia w perspektywie umarłych . Będzie wśród nich Jenny! A na razie musimy być cierpliwi .

[@carolenegooding5966]

I lost my husband of 57 yrs 11/5/2023 I really know how you feel. I prayed to God all the time and I still cry but the Lord has helped me so much

[@lonnamercier7833]

Trust that Jesus will help you with your children and everything, as you rely on him. He’s cheering you on and sees you as a success, not a failure.

[@lonnamercier7833]

Meant to say Jenny is cheering you on, also!

[@alankramer8734]

How will Geezus help?

[@violetpurchia4711]

Jenny hears and sees everything you and the children say and do! She loved you and still does!

[@renah2509]

Can you just imagine to be able to visit with our love ones...I lost my daughter over a year ago. Her boys have grown so much. She has missed so much ...God bless you. Because I can relate. It's the most horrible thing....

[@renah2509]

@dlfaith Thank you

[@irishgirl1753]

🙏

[@southerngirl1408]

I’m so very sorry for the loss of your precious daughter 🙏🙏

[@lindabeall5614]

So sorry. Prayers

[@purpleviolet2058]

💕🙏💕

[@coleensonnenfeld5519]

Hi Kyle I am 72 years old we lost my son November 11, 2017 everyday I wake up looking at his picture always asking for a sign from home that he is ok. But I find now something some day or saying I hear I do believe it him. He is a grandfather now and we are great grandparents to calliope, but today I waited to know your song and there you go I have heard that song. That my friend was my sign today at 10:41 am. He died in his sleep ready to retire 20 years army, we are living the life he should have been living living the guilt can be too much. Kyle jenny showed you how much she cared and worried for you, I saw that so much. You are never alone God Bless You

[@JeanCobb-p1s]

You are so kind about raising your children. They will be amazed as they turn into adults at how their childhood was so wonderful mostly due to you Kyle ❤

[@sandycurlis9097]

When you can't sleep, start praying, and God will ease you to sleep, pray every day, and God will help all of you with your grief!! Grieving can eat you alive!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@SophAllan-y8t]

I agree with you 😊

[@irenetalley5843]

If you have Jesus, you look to Him for everything. God is all you need. He is your strength, your comfort, your peace. He is your go to for everything. Look to Him for your guidance, your parenting, your grief, your tears, your joys. If you have His peace that passes understanding, you’ll know that you will take Him everything. Show the kids that example. If you show them this way, you will fail as a parent. I’m sorry that those are harsh words but they are the honest truth. You will not ever fail as a parent if you give them that Jesus. If you’ve learned that, He will hold you fast in all things. Get into God’s word when you feel down like this and nothing else in this life will give you that peace and rest. Everything will be hallow and empty. God is in Everything and it’s only by the way of the cross. He is your only answer. You don’t just have him sometimes, you call on Him ALL of the time. ❤🙏🏻❤️

[@granny2012joan]

Kyle, I listen to songs about grief and they make me cry. I still cry for my son who passed away on Christmas Day 2017. He was 41 years old and we were all so close. He had a wife and a 12 year old daughter who is now in her second year of college, he has to be so proud of her. It was such a shock when he passed away, he loved life and his family. Jenny is very proud of you and how your children are doing. If you ever feel like Jenny is right there, don’t doubt it because she is. Sending you hugs ❤️💔😢❤️

[@meganbarto4138]

That was so sweet of your viewer. When my poppop passed..a friend of mine sent me a song and it was beautifully worded and it was so helpful. Its amazing how words in a song mean so very much. ❤

[@Peytonsplacez]

My husband died in May he is never coming back here I will go where he is …I do not want to grieve forever ..it won’t do any good he won’t come back if he is in Gods presence he would not want to come back …and that brings me some peace too. we must choose joy and to move on ..my husband loved me and want me to live in peace because he loved me ..I surely will miss him but I was with him for 40 yrs and in think and do things that he taught me and it always brings his presence ❤ I was telling somebody this morning he used to say “a little bit of something is better than a whole lot of nothing” and instantly he was remembered and felt him in my heart …he left me with so many memories to celebrate ❤

[@Peytonsplacez]

❤

[@irishgirl1753]

❤️

[@Sarahbee-o8t]

Finally a smart comment

[@purpleviolet2058]

💜

[@kathlynterry8196]

Jenny was breathtakingly beautiful inside and out. I can’t take away your pain and grief but I think listening to meaningful songs helps you grieve. Praying for everyone.

[@Richard-pb9zu]

Last year I lost my husband of 56 yrs. I too need to shed tears at times & my favorite song is one by Carly Pearce “Show Me Around”. It is a beautiful song & definitely gets my tears flowing. Grief is very difficult ❤️

[@judyingargiola1978]

We all loved jenny so so much

[@southerngirl1408]

Yes, we did! She really was a wonderful, kind lady and the Best mother 😢

[@JodyHarris-j8p]

Being a widow myself I didn't listen to music the 1st 3 yrs much. I cried over everything. Now 3½ yrs out I just started listening to different genres again. My heart goes out to you.

[@SunsetJuliette]

This hurts my heart so much. My Mom's one year anniversary is in a few days on October 7. She battled stage 4 colon cancer for almost six years. My Dad, sister, and I all took care of her. Her doctors and treatments were over an hour away. Sometimes we went 2-3 times per week. This went on for six years. My sister and I provided her hospice care for four months which was horrific. Now my Dad was just diagnosed with stage 4 bladder cancer, so here we go again before my Mom's one year death date approaches. Unless you've watched your loved one slowly deteriorating from a once beautiful and vibrant person to a frail, skeletal ghost, you truly have no idea. I relate to your videos so much. Thank you for being a light for those of us who have been there and are currently. Sending you hugs.

[@SunsetJuliette]

@@susanlewis9351 Thank you 🖤

[@heatherscoggins395]

Praying for your family

[@SunsetJuliette]

​​@@heatherscoggins395 Thank you 🙏🏼

[@lifechanges557]

I went and listened to the Song, made me cry.. I have not lost a spouse but I have lost loved ones. I have mentioned my brother before in comments who we lost in 2022, he was my best friend not just my brother. I miss him so much. I am so sorry Kyle that you lost jenny at such a young age. It just is not fair for people who lose a spouse who was so young and had so much to live for. I Lost my Dad when I was 12, he was 37, very young as well. Breaks my heart seeing you missing her so much. It's just so not fair. And having young kids as well that lost their mom at such young ages. I do question at times why. Why do people such as Jenny have to be taken away at such a young age. We may never know the answers. You are such a wonderful husband and father. You should be proud of yourself for the wonderful job you have done with the kids since Jenny's passing. She will always be with you Kyle.. I am sure she is very proud of you too. ❤ and it's OK to grieve for her for as long as you need to, however long that is. I still cry for my brother. He really was my rock in life.

[@Juju-wk7yv]

Kyle, you are an amazing dad. Grief is so very difficult. Sending love and support your way. A wise older friend told me to take my time with grief. As time passes, I realize how right she was. Take those hard days one day at a time.

[@anitadenton1468]

I can see and hear the emotions you are experiencing right now, it will never go away, the genuine love you both shared, no words can ease your suffering 😢, this will take a while .

[@barbaradonley5721]

Kyle, you are so far from being a failure. Your love for your children is amazing, the love you had for Jen is amazing. Just keep doing what you’re doing. Much Love to you and your precious children. ❤️❤️❤️

[@maureenoreilly8700]

That is so great that your son is taking piano lessons. You are doing every thing right by exposing your children to music and learning an instrument in spite of your severe grief.

[@1991windsor]

I cry every time I hear the song "When I Get Where I'm Going" by Brad Paisley and Dolly Parton. Grief is such a difficult part of life for most all of us. Continued prayers for healing to you and your family. 💔🙏

[@elizabethkaftan7929]

I lost my daughter a few days after her 21st birthday to suicide over a boy. It hurts everyday I wake. I found the song "Everthing I Own" by Bread. He wrote the song about his dad, but for anyone suffering a loss. When I lost my daughter I started watching your channel and found strength through your family. I'm truly so sorry you are going through grief like so many of us. It hurts and it's hard to go on and pretend everything is ok. I always try to stay busy. Helps until I'm alone in bed. I'd love to have just a few seconds of heaven just to know my baby girl is ok.

[@jenniferthompson6280]

so so sorry😢

[@AmyMccurley]

I’m so sorry . 😢

[@GalaxyTheCrazyQuilt]

My condolences 😢I am so sorry for your loss. I just hope I go before my kids because I couldn't handle it 😭😢

[@Lisa.Halloran]

The very first anniversary of a dear loved ones passing is a heavy, emotional journey. I am so glad you are telling more people stories about your Jenny, it does give some comfort to your aching soul. So glad you are also going to just let the tears flow during this heart shattering time, you'll never regret it. God bless your precious heart.

[@vergilhutson]

My mother passed 10-12-16 her birthday was 10-01 its been hard this is my testimony I prayed to God to see her in my dream well it finally happen a couple of years later I seen her I knew I was sleep she had a beautiful glow when it was time for her to go I cried so hard I woke up knowing I really seen her I don't care what no one says it was her I was able to go on in peace after that cry when u feel overwhelmed it helps ❤

[@theothersideoftherainbow4547]

What a beautifully sad song. But oh so true. ❤ the kids hurt my heart so bad. I was almost 11 when my dad passed from cancer. He had been sick for a long time. And still I didn’t get it. They’re younger than I was. So it’s gotta be so hard on them. Some times life isn’t fair..she’s with each of you although it’s different . You know the things she’d do. You knew her better than anyone. She’ll never misguide you ❤

[@hotfootDDD]

My brother died last year in February. I still cry and I probably always will. It just hits like a cold chill, and my eyes well up and pour like rain. And we're both in our 70's. It is never easy, but with your sweet Jenny being so young and vital, and loved.....it would be weird if you never cried. Let it out, let it flow, and don't feel bad about it.

[@JeanPhillips-p9h]

Oh Kyle I miss my dear husband in 2014 from lung cancer. I just heard this song. I listen to this song and have tears rolling done my face. God bless you and your family. I truly understand Kyle.

[@nparks13]

I do feel your pain Kyle, I lost my husband who had Cystic Fibrosis 23 years ago and I can still remember how I used to forget to breathe. My daughter was 5. Just keep holding tight to those beautiful children. My daughter is getting ready to finish her doctorate in Cystic Fibrosis microbiology research.

[@victoriat7716]

Losing a spouse is life changing, the grief completely changes you as a person. It’s never an easy process to navigate. The grief won’t ever go away but it will become more manageable. My mom had a husband and a life and three kids. She was barely 40 when she passed, she was a young veteran, always full of laughter. But she became an alcoholic and we watched her change from a vibrant, fun woman, full of life and love for her kids, to a malnourished, sick, depressed person. Full of pain. She passed in 2020…but I still can’t think about her without sobbing because it breaks me. She never saw me hit my 20s, she didn’t see me get accepted into my dream school, she didn’t see my baby sister graduate high school, she won’t be here when I get married or have my first child, she won’t be here when my little brother goes to prom or decides what he wants to go to school for. My chest aches just knowing these things. My dad was a wreck and is still running from that grief. Losing your wife and the mother of your children is a pain that is incomprehensible and I say all of that to say that you are never alone in this. Your wife and my mommy want us to be okay, they don’t want us to be sad about them (although we always will be) it causes milestones to have a permanent bittersweet, almost melancholy feeling. Your wife and my mother deserved peace from the illnesses they were forced to endure in this life and I try to find solace in knowing they’ve finally been able to find it. Their journey has begun elsewhere and we have new journeys to begin here, but our love is eternal❤the world is here for you Kyle and I promise everything will be okay. P.S. you and your kids have made it a year. This is so huge and I’m so proud of you guys. I know that one year mark feeling..then the two year mark and so on and so forth…but you’ve done it. And Jenny couldn’t be any more proud of you guys, as we all are❤I hope you see our comments as her speaking to you because she is.

[@elainecartwright1793]

You should be proud how you look after Jenny god bless you and your children ❤❤❤

[@TiinaK.63]

Jenny watches you and the children every day and every moment. You are never alone. You just don't see her 💜

[@ralphpussilano]

Kyle please don’t listen to the negative comments you are an inspiration for many people I lost my wife 52 days ago and I am shattered in a million different ways 💔💔💔💔

[@haleyhagen7173]

@@ralphpussilano I can’t believe the amount of negative comments! And the fact that these people often say they’ve lost loved ones themselves is astounding.

[@PS-qn4oz]

I am so sorry for your loss! Glad you found Kyle and us, though!!

[@tonikimpel7891]

​@@PS-qn4ozso sorry for your loss.

[@tonikimpel7891]

Have you thought of going to her grave site, or a special place and just talk to her? She sees all and hears all. The tears will pass. This is just another transition in grief.

[@southerngirl1408]

Although most KZbinrs leave up negative comments as well as positive, that’s not the case here. That’s OK, it’s his channel, he can do what he wants. I am very sorry he lost his wife and the kids lost their sweet, precious, caring mother.

[@cheribyrd7601]

I lost my Dave to cancer almost 6 months ago. I am always wanting more time with him. I miss him beyond words. I will need to listen to this song. Peace to you and yours.

[@lindabeall5614]

So sorry. Prayers

[@kbeth4848]

Did anyone see when Kyle started to talk about how he wanted to visit with Jenny so bad Flower woke up and barked? ❤😇 3:46

[@southerngirl1408]

It wasn’t Jenny, she’s probably in heaven. The Bible says we do not return in any form after going to heaven

[@la0424]

@@southerngirl1408I don’t believe that at all. It’s our loved ones are always here with us

[@elannathompson8252]

​@@southerngirl1408where does it say that? I want to read that for myself

[@stephanietucker7157]

I had not heard that song before. The emotion really comes through. There's a song by Dean Lewis titled How do I say goodbye? that he wrote for his dad that hits the same way. It's hard to imagine that it's nearly been a year. Sending you and your family many hugs. 🫶

[@dallaswilson1984]

Music is therapeutic. It often speaks to the narrative of our lives. In the moments we find a connect between music and our lives, we can find solace, shared realities, strength, empathy etc in the experience. Kyle, as always, my heart felt condolences and continued prayers for you on your grief journey.

[@sharonf5866]

Jenny is watching down over all of you. She is so proud of you and the way you keep moving forward one day at a time. You are in my thoughts and prayers always. My heart goes out for you and the little ones. 💕

[@theresaworthy4725]

She was and still a beautiful spirit!❤

[@sandrag8656]

I totally feel you. My husband died when our son was 5. It's hard to be a single parent and to decide everything on our own. But remember: We don't have to be perfect. Most important is that your Kids feel loved. In this you are the best father a kid could wish for. ❤ Hugs 🫂

[@sharonteetzel1968]

Hi kyle. My husband passed away 16 years ago from cancer. I STILL grieve. I still have days when i just want to stay in bed and cry. You are doing great! Don't listen to those who obviously dont understand. Sending hugs to you and the kiddos. Watching from Canada 🇨🇦

[@theangendeavor9910]

What a beautiful song! I just listened to it. It made me tear up. I agree with many here. You are farm from a failure, as brave as Jen was and still is, you too are so very brave and so very kind, that is why you are soulmates with her. Your kids are the same too. Peace & Love always Kyle. Namaste!

[@philipbeinke7961]

Mate I lost my wife 5weeks ago and what your going through we feel the pain my thoughts are with you

[@foggyqubti6288]

Dear Kyle....my husband died suddenly 5 years ago. Grief is horrific.❤

[@imjonesy5239]

I think often of a dream I had after my Mom passed. The phone rang and it was her. I was settling her estate at the time, looking after her dying husband, and I had so many questions about that, about my life and what I should do, and all I could do was say “I love you.” over and over again until the line went dead. In the end, when I had so many things I wanted to ask, to say, that was the most important thing, and I had said it thousands of times. I said it as I held her in my arms while she left this world. That was a really valuable lesson for me, because in the end, that was that mattered.

[@Tracy-gj3ig]

Kyle, I just went and listened to Ed’s song and it’s so heartbreakingly beautiful 💜 I also love his good friend Taylor Swift’s song Marjorie, written about her beloved Grandmother who has passed. Watching a video of that song on her tour with the crowd singing and all the twinkling lights often makes me cry. I also think you are doing an incredible job with your beautiful kids, even though it is so hard on your own. Sending much love to your beautiful family as always remembering beautiful Jenny 🐞🩷

[@Debbie-m7f]

“Jealous of the Angels” is a beautiful song from Donna Taggart❤😢

[@juliecaughey2949]

I talk to my dad and my dear friend of which both have passed, like they are sitting with me. I honestly think they hear me and it makes me feel better

[@patriciasmiderle9181]

❤️🙏❤️...Jenny always in our hearts...

[@ioan-dumitruhadarean1483]

You are a very kind person and a very kind soul. God bless you!

[@carolynkuptz]

Hi Kyle. I lost my husband 13years ago. Even after all these years there are certain times where grief comes out of nowhere. Someone once told me grief shows that we loved and were loved. I have followed Jenny and your life since the beginning of your journey. You are an amazing dad Kyle. I can’t imagine how you do it. Carolyn a 79 year old widow.

[@Nutty8114]

I first heard that song after my dad passed away in November of 2022, it made me cry so much. If if was possible I would love 10 minutes at least. I was told he wrote the song for a friend. It is not easy but you're doing ok, Kyle!! This month I'm reliving the last month with my parents, it is very hard. My mom's 1 year is coming up on 10/30 and my dad's 2 year angel date is coming up on 11/22. I send prayers to you and you beautiful kids. And, of course for Jenny, too.

[@IzaBela7411]

Kyle if your kids decide to watch these videos when they are older and see how you were there for their mom and for them they will confirm you are not a failure, you did not fail at all. You were/are so strong and you’re doing the best you can. They will forever be proud of you and love you because they see the love you give and how much you loved their mom ❤ God bless you and your family today and always

[@DropPCTV]

Every so often I come to check to see how you’re doing. I pray that you find happiness again,and you get through this.

[@Bananapeel-p4i]

Kyle I have watched every live & every video you & Jenny ever posted and as a mom with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer who has raised my autistic dtr alone from the age of 4 to now 23 & I pray for peace for when i leave this world & leave her behind..I can tell you how truly blessed Jenny was to know she was leaving her children with a very loving, participating, capable Father with her children! I do understand you would like to hear it from her but I can guarantee she is 1,000 percent proud of you & smiles down on you & her babies every day! Your one of the very best Kyle & when Ellis & Winnie have their own children they will see all that you did & how much you love them! You will never be a failure to them, that is a guarantee!!! Keep looking forward & keeping Jenny's memory alive & in that know Jenny left this place knowing her children were in the very best hands & that is a huge burden she didn't even have to worry about for one singe second... You do a great job when it comes to your children while trying to see thru your own grief & that speaks volumes as to the kind of man & father you are! ✌️❤️💪🙏

[@RockFan89]

When I think of songs regarding loss, Rascal Flatts "Here Comes Goodbye" comes to mind. I cannot watch the video without tearing up. Then Lifehouse "Broken", and 80s band Cinderella has a song called "Through the rain" that goes "sometimes when it's light and you can't see, Sometimes when this world, just seems to be so cold, sometimes when you're lost at sea, drowning in your pain, Sometimes the sun shines through the rain." Lyrics that give some inspiration to come out of the pain. 🙏🙏 My Dad died of Stage 4 lung cancer in the 90s. And he didnt give up smoking even while going through the chemo and radiation. I was 19, and I still miss him

[@SuperBlackCat1313]

I so understand your grief my oldest niece just lost her husband on September 29th 2024 at 2:55 am .He was diagnosed last yr with a rare form of brain cancer inoperable and incurable. He did chemo,But the cancer kept coming back and the doctors said there was nothing more they could do.He was 43 today he would have been 44 today .He leaves behind his wife my niece and his 2 children age 14 and 10 yrs old.We are developed.But he now has no more pain.. CANCER SUX.Big hug for you and children.

[@lindabeall5614]

So sorry for your niece. Prayers for them.

[@JulieDavies-f2u]

I know exactly how ur feeling,my mum died on the 11th of October 23 just a little bit b4 ur Jenny, we played ed shiren at mums funeral so that song has special meaning to me also, it feels like I’m reliving mums passing over & over as we get close to her anniversary, I’ve watched ur grief journey as I’ve lived my own, your an amazing husband & father & remember our eyes cry because sometimes the words are so painful to say, sending a million hugs everyday

[@lynnfitzpatrick528]

Kyle you are doing good. I lost my mom 2 years ago. I miss my mom alot and miss her voice and her advice and I feel a big hole in my heart. I had breast cancer in 2016 i was lucky to have just radiation and I remember her saying i was resilient and positive.

[@pamsmith6404]

I'm 74 and no stranger to grief...You will always miss her till the day you leave for heaven.. God holds our tears in His hands but there are no tears in heaven. We are praying for your family as you go through this valley of grief. We love you.

[@belindasanders-z8p]

Jenny is a beautiful person. We know why you love her so much❤️❤️❤️🐞🐞🐞🐞🐞🐞

[@justinedevoe7166]

I’ve been alone 12 years now. I still have times I wish I had someone here to help make decisions and help bear the weight of everything going on around me. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏼♥️🕊️

[@WDW77]

I lost my sister 2 years ago… it was beyond devastating. She was 20 years older than me , we’d long lost our mum so essentially , she was my mum too. It was like losing a mum all over again. I listened to ‘visiting hours and supermarket flowers’ both Ed Sheeran songs endlessly , almost to encourage crying because I needed to , just did. Still do. I know just what your broken heart feels like. X

[@pennyroyalbleach]

I still think about Jenny. She made me appreciate life and her strength and her kindness is a constant reminder to suck up whatever trivial crap is going on in my life and still be grateful for it. Jenny was a pure beautiful soul. It’s hard for me to grasp than maybe some people are put here to change the lives and attitudes of others. I’m not there yet in my spiritual journey to grasp that such a beautiful person can only be here for a short time. But I keep coming back to this: we’re only human. We don’t have the capacity to understand it. We are not supposed to understand. That’s what faith is for. What’s faith if we already know the answers. Anyway… she’s missed. Hang in there Kyle. However that looks to you.

[@julieannesimms981]

I get through grief seeing all the departed including my pets up there all together having a great old time

[@Annie497-f5x]

I do, too. I say good night to God, each night. I thank him for my blessings of my children and for our safety and well being. I ask him to tell my husband, Steve, how very much I love him and miss him. And I ask him to give my Dalmatian, Buddy, some scruffs behind his ears and to tell him mama says he's a good good boy, and we miss him so much. It brings me comfort to have faith in that. I don't know how people do it without faith.

[@julieannesimms981]

@@Annie497-f5xme neither I wouldn,t have survived all the deaths without faith 🙏

[@peacefulpoate5613]

❤ Me too, lifts my spirits, it makes me giggle ar ,myself which feels good and then I seem to rest easier. A smile seems to come.

[@Annie497-f5x]

@@peacefulpoate5613 Me, too! And a smile or a giggle is always a good thing!!! XO

[@holliethomson6147]

Bless your beautiful heart Kyle ❤ I’m sending you, Winnie and Ellis so much love, strength, peace and comfort always xxx❤❤❤

[@dianewood15]

Take care Kyle You have been doing so well 💕

[@marilynnsuire876]

Kyle, everyday Jen tells you are doing a GREAT job, you are a GREAT dad.

[@lauriegreenwood8946]

My mother was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in July 2020 and she passed away October 29, 2020. My grief has been indescribable. However, listening to you helps me to understand a bit more how my daddy may be feeling. They were married 47 years. It’s been four years this month and he has just started to date, one specific lady. I like her and I am determined to be happy for him because it makes me sad to see him lonely. But it’s very difficult.

[@margaretverwer9967]

That's painful! I lost my brother to the same cancer in 2020!

[@freedomkeeper1776]

I know how you feel. We lost our mom in 2012 my dad passed away in 2019 and watching him grieve for her and long for her every single day in those years was so heartbreaking. There were times I didn't know how to help him and I was afraid that he would take his his own life due to the immeasurable grief immeasurable grief. The only Solace is knowing that they are both in heaven together loving each other as they were intended to. I will pray for you and your daddy. You're so strong, and I think it's amazing that you are determined to be happy for him. What is selfless thing to do. You're an amazing daughter

[@lauriegreenwood8946]

@@freedomkeeper1776 thank you😀

[@margaretverwer9967]

I agree ! I lost my mom in law June 15 2019 then a close friend July 15 2019,my nephew August 18 2019, my mom September 28 2019,my brother April 24 2020 another brother August 2020 in a hit and run, my sister March 11 2021!!

[@tonikimpel7891]

​@@margaretverwer9967sorry for all your loss. Can't imagine what you are going through 😢

[@kayjenkins4262]

Kyle, it is a beautiful song! It makes me think of my Dad, and that I would love to visit with him. Jenny is always with you. ❤

[@Brespam]

I will never forget when my favorite big cousin passed away at 27. Dropped from a random heart attack leaving his kids and wife. When I drove away from the funeral a song I never heard before from an artist I listened to frequently came on. Jhene Aiko - Promises I know he sent that song to me I was like his little sister.

[@wendydarling1745]

Prayers for you Kyle. Grief is SO hard. You are doiing amazing and Jenny would be proud of you. I pray for you and your family daily.

[@libbygranigan7159]

Wow… what a beautiful song

[@tkillian77]

You are incredible. ❤

[@mariacostanza763]

Kyle jenny would be so proud of you you are a great father praying for you its not easy you are never a failure jenny is saying to you right now great job kyle

[@Toya-sWorld]

Im a new subscriber from st.lucia..im sorry abt ur loss ❤❤❤keep strong

[@virginiawolfe9792]

I just listened to the song. It was a beautiful song.

[@salliecuthbert]

The song was wrote by Ed he lost his best friend not long ago it surely came from his heart. I agree it touches everyone’s heart.❤️

[@neverstopwhistle]

What a great song, thanks for sharing.

[@MildaHatipoglu]

I am so so sorry 😢 I know words can't help you. However, I am inspired by your strength 💪 wishing you and your family all the best ❤

[@amycunningham1421]

Visiting hours is one of my fav songs. As well as how do I say goodbye, I always think of my Mum and my mother in law. Sucks our loved ones miss out on seeing great things our kids do or achieve. Thinking of you as a tough anniversary approaches

[@angelab-cj8yy]

Sending all the love Kyle. Journey is rough - god bless you sweet guy ❤. Love Mama Bear 🐻

[@kristinagerson9831]

I listened to Visiting hours. I admire Ed so much as an artist. I felt the answer was in the song…. He said the “answers are In Our love”! If you’ve showed the world one thing so clearly it’s the LOVE you & Jenny found and ricocheted all over the world. ❤❤❤

[@Redmemory1]

He has so many amazing songs about grief. He lost his very best friend within the last couple of years. He doesn’t just sing about it, but he feels grief too.

[@ramonaviolette9103]

Jenny is still with you!watching over you be strong!❤

[@RPD90215]

Kyle, this month will be 20 years since my husband’s sudden death. No final goodbyes. He left for work in the morning, and never came home. Even after all these years, I still occasionally go to his grave and talk to him. As I watch your video, I share in your pain and sorrow. Grief can be a long process, and you can just navigate as best you can. You are doing an AMAZING job, so don’t waste your energy on negative thoughts. Jennie wouldn’t want you to do that. Continue to let out those tears, and continue to honor Jennie’s legacy. Praying for you.

[@Annie497-f5x]

I lost my husband to suicide 28 yrs ago. Like you, I had no idea this was coming. I never saw that train coming at us from behind. He left home in the morning, and I found his body later in the afternoon. I still don't know "why", and I have no chance to say goodbye or right all the wrongs my memory dreams up. My sister lost her husband to cancer, so her experience was different. I don't know what is worse....living with sickness but being able to say all you want to say, or just losing them and all of those unanswered questions are left dangling. Sorry to know you suffered a similar unexpected loss. I wish I could have 5 more minutes to tell him what he meant to me. I "talk" to him, all the time. I cry and share my grief with him. He doesn't answer back, but it helps me to believe he is somewhere, hearing me.

[@SherreeWilson-e3y]

I listened to the Song by Ed Sheeran, Visiting Hours. So many emotions came out,. I cried. Be nice if we there were Visiting Hours in Heaven. ❤

[@johnfarrington9868]

Hi Kyle you are doing an amazing job bless you and your kids and animals!! 💞

[@Crafts339]

Kyle, I read the lyrics of this magnificent song. It is gut-wrenching. I am so sorry you are grieving for Jenny. I didn't know her ....only through KZbin. I wish I had known her personally. One of the videos popped up in my feed, and I started following. What an amazing lady!! Each of you found your soulmate. Jenny is always with you, Ellis, and Winnie. All of you have another guardian angel 😇 watching and protecting each of you. You are not and will not be a failure!! ❤