Young Fashion 'Bully' Forced to Wear Thrift Shop Clothes By Mom: Punishment Stirs 'Shaming' Debate

[@leahfitz1483]

Phones weren’t destroyed, she wasn’t beaten, pet wasn’t sold she was forced to feel how the victim felt which is the best discipline

[@marieked]

Leah Fitz exactly!

[@blackcherrysmokebomb]

Contrary to belief. You can beat your children you’re just not allowed to do it excessively or leave marks.

[@kevinanddeb8829]

It was also two days. And I am sure lots of discussion answers explanation was included.

[@dqn1c]

10/10

[@MsElfi90]

@@blackcherrysmokebomb Not where I live ;) Here you are not allowed to lay hands on your child.

[@JohnAceBrown]

Harmful to the child's self esteem my ass. You humiliate someone, you have *no* right to think you can't be humiliated back. It's ridiculous to think some people consider that child abuse. That's wonderful parenting. Teaching your child empathy is one of the best things you can do as a parent.

[@desratlinda8639]

Amen!

[@buteratutorials8581]

pReAchHHhH

[@itsmeagainmargaret.1899]

John Ace Brown I agree

[@taylordkr]

John Ace Brown Absolutely right.

[@paremour]

John Ace Brown I agree!!!!!!!

[@kayleighSky]

Are you kidding me? This is the best punishment I've ever heard. Bravo to the parents for giving her a taste of her medicine. I wish my bullies were punished that way.

[@MJ-fy4yj]

I agree 100%!

[@rachelenders5657]

M Davidson yes such a great and creative way!

[@Timmering]

Kayleigh Hay exactly

[@carlosr9843]

Kayleigh Hay hear hear

[@khadizaahmed8989]

I agree 100!%

[@Usernameyt4466]

This girl was humbled by her lesson she walked in her victims shoes, she learned and even made a friend

[@TheJen0662]

"Treat others how you want to be treated"

[@aprilfoozeler]

Preach! That’s what the Bible has been saying for so long!

[@kaymccastle1154]

After my parent's divorce I wore second hand clothes. This was when girls had to wear dresses and skirts to public school. After my mom finished washing, mending dyeing, starching, and ironing my dresses, I looked as good as any other kid in the classroom, and often got compliments on my outfits!

[@DrivenByArt-yz5bs]

Hi I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and many blessings to you all and stay safe

[@gregfalco4528]

@Bright Eyes Beauty The world would be a much better place if everyone lived by that.

[@mountainmama2101]

@@aprilfoozeler yasssss!!! 👍

[@Beepboop-rn4zf]

This isn’t at all humiliating, they’re clothes, clothes a lot of people wear to school. It’s just to put the kid in her victims shoes

[@annt.7785]

True

[@kittycaruso50]

Right? Humiliating to wear 2nd hand clothes? This is why schools should all have uniforms in my opinion

[@villamiles]

@@kittycaruso50 When I was in school, it had uniforms and some girls still found the way of humiliate others over their uniform.

[@noaht124]

As stupid as this sounds, For entitled brats, yes. This is humiliating.

[@noaht124]

@@kw7588 it’s more “you made fun of her for what she wore, so you’re gonna walk in her shoes for a while” thing.

[@dopeblacktherapist]

Empathy is literally having the ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes. This was a practical way to teach true empathy.

[@ms.pirate]

I think so too

[@InternetPhD]

I agree!

[@HeaviTroi]

Exactly 🙌🏾

[@noneofyours16]

They did right!! People are crazy

[@artryg0n497]

Empathy is a tool to use against ppl

[@jaymsantiago]

I WOULD'VE DID THE SAME. Love how they turned out to be friends at the end

[@sinandcyanide7505]

Kudos to the parents on this. Making a kid wear thrift clothing isn't shaming. It's teaching the kid some humility. If you say it's shaming, you're saying that people should be ashamed of having to shop at thrift stores or low end clothing stores.

[@psps1180]

Don't forget to drink your Cyanide agreed! First thing my mom did when she caught me picking on another girl was to call my brother and cousins and have them tease me. Then she said, you're upset that people that love you are picking on you. She may not be as lucky to have somebody that loves her. You don't have to be her friend if you don't get along but I expect you to apologize and at least be polite. Well. I thought about it, and I asked. The girl had been mean to me before I picked on her, but I learned that her mom and dad were divorcing and she had been sent to school in Texas and was actually very jealous of all the nice things I had. So I helped her make friends in our class, gave her a few things I wasn't using, and we got along fine. We're not ”best friends” or even that close but I learned that day that hurt people hurt others, and reacting badly just makes them hurt more.

[@sinandcyanide7505]

Noneya Beeswax that's an invaluable experience that a lot of kids don't get. I'm glad you were able to see the good in that situation! You reacted well and your mom obviously chose the right move for you.

[@Fayecolavecchio]

the werid thing is she looks really good in that dress

[@kathymathers1611]

ASHLYN BOUNNHARITH good she needed to be humiliated. As you can see, she learned from it.

[@xMitchieGoesRawrx]

Don't forget to drink your Cyanide Agreed. Most parents just snatch their devices or ground them, but the children never get a true understanding of why bullying is wrong and they’ll end up doing it again. However, this creative punishment made the girl REALIZE her mistake and feel empathy for the girl she bullied.

[@quady1491]

Guys, this isn’t child abuse, cmon.. it’s a good lesson that she deserves

[@iggydeez]

No, it’s poetic justice

[@quinnsmithy8778]

yeah boi

[@quinnsmithy8778]

not to mention none of our business lol!

[@gabrielasuna224]

And now girls are the best friends!

[@Tali_Kali2343]

No this is a good learning lesson cuz now she feels what she was bullying to the other girl, good job mom 👏

[@sarahmeek530]

Kid seems fine. Both girls are friends now. She learned a valuable lesson and was not harmed in any way.

[@ihatebertram9719]

It makes me happy seeing they have made up

[@JustRockMySoul]

If anything it made her a better person.

[@butterfly713]

The “ugly” thrift shop clothes actually looked better than the outfit she’s wearing in the interview lol

[@LD-2401]

It really did

[@bluecolumbine]

I thought the thrift store outfits were super cute honestly.

[@klz9500]

You might need to be parented by this lady so you don't think it's ok to bully the clothing choices of a child... You turn around and criticize the girl's clothes like you just didn't watch all that 😂

[@butterfly713]

@@klz9500 it’s not bullying to say the thrift shop clothes looked better than the outfit she is wearing. That’s called having an opinion, you should figure out the difference.

[@fainafaina1940]

Exactly

[@MojoTV]

Damn i don't understand why people are hating this.. I mean this is the best thing to teach a lesson..

[@B1300]

It is a awesome choice plus you know your child

[@Calamitys_Edge]

I agree lol

[@archiballarchi3922]

true a little shame is naturaly good(":

[@MintyOreosx3]

MojoTV ikr

[@AlexanderMccarthey87]

It's reflective of our culture. We care too much about clothing and looks.

[@3bay]

She learnt a lesson Doesn’t regret it And now her and the girl are best friends I’d say the parents did a good job.

[@kyamiwatersong424]

NeedleMousenation pReAch

[@M4rycr]

Preach IT HONEY!!

[@keah3706]

👌🏻

[@zukythegrimreaper9250]

I know I might be hated for this. I hope u understand. But I would never be best friends with my "bully" after what they did to me. Back in the days I was bullied cause I was quiet. Everyone in the classroom was against me. Soooo after a few years later they picked on me for having a broken arm saying "it isn't broken", teachers never did anything. Then of course I started the most evil way. Even to the point I exposed them on their lies. I guess u can say I went too far. I mean it far too late for them to say sorry.

[@3bay]

Zuky TheGrimReaper Honestly I understand Pay Back is never the answer but I mean they deserved it

[@keybyss98]

Seriously? This Mom deserves an award! Her daughter literally bullied a kid because of her clothes and now she's getting a taste of her own medicine. A ton of parents with bullies wouldn't even dare to realize their kids are bullies at all.

[@cutie4704]

Pixelcitizen Ikr?

[@lorbe00]

Pixelcitizen i am so with you on this. Last sentence is on point. I had schoolmates who were known bullies whose parents are cool with their behavior even after they are called by teacher-advisers. Parents' argument almost always is "he/she is just a kid, of course he/she can act immaturely"

[@keybyss98]

StormAmeri No kidding.

[@keybyss98]

Lorbe C Wow... Immaturity and Harmful are two different things. I just hope the school took further action outside of just calling their ignorant parents (detention, suspension,... something like this, etc,.).

[@sananadeem97]

Stepmom actually

[@famvseven3rdg555]

You’ll never understand another person’s pain unless you share the same experience.

[@paige1751]

“This punishment can be harmful to a child’s self esteem” And the bullying wasn’t?!

[@GrandMasterPeep]

But they said she also got bullied because of it

[@kaymccastle1154]

I totally agree with the stepmom's method of correction. It was firm, but full of compassion. I saw another example where a father found out his daughter was bullying another girl. He took the money that he was going to spend shopping with his daughter and spent on the bullied girl with his daughter present. He found out that the girl didn't have a dad in the home, so he reached out to mentor her along with his daughter. Both girls are now friends!

[@srt4788]

@@GrandMasterPeep she understood what she did and got to experience the other side of the coin

[@cynthiaisako]

Exactly

[@mountainmama2101]

@@GrandMasterPeep Good. Then she will know how it feels.

[@lillybee2951]

YOU CANT SAY THIS IS TERRIBLE IF THE GIRL LITERALLY AGREED THAT IT WAS THE BEST IDEA AND THEY ARE NOW FRIEND.

[@c.ggaming5614]

lilly bee IKR THATS WHAT I THOUGHT AND THE GIRL ALSO AGREED

[@kimmycoonz2796]

WHY ARE WE YELLING

[@spicy.scribz]

lilly bee ikr 😂😂😂

[@hamburgerdog25]

BOY ITS REALLY LOUD IN HERE. GOOD POINT BTW

[@joyrys486]

MY EARS HURT NOW

[@euphophonist]

All bullies need to feel how the victim of their harsh words felt.

[@euphophonist]

Also, Thrift store clothes are a punishment? I own one thing that isn't old, crappy, or a hand me down, but I am still thankful because it could be a lot worse and I have a roof over my head and clothes on my back. Everyone these days ungrateful little brats

[@kittyrosefaerie7464]

Exactly

[@michaeljosephjackson5624]

nice

[@rougethebat523]

Turtle Fitz this should go for abusers and adults who bully thier family/coworkers

[@kimchi3339]

Turtle Fitz I'm pretty sure they went to a thrift shop just cause they didn't wanna spend outrageous amounts of money on new clothes for a punishment. The idea is she's wearing "ugly" clothes and that's the main point of it.

[@kelvintorres42]

Anyone said if this is “traumatizing” imagine how the other girl felt.

[@fruitgummi9084]

I stand by the parents. I think it's creative, and it humbled her rather than damage her confidence.

[@maryannburgess9955]

What's wrong with thrift store clothing my daughter only shops there that's her choice. She is 16

[@artsysundae]

Maryann Burgess Yes, but the point was that she didn’t the clothes.

[@river-leemacintyre1134]

Do you really think she can turn out any worse waring second clothes then she will not being punished. If they had grounded her she would have blamed the victim rather then realizing how it felt to be different. Parents did right

[@tarahoman5809]

1,000 liker 😂

[@flowersinthebreeze6861]

its taught her that lesson and tit got he results she knew what it feels like so probably wont bully again. if everyone did this then maybe bullying wouldnt be as common as it is

[@karenlobosco9646]

It's not "humiliation" , it's "sensitivity training".

[@ashdluciangurl]

I love the way you put it

[@horrormovielover6725]

indeed.Also to be humble and become empathic. It will benefit her as she grows.

[@srt4788]

I like that

[@annt.7785]

I agree. I had to break up fights between people that were bullied for their clothes, it's just wrong to bully someone over the pettiest b.s. My friend was getting bullied because he was trying to get custody of his two younger siblings (we were almost 18 senior year), so he couldn't afford "the latest fashion". He would wear the same clothes to school sometimes, while he spend his minimum wage money on his little brother and sister, so that they can have nice clothes. You never know someone's situation.

[@kittycaruso50]

@@annt.7785 sweet that brought tears to my eyes what a good brother

[@Andrea04Bettina]

"it lowers the kid's self steem" NO. It teaches them humility, it shows there are people behind the clothes they wear. What a great lesson

[@kstar1489]

@@crayon8943 you can teach your child to respect others without demeaning and disrespecting them

[@DizzyGamerOfficial]

Aight, A lesson, huh? Expect a note and a missing child the next time YOUR married ;)

[@Andrea04Bettina]

@@DizzyGamerOfficial why a missing child?

[@Green-unit]

@@DizzyGamerOfficial wow, we got an edgy woke teenager here.

[@sab-nm9di]

@@DizzyGamerOfficial if my child would rather live in the streets and scavenge their own food than to wear thrift clothes after bullying somebody then 🤷‍♀️

[@RapidHockeyToastsss]

I’m glad that this girl learned from her mistakes and apologized to the girl she was teasing and I’m glad they became friends. At least she understands what she did was wrong and at least she’s glad that her parents punished her that way.

[@bridget4139]

Great punishment. She learned her lesson, she’s sorry and now she’s friends with the person she bullied. I couldn’t think of a better outcome? How do people disagree?

[@Galaxybutterfly88]

bridget o

[@xjustaprofile]

Those clothes were kinda cute tbh :/

[@bridget4139]

Taemin's Cat i agree, i like some of them

[@danidarkoxo]

I agree with you! Also she looked adorable in those clothes 😭

[@bridget4139]

YOMYOM i know!

[@HannahPowersTheYoutuber]

I'm glad the girl agreed with her parents, and became friends with the girl she taunted

[@tonifermallex]

Hannah Powers Me too

[@fayyali2354]

....tf??? Srry but ur mouth...

[@lucaslucful]

Hannah Powers Amen

[@rehnumajamil2751]

Hannah Powers mee too

[@skylermarshall503]

Hannah Powers did some one kidnap u or some thing wuts up with the tape.....

[@angel-ne5pg]

“It’s cruel shaming” it’s literally just thrifted clothes for a few days it’s not like its forever

[@sapphiccc]

angel TBH I like trift store clothes you can find alot of good things there

[@angel-ne5pg]

Grace King same it’s not bad

[@BIGTIMESWORLD]

I thrift clothes all the time the shirt I have on my pfp is thrifted

[@Libruhh]

and then they put her on GMA and now millions of people have seen this

[@connorfleser5716]

Some people have to wear these cloths cuz they can’t afford others

[@carolsydney6905]

True forgiveness is knowing how the person you hurt, really felt. Kaylee now understands exactly that. The fact that the two girls are friends now is a testament to Kaylee's new found empathy. A tribute to loving parents who wanted their daughter to be the best person she could be. When Kaylee said she wouldn't have had it any other way, I saw she truly got the lesson.

[@leaaaaah78890]

The parents did nothing wrong 👏👏👏👏👏 I was bullied growing up and I don't want my child to be a bully.

[@jtomasettiw7401]

I was bullied for four years and my school did nothing.

[@wetfetus5791]

Same if I found out my child did this I would do the same thing these parents did

[@serenaxagx1168]

bro the parents did, you dont record ur kid and put them all over the fucking internet

[@chabelllita]

If my kid acted like that, I would give such a long lecture they wish they went through what that girl went through.

[@lenni332]

@@jtomasettiw7401 I’m sorry to hear that

[@Biskwyy]

It's not humiliation. It's humility. If it's "embarrassing" to be poor, then more important it is for kids to learn how it feels to be poor. It isn't a product of the parenting, it is the product of society shaming poor children. Well done mom. And glad the daughter learnt something. Bullying is extremely dangerous and good parenting can definitely stop it.

[@Mags765]

👏🏼

[@lizardfishbird]

Honest to god, you can get some cool shit from thrift shops.

[@cyberghetto2714]

Stephany .A. I bet you’d learn a lesson too if you wore that same outfit the girl did, you’d learn the lesson that you could go perfectly with thrift shop clothes.

[@busymeowser]

I have to wonder would the punishment been as harsh if she was her actually biological daughter rather someone from a previous marriage to her husband? #stepmother

[@jadecoolness101]

Stephany .A. Okay. Well then you say what the parents should have done to teach their kid not to be a little shit to poorer kids at school. If you have a better idea then share it.

[@gwendolyn7462]

but she looks cute in the "ugly" thrift clothes

[@CrystalRuizEnriquez]

I think it was more about her feeling like she was wearing ugly clothes. I mean, let's face it, at that age we are very opinionated on what we seem cute and ugly. I look back to when I was a child and remember how I thought some clothing was ugly and i see pictures now, and i looked cute. I liked this lesson on humility and sensitivity.

[@amelialalllalala3914]

fr

[@dylanjperri]

No piece of clothing is really *ugly* though. As long as you know how to style it. She looked like a vogue model in the dress with the puffy sleeves.

[@gothicgirlfriend7375]

You think that because you're an adult. All young people are "cute" compared to an average adult.

[@cassidyym8858]

It’s trendy to wear thrift shop clothes now

[@maryann7941]

I think there's ALOT of "adults" who need to try this as well.

[@YrretsJ]

Omg! These self-esteem “experts” are in part responsible for why people feel so entitled and are so fragile.

[@lumijasminasmr3583]

Well said!

[@fireflymiesumae]

Exactly

[@ElysianWorld]

Exactly!!!! THANK YOU

[@robynalice879]

Honestly though, he's kind of demeaning how smart an 11 year old can actually be. If this kid was 4 obviously they wouldn't get the concept, but treating her like she's still 4 is an insult.

[@caprice3110]

#truth

[@MaddieNiec]

Honestly, I think this is the perfect punishment. Half the time I hear stories of parents doing nothing when their kids do something wrong, and I'm glad these parents had the wherewithal to do this to and for their child. I know if my kid was bullying someone I'd be VERY disappointed because I know what it feels like to be bullied.

[@angelbaby3872]

Madcatter couldn't have said it better, even the kid knows this is correct

[@reevy9986]

Madcatter i totally!

[@jojo-pd4ii]

Madcatter tell that to the black father who cut of his daughters hair and publically shamed her. She then committed suicide

[@MaddieNiec]

+cosmic infinity That is a COMPLETELY different story. The mother didn't really publicly shame her daughter, unless she posted it on social media or something. She taught her daughter a lesson in humility with the punishment not being too severe. Many parents either go way to far, like the father you speak of, or they do nothing. This mother, I think, had the perfect punishment.

[@kellyalves756]

Madcatter I wouldn't even call it punishment-- it was a teachable moment, a lesson in empathy.

[@angelicam.rodz.9855]

There is a line between abuse and discipline and I believe the mother took the appropriate course of action. She gave her daughter the opportunity to walk in someone else's shoes. It's very clear some people these days do not have the money to buy brand clothes and to be honest, I don't see why thrift shop clothing is bad either... kids these days are too spoiled to understand the struggle that is economy... Besides, this mother prevented her daughter from doing any future bullying, I call that a win in my book.

[@moonslunar2418]

Angelica Rodriguez Tbh those clothes weren't even bad either, so why would she complain...

[@imquaking9869]

Angelica Rodriguez i fully agree with you

[@yuxintian7500]

The mom made an amazing call. What a way to practice empathy.

[@phonetism]

honestly the parents did a good job imo. they pretty much forced their child to "walk a mile in someone else's shoes." humiliation CAN go too far, but the parents really executed this on an eye for an eye situation.

[@tracyqin7589]

Toni Macaroni And sharing videos in Fb because parents feel the need to film their kids when they're crying. This doesn't leave the kid with embarrassing videos on the internet, which might pop up when a employer is looking at their job history. The parents did this in a way that doesn't affect the kid in the future, but allows her to learn and realize what she did wrong and how insignificant the trends are

[@abigail-du3rv]

Naomi Ugwu kids are mean this can come back in highschool anytime clothes to kids aren't just clothes

[@phonetism]

Abbi Hodnett if her parents turned a blind eye, she would've lived a large portion of her adolescence bullying other children. humility is an important quality for anyone to have. i honestly doubt that wearing ugly clothes for less than 3 days would've lead to lifelong bullying.

[@frostycreeper1055]

An eye for an eye would make the world blind.

[@phonetism]

FrostyCreeper10 justice is blind :)

[@scarletteyre5086]

Kaley wasn't the worst of bullies, she just needed to be put back in her place, and now she has a new friend because she learnt the lesson. More parents need to do this when they find out their kids are bullies.

[@SatumainenOlento]

The girl herself said: "I was happy to learn this lesson" Parenting experts bruh

[@kstar1489]

She’s a child. The parenting expert is actually going off actual research. Intentionally putting your kid through bullying and public shaming - both shown to be potentially traumatic and lowers self-esteem - is not only dangerous but lazy parenting. You need to talk to your kid like a human. If your kid makes fun of someone with a Borden leg will you break their leg? It’s stupid. You can teach that it was wrong without this elaborate, denigrating nonsense.

[@K3V1N4TW]

@@kstar1489 what if the kid doesn’t listen? Just wondering.

[@antoniahenry7203]

most of them don't have kids themselves i guess...? lol

[@caffienevaccine]

I’m more concerned about how, the parent coming up with this punishment is a stepmom. This is gonna create a complex

[@antoniahenry7203]

@@caffienevaccine mmm that's a decent point...

[@Hawkfire3937]

It’s not abuse. It’s teaching her empathy

[@areanamann4903]

I think this was the best punishment. Just being grounded would have taught her nothing but rebel even more. She stepped in her shoes and realized where she messed up.

[@canadiancheddar2024]

The irony is that she is totally rocking the vintage look.

[@xoxMusikxox]

Right? She actually looks super cute.

[@rebeccaberlin]

I don't think that translates in 4th grade.

[@xoxMusikxox]

@@rebeccaberlin oh yeah I agree - that's why it's ironic. it's a "punishment" for her in her eyes, but in reality she looks really cute.

[@lalagady7527]

i love thrift store clothes. they fit her well and they did look great. anything from a thrift store can look good in my opinion

[@naufrage0]

One day she’ll learn that lol. That’s why thrift stores overcharge now.

[@kerrycissne6080]

This isn't humiliation, it's called teaching humility. I'm so tired of these doctors being so butt hurt about the creative ways parents choose to punish their kids. There was no way that girl could sympathize with her classmate that she bullied until she walked a day in her shoes. Bravo bonus mom and dad (I hate the word step LOL)! I probably would've reverted back to what I knew worked on me and spanked her, and that's only because I don't have that creative process in my brain. I'd look at this and say, "Why the hell didn't I think of that?".

[@lai8544]

The thing is that is relative you know. You gotta know your child, in this case it was great and she learned the lesson. But the same treatment on other child could have gone really bad, a child with social anxiety could have focused way too much on what others say about them and instead of (just?) learning the lesson it could be worsening her/his anxiety and even traumatize the kid. You know, it’s not drama if it’s real and people should respect the differences on people, there’s not a formula for everyone.

[@keeganjoyner9569]

@@lai8544 ok but that kid was bullying someone the victim of the bullying is prolly traumatizing

[@lai8544]

@@keeganjoyner9569 Two wrongs don't make a right

[@declaracionespolemicas]

@@lai8544 Why would someone with social anxiety bully someone else for how they dress? I expect someone who suffers from social anxiety to be fully aware of what being bullied feels like. Bullying is also a social activity, as someone who suffered from social anxiety before it seems highly unlikely you would require this kind of punishment on the first place. Girl learned being teased and mocked for wearing different clothes isn't nice, she literally had to step on the other girl's shoes. I thought it was a nice lesson and she obviously took it well.

[@lai8544]

@@declaracionespolemicas Yes, she took it well and that’s great it worked for her. The social anxiety was just an example, another example: the kid could have anger issues and be very angry and stressed with the situation resulting in not learning anything and just feel more anger and hate (now towards her/his parents)... p.s: I also suffered with social anxiety and would never bully someone, yet social anxiety doesn’t necessarily inhibits someone from bullying

[@rebeccahenderson7761]

And the part about harmful to the child's self esteem - NO, it's harmful to their narcissism, arrogance, overt superiority and violence towards others tendencies.

[@rachelwatermelon1186]

Sadly those clothes were low key cute

[@ctrlzme.6448]

yea she has the face to make it cute

[@wetfetus5791]

Ikr

[@scarlettamy3466]

100th like😊

[@keisonkei1098]

Yes they were so cuteee

[@driftersforge4962]

I agree the clothes nowadays wouldn't look good on her

[@fishiicakuu]

She deserved it. Bullying is literally one of the worst things you could ever do. I have experienced bullying for a long time and i fell right into depression but don't worry im ok now. Here's some advice: never bully anyone because you never know what the person you are bullying is going through.

[@mountainmama2101]

You: "Bullying is literally the worst thing you could ever do." Me: "Wow...you just put murder, rape, physical torture, and terrorism below bullying on the list of bad things."

[@chika5384]

@@mountainmama2101 that’s not what they meant lmfao what?

[@terimkel3]

@@mountainmama2101 obviously you don’t get it and not what the op meant. I really hope you aren’t a “mother”. Your children are probably the bullies.

[@mountainmama2101]

@@terimkel3 awe....bless your heart. You can't bear it when someone has a different opinion or approach. You are the bully. Demeaning anyone who dare differ with you. Shame on you.

[@mountainmama2101]

@@chika5384 don't project your thoughts or feelings onto what was said. She said, "Bullying is *LITERALLY* the worst thing you could ever do". How is it hard for you to understand this. Lmao! 😂😂😂 If you think Bullying is worse than muder and rape, by all means, you're entitled to your opinion.

[@sinekae222]

Most of my clothes are from thrift shops and they are poppin.

[@Lumi0215]

Definitely easy to find some great things at a Thrift shop! I’ve had friends who love thrift shopping, but in this particular instance she made the girl point out clothing she found ugly, and then made her wear the clothing she didn’t like.

[@treenak6689]

Zelle Kate me too I shop every where

[@sinekae222]

Airborne Tortilla how am i a hoe?

[@vallerie897]

Zelle Kate Fake profile pic?

[@hannabhx4813]

+Airborne Tortilla Maybe you should shut up, okay? Don't be a jealous Bitch and get on with your life!

[@aheagogirl5373]

I'm so glad theres parents who actually take action for inappropriate behavior

[@FrancinaB13]

Him: ...."this kind of punishment can be harmful to a child's self esteem" Anyone with common sense: Ummm yeah... what about the VICTIM!!

[@icedcoffee9937]

Just what I was thinking! Self proclaimed diva clearly has no issues with self esteem

[@theamanda1661]

Some parent beat their kids instead of teaching their kids. This is letting a child know that their words and actions can hurt a person.

[@4theloveofmuse]

No it is not. I am a teacher and I approve every single thing they did.

[@theamanda1661]

@@4theloveofmuse better than a beat down

[@ElysianWorld]

That’s what’s wrong with the country. In their minds, bullies are the victims. Sad

[@rickfromhell]

The kid grew from this, and she seems to genuinely appreciate that her parents changed her perspective. Kudos to her parents for being creative and not coddling the ego.

[@maxinelynch36]

That Dr needs to go educate himself, I would have done the same thing as these parents & so would many others

[@coelacanth9821]

oh, no no - he's an EXPERT!

[@Loaves_of_Cat]

An expert doesn’t always know what will work, especially when it concerns other living beings like kids

[@pattym9182]

It's like...yes, it DOES make them feel "less than." That is the point. This girl thought she was MORE THAN someone else, and "talking to her" (who is, indeed, a CHILD) is NOT as likely to reach the same impact. Children don't have the depth of awareness adults do, or the ability to understand, empathize, or rationalize things they don't understand, and SOME kids bully because they don't actually KNOW what it's like to feel "less than," and would think twice if they actually, truly KNEW how horrible their words make others feel. We don't know EXACTLY what was said, but I'd bet in the 2 days she had to wear them, she eventually heard things that were very similar to the things she was saying. A lot of bullies end up eating their own words later in life, but to so quickly be forced to have them cast unto you...no wonder she's now friends with the girl. And she's at a young enough age where that would have been enough to make her rethink her attitude. Hopefully everyone who watches this story has ignored the "doctor's" warning LOL.

[@jaydel3]

In a case by case scenario. There is no Universal solution.

[@GadereneLegion]

I think it depends on the way it’s done. It can be destructive if you’re not careful. This had thought put into it. It was very intentional.

[@MyaStClair]

Now that’s good parenting!

[@Olivia-rl8hq]

This isn’t humiliation, it’s a lesson. And she learned how other people feel when she did what she did, and because of that she’s a better person.

[@kstar1489]

It is literally humiliation. They intentionally made her go through bullying

[@ruthie_rosario]

@@kstar1489 So what about the people who can only afford hand-me-downs? Since the parents chose to have the children, are they intentionally trying to humiliate their child? No. This is the real world. We can’t make everybody like us. All we can do is try to teach our kids to be empathetic. We can’t control what others do.

[@sal-dq2uv]

@@kstar1489 yeah because that was what she was doing to the other girl

[@elisakrivas]

@@kstar1489 The bullying was temporary, though and they were trying to teach her. I'd agree with you if they just randomly decided to do this, if the bullying would continue, or if the humiliation were more public than just school, but being made fun of for a few days and her actions of her wrong-doings were not mentioned to anyone? The harm had no lasting effects, but the positive effects were learned.

[@renelacomb8737]

@@kstar1489 stop commenting

[@michaelsheets623]

It can hurt a child’s self esteem ,what do you think the bullied girls feelings were? Excellent parenting skills. Eye for an eye 🤷🏻‍♂️🙏🏻

[@noelstar1456]

People need to learn that you can't be unnecessarily rude without repercussions. 'Parenting experts' my ass. (Sorry for the cussing).

[@MarianaGomez-zw2gg]

It is not even eye for an eye. There's no revange within these actions is just creating an empathy environment. I was bullied and beated for years. I do believe bullies need a second chance. This is an amazing way to understand that every person has dignity and that you should love and protect everyone

[@michaelsheets623]

@@MarianaGomez-zw2gg it is an eye for an eye situation. She bullied her, GOT THE SAME treatment and now understands how the bullied girl felt.

[@MarianaGomez-zw2gg]

@@michaelsheets623 eye for an eye would be for the bullied girl to bully the bully 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@michaelsheets623]

@@MarianaGomez-zw2gg I concur 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@taebae7039]

"Is this cruel shaming?" IT'S JUST THRIFTED CLOTHES

[@samanthasignorile820]

tae bae its not about the clothes its about the fact that she was getting bullied also.

[@sweetpeachbellini8245]

Samantha Signorile Can you think of a better way for that child to learn empathy and compassion? This is exactly what she needed and in no way, shape or form was this cruel.

[@samanthasignorile820]

SweetPeach Bellini we all have different opinions and my opinion is that this is extremely damaging to a childs self esteem. Shes forever gonna be none as the girl with thrift store clothes.

[@gloriacruz242]

no not really

[@Ash-ii4hg]

tae bae IKR I honestly like them...

[@WhatInTarnation98]

Q: Whats wrong with thrift clothes? A: ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.

[@DoubleTroubles729]

Totally agree, this nasty bullying crap has got to stop... good job mom

[@jessv449]

if that girl were a real fashionista she would've rocked that like it was no big deal

[@ebencipe]

Agree :)

[@kittnchops]

I would have. I've been known to buy ugly clothes on purpose.

[@mariaaleksandraantuszewicz4933]

Tbh the clothes that girl chose to wear on her own were the ugly ones- I mean they were timelessly out of style and made her look like a 50 year old. Some of the thrift store outfits were pretty bold vintage choices but I would have rocked those effortlessly and I never considered myslelf a fashionista, whatever that means...

[@TCB_Aries]

True

[@IMVUDressUp]

Exactly! Girl those dresses she picked out could’ve been really good if she got them tailored and wore a cute belt with it. As someone that’s a true fashionista it’s not hard to make ugly clothes cute

[@Opa773]

The experience entered the little girl’s spirit. She will never forget the it . Never! Well done mom .

[@p.hearting9992]

It makes me wonder what her biological mom was teaching her. Because the stepmom has really stepped up.

[@jasongates-]

@@p.hearting9992 I guess the biological mom taught her literally nothing, since she's even not in the picture to teach anything, and that's why there's a step mom.

[@angelicafuentes9741]

What a great way to instill some empathy and humility. I love this.

[@lexicripps5366]

finally a parent who punishes a child who is a bully

[@mrpeachees2388]

Wearing thrift shop clothing isn’t humiliating. There’s a high end thrift shop in my city, with stylish clothes and low prices. A lot of the items even have the tags still attached. Imma like my own comment, cuz I know no one else will.

[@staceyga1]

Mrpeachees best comment ever! And so true!!

[@dasiaholloway1389]

And its called "goodwill"😂 (Issa joke)

[@leena3346]

OMG SAME it’s so dumb people think it’s gross and that the clothes are ugly ugh 😑

[@leena3346]

Dasia Holloway lmao the thrift store in my state is called “savers”

[@paigedailey6494]

Mrpeachees same. I get the cutest name brand clothes for under 10 bucks at my local second hand stores

[@wings5211]

"It may be harmful to there self-esteem" how about we teach our kids that self-esteem isn't found in what your wearing or the words of others.

[@compilationrex124]

Exactly...well said

[@katrinab7657]

Sometimes, kids' egos need to be taken down a notch. Self-esteem can easily become inflated, especially for a pretty, popular child. Don't want her to build her self-esteem by tearing others down or using looks and money to determine the worth of oneself and others.

[@kimmmerkim5811]

I do believe that is exactly what these parents did😁

[@dalehoward3704]

Those are great parents!

[@Emilia-rl9xp]

The red romper was actually really cute

[@eeshaanyhow1980]

skam Isak sorry this had nothing to do with the vid but I saw your profile picture and I reasanly became obessed with skam I have been watching it for two days I am on .season three obessed

[@libbychase5210]

skam Isak OMG ikr i would wear that.

[@sadiepoe1175]

I agree

[@rosesivan1140]

skam Isak Okay this shit dosent have anything to do with the video but, I LOVEEE skammmmmm omllll!!! 🖤 🖤 🖤

[@kjkjstylze4652]

Whoever says this is harmful to a child is stupid. This worked. The girl learned her lesson

[@kjkjstylze4652]

caycug1 You are joking right?

[@erikajeansalazar7464]

+caycug1 WIth what you're saying, you're practically showing what a special type of idiot you are. Without discipline, kids wouldn't learn to respect. I grew up being physically disciplined by my parents. Yes, I'm asian and I got beaten up, slapped, and everything else you can imagine. But that didn't make me hate my parents. Although as a child it developed fear but now as I mature, I gained respect. It was all out of love. They'd prefer to have me disciplined in their own hands that be put in danger for my reckless actions.

[@caycug1]

f.y.i. Kids can learn discipline without being beaten, and without humiliating them in front of others.

[@kjkjstylze4652]

caycug1 What made them a bully?

[@kayper54]

+caycug1 Proverbs 13:24. They were following that verse and you are so blind to the simplest of God's Words that you couldn't even see it. They have insight to their daughter that you couldn't possibly have. You haven't any idea what would really work with that particular child. They were quite creative and I'll bet it made a permanent and lasting impression on her that simply a good, loving talking-to would never have had. Matthew 7:1 - 3. That's what you did with your very first comment; you made an insane judgement that was way off in the stratosphere it was so ridiculous. Get to work on that beam in your own eye before you start looking at the motes in others' eyes. And nobody was bullying you. From the looks of it everyone was being much kinder to you than you deserved.

[@begrateful6153]

When I came to America as a thirteen-year-old refugee, we had no money. I had two outfits, which were bought from Goodwill. Attending middle school without knowing a word of English, wearing Goodwill clothes, and sporting two long braids, I had it rough, but it taught me core values and core strength.I learned that hiding behind clothes and status didn’t exist for me. So, I learned to stand tall because of who I was inside and to treat others with mercy and compassion.

[@cherahsBroll]

Be Grateful And that is beautiful. Thank you for sharing ♥️

[@begrateful6153]

Cherah Lindo thank you. Now, I have the money to purchase designer clothes, but I rather use that money to help others in need, and that brings me pleasure in life.

[@ladydesiree9330]

Happy for you, keep on Standing Tall,

[@joyclinmoss9421]

Bless your ❤️

[@gabriellebraswell3306]

Hi im glad your doing good . i hope you have a long Beautiful life🤗

[@LilMissTravelPants]

There are plenty of kids who can only afford thrift store clothes. Teaching someone to be humble, and to remove their ego, is the best present you can give them.

[@taylorcarruthers9266]

Bruh.. this aint cruel shaming, there thrift store clothes. Does that make me shamed cause i wear thrift store clothes? I cant afford name brand and i dont want to wear thrift clothes but i do anyways. Thats not cruel shaming, think about it.

[@sadiepoe1175]

Taylor Carruthers it has nothing to do with the clothes being thrifted, it's just that the clothes were ugly and she got teased about it

[@taylorcarruthers9266]

Sadie McIntyre and your point is?

[@sadiepoe1175]

Taylor Carruthers people think it was because of the clothes being thrifted, I was just correcting you lol

[@taylorcarruthers9266]

Sadie McIntyre "Correcting me". Ever heard of a word "Opinions"? Cause clearly you havent. ;)

[@sadiepoe1175]

Taylor Carruthers ow the sarcasm

[@AngelaShiflet]

I think it's awesome! Her bully ass NEEDED a lesson taught!

[@ladyfire44]

I agree. This humbled the girl down after enduring being bullied. I wished other parents looked at it differently and see the lesson the girl's parents taught her. Instead of spoiling their kids and doing nothing to stop their terrible behavior by criticizing others, they could at least made the effort to be creative in their punishment and make their own kids endure being bullied.

[@des4151]

FAMILY FRIENDLY!!! But I agree

[@dianaapplehead8815]

mama 79 yes hagahaaa

[@keishamongoose8298]

mama 79 she got what she deserves

[@xjustaprofile]

"Bullying ass" ok😂😂. Hopefully you don't talk to children that way 😂😂

[@itzrainbowdragon1915]

“This is humiliation!” So is being bullied....? 😂

[@jessiegranville5478]

This is a teaching moment

[@KittysInu]

Its not even humiliation, its viewed as such by people who dont understand what its like to struggle for money. In fact, the whole way this was set up is kinda gross. "Well off family makes daughter dress like shes lower class to teach her a lesson. Was this too far?"

[@bayvillagebug]

And well deserved at that!

[@itzrainbowdragon1915]

@@KittysInu I agree with the punishment. It allowed her to walk around in someone else’s shoes for a little while and it actually humbled the little girl. No harm was done.

[@taylorrhouser]

Honestly, that guy says it’s teaching bullies that they’re “less than”, as if that’s a bad thing?? Bullies should know they’re not better than the people they’re bullying, that’s like the whole point

[@renarizaki]

Self-esteem? SELF-ESTEEM?! WHAT ABOUT THE KID GETTING BULLIED?!

[@plamenaantonova3031]

TheOcelotGirl THANK YOU!!!!!

[@ltlt9447]

TheOcelotGirl millions of us grew up without bitching about bullying .

[@dakotas7643]

TheOcelotGirl well if you think about it the girl even said that it helped her

[@rvk1522]

Urban Clementine she was talking about the girl that haily bullied

[@Bhawna03]

I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. Giving this sort of punishment hurts their self-esteem? Well, what about the other little girl she would've continued bullying otherwise? This taught her empathy. It made her a better person in the long run.

[@stolen3moon]

Bhawna03 what about other kids that really do wear second hand clothes? their parents should go into debt just to buy clothes for them because they are affraid what some stuck up brats will say?

[@Bhawna03]

stolen3moon What does this have to do with my comment? And btw, if these "stuck-up brats" didn't exist, parents who couldn't afford new clothes wouldn't even be pressured into buying them because their children wouldn't be getting bullied in the first place.

[@Perfectsavage_13]

And she even agrees with her punishment and even made a new friend with it, but I will take both sides on the "expert" as this punishment isn't a one size fits all thing, if anything she could've not learned anything at all from it.

[@thewewguy8t88]

well what do you think the soultion should have been then.

[@billcipher5933]

Bhawna03 yeah some people can only afford clothes from the thrift store and they get bullied sometimes. so if this is considered public embarrassment then arnt poor people doing the samething? the subtitle literally says girl forced to wear thrift store clothes like its bad. what if that was all they could afford? sorry for the long comment :p :) :)

[@heavensentg.9982]

God bless these parents. And thank God this BEAUTIFUL little girl learned her lesson. 👏👏👏👏👏🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒

[@sherleycarson5218]

I agree with the lesson, especially since the child learned in her heart how bad it feels to be mistreated. Now they need to marry and really become dad and mom or step-mom. Living as partners is not a lesson to teach the child. This is not going to scare this child.

[@haileyhinz2475]

Bitch

[@deelightiyamekhare4488]

this was the best lesson the parents that could give.

[@aspenm2576]

The child agreed it was a good way for her to understand the effects of her bullying and proceeded to become good friends with who she initially teased, and classic internet still threw a hissy fit lmao

[@happymasksalesman9929]

Yup.

[@miriamhavard7621]

Because the internet is always throwing a hissy fit. 🤷

[@susandavis6477]

Yes God forbid a child be taught that her behavior was not just unexceptable but cruel !

[@happymasksalesman9929]

@@susandavis6477 But, She became friends with the girl that she bullied in the end. What more do you possibly want?

[@diora266]

she deserves this, but i doubt she means it.

[@aniialowe1980]

Is it me, or does it seem like these “parenting experts” don’t know the first thing about proper parenting. I sometimes wonder if they even have children of their own.

[@kimmmerkim5811]

The sad part is that they probably HAD to have someone come on & say that, for the crazy sick parents in the world, who would go overboard and actually humiliate their kids. This was a beautiful teaching moment that was appreciated by all involved. But there are those out there that think that if a little is good, then.... There are some sick twisted people out there shouldn't even have kids. I think the silly expert was meant to put it into perspective for the idiots out there

[@TobeEvans]

@@kimmmerkim5811 too true, many parents would take it too far.

[@achocot]

actually the expert (with a phd) that was on the panel after the report, towards the end of the video, said that it was a very creative way to teach the lesson that needed to be learned and she likes it. The expert mentions how a lot of parents in North America are afraid of the consequences of punishment which means they parent based on emotion instead of by principle(which is what she recommends). She even comments how she like second hand clothes which i think also puts things into perspective; as a lot of people mentioned here she looks cute in those outfits regardless, it's just about how the girl is perceived

[@VanSaused]

@@achocot Agreed, the lady at the end offering her perspective is agreeable. Edward Hallowell on the other hand just made himself hypocritical by saying he doesn’t support humiliation via wearing “ugly” clothes when he himself said nothing about the bullying and didn’t offer his own advice on how to approach a situation like this.

[@tammycenter8757]

Most of them don't. If you research most of the people who are listed as parenting experts, you will find that they do not have kids and have never raised kids.

[@thoseofgreatambitionslythe3635]

This isn't cruel at all! People are so sensitive these days.

[@jessv5474]

ThoseOfGreatAmbition Slytherinforlife You sure what if I called *YOU* ugly?

[@azaleaguerrero416]

jess v she’s talking about the punishment not what the child did

[@nonetheyoshi9093]

I woulda made my child wear a potato sack

[@wini4933]

ThoseOfGreatAmbition Slytherinforlife that's right if that was my mom uuhm... She will hit me with the chancla 😫

[@erochie4947]

overacting.

[@cccynova]

This kind of humbling experience does not harm a child's self-esteem, if it's done correctly by the parents. What it does harm is a bloated ego. I'm so glad that these parents had such a relationship with their daughter that they could execute this strategy of teaching empathy in a way that taught her the intended lesson. And so glad that the girls became good friends!

[@signorinalucia7342]

To be honest, I wouldn't mind wearing that. It looks really comfortable.

[@ellie7601]

+Phantastic Ikr

[@fortheloveofkpop]

+Ellie lousie Davies those clothes are kinda cute omg

[@ellie7601]

***** I know I would love them.

[@imanithompson5613]

Kids are saying that those are the worst clothes and we're over here talking about how cute and comfortable it is 😂

[@mas0n25]

Phanic! At The Disco honestly, that kind of looks like European fashion

[@lolanakahale1665]

Best step mom ever!!!!!

[@honeybee4738]

Lolana Kahale 👍

[@deathclaw6033]

ASMR Leelee TRUE

[@coltonstreek1043]

Lolana Kahale she should be in jail

[@die9965]

Ikr

[@Ashley-ih6ip]

*YES

[@lexitheskulldog8458]

It’s not that bad it’s for a few days xd I mean now she knows how that girl feels

[@adsmith364]

And if more parents took this method and similar methods then there would be way less bullying. Some kids go through tough times and or hell at home.

[@adsmith364]

@CosmiiqQuibblePop no more like people who don't discipline their kids at all. People who don't discipline their kids worry more about them being embarrassed or humiliated. Spankings aren't always bad, some bad actions may cause for it, and it's what's needed, but not all the time.

[@Peacelove278]

What does xd mean?

[@bluebay1031]

@CosmiiqQuibblePop Actually they're most likely the people who do timeouts. Spankings are a form of punishment and can be just as effective depending on what they did. The ones complaining are the same ones who hug their kids when they're throwing stuff

[@misteriousgamr]

If there are no bullies, this wouldn't happen. And parental experts, instead of bashing someone by putting their daughter in the shoes of the one she bullied, should talk to kids who are bullies and stop it altogether

[@dancoulson6579]

So everyone's calling this a humiliating experience... What about the girl that can only afford these? Surely if she hears this situation as being humiliating, and embarrassing, then that will make her feel even worse?

[@cassiewalderbach973]

Dan Coulson my thoughts exactly

[@candicecart9786]

I think the point is the mom made her choose clothes she thought were ugly... Not just any clothes.... I don't think it was meant to be a dig on thrifting, but at thrift stores there are more options including non-in style items.... Heck Denise Richards donated high end shoes to goodwill in LA a couple of years ago- ppl would kill for those.

[@JustAFace_InTheCrowd]

Dan Coulson Oh well, there’s a fuck ton of cheap ass clothes out there and not all of them are hideous. She should just go shopping with her mom next time so she doesn’t buy aunt Gertrude dresses and quit bitching. I can LITERALLY get a 2 T-shirt’s and a pair of jeans for like $5 at Good Will. Probably less. Don’t even start.

[@vincelouse4409]

Candice LA is a different story people have money there, shit you see in their trash I'd love to have in my house.

[@busymeowser]

I just want to know if she wasn't the girls stepmother would she of made her do this? There is usually a lack of sympathy towards children from previous marriages. #stepmother

[@monsteratesso]

People will always have something to say about the way you raise your kids, I think this was the absolute BEST way to punish their child for what she did to that girl. The parents could've done what most people do and whoop her ass with a belt, but they chose the nonviolent way and these parents ARE STILL BEING TOLD THEYRE WRONG!

[@themadlass5584]

Robert Mata I agree with you on that. 😑 It's ridiculous. 😑😑😑😑

[@jacquedenise86]

Robert Mata exactly, they taught their daughter a valuable lesson, and I guarantee she'll remember for a long time.

[@miriamasillo5860]

Robert Mata more better than taking phone away.

[@monsteratesso]

Miriam Asillo oh definitely

[@lauraa.x_o]

If she’s a fashionista she would know everyone has their own style, and could’ve help the girl with her style 😐

[@justagirpup]

Some kids dont get a "style" bc they cant afford it. Hand me downs walmart and goodwill did not have cute or even decent stuff when i was a kid. I never got to wear clothes i wanted. Maybe that was this girls case idk

[@savvii2996]

@loveutill theendoftimes I’m 11 and I do? Even some 5 year olds do

[@savvii2996]

@@2186kmr Wow nice story:))))))

[@chevon1920]

Well maybe she will now since they’re friends.

[@rabbitlove1785]

Well she grew from it and became a better person

[@donnalaszcz4418]

Great way to educate. Kids can be so horribly cruel...

[@looneydoe]

Even the bully stated it was the best lesson learned!!!

[@creekline5009]

GOOD FOR THE PARENTS

[@susannakailing1713]

Worked for me. I was a little jerk until I went to HS and the other kids tore me apart. After that, I became the nicest kid in the school. You really don't know how it feels until it happens to you.

[@xjustaprofile]

Susanna Kailing I would say is this supposed to be a punishment? Thrift store clothes can look cOoL

[@Yellow0re0sn4cks]

Taemin's Cat yeah, she looked great in some outfits.

[@indago5032]

Susanna Kailing I'm still in middle and I am the type that's nice and smart but I swear in high school I'll go crazy.

[@xlexymsp7321]

Once upon a time i wad bullied by two people. I had moved to a different place and went to this school, but when i got there i was bullied by these two girls. There was a girl in that class and she is now my best-friend but anyways, I hated school and wanted to go back to my old school badly. A week later the girl came back from her trip, so i play this game called MSP. So in weird off but the girl was a lot like me so we became really good friends. And then the rest of the year was a little easier. So next year one of the bullies was in my class and I was mad. We eventually became friends and now I have two besties. She told me that the main one made her do everything and that she didn’t mean to hurt my feelings, my mom had no idea btw. Anyways after I became besties with them I started to like school. And now, I’m glad that I moved to that school. The end.

[@dannyfire2500]

Same I would bully kids to the point they felt like crap all day. So they could relate to the outside world, early on.

[@jrock1030]

As a teacher the biggest thing I learned is that discipline promotes change. That discipline is different for everyone

[@Confidentk9sCa]

100% agree. Positive reinforcement can work wonders too.

[@paigeisgaming]

This girl is in high school or college now. I just realized that. Hopefully she is still nice👍🏻

[@yagirlalyxx]

Paige She would probably be somewhere around like her sophomore year by now

[@juanshaftpatel7488]

shes a single mom with a blakc baby dady

[@leahgebrehiwot1484]

@@juanshaftpatel7488 wow

[@alex-sy3tm]

@@juanshaftpatel7488 bruh

[@JessicaJasinski]

@@juanshaftpatel7488 how do u know that? and if she is.. So what. Dont be mean

[@r2kwvc875]

Hey it’s not cruel if you think about it. Like it’s not permanent. And why can’t anyone discipline their children without some people thinking that they are abusing them? How our they gonna learn from the mistakes they make??? I really give props to the parents in this video. It honestly was an amazing idea!

[@yes680]

MMT PRIDE agreed

[@Angie24love]

My cousin did this to her 14 year old daughter when she told her to stop picking her up from school in "ghetto" clothes (basketball shorts, a t-shirt, and flip flops). She didn't buy her thriftstore clothes though, she made her wear her oldest clothing items she had. Needless to say, she learned her lesson and stopped being a disrespectful brat😅

[@r2kwvc875]

MOONCHILD Dang!😂😂😂

[@ABEL-cd2sp]

MOONCHILD respect.

[@sportskid9189]

MMT PRIDE fr people think stuff like this is abuse

[@connierothwell9458]

I stand with the parents on this one...Yes the girl got humiliated. She was only going through this for a very short period of time unlike the bullied girl who has endured this behavior for years...

[@shannonwhite6963]

This is actually beautiful that they became friends.

[@xls501]

The best way to teach kids is to punish not to abuse nor scream and shout.

[@tinytt854]

NIllY ELS not punish. teach. you me and anybody can get nice 2nd hand clothes from the thrift store. I got stuff from thoes places with price tags still on. saving money makes me Real happy. my sons are grown now. had no clue abt 2nd hand stores. and hand me downs from brothers was the bomb too. just saying.

[@dannaj4507]

NIllY ELS true the punishment was civil and smart

[@emileethao6894]

agreed .

[@BellaBells-im8yq]

NIllY ELS fuck that,beat the shit out of them.If that were my kid,I would’ve beat the shit out of her.

[@kendallmintz1719]

Bella .Bells wow

[@joemazzello8040]

Why she complaining thrift store clothes are the shit

[@xjustaprofile]

PANDA :D IKR!!? *The parents needed a better punishment than that, if that was me I would say THANK YOU FOR BUYING ME THESE BEAUTIFUL CLOTHES*

[@brydeegibson5307]

Fack Forever ikr

[@tsuyuasui7297]

Fack Forever if that’s you on the profile pic can you tell me where you bought your overall

[@joemazzello8040]

tsuyu asui no it is not me go ask Jack grazer

[@kim-rb6tl]

THANK YOU!!

[@ashtontruelove]

“Humiliation can be harmful for the child’s self esteem” dudeeee what about the victim of the bullying 💀 this young lady was the bully and simply endured the same thing as she did to the other little girl

[@kathymathers1611]

BeautybyashtonT what about the victim you ask?? Well she was apologized to by the bully and she got a new friend because of the bully got punished get it now??

[@ashtontruelove]

Kathy Mathers that’s what I meant, as in before they became friends

[@Pinkymajor4]

Kathy Mathers Ans that only happened because of the lesson her parents taught her smart ass

[@jessicas9844]

BeautybyashtonT exactly and this is why bullying still exists because of these so called experts

[@gt_47shawty64]

BeautybyashtonT lol tru

[@onthewayenelcamino]

To all those parents thinking this was too harsh.....shame on you! You are a great part of the reasons why this country has gone downhill.

[@elm1230]

Ok, but she looked so adorable in those thrift store dresses honestly 😂

[@miriamhavard7621]

I agree!!!!¡!

[@Kawai_girl001]

Same

[@kimmmerkim5811]

RIGHT?!? But SHE thought they were ugly and that's how mom picked them out.😂😂 I think this is brilliant 😂

[@lambertlum1087]

What's wrong with those dresses? They look great on her.