Matthew Perry relies on family, friends through hard-earned sober life: Part 4

[@sandypenske9797]

He’s so very vulnerable in this interview with his honesty. He will help others because of his honesty.

[@havanascp9602]

Sure. Anything to make a bundle of money to sell his book. 😂😂

[@bgyd6687]

@@havanascp9602 It would be good for you and anyone to read his book. Everyone has their demons

[@Chatta_Box]

Who is these people these celebrities that become junkies are helping? drugs have been the most consistent thing in American society so who is being helped?

[@jasminateodorovic1248]

@@havanascp9602 Yeah. I'm sure with the yearly income from Friends he's in 'desparate' need of money. Typical troll-prick

[@moneymanifestation9505]

He's an actor 🤡help others do what? Become famous make lots of money and then say your depressed 🤡people have real issues not knowing when to stop drinking isn't a real problem 🙄but of course in America the offender is the victim 💯

[@anovosedlik]

Rest peacefully; you are an angel and your pain isn't your fault. Bless you, Matthew--you and the cast of friends are such a huge part of my childhood. Much love.

[@finnsteube9847]

Really shows you that even if someone seems on top of the world, you never really know what they could be struggling with

[@billjoe39]

Starring in some yuppie, vacuous sitcom puts you on top of the world.......ah, ok

[@billjoe39]

@Bad Company Lousy books indeed, but his family is from rosedale, one of canada's wealthiest neighborhoods, don't think he's heading to food banks soon.......poverty to these 'celebs' means only having $2 million in their bank accounts.

[@karentemple6306]

I'm 80 now~ but in the 70s I was a bartender and an alcoholic ~ tough life and a lot of times being beaten and cheated on. In 1980 I FINALLY found AA meetings. Kept going until it sunk in! You love yourself and I found a better life! I'm 43 years sober! My kids are proud of me and so am I!

[@soulovelee_2433]

Wow! And you made it to 80! Amazing, wonderful 🙌🏽

[@annsmith7207]

@bridgetfitzgerald5393 : I came into sober recovery on December 23, 2978 in my 20's. I come from a family of alcoholics and there is a genetic component to addiction. I do not blame anyone -- my drinking got me into every scrape I had and alcohol always was in the mix. If you are struggling -- there is hope and yes -- you will have a far better life and one that is beyond anything you could have imagined. It is your decision and yours alone to seek help for addiction -- if you want help. Blessings! And for @Karentemple6306: Keep on keeping on....a day at a time with gratitude !

[@rima7286]

you make your kids proud every single day and its amazing to read your story. hope you’re having a great day, friend.

[@teacupolous]

You made it! Keep going!!

[@Kamon8888]

Matthew Perry made huge wholesome deeds by opening up in his memoire, interviews to help people with addiction. This will go a long way even after his passing. He has a good and big heart. RIP Chandler/Matthew.

[@jdbhatts2912]

thank you for comments throughout the series

[@jjsquirdlesupastar3875]

He is so genuine. I wish him all the happiness in the world.

[@jjsquirdlesupastar3875]

@Bad Company yeah ok

[@tinylittlefilms3043]

This is painful to watch, yet the courage it takes to do this interview is remarkable.

[@javiruiz8365]

He talked about it 20 years ago!!! He is just trying to sell his book and he sounds drunk

[@SUGAR_XYLER]

@@javiruiz8365 true....maybe he's still trying to adjust to his false teeth 😬

[@javiruiz8365]

@@SUGAR_XYLER lol 😂 and his turkey 🦃 neck

[@currybase]

It's not courageous. He was likely paid for it.

[@Royalbob123]

agree

[@TheFlukesSLAMLL]

So many people are struggling with their own battles. I felt his wistfulness when watching him talk about not having the family he desired that the character he acted as had already achieved May he find what makes him happy in life and live his life out at peace.

[@dewilew2137]

I admire and respect him for being selfless enough to not make a bunch of children while in the depths of addiction. I know many addicts and most of them were not that responsible. The children suffer immensely. It’s almost like having no parent at all.

[@Posijax]

Amen

[@SUGAR_XYLER]

*He doesn't need children*

[@yankeegirl3380]

He's gonna be a dad. I can feel it.

[@GrainneScarlett]

​@@SUGAR_XYLER he doesn't need children but he wants them 😊

[@itsems92]

I honestly want to give him a hug. I had no idea how much he was struggling. Yes my parents watched friends when I was little . I think even said at one point he’s having trouble. I just didn’t know how much at the time . Chandler was always my favorite though. I guess i saw something in him. Anyway I’m glad he’s sober and being so open to anyone who maybe is in the same boat . Nothing but love for him here ❤

[@hippiecheezburger5457]

I’m really glad he got to do this interview and share his stories, drug addiction is a life long battle that’s never over. May he rest in peace, he can finally rest and move on

[@stephaniewilliams168]

Yes but still I feel he had so much more to give to the world

[@Sharyk808]

@@stephaniewilliams168. He learned what he needed and graduated from earth school. No one wants to be held back in school when they don’t have too. Be happy for him.👨🏻‍🎓

[@stephaniewilliams168]

@@Sharyk808yes

[@Brett.D]

@@Sharyk808 What nonsense...'graduated from earth school'...

[@rebeccahayhurst442]

What a brave and courageous interview from Matthew Perry. His honesty and openness will help so many others.

[@JeffreyGillespie]

As a recovered addict I know this is absolutely how it is. So sad we lost him ❤ …. It feels personal.

[@emptynester9241]

I had no idea how bad his addiction had caused havoc on him physically. His speech wow! He looks 62 not 52. The fact that he takes the blame on him self and not others is admirable

[@katrinaevans7588]

I hope he is at peace now.

[@arcticmonkey3]

Such a cunty comment. You’re not so young yourself big guy

[@C_StewieDewie]

I am a recovering alcoholic and I have sat listening to this story saying to myself..."he was me." I pray you stay sober Matty. You are worthy of a life of abundance, and I don't mean wealth. This testimony/interview will speak to those in that dark place like we once were and hopefully reach out for help. God will see you through....One day at a time....🙏🏻❤

[@Zig_Was_Here]

Thank goodness he got back on the right path for a year or two before he left us. He seemed to have been enjoying life in a great and sober way up until he left. Which is a win for all in his life, especially himself.

[@maggiestevenson5010]

Oh God! Listening to the song 'Don't Give Up' during this interview totally broke my heart because it was actually played at Matthew's funeral. Plus him talking about how close to death he was and how grateful he was that he survived. But this time you were taken sweet Matthew and the world is a sadder place without you in it 💔 ❤️ ♥️

[@JustMe-cs5zq]

Absolutely 💔❤️💔❤️💔

[@juanitabaly2318]

Brought me to tears when he saw his parents and played the song don’t give up. Well done to him and his support network.

[@dorinaleslie2586]

Thank you for your courage and for being vulnerable and sharing your story, Matthew. May your healing continue 💗

[@sonyaeast1463]

I am a Hail Mary survivor. This is the first time I've heard that term since it was told to my Son in 2016. I'm alive and a miracle. God saved me. God bless you Matthew.

[@yankeegirl3380]

Don't give up....that song is so beautiful and the message is so powerful. Don't give up, you have people who love you and you can start again and have a wonderful, beautiful life. That part of the interview touched my soul and got me in the gut because I have had to force myself to admit that there are people who love me. And I am so happy that Matthew has that. He was never alone during those 5 months in the hospital.. He has so many people who love him, including his mom and dad. And his stepparents who were parents, giving him love and support. Matthew is a beautiful, strong man and I'm happy he's with us. Thank YOU, GOD that we still have Matthew. God bless.

[@CaliWeHo]

❤😌

[@attagirl8620]

I really wish him all of the happiness in the world. It breaks my heart that he hasn’t been able to find his “one” yet or start a family. I hope that that does happen for him and that he’ll be able to enjoy both from a healthier place in his life 🙏🏻❤️

[@maddyjean4784]

This book blew my mind. Through many sections, my heart was racing so much that I had to walk away. I always came back. All the things we never saw.......

[@kimberleydownunder]

Really? 😮 I need to read it

[@user-dianejcml]

It's a profound, deeply honest and courageous book. So many emotions reading it especially now he is gone.

[@jameskeohane7778]

Even if you weren’t the biggest Friends fan, the terribly sad passing of Matthew Perry is a reminder that those who try and make you laugh the hardest often hardly laugh when they are with themselves. It’s probably good to check on them as regularly as we do others

[@user-dianejcml]

Yes. Well said ❤❤

[@laraoneal7284]

He’s been through so much. I hope he overcomes all addictions. God bless him.

[@SheRegalado99]

This interview made me cry.

[@natalijamartina]

Matthew, you are the best version of yourself! Don’t give up!🌈

[@warriorl8207]

This is so important to hear. Anyone who lives with addiction can totally identify the constant struggle to live, hide your habit afraid if anyone knows they will leave. Thinking your ok then go and use again.

[@AmandaSoaresMusic]

He has so much to offer, I really hope he finds someone

[@yankeegirl3380]

Makes two of us....he would be the best husband and father. Beneath the pain and sadness and addiction, is a sweet, kind, beautiful person. Praise GOD that Matthew is finally seeing that. God bless.

[@SUGAR_XYLER]

@@yankeegirl3380 Former addicts don't make good fathers...smh

[@jenaejenae-l3o]

@@SUGAR_XYLER I've seen so many examples that prove your theory wrong. I don't know what experience you have had...I think I've seen some of the very worst and the very best. Hopefully at some point you experience the good.

[@yankeegirl3380]

@@SUGAR_XYLER Those with the worst past create the best futures. Praise GOD for Matthew's future, family and all. God bless.

[@yvonnescully5037]

This is the most honest interview I've seen. Makes me teary eyed😪... Rest on a rainbow in Heaven, Matthew Perry. 🙏🙏🙏. Thank you for this interview and all the laughter🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹❤❤️❤️

[@SheRegalado99]

Nothing but love to you, Matty! I will include you in my daily prayers.

[@deniseterrell2515]

I wish him nothing but happiness… he has been through so much! I hope he can start loving himself! ♥️🙏

[@slaws2279]

It’s amazing he has such supportive friends and people in his life. Wish I had friends.

[@kindnesslove5482]

Take time to make them buddy when you can. And look for them in any place, never know where great friendship will come from. Peace and love from Norway. World is filled with love for everyone, but sometimes we get stuck in a bad place, isolate ourselves and the world goes fast by.

[@kimberlymisfit3544.]

You want one?

[@slaws2279]

@@kimberlymisfit3544. not online, thanks.

[@marybethfantozzi2258]

Matthew, don't give up and keep on trying. You are here for a reason- to help those who are going through what you have been through. Praying for you and all that fight this fight every day. 🙂🙏🥰

[@amygriesinger6285]

It’s sad he’s gone now

[@jamesni4498]

"Don't give up" is a song that helped me through some dark times as well.

[@abigailandino6251]

I lived to watch Friends and one day years later my daughter was hooked on it. I had a massive crush on Chandler and I noticed him getting sick and wondered for a while what it could be until it made public news that he was battling addiction. My God , the bowel perforation 😳 As a nurse I know how close he came to the other side. Wow. I still care about the cast and Google them occasionally as it is reminiscent of my youth and working in the city. I wish nothing but the best for him. Grateful that he shares about his depression and anxiety that drove him to self medicate and abuse drugs and alcohol. This helps so many people that I doubt he can fathom. ❤ There’s no more lonely feeling than feeling that you are the only one who feels a certain way. Sharing helps us all. ❤

[@vss5383]

Keep going Matty. We love you!

[@mrboult]

Legend for doing this! So sad to hear how bad it has been. Big love to you Mathew.

[@chelseadaley9770]

Mathew is such a great influence on others that care and love because he really derives more happiness and joy in his life because we all appreciate everything about him

[@rangozilla6274]

I hope Matthew can fully understand how his candidness in addressing his addiction will inevitably lead to others being able to have honest conversations with themselves and the ones they love, and ultimately result in many seeking help. Especially with respect to opiate addiction. It's no secret that opiate addiction has become a global issue that should no longer be ignored, but unfortunately it still is. Of any addiction, I think opiate addiction is the most pernicious, as it generally comes from a place of trust, we are far more susceptible to succumb to something given to us in good faith, but the warnings that accompany opiate prescription are either woefully under exaggerated or absent entirely. When someone like Matthew comes forward with their story, it helps to open up that conversation, while the fact Perry is such a well known, successfully and broadly appreciated talent, his message can be seen from a more human perspective and shine a light on the reality of such addictions, with no one being beyond the pull of these medications.

[@lukaa4559]

What a genuine human being..we care for you...too

[@dewilew2137]

Constipation from opioid abuse is no joke. One of the most painful things I’ve ever experienced, almost as bad as withdrawal itself. I never realized it could have actually killed me.

[@SledDog5678]

Elvis

[@AngelWhisper_7]

@@SledDog5678 Elvis didn't die of constipation. He died of a heart attack. Where the hell do you get your information? Because you need to stop listening to whoever is telling you that stuff

[@stevenicol1]

@@AngelWhisper_7 Elvis is rumoured to have died on the toilet squeezing out a poo.

[@ricknowak4582]

@@AngelWhisper_7 The Melissa, Elvis died of a heart attack brought on by constipation! Duh! A scene in the sopranos the guy was on the toilet yeah constipation and he died too! When you're plugged up for 4 or 5 or 6 days and you're on a toilet grunting and holding your breath and pushing and pushing sure you could die of a heart attack.

[@amandabillingsley9436]

It’s either constipation or the opposite😂 it makes me shiver to remember.

[@s.p.baughman7885]

That is awesome Matthew your story will help a lot of people....Everyone has battles some more than others ,in the storms of life God will see you through...

[@slimkim2506]

Very brave to share his story!! Much respect

[@sunshineflower1922]

What an incredible honest guy!! Rest easy my friend! You made so many of us happy ❤🙏🏻

[@jackedkerouac4414]

Everyone should read his book. It made me analyze my own life and relationships. Powerful stuff

[@frofro7134]

i have read his book! i wanted to cry... so sincere and painful but can help people to undrstand! Greetings from Tricity in Poland!

[@dareU2]

I love Matthew Perry as a H addict I applaud the courage 2do this interview.....wish him all the happiness in the world.......gives me hope that I 1day will b able 2b sober.......💛

[@Dawg2005]

You got this!!!

[@marciadeverteuil5327]

Mathew you took your good life for granted for too long now it's time to be grateful for all the blessings that have come your way and to live like it's your last day

[@bj7057]

I never watched that show but I feel so bad for him. He could barely get a smile out. I pray he continues his sobriety and therapy.

[@juleshiggins-ellicott2222]

You never watched Friends??????? You really must. Literally best show ever.

[@henrik5284]

It’s amazing to see so many strangers rooting for a guy they don’t know, probably for 99,9% never met either. I think it must be because as audience and bystanders everyone including myself has got the clear feeling that Matthew Perry is a nice guy. So we want only the best for him 🙂👍

[@baharehzgh]

I will always love Matty❤️

[@ZOEYANDFRIENDS673]

Childhood Trauma CPTSD. He was abandoned, and neglected; children internalized feelings of not being loveable, and messes with their attachment style. His mom neglected him. and his father took off.

[@ZeuzBluez]

He s a good hearted person. Wish him the best of luck.

[@chains1436]

thankyou sooooo much for appearing on the friends reunion. 🥺❤️

[@TaniaMarie424]

Matthew Perry, you definitely matter! We see you and we hear you! You are enough ❤️❤️❤️

[@standupphilosopher7059]

Agree i appreciate his vulnerability and honesty. I know he will inspire others even after his death. I wish only you lived longer💔 I'm dealing with depression people still don't understand that you cant just stop being sad. I believe its a disease too. May you be at peace now😔

[@robertbishop5357]

The problem with addiction is that it's always looking over your shoulder waiting for the opportunity to pull you back in. I've seen and heard of so many who had 1, 2, 10, 20 years relapse and die from an overdose. Sad but true. True recovery means that you go to meetings daily, get a sponsor and stay in touch, develop a true support system of people that not only care for you, also hold you accountable daily. Be completely honest with others and especially yourself.

[@stephaniewilliams168]

Yes but I feel there deeper issues beyond addiction

[@n.ll.8796]

How does all that keep you clean ? Iam so glad that i drank responsible. Do things in moderation eat things sparingly & so on !!!

[@ronfender8101]

seems like a big hearted guy but super sensitive which is OK!!! You can feel it, a Good soul...

[@firouzehbanijamali8013]

Don't give up by Peter Gabriel hit me very hard every time I listen to it, Matthew.😢

[@jc2333]

He’s talented , I wish him well to get over his addiction demons .

[@VoteBlue4Peace-LoveInUSAagain]

It's so wonderful to see him sober and alive. ✌🏼❤️🖖🏼

[@ralph3986]

His story sounds like he had early-on devastating emotional problems that put him at a disadvantage dealing with day to day. Took very bad life choises, didn't have anyone to show him the way untill too late and paid the price. It seemed he was in a good place in his life when he passed on, though. Now his struggle is finally over. God keep you, Matthew! 🙏🏻

[@stephaniewilliams168]

Yes and when he became famous the problems only worsened

[@Sharyk808]

Parents divorced moved to canada with mom. Mom worked for prime minister. Stepdad Keith Morrison. Dad actor/model. He has step and half siblings. He moved to LA at 16 to be actor. Started drinking.

[@orilimi]

Quand il a rencontré bruce willis il s'est dégradé.. il voulait être comme lui être célèbre ​@@stephaniewilliams168

[@princesssadieloo]

Awww! My cutie MP! Best wishes for a Healthy and happy life! 💐

[@missrach88]

Heartbroken is an understatement. We will miss you so much xx 💔💔💔

[@HorseheadNebula85]

I absolutely adore his insights about feeling insecure in relationships. Men are absolutely conditioned these days to be insecure about ourselves. And in dating it's especially difficult to feel at peace with yourself, especially when you're with someone who you're genuinely physically (and emotionally) attracted to. I did this dance with my wife for months before I finally let go and allowed myself to be vulnerable with her. It coincided with the death of one of my best friends, so she had to be my emotional support during a very hard time for me. To this day (16 years later), I love her for that. Fellas, even celebrities like Matthew Perry get scared of interesting, beautiful women. Embrace your fear. Seek out someone you really, really want.

[@GrannyGrice]

Thank you for sharing this… it truly does help

[@renataklopcsik5162]

God kept him for us. Please give some great work for him, so we can enjoy the talent what he has 🙏🙏

[@S_J_banana]

0:27 this breaks my heart. He deserved a wife and kids. He deserved so much longer on this planet than he got 😢

[@1286cassandra]

Don’t Give Up was played for me by friends when I was having a difficult time. I will never forget that either. It is a challenge to stay sober.

[@sharonharrison3611]

God rest his soul. I watched my dad through years of drinking a lot. He finally decided to give it up four years before he died. 💙

[@nicolovirardi7178]

Watching this after his death hits different 💔😪

[@Cathy7167]

I’m worried about him. But I wish him the best and respect him for doing this interview

[@et4able]

Oh my gosh I love this guy.

[@MrBurnley21]

Big love to you Matthew, keep the faith. Love from East Yorkshire, England

[@traceyraybould7863]

What a man. Good luck Matty. You are enough. ❤️🇬🇧

[@robertporter1143]

I really think Perry is helping many others. Thank you for sharing

[@johncadogan9450]

Strange how different minds work, I was an alchoholic for twenty years, then I decided to talk myself out of alcholism by picturing myself in the future as either dead from alcohol or causing damage to my friends and family, I did this evereyday for a month. then walking down some stairs in a building one day I pictured myself leaving that building and the alcohol behind, it worked no AA just left it behind, and now 15 years on I can walk into a bar with my wife order her a drink, and the joke always is don't worry about me I'll stand in the corner and kick the cat, but seriously I just gave up the booze that day and the rest of my happy life is history, I just hope Mathew can see the end of that shiny tunnel that leads to a happy life as well, good luck mate from a sober Aussie.

[@zaz4667]

He can do it! Stay sober and be happy with himself and what he has!

[@enduring22]

I pray he never gives up..keep going...alive for a purpose

[@leighterry943]

His struggle really breaks my 💜! I look back at Friends & realized he was my favorite! Funny & Hot, a winning combo. I wish u all the best Matt; u deserve so much 💜! U are so strong & brave, stronger than u can imagine. Your best role is valiant Matt, who has overcome so many obstacles, many times over, when the first time would’ve broken anyone. You are a beautiful soul who inspires all and makes us want to be a better version of ourselves! Thank U for your honesty, Candor, and vulnerability. You are my hero & an extraordinarily beautiful soul. Wishing you love, health, happiness, and continued sobriety.💛🌟🥰🎁✝️

[@barefootlovers]

God bless him for sharing

[@Glm867]

He’s come soooo far and I need to read his book ❤💯

[@psirlecsdive]

I adore you man. God bless you.

[@amit_c]

It was the love and affection of millions and millions of people from across the continents who he made laugh that bought him back from death bed. Lots of Love from India Chandeler🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@mynolinp6015]

Sadly enough.... first time I see Matthew not goofing around or make any joke...not even a single laugh....he was definitely deeply troubled , visible affected mentally and physically fighting his demons...Rest in Peace Mathew...you made my life happier for decades... watching your show again and again since childhood.

[@peterwilliamson8721]

Stay healthy Matt, I hope you find happiness.

[@JustMe-cs5zq]

Regardless of what dear, sweet Matty did or didn't do, I love you forever and ever ❤️💔❤️💔❤️

[@marymoontarot888]

Thank you for sharing your story Matthew! It matters that we see past the masks that we all wear.

[@lisa1234cv]

I love that show . Very good cast . I mean literally a great comedy.

[@armageddon6952]

Rip...the fight is over❤😢proverbs 14:13"even in laughter the heart mauly be in pain..."depression and anxiety can wear many masks..never be judgemental, in a cruel world ruled by evil...be kind❤

[@LeahRobb]

My dearest friend relapsed into his heroin addiction after we'd known each other for just 6 months. It was so devastating and yeah, I recognise Matthew's point that anything that happens, good or bad can lead to a relapse. It must be awful to live on that knife edge. The problemt I experienced was, that I got the blame for any 'loss of balance' and that's so distructive for friendships with addicts. I miss him. I hope he survives to find the solution to living a drug-free life without any more relapses, but...I have lost that friendship. 😢

[@daisi4925]

Prayers to you. I hope things will settle in your life.

[@yulimoonshine]

I wish he could have had what he wanted in the end :(. Rest well Matthew. I hope you have everything you could ever want in the next life

[@noviembre.rz1]

1:24 its so much like a Bojack's journey irl, including the peace and clarity at the end

[@3lackwoodmusic]

I love this man.

[@Sundayvibe5]

omg matthew you are loved by millions know that pls rip

[@laceylyons5800]

Great book, I cried for him, so sad

[@mmsspiritualjourney1448]

When you realized that you’re a spiritual being, you’re more than your physical body and when you have had enough of a certain experience, e.g alcohol / drug, then you can let it go because your mind is much more powerful than your physical body! I started drinking when I was 18, I remember there were times when I was drunk 3 times a week with all the vomiting memory and bruises on my body which I didn’t even recall. One day I learnt that how the evil spirits can take over your soul when you’re drunk, I no longer let that happen. Overnight decision to stop drinking, and it’s been 2 year haven’t had any.

[@justinpieces1856]

Wishing you, happiness, love, health and wealth Matthew, always. You are never alone. If you believe in you, like God and I do, then you will start each day with 3 already in your corner. I'm proud of you. ((Hugs)) from my side of the anthill my friend. Keep fighting the fight.

[@amylee3531]

I don't follow celebrity gossip stuff, and I don't have cable tv/satellite. I didn't know all this stuff Mathew went through. I am glad he was able to honestly enjoy sober life before he passed. I wish he could've had more years to enjoy it. 💕 to those who knew the real Mathew.