Abby Shapiro's "Tips" on Modesty

[@Egooist.]

"If I had to be in a room with Abby Shapiro for a long period of time, I would literally become the joke about men who tune out women, except mine wouldn't be sexist, it would be for my own mental health." (17:15)

[@tatiana4050]

Fursuits don't show your skin, and don't highlight your shapes. Conclusion: fursuits are peak modesty

[@ralphbrennan7700]

It's not like sex is huge in the furry community or anything 🤣

[@KireiC]

I kind of hate that I employ some similar strategies to Abby (undershirts, lower hemlines) because they make me more comfortable and I like how they look on me. But then, I also don't bash people who wear different things than me, so there's that going for me.

[@maggieallen5985]

Don’t hate it. That’d be like me saying I hate having long hair because Abby Shapiro also has long hair. There’s nothing wrong with how you want to dress whatsoever. The important thing is not being an asshole about it to other people and dictating how they live their lives.

[@0w8wsj7w]

My hair reaches below my butt and I had a m@ń "compliment" it, complaining how hair this long is so rare and how women these days have shaven heads while on a walk. Never wanted to cut or dye my hair more

[@KireiC]

@@0w8wsj7w ugh, so frustrating. I'll gladly take a compliment without the put-down on other people, thanks!

[@KireiC]

@@maggieallen5985 you're right, of course. ❤

[@zahraakadhem9913]

@John Langley statistics show women are happier and live longer single/with other women rather than stuck being replacement mommy for a grown man. Stay mad

[@animalxINSTINCT89]

Abby: Dress yourself in FLESH *BFG Division begins playing*

[@VariantNode]

lmao

[@Mercenary0712]

Only thing we fear is Abby

[@Nemopokemon]

IF I wanted to dress modest, why would I want to show off my feature? That doesn't feel modest 🤨

[@christophergreen6595]

She's being real vague about panty lines vs Mormon underclothes

[@tatiana4050]

@@christophergreen6595 wear no clothes avoid panty lines. Also you can't be dressed immodestly or "like a slut" if you aren't dressed

[@justinwatson1510]

Abby is cool with expensive clothes as long as they’re made in sweatshops.

[@PooPooPaGoo]

The immature laughter about slits is the best.

[@Yoshimitsu4prez]

Holy shit I was not prepared for that “bye” I thought you were kidding

[@rickc2102]

Someone replaced Jake with Epic Jake.

[@ladycheyne5607]

Abby ain't slick! She's trying to get hate f*cked. I see you, girl🤣🤣

[@isislee919]

what?

[@rickc2102]

Nah, I hate her smarminess too much. My hate fuck remains Lauren Southern.

[@reform-revolution]

is she unironically saying that women should dress up a puritans ....... cause this is puritan "dont show elbow" stuff

[@reform-revolution]

@Gobzo Raon ass butt yes

[@chocolatecoveredspam]

Ugh noooo the CAMISOLE. war flashbacks.

[@darkstar1360]

It funny how Abby starts everyone of her videos like there are people who actually like watching her content and not just people asking her to stop with the astroturfing.

[@lordshnissugah]

I am never prepared for Classically Abby's intro. There is no smooth transition between the operatic singing and the Mean Girl-esque presentation in the rest of the video, and it startles me every damn time.

[@lordshnissugah]

@Rach It sounds like what people unfamiliar with opera (myself included) _think_ opera sounds like, doesn't it?

[@palesgensler3099]

You know she could’ve just said don’t shop in the summer. Because that’s when most people are wearing tank tops and shorts. Therefore that’s what the shops will be selling.

[@SEmme-ov6yy]

I really wish a drag queen did a parody of her

[@rickc2102]

Has Randy Rainbow taken a shot at her yet?

[@faeryn1896]

why does it always have to be prefaced by reminding everyone that it's respectful to the people around you to be modest? how do you think she feels about wearing a mask to be respectful to those around you?

[@amelaine82]

I’m so confused by these modesty videos. Everyone has different rules for modesty. There are no rules so Abby’s idea of modesty will be too sexual for others. Also, where is the line between attractive and alluring/sexual? I think that it’s in the guy’s head not about a woman’s clothes.

[@CRSB00]

it's almost as if modesy is a very subjective topic

[@taide8989]

Abby says she's modest, but I'm straight and I look at her and she's so beautiful and I wonder "Why not?"

[@Sydney_With_A_Why]

I call them Abben Shabibo, because I'm still not convinced they're not the same person using filters. I use They/ Them pronouns just in case.

[@PurpleFistPictures]

I was just about to say they are the same person just in a wig with voice filters. It's true.

[@crystalhazer7246]

You're a cob that stays husky 🤣 won't peel/strip-down for just anyone

[@weirdgirl4611]

This is the corniest joke I have heard.

[@5769434]

Just coming by for Android Abby and the "BYEEEEEYYYYYEEEEYYYYYYEEEYYYYYYEEEEE"

[@jadetortellini6150]

Aw, my little brother calls them flippy-floppies c:

[@rickc2102]

Thongs. Foot thongs.

[@Supremelilbear]

Abby Shapiro: How to be modest and keep incels on the right from attacking you.

[@SS-xr7jf]

What’s sad is that if her video wasn’t steeped in judgement and a-holery, the advice would actually be pretty good, especially for younger people. ‘Don’t assume that a trend you like will stay in fashion so stock up then’ or ‘plunging necklines and slits that go to far up for your comfort don’t have to be dealbreakers because -insert strategies to wear them’ are both good advice. Kinda sad, really. :/

[@KireiC]

Yes, this exactly! Tips to alter items slightly to fit you, or ideas of good items you can layer for coverage / comfort, or mix and match for different looks - it's solid fashion advice that has little to do with "respecting others with your modesty" and more to do with "how to look good and be comfortable in your clothes."

[@jasonfuller2734]

“Good tips.” -Biker in Walmart wearing a MAGA shirt with his hand down the back of his 250lb old ladies 10x to small shorts

[@thefatherinthecave943]

like a tight rubberband over a rotten sausage

[@mitchdouglas9844]

Unless Abby's sporting a wig she's blatantly flaunting Tzniut rules. Tut tut Abby, what would Benjamin say at Passover?

[@tatiana4050]

I wonder if polish work for "virtue/chastity" comes from hebrew, cause it's very similar.

[@ryleexiii1252]

Haven’t been this early since I lost my virginity

[@domm5715]

Ngl that made me more uncomfortable than the "bye"

[@beefyhaze6311]

Classical Jakey

[@pyraffin]

She's making me hate the word "elegant"

[@Kristen70364]

Jake said "tits or gtfo" and it immediately cut to a bra ad.

[@Saint_Medusa]

I would of died of laughter

[@Gabbasuperhero]

Did she say she's been wearing the same undershirt things since high school? Do you think she'd sell any of them?

[@lunamoona4920]

Full suits are just as titillating😳 Aka Samus suit, Black Widow combat suit, and Tracer

[@tatiana4050]

And fursuits

[@GraveReaperCushions]

Somebody please clip: "Look at the rack/ come longer"

[@SA-mo3hq]

The thirst levels are reaching critical levels! Someone get the poor woman a Sybian STAT!

[@rickc2102]

Abby "you gotta sew up the slits" Shapiro

[@aprilk141]

Abby wants you to dress like it's winter. She wants massive heatstroke!

[@ittositto6494]

cool, just as the video ends the sky starts breaking into thunder... thanks for breaking reality Abby

[@redolentthought7085]

Corn learns to wear a potato sack

[@nunyabizness9787]

Tip #1: Have every possible reason in the universe to be modest. Abby's nailed that one. Can't think of a single thing she might want to brag about.

[@toataile6450]

As a guy named Taylor, this was a fun video

[@mallowhoney]

For ONCE, I'm going to give Abby here the benefit of the doubt and come at her advice with sincerity, because I do like to dress modestly both for aesthetic reasons AND sexual trauma reasons. Will update at the end of the video.

[@mallowhoney]

1. The flesh toned undershirt is OKAY but a pastel or white one may "break up the V neck" but they layering looks delicate and elegant. Consider your camisole/undershirt an accessory if it's worn to be seen and match the color to your outfit in a complimentary way. 2. Just buy dresses without slits you goddamn alien. Sewing up the slit in a dress will inevitably ruin the silhouette and make it look super weird and in many cases it's gonna be a nightmare to walk in. 3. OBVIOUSLY. There's always something on the shelves that's modest but if something pretty and modest is on-trend, buy it up. Then stop worrying about trends and just wear what you like to wear. 4. fuck you abby baggy sweaters and cardigans are cute as fuck. modesty can also mean hiding your figure, abby. don't be a jerk, abby. 5. Not good advice. A dress that's too short for comfort can be paired with leggings, shorts, or even a long skirt. It's very granny chic to wear a flowy long skirt under a shorter dress, that's called layering. It's mori-kei if you're cultured in Japanese trends. It's aesthetic and sooooo comfy and cats will hide under your skirt, it's great. If you find a dress you like, you can make it modest with some creativity, usually without sewing up the side of the dress.

[@Saint_Medusa]

@@mallowhoney "just buy dresses without slits you damn aliens" same tho it was the first thought that came through my head

[@Saint_Medusa]

@@mallowhoney also I see you are a person of cultured mentioning Mori kei was sure no one even like that anymore unfortunately

[@Dustande1]

Your slomo abby singing outro is my birthday gift today, 🎁💜💕

[@thepiper5522]

7:10 🤣🤣🤣

[@merbst]

Abby Shabimbo

[@floraposteschild4184]

19:50 Yeah, that's a photoshop.

[@BenYork-UBY]

Being "modest" is okay. The problem is thinking your "modesty" makes you better than everybody else, when it is entirely a subjective and superficial standard that is promoted by blind consumerism and an unhealthy desire to appear "upper class". But hey if you simply like having the aesthetic of modesty and treat it only as such, then all the power to you. Also keep in mind that Abby, while looking "modest" also looks like a plastic robotic android and not a real human, so it might not appeal to everyone's taste

[@polarbearzonthemoon]

Is she buying new clothes every season? Like shes acting like shes buying a new dress every week? I havnt bought new clothes in years

[@JoyToy1312]

Damn butterflies

[@UnknownFlyingPancake]

Wear clothing that fit you. Wow. Absolutely big brain take. No one has ever thought of that one before. Just go to a tailor 4Head

[@medtle1]

*flesh-tone undershirt? But what if you can't find undershirts/camisoles that are the same color as your skin? Is she saying that wearing undershirts/camisoles that aren't the same color as your skin isn't modest? [Lol. I kid. But seriously, it isn't her business on whether one wears something under their v-neck shirt or not. Also, Ann Taylor isn't cheap.] *I guarantee that Abby doesn't actually sew up any of the pre-made slits on any of her dresses and only saying that to please her viewers and sponsors. [Doing that can ruin a dress and the entire look if you aren't careful, especially if you are getting those dresses from places like Chanel, Ann Taylor, Express, Neil Gaiman, etc. I also bet that she doesn't do any sewing or alterations herself.] *Shop when the trends are modest? That's just another version of shopping when you find a deal you like and shop at places that contain stuff you like. Also, what if you have to do emergency shopping for special, formal, or important events? Another thing, aren't a lot of women's fashion in medieval Europe prone to showing a lot of cleavage in certain periods of time? *Wear clothes that fit? That's just basic clothes advice everyone gets. She's not saying anything new. She's against women and girls showing too much skin yet also against them wearing baggy, loose clothing. Basically, she just want women and girls to wear clothes that are feminine, don't show too much skin, and are form-fitting (since she keeps emphasizing "showing their figure"). Also, not everyone lives in a area that has a tailor (let alone a tailor that isn't costly and is culturally sensitive). *Literally no one looks at the hem of the dress before the top of the dress; including Abby herself. Dress has to look good if you even want to consider trying it on. What maybe be long/short on one person may be long/short on another person - people come at various heights and weight distributes different on different bodies. Also, looking at the bottom of the rack doesn't always tell you how long the dress is if they are using a hanger that lifts off a portion of of the bottom of the dress off the ground.

[@shelbyschroder4140]

So on the tailoring thing. Ingoring the modesty message entirely because screw societies expectations. I buy fewer clothes because I get ones I really really like tailored. I'm more likely to wear what fits and love all the clothes in my closet. We all should have access to better quality clothes and not kill the planet with fast fashion. But at the same time it's not always accessible to lower income people. Which should be considered a crime. We need clothes to protect us.

[@Freyaundergrowth]

Just a bit of criticism I don’t think you should include her sell out part of the video because she doesn’t need the free advertisement and in my opinion it’s looks bad when you do leave it in

[@joshuahensley9395]

modesty hacks

[@saga685]

I just realised she never uses pronouns when she’s talking about certain subjects, she just uses the name of the subject over and over again. “So I saw a dress with a slit, and I don’t like slits so I sewed the slit…” “I see a dress I like on a rack, but I look at the top of the rack instead of the bottom of the rack…” I don’t know if she’s padding out the run time on her videos, or if she just can’t speak like a human, but either way it’s exhausting to listen to.

[@BradsGonnaPlay]

I mean check me if I’m wrong but “Wear flesh colored undershirts so if some looks at your tits, they’ll notice fabric instead- the best possible outcome!” doesn’t sound like *modesty*

[@djhowell5273]

I'm super early! 1st!

[@coss1]

I know what slit she should sow up and it's not the one on her dress, am I rite? lol

[@christophergreen6595]

I really need to hear her take on panty lines now...

[@yahwehvii6059]

21:35

[@elboob1921]

Weeeeeeellll!!

[@rosem6604]

Flesh undershirts are so grandma! also, why? just wear less cleavaged clothes. You're cheating, ABBY! Tbh, hubby and I are the most unclassic, inelegant people around here. We wear what's comfy, mostly in the tank top/t-shirt/swear wear area of clothing. We just don't care. Our respect for others is wearing clean clothes when in public. Otherwise we really are slobby leftists. And we're quite happy, actually :)

[@Saint_Medusa]

Or just get dresses without slips ....

[@nedrojdillion7644]

Ann Taylor veryyy classic 👌🏼

[@Darm0k]

Fashion Coward.

[@nicolasandre9886]

Does anybody know what Abby Shapiro wears on the beach to stay modest?

[@Big73Red]

Have you ever seen one of those swimming dresses from the 1920s? That’s what she wears, the cap covers the head perfectly sure they show knee, shin, and ankle but hey you’re at the beach and you expect a little less modesty there.

[@nicolasandre9886]

@@Big73Red : mmmm, those sexy knees ❤

[@mikeymoughtin]

Okay like, she's a meme. But for real, if you're spending any real money on your clothes, a tailor can make a world of difference for like, 20 dollars. Especially you men who don't understand what clothes that fit you look like. Regardless of body type, the best way to look good is clothes that fit, and tailors can do that

[@bean8672]

I remember a rumour going around my Colledge that the ultra conservative muslim girl who wore the complete burqa (with mesh over the eyes you couldn't see anything) wore sexy lingerie underneath and I thought it goes to show a women can literally wear a thick blanket over her whole body and men will still sexually objectify her.

[@nanopanda]

even as a modest chick, abby doesnt even pick out cute coordinating undershirts? like, why not a cute white camisole? i dont like showing my boobs either but at least i can give better fasion advice.

[@951suzuki]

Abby Shapiro confuses me. Is it okay that I mainly see Ben in her face?

[@maggieallen5985]

With the amount of time her channel has been around and the amount of obnoxious ads she shoved at every person with corneas, I don’t think it’s view-shaming to suggest that her content is just not very good. She’s not someone super new, just starting out; she’s had time and eyeballs to prove herself by now.