Abusive family TikTok Compilation

[@tiktokwolf]

To the people who watched this video and related to some of the clips, I just want to let you know YOU ARE NOT ALONE! There is always something to do and you can get out of any situation.

[@theamazingsq220]

Oooo

[@bailey1376]

thank you

[@larettamontes2193]

I have strict parents

[@dallistylife9278]

So sad I feelt it to my heart and I saw there point of view

[@littlelionx8998]

Thank you that means a lot to me but through a screen it's useless

[@ilovechicken7220]

I was never raised like this but I feel awful for the people that were... :(

[@ilovechicken7220]

@@paimonwastaken4364 I'll pray for you :)

[@andrewstuber8391]

Yea same

[@riley_horse_girl8638]

I am a survivor of ubuse I wS afraid ever since I was born i was abused when I was born my mom would say "your such a asshole I wish you were never born!" Save yourself before its to late i was one of the lucky ones how ever my sister was not luck my sister committed suicide she decided she had had enough i love you harley😔💔💔💗

[@Sierra-zf7yi]

Your lucky. You really are

[@ilovechicken7220]

@@riley_horse_girl8638 I'm gonna pray for you too. You can get through this :)

[@paigealexis477]

God poor girl saying" i gurentte there is somebody out there that wants me " could hear in her voice she was holding back the tears

[@quiffle8682]

Oh yeah 😢

[@mikelitt5838]

guarantee* 😂😂😂 “gurentte” EVEN A BLIND KID SPELLS BETTER 😂😂😂😂

[@jamisangie]

@@mikelitt5838 This is not a spelling test, Mr Smarty Pants.

[@sinnamonr0ll82]

@@mikelitt5838 ain't nobody laughing kid shut your mouth.

[@zackarymaple7535]

@@mikelitt5838 and does it really matter???

[@mr.potatobeast8132]

That “Imma cut ur grass oh I mean my fathers grass” is SAVAGE

[@yungmayosawesomenutzz]

@Gamer Chan Maybe you should call someone..? We can’t help you but I hope things get better

[@thewesternjumper1121]

I will help you what is your address

[@MixtFragment]

that shit was gold

[@opinionated....1625]

Nah that needs a smack yall last generations needed to learn respect yall forgot what it is

[@GizzyandJaylin]

I have a step dad but I consider him as my only real dad because hes sweet and supportive of me. He raised me, my real dad just left my mom. He never cared for me and never wanted to meet me.

[@yourmother6103]

“I mean my father’s grass I’m sorry “

[@pineappleboi7591]

damn she got roasted

[@Yuri_kiko]

Damm she’s savage

[@wogi1386]

@@Yuri_kiko time stamp?

[@Noonixxx]

@@wogi1386 1:18

[@theactualpanda5096]

God damn, shot fired...

[@justdoingsomething4303]

"Im the adult in this house" I hate that line

[@noidontthinkiwill9290]

But when it's time to wash the dishes " your the adult in this house"

[@justdoingsomething4303]

@@noidontthinkiwill9290 bruh ;-;

[@noidontthinkiwill9290]

@@justdoingsomething4303 I can't tell if your agreeing with me or disagreeing with me.

[@justdoingsomething4303]

@@noidontthinkiwill9290 im agreeing dw just abit of an relateable bruh moment

[@carsonjuniardcamarillo9932]

Stop being a savage killerpillow

[@sage-vj9pm]

They really said “I will cut your grass oh I mean my FATHERS grass” honestly I wouldn’t be brave enough so props to them

[@rachaelbromage2438]

it's a girl

[@baccupacci]

are u assuming their gender? how dare you smh

[@sage-vj9pm]

@@baccupacci hi. I’m sorry I assumed their gender. I’m so embarrassed. I’ll change it. Thank you for pointing out my mistake. My bad ❤️

[@amandanorman8489]

I would be brave enough to to call the police hold the middle finger and yell in their face along with attacking

[@cke_simp9059]

Hahahahaha your right

[@iansmith757]

I was an only child. I wasn't allowed to feel special, even on my birthday. With the exception of the actual birthday song, my birthdays were all about my friends. "Make sure they feel welcome and have a good time." Of course you should be a good host, but this was taken to an extreme. It taught me that my friends happiness is always paramount to my own. My parents (though it was mostly my mom's doing) specifically made sure I was last in line for any activity...even the last one to get cake. And she isn't even the parent I consider abusive. It seems so minor or maybe even selfish to some people, but the one day a year when you should feel special, I was intentionally forced to go last, not second or 4th or 9th, but LAST. And they wonder why I let people walk all over me.

[@Lilac_Leader]

i have the same things happen to me.

[@amberyt6612]

fuck sameeee

[@2-d_in_a_bag]

you all deserve respect. celebrate your birthdays and treat yourselves like goddamn *royalty*. you're so much stronger than you realize

[@jennrburke]

Here's a hug btw * gives hug *

[@Indie.rushford]

That’s so sad I’m so glad my parents are good cause I can’t believe what happened to u

[@otterpop9499]

Why do parents always have the excuse for everything they do is that "there the parent and I'm the child" like congrats now can we have a real fucking convo?

[@RZa21208]

Ikr but my parents don't say that

[@jordanezalr9418]

DUDE IKR I HIT SOMEONE ST SCCOOL AND WANT to talk and there like shut up I’m the parent ur the kid in my mind I’m like SHUT THE FUCK UP BRO NO ONE CARES IF YOUR THE PARENT

[@RZa21208]

@@jordanezalr9418 IKR

[@RZa21208]

MY TEACHER ALWAYS SAYS THAT TO ME IT'S SO ANNOYING

[@otterpop9499]

@@RZa21208 Your teachers your parent

[@mushzoom6886]

I cried when the grandparents sang happy birthday to her.. they didn’t even know what her parents are doing to her... - It hurts me so much to see how many people go through things like this

[@shalanajoseph6707]

Bro when the grandparents told her happy birthday that broke my heart

[@m0hhamedwok99]

Timestamp pls?

[@averyisdumb9531]

@@m0hhamedwok99 5:41

[@maxistothemax940]

I feel that tbh. After I turned twelve people stop celebrating my birthday. Or in my mom's case, turned it into my little sisters second birthday party. I dont hate my baby sister for that. No. Instead I hold resentment for my mom for that a bit. But my dad. On my sixteenth birthday he tried to hold me down for the "birthday spankings" and he was crushing my ribcage, I couldn't breath because he had all his weight on me. He panicked and whacked him in the head. That got him off long enough to get a breath of air only to get beaten and called names. The amount of times he threw things at me for no reason or other than the fact I didnt do as he said fast enough or wasnt putting the groceries away fast enough, moved papers he didnt want moved or didnt move them at all, or just says "because I can." (The grocery thing? He would throw fucking cans at my head. That's why I'm better at catching shit. Even from behind.)

[@averyisdumb9531]

@@maxistothemax940 oh god sorry to hear that

[@maxistothemax940]

@@averyisdumb9531 its fine... I live with my older sister now, but the man's got me fucked up. I barely can leave my room when her boyfriend is home or awake. I barely leave the room when she is around. So I jaut stag in my room all day when I'm not working. I still go see my dad... mainly because I still care about him, but also because my grandmother still lives with him and well... he admitted to smacking her in the head... just for annoying him with asking a question over and over again when she cant even remember what day it is. When that lottery was up in the billions I was low-key hoping to win so I could get her out of there. Let her pick a home she would walk to live in and get her 24/7 care to live there with her. To talk with her, watch her shows with her, and all in all, keep her happy. I think I had it bad, she hasn't had a bath in three years. Asks if I can give her one but I cant do it by myself. It takes at least two people to give a bedridden patient a bath. And they are trained to lift the elder properly. I'm not. My dad will make her sit in the same used adult pullups for a whole day. And I cant do much either because she wont let me... she says "I'll be fine." And will refuse. I managed to wash her hair for her once... but that task was near impossible... I cut her hair the best I could... I just- i escaped... hut she cant. She doesn't even know hes abusive t her either because she refuses to see it. This is her only child and she cant see how he treats her....

[@starrydayz1436]

" I mean my father's grass" Step mom: *broken inside* 🤣😂🤣

[@Darkshadow-gp8qk]

Savage

[@ultraninja1151]

Bruh Im just reacting to this like wtf Im African and its worse than this mfs be complaing about getting called the B word and then moving out also that they get timed out and sent to their room. igga I get sent back to africa so they can straight me out if im bad lmao.

[@Kzwrld09]

@@ultraninja1151 oh-

[@skyloowo4621]

@Natalee Star *All around me are familiar faces, Worn out places, Worn out faces*

[@pot6577]

.

[@i.cant.sleep.anymore]

The poor girl at 3:02.. That hurt to hear. Through tears, "I promise you, somebody does want me." 💔

[@MoodyW0rld]

Who 💔

[@boo7849]

💔 omg

[@rebeccafavre2372]

Keep your head up. You are awesome and always will be!

[@babymama406]

It made me cry. She can live with me.

[@williammcdermott8692]

I'm always willing to let a black girl into my home

[@lana7142]

I always see other people’s problems and compare them to myself and convince myself I’m not being abused

[@noodlefishes]

just because someone has it worse than you doesn't mean that you can't also feel that way way. don't forget to eat and stay hydrated

[@chocobo.luvr69]

Same

[@kristenperreira8401]

wow someone i can relate to lol

[@jynxy1628]

Same- I just think “why am I crying. I have it easy compared to other people”

[@KysPls457]

Same

[@nikkolewidrick4434]

The woman in the black shirt, acts exactly how my moms ex girlfriend used to treat us. Just because we were kids means we couldn’t have an opinion and we never did anything right. We could never have anything without asking. We had to ASK to get a drink or something to eat during meals. We got FAT SHAMED if we ate too much/cleared our plates but were SCREAMED at and called and I quote “ungrateful bastards” if we didn’t eat it all. I’m BEYOND glad we are out of that situation and living in such a happier mindset 🥺

[@11kiere]

I’m glad you moved on and are doing great :) I’m always gonna be here even tho I’m a stranger 🥺💞

[@nikkolewidrick4434]

@JULISA ARELLANO thank you so much.

[@nikkolewidrick4434]

@@11kiere thank you! 🥺💕

[@Mosthero1]

That’s disgusting, I’m glad you are doing better now

[@11kiere]

@@nikkolewidrick4434 welcome 💞

[@abhinavrajput6488]

1:20 "Im gonna cut your grass..............I mean my father's grass" boy be spittin fire man

[@mari81032]

he is being nice i would talk to her like a stranger like she is to me imma talk to her however the fuck i want to

[@mx1ne.09]

@@mari81032 Same

[@blondedyu]

It‘s a girl. Tf?

[@mx1ne.09]

@@blondedyu Nah I'm pretty sure that's a guy

[@germanchad4100]

Its a girl bruh hear the tone

[@mechaking3287]

Parents: hey, u can talk to us Us: **talks to them** Them: it's belt time

[@jordanezalr9418]

Lmfao

[@mechaking3287]

@Andrea Tirado thanks, appreciate it man!

[@Vephiren]

They always say “you can tell us”, but when you tell them they don’t give a shit.

[@Wblite_Sozosei]

True

[@Wblite_Sozosei]

Only teen would understand that but am only a kid

[@endmostmars]

If the people in these clips watching or someone abused is watching, YOUR NOT ALONE! WE WANT YOU! YOU ARE PRECIOUS! DOn let anyone say otherwise!

[@jessicacarlock9649]

I am onlone my step mom is abusvie

[@jessicacarlock9649]

alone*

[@ellelyng4764]

Yeah..always look at bright side coz God has a better plan for u..like I am I've been through alot since I remembered.. I came from a poor family n live with my grandma but no one loves me I've tried to end my life/suicide so many times but thank God it didn't work..the only one who loves me are my uncles they are the one who support me to go to school but then they got married n I understand they have their own family to support so when I was in 9 standard I started to work n study n support my family n looking after my baby sister since she was 2/3 yrs now she's 14 n am married to a great man n have a good job so never lose hope my friend stay strong n positive.

[@nien_jansen]

Ty

[@baranyavuz2617]

I Almost Broke One Of The Abusers Bones

[@Riarouge]

When my mom is done with making me cry for the day, a few hours will pass and she will act like nothing happened, she’ll even be nice and try to joke with me and when i dont talk to her bc im in a sad mood after she ruined my day she will get angry, like way too angry as if i blew up her car angry. Im so exhausted i just want her to love me because i really do love her.

[@meepzeep]

Same

[@Gone29364]

Ayo, does anyone have CPS hotline?

[@audreyd1787]

I’m so sorry hun. Please know that this is not your fault, it is a cycle that continues until one person is strong enough to break it. Focus on keeping yourself emotionally and mentally stable, do not open up to your mother as she is displaying a similar pattern to those with narcissistic personality disorder. I would suggest appearing as emotionless as possible around her as she will no longer get satisfaction from making you emotional. Be careful about letting her be aware of your current emotions, and plans as she will try to sabotage this. She will try to convince you that she cares as this is how she gets her emotional supply, it is rewarding for her as she feels she is good enough of an actor to lure you in with promises or apologies, whatever form of apologies she may use at the time. Focus on keeping yourself physically healthy, and building yourself strong enough to be able to leave as soon as you are able. Focus on making friends so you may have a place to go if you need to get away for your own safety. I would also suggest researching on the pattern of “narcissistic personality disorder”, it will give you a lot more information on how to control her emotions so that you will have more control and peace of mind; as in the instance that you need to feel safe in the moment or to get what you need from your mother. It will be shocking and scary at first, but learning as much as you can on what makes her upset, happy, or sad will give you a feeling of control and help you feel more at peace since you will be able to slow or stop her emotional reactions. If you need more information on what you can do or someone to talk to about this, you can text me at 832-353-4997. I went through the same thing when I was growing up and had to learn how to control her emotions in order to protect myself. Please take care of yourself, you will make it out.

[@superjackass442]

Dis gen soft asf

[@6feet263]

Same

[@fbi8171]

The sad part is that no matter how much the kid say they hate their parent or parents or even say they will run away from home you know they won't stop calling their parent mom or dad.

[@k1smtm0lly10]

@FBI why are you everywhere

[@fbi8171]

@@k1smtm0lly10 because I am

[@Tc17001]

yeah

[@connorm.4256]

@FBI I’m in charge here :|

[@connorm.4256]

@RAVgaming ehhhh, fine, so it went like tatatatatattata then we were like hhhhuuuhhhh then he went like RATATATATAATA and then we shot em with the RPG

[@calgabrielzeroday]

I’m so happy I have parents that I have parents that are kind to me. They’re kind to me and takes jokes.

[@SigmaRingo]

Same but i feel bad for people with parents like that.

[@yasashwimendis3226]

your lucky bro

[@fluffy2224]

Funny thing is, i am currently in a High school. While other kids dress like adults, i dress as a kid. Wearing hoodies with cartoons like stitch, mickey, my outfits make zero sense, i wear striped leggins with green hoodie.. why? Because as a kid i was never allowed to wear what I wanted. My mom would dress me up, if i would protest she would guilt trip me that everyone will hate my clothes if i pick them on my own. So basically i am trying to catch up on what i missed and my mom now says : so ur going to school like that?... And then i when i walk the hallway I do actually feel worthless and like a freak...

[@BananaGalaxy]

The hoodie outfit with striped pants sounds wonderful actually :) your mom is a jerk and you are absolutely not a freak

[@mega_milkz4281]

I low-key read this wrong and thought you were an adult dresses as a child

[@fluffy2224]

@@mega_milkz4281 eheh... lol

[@kimiiko149]

it’s your life, not hers. feel free to wear whatever you’d like. remember at the end of the day there’s somebody who wants to compliment you that never did as they may have been too shy, or didn’t get the chance to. keep dressing however you please.

[@susannobeast4342]

Ew stop dressing like a freak were Anime clothing then youll be cool 😎

[@flakecodm8807]

I am so thankful to God because I have good parents ❤️

[@caitlinmurphy8763]

Same

[@daraiscott6238]

Me right

[@whorux6657]

Same

[@arianaturner6208]

Sameee

[@its.sapphire]

yall lucky af...

[@ShiningMoon26]

Lmao. My mom hits me so much that at this point, my bad kid vibe has became 0.2 but dam, poor kids are having to go through these dumb step parents that are abusive.

[@vinnie5125]

yall know when like ur crying and then u cant breathe so its like a sutter breathe??

[@davidthy9936]

yeah

[@stanmebrat819]

Thats the THE most hurtful cry. If it even makes sense

[@marioncastro9130]

and it's so hard to talk

[@evo2373]

For reallllll, it’s like thirty small breaths compacted in one second and it feels like a shotgun hit you in the throat, especially when it’s someone you love that your dying over

[@GremlinGutzz]

The birthday one hit deep.

[@catalinasuarez6892]

1:18 "my fathers grass im sorry"😂😂😂😂😂

[@divino3293]

I'm dying yo LOL

[@WootyTootie]

LMFAO

[@semester__exams]

She could’ve said Your not my actual mom

[@choledocholithiasis]

savage

[@genkaisama3499]

Bruh she turned around so quick man no wonder the vid ended there

[@sophiasaltouridis]

I was so surprised because my mom started taking parenting classes, for me and my 4 brothers because my dad left us but she was sort of in a way abusive but mostly my dad. I told her I wasn't mentally okay, yk as a joke? And we sat down and talked for 1 hour about me. And I'm now getting the help I need to no harm myself anymore. I kid you not, I'm I tears I'm so surprised.

[@doyouliketacosiliketacos5139]

some parents grew up in abuse and don't know they're abusive because they're not doing the same things they're parents did to them.

[@samsonadetula5720]

"I'm gonna cut your grass, oh I mean my fathers grass" Yess go off!!

[@cameron3786]

My parents used to yell at me for hours at a time, trash a whole room and demand me to clean it, and throw away my toys. I cried, didn't eat for days, stuff like that, and my parents didn't do anything. Now that I go to therapy and was diagnosed with depression they change. It took all that for them to change.

[@yoitsken2029]

If you grew up with abusive parents and you're reading this , I just wanna say how proud I am of you for toughing it out and making it this far. ( Also abusive step moms only abuse their step kids til a certain age depending on gender for example if your a girl it's gonna be till your in you're late teens but for boys it early to mid teens I say this because boys are most likely, but not always, to rebel back and possibly get physical)

[@wowcest_moi]

The “I don’t yell, you don’t listen” is told to me and my brother almost once a day, I thought that was fine- My mom screams at the top of her lungs at us. hM.

[@jamesdukes1869]

Same i hate that

[@SoSigma490]

This makes me so thankful for how nice my mom and my brother are to me. Even if it's fake, it just makes me so great full for my family.

[@3ra141]

Anyone in these situations we are all here for you, do what’s right and try to contact people that are able to get your situation sorted out.

[@shirin-p7y]

People think it's funny bcz they don't know how it feels I mean ppl near me I don't trust them at all tho

[@barzfrommarz1249]

The birthday one got to me I started crying that’s so sad 😭😭😭

[@lovely_mc6111]

@Alex Guzman OOOF

[@hiimcheesy]

SQUIDWARD ON A CHAIRRRR

[@epicleepic2743]

Time stamp?

[@vem4510]

@@epicleepic2743 5:42

[@superrupee]

Is she ok, I hope so, the scene left a primordial fear in me for her safety of not just her physically but mentally as well

[@Dasiaa-bs4rn]

My mom tells me and my siblings *"You can talk to me "* but then after we talk to her you could hear on the phone telling our Aunt or sum That's why I keep everything to myself

[@undead.angel001]

True af

[@zebra9777]

That’s not abuse

[@Dasiaa-bs4rn]

@@zebra9777 Did I say it was 🤨 No? Didn’t think so 😐

[@zebra9777]

@@Dasiaa-bs4rn well in comparison to any of the vids you live In heaven

[@jadenjoestar3927]

@@zebra9777 Why do you have to compare their situation? Everyone has their own problems to deal with 😒

[@sunrisewolfie3585]

I’m so glad that my parents are nice.. I’m sorry for all of you that aren’t as lucky.... Just remember that God always loves you... And some one always loves you..

[@ZeGoober333]

How is this posible???

[@sunrisewolfie3585]

@@ZeGoober333 witch part?

[@alexjohan2878]

but does god really love me?

[@retro_hues5049]

lucky

[@orez-sylas9625]

Thanks man. God bless you

[@user-kn7zn9nl7n]

im just now realizing how my self confidence, anxiety, and stress all come from my parents who expect me to be perfect anyways have a good day :)

[@Stillcryingtofineline]

I feel so bad for the people raised this way, the saying “every child deserves a parent but not even parent deserves a child” is so true. I have a mother and two siblings that are all my best friends. Never has my mom grounded me, spanked me, or done anything in these videos. I’m so so so sorry if you go through any of this. Know that they do not control your actions and life, that’s up to you. Stay strong ❤️

[@hurtsjukes7072]

This gives me bad memories of my step Dad being abusive

[@hurtsjukes7072]

I’m ok

[@kimiiko149]

@@hurtsjukes7072 have you managed to get away from him?

[@hurtsjukes7072]

@@kimiiko149 yes I told my mom about it and we moved

[@kimiiko149]

@@hurtsjukes7072 good, i'm glad you got away from that. sorry you had to deal with that.

[@hurtsjukes7072]

Thx a lot

[@captivating-culprit7484]

Then they wonder why you’ve become a adult-child Then you spend your entire adult life trying to gain this control you never had...dealing with people who have no idea how sheltered you’ve been and judging YOU for not knowing the way unless someone is pointing in the direction you think you need to go. Then you wonder.. what you were living for now that theres no instructions or directions. Your purpose as far as you know was to ask “where” and “when” thats where you learned the “how” you got in the shoes you walk in currently but it feels fruitless, empty. Merely a puppet set out suddenly to yank its own strings...

[@iansmith757]

If I didn't know any better, I'd say you were describing me.

[@captivating-culprit7484]

@@iansmith757 it really sucks to hear that 🥲

[@rosez7870]

That's so true.

[@superrupee]

It hits wayyyy to close to home except with my case it's "flip-flop" "adults" if you do one thing it's bad if you do the opposite it's also bad

[@hiskonimorii5504]

As someone who had an abusive father (I'm in a better situation now) its crazy to see this from the other side. There is hope. Things DO get better.

[@Dakisgirl]

AGHHH FIRST MY MUM SCREAMED AT ME FOR EATINGGGG IM IN HELLLL

[@Dakisgirl]

😊i only wanted an apple.....

[@abby9211]

You poor thing. My parents aren’t like that, thank god, but they are toxic to each other. My room is the closest to them and I always here their fights. So whenever that’s happening I play music watch KZbin or just cry to my dog. Most nights for me are restless. Whenever I had my camera on for online school, everyone said that I looked so tried. One point it was really bad to where I didn’t sleep for three days. Idk why I put but I guess why I put this is because that’s what may happen in a toxic relationship. But a really healthy example is my sister and her boyfriend. They’ve been me and my sisters example. But please don’t settle for no one besides a nice healthy person who’s going to treat you right.

[@Dakisgirl]

@@abby9211 hey! It's gonna be fine. ,▪︎~`°☆

[@abby9211]

@Calia San Thanks. Tbh it wouldn’t surprise me if they get a divorce. But I hope that everything gets better with your mom.

[@Dakisgirl]

@@abby9211 thanks ♡

[@sleak.]

as someone who was abused mentally and physically, my heart goes out to everybody that was abused, or is being abused, by anyone, this shit isnt okay and they people that are abusing you, they have a special place in hell, right next to me

[@madisonspringer7476]

I was never raised like this or anything, but my heart goes out to those who are/have been.

[@joshpatemusic]

Fr❤️

[@MoosicBear]

2:58 "I don't yell, you don't hear" I'd get smacked if I even said a word while he yelled at me like most of these. Maybe get a tissue box thrown at me, maybe a water bottle, maybe something worse.

[@msspss276]

naa the flipflops gonna come right at me🥺😨

[@jellyfish3375]

Same the last time I spoke up for myself I was punched in the face and laying on the ground with a bloody nose while hyperventilating and my mother just stood there and watched.

[@MoosicBear]

@@jellyfish3375 I'm so sorry that happened to you! You're so valid and loved, and I hope you're better now!

[@jellyfish3375]

@@MoosicBear thank you ☺️

[@brianabrown9612]

@@jellyfish3375 are you ok I’m so sorry that happened they should go to jail

[@britneyadebiyi9753]

"I'm gonna cut your grass, oh I mean my father's grass I'm sorry" Gah datum I could neverrr

[@goodnight-o2u]

She turned around so fast-

[@birdmustard7098]

"I mean my father's grass I'm sorry." best part of this video

[@iamanotherperson7438]

Wouldn't it be beautiful to record a vid with the ppl you call "family" in which they are being abusive and then send it to authorities

[@eddies8856]

Ye

[@sham01]

Except I don’t want to go, they’re abusive there too

[@eddies8856]

@@sham01 actually yeah relatable 💔

[@eddies8856]

@@sham01 it runs in the fam sadly

[@spiceypisces]

Yes

[@lemonblossom1897]

It's sad what kids go through I'm greatful for my parents

[@dream-ns8te]

Honestly i cut myself beacuse of my family 💖I love this shitty life

[@Kenzie-777-Zn5]

I’m so grateful I have parents who don’t hurt me🧎🏽‍♀️🙏

[@i.needtherapy_1]

I am so sorry for all these children... This is where I kinda relate: 5:54

[@littlelionx8998]

I feel you and I'm so sorry, it's ugly but we need to stay strong..

[@jynxy1628]

My mom calls me a animal and fat sometimes but she doesn’t mean it my dad is hella nice tho so I’m lucky

[@dogdog7883]

Oh my god my heart is pounding- We have to bring awareness about parents who always think they are right, they are not. EVERY PERSON i don’t care if they’re a parent or not, is going to be wrong sometimes and if they don’t realise that, they will be very harsh

[@Kaiisune1934]

1 TikTok *This is so true, my brother used to yell at me saying I was would be smarter if I was a different person.* *caused me trauma.*

[@andrewstuber8391]

Hope these people are doing alright, especially the one who ran away from home with his/her dog 🙏🙏🙏 and don’t forget they you are NOT alone.

[@randysolis5000]

It was a fake 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@icecreamkitty2735]

@@randysolis5000 not all of them some of them were exaggerated and possibly fake but not all

[@Chao._uz]

Parents think this helps but tbh it just made me a cold person with an angry heart lmao

[@foxietailz7792]

After 2 years with living like these people, i got a really healthy relationship with my mom and dad.

[@sk8productions850]

The Tiktok one where there putting their fingers down tbh I feel kind eve offended from that my dad chucked me against the wall when I had a A- to me they just seem to be privileged brats thinking when they get grounded it is abuse.

[@rhylyndoxie2446]

I looked up the girl who was running away...they took her back I feel so bad for her

[@Offlinegang]

Who

[@rhylyndoxie2446]

@@Offlinegang Her abusive parents

[@SCAREDYET-x6p]

Any more imformation of them?

[@rhylyndoxie2446]

Sadly no

[@poopycow2240]

Maybe she was being dramatic

[@뱀-i1v]

I don't understand the fact that this girl records herself running away on tiktok ;-; she can't use her phone to- oh well

[@fabiii7409]

well idk, maybe they don't search for her/don't care? actually I don't see the sense in running away, since you have no real chance of a life tbh. school, work, anything? kinda impossible. where to live, how to get money and food and everything? it's not working. you'd need an adult who gives you a home and a job/school etc. you can't live in the forest lmao. like you can't go to school without parents signing and stuff so basically everything is impossible

[@fabiii7409]

@Alex Guzman omg that's so amazing!! I'm so happy for y'all

[@toad7371]

I think she doesn't wanna risk the police knowing her whereabouts in case the people she's running from have ties to the police who would just bring her back to them. They might send a search party and she might need to hide. idk if I explained that right but yea

[@toad7371]

@@fabiii7409 if her safety is in jeopardy there, running away might be the only chance at life she gets

[@fabiii7409]

@@toad7371 absolutely, yeah. But I'm just stating my own thoughts, I often wonder how you even start a living, have a (new) life etc. Ofc I don't know how it is in other countries, but here I can hardly imagine it. Still I'm proud that she did this step, it seemed like she really needed to get out of there

[@Bethany____]

Mom- drinks beer and watch TV Dad-best person Aunt-blames me for everything

[@churchgirlsarv7294]

1:09 “You don’t have to yell, you don’t have to curse-” You’re going to enrage her even more I-

[@fabiii7409]

Well yeah, but at some point you know that they do it anyway. Sometime, you may not want to go do what they say like a sick dog. You know they do it anyway, so why not talk back and confront them?! At least you feel better then. I mean, that's just with me sorry, I never did that, all the years, but now I do. How should it get worse? At least I tried.

[@churchgirlsarv7294]

@@fabiii7409 I do have a mom like that, but when I don’t talk back, it calms her.

[@fabiii7409]

@@churchgirlsarv7294 oh well, that's good I think! mine doesn't really, sometimes yes but it isn't calm it's just.. a break. idk how to say it, but then I wouldn't talk back too! :)

[@sham01]

@@fabiii7409 I do exactly as you do, it doesn’t stop tho but at least I’m not scared to defend myself anymore

[@kamiyada7035]

@@churchgirlsarv7294 it used to work like that for my mom, got the idea from my step dad, but now if i dont speak back she thinks im still being direspectfull, even if i keep direct eye contact

[@noiramoira]

0:27 he handled that so well. I coulg never-

[@minty_1806]

"I mean my fathers grass"

[@Jedi-Of-The-Republic]

Fr my anger issues could never

[@FredTheMilkMan69]

I could never think about having abuse like these I pray that these people get help and everything they need prayers up. 🙏

[@bansheeveil]

Let me see.. 1. My parents were incredibly neglective from birth to 6 years of age, basically never around, put the responsibility to RAISE me (feeding, etc) in my older siblings who were teens; 2. My dad abandoned me in a orphanage bc his new wife didn't want me around (I was 6); 3. It took my mom 7 years to get me out of there, always making up excuses which I am not entirely sure if it was real or not; 4. My mom bodyshamed me since I was a toddler... and throughout my teen years and adult life (I developed and ED due to that and more); 5. She would make me feel useless and let me live my teen years without basic ass needs; 6. I grew up in my mind world pretty much bc facing reality was shit.. and I accepted it bc she developed cancer - she won tho; 7. Tho I love her still, somehow, I can NEVER tell her that in person, and today, being grown and having 2 kids, her presence is only accepted by my brain for a small amount of time, like PTSD I get all kinds of backflashes and traumatic stuff, making my brain get anxious, panicking and rage; 8. My mom also shaved my whole head when I was 4 or 5 bc I found a scissors and cut a few chunks of hair; 9. I ate dog food when I was 4 or 5 bc I was starving, there were days that my siblings and I had nothing at all so we would fry some garlic with olive oil to dip some olde bread in it.. and this was a good day; 10. I was sexually abused twice at the age of 4 bc my parents owned a restaurant in an amusement park and let me alone on a daily basis, I cant even count the amount of times I was taken by the police when they found me alone somewhere - they were too busy fighting with each other, running the restaurant and kinda cheating on one another.. also my parents never knew about this till I told my mom at age 14; 11. When I did tell her about the sexual abuse, I also told her about another 2 episodes that happened with an old man from a shop nearby and a friend of hers, where they TRIED but I was lucky enough to get away - well for my surprise.. SHE ENDED UP DATING THAT FRIEND OF HERS EITHER WAY (the guy also apologized to me.. mind he was nearly 40 and I was 14); 12. She made me feel like a shit mom for 4 years, till I moved to another country and got away from her for good; 13. From my 4 siblings I only get along with my sister, who left my parents early bc she was sick of my parents and specially my mother, bc she would simply choose her boyfriend over her kids at the time; 14. My parents hated each other, my mom would talk shit about him and his wife would talk shit about my mom... all the time, so yey; 15. Last time my mom tried to hit me I was 23 years old.. right before I moved countries, she grabbed a broom and hitted me with it, shouting and used her hands as well... all of this to make me hit her back, which I didnt, I just shove her away so she would get away from me; 16. She is extra friendly with my ex, who is my first daughter's dad, who abused me as well... s h o c k e r. 17. My dad died last year and I didn't cry that much.. a few days and I was actually fine with it, bc we had zero connection. Not everything, but the top ones I suppose! I can say I am better today, it took me a while but I am free from them and making my own family and life, with an amazing man and my kiddos, who I raise very differently from my parents (Positive Discipline method). Trust me, it wont last forever!! But please, if you are experiencing abuse, pleaaaaaase get help and dont do it like me! You are worth it, you deserve happiness and love!!

[@jaden5047]

why do i find this as cap?

[@Employeeman77]

This person doesn’t really know how to spell like for instance some where in there it says “hitted” it should be hit also this a reason as to why it is.... well PURE CAP TF WHY WOULD PARENTS DO THIS AND OWN SO MUCH SHIT THE LOGIC IN THIS IS HORRIBLE but some parents do abuse their kids (don’t have kids if you’re just gonna give them to some one else to take care of or abuse them)

[@xeicotine]

The first one is literally me when i was a child learning w my parents.

[@Bouncyboy901]

Same

[@LNYC16]

I can remember footsteps not because of abusive parents but because I love soaking up information all the time and that it’s fun to know who’s walking around the house. Everyone has a pattern and I love to learn there pattern because it’s fun.

[@gracechoban317]

When they said "put a finger down for each one if it happen to you" all my finger went down

[@norasss0]

0:28 I'm Arab, and if I argued like that.. No joke, my mom would get the stick. She'd whoop me, and say that it hurts her more.

[@user-kv6dz2ez1u]

more like tha shib shib

[@yassineszn17]

Yes but mine was quite extreme

[@fireelighting8610]

But sometimes you have to rememeber the fact that they do that to correct you from doing it again, still if I talked like that to my mom not only would I get be beat up but even sleep outside 😂😂,

[@artisticmaniac3720]

Parents always use the line “ this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you.” Like sure Dad. I’m sure your going to feel that belt graze across your back 40 times nonstop. I’m sure your going to cry about you having to restart if I missed up counting the beating I’m giving.

[@bigpoppajoecen]

bro i hate it when they tell you to grab the item they're gonna whoop your ass with for them.

[@Drlwbl]

1:28 this man really tryna get money and scam his fans like u not slick 🤣

[@chastityoof1239]

5:42, How sad is that? I wish that she would pick up the phone and call someone, or ya know if she goes to school, tell someone. I feel badddd

[@mcailynevans5460]

On the "put a finger down, I put my all my fingers down D:

[@interlluudebackupacc]

2:09 its kinda hard to find her serious when she is wearing “coffee and contemplation” shirt 🤣

[@susannobeast4342]

fr

[@Fake-tl3cw]

after watching this video, i noticed im lucky to have my parents!

[@marleynabanks280]

that girl that recorded her step mom.... WE HAVE THE SAME NAME... and i got scared for a second

[@kaylalong1919]

My heart breaks seeing other people going through abuse in there family. 💔 get the help and support you need there is always help and it’s never too late 💙

[@dahliabrundage207]

My mom has bruised me so many times.... My dad finally found out and now they are divorced.

[@jcruzfrompr]

I hope your okay ✅ 😊😇😊😌

[@xovaeh-ek7gg]

awwww

[@dahliabrundage207]

Im okay now

[@dahliabrundage207]

It just hurts emotionally

[@xovaeh-ek7gg]

@@dahliabrundage207 great to hear

[@yrnjc5719]

8:42 had me weak, I’m sorry😭

[@leynajane]

Same I’m sorry 😭😭

[@somethinganimations4005]

Watching these, I feel really lucky that I have a mother and father that love each other and me.

[@delightxo2244]

You should add me on the list 😏 (my parents threatened me a lot lmaoaoao ex: “I’ll choke you with the charger if you don’t give it to me”)

[@maxcaliolio2819]

good thing my parents aint bad, they will support me in any job i choose when i grow up and reward me bc i behave a lot

[@grim_rose443]

So lucky 😩✋

[@jonjani599]

Same

[@jonjani599]

max caliolio yea

[@grim_rose443]

*sigh* you know what's funny? How just one thing blows off somebody I did not say anything depressing bro chill like stfu I ain't doing nothing now you can actually have the courage to live your life don't take advantage of that

[@grim_rose443]

Omg why am I fighting with a bunch of randoes when I can work on my own stuff 🤦🏼

[@tiktokunlimited7833]

The first one was so trueeee. I wouldn't count it as abusive though as I can relate. I get kinda pissed when I teach someone something like 10 times and they still forget it.

[@susannobeast4342]

i dont think that's abusive either and i relate with every word u just said

[@GamingDerped]

This makes me wanna do chores for the thanks I give to my parents for being nice and the opposite of these parents.

[@marydonewitheveryonesbssin9090]

3:30....that moment u realize uve put 10 down n u ran outa fingers...i thought that was normal parent stuff...i was told it's called discipline. 😅

[@HaymakerHavs]

can we all be grateful for the familys that takes care of us and give us life? for a moment plss?

[@Sycthe707]

I'd either run away or fight back Mentally AND *physically*

[@savio259]

I wish I can do that But don't want them to be hurt...

[@yjbts253]

But how can a child hit their parents they would be a lot stronger

[@savio259]

@@yjbts253 you will never know. Some kids can be stronger than their parents

[@Sycthe707]

@@yjbts253 use whatever you have in your room

[@musabmaruf6987]

damn i could relate to the first one

[@flamingofumi2305]

My dad said he would change after hitting my mom in January 2017 But they still argue from time to time so I’m wondering does that mean it’s getting better or worse

[@desireops]

“I am the adult here not you!” Me: wow congrats you just explained the obvious, want a award or a cookie?

[@hotrichard4266]

That abusive step mom one really hit home my step father would never treat me like that he respects me and I respect him. His wife that he divorced was super abusive to my step brother and is now in full custody in my step father. My mother recently got my step brothers biological mother in jail for 6 months she's already served 2 months. All I can say my step father and step brother are the best step family members in my family.

[@lagodozinn2069]

I like how these ladies try to tell your kids how you can find out that parents are abusive.

[@12kspacex2]

if said no to my mom or my dad they would've get the belt

[@greatworldsoliel4238]

Why would you say no what would they ask you

[@Bttrmnro]

No sensible child says no to their parents unless they say something like sleep outside

[@Naruto-pr3zd]

My dad said “ I will choke you” THAT SCARED THE CRAP OUT OF ME JUST BE GRATEFUL(Don’t worry he in jail for taking my eye out)

[@cassiopeiathings]

Are you ok??

[@littlelionx8998]

Wym...are you okay now? Your eye is fine?

[@savio259]

Eye? What-

[@gabewest305]

I went through this for 5 years it started when my real dad went into the military and that’s when he started to get abbusive and a stalker and tried to get my mom in jail for no reason but my life is perfect I live with my mom and my stepdad and he is the nicest person I ever met and I’m so grateful my mom is getting soul coustody of me and my brother and my stepdad is in the process of adopting us

[@iluvrr2892]

Omg the jelly braclet happened to me I thought I was alone I was younger too

[@frostist1919]

One time, my “mother” and my “father” messed up my vision so bad to where it was all blurry and 15 hours later my vision came back to normal. Just a slight color difference in my eyes. Like I can see the normal colors but it’s just shaded a little bit darker.

[@iamnonexistent1479]

i kinda feel bad when i say i have abusive parents bc mine are mostly verbally abusive and barely physical and to see that people have it worse makes me feel like i'm being sad for no reason

[@whitehole9726]

0:00 relatable *parents who do this don’t deserve be parents*

[@jadenwilliams4950]

my mother used to do this when I Was like 5 or so if i made a mistake to many times shed yell and i get scared she'd beat or hit me i'd start to cry and then she said she will give me something to cry for if i cry then act as if nothing ever happened

[@whitehole9726]

@@jadenwilliams4950 your mom has problems my dude

[@jadenwilliams4950]

@@whitehole9726 It is what it is

[@randompersononadifferentac1843]

@@whitehole9726 my mother did that and she said she loved me and bought me peach rings

[@jadenwilliams4950]

@@kendrickwallaker8251 they beat us as a way of disaplining us i guess

[@bridgitfelan9618]

3:09 don’t Listen to him everyone wants you Girl.

[@greatworldsoliel4238]

Thats cap but she deserves more

[@estkioo]

i don't want her

[@AriTheInterloper]

i just wanna say im sorry to my mom for all the wrong ive done to you, because youve done more than enough for me. im so lucky i dont have a mom like this

[@ozonethelegend9603]

The fact that these kids can talk to their parents like this they just lucky

[@caden2jordan6]

It’s hard to watch this knowing I was emotionally and physically abused my entire childhood but it was the late 90s so there wasn’t anyone to turn to. I still have physical scars from it. I grew up in an extremely wealthy neighborhood (Eddie Murphy and John travolta were my neighbors) so nobody believed me when I ran away but was still stuck in a gated neighborhood. In the 90s If you had money you were considered good people.