My grandmother had dementia. It would make me sad that she was forgetting me. Then one day I came to visit her and the nurse said, “look it’s your grand daughter, you don’t remember her?” She looked so distraught and about to cry. I was upset that the doctor and nurse did that. From then on I let her decide whoever she wanted me to be. Turns out I discovered that to her I was one of her best friends from when she was younger and I learned so much about her.
@becca72633 жыл бұрын
my great grandpa is sort of like this. he thinks me and my dad are siblings when we visited a month ago. i was so sad at first, but i’m okay with it now
@stephaniearroyo86943 жыл бұрын
I like you're idea of letting her decide whoever she wanted you to be. Not only did it probably make her feel better thinking that she was right, but in addition you got to learn so much more about her. I never thought of that idea. Thank you.
@micalzoncillo2493 жыл бұрын
my grandma on her last days thought i was her son, my dad. she couldn't talk so we didn't have a conversation, she just called me by his name a lot.
@dusk59563 жыл бұрын
Hello all, hope you all are doing okay. I know it can be tough to see a loved one go through their emotions and also forgetting who you are. Just know that it’s not their wish to forget you but apart of the illness. Remember to take deep breaths and know that no matter what you are loved!
@parvidnil16413 жыл бұрын
@@dusk5956 My grandmother never got to that stage, and I'm glad for that, if it makes sense. She just forgot things we told her for the last five minutes. But even that made me sad, as young I was. She passed four months after the hospitalization. Looking back on it now, it could've and would've been much worse if death never intervened. I'll miss you, Linnéa.
@BeGD3 жыл бұрын
My neighbor when I was a kid was an elderly lady. She was sharp as a tack. As the years passed, dementia destroyed her. I’ll never forget my last encounter with her. She was standing outside of her house with a suitcase while my sister and I were playing. She kept pointing to her house telling my us “your door is open! You need to shut your door! Someone can just walk in!” We told her “No no Anna, that’s YOUR house. You live there.” She looked so troubled and said “No. I’m going home. My mother is picking me up.” She sat outside on her suitcase for hours. My dad came home and tried to talk to her. She panicked not knowing who he was. My dad went down the street to her daughters house and told her what was happening. That made it worse. She refused to believe that was her daughter. She claimed she was 24 and waiting for her mom to pick her up and take her home…as in her childhood home. She still thought she lived in Poland! She had no idea who her kids or grandkids were….and honestly I’ve never seen something so sad. Watching this nice lady just lose herself will forever break my heart.
@gloriaj82543 жыл бұрын
This is really sad. It reminds me of my grandmother who I live with, thankfully she still remembers all her close family members but sometimes she thinks that she has to go home while being at home and she starts packing suitcases. It's really heartbreaking to see a loved one in this situation
@Utube-g3g3 жыл бұрын
@@gloriaj8254 that’s a pretty common theme with “I want to go home”. My mom fell backwards and woke up with dementia and a ton of new physical issues. She thought my dad was back which to me was the only good thing because she was so sad without him. She never forgot me her youngest child but thought I was 20 or her children or grandchildren but her personality changed. But to me I will always be her youngest and I will never stop missing her. It’s changed everything. The loss of both parents and seeing their decline. Now I’m struggling from stress related issues. One thing is my mom was never left alone. Expect for one day, the day she fell backwards. She was left for literally 2 seconds.
@hannahbg18523 жыл бұрын
That's both terrifying yet sad. Goodness gracious, I hope she's resting in peace now. I'm sorry you had to see that.
@jesspavlichenko57453 жыл бұрын
If it is any consolation, not everybody feels angry, scared, or confused. My grandma is experiencing post-stroke dementia and the things she remembers- and doesn't - have become a subject of humor for her and the rest of us. My aunt walked in on her and my grandpa having an argument. She was pointing to their wedding photo. She acknowledged fully that the woman in the photo was her, but kept grilling my grandpa about who the man was. He just kept repeating that it was him and sorry that he didn't age well. She then showed my aunt the photo and asked the same question, my aunt confirmed it was indeed him. They all laughed about it and she still finds it very funny when it happens
@rahbid1213 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what's happening to my dad currently. Every single day, that's the case.
@sheilacarvalho473 жыл бұрын
Everyone remember this: THE PATIENT IS NOT GIVING YOU A HARD TIME, THEY ARE HAVING A HARD TIME.
@subgod3 жыл бұрын
Most underrated comment right there...
@SemenTheSailor3 жыл бұрын
Import to keep in mind with any mental disorder, and in any setting. psychosis, addiction, disassociation. A little bit of patients, understanding and compassion goes a long way.
@chaydanmorgan9173 жыл бұрын
The FitnessGram Pacer Test is a multistage aerobic capacity test that progressively gets more difficult as it continues. The 20 meter pacer test will begin in 30 seconds. Line up at the start. The running speed starts slowly, but gets faster each minute after you hear this signal. [beep] A single lap should be completed each time you hear this sound. [ding] Remember to run in a straight line, and run as long as possible. The second time you fail to complete a lap before the sound, your test is over. The test will begin on the word start. On your mark, get ready, start.
@_.-._.-._.-._.-._.-._.-._.-._3 жыл бұрын
Can't it be both? 😏
@salad62263 жыл бұрын
It's a different story if they're a Facebook dweller Karen
@SilencedRage3 жыл бұрын
For the last two years my memory (mostly short term memory ) has been deteriorating ,along with my hands shaking. I'll be talking to people and mid sentence I'll forget wait we were talking about. It scares me because for the last 7 years of my grandpa's life I watched a very strong Man turn into a confused shell of himself. I got to hold him in my arms as his life was snuffed out. I think Cancer and Alzheimer are two of most demeaning and cruel thing that we as people have to deal with. I'm afraid of what the future has in store for me but it will not defy me. Thanks for taking time to read.
@animecats773 жыл бұрын
That might be Parkinson’s. Don’t be afraid to go to the doctor and seek treatment. Catching something like this early is better than leaving it untreated. Best wishes.
@SilencedRage3 жыл бұрын
@@animecats77 I just wanted to say Thank You for the kind and informative words.
@youtubestudio28173 жыл бұрын
try meditation. It might help
@dominicdeluca63783 жыл бұрын
Hookers n drugs. Best luck to u
@AmmaraSHAH7733773 жыл бұрын
@Proud Zionist awh im so sorry you gave to go through this. Please one thing i recommend that a lot of the clients we have with dementia really appreciated was the stories they wrote down before losing memories in thier own handwriting or thier family member's. If they had pictures to go with it of the people involved too that briefings. This one big book saved one of our client's lives it helped her to see all these stories to recognize her daughter who then helped her to come away from a very dangerous situation. Make sure you write down every little thing you like to do in your day even from the way you like to get dressed if you rub your back edith something if you wear socks or slippers if you have 1 or 2 sugers in your tea if you like a bunch of foods or some you really can't stand or you like listening to some memorable songs those really help if you are religious or you have a favourite hobby that you used to enjoin in with a group of people. Anything in your week that brings you joy try to make notes of these things in a big book from now it will help and i hope anyone who has family going through this at the earlier stages does this. It helps us to care for you and your family knows also.
@yetibigfoot73503 жыл бұрын
I don't have dementia but I did have brain surgery that leaves me like this. Confused, scared . Shoot, I went into a store that I don't normally go into. I got confused and I just sat down and cried. Trying to tell myself there's a way out. Augh!! It's not a good feeling. Bless the hearts who deal with this daily.
@garyking43573 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re better now!!! :c I understand that feeling too. I have brain damage from schizophrenia and I get lost a lot too.
@yetibigfoot73503 жыл бұрын
@@garyking4357 thank you. No I still get it occasionally. Bless your heart. I'm sorry. It's frustrating huh? I hope and pray the best for you. The mind is scary at times.
@believetv10883 жыл бұрын
So you have dementia
@josephdockemeyer67823 жыл бұрын
I have chronic Lyme Disease and struggle at times. Very frustrating.
@katrinatanner37253 жыл бұрын
Multiple times, once in the supermarket, I was having an anxiety and panic attack...... I cried all the way back home......
@sarahline92003 жыл бұрын
My grandma just passed away after having this for years. She would forget what she just did, forget who you were, would see things that weren’t there. I’m happy she’s not suffering any more. Edit: wow 5k likes is crazy. to all the people who commented about their struggles with family members who have dementia, you will get through it, may God give you strength and peace ❤️
@jakeyboy77793 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that. Much love to you, truly ❤️
@danielmconnolly73 жыл бұрын
🙏👑🕊️
@blackisraelite93093 жыл бұрын
😂😂😭
@nottownlma3 жыл бұрын
@@blackisraelite9309 umm, i think the laughing emoji is extremely unnecessary when responding to a comment about their relatives died
@sebastianvelez22423 жыл бұрын
I am so so sorry for your loss.. Just know that your grandmother is in a better place now, watching over you! May she Rest In Peace ❤️🙏🏻🕊
@jaysonklein60183 жыл бұрын
The fact that the layout was bland, homogenous, and confusing really helps to enphasize what people with dementia go through, trying to process everything around them... also Joe popping in and out.
@foxysideburns57413 жыл бұрын
It’s fitting because Joe has dementia too
@FluufyPvPTM3 жыл бұрын
@@foxysideburns5741 lmao
@ThereWasThisBchFromMinnesota3 жыл бұрын
Is this a joke because of how bad the animation is? Because it’s REALLY BAD. When the purse appeared on the other side of the counter and started telekinetically pushing out coins on its own, I couldn’t take it serious anymore💀
@thesupervideogamenerdmore31713 жыл бұрын
@@ThereWasThisBchFromMinnesota Sure, it looks bad, but he has a point. When you are in a situation like this, you get lost in what you need to do or what you have seen. Seeing MILK MILK MILK all over the aisle is a way of saying that it is hard to tell what kind you need.
@no8983 жыл бұрын
Wait who's joe?
@sonic400013 жыл бұрын
Might seem unrelated, but about the cashier's atitude. It reminded me being in high school, when I had to complete some forms at an institute. There was this almost blind lady who went _alone_ for the same sort of form. The woman who received them refused to help her complete the forms, so I wrote the necessary data for the lady. She was almost crying after that and she wanted to *give me money* when I was finished. _For something that was absolutely normal._ Didn't take it, of course. Please be kind with the elderly, at least where it's possible/necessary and they are not aggressive. You never know what is in their heart.
@ABoxIsMyHome3 жыл бұрын
Honestly she was pretty good, if you spent too much time with a person it can be hard to balance with others in line. Tricky situation
@ABoxIsMyHome2 жыл бұрын
@James bad take. Maybe because I’m a fireman but i definitely would save someone in a burning building, kinda f*cked dude lol. It’s not a zombie apocalypse it’s not like we in a rush to get somewhere
@erfyw2 жыл бұрын
@James just because you're a horrible selfish person doesn't mean everybody else has to be
@ABoxIsMyHome2 жыл бұрын
@James nah volunteer, only 5% of New Zealanders are paid fire fighters (my case so countries differ)
@ABoxIsMyHome2 жыл бұрын
@James why does being a volunteer mean I have no family? It’s not suppose to be a source of income either, it’s helping the community. You come to some odd conclusions
@JP-xi6hg3 жыл бұрын
When the woman said "the shop is different" and i turned the camera to find out the layout of the building had literally changed i started crying. The bit with her counting money was also really sad. Jesus christ i did NOT expect this video to make me so emotional. Very well done
@luismaldonado39683 жыл бұрын
Oh god, you are right! Thats disturbing.
@erik-sr9bj3 жыл бұрын
Bruh this is trash
@erik-sr9bj3 жыл бұрын
@@xerorgg oh no, I hurt a fanboy’s feelings :’(
@erik-sr9bj3 жыл бұрын
@MillieameryXD spennish📈
@erik-sr9bj3 жыл бұрын
@@xerorgg You really think you dissed me or sum 🤡
@celestinebuendia3 жыл бұрын
The voice actor for the woman is INCREDIBLE. That “the store’s changed!” broke my heart into pieces.
@WolfyRed3 жыл бұрын
969 likes nice
@granola6613 жыл бұрын
she pronounces sugar like shucker
@CelluoidArts3 жыл бұрын
?
@eisviech99843 жыл бұрын
how did your heart break when she said that? i found it rather comical
@Cooldude-hv3sd3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Ztertis3 жыл бұрын
Our whole life is memory. Losing that is like losing everything... That scares me
@rickyd80973 жыл бұрын
For real though, everything you do is a memory instantly. As soon as your done with whatever you’re doing, it’s a memory. Scary to think about but so true.
@-darrell3 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when I go to the grocery store stoned
@SweetforS3 жыл бұрын
Yeah after having had amnesia it was like being born again and having to relearn everything except it was easier because it’s vaguely there in the back of your mind
@MissMarinaCapri3 жыл бұрын
My memories are most precious! Objects can stimulate memory as well as things written down. I’m not scared of losing my memories. I am bothered by it because then I’m less than who I was and will be must be can be.
@Habib_Osman3 жыл бұрын
Dude just be. Let go dont think just act man
@veteratorvulpes11163 жыл бұрын
Disconcertingly close to shopping during a dissociative episode "Wait, what am I here for?" "The milk was down that aisle last time, wasn't it? Which store is this?" "I could have sworn I had a twenty this morning"
@SantaFishes1013 жыл бұрын
lol same. it's scary going outside or even being in my own place at those times...but, ultimately...you have to have faith I guess.
@casandrawebster6452 жыл бұрын
I first watched this video going through a really bad dissociative episode and got freaked out thinking I had early set dementia because my grandmother does
@kaylarodrigues78923 жыл бұрын
Dementia and alzheimers is something that runs in my family. When I was little, my great-grandparents technically never met me because they always forgot who I was. They thought my cousins and I were some random kids from the street playing in their backyard. In reality, we'd been around them since we were born. Dementia terrifies me not because of the possibility of it happening to me, but rather the possibility of it happening to my mom. I don't know how I could ever deal with seeing her deteriorate like that. It's a fate worse than death: losing what makes you, _you._
@ashleycollazo49443 жыл бұрын
Same my grandpa died last month with it and now my grand ma has it 😭😭
@Toastyboi323 жыл бұрын
Me too... my grandpa had it for years before he died and all while I was taking care of him, for the lack of a better phrase, like a 260 pound baby. I was 13 when he started showing signs of dementia and now im 17 and he passed away last year right before covid hit. It was horrifying to watch the person who raised me not know who I was or even my name... I wouldn't wish this upon my worst enemy. Being a primary caregiver to someone with dementia is living heck. I had a legal guardian that did all the adult stuff like bills but I was the one who was homeschooled to take care of my grandpa all day every day with no allowed social interaction since they were a quote bad crowd to be around.
@buyahondasupercub3 жыл бұрын
Just put her in a nice retirement home and forget about her if she gets bad dementia. You don't even need to visit because they won't remember you visiting and may not even recognize you.
@Zara-ub7hc3 жыл бұрын
@@buyahondasupercub thats just a sad way to go about one’s family member. Dont think i have the heart for that especially if im close to them
@Martupc3 жыл бұрын
I hate it, it's just terrifying and unfair. The worst part is when the person starts to forget basic things like when did they eat, and start to get weaker and weaker
@bryaneberly35883 жыл бұрын
I will start having much more patience with people. This is terrific and terrifying. Thanks for the lesson.
@ladyjane99803 жыл бұрын
I had an accident four years ago and it resulted in my loss of my short term memory as well as dementia. I'm only 48.
@clementines33223 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Seeley hope you're doing better
@ladyjane99803 жыл бұрын
@@clementines3322 Unfortunately this condition is progressive and is now beginning to affect my long term memory. Especially when you have children.
@Goku-dk9md3 жыл бұрын
Truly terrifying
@christianryansino32573 жыл бұрын
You should’ve always had patience with elderly people in the first place, just saying.
@pilferedpotatoes3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness. I just remembered that, when I worked at a grocery store, I had a customer just like this. She struggled so much to write a check and we were all very understanding, but now I have to wonder whether or not she was suffering from dementia and didn't know it.
@erik-sr9bj3 жыл бұрын
I doubt you were understanding. Cashiers are some of the most toxic people known to mankind
@naomi-so5sr3 жыл бұрын
@@erik-sr9bj Karen is that you?
@erik-sr9bj3 жыл бұрын
@@naomi-so5sr candice is that you?
@laura1216843 жыл бұрын
@@erik-sr9bj That's so weird, because cashiers are always super nice to me, because I'm nice to them. Have you ever wondered if you're the problem? If your personality is as lovely in real life as it in this comments section, I wouldn't be surprised if that were the case.
@erik-sr9bj3 жыл бұрын
@@laura121684 then you haven’t seen the cashiers here that can’t take the fact that their 800 pound life average is
@pinkpriss2 жыл бұрын
I'm a full-on losing it crying mess right now! My Mom died of Alzheimer's. My only comfort about it is that the afternoon before the day she died I held my arms around her in her wheelchair and kept telling her what a wonderful mother she was and that I love her so much.
@rx-heaven89343 жыл бұрын
At the counter when she asked to pay I just started internally screaming, "Where is Joe! WHERE IS JOE!"
@MarterElectronics3 жыл бұрын
whos joe
@RAGE-OF-SPARTA-X3 жыл бұрын
@@MarterElectronics Joe Mamma
@momentsformoms94673 жыл бұрын
I know! He just left her...should’ve had them put it to the side. What a dopey kid.
@bermsjerms3 жыл бұрын
@@momentsformoms9467 i was thinking the same thing! I worked in care for years, you have to be cautious about these things with vulnerable people.
@briejustiniano69173 жыл бұрын
I would have just started screaming. That lady was rude.
@rahbid1213 жыл бұрын
I've been diagnosed with a brain tumour, and I'm in my early thirties. This is how I'm becoming. I don't recognise my son for hours at a time. I repeat the same thing. I'm forgetting how to cook, how to read. People use yo come to me to write letters for them. Now I need help with my letters lolz. I'm right handed, but my right hand has become weak like my left hand. I can so relate. I remember, when I was younger, I use to find it a bit strange when an elderly person use to stare blankly. I thought they were being nosey with the countless questions. Now I know, they were actually confused, trying to put two and two together to make sense of the person, their surrounding, the next sentence in their mind and how to execute the whole thing coherently and simultaneously in an effective way. Very very challenging.
@jah100_3 жыл бұрын
Youre a warrior man! Ill pray for you❤️
@rahbid1213 жыл бұрын
@@jah100_ thank you!
@grootsChannel3 жыл бұрын
@@rahbid121 I'm not religious but just to be sure I'll pray for you as well
@rahbid1213 жыл бұрын
@@grootsChannel thank you!
@AKFakuade3 жыл бұрын
I'm praying for you too, all the best in the future!
@goldenoak81643 жыл бұрын
My beloved mother had dementia. One day after I helped her to shower and dress she gently took my hand and told me that I was her best friend. I replied that I was. I was heartbroken but at the same time happy to be whoever she needed me to be.
@neilwiththedeal3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@santoroshopper33 жыл бұрын
I know what you went through I took care of my Dad for 10 yrs. we were looking at photos and he got very excited and said ‘look it’s my daughter! Whatever happened to her? Does she ever stop by?’ He was happy when I told him she stopped by to see him every day but it still broke my heart.
@AmmaraSHAH7733773 жыл бұрын
Awwhh this what hurts me the most i am sorry you all went through that but it truly is one of my greatest fears and i pray not to have to experience this first hand. I couldn't handle the moments where our dementia patients had family visitors and they experienced the same thing knowing that just an yesterday they were talking tooi them openly with recognition. You all muddy have loved them so much to keep taking so much care of them as it is difficult for carers to know what to do in those uncertain circumstances that they get agitated by something and we can't convince them to have thier medicine or have a wash or change thier clothes even with all our experience sometimes we end up calling family members to help convince them because hearing your voices or you knowing them and what to say is what they need.
@santoroshopper33 жыл бұрын
@@AmmaraSHAH773377 Thank you to all the caregivers of dementia patients. I’ve been a nurse a long time. Other than my Dad I rarely dealt with dementia pts. Takes a very special person to do this work
@kidstlme82303 жыл бұрын
How many times does she vote for Biden
@Nt2493 жыл бұрын
I remember when I was much younger, around December we were going to New Mexico to see some family for Christmas. My great grandmother acted very strangely and I remember before getting out of the car my mom said to me "Be patient and helpful with your grandmother, she's got some issues going on." She constantly kept asking what my name was and I kept telling her, some of the things she asked being confusing to me, at dinner she got both of our burgers confused, etc. I was thinking about it recently and it took me this long to put two and two together.
@shadrake133 жыл бұрын
I’m honestly more scared about getting dementia then I am about dying
@dorgonofraudmen67783 жыл бұрын
technically you die in the later stages of dementia and become an empty shell of yourself
@juliagoetia3 жыл бұрын
@@dorgonofraudmen6778 What a horrifying thought. Thanks for that.
@user-ru3mh7hl6k3 жыл бұрын
If I ever get diagnosed with it I want my family to euthanise me, I wouldn’t want them to suffer
@DiscGolfDemon3 жыл бұрын
Dementia makes dying easier to cope with so there is that.
@shrimp14293 жыл бұрын
@@DiscGolfDemon While also filling you with panic as you cant comprehend or remember things. Im good.
@jonahglaser84653 жыл бұрын
„We’re getting busy“ Girl no one is in the line 💀😭
@emmajaramillo91603 жыл бұрын
lmaoooo
@PumpkinMaster983 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@fireiadmire51893 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@janko13 жыл бұрын
No one is in the store
@bodyofhope3 жыл бұрын
As a former customer service representative, it's not that difficult to help ppl sort out their money. Cashiers do it for the elderly all the time. I think most cashiers are very trustworthy and want to help.
@rinwesley30923 жыл бұрын
Alzheimer’s has got to be one of the cruelest diseases in the world.
@loreninavloggingcup3 жыл бұрын
@Vegas it’s very cruel to your loved ones to see you painfully slowly wasting away trust me. I never got to know my granddad before he had dementia. All I got were glimpses of his actual personality few and far between. Mostly confusion in his, and sadness in my moms eyes.
@bbrock81463 жыл бұрын
Rin Wesley, I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiment. It is truly a travesty.
@etherium80173 жыл бұрын
Dementia isn't Alzheimer's but i must agree with you
@etherium80173 жыл бұрын
@Vegas Imagine being on your death bed. your parents walk in and because of your alzheimers you say, "Who are you"
@checkboxxxproductions3 жыл бұрын
@@etherium8017 Only one who copped on to this.
@boringbread75033 жыл бұрын
The part with the biscuits really hurt me.. The fact that I thought I didn't grab them but, apparently did really made me upset. And when the store "changed" It was so strange and so confusing. My heart broke while watching this.
@janetfishwick88875 жыл бұрын
My 91 year old mother has stage 4 Alzheimer's. Shopping with her is an absolute nightmare. She hangs on to the shopping trolley like a life raft and steers it through the sea of isles. She questions the size, price, colour and look of everything. Mother announces her pin number to all shoppers in the queue behind her before she is hurriedly ushered out. She has no idea where she has been once she is home.
@gamingwithkev82084 жыл бұрын
She's suffering. Please don't be angry with her. It's not her fault. I hate when people try to cut their emotions off by allowing their self to feel angry instead
@joan-lisa-smith4 жыл бұрын
If she hangs on the the trolley like a life raft then what does that tell you about how it makes her feel? Leave her at home then and get someone to watch her while you go alone.
@janetfishwick88874 жыл бұрын
@@joan-lisa-smith My mother is now 92 and has had to remain at home until the lockdown here in the UK is over. She used to go shopping as a sole means of getting her out of her bungalow where she exists in her own daily routine. Mother has stage 4 Alzheimer's which limits her ability to understand these present restrictions. She still wants to go out because her shrinking memory remembers shopping. I think, however, as time progresses that mother will forget and she will remain at home to once again exist in her limited little world.
@nikkiwillis11224 жыл бұрын
*Our Mom Alzheimer's disease and dementia story:* *kzbin.info/www/bejne/d3PSgWhtr7l5eck*
@rehanne183 жыл бұрын
@@janetfishwick8887 Who is caring for your mother
@daftoptimist3 жыл бұрын
“The store’s changed,” threw me for a hell of a loop when I turned and saw the shelves in a different layout. How in the hell did I walk straight through the middle of the store when there’s a big old shelf in the way? This is definitely an effective video and I will remember to have more patience and grace for people from now on.
@elissamarcus3 жыл бұрын
I couldn't tell the store changed lol
@spookytv23 жыл бұрын
@@elissamarcus okay thank god im not the only one who didnt notice that 😭
@kodakasaur95183 жыл бұрын
What time stamp?
@Im_a_Chill_Panda3 жыл бұрын
I didn't even notice. 😂
@prateektopinkatti24873 жыл бұрын
That's the thing, you thought that you walked through the aisles that were arranged parallel to you, but in reality you went through the perpendicular store, your brain just doesn't remember going through like that. That's the trippy part about dementia, it messes with you in the present.
@atmosphericidiot203 жыл бұрын
it hurts my heart that my great grandma had to go through this, i remember visiting her and she kept calling me by a different name and pointing at a picture of my cousin and going "look its you :))) hows your husband??" i was only 13 and wanted to cry because just a year earlier she remembered me. its truly a heartbreaking disease
@siiiiiuu73 жыл бұрын
Developing a neurological disease and not having any loved ones around me is literally my greatest fear in life. Not only do you forget who people are, but people also forget who you are. All the special memories and traits that make you special just fade away as you become the "person with dementia". Sad and frightening.
@Julia-sp2kt3 жыл бұрын
so true !
@Rom2Serge3 жыл бұрын
I understand you. i was doing so much speed and coke when i was in my 20s that i feel my chances are almost 100%. I didn't touch for years. But even now while im writing this message its hard to express what i mean though the fog of my thought. There is nothing i can do now . Just live healthy exercise and not to think about it much.
@palacsinta66223 жыл бұрын
@@Rom2Serge Sometimes the body is surprisingly resilient. No one can guarantee you'll get dementia. You can even get better over time. You're awesome for succeeding in beating your addiction!
@StevenDoesStuff3 жыл бұрын
Members of my family have a predisposition to dementia/schizophrenia and I'm all alone living in another country. I pray/wish/hope it never occurs to me. I don't wanna burden those around me.
@ye23.3 жыл бұрын
Yep. Had this experience with my grandma. She became a different person. And she had the silent type so she wouldnt communicate at all. She would just give physical cues
@aiishataal3 жыл бұрын
the frustration when saw those biscuits like “I DIDNT PUT THAT THERE I SWEAR I GRABBED THE SUGAR”
@sadbritishgirl81903 жыл бұрын
Jk 😂😂
@rachelmenth46773 жыл бұрын
that's the thing. you don't know what you did. you have alzheimer's.
@DeathnoteBB3 жыл бұрын
@@rachelmenth4677 Dementia?
@Bae_choo3 жыл бұрын
@@katiscools No, not really. Dementia is the term used for an entire group of brain disorders that make it hard to recall a variety of events, think clearly, make decisions, control your emotions, etc. Alzheimer’s disease is just one of those several disorders. Alzheimer's is a type of Dementia, not Dementia itself, hence why the two are related but not the same thing.
@girrl883 жыл бұрын
@@Bae_choo Well said!
@destinyandseverus3 жыл бұрын
My grandpa has dementia. He's almost becoming like a child now. He doesn't always know who I am. It breaks my heart.
@ChickBalboa3 жыл бұрын
Same, but my dad. He's so different from the strong, confident man he was just a few years ago.
@dillxdough3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you are both going through this. I understand how that feels, I lost my grandad a year and a half ago. He barely remembered anything by the end.
@Tawroset3 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that, Destiny. My father had Alzheimer's, and now a good friend of mine has it. It's terrible. Please give your grandpa a big hug! :-)
@becca_rose_x3 жыл бұрын
Same, my Nan is at stage 5 and parts of stage 6 dementia. She can’t eat, drink, wash, get dressed or walk on her own now. We have to do everything for her. It’s like she has gone back to being a baby. She won’t say any full sentences either. It’s gibberish or only an odd one word. It’s so heartbreaking. So scary how the brain just gives up 😞
@lexa56303 жыл бұрын
My grandpa just got diagnosed with dementia recently too. It's very hard..
@meidoinhebun22203 жыл бұрын
this video literally destroyed me, along with everywhere at the end of time. dementia is horrifying and so, so cruel
@bonniescotland75143 жыл бұрын
I have looked after elderly residents with very severe dementia. When some of them speak they sound like they're speaking another language and will start crying but they can't tell you why and all you can do is give them a big cuddle and tell them itll be ok. Sometimes they will get aggressive but it's only a defense mechanism for all the confusion going on in their minds. I can't imagine how traumatic it must be in that situation and whenever one passes away I see it as a blessing as now their mind and soul can be at peace.
@rimut2303 жыл бұрын
@Aluzky can you shut up for a second please? that person shared their saddening experience and you are acting like a complete pile of garbage.
@brinley80573 жыл бұрын
@Aluzky you’re opinion is fine. you’re statement just ended unnecessarily rude is all🙂
@brinley80573 жыл бұрын
your*
@rimut2303 жыл бұрын
@Aluzky freedom of speech does not mean you can be rude
@rudociliak66833 жыл бұрын
@Aluzky you're a tool
@swirlybun96163 жыл бұрын
The old lady outright had no recollection, can’t even recall, getting those biscuits. That’s worrying how dementia messes with your memory.
@yungtrashcan73763 жыл бұрын
@@dirtytapwater1374 she didn’t get the biscuits, she was having an episode and essentially had a flashback of a time she went to the store with this Joe guy and then she snaps back to reality, but for her it all feels real.
@Cameron00013 жыл бұрын
She never got the biscuits. We literally watched the video ourselves and she never got biscuits we saw everything shegot it’s just that at the cash register the biscuits somehow appeared in there.
@conniehe21163 жыл бұрын
@@Cameron0001 We’re being put in her shoes. What’s presented to us in the video is all she remembers, so it’s all we see.
@THIRTEENTH13TH3 жыл бұрын
shit im 20 and this happens literally in every aspect of my life
@user-ui7tn1fq2b3 жыл бұрын
@@THIRTEENTH13TH you might have adhd my guy…
@OsirisT3 жыл бұрын
God Joe was a lifesaver, was honestly relieved whenever he showed up 😂
@newspaperbin67633 жыл бұрын
Who's Joe?
@L16htW4rr10r3 жыл бұрын
Obviously her grandson or her son
@chaydanmorgan9173 жыл бұрын
@@L16htW4rr10r Woosh
@chaydanmorgan9173 жыл бұрын
@@newspaperbin6763 Joe mama
@L16htW4rr10r3 жыл бұрын
@@chaydanmorgan917 lol. X,D
@dustix_76373 жыл бұрын
I didnt even know the layout of the store changed and i was literally paying attention LMAO
@mraizawa52743 жыл бұрын
I used to get pissed when people took forever like this, but now I just feel guilty
@de05093 жыл бұрын
You used to do X, but now you dont. Give yourself a pat in the back. We all need time to grow and learn
@corporalzeph25183 жыл бұрын
Feeling guilt means you took responsibility for your actions subconsciously. That's called character growth.
@Regularplay5413 жыл бұрын
Pls feel more guilty.
@lucianoarebalo413 жыл бұрын
And you’ll probably still get pissed, so will all of us at some point, the important thing is to have patience and be understanding of others situations, we can’t always control feelings, but we can control how we act on them
@Ssookawai3 жыл бұрын
@@lucianoarebalo41 once it's fully processed within your mind, it doesn't bother you anymore. I can become NUTS when I hear someone chewing with his/her mounth open but I'm not bothered by babies crying in an airlplane or even everyday in my apartment, for me they're babies/toddlers, it's "like this" lol.
@aguisal9603 жыл бұрын
Everybody gangsta until the speaker starts playing a kinda familiar music...
@tilsgee3 жыл бұрын
Oh no
@derpyfish01793 жыл бұрын
@@tilsgee oh no
@rvc74683 жыл бұрын
It better not be Childishly Fresh Eyes....
@derpyfish01793 жыл бұрын
@@rvc7468 no, I think he means the music that simulates what it’s like to have dementia
@derpyfish01793 жыл бұрын
@@rvc7468 it’s “everywhere at the end of time”
@shantakidd62303 жыл бұрын
This was so terrifying. Like the idea that this could just be somebody’s future and there’s naught to be done about it.
@shabby33403 жыл бұрын
unrelated but we both have a pokemon profile pic!
@sebastiangudino93773 жыл бұрын
@@shabby3340 That is indeed unrelated
@Donkaisen3 жыл бұрын
Do you know youth might have get dementia by using smartphones? It’s called “digital dementia”. You should read one article it’s terrifying.
@THIRTEENTH13TH3 жыл бұрын
im 20 and not sure if this isnt exactly realistic or my brain well gone, but i wouldnt remember what the shop looked like before let alone notice that its changed
@vetlerradio3 жыл бұрын
@@Donkaisen HAHA, dude this is hilarious: ''You should read one article it’s terrifying.'' You only need one article to be scared? Man, never ever read the paper that claimed that autism was caused by vaccination, you'll be scared of nurses all your life after readint it.
@elenac11003 жыл бұрын
My grandfather was recently diagnosed with early Lewy Body Dementia. He was a lawyer and extremely quick-witted. The symptoms started last year and have progressed a little since then. I'll never forget helping him in the grocery store last winter and seeing the complete sudden confusion on his face and the frustration that followed. It was heartbreaking. This video helped me see what he most likely sees when he goes out and it's different than the normal he was used to.
@daviddickey98323 жыл бұрын
I knew something was wrong when the milk wasnt in a refrigerated isle. Edit: Apparently there are heathens out there drinking room temperature rice milk.
@daviddickey98323 жыл бұрын
@@syaondri Yeah but how often do you see an entire isle of unrefrigerated milk?
@Someone-nt8wz3 жыл бұрын
@@daviddickey9832 I wanna speak to da manager
@user_273573 жыл бұрын
@@daviddickey9832 we have that where I live
@happychicken42923 жыл бұрын
To be honest where I live barely any of the milk gets refrigerated
@Someone-nt8wz3 жыл бұрын
@@happychicken4292 So what did you do about it?
@elirchi92143 жыл бұрын
The people saying "but the store is empty" The video has served its purpose. You are now thinking like the lady with dementia.
@megamushroom3 жыл бұрын
Jules Echica yes
@Hbdjk5523 жыл бұрын
This!!
@megamushroom3 жыл бұрын
@@Hbdjk552 YAY
@Thomas-Almanza3 жыл бұрын
True! Because dementia makes other people invisible.
@megamushroom3 жыл бұрын
@@Thomas-Almanza oh...
@SesRen3 жыл бұрын
"The store's changed" and then looking around to see that the layout was different and I didn't see the aisle we just walked down just completely shocked me and gave me chills This video definitely accomplished what it's trying to show us
@etiologicalmyth45453 жыл бұрын
Yy
@quokka_yt3 жыл бұрын
2:41 exactly
@Cascade71553 жыл бұрын
I KNOW, I was looking at the exit and trying to find Joe because I didn't see him earlier and I just hear "the shop is different" and I look back and it's different and it just made my heart sink.
@elizar6663 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure what to think about myself that I couldn't confirm the shop being different because I didn't remember the original layout. I just assumed it must be because she said so..
@Maerahn2 жыл бұрын
@@elizar666 Me too. I have OSDD though, so I've kind of got used to either just not noticing stuff around me in the first place to notice changes afterwards, or briefly not knowing how I got somewhere (and/or where that 'somewhere' is) before it all gradually comes back to me again.
@ethandew17683 жыл бұрын
My grampa passed away when I was at a young age (10 or 11) and he was the first person who saw me and held and he was the first person to leave my life forever my few memories of him are...limited but he was very quiet and loved to listen to me (My last seeing of him was at easter where I showed him the new toy I got.) Aparently he had dementia and the reason he was quiet was because he was afraid of making himself look like a fool. When he passed I didnt think much of it, he didnt affect me in any emotional way and I only knew about him from the stories my parents told me. He was a member of the local church and he was quite the talker and always brought people together. Now as I look back on his death all I feel is pain, sadness that such a brilliant talkative extroverted person was crippled to the point where he could only sit on the couch reading the New york times while drinking coffee and watching tennis while his anxiety stricken wife cared for him. I felt regret for never knowing him and taking the time to listen to him. People often take family for granted yet what are we whithout connection? People with no purpose, lost and confused noone to love to cry on or to laugh with, when someone important in your life leaves you, there is no point in feeling sorry for yourself my advice is to continue to love them and tell their story, preserve the one thing that can make a person immortal: their history. Peace and love
@smallgay3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe that such a corny and poorly animated video instilled so much fear in me
@smallgay3 жыл бұрын
@@viralshark I'm pretty familiar with the concept, I think it's probably a bit of that but mostly just that the vid portrays a very real fear of mine which is forgetting significant parts of my life.
@well.8263 жыл бұрын
Literally… it’s kinda terrifying
@dinidusamaranayake32663 жыл бұрын
Fr
@minx80433 жыл бұрын
Yeaa that's so weird
@totally_not_a_bot3 жыл бұрын
@@viralshark It probably isn't the uncanny valley. More likely the sheer horror of the very fabric of reality being distorted around you.
@pyro76023 жыл бұрын
Don't worry clerk has been terminated since the incident for her lack of professionalism with a lady that's obviously in distress.
@calsavestheworld3 жыл бұрын
No in the real world the clerk would be reprimanded for not moving the line along. It's that backward way that capitalism works.
@smileyp45353 жыл бұрын
@@calsavestheworld yeah they'd get in trouble for making things take too long or some bullshit
@weed75black353 жыл бұрын
The clerk was being reasonable, what are you on about. She was being patient when granny was counting the coins, spoke very calmly, and politely asked granny to not hog up the line. What do you expect her to do?
@Grimmmleigh3 жыл бұрын
@@weed75black35 r/wooosh
@weed75black353 жыл бұрын
@@Grimmmleigh ????
@the_trash_mane58753 жыл бұрын
My grandma is in probably the early stages of dementia and it's been scaring the shit out of my family. It started off with her telling the same few stories over and over again but as of late it's become things like forgetting she was sick earlier in the day or when we lasted visited. It's hard to see someone who's always been mentally sharp go. Be patient with anyone who has dementia or Alzheimer's, its not their fault
@LuckyBadger3 жыл бұрын
I'm 56, but I've had a stroke that severely affected my memory. I've started asking everyone "Did I tell you that..." before I launch into a story. I can't stand the thought of boring people, while they're trying to be polite. Sometimes when I'm with people I trust, I do burst into tears, mourning the memories that I've lost. When you lose your memories, you lose who you are as a human being. I can feel myself slipping away, and it's terrifying. I have a large stash of prescription sleeping pills, and when this gets intolerable I know I will have a way out. I want to make that decision while I can.
@roxyiconoclast3 жыл бұрын
@@LuckyBadger So sorry to hear what you’re going through. Please make sure to talk with doctors about your feelings and to see how you can recover. My understanding is that much recovery is possible after a stroke. Have you been able to have any rehab therapy? I have some dementia too, for different reasons, most likely the Alzheimer’s that affected my mother and grandmother, but I have been able to recover a lot of function by changing medications, adding certain supplements, and music therapy. My experience has been that doctors can be clueless and dismiss cognitive health concerns especially if you appear young and seem articulate compared to their other patients. - so we have to push for more info and appropriate care. I have consulted a psychologist who offered specialized rehab therapy; that might be something to consider. Each person’s situation is unique, so idk what would be best for you, but please hang in there.
@1vy-t0wn383 жыл бұрын
My grandma had dementia,she died after the effects of a stroke she had about 4 years after we found out
@ethanw23903 жыл бұрын
Did you say stories over and over? Oh God. Is it starting in my grandparents?
@difficultjourney32163 жыл бұрын
@@LuckyBadger Call on Jesus Christ.
@yurei80043 жыл бұрын
Damn, the fact this is extremely familiar for me is quite scary. That's exactly how I function when my schizophrenia gets really bad (the beginning, not so much the end). Of course, I realize this is only one aspect of dementia but I guess there are similaries between those illnesses.
@pichass93373 жыл бұрын
no one cares
@r011ing_thunder63 жыл бұрын
@@pichass9337 you really should watch what you say
@r011ing_thunder63 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re doing well and staying safe, yurei 🤍
@eelissabeth3 жыл бұрын
Yeah this feels familiar to me too.. as someone with Dissasocitiave Identity Disorder.. a lot of my day is spent trying to remember what I was doing, or where I'm at, or why anything is where it is. Even rules and tricks that I make to help inform myself, can fade away within days. Notes that I write myself and put on my wall or mirror- days later, I dont even notice or my brain doesn't pick them up as if those physical notes arent even there. Many notebooks filled with the same notes and to do lists. But there are ebbs and flows, and writing this makes me feel really proud about what I can do and have progressed in how well I can manage life amongst this challenge. I hope you feel accomplished and aware of your victories too!
@NB-gu9rs2 жыл бұрын
@@pichass9337 I disagree.
@catherinerobilliard76623 жыл бұрын
First I was my mother’s daughter, then I became her sister. Loved her just the same.
@ghostlybird3273 жыл бұрын
Wait a minute... you're telling me that you're the product of incest?!
@lindseykay77593 жыл бұрын
@@ghostlybird327 no. shes saying her mother had dementia and ad it got worse her mother called her sister instead of daughter. don't be rude
@ghostlybird3273 жыл бұрын
@@lindseykay7759 But if her mother is also her sister that would mean that they share the same father??
@silkroad12013 жыл бұрын
At least you're not "that sniveling bitch Yolanda"
@pinheadlarry80063 жыл бұрын
@@ghostlybird327 Is your IQ actually this low or are you just trolling?
@HalfBakedHeroes3 жыл бұрын
"Who's Joe?" and it was all downhill from there...
@smoothbrained4channer9763 жыл бұрын
@A Shitbag69 the good ending
@julioreza._76393 жыл бұрын
Mama
@smoothbrained4channer9763 жыл бұрын
@@julioreza._7639 the bad ending
@pointlesslylukesplainingpo12003 жыл бұрын
Joe Maman't
@smoothbrained4channer9763 жыл бұрын
@@pointlesslylukesplainingpo1200 the neutral ending
@Cmuse553 жыл бұрын
I keep thinking about how my grandpa's dementia kept getting worse while I still tried to play with him and he was in bed, I remember him laughing and being happy sometimes talking to me often, but after a while he stopped showing much emotion and allot more confusion, then he was put into a nursing home and every time we visited he was either sleeping or making sounds with his eyes open, it was freaky as hell and I can't even imagine how scary it must've been for him until he couldn't feel scared anymore...It really looked like a long agonizing process of a soul leaving his body. I'm very young and I'm having allot of trouble with my memory and I find myself very confused and a little scared sometimes when I forget and don't understand even the simplest things that I learned years ago, thought this is probably something to do with me being on the autism spectrum and having trouble with my mental health, but I still feel scared that the same thing might happen to me one day just like what happened to my grandpa. Scary shit...
@yeeeeeeeeee32633 жыл бұрын
Hey bro, that sounds really hard. I can’t imagine what you went through with your g-pa. I know it’s hard to let go of fear, but I just wanted to let you know that Jesus is there for you and He’s there to protect you and you can give those fears and anxieties to him. I got healed of my mental disorders, it was pretty amazing. Now I’m married with two kids of my own. I never thought I’d end up anywhere good, but pretty much in my darkest hour I had an encounter with Jesus and everything changed. I used to be so crazy I’d run around in the streets screaming thinking people were chasing me. Now I have a house and am super happy :) you can even search my name and see that even just 4 years ago I was arrested for felony charges (drugs), but now I’m doing really good. All that to say that God loves you and is good and doesn’t cause the bad things that happens, and He’s here for you.
@yeeeeeeeeee32633 жыл бұрын
When I said search, I meant on google :P you can find my arrest records and stuff if you scroll around. Just sharing to let you know I’m not making this stuff up and that I really do believe in you and I do honestly believe you’re gonna have an amazing rest of your life.
@Cmuse553 жыл бұрын
@@yeeeeeeeeee3263 Thank you so much for the kind words, it means so allot Q.Q I did look it up and I'm really happy things got better and turned out well for you! :D For my situation, I'm up to trying anything at this point to get rid of all this mess so I'll try my best and see where it gets me. I'll try believing in myself too :) Thank you so much again, and I hope you have a lovely future aswell! (ノ^ヮ^)ノ*.✧
@SpecialBlanket3 жыл бұрын
hey i'm autistic. look up autistic burnout and see if this sounds like you. also, when i smoked weed it really fucked me up muuuuch worse than i thought. we're unusually sensitive to all drugs so if you take any meds or any psychotropic substances in general, consider that. also if you have chronic pain it could be fucking up your REM sleep and affecting you (a lot of us have Ehlers-Danlos)
@Cmuse553 жыл бұрын
@@SpecialBlanket Yeah it 100% sounds like me. Not surprising (• ▽ •;) Thought my memory had been on a decline since forever these days it's especially bad, this is probably the biggest reason. Thanks for pointing this out to me, things make much more sense to me now ^ ^ I'm not taking any medication right now and I hate drugs and stuff like that, but I'll keep that in mind in the future too.
@millyg.28963 жыл бұрын
After being in my recommendations for months I finally decided to click on it and I’m glad I did. Sending prayers to all those who have family members suffering with this
@rayfan98763 жыл бұрын
I wrote a long comment on this video about my experiences with memory loss. It took 8 hours to write and KZbin deleted it 5 minutes later for some reason. I hate this so much. I just hate this. I hate my mind. I want out.
@nada69913 жыл бұрын
I feel ur pain. I’m so sorry
@hon1to3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry bro
@dubber14163 жыл бұрын
Should have copied and pasted it
@brapstein3 жыл бұрын
@@dubber1416 i mean that would be relevant if they knew it would happen or just preemptively copies everything lol??
@thepumpkindude90603 жыл бұрын
Here’s a cookie, 🍪 you deserve it
@biform133 жыл бұрын
As an old person myself what is really wrong is that we are denied THE final decision. We should be able to take a black capsule and end the misery we're inflicting on others we used to love. We want to be remembered as capable and independent, not drooling because doctors want to keep making money keeping us alive long after we should leave. Let us go with dignity and make room for you. Personally I don't fear death - I fear painful, prolonged life.
@dirtburger27733 жыл бұрын
this is why I support Right To Die. nobody should have to suffer at the end. we should get to go as peacefully and cushy as possible. it's only fair
@madman-0003 жыл бұрын
I assure you, doctors aren't colluding to keep you alive just to make money. Ask any doctor and they'll tell you a DNR and the right to die are the way to go.
@froggy97103 жыл бұрын
@@madman-000 yeah, this is why it's important to have end-of-life discussions before then, so you don't end up being tortured in the ICU because your family is overwhelmed and can't make a decision
@grilledpook3 жыл бұрын
i feel the same way and im not even old yet
@oregondude94113 жыл бұрын
Agreed. You should have full control over your body, especially if you don't want to continue. Oregon has assisted suicide but it's almost pointless, as you need a 6 month or less terminal diagnosis by 2 doctors. Getting an appointment can take 2-3 months, and you might end up denied anyways, but now you're even closer to death and have spent your last amount of time and money.
@abdulla109553 жыл бұрын
I feel like a horror game with this style would be brilliant.
@gamenyte3 жыл бұрын
Lmao there are so many labyrinth changing world crazy plopping games like this. Try prey for example. It's not one where you have a disease or anything but it definitely alters expectations from reality like this.
@ohmss0693 жыл бұрын
This kinda is a horror game.
@DanielleGibsonMusic3 жыл бұрын
This is the scariest shit ever! No horror movie or game tops this😢
@bryannaing63163 жыл бұрын
It certainly has the ability to do so, with schizophrenia as an additive
@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv21983 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing
@shinygoldenpotion15873 жыл бұрын
Everyone: Talking about the tragedy of dementia Me: Impressed that you can move the camera around
@douglasgondim14313 жыл бұрын
Just imagine going through all fo that and being all alone. No kids, no husband, no family.
@eggyama1703 жыл бұрын
No wife
@katkatkat53 жыл бұрын
Literally my biggest fear
@ladyjane99803 жыл бұрын
I go through that. My children are all grown, I am not married and I live (alone) with me faithfully service dog, Bill. I have been told that I have left a full shopping cart at the store and just left dozens of times. I'm just glad that I'm not shoplifting.
@animaanimus80113 жыл бұрын
@@ladyjane9980 I’m so very sorry to hear that. It must be terribly lonely. Have you considered maybe getting a caretaker? If you are on disability or are past a certain age sometimes it’s paid for. It might be best to make those arrangements before your dementia worsens. Just make sure if you get one assigned and it isn’t someone you know and trust to have your medication, documents, and sentimental/valuable items locked up somewhere safe. And maybe consider a medical bracelet. No judgment here, just some ideas from experience. Try to be safe!
@ginafromcologne92813 жыл бұрын
@@ladyjane9980 I'm sorry to hear that, Jennifer. I think it's important that you contact your children and tell them about your fears. Also, please go to have yourself examined by a doctor. The earlier they detect a problem, the better they can help. All my best wishes for you!
@DBZProduction3 жыл бұрын
If that were my mom, I wouldn't leave her for a second. He could have waited until they finished paying to put those things up.
@Lubbilylub3 жыл бұрын
The problem is that this specific scenario may be one where her son never came with her to the shop and she may be misremembering him as being there at all.
@Okwardly3 жыл бұрын
Or he could have given them to the cashier
@sofyalipkind56103 жыл бұрын
Often, people struggling with cognitive issues don't tell anyone the extent of their problems, either because they don't want to acknowledge the situation or because they don't want to worry anyone. Joe may have no idea things have progressed to this degree.
@CT-vm4gf3 жыл бұрын
@@sofyalipkind5610 Or because they don’t even know that there is a problem. They’re in their own mind.
@-redcat-96443 жыл бұрын
He might not be there, since in her mind, in her basket theres no biscuits, but when the son shows up, theres biscuits, it's most likely misremembering events, since he suddenly disappears then reappears, so it might be that he's either there the whole time, or not there at all, or both
@BoHista233 жыл бұрын
as a cashier, the cashier annoyed the hell out of me. offer to help and for god's sake don't ask a visibly confused about bonus cards...
@THIRTEENTH13TH3 жыл бұрын
well guess what its not a real cashier
@ginafromcologne92813 жыл бұрын
@@THIRTEENTH13TH Your manners are just like those of the cashier in the video.
@Goabnb943 жыл бұрын
Hey cashier, you didn't ask that lady about bonus cards, so you are getting docked pay. -The manager, probably
@THIRTEENTH13TH3 жыл бұрын
@@ginafromcologne9281 the non existent cashier? gotcha
@iadoreapplehead3 жыл бұрын
As a fellow (ex) cashier here, we HAD to ask every customer. They insisted on it. Besides because you ask it like 500 times a day it becomes something you say automatically..
@pineappleginseng15573 жыл бұрын
Although I certainly would be scared to ever experience a condition like this, imagining having to watch my loved ones go through something like this when I'm older seems so terrifying. I'm a grown 28 year old man, and I feel like a scared child, knowing that this could be a possibility for the people I've always admired and I have always seen as strong and sharp.
@KyCandicee3 жыл бұрын
This was a kick in the right direction telling me I need to be more patient with people
@mellovestodraw3 жыл бұрын
I mean you should already acknowledge why someone can be slow at the till. They probably have dementia yes, social anxiety, disability or they’re just an elderly.
@KEL-nm6oy3 жыл бұрын
you're telling me you WEREN'T??
@AY-pw7hz3 жыл бұрын
Yea me too. I definitely was impatient with customers like this in retail.
@Lily-dv3qf3 жыл бұрын
I think we ought to cut Joe some slack. He is probably a mid teenager and this is still a time where his mother is supposed to care for him. He might not respond well to having the opposite way around this early in life. He's trying to figure out his mother while trying to figure out himself.
@thesupreme78153 жыл бұрын
What makes you think he's a teenager
@Lily-dv3qf3 жыл бұрын
@@thesupreme7815 I guess the fact that his mom sounds reasonably young and so does he. And that he is going shopping with her. Not to say that older people don't shop with their parents but this was the most likely scenario that stood out to me.
@Watchmanskey3 жыл бұрын
He probably didn't even know she has alzheimer's
@cheekybananaboy33613 жыл бұрын
joe mama
@muhriuhkadishh80353 жыл бұрын
@@cheekybananaboy3361 😭😭😭
@Boski3913 жыл бұрын
We must continue to fight this horrible disease. Prayers for everyone who is affected.
@LucMantique3 жыл бұрын
Germany helped a lot of these people in WW2.
@bolson423 жыл бұрын
@@LucMantique when do edgelords like you start realizing you’re not funny? When you become 14 or smth? Just stfu
@jakepizura55503 жыл бұрын
@@LucMantique wow who caused you so much hatred towards jews? (Coming from a jew)
@huntsman1453 жыл бұрын
@@jakepizura5550 edgelords and the suckers who jump on the bait 🙄
@maxdrags31153 жыл бұрын
@@bolson42 Nah, that was some funny dark humor actually.
@penelopelopez82962 жыл бұрын
Having worked as a cashier for several years at Publix I experienced many elderly people coming up to my register confused about things. I’ve had elderly people hand me all the money in their wallet or purse when it came time to pay for their groceries ….and they would tell me to take out the amount they owe. So I would count out all the money they gave me in front of them, then repeat to them what the amount is that they owe and….in front of them….I take out what they owe and hand them back the rest. I’ve had elderly people hand me bank envelopes filled with money that they just withdrew from the bank, and they would tell me take out what they owe for the groceries. You know they’re having a hard time if they cannot count their own money. It’s sad but they refuse to let go of their independence of doing their own grocery shopping.
@viscera57253 жыл бұрын
man having audio processing issues really adds to this I genuinely couldn't understand what the cashier was saying and was mentally fumbling to try and fill in the blanks of what was being said
@petrzeman10683 жыл бұрын
I did not understand a word of what the old lady were are supposed to be said at the at the check out. Might be my poor English listening skills tho.
@Ridstuff3 жыл бұрын
i sometimes have short audio processing episodes where i struggle to process the meaning of the words being said, like when i’m watching a movie i sometimes have to repeat the sentence in my head a couple of times… i thought i was the only one until now
@sixfeetundertheradar60803 жыл бұрын
Same and add to that I’m American so when she was trying to count the coins I got so stressed
@Me-io3wg3 жыл бұрын
Me too. I'm also not British and not a native English speaker so the coin counting scene was really confusing
@nmutua10283 жыл бұрын
@@presidentdingus the captions aren't always right, especially if they're automatically generated. I always have cc on but I still can't grasp my head around the words and what is being said
@Hannah-cf4ev7 жыл бұрын
I've tried using the Walk Through Dementia app on VR with my phone, and it was so disorientating - I wholeheartedly recommend the app to anyone who is curious about dementia and its effects, it's an amazing and humbling piece of work.
@shihuichua50104 жыл бұрын
which app should i download to see the VR
@s6xer4 жыл бұрын
@@shihuichua5010 it's a free app called *A WALK THROUGH DEMENTIA* found on PlayStore
@cowboyanxiety3 жыл бұрын
my grandmother has dementia, she's at the point where she doesn't really recognize anybody, she can't take care of herself, and she's barely responsive to others. the last time i saw her i was saying goodbye on christmas eve getting ready to go home. mostly she'd respond to people very much unaware of what was going on, smiling when it seemed right. i kissed her on the cheek and said bye grandma, merry christmas, love you! and i think she sort of said it back, but mostly I could tell she wasn't really there. before it got QUITE to this point, but still seeming very out of it all the time and not understanding her surroundings, i recall once when she looked at my aunt and said very clearly and with a serious tone, "i understand more than you think." ...i think about it a lot watching it worsen over the years, especially to this state, is really hard, as I'm sure anybody can tell you that's watched a love one go thru it medication helps her be a little more lucid these days now that she and my grandfather are receiving the proper care they need (they are both in their 90s, and while my grandpa doesnt have dementia, he can hardly take care of himself as well. still a stubborn old goat though!!) this scares me on a level i didnt think i could experience, because it almost feels like "this might be what my grandmother feels on a daily basis" hurts a lot. but fascinating and something i always wanted to learn more about.
@gantmj3 жыл бұрын
I've always heard that there is no medication that does anything. What's she taking that's helping?
@luke_2223 жыл бұрын
@@gantmj that's a misconception. Different medications can help certain things, but the results often vary from person to person (as with any medication).
@heyitsme65613 жыл бұрын
Wow. My heart goes out to anyone that suffers from this or has to care for someone that does. You never know what someone is going through. We are always so quick to judge. This was eye opening indeed.
@DiegoTheRebel3 жыл бұрын
I've got an elderly friend suffering from early dementia. I remember how sharp he was when we first started hanging out, we'd sit down for drinks and talk about life and I learned a lot from him, but knew something was up when he started forgetting his own daughter's name and locking himself out of his own apartment every other day. It's hard watching the old man fall apart and I'm hoping I can better understand how to be there when he needs help with things
@mc123583 жыл бұрын
I used to work at a supermarket and this reminds me of one incident on a particularly stressful day when I looked around and literally did not recognize my surroundings; I may as well have been dropped on a different planet and left to fend for myself. I think it was the beginning of a panic attack which was unknowingly eased by my co-worker, who had no idea of the confusion I was experiencing at that moment. Dissociative episodes are not unusual for me in situations with lots of people or bright lights, but that day was on an entirely different level. Dementia does run in my family and I'm terrified of it.
@sallwagray5083 жыл бұрын
It might have been derealization, it’s this feeling of not recognizing your surroundings and feeling like you’re in a dream like state, even though you technically know where you are. It’s associated with anxiety too
@philgamer52803 жыл бұрын
Well I guess that's your fate in the future....
@mc123583 жыл бұрын
@@philgamer5280 I'm secretly hoping to not live long enough to see that future.
@brahmageos3 жыл бұрын
Even if you have considerable risk of dementia progression, you can reduce it by doing some brain exercises. You will live long and sane life. You will be okay! :)
@mc123583 жыл бұрын
@@brahmageos thanks for the encouragement, that was really kind of you to tell me that.
@abanana-dt1qx3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how my grandmother acts. It’s really sad and almost made me cry because I can only imagine how rough this is and it pains me to think about that the same woman who used to walk me to the park and bring chocolate for me every day has turned into someone going through so much. And we can’t even tell her about the recent death of my grandfather, fearing that it will confuse her. She’s always asking for him. Stay strong Oma I love you
@mays_alpha3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry 🥺 Hugs 🫂❤️
@zaynebooker2233 жыл бұрын
When you said she always asks for him that shattered my heart
@abanana-dt1qx3 жыл бұрын
@@mays_alpha tysm ❤️
@abanana-dt1qx3 жыл бұрын
@@zaynebooker223 we always have to tell her that he’s at work, I feel so sorry for her.
@michaloid83513 жыл бұрын
She probably will be confused for minutes and then forget about it and start asking where he is again and repeat the cycle. I'm so sorry, i wish you and your granny best of luck.
@wednesday4593 жыл бұрын
I feel like this in every public place, due to my social anxiety, I zone out , become disorientated, confused, and lost. Watching this made me want to run to get out of the situation.
@gyrthez2463 жыл бұрын
Keep trying, I have GAD and it makes every situation like this, I'm like this as I'm typing this, but things do improve and they have for me recently, even went into the store for a while the other day completely fine, you just have to figure out what's right for you.
@raptorgator3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@melisacai19923 жыл бұрын
She said, "the store's changed" & I asked, "oh did it now?" not being able to even orient myself with the directional phone motion thing.
@AD4MANTIUM21663 жыл бұрын
Ok…
@miraenofficial3 жыл бұрын
You can drag the screen around
@whicyc3 жыл бұрын
I remember that you could move the screen around with WASD. It seems that feature was removed. Typical KZbin...
@YellowSabre3 жыл бұрын
@@whicyc I'm moving it with WASD
@liona67703 жыл бұрын
@@whicyc OMG😳 I'd never encountered this feature before and thought this was just a regular video until I saw your comment. Do you know of any other videos with this feature.
@rizengaming92353 жыл бұрын
This makes me so sad. My heart goes out to anyone who is suffering or has family members suffering from dementia.
@zimnizzle3 жыл бұрын
My mom has Alzheimer’s dementia. I have watched her struggle each day, all the while losing a little more of herself every day. I miss her so much, though she’s still with us. It’s awful, absolutely awful. I do not wish it on anyone.
@ivanmataija16233 жыл бұрын
Stay strong
@SolvingOurKreation9563 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that, keep your chin up, and remember that we will all meet again one day, this can’t be it for us. Have a good day.
@indy_go_blue60482 жыл бұрын
I worked at a long care facility in the '80s. We had one gentleman named George who had what is coloquially called "sundown syndrome", i.e. he seemed normal during the day but became progressively more confused as evening came on. He had one of two things he would fret about, that either he'd left his truck out in the field or wondering where his (late) wife was. We could relieve his anxiety about the truck fairly easily but the wife always ended up heartbreaking. We'd have to tell him she was dead (and had passed away some 10 years before.) Each time, when he grasped that she was gone he'd break down and sob as if he was hearing the news for the first time. I'm in my early '70s now. I never was any good at remembering names, and I've been a history buff my whole life. Forgetting names bother me, but it bothers me even more when events or historic persons I've known for years won't come to mind.
@sarcasticallyrearranged Жыл бұрын
Why would you tell him that his wife was dead every time and have him suffer instead of just redirecting him?
@Verlarn3 жыл бұрын
Honestly though, that cashier drove me nuts.
@DG-EditsYT3 жыл бұрын
Take a chill pill. Its a simulation.
@wesleyogilvie81053 жыл бұрын
She probably didn't know any better and may not recognize dementia.
@loonyspangles81733 жыл бұрын
@@wesleyogilvie8105 Ikr.
@smingus1013 жыл бұрын
@@DG-EditsYT fr how tf would she recognize the proper symptoms of dementia without confusing it with something different lmao
@pathetic23993 жыл бұрын
Yeah even as a cashier, she was kinda annoying me. I get annoyed at some of my old customers too but I try to be nice anyway,
@kgrfirdjy3 жыл бұрын
This broke my heart as it reminded me of my grandmother's final days with vascular dementia and not being able to understand how to do daily tasks. She was fortunate to have died in her sleep of a sudden cardiac arrest instead of a prolonged death by dementia.
@atlascove18103 жыл бұрын
it's all just a burning memory
@nimmernomma88303 жыл бұрын
no. no dont do me like that
@mortemibis3 жыл бұрын
Stop please
@sovereigngta15553 жыл бұрын
I’m studying this disease and I can’t stop finding EATEOT references ha
@technerdbird3 жыл бұрын
Shut the fuck up. Dementia is a real illness.
@nimmernomma88303 жыл бұрын
@@technerdbird ? who u talking to
@crystallakeclo3 жыл бұрын
this is exactly how I felt when I OD'd, I sat in a bed while my parents faded in and out of existence, I suddenly had tattoos that also disappeared regularly, the nurses would ask me a question then I would start to answer then ramble about whatever was happening in my brain, it was odd.
@RiotWild3 жыл бұрын
I recently had a lapse in my medication due to finances and it turns out not taking it for awhile can cause short term memory loss. I would forget where I was, what was going on, why I was doing something. I live alone. I have a partner who usually comes over a couple times a week but they were out of town for almost 2 weeks. I argued with them over text that the puppy in my house was not mine. I kept forgetting that I had a cat (I've had her almost 9 years). I would forget things within a few seconds. After 3 days and an ER visit (my partner called my family to take me) my family gave me the $400 to get my medication and then it still took 3 or 4 days for my short term memory to come back. Imagine feeling like you woke up from a nap and you're eating pizza. You didnt order pizza, didnt answer the door and get pizza from the driver, you live alone and when you look at the clock its only been 2 minutes from the last time you remember looking at the time. I would forget I was eating mid bite. The worst part was the first couple days I was aware it was happening. It was frustrating to know my brain was broken and being powerless to stop it. I would go back through text messages and swear up and down that I hadn't written them even though it had been mere minutes. I was there in the moment but then I was suddenly somewhere else entirely with no idea how I had gotten there or what was going on. I can't imagine living through that hell everyday.
@wizardlizard555553 жыл бұрын
I think the closest thing I have experienced to that is when I am on my second day of no sleep, trying to stay awake and watch a show. Things melt together, change color, text gets blurred, and if I blink for a second I could miss a whole episode. No matter how hard I try to focus my attention, I can’t remember what I did two seconds ago. Even then though, I know it’s not the same as dementia or short term memory loss. Because with those your body is fine like always, and you’re fully awake, but you can’t seem to remember the things you used to. Like sand through your fingers. The thought really is scary.
@krashd3 жыл бұрын
What happens in the US if your medication is vital? Like surely they don't make people with schizophrenia or heart conditions pay for it?
@chad_bro_chill3 жыл бұрын
@@krashd Most states, along with federal Social Security, have programs for disabled individuals. Most people you see online complaining about not having coverage for mental health issues either don't qualify for specific medications/situations or haven't even bothered to apply but still complain. I say this as someone that would certainly qualify if I bothered to apply, but am still on my parent's insurance so have no current need to.
@millenial903 жыл бұрын
@@chad_bro_chill The key there is "most states," and in some the hoops that you have to jump through are a huge barrier to accessing things you need. I'm autistic and I'm doing okay, but I can't move to a nearby state that would be more convenient because I would lose the benefits that I have. The US is a nightmarish patchwork to try and navigate, where even moving to a different county can change processes and what aid you can get. The point is that it shouldn't be necessary to do research, figure out what you qualify for, apply, and continue to do the necessary reporting to keep your benefit. Healthcare and medication access is vital and needs to be treated that way. Blaming individuals for not knowing what's out there is just further proof that the system isn't designed to help people. Edited for spelling errors.
@millenial903 жыл бұрын
@@krashd As an example, my parents aren't poor. But one of my mother's medications cost $2000 for 3 months (it isn't a mental health condition, she has an autoimmune disease.) So she just had to ration it, only taking it every third day instead of daily as she was supposed to. I also used to ration medications, until I was lucky enough to find myself barely above the poverty line after I was too old to be on my parents insurance. Yes, I said LUCKY to be barely above the poverty line. I'm on the autism spectrum and I have chronic pain conditions, IBS, asthma and more. Together my medications would have cost over $1000 a month. Yes, once you hit your deductible (which would have been about $4000 for me individually, and that's not including premiums) insurance starts to kick in and covers most of it... IF they approve of the medication you're taking. If not, you get to look forward to calling your doctor and your insurance company to argue about it for several hours. If the medication isn't on their approved list, they will probably require you to switch to a different medication and fail that treatment, sometimes several new medications, before they will cover the one that works. This is obviously a massive waste of everyone's time, costing lost work days, and months of poor health on a medication that isn't working. Aside from the fact that its exorbitantly expensive and we don't ensure that everyone is covered, the worst part is that it's not easy to figure out what you qualify for. Do you qualify for disability based healthcare? It depends! First, you'll have to be poor. Then you'll have to have documentation of your disability from a doctor... Which may not be possible if you haven't been able to afford to see a doctor for a diagnosis. And if your employer offers health insurance, you're legally required to take it, even if it's terrible.
@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley3 жыл бұрын
I've only been a cashier with fast food in my late teens and then for a few months at Walmart. I never had a situation like this but I'm happy that I've always been a patient person, even with my line stacking up. It did get irritating if someone had to step to the side to figure out their payment situation, though I kept that to myself, no smacked teeth or rolled eyes. The person is embarrassed enough as-is, they don't need my impatience adding to it. Besides, I've had moments of also needing to step to the side, so some empathy or at least sympathy goes a long way. You never know what someone is going through.
@o0prince3 жыл бұрын
You are a good person
@Stopaskingwhyandjustreadit3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the links that connect our chain of memories become weaker and our minds become clouded in darkness. At that point what we need is a connection - a spark of light - to guide us back. Thank you for willing to be that light.
@MHurley213 жыл бұрын
Am I the only person who assumed Joe was not the name of her son, but of her husband who died years prior and whom she depended on for a lot of things?
@flohwalzer3 жыл бұрын
she probably wouldnt remember him, if he died years ago :(
@ryvalry42203 жыл бұрын
@@flohwalzer Yea maybe but i guess it depends. My grandpa passed away about 3 years ago and my grandma, who has dementia, lives in a care facility and visions him all the time. Sometimes she tells me that she sees him "cheating on her with another girl" and being irresponsible and it is really hard cause its sad to see that she has come to dislike her late husband from this visions she has, which obv arent real I guess what im saying is that dementia widely varies between each person and sometimes people can completely forget their loved ones AND vision them in person in the span of like a minute. its crazy and scary
@spencerthegarfieldfanboy3 жыл бұрын
@@ryvalry4220 i’m so sorry, but i think traumatic things will still be remembered.
@matherman11113 жыл бұрын
Woah that's dark
@rileystonge3 жыл бұрын
@@flohwalzer ppl with dementia sometimes remember events or people from really far back. It’s like their mind totally goes back in time. (Nursing home cna)
@everlasting92923 жыл бұрын
This is so frustrating. And if it's frustrating for me, I can't imagine how frustrating and terrifying it must be for someone actually experiencing the confusion.
@soleil72593 жыл бұрын
No joke, i always thought my house was haunted by a women... to this day and when my grandmother developed slight dementia at a very high age, shortly before she died, there was a incident, that i will never forget. I came into her room, trying to give her water and she looked at me in shock. Then she said: "Who are you !!! Leave me alone !!!" I was like, "I am your grandaughter, i just want to give you some water". She looked at the cup and went like: "That's not water". She then slapped the cup out of my hand and it fell to the floor. I went outside to tell my mother, what has happened, then i came back in after few minutes and my grandmother recognized me again, as if nothing happened. She asked "Who was that lady Debbie ?" I said "It was me" and she replied: "No Debbie that wasn't you, it was a women with pitch black hair in a bun, she was a evil witch, she starred at me and tried to poison me" I tried to explain her but she insisted it wasn't me. She asked me "Is she gone ?" and i said yes. She then normally took the cup of water and thanked me. To this day, i would like to know, what she actually saw in that moment.
@yurei80043 жыл бұрын
That's exactly how my grandma behaved, she's had a serious brain tumor and passed a few months after. Extremely depressing.
@soleil72593 жыл бұрын
@@yurei8004 Yes it's super sad, only difference for me is, very strange things still happen in my house...
@deanal-jackson45933 жыл бұрын
@@soleil7259 don't worry ghosts are not real or are they ;)
@soleil72593 жыл бұрын
@@deanal-jackson4593 I do believe in them.
@chynaadadoll3 жыл бұрын
@@deanal-jackson4593 thats a lie bc i lived in a house and it was built on a battle field in the 1800s and we have to live there bc my dad was in the navy and my whole family claimed to see ghoss but i dont remember bc i was little
@cardboardclub3 жыл бұрын
My grandmother with alzheimer's owned a restaurant that she loved and her staff knew she had dementia before us and kept stealing and taking more wages from her, thinking she'd gone senile and forgotten. She loved everyone of her staff and they all called her mum (they arent related) but one day the shop got in dept and our family went bankrupt and grandma was calling regularly asking for money and we knew something was wrong. It just made me so upset how they'd take advantage of her like that, how could they. She lived with family now, she's forgetting more day by day but if you bring up the shop you can tell she just loved that place so much.
@themysticmuse11113 жыл бұрын
Disgusting. Just disgusting. How could someone do that? How? This is why I hate ppl.
@Malice_In_Orange_County3 жыл бұрын
The fact they all lost their jobs is called karma.
@RemziCavdar3 жыл бұрын
That's why when you know a relative owns a company, you make sure there is som form of new management who can manage it for her. For example you or the family could hire a manager or sell it. Edit: I'm so sorry for you grandmother and I wish you and your family all the best!
@cardboardclub3 жыл бұрын
@@themysticmuse1111 Thank you for having so much empathy, you are clearly a very nice person! The actions were awful on their part but my Grandma has long forgotten that and her love for people even with alzheimer's is what shines through, which I really look up too.
@cardboardclub3 жыл бұрын
@@RemziCavdar Yes when we went bankrupt we sold the place but really during the peak of her business she loved managing it herself, it was her pride and joy and I don't any of us would have done it justice had we ran it! I'm just glad she talks about that place still so fondly.
@dashcammer43223 жыл бұрын
I remember when I was a kid over half a century ago, knowing someone who was 80 years old was unusual; almost nobody lived that long. Not today. We're getting better all the time at keeping people from dying due to cancer, heart disease, strokes, high blood pressure, etc etc. We're living so long, diseases like Alzheimer's that we generally didn't usually live long enough to develop as often begin to hit us.
@buttholesurfer12663 жыл бұрын
My great grandmother lived to 95 and was just fine mentally.
@0BSguides3 жыл бұрын
Damn I think if I get a stroke or something like that I won't cure it. I believe humans were never made to live for even 60 years. I don't want to live my last years in a shit and piss soaked bed, paying thousands upon thousands just to keep living the same life that's slowly fading away, physically and mentally.
@corbeaudejugement3 жыл бұрын
@@0BSguides suggestion is to get a DNR. that's exactly what they're for.
@randomcheeseeater98313 жыл бұрын
@@buttholesurfer1266 its almost as if your grandma doesn’t represent the entire population
@56jasa3 жыл бұрын
For anyone curious, our bodies were designed to live for 30-38 years. Honestly, the doubling of our lifespan is a miracle.
@certaindiaster593 жыл бұрын
Did anybody else have tears rolling down their cheek towards the end of that? My worst fear is my mom being diagnosed with and suffering from Alzheimer’s to the point that she doesn’t recognize me or have any idea of who I am. I can’t even begin to process what that would be like!😞
@gyrthez2463 жыл бұрын
That's pretty much everyone's worse fear as their parents age honestly. I already went through it once with grandma, perhaps about to go through it a second time with grandad due to him showing some signs (could also be old age, no idea yet) It sucks, but the most you can do for someone in that position is to provide constant reassurance regardless of how assured you are of their state. Don't spend time worrying about these things and just focus on living your life and treasuring the moments with them that you do have while you're able to have them, otherwise if something unfortunate or unforeseen does happen down the line, you may look back and regret taking that time for granted.
@thomasmacdonough2883 жыл бұрын
This gave me actual anxiety, my failure to count up my $$$ while at the cash register, my heart was racing a thousand miles a minute..
@user-kh3il5li9f3 жыл бұрын
I love your FireDoge
@scone37673 жыл бұрын
"The stores changed" that shattered me. I should be more patient with my grandpa, thank you!
@Chikitew3 жыл бұрын
I work with patients with dementia and Alzheimer’s and it’s insanely depressing :(
@manhoosnick3 жыл бұрын
Hey Girl, Thankyou for working with them, thanks to people like you, many can see their grand parents. Thankyouuuuuuuuuuu 😍😍
@australium73743 жыл бұрын
@@hana-ft6wm don’t just bless her soul bless their souls
@UrbanOgre3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad someone finally made this and put it up. I always get stuck on this level.
@kubamarciniak62343 жыл бұрын
This is like being on a bad trip, but for the rest of one's life. Im not scared of death or pain, I've always been scared of being old or crippled
@dackbowland18763 жыл бұрын
Im In a perma trip, it's nothing compared to this. I can still live life and recognize my loved ones even when their faced are melting down onto the floor. This is terrifying. Nothing like a permanent bad trip.
@cogitoergosumsc57173 жыл бұрын
Don't be afraid of getting old. It's not so bad. It may take a little longer to do the things that are necessary and it may take a little longer to heal up physically, but talk to elders that you know. I think you'll find they have wisdom which younger people do not have, and are willing to share it with all that they know about life.
@RusaFellow3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same. I really hope this doesn't happen to me anyone I know. But in relating, this exactly feels like a bad trip where you're stuck in a loop. You don't know who you are, or why you're here..just that things won't ever be okay. This is the scariest thing I can ever think of.
@dackbowland18763 жыл бұрын
@@RusaFellow looping is bad but I think this is worse.
@dackbowland18763 жыл бұрын
@Poop Libril yes, and had mental issues that I didn't even know about.
@Mitzuoyan3 жыл бұрын
Is everyone really a bitch when they find confused customers?! The granny hawker that I buy from often confuse coins but I always help her whenever I'm paying. Damn people are heartless, i thought that was common courtesy...
@cheekybananaboy33613 жыл бұрын
@Susel because theyll probably get reprimanded if they "waste too much time" lol
@DwynTwo3 жыл бұрын
@Susel Are you from Germany? Personally I don't mind bagging my own stuff, it would make me feel bad to watch an underpaid employee do it for me like I'm some rich snob even though I'm perfectly able to do it myself, but yeah, it would be nice if they offered help to those who obviously need it.
@thinix3963 жыл бұрын
@@DwynTwo I actually enjoy bagging and, since we get paid hourly, it doesn't matter if we take some extra time to bag.
@DwynTwo3 жыл бұрын
@@thinix396 Personally I'd feel uncomfortable and snobby, but I guess I'm just used to it this way
@holy87823 жыл бұрын
@@cheekybananaboy3361 it really is confusing. When I worked in retail, we were told to help the customers. But at the same time, got chewed out if we took too long to help a customer.
@Outofthisreality3 жыл бұрын
If I ever get to this point I’m just gonna check out.
@nancib29633 жыл бұрын
Agreed. If I remember HOW to.
@DopeioThePhoneBoi3 жыл бұрын
Right? like if this ever happens to me (which it might, dementia runs in my family), I want to be euthanized. I couldn't live like this.
@lisazoria27093 жыл бұрын
You might think about it, but then forget about it.
@wetlettuce47683 жыл бұрын
@@lisazoria2709 Good God why am I eating this shotgun barrel!?
@Sashazur3 жыл бұрын
You should NOT watch the movie “Still Alice”.
@jaelie83982 жыл бұрын
I'm am a grocery store manager. My first day as a cashier I was asked to help a customer who had dementia by his caregiver. This simulation pretty much summed it up. He was asking for the same things over and over and he kept saying he was lost. Afterwards, his caregiver practically cried telling me how patient I am and if I ever wanted to be a manager she'd write me a letter of recommendation. He has since died, but his caregiver and I still see each other sometimes. The first day she saw me in my manager uniform we took a selfie together
@lanowyn3 жыл бұрын
"What is this" *me looking at rice "Sugar"
@luhaleyry3213 жыл бұрын
well, it's white so it works
@hihunter73 жыл бұрын
Lol it was on the other side
@madidezirae3 жыл бұрын
This video reminds me greatly of a regular customer who comes to the restaurant I work at. She is the sweetest lady I have ever met. I always do my best to be extra patient with her and help her where I can. I love her dearly.
@LuckyBadger3 жыл бұрын
My daughter works at Starbucks, and her store gets a lot of elderly customers. She is always extra nice and patient with them. If she is ever annoyed she will NOT show it up front, but wait for her break in the back room to share with her coworkers. I think that people should be allowed to vent in private, but never in front of a person who is struggling so hard to be functional.
@tracy-ux8bm3 жыл бұрын
That was really interesting 🤔
@charliekill883 жыл бұрын
Eh not really.
@yousuck68693 жыл бұрын
@@charliekill88 your not very interesting
@limpbizkit62453 жыл бұрын
@@yousuck6869 like the fact he posts his fortnite wins despite the channel being plop
@JavierMedina_523 жыл бұрын
Its amazing how KZbin brings us together over and over again
@sakar1813 жыл бұрын
Dementia is a cruel cosmic joke that nobody deserves. Saw movies are scary. This is terrifying.
@jacehendrix31943 жыл бұрын
What is the cosmic joke of dementia? I dont want to think about it right now, and am interested what you meant by it.
@sakar1813 жыл бұрын
@@jacehendrix3194 That these billions of years of stellar nucleosynthesis, paired with multiple millions of years of evolution still produces this? We are stardust. Cosmology is inextricably linked to biology.
@albertzhang43713 жыл бұрын
@@sakar181 I’m pretty sure that natural human evolution never intended us to live this long. These old age diseases are an unfortunate side effect of us living way longer than before modern medicine and tech
@gladysolvera65662 жыл бұрын
i... i understand so much and yes this is terrifying. p.s I get easily scared by horror movies but this is depressing and scarier than most movies I have seen.
@antoinesilva15272 жыл бұрын
Alternative title for this video: The supermarket through the lens of Joe Biden.