About Bella and my last decision... | Dan Q&A | Ramyun and Chill

Dan opens up about his last decision on Ramyun and Chill! He talks about Bella and Sabrina.
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[@DKDKTV]

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[@mari_comix]

Extend the time..there is no need to close the campaign and make it for only 2 months

[@mari_comix]

You re already 44k if u extend more you ll have all money in a couple of months

[@DKDKTV]

@@mari_comix unfortunately Kickstarter doesnt allow you that.. the max campaign period is 2 months..

[@sisanababy5884]

PD-nim! Please host a live session where your viewers can chime in. I've got a bone to pick with some of the views in these comments coz like nah!🤷‍♀️. I want BL00D.

[@beedeedee1252]

It would be a shame to see it all go to waste bcuz of kickstarters short time frame. Maybe try to promote more through tiktok and through the panelists socials

[@laressa4994]

Dan is the king.... Of overthinking things.

[@judithmafwimbo2281]

😂

[@christy2152]

hahahaha

[@yorkabelyorki9845]

U really right 😂

[@genericyoutubechannel6180]

🎵 I'll get over you, I know I will, cause I'm the king of over (wishful) thinking 🎵 😂

[@feliciasmith150]

Right!! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@brathom112978]

Dan, Dan, Dan.... You thought Sabrina would choose you, but she wouldn't even give you a high-five. People always mention Erika playing Dan but never mention how Sabrina could have bailed him out of those situations.

[@Favour7153]

To be fair she was interested but changed her mind, I dont think she had any responsibility to do that

[@AlanaeImontae]

i talked about how Sabrina could’ve helped throughtout the entire rest of the show after she said she’d choose him😭😭

[@SJ-kd7cv]

Ya she didn't give just a hand to him.. Dan is pure I think ㅋㅋㅋ

[@Lin10uson]

Say that!

[@Lin10uson]

I don't think they were advocating for Sabrina bailing-Dan-out so much as putting forth that this same woman showed him no attention ever and didn't back-him-up when he was right (like when he was debating with Erika)@@Favour7153. Nothing's anyone's responsibility when it comes to a show like this, but it all speaks to the person and potential relationship. I think that's the picture the initial commenter to which you're responding meant to paint.

[@h.g5987]

I feel that people were rooting for Bella and Dan because they looked like a real couple

[@oreochocolate_lavacake9960]

Nah for real though on the last night when they were sitting together if there was no context and I saw them I would've thought they were married 💀💀

[@yolandaperry86]

I feel the same way. Plus Bella was the first girl on the show to actually appreciate Dan and vocally express it to him. I found that really genuine of her and liked that someone finally realized that he was one of the best guys there. He was finally getting appreciated and then he messed it up smh.

[@vanessarl8]

They interchanged photos with each other, that seems there is still interest, so if they talk again who knows what could happen..👀

[@luxbeauty4952]

@@oreochocolate_lavacake9960 no you wouldn’t. They had no chemistry.

[@chrystianaw8256]

How?

[@piusonos]

It's hilarious to me that Dan didn't expect Sabrina to reject him, for what the show present it at least it was the most obvious outcome lmaooo

[@piaschmidt7357]

Great interview eventhough he seemed so nervous. I knew the KJ thing played a role and i dont blame him or think he made a "bad choice", he made the right choice for himself at that moment. Its not right for people to pretend like Dan spent sooooo much more time speaking to Bella than Sabrina. For me, him picking Sabrina didnt come out of the blue because we saw them speak episodes before and he did hint on the date with Bella that he even thought of taking Sabrina on that date. You should never mention another girls name on a date lol. I think if he and Bella had been picked for the RC room, he would have picked her because he would have gotten to know her better. My guess is that he thought Bella was still into KJ. Dont think any decision was bad or better because neither would have led to a relationship anyway

[@oreochocolate_lavacake9960]

Perfect summary I agree with you I do hope Bella and Dan can be friends though Dan is the man bro he has good vibes

[@vaner5261]

Exactly. People need to stop criticizing him 😒

[@Jflow724]

Valid!

[@Favour7153]

😂 the last sentence for me

[@yoog1]

I agree with Dan that 3 days is a bit too short. More days = more romance/drama!

[@gggg-ew9sz]

That's why we gotta stream yall

[@mkelly4400]

Lol Dan’s pick up line at the end had me laughing so hard. I really like how Dan answered the questions especially about why he didn’t chose Bella. It was a very interesting answer because Dan was open and honest about why he made that decision at that time and I totally respect that. Thank you DKDKTV, Danny, David and Anna.

[@kimwilliams5165]

Respect though??? He is on a dating show in the year 2022/23 and has an issue with someone what, not being a virgin for him? Is his self esteem that low? If someone else likes who you like shouldn't he have stepped up not back? That is why he went for Sabrina in the end. The guys interpreted her saying she had never dated as Hi I'm a virgin = I won't know you have a small 🍄 instead of an reg 🍆 and won't know that you are bad in bed. So happy both women dodged that bullet.

[@Oscario8]

The most endearing thing about Dan is that although he's doing his best to project that gentleman player energy, we can see how he's an insecure puppy on the inside.

[@AlanaeImontae]

forreal. i get heavy “late bloomer” vibes from him..

[@JessAnonymous]

I find it so cute

[@ecupcakes2735]

THE ONE WEVE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR

[@jamesangela5010]

Like since my life time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ai-bugged]

oml tru

[@lovejoseph1899]

Like for real though, waiting with canes, he has a lot of explaining to do😂😂😂😂

[@LyssieLysse]

I really like Dan. He has a healthy dose of confidence and he’s a goofball.

[@queenshifa3468]

Dan your good man but you really messed up when you didn't choose Bella

[@midnightdreams8136]

I think he might have been scared of rejection again.

[@lanneymonteiro]

Fr

[@immima5219]

@@midnightdreams8136 scared of rejection so he chooses someone that has rejected him before lollllll

[@dl1907]

Bella didn't nessecary choose him as her real pick anyways. Dan was just a 2nd option. Bella doesn't even really like Dan anyways so it doesn't matter if he didn't pick her.

[@immima5219]

@@dl1907Bella said she liked him and exactly what she liked about him actually

[@anniedee8136]

His reason for fumbling the bag with Bella is so cringe. I mean the signs were there that she liked you. You knew Kyojin ghosted her. Sabrina wouldn't even high five you, Erika rejected you TWICE, Tiffany wasn't interested and Sonja was off limits thanks to Min Jae, and you leave the only person who you had good chemistry with (even if it was for five seconds) to ask someone who wouldn't even high five you. Dan took the biggest L compared to everyone on that show.

[@Drippinonyou]

seems that the KJ thing really affected Dan. After finding out from bella, i guess he didnt want to pick her and chose someone random.

[@nonegenarian]

dan sucks

[@JessAnonymous]

We don’t know what happened after Bella and Dans date. They don’t show EVERYTHING that happened. He literally said he found out about KJ & Bella and that swayed his decision. I totally understand his pov although I would’ve loved for him to have chose Bella. But he’s probably thinking Bella wasn’t honest with him which she wasn’t

[@katiecaddle209]

Bella doesn't have to be honest with him when Dan showed no interest in her plus she doesn't owe anyone anything and Bella was truthful to him. She explained how she was ghosted by kj and now you're a in defender cause you think in is innocent. Last time I checked, Bella was the one that wanted to talk to kj, no the other way around.

[@Niqpanda]

Based on how he's describing things, he was going to choose Bella, but he just got in his head too much about his final decision. I don't think it's right to constantly be on top of his head about it, though. He didn't choose her, he didn't choose her. It's okay. It's not the end of the world. It probably wasn't even meant to be, and that's okay. He's not a bad person for it.

[@Avionne_Parris]

I liked Dan from the beginning (those pink pants are 🔥 and I will die on that bridge!) and after this interview, I still do. Hope he's in season 2 and can find someone who really gets him. If not, he'd make an awesome panelist :P

[@Abena1709]

Ditto. Loved his dress style on the show and loved his pink pants! Not sure why people disliked them. Just because someone won't or doesn't wear pink doesn't give them the right to judge those who do.

[@slee2695]

He's goofy in a likeable way

[@abigailstefanycriollochava8202]

It is actually very understandable that he did not choose Bella at the end now. Few days to know the person knowing she choose 2 people before and wasn't interested until the end so he preferred to go for the one he talked the most even if it wasn't mend to be!

[@notmessy519]

Well remember he was only interested in talking to Tiffany for a while there, just saying

[@immima5219]

I personally think that her choosing two other people was understandable. Just like how Chan went on dates with others as well. If you're trying to make the most out of the show, they played the game the best cuz no one else had the guts to.

[@piaschmidt7357]

It is very understandable. Bella and him spent more time speaking to other people than with each other. Their date was literally one day before the decision making. Lets also not forget him mentioning Sabrina on their date. I think if they went in the RC room together he would have definitely picked her because he would have then gotten to know her better than he got to know Sabrina. I also think he thought Bella was still stuck on KJ and with the guys telling him that Sabrina was interested in him, he would have thought it more sensible to pick someone who he heard was also interested in him vs someone who still had someone else on their mind

[@TraSea72]

Exactly

[@bierangtamen]

@@piaschmidt7357 Holy crap this is the most insightful comment I have read by far Since we got a week by week basis, it felt like him and Bella spent a lot more time and he knew about the whole kj situation from way early on than he actually probably did on the show (since it was 3 days and I think it was mentioned on the night before the voting or something) For us, we knew exactly what happened between the two but we don’t know what Kyojun said to Dan behind the scenes, we don’t know what Bella said to Dan and they probably spent a lot of time talking with other people as well so now I feel like it’s completely understandable

[@zuraondembeats540]

Can't wait to finally discover why he didn't take Bella

[@larpy]

Because kj and Bella. Isn’t he allowed to not choose her ?

[@andrijanastojkovic6838]

He liked Sabrina more

[@popcolzie4129]

He talked about it on his instagram and it’s was different then what said here. On Instagram he said it was bc he only dates Asian girls and he said “if I had known it was an international dating show I wouldn’t have joined” 💀

[@zuraondembeats540]

@@popcolzie4129 the fact that I was rooting for this guy... 😧

[@KR-je3dv]

@@popcolzie4129 no he said that actually 😮🫣

[@Katice634]

Good Q&A. I’m not mad at Dan anymore. Like Bella said he’s a good guy.

[@eleasebarrow7897]

Dan seems like someone who would be fun to have in your friend group. He shoots straight, doesn't avoid conflict, tries to make the most of any situation and seems to like himself. I knew someone called "Dan, the man" when I was a kid, so that's amusing to me.

[@farrapedley9605]

so I have only just picked this show up and am sad that the funding for season 2 wasn't reached. I am sending to my friends and if you are still collecting for season 2 can you update your funding page as it appears to have not been updated since Feb 2023. Loved the show loved the concept and it is definitely worth watching!

[@Kizzylie]

this whole thing made me think about something... KJ did some stuff with Bella in the room, kinda "ghosted" her, didn't come clear about stuff and still got accepted, while Bella, who came clear about stuff in the most respectful way possible to both people who were involved with them (aka Tiffany and Dan) didn't get picked. Dan says here 'it was really new to me, etc....' does it mean that if he had known about all of this sooner he wouldn't even consider trying things out with Bella? Tiffany wasn't even mad at the fact he (KJ) was disrespecful towards someone who got intimate with him, she seemed mad cause he got intimate to someone.... still don't understand the dinamics. I would love to understand all reasons.

[@lilac8794]

The best thing bella would have done was to avoid KJ by all means and focus on those that wanted her. KJ highly disliked her even the aftershow interview proves it.

[@ryancaston3009]

KJ was living in her head rent free! 💀💀💀

[@lilac8794]

@@ryancaston3009 facts. She kept picking him. Ladies should wait to be picked

[@immima5219]

@@ryancaston3009 well after you kiss someone that you start to like, they wouldn't be in your head? lets be understanding lol

[@janvdb9258]

Highly disliked? Where did yij make that up from!!! He implied no such thing. He said they weren't allowed to go with the same person again and crew was always around and yes he opted for Tiffany but doesn't mean he disliked Bella . See a doctor you liar.

[@vamswolfmom4498]

In the beginning like most of the ladies, Bella showed interest, but soon after realized who he was and she moved on! She felt badly that Kj didn’t say anything after they kissed, and that’s understandable. She wasn’t tripping was the dude 😂😂😂After the show, KJ seemed as though he got hated on because of her, still failing to understand because he didn’t say he was moving on…he’s a moron for that!

[@orleanealima4066]

;I think that Dan is a good person as well and his reasons for not choosing Bella were, to a certain degree, valid. My only issue was that he didn't properly communicate this to her prior to the last day, thus leading her on. I feel as if it would have been a lot more appropriate for him to take her feelings into consideration and let her know that there was a possibility of him jumping ship for x,y,z reasons

[@honest2hu1]

Bella was the life of the party, beautiful and smart. Lets hear the truth already Lol😂

[@Father2.0]

Fr

[@starr8008]

So basically, he was worried that Bella had been passed around and none of the other guys admitted to it. He went after Sabrina because he would not have to over think it.

[@JessAnonymous]

Passed around is craazzyyy LOL but true

[@christinejames4013]

Okay. I'm a little impress with his perspective. Better than KJ's that's for sure. I guess I can understand what he was saying.

[@sammas9123]

I love Dan but it's like he really doesn't know when to stop (being too confident on the verge of being too full of himself - at least sometimes) or he is very good at pretending to be like this. He overdoes some behaviours sometimes but at the same time this is the funniest, so... I guess the goal has been reached. Love to all of the cast!

[@liuser]

probably overcompensating, but i totally feel the same way

[@jlsc6847]

There is nothing wrong with being confident. He’s not over the edge.

[@sammas9123]

@@jlsc6847 Not in this video, for sure, but I meant the show and I interpreted his behaviour as above. But of course it doesn't mean it's true. Your comment actually confirms it. I guess, if it's about those social interactions and all people will always differ on their opinions and that one is just mine.

[@dulcejoao5465]

The most anticipated..

[@senorakrystle2615]

Now after his answer of not choosing Bella is understandable as he knew how he felt the first two days. It all happened vice versa as he did not choose Bella in the first place and then Bella did not choose but somehow game choose them but Dan ditch in the end. So it hit everyone in the end. Anyways happy for both as you'll got to enjoy events

[@armybby1]

We need more PEOPLE that actually wants to date outside of the norm an not people they PARENTS will only approve of exactly why I haven’t invested my money into season 2 yet

[@rosean374]

You could be right. I really wanted to see opposites take a chance on each other. But they wanted the more attractive partners or as you say they chose girls who they can take to mama. The show would benefit if contestants were made to date a variety of people

[@l2727]

people aren't going on dating shows to find someone to bring home to mom and dad..

[@kaviddurr5106]

More attractive how?!

[@slee2695]

Maybe just maybe guys dont find attractive who the girls in the comments think is attractive

[@armybby1]

@@slee2695 please they all chased Tiffany an she looked the most basic

[@Nili7012]

The interview I was waiting for ! Dan is not perfect, but love him ! Love the way he smiles. Out of all the contestants, I feel like he would be a really fun friend

[@sArAsara-rr2qm]

finally dan interview

[@Miss.T_]

I can't believe Dan didn't know there was stuff going on with KJ and Bella even tho they went to the Ramyun and Chill room.... come now Dan! I wish we got to see more behind the scenes and the full convos to see how it actually went down, like was Dan being too sensitive or was it the way it was handled? I think for Season 2, you guys should defo have some cams rolling 24/7 so we can get the tea

[@nyeguono]

Chelsea come on nau!

[@Kal_sng]

24/7??? definition of creep tf

[@Miss.T_]

@@nyeguono huh?

[@Miss.T_]

@Han Joo LOL if the concept of filming others is creepy to you then why are you on KZbin watching videos? 🤣😂

[@vanessarl8]

I think they did filmed it, just didn't show bc of showing more important things or whatever? Also that it was on purpose bc at the end they cut just when Dan was about to say why he didn't pick Bella 🙃

[@1234567starfish]

i want to say this about this “race” topic that keeps getting addressed poorly. two things can be true at once. there can be a show with multiple races on it and people can come on the show with racial bias/self hatred as well. i will not accuse any of the men on this show of being racist or not because we only got to see a small portion of them on tv, however, i feel that moving forward if you are going to have these serious discussions, i feel there needs to be a more informed panel of reactors moving forward AT LEAST. there is so much miss information being said because people are scared of the “label” of racism, instead of the actual act. i really hope too that these next contestants are a lot more open to different experiences and people because, from what was shown to us, minjae and chan were the only men really open to dating outside of their race.

[@Glorialolx]

Agree

[@Father2.0]

This is so true their all like “i cant have a racial bias I wouldn’t have came on the show if I did” but only cared about pursuing certain races even if they weren’t compatible at all .

[@deepa_thomas]

wish i could give more likes to this comment!! there's such a historic trend of black women being undervalued compared to women of other races, and it felt so out of touch to watch the panelists act as if these men are immune to racial biases. they kept badmouthing erika for bringing race up but barely considered if there was any truth in what she was saying smh

[@BrownGirlColorStruckWorld]

This point exactly. Race is a 400 year old caste system. Caste systems have hierarchy. Also, just because someone desires you, doesn't mean they respect you. I think a lot of those men used Bella as an experience, but wouldn't pursue her seriously, even though she was the baddest woman there (no disrespect to the rest). They all predominantly pursued the most Korean styled woman seriously. Then the white woman. Then the south east asian woman. Then the light skin black girl. Then the dark skinned black girl. If anyone needs material for their Sociology 101 class....well here ya go

[@1234567starfish]

@@BrownGirlColorStruckWorld i was literally talking to my friend how they kept saying “bella’s the most popular” ,” belle has been on the most dates” yet PROVED erika’s point in the end lmaooo. erika was definitely the wrong messenger but her point was correct and like u said, they just used bella as an experience but never took her seriously because of her skin tone “allegedly” but they not ready for that one. it’s sad.

[@chrisvianney]

There's 2 things, either Ramyun and Chill didn't show everything in the right order or Dan is messing with us. The Bella story and timeline doesn't make sense. KJ and Bella went in the R&C room before he had his date with Bella. So him saying he was a bit turned off when he learned that something happened between KJ and Bella doesn't make sense. And the fact that he tried to go with Sabrina at the end was so bizarre. Of course it's a fun dating game, nothing should be taken too seriously, but their answers are frustrating in a way . I feel like KJ and Dan have been very misleading. The other guys, especially Changhak seemed more genuine than them. And again, it's just a dating game; let's not get too serious. My questioning is just in the heat of the moment. EDIT : After reading a few comments and replies, I understand that he learned the details about Bella and KJ on the last day. So now I understand why he might have changed his mind.

[@bonbonedits]

Bella revealed they made out on last day, so it makes sense he didn't know.

[@bierangtamen]

I think there are some parts you may have misunderstood (and I misunderstood those same parts lol). He wasn’t turned off by Bella going into the Ramyeon and Chill room obviously but rather by the fact that Bella may have an interest in Kj after he heard about them making out in the room the day before the votes (according to Dan) Finally, the whole drama between Bella and Kj may have set off some alarms or red flags for Dan who knew that Sabrina was into him. Also, Dan and Bella got a lot of screentime spending time with each other but realistically, they probably spent more time with other people than with each other in the actual show. For us, the show was published on a weekly basis but for them it was only three nights. So within those three nights, he might have found out on the last day what happened with Bella and Kyojun, assumed something else and then rewatched the show and regretted his decision of picking Sabrina.

[@chrisvianney]

@@bonbonedits Ok thanks I really thought he knew before. Then it makes sense.

[@chrisvianney]

@@bierangtamen Thanks for your reply, It makes more sense now.

[@makinsomechanges30]

This one was very funny. He definitely is very charismatic. He could be a great friend or bf either way💜.

[@ashleigh_robyn]

i honestly really liked Dan a lot. I really didn't understand why the judges were so harsh on him it honestly felt unnecessary because to me he didn't seem malicious or sneaky or anything. Despite nobody picking him over and over again he always held his head up and didn't complain like others (Erika). Sabrina and Erika really upset me because of their actions towards him. He was a nice guy on the show that was just unlucky and made a bad choice at the end. He deserved better.

[@eliyah2402]

I don’t know why I’m excited for this lol

[@lamore87]

We are all waiting for this one!!!!

[@icingcake]

Dan is so funny when being intentionally and intentionally self-deprecating - points for the quickness in choosing BTS over Blackpink 😂👍

[@shwetaghosh6193]

I liked Dan, and I still do. He's a character💖

[@jimgelix8222]

I Hope we have Season 2 Please guys

[@jlsc6847]

Would be nice if it were longer too!

[@michelleBabe]

There won’t be one!

[@jimgelix8222]

@@michelleBabe YH The support isn't enough

[@melc5000]

IDC I would choose Dan over everyone on season 1 men.. he has his own charms a genuine soul ❤

[@swisdom9117]

People should remember that at the end of the day Dan and all the other contestants are just people. People have good and bad qualities and do dump stuff and good stuff. Tbh this whole 'drama' is nothing to me. Not sure why people are dragging it out more than it needs to be

[@OhGG]

Finally the Dan Q&A 😭

[@TraSea72]

Can't help but like Dan.

[@swisdom9117]

True

[@JessAnonymous]

True he’s a good guy. I hate how I judged him in the beginning

[@newbztv7748]

who cares what they said about KJ and Bella Dan... She made herself clear that she was into you. Even told you this. yet you are confused on something that happened before you and she didn't care about after it was done.

[@Pretty19991]

I felt a tad hurt for Bella but we can't help but love Dan too lol. Loved his interview and explanations😄

[@alexisschlecht7682]

Although it was a little surprising he didn't go with Bella in the end, it still made sense that he went to Sabrina. He showed interest in her well before...the interest just wasn't reciprocated

[@laluna2264]

I've stayed out of ALL the comments across the show and Q&As....but with duplicious Dan!!!!! Even with KJs Q&A I could listen and just conclude "yeah rite" but Dan...smh. In hindsight I'm glad Bella didn't leave with him!!!

[@MARIOPOWERUP]

Finally the only one with some sense. Bella was too good for any of those dudes. I personally didn’t like Dan’s personality and he was the most unattractive guy out of all of them

[@christinakent317]

Given his explanation his decision makes sense to me honestly.

[@katrien3868]

Honestly loved Dan more. Was waiting for this

[@nancyibe9004]

I’m sorry but Sabrina was a sneaky one also, she claimed Dan was her type but treated him the same way Erica treated him. Go back and pay attention to Sabrina and how she moved when it came to Dan. Everyone was shitting on Tiffany but the girl true to who she was and Bella is just the one.

[@christinejames4013]

Lord I hope this will be better than KJ's because wtf....

[@Theone98_]

Fr😭

[@naegahwasa7846]

Kj was so boring didn't even watch it half way😭

[@abigailstefanycriollochava8202]

@@naegahwasa7846 SAME KKKK

[@lovejoseph1899]

The dude was so boring

[@naegahwasa7846]

@@abigailstefanycriollochava8202 lmaooooo

[@nekitaclark6539]

It'll be nice to have a reunion show...

[@Yahnax2823]

It's obvious to tell that Dan is a man that is an honest person who is comfortable with himself. He admitted to his mistakes and understands people and respects their point of view while still disagreeing. (P.S. When it comes to character, Dan is way better than KJ.)

[@queenredfromthequeencity]

So he didn't pick Bella because he heard about the KJ thing and didn't want to be a part of that drama. Makes a lot of sense with him being insecure, so I wonder if he was told to create that drama.

[@piaschmidt7357]

insecure would be picking someone you think is interested in someone else all because you are afraid of rejection and know you are that persons only option. Insecure people dont take risks and he took a risk when he chose Sabrina.

[@kaviddurr5106]

Right he's lying..

[@queenredfromthequeencity]

@Pia Schmidt no, he didn't think he was the only option sounds like it. Which is why he kept saying he didn't want to put himself in that drama. He also said the guys told him Sabrina liked him.

[@pootlovato8237]

@@piaschmidt7357 no he wasn't because everyone already told him Sabina liked him, that's why he was surprised and sad when she rejected him. he would be taking more of a risk with bella because of what happened with KJ it made him feel like there was more there between them.

[@olamidepayne7959]

Finally someone picked Netflix.

[@nesswilliams6929]

More bull ish explaining if he even tries to , sending KJ responses shows childishness they were So Not worthy of Bellas time just boys who wanted a taste of the chocolate ugh

[@christinejames4013]

Why was I not surprise about what Kj said what Dan did? 😂 I can smell a narcissist just by looking at this upcoming video.

[@sisanababy5884]

........a hem!

[@nesswilliams6929]

@@sisanababy5884 a hem !

[@Abena1709]

@@savannahreid1060 well good thing that's just your personal opinion, cos I *loved* this show with all the contestants. You're character assassinating someone you *_don't_* know?! Simply from watching a show?!?! Like seriously??

[@savannahreid1060]

@@Abena1709 i loved the show really, those two did just not do it for me. And ur right, that is MY opinion, not sure why u sound so angry. Besides cut the bs, this is a show, something for entertainment pleasure. Everyone is gonna judge, make jokes, give their opinions and whatnot. What i said is no different from what anyone even yourself hasn't done in their life; which is to make assumptions about someone you don't know..

[@Jflow724]

Although I'm still disappointed in him NOT choosing Bella, I completely understand his response.

[@ladyabundance5818]

He likes Asians girls nnot blacks that's why he didn't choose then

[@user2347rr]

@@ladyabundance5818 African girls, black girls or African amerikkkan girls will suffice. Have some decorum.

[@kira_lana]

​@@ladyabundance5818 black people not "blacks"

[@WillowRose]

Dan and Bella would have made beautiful babies. They look good together!

[@Lilly-ud6qs]

I really love Dan and all his Dannisms!

[@westafricana4343]

Viewers are weird. So Dan should have picked Bella all because she was interested on the LAST day? By that logic, why arent people upset that Bella didnt focus on Minjae first since he was interested on the first day? As sad as it is that Bella didnt get picked, i think this was the best thing Dan could have done for himself. What i have noticed on a lot of these dating shows which include black darkskin women is that there is always IMENSE pressure on the men. If he did pick Bella there would have still been people out there accusing him of being fake. Even worse, viewers would be pushing for an update more than they usually would. If they started a relationship and ended up breaking up for WHATEVER reason, viewers would then start hating Dan even more and STILL insist on race being the reason. There was no winning for Dan the moment he went on that date with Bella because of the amount of pressure a lot of black viewers put on ANY guy that shows an interest in a black girl. This is mainly because of the obsession with feeling represented and making Bellas experience their experience. Same pattern with literally EVERY diverse dating show If the situation was reversed and Bella was the one to pick someone else instead of Dan, most viewers would not have cared and there wouldnt have been such a uproar. Instead people would have praised her and would have mostly still made Dan the bad guy in that situation

[@k-multistan-q-jessi4714]

😐🤨

[@Abena1709]

The truth!! With excellent points made that people just don't want to hear or read!

[@immima5219]

I agree with you until you talked about Bella getting a pass. Bella is still getting dragged for going on dates with 3 of the guys there already. If she had pulled that Dan move, she would be made fun of even more than now so stop making things up. people say it's a race thing, and I disagree for the most part. I just wish Dan didn't give all his attention to Bella on the last two days and actually went after who he really knew he liked for the remainder of the show.

[@vamswolfmom4498]

Wrong! Both Dan and Bella wrote letters to each other - Dan, up to the last hour didn’t show any sign that he was upset about Bella in any way. Therefore were left thinking he was gonna chose her over someone who didn’t like him at all. TBH most of us felt so badly for Dan that so many of the girls rejected him in the beginning, so when Bella picked up on what we saw, we were rooting for both of them, more so Dan! We love Bella, but we wanted Dan to catch a break!😂😂😂

[@westafricana4343]

@@vamswolfmom4498 1. both the letter and the date with Bella happened on the same day! Makes sense that he would write a letter about the person he just had a date with since they were asked to write a letter about someone. 2. You are giving Bella too much credit which once again proves my point. Bella was not the first person or only person to pick up on what we saw! in fact her going on a date with Dan or having an interest in Dan has more to do with KJ rejecting her. Its not hard to suddenly see potential in someone else after finding out that the person you like doesnt like you back. It was actually Sabrina who was the first girl to feel bad for Dan and she was also the first to compliment his character and she was the first to actually talk about being interested in him. 3. Most viewers didnt care about Dan being alone, most cared more about KJ not being with Bella. People werent rooting for both of them they were rooting for Bella which is why they quickly changed their attitude towards Dan.

[@kimleemoon]

Dan is so lovable. I smiled through his entire interview. He’s just too much! 😂 I hope there will be a Season 2 because I want to see more of Dan Kim❤

[@tamiwilliams8521]

Dan is the man. He has got it totally going on! He's 🔥fire. I wish I was 30 years younger! Lol And the fact that he used to go to school and live near me a few years back is crazy. I missed my chance I guess!!!! Lol All the best wishes for an awesome future, Mr. Dan!!!!!!!

[@shyniah728]

Dan and kj can have each other honestly

[@aintjus]

I feel like he didn’t take Bella cause there relationship had something to do with it like if they dated his family probably would’ve said something about that because she a foreigner idk I’m just guessing though.🙂

[@brittanys505]

that's definitely possible, I think overall he just wasn't ready for a relationship with such an awesome girl, like he must've liked her but he didn't feel like he could offer her what she deserved.

[@deekay13]

Nah he was just being too nice. He had a nice date with Bella and wanted to balance that out by extending some love to Sabrina, who he probably felt was feeling left out, despite the two of them having no prior chemistry. Big L. His date with Bella probably filled him with so much confidence that he thought he could just swoop in there and sway Sabrina on the spot.

[@queenshifa3468]

@@brittanys505 good 👏

[@l2727]

he's american so i'd actually assume his family would be the most open to interracial dating out of any other guy on the show LOL but i don't think anyone really had the intention of meeting someone to bring home to mom and dad. it was just a casual dating show.

[@aintjus]

@@l2727 oh I thought he was from Korea 😅

[@Blakberi73]

Dan it wasn't like you had to marry her.

[@immima5219]

LMAOOO fr

[@mimiad397]

Exactly so why are people sp upset he didn't pick her? Not that deep

[@immima5219]

@Mimi Ad I don't think most people are genuinely upset I'd say it's an overstatement. Some people blow things out of proportion but they don't deserve that attention

[@MahoganyBreeze]

Off the bat, he didn't have to pick Bella. I think people are just confused b/c she's the only one that we saw him actually have some kind of connection with. Even the last night, he was sticking close to her. The KJ thing seems like a bit of a cop out because he was all about Tiffany at the beginning & if he got any play from her, he would have gone further as well. He may have only hung out with Bella toward the end, but he actually hung out with Bella. Sabrina didn't even really try to get chosen for the boat date. I think he had his eye on Sabrina after Tiffany but she really wasn't giving him much play so he hung with Bella who kinda was interested. Ultimately, he went with where his interest always was. Also, he looks nice on this interview.

[@anulkaaw]

I've just got around to pledging my support to the Kick starter campaign and from what I see it's not even half way there to reach the goal. Come on people! 🥺

[@sophien5416]

Editing did Dan dirty. They should have let Dan's explanation for his decision play on screen. It also opened the show up to be criticized for colourism in the cast. People couldn't understand Dan's decision to not choose Bella and assumed it was because of race, but really I think anyone would be thrown off if your love interest kissed someone else on top of never selecting you in the first place.

[@alvidean22]

Even though he’s Asian , Dan is from California, a very diverse state. I never thought Bella’s race was a factor for him. However, I’m still disappointed he didn't choose her for whatever reason.

[@thezu9250]

Just because someone is in a different country that is diverse doesn’t mean that they themselves don’t have prejudiced dating preferences. Have you talk to any of those people? They’re very open about the fact that their family will not accept anyone who is black.

[@iamblackLuna]

@@thezu9250 Well said! I'm in a Canadian city with diverse (and huge Asian) population and can tell you from experience that Caucasians are not the most discriminatory towards Blacks. That's why the umbrella term POC is so hypocritical.

[@jungwonscactus9425]

@@iamblackLunablacks???? What is this slave days?

[@EbChrishawn0393]

Aww I still love Dan so much ❤

[@jennyferrios245]

I absolute love his personality. He was so transparent and kept it real. He never acted racist and that is mean to say. The premise of the show is dating international. No one would sign up if they had pre judgedment. Beside everyone in the show was beautiful🥰

[@cypong3462]

Did Danny do something in Dan's mic? The volume was low. By the way, live your way Dan!

[@xxvoid4]

Oh how I waited for Dan to be interviewed

[@mikaelaraymond4690]

There's no reason to be mad at Dan. Bella was never these guys' type, which isn't anyone's fault. Going on one boat date, when he asked to go with literally anyone, doesn't make him sneaky for not then committing to the girl who ended up going. But, dkdktv, not being "willing to date outside their race" is different from being interested in black women specifically, those are two different questions you're conflating :l Lots of Asians want one but not the other.

[@tewkewl]

maybe so. but the reason dan didn't choose her had nothing to do with race. but more to do with the fact that he was given a shocker just before he had to make the decision.

[@sharon5026]

Dan, your excuses for not picking Bella all ring false. That said, it's still fun to see you again.

[@adisajakupovic6184]

sorry, but y‘all need to stop d*ck riding and praising your faves like they are gods smh. yes Bella is an amazing woman and absolutely beautiful, but some need to keep in mind that the whole show was only three days in total and there wasn’t a lot of time for any of them to truly bond like that. I was confused and annoyed at some of the contestants choices and comments as well, BUT COME ON IT’S NOT THAT DEEP. at the end of the day it’s mostly a dating show for entertainment purposes and if Dan thought choosing Sabrina was a right decision at that time for him, so be it. I feel like this interview showed that he lowkey regrets not picking Bell at the end but that‘s the consequence of his choice. I think most of them are over this experience and show at this point and I am definitely not surprised that none of the contestants even date at all considering that a lot of them even said that some more or less major things happened when the cameras were off.

[@angie-pun]

The cover picture looks like this guy pretends to know wine

[@person7407]

Y'all don't even know this person and rush to call him a good and great person. Y'all know bad people can act like him right? They can explain themselves, converse with you, or even be nice here and there. With him tho he wanted attention and to be liked so much that he would hurt those around him. He wanted to be 'quirky' and surprising by picking Sabrina, and led on Bella and didn't even care. He knew Sabrina liked him throughout, but didn't pick her for dates BC she didn't give him enough approval. idk what's in his heart but ppl can still tell when you don't care about others

[@bettyboopers8749]

How can you possibly know someone in just 3 days? It takes time to get to know someone, and then after you do, your time might all be wasted if you’re not compatible. I liked Dan’s pink pants, although I thought they were more a peach color; it was a pop of color, and it was during the daytime so it was just right. I commend all those that are bilingual/ multilingual. It shows great intelligence. It must have been very frustrating to try to get to know each other without the apps. You have to have great patience and an eagerness to learn. 🥰

[@carojo7064]

Does Erika not want to be associated with the show? I saw that she privated her instagram

[@janvdb9258]

When is Erika going to do a Q &A? It feels like everyone has done one but her?

[@Robloxgames_40064]

And Sabrina.

[@ysr89iii24]

I think sabrina rejected dan because she thought he and bella were somthing, but from the beginning she liked dan and she said that to bella, if she was a lil daring she could win the show. I was rooting for sabrina and dan.

[@coolcat3243]

YEAAAA THIS IS THE VIDEO IVE BEEN WAITING FOR🤨🤨🤨

[@jessicamarvelcrafts]

I still love Dan, is it too much to ask for cameo?? 😂😂 I know make requests like this 😂😂😂

[@clutchmaster3093]

Wheres Erika's interview?

[@jdbrown1964]

I don't think there is anything to really figure out here, he didn't choose her because he wasn't really feeling her. He chose to go with what was more familiar to him.

[@tikosharoan9977]

Right

[@ysr89iii24]

I think dan and sabrina would nailed it if they were a lil bit honest about each other.

[@brittanys505]

Where is Sabrina and Erika's interviews?🥺🥺

[@IHopeSoM]

Alright, that’s it🙌 I’m a Dan fan but I need to talk to this man myself. I feel he’s multifaceted and I’m curious to see the other sides.

[@orchidlibra3989]

Hello. I saw the Ramyun and Chill and fell in love w the series. Finding a guy would be great, but personally, I love to meet new people and make new friends. Out of all the guys, I like Dan the most, because he's upfront and very straightforward and I love that trait of his. I'm a woman and 100% Vietnamese and American. I'm also from California and I know how dealing with asian parents is very difficult. Not all, but there are some guys like Dan I really admire the most. Doesn't beat around the bushes and be honest and straightforward. I don't like dramas and dealing w .... b... s... like Erika. I'm very much like and also love Sonja. I am an INFP-T personality type, however, I can be pretty blunt at times. I love art and yes, I love it when a guy can make me laugh. I love and enjoy conversation w guys or girls. So, Dan is by far my favorite. Dan and Bella I really do feel and sense there is a chemistry. Both honest people and is careful to approach how conversations are like.

[@sofiaspetsieris6799]

I’ve never seen Ramyun and Chill but have heard abt the whole Dan and Bella incident…and after watching this interview I personally think Dan is a guy who tries to pretend/come off as a gentleman, good, innocent man but is actually a huge player who’s selfish and self-centred…like tbh I didn’t buy any of his excuses for not choosing Bella he’s just a jerk

[@rachzainhass]

He didn't choose bella because he HE NEVER LIKED HER. He couldn't even remember her name for the first two days he picked her to prove a point to Ericka

[@Robloxgames_40064]

So when are we getting one from Erika and Sabrina?

[@JanetDFoster]

I was rooting for you Dan but you did things that made no sense. I hope you do Season 2 and step up your game. Best of luck to you.

[@yadig8157]

Dan the man!!!!

[@franzitaduz]

It’s the line between being a boy and being a man. Risk. Even if you make a mistake you gain strength. Missed opportunity Dan.

[@margplsr3120]

He chose BTS! Love it! Greeting from Tricity in Poland :-)