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[@jannelltite7643]

I got my first dog when I was 25 and single and it was the BEST thing I ever did. I am now a 56 married mom of three have always had a dog in the family. Dogs truly are unconditional love everyday. Your babygirl is beyond adorable!! Dynamic duo!

[@AbbeyYung]

They are the best 🥰

[@bebe9052]

I just want you to know, I’m glad you went home and your happy. Enjoy your life!

[@94agoodyear]

"Just knowing logically that something is irrational doesn't make you feel better." That perfectly sums up anxiety. Very well said!!!

[@amandaleggett]

I’ve dealt with severe illness anxiety since childhood, which ramped up tenfold when I lost both of my parents to covid in August of 2021. It can be so debilitating and it’s difficult to really explain that to those who haven’t been through it. I’m glad you’ve found some relief by moving back to family and friends ❤

[@AbbeyYung]

I’m so so sorry to hear that I can’t imagine how painful those losses were 💔 I agree it’s hard to explain so it’s so nice when you find others that relate!

[@nybsbfan18]

Sorry for your loss.

[@JLeigh75309]

I'm so sorry for your losses.

[@MH-th9tc]

I’m terribly sorry for your loss, Amanda. I understand exactly how you feel ❤️

[@shellyolson4641]

So sorry for the loss of your parents.

[@julieduncan7284]

Abbey, you’re a delight. I think your self awareness around your anxiety and your willingness to put in the work to stay well will serve you well. I hope you and that adorable pup bring each other years of joy, laughter and love. She’s so sweet!

[@AbbeyYung]

Thank you 💗

[@CareyXO]

I struggle with illness anxiety too and it comes and goes through the years. My oldest daughter was diagnosed with an aggressive form of leukemia before she turned one. I spent 6 months straight at St. Jude and while that is the BEST place on earth for a child with cancer, it’s like living on a college campus of kids fighting cancer. After that I was in a dark place. I finally dug myself out of that, but I don’t know that I’ll ever completely get over my fear. You can’t go through something like that and expect to not be a changed person. I myself had a big health scare right before Christmas and the anxiety shot up again. The fear of leaving my kids without a mom. I’m a big believer in medication and therapy, but also whatever works for the person to help alleviate the anxiety. There are so many ways to cope. I’m blessed to have a wonderful family (and close) and I can’t imagine going through anything without them. I also have a little fur baby that is my copilot in life. 😊 Wishing you all the best! I guess I should follow up that by the grace of God my daughter is now 16 years old and my health scare turned out to be benign. 🙏🏻

[@AbbeyYung]

Oh my goodness I am so happy to hear she’s okay. I can’t imagine how scary that was 💔

[@CareyXO]

@@AbbeyYungProbably the scariest most difficult time of my life. I sure know now how precious every moment is among the million other life lessons I learned at that time.

[@ShellTay32]

I am so happy to hear that your daughter is OK. xoxo

[@meganefields]

I got my dog when I was 23 and new in a big city. She passed away over the summer at 16 and I can say it was the best choice ever. She was expensive and destroyed some of my things, but she gave unconditional love. I have depression and anxiety too, animals are such a blessing when things get bad.

[@nikki2370]

Ooh life updates. & I'm seriously loving how happy you seem since leaving Chicago. Because in all honesty it seems like that youre more comfortable at home. You have your family and more friends available and you have supports Considering post covid we all talk about our mental health more because we know it's a big issue now.

[@VolleyyballPlayya]

I had a medical event happen about a year and a half ago, age 25. A medical event not anticipated for a 25 year old. It was terrifying and I was also out away from home. Was alone when it occurred, had to call 911 myself. Was tremendously anxious afterwards. Time has healed a lot, but the fear of it happening again and happening worse still is here. I’ve tried my best to befriend it though because it’s a reminder to live my life how I want, work less, try to worry less. I also was working nonstop when it happened and though was told it wasn’t directly related, still felt in my heart it was. I’ve lived a more joyful and peaceful life since and for that, and being alive, I’m eternally grateful

[@AbbeyYung]

I’m so sorry to heart that but so glad you’ve found peace through it ❤️

[@meesbees]

I hope everything stays even and you are able to find comfort!

[@TamarasTimelessBeauty]

OMG your sweet puppy could not be more adorable! I’ve ALWAYS Had a dog…so worth the time and effort. And welcome home ❤

[@AbbeyYung]

🥰🥰

[@heidir.3458]

I have chronic anxiety and panic attacks, so I empathize with you. I'm glad you're around family!

[@sarahmcmillen2987]

Dogs (and cats) are the best! I’m so happy to hear this update. You look and seem truly happy. ❤

[@tracyvision]

Stress is a killer, man. Good for you for recognizing what you needed to be a happier, healthier you!

[@nonne7018]

She will be the best emotional support for you. Unconditional love from our pets is amazing. The best decision for you! Congrats!

[@annamason1020]

I would love to see a video on coping with anxiety! A year and a half ago I was planning my wedding, going back to college full time (at 34) and working a job that required 45 hours a week. I was diagnosed with high functioning anxiety (I honestly didn’t know that was a think, I had to research it) after falling apart at my therapist session and making really bad decisions regarding my health. Thank you for talking about your struggles!! You seem a lot happier in your video!!

[@AbbeyYung]

I’m usually high functioning as well! Minus this past stint 😂

[@Zee84]

Welcome to puppy hood!! Your new baby is to die for 😍 my dog helps so much with my mental health and is the best friend. Wishing you all the best Abbey xx

[@AbbeyYung]

Thank you 💗

[@goshatomasik]

Thank you for addressing illness related anxiety. I’ve dealt with it on and off for years and it is really challenging to maintain focus and productivity while going through a health scare which usually makes you spiral. Good luck in Minnesota! Glad you have a strong support system.

[@baristern9037]

Proud of you for recognizing what makes the most sense for your mental health even if it’s the hard choice. I’m 28 and got a pup on my own and it was the best decision of my life. I had the same worries you did but the love a dog gives is so worth it!

[@MM-tf8gt]

So happy you are finding your way! Love your new puppy, absolutely adorable. The more time and energy you spend with your puppy, the better she will be, so I already see you two will be great together. Take care!

[@kerriewilkerson2157]

Anxiety sucks and can really creep up….prayers for you honey, glad you made the move home..❤️💕You are loved😘

[@cazbeebop]

Love this for you! Dogs are fluffy angels and cavapoos are so lovely. My cavapoo is 7 and he helps so much with my anxiety and helps me keep routine and structure. Glad you’re back around family and friends 💜

[@SweetCherriez06]

I also have a huge fear of terminal illnesses/dying, either me or a loved one going through that.. but mostly one of my loved ones being diagnosed with one. I find that tik tok has really made this worse because I get a lot of videos about that topic. I can’t imagine how scary it was to go through a health-related problem with this anxiousness. Thank you for sharing ❤ Elsie is absolutely adorable and I’m so happy you are sharing her on insta! 😍

[@amandaleggett]

Tiktok has made it so much worse for me, too. After my parents died last year I had to take a very, very long break from tiktok for that very reason

[@AbbeyYung]

Agreed tik tok has NOT helped!

[@erinkelly6577]

Me too!!! I deleted my Tik Tok app because of that. Videos would show up on my For You Page and it would freak me out because it’s something I never even looked at due to my anxiety. It would worsen my anxiety 100000% because I thought it was a sign that me or someone I loved had that illness . 🙈

[@AgingNaturallywithJodylynn]

Omg! She is adorable! Dogs truly are angels that teach us what unconditional love really means. We have 3 and we cherish them. Hopefully you can find balance with work. I find that is my biggest issue as well. Planning in me time, friend time, husband time is something I have to do or else I'd work all day which is not healthy. I'm so glad you are with family and so much happier. 🙏♥️

[@CairaButton]

Ok I literally sat here smiling for the entire part of Elsie and hearing you talk about/to her. Your puppy voice absolutely kills me in the best way. SO HAPPY FOR YOU!

[@AbbeyYung]

Not the puppy voice dang it 😂😂😂

[@JLeigh75309]

Finding work life balance in a work from home, self employed context is a huge challenge. Having the adorable Elsie will force you to take breaks -- a side benefit from all the love you two will share! So happy you're happy!

[@sovrappensiero1]

I love how introspective you are and how you think deeply before making decisions (like getting a dog in Chicago). That’s really such a huge life skill!!! Illness anxiety can be just a manifestation of stress and overwork in a high-anxiety individual. I’m glad you got it under control and that you’re healthy!! Your puppy is adorable!!!

[@beyond50skin]

Definitely feel privacy is critical for KZbinrs. Glad you’re back with your family & your puppy is adorable.

[@meghamama]

Hoooo health anxiety sucks - so much of my life lost to it. Glad you’re feeling better. Puppy is excellent therapy!

[@WonderfulCrow43638]

I’m so proud of you for making that huge step and then restructuring your work balance and intentionally adding happiness! Your pup is amazing! We have a standard poodle and he lives off praise. He wants nothing than to be told how loved he is. ❤

[@katherinekline7319]

Both of my kids also struggle with this kind of anxiety. I did too when I was young, but I grew out of it. Praying for you, Abbey!

[@connie6410]

Congratulations on your new puppy, Abbey, she is absolutely adorable! Thanks for sharing so honestly about your life, and I'm so glad to hear you're feeling so much happier in MN. Wishing you the very best ❤❤❤

[@AbbeyYung]

Thank you 🤍

[@Kelly_Mae]

My dog is my best friend. So happy for you getting a puppy! Puppy years can be hard & fun! Mine is 3 years old now and super chill. We have a great time here ❤

[@darlosmurf148]

It's so lovely to hear someone think through the seriousness of taking on a pet. So many people don't think of whether they are able to commit both time and money into looking after another life. She's gorgeous and she'll be there for you if you're ever down. We're so lucky that our pets give us unconditional love ❤️ xx

[@tinksspixiedust]

What an adorable pup! I absolutely relate to all you talked about. I’m glad you have people around you who know and love you. It makes a huge difference.

[@lauriec73]

Abbey, I have health anxiety. Started when I was 17. It progressively got worse through the years. I’m now about to turn 50 and while I’ve learned some coping methods just in the last few years, I still haven’t fully gotten it under control. My advice to you is to seek a therapist that deals specifically with health anxiety so you don’t end up like me suffering for decades (you’re such an amazing and intelligent you woman, I’m sure you’re already doing that). Also, dogs are LIFE! I recommend doggy daycare occasionally when she’s old enough. She needs the socialization and it will be good for you as well to get an occasional break. So happy for you that you’re in a good place right now. I wish you all the best 💕

[@reneedoughman1459]

I'm so happy for your going back home and getting a new baby. I also struggle with anxiety, God bless you! It can be a real struggle. I got my first cavapoo last Christmas, best choice ever. 😍 Hope your life really prospers in every way.

[@lilshawtyspice]

omg I’m so glad you got a puppy. 🥹 mine was a handful but he’s 3 years old now, 55 pounds, and still thinks he’s a lap dog. 🤦🏼‍♀️ just snuggling with him brings me an unmatched level of joy ❤️

[@emmaterry7893]

My cavalier spaniel is the first dog I’ve had all on my own and she has such a special place in my heart. I’ve dealt with anxiety for years and years but my doggies make life a little easier. I hope you find peace again soon and I hope you enjoy these next few months with your new baby. Time flies with puppies!

[@aracelysee9665]

I went through a pretty major health even a year ago and I have so much anxiety with medical stuff now. And I even work in the medical field but when it comes to myself, it's a whole other level. I'm so happy for you and your new puppy and hopefully having her will help you balance life.

[@breannabartley]

I've never heard of Illness Anxiety but OMG I definitely have that after hearing you explain it!!! I appreciate you sharing!

[@laurenjurcic365]

Abbey, I'm just watching this vid now and what you say about health anxiety speaks to my soul. I never normally comment on videos, I just want to thank you for sharing and putting a name to it. I was diagnosed with severe OCD/health anxiety two years after the birth of my daughter. I was struggling so much with the constant thoughts in my head telling me that I or my daughter have a terminal illness and I won't get to see her grow up (we are both medically healthy, there's no logic behind it). Im glad you got help when you did, it can be so isolating and cause so much distress, especially alone with your thoughts.

[@frenchtoastemergency]

Wishing you all the best. Thank you for your openness about health anxiety and how it affected you-and about how you were overworking and how that affected your life! Your puppy is adorable!

[@jujubunnybea]

So happy you got a dog… they bring soooo much happiness 💓🐾 Word of wisdom… What you fear will appear ! Be careful about what you think on / meditate on / give power too. 🥰

[@AbbeyYung]

Love that 💗

[@susancourtney882]

She's a doll! Thanks for sharing and I'm glad you're doing so well now that you're back near your family.

[@alisoncurran9631]

Oh Abbey!! Just want to hug you here!!! Hugest well done for all your achievements but even more of a congrats for setting your boundaries, recognising what you need to do and going home! So good of you to share this to get people talking about mental health. Thank you, sending love x

[@lindapt60]

I had the same kind of anxiety that you have, it started when I was in middle school. It got worse after I had kids because I was terrified of dying and leaving them without a mother. This went on until I was 40 years old and I went on anxiety meds (not saying everyone should do this). This worked for me, I felt like a new person. I never knew what it felt like to be without anxiety bc it permeated every aspect of my life. I admire you for doing what you needed to do to take care of you. And your puppy is beyond cute, I love her!

[@AbbeyYung]

1000% have been there before- not remembering what it’s like to not have anxiety. Terrible feeling. So glad you’re doing well!

[@allycat91974]

Anxiety sufferer here and my dad just passed away last week so I’m struggling. Thank you for sharing. Anything like this I’m interested in to try to help me

[@eileenfh7834]

I’m happy that you moved back home where your family lives and that you’re feeling better! Congrats on your new puppy!! Dogs give unconditional love. Sending you a big hug. Love you and your videos so much!!!

[@mitzistewart5783]

We have two cavalier King Charles spaniels and they are such cuddlers. My son has an anxiety disorder and are dogs are really helpful for him when he’s feeling really anxious. Hope your new baby brings you lots of joy! 🌸

[@CAEO416]

Thank you for sharing Abbey. You really have helped a lot of people by talking about your anxiety. I had crippling panic attacks in my 20’s, were I quit my job and basically stayed home for a year. The one thing that helped me “cure” my panic attacks, for want of a better word, was acceptance. That stopped the panic attacks. Instead of fearing them I started to accept them. I then started to tell myself, “I look forward to my next panic attack”….. once I accepted them and welcomed them into my life, they stopped. Completely. I wonder if this shift in mindset could help you. We all live on borrowed time. Maybe embracing that rather than fearing it might help you too. It’s worth a shot 💕

[@karabeck3200]

I definitely think health anxiety ebs and flows. For like 2 years I got my shit together had a therapist, did mediation took my meds, then one day one thing triggers it and you have to start over. You got this!!!❤

[@AbbeyYung]

Yep it’s so weird how you can go so long not even thinking about it and then something just switches!

[@mindybrown-haugen3115]

Major congratulations on all the positive changes. i have been anxiety ridden for 60 years and there are many ways you will continue to deal with this. studies show that having a dog is great for your health, so good on you for that. good luck with everything my dear! something tells me you will have a wonderful life.

[@akusalum5762]

I'm so proud of you. Dogs make life so much better. I hope she gives you a lot of comfort to get through the hard times.

[@xMISTYxDAWNx]

Hi Abbey! I’ve watched your videos for a while now, but this is my first time leaving a comment. I also struggle with illness anxiety and I had a pretty rough year with scares as well. I’m currently going through therapy and I’m finding ways so handle that stress. I also got two kittens a couple months ago and they help my anxiety so much! I hope your new puppy helps your anxiety as well and I’m happy you’re starting to feel better!! I would love to see a video on how you handle your anxiety ❤️ Thank you for all you do!!

[@claudiafloroiu186]

So happy that you start seeing that you come first! We are happy when you are healthy&happy! Do not neglect yourself over anything!

[@alexandramcnamee9912]

It’s truly so awesome to see you doing better now! I was worried about you after seeing your last video about Chicago. Puppy girl is soooo flippin cute too, oh my word

[@stacywortman7158]

Anxiety can be crippling for some people. I'm glad you recognized the extent of it before hand and went back home where your family and friends could help you. Your puppy is so cute! Just remember, they are like babies and kids, they need love and attention. She might help with your anxiety to, you never know. I'm happy your doing better. Got to take care of yourself first and foremost. As far as your job, you gotta find and make a work/career/life balance. Sorry, I just started college and this is one of the things they keep saying. Balance is important for everyone. One step at a time. You can do this. Take care hun.

[@clairefinkle4866]

Thank you for sharing this! I know exactly how you felt/feel. I’ve had illness anxiety/ocd/general anxiety for pretty much my whole life. I got diagnosed with Thyroid cancer last year and have other health issues going on that are still undiagnosed. It’s so scary being in the waiting period so I definitely relate! I’m sorry you had to go through that alone, away from family! Illness anxiety can be so isolating.

[@bsam7213]

I'm so happy that you finally moved back to Minnesota. And I'm even happier to see you with your new puppy! You're truly glowing now that you have her, and I can't wait to see her in future videos. You two remind me of me and my pet who lived to be 19. Everyone said we looked alike, which I considered to be a compliment. And I do have to say that you and your pup already look alike!

[@happylady2139]

Hey Abbey!!! I actually have this exact same problem as you but my therapist diagnosed me with OCD manifested by obsessive thoughts of terminal illness. Like for instance, if I get a headache I will for sure think I have a brain tumor or meningitis or something else super threatening. The funny thing is, I’m a nursing student! But my OCD isn’t turning knobs, repeating phrases, or any of the other “typical” OCD things. My OCD is the “obsessive compulsive” part only and specifically, obsessive compulsive thoughts related to health anxiety. When I was in college for the first time, it was super bad. Moving home to be closer to my family, aka my sounding board, really helped me! I’m so glad that you’ve turned the corner too. It can be absolutely debilitating because it feels like everyone else has downgraded your anxiety because it doesn’t look like “normal” anxiety to them. A book that really helped me, even though it’s not specifically about OCD, is “The Body Keeps the Score”. Truly life changing!!!

[@laurenprince139]

I have this exact diagnosis. I've had health anxiety since I was a child, but it's only been recently that they have linked it with OCD. So tough!

[@amyschmidt2765]

It takes a lot of guts to evaluate your situation and change what's not working. And also, any situation that doesn't allow for a dog is unsustainable imo. Your dog is so stinking cute.

[@elizabethnachman2557]

We have two Cavaliers and they are the sweetest, calmest and best dogs (of course, my biased opinion). Toss is a little poodle and what’s not to love? She’s adorable! Congratulations on everything!

[@leanneeggenberger9127]

Oh man...I haven't watched all of this yet but I COMPLETELY understand health anxiety. I currently struggle with this and consistently have to work through the irrational fears. I get so frustrated with myself because like you say...even if you KNOW the thoughts and fears don't make sense..it does NOT make you feel better in the moment. Thank you for sharing. 💜

[@AbbeyYung]

It’s such a frustrating form of anxiety 😭

[@marinaa.acosta-saucedo686]

First off, fur baby is beautiful ❤. And I’m so sorry you’ve been struggling with these issues. I admire your content for your class and transparency. I can completely relate. I’ve struggled with anxiety and depression most of my life and making sure I’m doing what I need for my mental health as far as routine is imperative. If you go down to one video a week or less, I’ll still support you. Take care of yourself ❤

[@Deadwrongallalong]

You seem like you’re genuinely doing so much better now ☺️ once you get settled in your new place do you think you would consider doing another apartment tour?! Your decorating style is so good

[@AbbeyYung]

Trying to decide whether or not I will here tbd!! ❤️

[@amandabusby5361]

Illness anxiety is horrible, I struggle as well so glad you are feeling a bit better. Would love for you to talk about it. Love and light to you.

[@nancyr7440]

Omg-we’re getting puppy in 2 weeks. Nervous & excited! Your puppy is adorable! And you’ll train her…. Good Luck!

[@taniaservinful]

I’ve had health anxiety for 7-8 years. I went through a rough patch this past summer as well and now working on heeling my mental health. I would love to see a video on what has helped you. Thank you for sharing 🤍

[@alijohnson1904]

Hi friend. I’ve commented before but feel compelled to just let you know that I moved away from home actually to Minnesota when I was 24 and ended up moving home at 25. My health scare was actually addiction and so I spent some time back in Arizona getting sober. I got my pup, Ziggy, while going through my struggles and now He’s 5 and I’m 3 1/2 years sober! We are living out at the beach in California now and I can honestly say my life did a 180. Thank you for your openness and congrats mama! Life is full of these moments and it’s how to grow from them. Always rooting for you

[@kennedyvertin6114]

My anxiety was at an all time high when I was in college. I was lonely, living alone, and struggling with my mental health. My parents encouraged me to get a puppy and it was the best thing I ever did ❤️ I’m so excited for you and to see some puppy content!!

[@elinblock]

Ok, i’m a little late because i just recently discovered your channel and have been binge watching your videos - even some of your make up videos, and i don’t even use any make up myself! I just like your energy and your goofy mess-ups and some good information on skin care & hair care. I’ve been washing my face with only water & no creams or nothing for 10 years, and is just now starting my skin care journey as a 34 year old (gettin a little dry)… BOY has things changed since 2013! Not gonna write a novel here, but watching this video made me appreciate your channel even more - cuz we need to talk about mental health, every single one of us. So, so important. Thank you for sharing! /new subscriber

[@colleenbriand9964]

She is soooo adorable! They are a lot of work, however what they give back to you in unconditional love is so worth it! Enjoy your new furbaby! 💜

[@aleal69]

Your fur baby is adorable!!! I've had dogs my whole life. They do bring us so much joy. I have a female miniature Pinscher and she's pure love!!! I'm glad you're doing and feeling better, nothing like being with family and close to them, it gives a sense of security.

[@ChristyMcB]

Your pup is so adorable! 🐾 So happy that you have her, that you’re back home, & that you’re happy & doing well! Thank you for sharing! Take care! 🙏💛☀️

[@allyssabenson6466]

I have illness anxiety too! I didn’t know anyone else did this! Mine also started in college when the campus Dr misdiagnosed a bacterial infection on my legs (ladies NEVER shave before a pedicure). It continued to spread for months before I came home and saw my Dr. But googling my symptoms did it’s damage. Major stressful changes this summer brought it back on so severely I can’t sleep most nights because I panic I won’t wake up…I finally took the steps for therapy. Thank you for sharing this…I feel less alone and less wrong

[@shgw9901]

I could totally relate to this update. I too have terminal health anxiety something I got after my father died suddenly when I was 17. It's hard to explain to people. Also I just got a puppy this year. Remember there is a toddler phase coming but also leverage places like doggie daycares. A tired dog is a good dog. Welcome back to MN!!

[@christinel6325]

My 11 yr old German Shephard passed away a year ago, and over Christmas my partner got us a Corgi puppy! I'm so excited that you are also getting to experience puppyhood! I'm so happy to have a dog in my life again, they truly are a blessing 💜

[@kathryngrace9038]

Aww, sweet puppy! Soak up all of the puppy love and snuggles🥰

[@ShellTay32]

Your puppy is adorable. Pets are the best. I know my life would not feel complete without them. And, they help me with my emotional health. The bonds we with them are real and so amazing. 🐶

[@kellyhagan2631]

I’m 55 and it started at 30 for me. My daughter has it as well! Always a work in progress, I understand your fears.

[@kellyburnett1833]

I did happen to see you with your new furbaby on Instagram. I am so happy for both of you, I wish you many years together. I am passionate about all animals, I know what comfort and joy they bring. ❣️

[@sarahhagen2051]

Congratulations on your pup! They are a lot of work, but are so worth it! I totally screwed up with my first pup, and didn’t realize you had to socialize dogs with other dogs and people. He still lived a long happy life, but I had to be really careful with him around kids and other dogs. I’ve learned since then, and have had much better adjusted pups. Still tons of work, and I needed professional help with an OCD rescue. But, I wouldn’t change a thing 😁

[@AlyH89]

Thank you so much for sharing! I struggle with anxiety. When I had my last baby I’ve been super anxious about anything that could be wrong. Doesn’t help that I’m cyst prone so any bump that comes up sends me spiraling and freaking out because my greatest fear is leaving my babies. It’s hard sometimes. Congrats on your new baby and doing what’s right for you! ❤

[@AbbeyYung]

Im so sorry I know how scary it feels 😭

[@worthigirl2946]

You don't need to explain! Totally get it, you want to be near your family! I suffer from an anxiety d/o as well. I don't have any particular triggers, know how I acquired it. I hope you feel better living closer to your family.✌️❤️

[@jessicamcdonnell3773]

I have illness anxiety too, I’ve had health scares for a long time. It’s so hard to navigate on your own. I’m glad you’re healthy and ok now x

[@paulydaysx]

Nothing is better than puppy love!! Yay! She's SO cute! Thank you for sharing Abby. I think a lot of us moms here on KZbin were feeling your anxiety through the screen. I seriously worried about you in Chicago especially at first. We love you and are happy if you are happy. We'll be here for ya no matter what! ❤P.S. You always look beautiful but this video... you look exceptionally gorgeous!! Your skin, makeup, hair, that sweater!! xoxo

[@AbbeyYung]

Thank you so so much 💗

[@Elliecharlie]

It truly makes me so happy to see you with your puppa. I have an 10 year of Dachshund, he Is everything to me. Only thing I’d recommend is seeing a good trainer/puppy school. Sending you both so much love xx

[@5117danielle]

I've suffered with hypochondria all of my life, being around family makes a HUGE difference. Getting a pet also helps you refocus your mind to worry about something else, an awesome distraction!

[@meadowbird]

I love that you got a puppy.. pets just bring a treasure trove of joy and fulfilment into our lives. I have two cats and they are endless sources of love and mischief!

[@sandysnow2566]

So happy to see you happy with your new puppy and close to family

[@jenniferlynn3537]

I struggled with anxiety for years, and just want to reassure you that you can get to the other side long-term - and it’s a wonderful place to be! I applaud your decision to get a puppy - counter-intuitively, sometimes it’s those things that we think would be burdensome that end up being just what the doctor ordered (so to speak). Concern for our pets help us get out of our own heads and focus on something other than our own issues. Which is to say that even if you & puppy have some rough patches - it’s all good! 🐕🐶

[@ginadavidson9536]

I'm so happy for you Abby so glad you moved back home we all need the love of family and friends. Your new baby is precious I think she will be great for you. I pray things continue to get better with your health both mental and physical I wish you the best. Love and hugs💖😊

[@francescahensen3813]

You nailed it when describing irrational thoughts and anxiety. I didn’t know that illness anxiety had a name, because I just realized I have the same thing. It’s horrible.

[@AbbeyYung]

Horrible is right. You’re not alone ❤️

[@bernerandgoldenmom7143]

Oh, you made such good decisions here. First, congrats on your new puppy!! She is adorable!!! And it's so obvious you're in love with each other. 💞 Best of luck with her and ENJOY the joy she brings to your life!! Second good decision--moving home! I think we often underestimate how much we need others in our lives who care about us. And we need them RIGHT THERE! No phone call or Facetime will ever replace a good hug. We are social beings, we love, and we need each other. Third decision--re-examine your workload. Whether you work for yourself or for others, only you can decide how much is too much. NO JOB is worth your health, physical or mental!! So take care of yourself and your puppy first! All else has to wait. Best to you!

[@rachelmorton4296]

I got my first dog as an adult when I was around 25. Best thing I ever did for my depression and anxiety. I’m happily married now and she passed this year at the age of 14 - but those 6 or so years where it was just me and my pup living in an apartment were the best times and SO healing for me.

[@Lyn_DS]

Glad to see you so literally shining of happiness and very relieved to hear that you’re healthy! Much love ❤️

[@ceciliacooper1462]

Look at your smile! So wonderful to see you happy again, Abbey! Congrats on your new pup, she’s adorable! What’s her name? SO happy for you ❤️

[@alexisb76]

I’m glad you were able to be with your family again and to get a new baby! I got my amazing shih tzu during the pandemic, and he was hands down the best thing I did for myself that year. He’s 2 now and I adore him. For my anxiety, I find reading, knitting and meditation are all big helps, along w therapy and meds if needed.

[@alexism1127]

I just got my first dog in my adult life and I totally relate to that feeling when you first bring them home haha. Like omg what did I do but I love you so much. So far it has been a great experience and my puppy is such a good boy. Your little girl is sooo precious. Congrats. 😊🎉

[@UnpurrfectRobyn]

I'm not a dog person (as in I don't see myself ever owning a dog, but I am okay around other peoples' dogs), but she is adorable! And to say that you seem so much happier and light is an understatement. You clearly made the right decision to move back home and to get that sweet girl to be your companion!

[@betsywilliams8105]

So glad you're home Abbey! Elsie is so precious. Thanks for sharing