The Most Chaotic Ending - Are You The One?

[@katie8881]

I feel like they sent recruiters to loiter outside of anger management clinics to find contestants for this show. That's the only explanation for the amount of rage issues.

[@CaulkMongler]

Some “contestants” of other series have said on podcasts that they run a whole psych eval on everyone they consider, I’m guessing to 1) figure out how easily manipulated they are and 2) make sure they’re not cuckoo-bananas enough to outright halt production. Not sure how this series vets potential contestants.

[@gigiarmany]

😂😂😂

[@JaquaySmith1]

FR 🤣🤣🤣

[@jazzyg530]

Narcissistic rage is real

[@us3r33]

I present to u a second explanation: Men

[@gillian268]

The crying seemed so silly and dramatic until I remembered how terrifying it is to be around drunk violent people irl, especially if they're bigger and stronger than you and you're forced to remain in close proximity

[@stuffystuffsityas6302]

And especially when some of those women will be paired with them. This isn’t a case where they can just distance themselves or leave easily (because god knows the producers would just encourage them to stay longer), it’s inescapable regular violence that is highly unnecessary and dangerous for everyone around. Gross.

[@Mushess]

They weren’t forced to be in the same proximity, they could’ve left the room

[@kiwikrg]

Yup! Growing up around alcoholics, I panic anytime I'm with drunk people

[@oliviajenkins2760]

Please watch the season when anyone can match w anyone

[@lindsayhardaway4899]

Gio talked shit towards a girls body and then got mad when she said he was in a trio lol

[@bunnihanni]

If I remember he got the most mad because of the "crying with your third eye" part because he really thinks he is spiritual but then everyone clowned on him

[@shelby6]

​@@bunnihanni bro needs therapy first lol

[@naomi5328]

​@@bunnihanni sooo spiritual and yet so violent 😦😭 it's always men claiming to be super in touch with themselves

[@marvelousmia]

they cut out a lot of stuff gio said to the girl w the curl hair., must've been too bad for tv.. we just see her get mad at gio all of a sudden when she was originally arguing w prosper..

[@naomi5328]

@@marvelousmia you can't start punching things all around the house because your feelings were hurt. that's not normal

[@elenaw1310]

its scary to be around drunk angry men fighting , I would cry too

[@star0nyx]

It really is

[@shelby6]

It is, I've definitely cried from it. I don't know a woman who wouldn't

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

Agreed. They talk about how men "blackout" when they fight, but don't delve in the actual issues that creates. They "blackout" so they go off on whoever and it's "they lost control". I wouldn't wanna be around them while they do that either. Ive seen my dad threaten his partner right over me and her young daughters heads, saying they'll kill eachother....yeah this is hell on earth

[@rachelkessinger2295]

Yep and that season in particular had really big guys. Cam is 6’8” John is 6’6” Prosper is 6’2”

[@picklebottomjeans]

i hate seeing ppl fight when im sober, when im drunk you already know im boutta bawl my eyes out and hit em with the "guys no 💧please 💔 stop"

[@allizzle]

"this is a joke" "WELL THEN LAUGH"

[@gigiarmany]

😂😂😂

[@bestwifman]

One thing I really hate is that they just let all the dudes get super aggressive. Like one thing hurts their ego and they start punching walls and stuff and each other and getting scary. And I see ZERO repercussions shown for that. It’s not funny to the women around them. It can be very dangerous

[@shannonceleste5557]

Fr part of this process should be therapy/anger management

[@Strawberry-zb9mz]

Ya as someone who grew up in an enviro with a lot of dudes getting physical like that, just watching it made me really sad and uncomfortable

[@stuffystuffsityas6302]

It’s terrible they even let them stay on the show, knowing they’re putting those men in a relationship when they’re that dangerous and unstable, my LORD get them OUT

[@BadGirlMimi94]

Men are like this irl. Careful out there Ladies 💖

[@AnABSOLUTEBarbarian]

It literally triggers my PTSD and the alcohol doesn’t help.

[@SupaSweetKay]

This is the most toxic batch of people I’ve ever seen 💀

[@adelaide8334]

This was the best season 🙌 😂

[@sugarc8699]

I know it’s funny to see how everyone in that house blows up over the most minute things, but I’d sob too knowing one of the toxic ass man in that house is supposedly “my match” Edit: thank you so much for the 1.3k 😂

[@gooodmorning4526]

Ikr. Imagine being told "this guy is your perfect match" after he just tried to attack a woman or threw a glass object on the floor

[@shiannafoxx]

That's fair

[@elizabethzoz950]

perfect timing for my meal

[@kite1704]

YOOOO!!! I'm just about to shit and I agree

[@thereallazygirl]

literally same .had nothing to watch while eating dinner

[@thereallazygirl]

literally same .had nothing to watch while eating dinner

[@jenna1sock7]

Fr 😭

[@SweetCarolineBAMBAMBAM]

​@@thereallazygirl same I'm eating dinner

[@morganb6611]

“I didn’t want any of these people to get rewarded” Too real lmao

[@dillona1001]

Every guy in this show has the emotional bandwidth of "What the PHUCK is up Kyle"

[@marveludus]

I truly believe living in that house for so long must have been a traumatic experience because wtf

[@melaniecolie7349]

No fr it’s like 10 weeks I think??? Mind boggling

[@livvlife]

I beg them to watch a queer love reality show 😭 (like the ultimatum:queer love) it’s even more chaotic because everyone’s available

[@str4wberrykiwi]

there's a season of this show where everyone is bi 😩 easily the best season too

[@Harambeshouldbehere]

Ummm debatable that season was a hot mess like the rest, I wouldn’t say the best. The drama was dry and weak.

[@Harambeshouldbehere]

Drama only surrounded Noir and Kai literally. Yawn 🥱

[@gridow5880]

@@Harambeshouldbehereat least it felt more diverse than a bunch of toxic men beating their chests over nothing every season

[@gridow5880]

@@str4wberrykiwieasilyyyy. all my friend's worked at summer camp the summer it was coming out and we'd have viewing parties

[@Rairainx]

1:20 “✨SMARTLIEER✨ yeah they’re losing” I LAUGHED SO HARD AT THIS😭😭💀💀

[@kdlluuy]

your a survivor if u watched every season of this show

[@lilxamryn]

I watched majority of it last December cause I saw a youtube video talking about it and thought it’d be interested

[@kdlluuy]

@@lilxamryn i watched it all i think before quarantine or during

[@lilxamryn]

@@kdlluuywe’re both survivors 🤝🤝

[@azupfrain6245]

My dream is for them to have Bria on as their special guest and to watch her season with her-except they have no prior warning of Bria.

[@notamberp]

@@lilxamrynyou’re *

[@dauntlyss]

Gio makes me physically recoil like gl to whoever he gets into a relationship with cuz....😬

[@pukimon6705]

real talk about the scene where the men are beating each other up and the women are all crying: this scene is fucking SCARY. I, as a woman, would've been scared as shit to see all those men having a fight. I don't want to speak for other girls or women, but me personally, I probably would've cried as well. This is a super stressful situation. Emotions are high and YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING. I am weak as an overcooked noodle. One of those big dudes approaching me threateningly and you can find me in the next corner on the ground having a panic attack. You don't know if they're just gonna turn around and hurt you too. Whether they mean to or not. I get that it looks stupid on TV, but being there in that situation I can totally understand those women freaking out. Also NO ONE from the camera team or whoever intervening is crazy to me. EDIT: To all the people saying "I wouldn't have cried, I would've just left" CONGRATULATIONS That is why I was speaking FOR MYSELF. Everyone reacts differently. Everyone experience on how to handle these kind of situations is different. And no one, NO ONE, knows for certain how they would react in such a situation, because when it's stressful and scary and overwhelming your actions are instinctive and not something you can plan. Fight, flight or freeze. YES it's a dumb TV show, YES maybe they're in no real danger at all. Is it still scary TO THEM? OBVIOUSLY SINCE THEY Y ARE CRYING. I think what's most "pathetic" is you people judging and belittling these people for their INVOLUNTARY reactions to something they didn't start, can't change or stop. but yeah, go off I guess, boasting how you wouldn't have reacted how they did. Hope it makes you feel better.

[@melodramaticmuse4079]

Came to the comments to find this! I 100% get that this scene as something from a dumbass reality show is funny to watch, but as a woman aligned person I totally understand why they’re crying, it’s scary and you know they’re all under some sort of influence

[@mun3698]

Meh, I’d either lock myself in a room, go for a walk, and/or find something to use as a weapon just in case. I’m traumatized though, been through this kind of thing many times.

[@britneywilkins8281]

💯!!! The whole time they were asking "why are they crying?" I kept saying I would for sure be crying.

[@patriece2215]

If you would have been nervous about getting hurt or someone approaching you, why wouldn’t u just leave. It looks stupid bc they’re in a mansion and they are crowded around men fighting and as u say, can’t do anything to help to stop the situation, so why be there in the first place. Just go to another room. And the crying was very dramatic bc they were probably all drunk. And also it was many producers that stepped in, u could see that they had headsets and microphone packs on their pants, it just happened really quick

[@Zzz-ff1np]

nah crying in place still leaves you within throwing range of all the crazy. When you see men get into it, fleeing should be the first thing. So it was unsettling to see them remain in the room with that mess

[@KatM272]

So many men on this show would literally be a hair away from putting their hand on a woman… it’s concerning

[@naomi5328]

another comment already said this but just to reiterate-so many of these men get violent SO QUICKLY (like gio losing the rap battle), so being forced to stay in that house as a woman, with men who you might have to couple up with, would be terrifying. i'd have probably cried too. on a reality show you can't just leave the house. it seems honeslty like being trapped in a domestic abuse situation

[@Spaced0ut000]

Bruh they’re crying bc they’re traumatized 😭 she said they couldn’t have ONE DAY of peace ?? That’s too much

[@Luckyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy]

"the vibes in this house are AWESOME 😄" girl everyone was trying to kill each other 2 seconds ago

[@Elizabelle79]

A blackout significantly increases the odds of winning because it eliminates so many matches from that and previous rounds. I'm pretty sure each season has a blackout.

[@cruella4341]

I think only the first season doesn’t (?)

[@Elizabelle79]

@@cruella4341 You're right! I just rewatched it 😅

[@ArturGlass.C]

Yeah in one of the french season I watched I remember them discussing trying to do a blackout on purpose (they did win that season).

[@gooodmorning4526]

"You have to find your perfect match. He could be a regular dude or he could be extremely violent and a danger to you. Good luck😊"

[@notamberp]

“Smartlier” “oh they’re gonna lose” 😂💀

[@brywash3r3]

Anyone else just absolutely zoning in on the lava lamp in the background??

[@supper-girl7405]

Now i am

[@haliee]

yeah lol

[@ruffybon3z]

6:37 tbh as someone who literally cannot handle being around angry men without immediately having a panic attack-this reaction is pretty warranted. Nobody enjoys being around yelling men. Especially if you have trauma. Ts is scary

[@gloriaemon6624]

If Julia hated men after this show I’d understand.

[@emilyhathaway3122]

please another season, i beg i plead, it's so chaotic and lovely

[@onlyynari]

Gio should be LOCKED UP BRO

[@emmavrijburg6676]

in the cast's only defense: they've probably been deprived of sleep and dehydrated/still intoxicated from the alcohol (and maybe they were even hungry). production might have had an influence in that as well to highten emotions and make good tv. maybe that's why they're always crying and fighting

[@ssharkbait]

True but not everyone is reacting violently under the same conditions. I think they also purposely choose individuals they know will react in these ways.

[@SamRK-1000]

“THIS IS A F(BLEEP)ING JOKE!!! 🗣️” “Well then laugh! 😏” DUDE that was so funny stop

[@britnicox3929]

I’m honestly really upset that they allowed these men - without any producer response it seems - to break things and threaten the people around them. They should have been at the very least punished monetarily if not with reprimands from the security or ousting them. I vividly remember a guy being kicked off of previous season of are you the one and his match leaving the show because she was devastated at the idea that she could be his, and now we have this bullshit

[@oliviacarter1517]

“Smartly-er” hahahahaha

[@katej2284]

Yeah they're losing 😄

[@laxx4lifechey]

To this DAY I still have no clue how tf they didn’t lose…like it would’ve been an even juicier season if they lost

[@gojogeto2840]

begging you guys to do the other seasons!! there was an all queer season that was pure insanity

[@maggierrose]

OMG PLEASE WATCH THIS ONE GUYS

[@naturalebeing]

I looked up the perfect matches last week and I was GOBSMACKED ! But lol the fact Francesca and gio actually were the perfect match 😂😂 the lil boy and lil girl I think that one chick said? True

[@sugarhigh29]

OMFG you’re so right hahahaha that’s hilarious

[@diamcole]

I remember watching this season when it first aired and by the third episode, I knew these two were a perfect match. 😂 Completely infuriating in totally different ways that felt like two sides of the same coin.

[@Earth2Natalie]

As messy and toxic as this season is, season 5 is even more chaotic and they didn't even get the money

[@notamberp]

why would you spoil that…. ydk if they were gonna watch other seasons or not like hello???

[@madi2200]

@@notamberpwell even if they wanted to they couldn’t watch season 5 because it got removed from all streaming platforms due to an alleged sexual assault that happened on set

[@shelby6]

​@@notamberp who cares?? Hello?? It's a comment section, if you worried about spoilers don't scroll

[@user64829]

Fucked up u just spoiled that

[@notamberp]

@@shelby6 …I’m not worried about spoilers for me, genius, it’s for Aaron and Jo. do you just not want them to read their own comments? hello? dbag behavior lol

[@ineedachachabeat1886]

The fact that these people are this unhinged and the production still gives them alcohol is beyond me

[@licorish_]

the way i'd legitimately call the cops if i were on that show

[@jcelinacoffee]

I watched this season when it aired and rewatched it recently and WOW was it so much worse/ even more amazing than I remembered. The lore of this particular cast is especially fascinating. I genuinely think being in that house for twelve weeks with complete psychos and cut off from the outside world made everyone go insane. This is also the era right before the influencer explosion, so it’s actually like charming and comforting to just see very “normal looking, attractive young people” on tv. Thank you for reacting to this gem. There’s a season of AYTO that is entirely pan/ fluid, so like 15 people could possibly be someone’s match. It’s incredible. MTV has to go back to being in their reality bag.

[@ChipCJ]

John is like top 10 Anime Anti-Heroes

[@jhart1127]

But he's not an anti-hero, he's a villian

[@SpraypaintVengence]

John straight up feels cartoonish and I love it so much. watching his descent is the best part of this show.

[@charlieiscorrect2856]

14:16 why are these grown adults acting like their at a middle school party with no parental supervision🤢

[@PoohFlowers]

There is actually a Reddit thread where one of the constants from a season expose and spill all the tea

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

That poor girl on the date with John embodied how i would feel having to chose frm this lot and being around John and his obsessions. Dude has completely glazed over and is just coming at every woman like shes his mtch and hes still waiting for Julia 😅

[@rclementine77]

There is a season that lost (won't say which for spoilers) but it was HILARIOUS. Ryan, the host, also says fuck in that season which is a highlight of the show

[@darcyroberts8873]

Gio got pissed for losing a rap battle imagine being that salty and you break stuff

[@1Claudia99Carvalho7]

You guys gotta watch more seasons of are you the one. There's always drama and maybe it's just me but i think it is interesting trying to find out the perfect matches

[@escalators69]

tbf i would’ve been crying too if i had to witness this first hand

[@litneyloxan]

one of my friends dated John pre-netflix era and I have SO many stories about him. that dude is CRAAAAAZY. I have to skip his scenes bc its just too weird to see him again but on tv

[@garfieldiloveyou]

gio is my nightmare i hate him so much.

[@MilesToGoGo]

I was JUST about to say that Prosper seems like the most normal/sane guy there and then he got into that fight lol nobody on this show is normal 😂

[@GoofyGooberGooberySunrise]

6:17 "this is a fucking joke!" "well then laugh!" dudes you can't do this to me im dying

[@chicken_nugget8743]

The way the girls just start crying😭😭

[@michi6915]

Please make a "where are they now?" - some of them are just too funny 😂

[@Shaabun]

Genuinely how are these aggro men allowed to stay in the house? I’d be terrified of being assaulted by one of them.

[@grandpatubesocks]

in the year 2024 of our lord, men really going on dating shows instead of going to therapy. smh why is this normalized @3:37

[@jemmaclampart]

One youtuber has the best quote "are the straights ok" 😂

[@keatondanielle1538]

annamarie forcino mentioned ‼️🗣️

[@notamberp]

“one youtuber” 💀

[@sevel7556]

Lower unalive rates, lower rates of cheating, lower rates of STD’s, lower rates of divorce, and lower dates of domestic abuse. I think the straights are doing just fine

[@gabriellemurdem6673]

a lot of us alphabet people say that lol it's been in the vernacular for a while

[@samd4800]

6:25 IM LITERALLYC RYING THE WHITE GIRLS MOUTHING "STOP IT STOP IT" THROUGH THE YTEARS OMFG

[@avaday8475]

It may be 4am in Japan but you best believe I’m going to watch this

[@chelseabondzanga5922]

I remember watching it, them winning was so out of the blue because they'd never even got close.

[@joemama8595]

Perfect timing for me to stop sobbing

[@kaleydeweese7413]

Makes total sense to me that the girls started crying during the huge fight. They’re all being fed huge amounts of alcohol, there’s not really any food, and the girls are being forced to stay in close proximity with a bunch of men who have no emotional control… I’d be scared too lmao, catch me running and hiding from those psychos.

[@ChemicalCandy2796]

I hate to be the person that takes things too seriously but the reason a lot of the women cry when men get like that is because we’re scared. Men are scary. Even hearing men raise their voice around me makes me freeze. I’m not saying that’s 100% what was happening but just some insight. Love watching you guys react to these shows, it’s always entertaining lol.

[@sydneyk3165]

gio is the worstttttt his ego takes up the whole room

[@pkr-cf3ey]

I’ve been watching u guys since the tall girl reaction 4 years ago and I can’t believe ur already at 400k! Super proud of u guys half a mil almost there ❤️

[@katiesteadly4369]

your guys' vids remind me of watching and commentating on phineas and ferb episodes with friends back in college. I always look forward to yall's videos!

[@brantleyibanez]

Please keep up with this series I haven’t laughed so much in so long

[@rachelmoore1996]

Toxicity aside, the chaos of this is hilarious 😂

[@picklebottomjeans]

fr my type of television i was giggling the whole time

[@Steef_Lee]

Lady goo goo Gaga hits so funny to me for some reason. Especially Aaron’s delivery lmfao

[@katej2284]

John is literally dead behind the eyes, it freaks me out 😆

[@phelovepokemon]

Clicked so fast I got whiplash😂

[@berrynoir]

As much as I kind of find it funny, I really do sympathize with the crying. I've witnessed several situations growing up where dudes get violent with each other and it's really traumatic because you feel helpless to do anything to make it stop and there's the potential it can go too far.

[@HamCommy]

I grew up in what I would call an interesting household. My father is a violent man when he gets alcohol in his system and he used to drink very often when I was younger. My father is a tall and muscular man, incredibly intimidating and has the skill to do some damage due to his training. I used to be on the receiving end of his anger many many times and as result I grew incredibly desensitized to violent men, especially since no man seems more intimidating than my father does. I might not have cried, but I can 100% understand why these women were crying when they experienced this. When I think back to what it was like experiencing my father as a little girl, that was terrifying. Granted these women aren't little girls, but they're much smaller and clearly physically weaker than all the men around them. I know first hand that being in that position isn't great, because hands get rated E for everyone when men are drunk and violent. You don't know who their next target will be or what will set them off even more. People shaming these women in the comments are weird for doing that.

[@jamesweber8537]

This might be by far the most unhinged shit I've ever seen. Thank you Aaron and Jo, I haven't cried laughing in a long time. Holy shit that was epic.

[@kshavl]

funny how i was just rewatching your guys’ previous episodes of this lol i love u guys

[@Dolan.Lovendahl_Presents]

lol Jo is SO BAKED this episode 😅

[@kawaiimaya6899]

Me checking if the video was almost over when they said "If they're not a match, lets agree to turn shit shit off"

[@tiana9999]

The we need to talk video was actually pretty entertaining, the movie trivia was HILARIOUS

[@jellzk1348]

I loved the We Need to Talk video 😂 had me rolling with the one liners

[@lovwe1490]

you know the lord is looking out for u when aaron & jo upload 😭

[@thereallazygirl]

john and victoria act like a divorced couple

[@imkemu9969]

If you have any energy left: the queer version of are you the one is even crazier!!!!

[@filzahjamal]

had a really really rough day and this made me laugh. thanks guys! ❤

[@kelsey3576]

the room is coming together nicely aaron!

[@sylvieshay]

pls do more seasons!!!! i loved these videos!!!

[@sunflowersandsand]

Squirting is very different from squirming. Be safe out there 🙂

[@musabudaza]

I need more AYTO reactions this can’t be the end 😭

[@s.aura.h8084]

This show looks unhinged! Thank you for enduring it because without you guys i NEVER would have watched it XD Your channel also makes love is blind WAY more bearable...

[@toxyk_kk]

Watching y’all while drawing inspires me to

[@chocolatecream5593]

18:19 Truest quote I’ve ever heard 💯

[@Persephone_Personified]

I want to make my hair into a star war.

[@zeldayraita9515]

Gotta watch all the seasons this was such a fun series to watch !!

[@somethingtidal]

never stop making these 😭🙌

[@BadGirlMimi94]

Men dont understand how terrifying it is for women to have to watch them fight like that. Coz why are you both wondering why the girls are crying? 🤔

[@springhassprung]

please do more seasons! been loving these eps

[@griffinsworldd]

You guys are amazing! the consistent are you the one series has been a blast i love the two episodes you covered years ago! such a huge supporter keep on doing your thing!

[@emmyysmith]

thanks guys for the best birthday present I could’ve asked for

[@Miataylor-u3h]

Perfect timing when I just wake up from my nap

[@lothcat01]

You need to watch more seasons!!