US surgeon general declares loneliness epidemic

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ABC News

ABC News

Жыл бұрын

Clinical psychologist Dr. Jeff Gardere discusses the health risks associated with loneliness and the new advisory issued by Surgeon General Vivek Murthy to address what he called an epidemic.

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@river13
@river13 Жыл бұрын
People are too tired trying to make ends meet to go out and be social not to mention it costs money. I think being overworked and underpaid is killing people and is an epidemic. People do not have time to even enjoy a hobby. We are a society of hyper individualism.
@r0991b
@r0991b Жыл бұрын
Spot on! Capitalism run amok and billionaires squeezing every last penny out of us is the major driver for nearly every societal problem today.
@tami4peace
@tami4peace Жыл бұрын
Great point. It’s beyond sad.
@Zoolama34709
@Zoolama34709 Жыл бұрын
A someone who works works and works and still struggling to pay rent. I can relate to what you are saying. Also we live in different times too. With all the craziness happening with shootings,fentanyl and so on is so hard to trust people. Having a pet and being with love ones is the best cure for loneliness ❤
@IemonandIime
@IemonandIime Жыл бұрын
are you kidding? poor people can talk to each other too. there's not an "epidemic of loneliness" in third world countries.
@river13
@river13 Жыл бұрын
@@IemonandIime We are not a third world country, comparing apples to oranges totally different way of life. You saying that people are not having issues making ends meet on a full time job? What study are you referring to that they did in any third world country about loneliness?
@boostedhatch3
@boostedhatch3 Жыл бұрын
It’s funny how much energy and care I give my coworkers. People call or text and I lend an ear but none of them ever do so for me. I reverted back to isolation recently and nobody has reached out. I’m working out and walking but I have things I can’t handle myself
@Dariusvoice
@Dariusvoice Жыл бұрын
Same
@arebelscum9495
@arebelscum9495 Жыл бұрын
Same
@allahlovesyou7241
@allahlovesyou7241 Жыл бұрын
😮🥺
@the.seagull.35
@the.seagull.35 Жыл бұрын
Hey 🤝 how are things going?
@jRex918
@jRex918 Жыл бұрын
Everybody is a bunch of cowards. They are too scared to show you that they care about you.
@DistrustHumanz
@DistrustHumanz Жыл бұрын
As a hotel pro for 25+ years, I have managed hotels from the Florida coast to the Colorado Front Range. I have accumulated a lifetime's experience of dealing with the public in general. We have developed a toxic society that serves the narcissists at the expense of tolerant personalities, and the narcissists are in control now. I'm retired now, never going to work with the public again. Best of luck to the rest of you.
@jRex918
@jRex918 Жыл бұрын
Very true. This system rewards awful behavior and punishes good behavior. The psychopaths are living like kings while good decent people struggle to survive.
@meloneymoore8856
@meloneymoore8856 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for stating this. You are right, today's world serves cluster B personalities at the expense of us healthy personalities which is abuse, neglectful and isolating.
@reformedstoic1581
@reformedstoic1581 Жыл бұрын
cheers
@2Teefive1
@2Teefive1 Жыл бұрын
Number 1. Social Media Number 2. Narcissism That's why having God in your life is so important to help us. Besides what I posted above we are dealing with so many other things that has even separated families and even people in church. It's very BAD. To help read the Holy Bible and what I do pray the Holy Rosary. There also apps to help like Hallow app. We are living in very big different times.
@untitled001tm
@untitled001tm Жыл бұрын
Wow….
@WilmerCook
@WilmerCook 8 ай бұрын
After my wife of 30yrs died, I grieved and lived in utter loneliness for 3yrs. Most of my friends are dead to. Now after 7yrs I am still alone but happy. I try to make the best of everything at 76yrs old. I must endeavor to persevere!
@dwight246
@dwight246 7 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry 😞
@justdinku9042
@justdinku9042 6 ай бұрын
How did you do it?
@j3in725
@j3in725 5 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear 🫂
@holidaypenguin
@holidaypenguin Ай бұрын
I'm proud of you :) I'm sure your wife would be proud as well
@KillenEMsoftly
@KillenEMsoftly Жыл бұрын
Cell phones and social media ruined our body's needs for personal connections. We've replaced it with connecting to youtubers/influencers that don't even know we exist.
@Frogman1212
@Frogman1212 Жыл бұрын
People wouldn't go to influencers if they had real friends to begin with
@aaronaustrie
@aaronaustrie Жыл бұрын
Facts 😢
@enriquerodriguezjr4466
@enriquerodriguezjr4466 Жыл бұрын
Hip Hop actually ruins first then net and finally smartphones!
@ChillingTales12
@ChillingTales12 Жыл бұрын
​@@enriquerodriguezjr4466 Hip hop? Really?
@PolskiKrajowa
@PolskiKrajowa Жыл бұрын
​@@ChillingTales12 no it all went bad with those darn news papers and the radios
@matthewwillis4892
@matthewwillis4892 Жыл бұрын
Divisive politics/ politicians are doing a lot of damage.
@Days-ru8jh
@Days-ru8jh Жыл бұрын
Bro like, I hate being alone but I like being alone It’s hard to explain.
@ChrisPBacon198
@ChrisPBacon198 9 ай бұрын
I Understand I Feel The Same Way
@mattiascarlen6152
@mattiascarlen6152 4 ай бұрын
Same
@tallbeanerboi6915
@tallbeanerboi6915 4 ай бұрын
You crave connections with people. But the ones around you have done you wrong. I know that feeling too well.
@omerta316
@omerta316 3 ай бұрын
Yes
@AloneInTheVoid
@AloneInTheVoid 20 күн бұрын
This isn't about being alone this is about loneliness. You can be lonely around people, and you can be completely satisfied being alone. Two different things. I love aloneness!! I often go three weeks or more without talking to, or seeing another person. I'm not lonely… I'm alone… and I love it!!!
@lil_dak_1587
@lil_dak_1587 6 ай бұрын
I hate that so many people say that they're lonely, but when I ask them if they want to do something like go for a walk with me, or go out for coffee with me, they say they'd rather stay inside scrolling through Instagram looking at people who have (seemingly) better lives than them.
@Newlaw289
@Newlaw289 8 ай бұрын
US Government: *strikes fear and panic and divides the nation* Same Government: Why you so lonely?
@Hardawayfits
@Hardawayfits 7 ай бұрын
So true...I can't wait to leave this place😢
@sterlthepearl1000
@sterlthepearl1000 Жыл бұрын
If your feeling lonely, the message your mind is trying to tell you, is that you need to connect with someone, or a group of people. Nobody is an island.
@truthspeaker1508
@truthspeaker1508 Жыл бұрын
Ppl don’t know how to connect anymore though. You meet people and they add you on social media. This is a world wide issue.
@sterlthepearl1000
@sterlthepearl1000 Жыл бұрын
@@truthspeaker1508 Yes they do. It's just because their selfish.
@Zabiru-
@Zabiru- 9 ай бұрын
Every human being is an island to some extent, it's just up to each and every one of us to do what we can to build bridges and venture out to others to form bonds. The ease with which this used to be possible in the past has rapidly diminished with the ephemeral and temporary nature of relationships these days which is a consequence of the changes society has gone through, in part, because of the rise of social media and the individualism that followed.
@sterlthepearl1000
@sterlthepearl1000 8 ай бұрын
We're all connected to each other biologically, to the earth chemically, and to the rest of the universe atomically@@Zabiru-
@KellyMartin0902
@KellyMartin0902 6 ай бұрын
A lot of men dont understand the purpose of friendships or connection. They view relationships as transactional.
@jt-gd3pq
@jt-gd3pq Жыл бұрын
The number of people having to end up making ends meet because of their last experience shows that we are so far from learning from each other. I empathized with those who are struggling with loneliness we did not come to this planet alone we should help each other.
@AAA19999
@AAA19999 Жыл бұрын
I live in London, UK and find most friendship superficial and fleeting, think its the "me me me" world we live in nowadays; the sad reality is if everyone else is like that you have to be like that too
@tami4peace
@tami4peace Жыл бұрын
It’s the sad truth…so many are suffering right now.
@giacobbeperales5926
@giacobbeperales5926 Жыл бұрын
Yes it is. I hope you find peace.
@avivacohen8785
@avivacohen8785 Жыл бұрын
It really is, especially for the elderly. A feeling of uselessness and bordom
@coolfool2100
@coolfool2100 Жыл бұрын
True, but also millennials are starting to feel the brunt of it. No money to socialize, overworked, not enough time. Times are bad
@life4trinity
@life4trinity 10 ай бұрын
They must go through so much, I don't know how they do it if I'm struggling already.
@user-be6ec3dc4t
@user-be6ec3dc4t Жыл бұрын
I been alone in past 20 years of my life and I am quite happy and actually I find happiness to be being just me!
@kalebnbrown
@kalebnbrown Жыл бұрын
The research is reporting patterns of behavior.
@Unpopular_0pinion
@Unpopular_0pinion Жыл бұрын
Wish I had someone to talk about this with 👀
@allahlovesyou7241
@allahlovesyou7241 Жыл бұрын
❤😊
@the.seagull.35
@the.seagull.35 Жыл бұрын
Well you've got the yt comment section haha. I'm here too.
@Unpopular_0pinion
@Unpopular_0pinion Жыл бұрын
@@the.seagull.35 Why do you suppose we're in this loneliness?
@the.seagull.35
@the.seagull.35 Жыл бұрын
@@Unpopular_0pinion I guess there are a lot of reasons. We have technology that keeps us from having to interact with real humans. We have remote offices, remote classrooms, online retail, even self checkout lanes. We had a pandemic that hung around a long time. I think the way it kept cycling again and again, eventually led us to just accept life in quarantine. For me though it started a long time ago. I got rejected and outcast and I was always pretty sensitive. So I've been living this way for a long time. The upside is, its brought me close to God. So he even used all these things for my good. What about you what do you think?
@grimefighter8867
@grimefighter8867 Жыл бұрын
You can start right here!
@Ashley-xb1dz
@Ashley-xb1dz Жыл бұрын
This is truly an environment issue, few reasons to walk around, car based society, not a lot of places or reasons to meet new people. There are plenty of ways we can address this and a fair amount aren't even that hard to do. Some may blame technology but I've made quite a lot of friends from tech.
@sebastianfernandez8613
@sebastianfernandez8613 5 ай бұрын
Naw the people to blame are those at the top. They make life miserable for the vast majority because of greed. For what purpose does any individual need billions? So many people are overworked and over stressed. We just want to enjoy life and the rich drain us of vitality.
@olympic-ass-eater
@olympic-ass-eater 5 ай бұрын
Everyone prefer social media and tiktok. Not a lot of people want to hang out anymore. Everyone is constantly on their phones.
@thepinkestpigglet7529
@thepinkestpigglet7529 4 ай бұрын
Right? Where are people supposed to meet new people when everyone is at work during business hours
@selah7702
@selah7702 Жыл бұрын
Great interview and the host is very kind!
@eurodiaz3712
@eurodiaz3712 Жыл бұрын
Conservative or liberal. This can hit home to anyone. But I have to say I'm past the point of loneliness which means I'm not going to die from it lol. The way people talk to each other on social media is so ugly in the name of virtue signaling and so fake. bottom line is learn how to be comfortable with yourself
@052970
@052970 4 ай бұрын
I was lonely for years but then used my local planet fitness and library to meet people. The moment I went around introducing myself, I made friends instantly. These places are opened to meeting new people. I’ve had theses friends for months to years now and we meet up at the planet fitness or library several times a week to engage and interact. It’s great.
@LancerXDS
@LancerXDS Жыл бұрын
I like being alone, its gets me away from all the BS, drama and trouble that could arise. My best friends are streaming devices
@janeeyx5672
@janeeyx5672 9 ай бұрын
Same lol.
@thepinkestpigglet7529
@thepinkestpigglet7529 4 ай бұрын
Keep telling yourself that
@BtheLee11
@BtheLee11 Жыл бұрын
he's asking for the impossible. He's asking for employers to start giving employees even MORE time off. They're already throwing a fit about "quiet quitting"
@SoChilledOutGuy
@SoChilledOutGuy Жыл бұрын
Imagine if we actually got paid our fair share and had more reasonable hours. INB4 some sad saps reply with “I WORK 1000000 HOURS A WEEK AND WANNA WORK MORE YOU WEAK SNOWFLAKE” I just wanna be with my family.
@danceteacherrlb
@danceteacherrlb Жыл бұрын
You took away our community and society through fear, division, and making everything about money and buying instead of spending time with others. Of course we have all wound up alone.
@jRex918
@jRex918 Жыл бұрын
Everybody is paranoid in my neighborhood and constantly calling the cops for any reason. It's really annoying. Everybody is a bunch of workaholics too. All of my friends left the city to make more money somewhere else.
@mikebaird6788
@mikebaird6788 Жыл бұрын
While they're partially right they're not absolutely right a lot of people are very happy being alone you can be alone and still be very happy as long as you live a productive life and stay busy
@rtoriq
@rtoriq Жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is so one-sided
@cicatrene99
@cicatrene99 Жыл бұрын
Cope
@jordans2177
@jordans2177 Жыл бұрын
Wrong
@pikachuchujelly7628
@pikachuchujelly7628 11 ай бұрын
If you're comfortable being alone, you're not lonely. Loneliness is discomfort from craving human interaction and not getting it.
@life4trinity
@life4trinity 10 ай бұрын
It's gonna catch up to you eventually
@blackOneTime
@blackOneTime Жыл бұрын
Don't wanna go out side . Because of gun violence
@marc8750
@marc8750 Жыл бұрын
People have been becoming more antisocial for several years. We failed to teach people social media and remote work isn’t a replacement for face-to-face connection. It is extremely more concerning for millennials and younger gens.
@Ronnymikkonen2686
@Ronnymikkonen2686 7 ай бұрын
I think you meant asocial! Antisocial is different.it bends to criminals.
@agr0nianTV
@agr0nianTV 10 ай бұрын
Very interesting. I'm glad the surgeon general really brought this to the public eye
@karenthomas4849
@karenthomas4849 10 ай бұрын
We were much more connected before social media, it gave a false sense of connection.
@Asterisks12
@Asterisks12 Жыл бұрын
i mean....social media, materialism, indoctrination of a competitive society etc......
@judigemini178
@judigemini178 2 ай бұрын
All a result of the scarcity mindset-based economic system known as: Capitalism
@mechanicaltypewriteroperat9885
@mechanicaltypewriteroperat9885 Жыл бұрын
I wish they can measure unemployment, disposable income and/or low income (maybe below state and/or federal poverty limits). Is hard for an unemployed and/or person living below poverty to socialize because it takes money. Transportation costs, party and get together expenses, gifts, social events, gym memberships, personal training, dining, amusement parks, or any private places where there are people generally cost admission and other form of billing. Conversely, someone with a lot of income and/or wealth can choose to stay home to perhaps attend more prestigious social events and/or other reasons. In this case this person can choose, the opposite of loneliness because of poverty. ---As for public libraries, I do not know. Many of our experiences with public librarians are bad. Almost all the time I use self-service and query my own search to holding the materials, but they just love to waste taxpayers time and do simple queries again, many times they do not check in the items meaning you have to do a controlled check-in with return receipts. The items are suddenly on the shelf and I incur junk fees. Many times, the items get lost in transit also. If anything, there should be a place where there are taxpayers only where they can socialize with themselves no with arrogant public employees. These public employees many times think they own the place in fact they don’t. Basically, the experience of going to public libraries is so bad that we still prefer checking out virtually to boycott these unpleasant and government waste human interactions. -Another thing too is this whole thing of listening… When someone states their unsolvable problems such as poverty and someone just listens sometimes it is actually worse because now is one more person that knows about it and there’s still no solution. Many people exploit on the poor they are known as gangsters, drug dealers, con artists, bottom feeders, to even people who dislike to poor and/or other similar characteristics. Even coworkers will ‘backstab’ you by broadcasting these problems to other coworkers, supervisor and/or managers when it is not necessary. Lost of trust. Sometimes, they do this because they want your position and/or sees you as a treat their job security.
@shanidirk7079
@shanidirk7079 Жыл бұрын
gee i wonder why this is so big in a country that promotes "hyper individualism", Go to other countries and family and community are alot bigger part of peoples lives. Obviously there are still lonely people in other countries but its only getting worse and worse in 'murica
@marcoscabezolajr.8408
@marcoscabezolajr.8408 9 ай бұрын
I hope the hyper individualism ends or America will lose a lot of people
@thepinkestpigglet7529
@thepinkestpigglet7529 4 ай бұрын
So about japanese hikikomori
@Hardawayfits
@Hardawayfits 7 ай бұрын
THEY BETTER NOT CLOSE THE LIBRARIES. THIS WILL BE MY FIRST TIME PROTESTING 😢😮
@godblesschild808
@godblesschild808 Жыл бұрын
Im sad and alone my wife died wishing someone was there for me to talk to a nice lady to talk to and hug me 😢😢
@ModestNeophyte
@ModestNeophyte 10 ай бұрын
I am so lonely it hurts in my chest. It's so bad that it's led to me forming a plan.
@WilmerCook
@WilmerCook 7 ай бұрын
And what plan is it?
@bazil4146
@bazil4146 Жыл бұрын
A good way to solve loneliness is to simply not make our cities car dependent. If we make walkable cities that do not require a car to do your day-to-day activities, people will hang out more and people will not be spread apart.
@kevinjeter724
@kevinjeter724 Жыл бұрын
3rd world countries have walkable cities and neighborhoods. If you stand outside your house for 5 minutes you will see dozens of people walk by, this includes kids, adults, and elderly.
@Zoolama34709
@Zoolama34709 Жыл бұрын
@@kevinjeter724 Not Just 3rd world countries dude🤦🏽‍♀️ Other developed nations have walkable cities. Like Europe,Canada and Australia!
@lifelive-gr1wr
@lifelive-gr1wr Жыл бұрын
I’m an 80s baby and lived in the city all my life. The city was car dependent back then. And loneliness wasn’t a problem until people became dependent on their cell phones AirPods and social media. You can walk around the city all you want and people will be walking with ear phones in their ears and phones in their hands and still not interacting with one another.
@somerandomguy7458
@somerandomguy7458 Жыл бұрын
Its not cars, its social media
@thepinkestpigglet7529
@thepinkestpigglet7529 4 ай бұрын
​@@lifelive-gr1wrI didn't have a cellphone till I was 18 and I still felt isolated.
@M2KKA
@M2KKA 6 ай бұрын
I only think about taking my life when i feel lonely... i think we can all agree with that sediment.
@HagiaFantasia
@HagiaFantasia Жыл бұрын
You can thank the government for encouraging people to be suspicious of each other and try to do everything by ourselves. This is all their fault
@HagiaFantasia
@HagiaFantasia Жыл бұрын
@@oweng4244 he wasn't the only one. I'm not just talking about the republican party. It's the Democrats fault too. Them bickering back and forth blaming each other for everything spreads to us all. It's embarrassing and pathetic and makes us look like an easy target to exploit by our adversaries.
@arebelscum9495
@arebelscum9495 Жыл бұрын
​@Owen G He be coming back for round 2.
@arebelscum9495
@arebelscum9495 Жыл бұрын
@Owen G Well there is a risk to that. He seems to be copying the Democrats strategy of ballot harvesting that served them well in the previous elections. This strategy helped Republicans pick up seats in California which basically is unheard of. So please don't get your hopes up just for them to be destroyed.
@TJ5897
@TJ5897 Жыл бұрын
Done at the behest of corporations
@HagiaFantasia
@HagiaFantasia Жыл бұрын
@@TJ5897 yes and the corporations are in bed with and donate to politicians
@lloydfrancis9149
@lloydfrancis9149 4 ай бұрын
I honestly try to talk to people and to be honest im tired of it. I make friends with strangers but people can't be bothered. It's the same thing in London England. In Dallas Texas they are a bit more friendly in San Diego California people seem happy. I now embrace it and felt comfortable during covid and I talk to God often and his son Jesus Christ. God is a good friend
@Bleutabbies
@Bleutabbies 6 ай бұрын
It’s because we are all realizing we’re just slaves with no future or hope.
@lazarusblackwell6988
@lazarusblackwell6988 Ай бұрын
Thats a big reason i agree. The biggest one probably.
@Discoverleadership7
@Discoverleadership7 Жыл бұрын
I agree with some of y'all I do like my time to myself but no one wants to be lonely 24 hours out the day
@jockiardsviscosclansoatlan8412
@jockiardsviscosclansoatlan8412 10 ай бұрын
🇨🇦 Where are the old malls we went to before high school & bars/pubs after work? Can anyone announce daily meetups at those places?
@hurricane7727
@hurricane7727 2 ай бұрын
Malls are Gone now.
@Thagy1973
@Thagy1973 Жыл бұрын
All I can say is that this is very, very real for me and it sucks!
@LyricLockerEntertain
@LyricLockerEntertain Жыл бұрын
If we're going to really talk about this stuff and fix the problem of loneliness we first need a platform that will allow us to voice our issues without them being erased. . . I wrote an entire paragraph about my experience and then I try to go back to the comment and it's gone. Very triggering.. . I said nothing gross or ugly and my comment was removed. I just don't understand.
@taroinabox
@taroinabox Жыл бұрын
Walked out this morning I don't believe what I saw A hundred billion bottles washed up on the shore Seems I'm not alone in being alone A hundred billion castaways looking for a home
@h.davidburstein3578
@h.davidburstein3578 Жыл бұрын
I have written a book “Smartphones Don’t Give Hugs “ that provides some good insight and guidance.
@freezius13
@freezius13 4 ай бұрын
"Feeling lonely epidemic" is spreading because youth is kicking god out of their head. They're not thinking that "God is with them we're not alone" When God gets missing from society, Society Crumbles.
@052970
@052970 4 ай бұрын
Is the “connection to fitting in and belonging” actually causing isolation and loneliness to be our new brave environment?
@shonaharris9328
@shonaharris9328 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I’ve not had any actual real friendships for a long time. Everyone has moved away and I have my husband and coworkers and adult son and no one else.
@e5m956
@e5m956 3 ай бұрын
Lucky to have a underground ATV hotspot where I've been meeting like minded people and we ride ATVs all day on days off. Problem is, riding ATVs in my state is illegal so we take the chance of fines and impoundedment but its all we got. Our riding spot has been in the news lol. Just not allowed to have fun anymore.
@meloneymoore8856
@meloneymoore8856 Жыл бұрын
I've been forced into isolation and loneliness for 8 years caused by coercive control being inflicted upon me by CEO Gail Beadroux of Elevance Health formerly Anthem Inc.
@enriqueoliva6988
@enriqueoliva6988 Жыл бұрын
Pick a hobby that you like, don't get lonesome.
@SuhGhamma
@SuhGhamma Жыл бұрын
Has to be a female. No concept of loneliness.
@Gguy061
@Gguy061 Жыл бұрын
I put so much effort into making myself an individual that it's impossible for me to connect with anyone. Anyone wanna gush about modernist classical music and james bond films?
@yearyear1694
@yearyear1694 2 күн бұрын
I’ll tell you one thing. It’s better to be alone than being with someone who you don’t like
@fgjsdfgjkl
@fgjsdfgjkl 8 ай бұрын
i thought the pic of the surgeon general was one of those pics with the eye and mouth emoji edited over the face lmao :(
@fgjsdfgjkl
@fgjsdfgjkl 8 ай бұрын
man looks like a cartoon
@OperatorBanditAirsoft
@OperatorBanditAirsoft 9 ай бұрын
I'm always lonely for two years and I want to stop it.
@Hardawayfits
@Hardawayfits 7 ай бұрын
Go have fun buddy. Talk to strangers.
@olympic-ass-eater
@olympic-ass-eater 5 ай бұрын
​@@Hardawayfits > Talk to 2 stranger I met at the hood > Got robbed instead
@joefriendly
@joefriendly Жыл бұрын
It's all my fault. I figured out the solution to loneliness 40 years ago, a scientific breakthrough, and didn't publish: The way to get past our nation's hangup on looks, etc., is for us to realize there is usually an exceptional, extraordinary, mutual appreciation of the way the other's mind works between people of birthdays about 6 months apart. That provides basis for coupling along with good friendships. Why is birthday such a big deal? Birthday is a fundamental dimension, phase, of the annual cycle of daily levels of arriving solar energy in our environment, that human infants have evolved to respond to with systematic neural networking patterns. What is sorely needed are social forms providing opportunity for people of appropriate "complementary" birthdays to meet. For starters, tho, just mentioning your birthday on your facebook page and requesting matches of the appropriate birthday range to contact you might be of benefit to form friendships as well as coupling.
@joefriendly
@joefriendly Жыл бұрын
An additional dimension to the loneliness problem is our confused culture's notions of male and female.
@madmax8949
@madmax8949 6 ай бұрын
I used to be a people person until I got around people! I have a select few that I interact and spend time with, but the rest I try to avoid.
@natashacello3057
@natashacello3057 4 ай бұрын
i find myself crying while watching this
@commonsense504
@commonsense504 Жыл бұрын
Seems like lonliness is about as deadly as the clot shots. Go figure. 🤷🏼‍♂️
@terrybumpass4799
@terrybumpass4799 Жыл бұрын
Wanna help someone? Just listen. Maybe you need to do more after that, but this is real.
@Redawesomeoby
@Redawesomeoby Жыл бұрын
0:25 missed opportunity for a Billy Joel reference
@willsini8942
@willsini8942 Жыл бұрын
Everybody fake so no duhh I rather be alone than get trapped
@caramela4830
@caramela4830 Жыл бұрын
The top 5 things people regret on their death bed. 1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me. 2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard 3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings. 4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends. 5. I wish that I had let myself be happier. What's your greatest regret so far? What will you set out to achieve or change before you die?
@god563616
@god563616 5 ай бұрын
This is so sad let's burn social media to the ground and talk to each other!
@SuhGhamma
@SuhGhamma Жыл бұрын
The plandemic caused 0 change to my social life. I was isolated then and I’m isolated now. The only thing this video showed was that I get to die early for being a sperg. Hooray!
@evavon9169
@evavon9169 Жыл бұрын
Thank you doctor for the professionalism with which you do your work. You listen to your client and you always put their needs first, to ensure they live another day healthily and vibrant. Cheers to you my doctor, I celebrate the way you do your job. If it was up to me I would give you the award of being the best doctor. Thank you Dr Ofenmu KZbin channel for curing my herpes
@miguelfernandes5628
@miguelfernandes5628 Жыл бұрын
I work on a major hospital in my city and do intense ER shifts every other weekend. I DO CHERISH my time being alone at home and recharge from all the madness I face at work. I probably need a cat to smack me across the face when I snore, the last one I baby sat was very good at it. Miss you lots señor Vincent!
@user-be6ec3dc4t
@user-be6ec3dc4t Жыл бұрын
I absolutely disagree that loneliness will effect you negatively! Strong minded people don’t need others to be around more people bring more problems and remember it’s the people that hurts people not animals or aliens 👽
@life4trinity
@life4trinity 10 ай бұрын
That's wrong, it's all about surrounding yourself with positive people.
@holyrainbowballz
@holyrainbowballz 9 ай бұрын
That’s being alone. Loneliness is not the same thing.
@indigoechos6796
@indigoechos6796 7 ай бұрын
Heart disease is a badge of honor
@thepinkestpigglet7529
@thepinkestpigglet7529 4 ай бұрын
Keep telling yourself that.
@keithminor141
@keithminor141 Жыл бұрын
wow, dr. jeff gardere used to be a fix on the ricki lake show???
@natashasingha0078
@natashasingha0078 Жыл бұрын
Uk is the same
@user-rh8fl8qz2z
@user-rh8fl8qz2z 14 күн бұрын
Loneliness is the LEAST of our CONCERNS. P OFF doc! America is fd UP!
@schawnettarobinson8584
@schawnettarobinson8584 Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@KateBates22zabu
@KateBates22zabu Жыл бұрын
Oh no im a lonely smoker🇺🇸life goes on.
@anusmitatripathy6660
@anusmitatripathy6660 4 ай бұрын
So true
@redruby747
@redruby747 5 ай бұрын
Yes
@js6728
@js6728 Жыл бұрын
you; do that
@ladynottingham89
@ladynottingham89 Жыл бұрын
Two words: antisocial media.
@jonesmorales-tu6kq
@jonesmorales-tu6kq 11 ай бұрын
Get a dog
@thevirtuouswoman7172
@thevirtuouswoman7172 Жыл бұрын
YOU KNOW WHO ELSE IS LONELIER.. NURSING HOMES.. PLEASE ANYONE VOLUNTEER AT YOUR LOCAL NURSING HOMES. THE STAFFERS WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE IT AND YOUR GENUINELY HELPING A MORE OLDER VULNERABLE COMMUNITY WHO FEARS LONELINESS MUCH AS YOU DO OR MORE👵👴❤️‍🩹🏡
@Carmafixcars
@Carmafixcars 9 ай бұрын
A lockdown should solve the issue. Quick, before more people become lonely.
@114252
@114252 5 ай бұрын
I am not an expert. But it is better to say nothing than have psychological warfare in our heads because of interfering. Living pious life is the only way. Trust me that way time will be given to find forgiveness in subject's inner heart.
@user-sr8tf3xk4k
@user-sr8tf3xk4k Жыл бұрын
Start looking at “loneliness is only in the mind of a person “. In reality there are enough necessity in it. You just need to look both sides, or not?
@rtoriq
@rtoriq Жыл бұрын
@Azuri e sounds quite vampiristic.
@garymartin7369
@garymartin7369 Жыл бұрын
I'm not lonely since I made my AI dolly outta bacon and some - well - lotsa tin cans and polyester. Also there is some chinchilla for (pause) you know. Oops - looks like I've been "bad" and need to answer to my old battle AI XX. Coming, "Dear"!!!
@Brujo2016
@Brujo2016 11 ай бұрын
In the last days, people’s love will wax cold.
@APolishPlayer
@APolishPlayer 3 ай бұрын
Oh I wonder why Mr gov official.....
@joymahiko
@joymahiko 9 ай бұрын
Aww....boys want their MOMMAS....
@cellP8
@cellP8 Жыл бұрын
after locking people inside their houses for 2 years wtf did you expect
@SweetSkies478
@SweetSkies478 2 ай бұрын
This was an issue well before COVID
@JoySings3982
@JoySings3982 Жыл бұрын
You are not alone- God is all around us and in us if you receive Him 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️
@marcoscabezolajr.8408
@marcoscabezolajr.8408 9 ай бұрын
But we also want human companionship that is honest, even with God I get very sad no girl likes me and everytime I try it ends in failure and I'm just being nice and attempting to make conversation. Or they do like me somewhat but them never respond to the phone or texts. I'm happy to have God but all my life I needed and wanted human companionship. A young woman to love and take care of and is there fir me when I'm all broken inside 💔
@axeandraxe
@axeandraxe 6 ай бұрын
you ll never fixed it you had always being alone till the start
@quantumblackness2.0
@quantumblackness2.0 Жыл бұрын
Terry is OUT OF TOUCH!!!
@bobwhite2
@bobwhite2 8 ай бұрын
He’s a political chess piece, he can’t be trusted.
@JohnBoyGamer1
@JohnBoyGamer1 4 ай бұрын
you can thank the single mothers raising their daughters to be monsters for that one
@dougn2350
@dougn2350 5 ай бұрын
This is not a new phenomena.
@bobwhite2
@bobwhite2 8 ай бұрын
US Surgeon General? Man is totally lost.
@meloneymoore8856
@meloneymoore8856 Жыл бұрын
#Free Xclusyph Icon
@vassiliosca5715
@vassiliosca5715 Жыл бұрын
X - Question to Kallikantzaroi Vivek Murthy: Do you know what a Vacuum is? X - Kallikantzaroi Vivek Murthy: I've got it in my head, but I can't figure it out!
@jefftiz1
@jefftiz1 Жыл бұрын
Bahahaahahahahaahaa😊😅😮😢😂😂😂😅
@vassiliosca5715
@vassiliosca5715 Жыл бұрын
X - Question to Kallikantzaroi Jeff Gardere: Do you know what a Vacuum is? X - Kallikantzaroi Jeff Gardere: I've got it in my head, but I can't figure it out!
@JoySings3982
@JoySings3982 Жыл бұрын
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