Abusive Relationships TikTok Compilation 2

[@lisamaddox7860]

Ok shout out to that woman's sons father. That's an amazing man that came and rescue his EX from an abusive situation so his son AND Mama can be in a safe space! A GOOD man will want you happy and safe no matter what, even if it's not with them. God bless you sir and EVERYONE else and may He keep you all safe! 🙏❤

[@lilscenechick1995]

That's a sign of a good person. Just because someone is your ex doesn't mean the relationship had to end on a sour/toxic note. Some people just don't mesh well, but they can still love and care for each other. I'm happy she and their child got away from that abusive monster.

[@Wouldyoujust_]

That was his child, even if that was his ex. That's an amazing FATHER and a man❤❤ I loved that story too

[@ricoswartz345]

He should have taken his son and left the baby mama to suffer for her decisions. Women claim to want equality but then cry for a man to save them from their own stupidity.

[@travisnoname9546]

Its because his son he doesn’t want his son to deal with tht

[@OldManLuffy]

Pretty sure he only wanted his son tk be safe

[@strawberrymilk8320]

My ex was abusive My dad was abusive My mom was abusive My foster dad was abusive My step mom was abusive my step dad was abusive My whole life has been abusive then I met my boyfriend and had my daughter

[@hihowareuwannabefriends6949]

God bless hope it gets better

[@canaryblack5871]

I hope he loves you like no else

[@jay-yf8cg]

I hope your happy now

[@LRMillsy]

Happy for you!

[@sodaacattquit]

I hope you get better!

[@llarahseitz2679]

i have an uncle who is one of the sweetest people and he had this wife (before my current aunt who is amazing) and she was extremely abusive and it’s a reminder there are bad people out there men and woman not just men

[@lokamako3319]

How sad :c

[@jardemooreb4100]

Not enough men speak out, because they think it's embarrassing or they think it's going against their manhood or whatever but it does happen women do beat the hell out of men, especially on TV they get slapped all the time...

[@angelicasysnila5476]

All these tik toks are about men abusing women. So yea more percentage of men are abusive than women. I wouldn't have said this above line but I said it cuz i dont like how you people start saying "men have to go through this too" where ever it shows struggles of women in general. It goes to show that you guys think that this video is showing only struggles of women and it should show struggles of men too, but you guys forget that struggles are struggles despite the gender, so stop thinking like that. I sometimes feel like you guys don't even like it when there are videos on women's struggling because of men so you come defending like "men go through this too"- this line ain't gonna help any women in this video We know every one goes through struggle. Why don't you write "men goes through this too" in child abuse videos, cuz there ain't no women as the victim. And you won't see such things in video where men struggles are shown, no one writes "women goes through this too" in a video showing men's struggles. Cuz we are in support of the victim. We aren't in a competition

[@Nirobiscloset10]

Mostly men.... we all know this.

[@maxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx]

Yes there are many women too. I think thoguh there are more men but the amount of shit some men have to go though never comes out because of the mainstream idea that men have to be strong

[@rockmusicforlifeskillet8838]

My mom just broke up with her abusive boyfriend he would verbal and mental abuse us I'm so happy he's gone.

[@freyamcbain4160]

I am happy for you, stay safe friend, I am glad he is gone from your lives

[@Vibe_withlia]

I'm happy for you hun

[@lokamako3319]

Stay safe plz , hope sended from Mexico

[@Sol36900]

Same unfortunately my mom is too stupid and desperate to be single. So she's kept contact with the psycho - just thru the phone.

[@fallbackbee9170]

Good for your mom, but I am so happy for you too. Not one person deserves to be treated in an abusive way.

[@Xtoxina]

My brother asked me why I didn't leave my ex bf. I replied "idk tbh idk.." he then says "sometimes we don't leave toxic/abusive relationships because we hold on to that memory of what it WAS like. We have that hope to get that feeling of being happy with that person again because somewhere deep down inside you love them or something about them and want things to get better. And it's really fking tough to break from that. So try to break from those chains that are holding you back. You'll be a lot happier." He's 3 years younger than me. I took his advice and left. Never looked back and I am absolutely happier.

[@btter710]

Your brother is your guardian angel on Earth! U need to treasure that brother of yours, that's for sure!

[@FruityHachi]

what he was describing it’s called “a trauma bond” which develops between an abuser and a victim glad to hear that you got out of that

[@AdventureHusky]

They hit you even once you nope the fuck out, my dude. Somebody who loves you would never punish or hurt you intentionally / "accidentally". They only feel guilty for themselves not because they hurt the one they love. Abusers are selfish and narcissistic, they don't see you, they only see themselves and some lump of playdough to do as they please with like tantrum-ridden toddlers.

[@btter710]

Easier said than done though

[@Starlord_627]

Good advice, but it is true, leaving relationships are difficult, especially abusive ones, not overtly related, but I was stuck in a toxic relationship for 7 years, and still now after ending it, I still miss them.

[@glssprncss]

If someone starts laughing like the f*ckin joker after you try to break up, run. Run as fast and as far away as possible.

[@marcoandresrosario8474]

8:23 Just tried to break up with him😐 *Starts laughing like a psychopathic megalomaniac* Me: 911

[@btter710]

Yeah they need to RUN from him! That was the scariest laugh I've heard from a person that wasn't an actor in a scary movie! I know it's easier said than done, trust me, I know, I've been there myself but RUN!

[@marcoandresrosario8474]

@@btter710 😶 gone man

[@Isabella.aesthetics]

damn imma having nightmares

[@lilscenechick1995]

I immediately thought of the Joker and that was genuinely terrifying. My ex did something very similar but not quite as dramatic/theatrical.

[@marcoandresrosario8474]

@@lilscenechick1995 😕how was your relationship with her?

[@chaysethebadger]

If you're questioning if you were crazy about the abuse, that just proves how deep their talons were in you. It's been 7 years and I catch myself doing this still. But KNOW that they manipulated you into questioning yourself. That's why abuse is so hard to leave. Love yourself, worthless people dont get to decide your worth 💅👑

[@mollymartin683]

This message has literally broken my heart because I was in multiple mentally/emotionally abusive relationships and I find myself unconsciously comparing my current man to past relationships, which I don't want to do because he's so sweet and kind and treats me like a princess. He is also a Leo and a 3 on the Enneagram where as I'm a Gemini and a 9 on the Enneagram. I'm also slowly, very slowly, discovering and believing in myself and my self worth and starting to put up boundaries, which will sometimes be met with "The Devil's Advocate" as he calls it when we are talking sometimes. I'm going to go to a few CoDa meetings, but I also don't believe he is a bad person and I don't want to keep comparing him to the past... I love him so much and he has even told me he wants to marry me and will go through the traditional method of even asking my dad for my hand in marriage.

[@rubygarcia3327]

men, women, trans, etc. can be the abuser in a abusive relationship. it's not just men who are the abuser. i'm just tired of hearing that " all men are abusive" when in reality; any gender, doesn't matter what, can be just as abusive.

[@keriXianne]

If you’re in a abusive relationship, forget about the goodbye, pack your shit and leave without telling him. You don’t want to let him/her know you have a plan.

[@angshusarma8331]

But the thing is...these creeps follow everywhere after the breakup .

[@linksey]

If I ever have a kid, I really hope they feel comfortable telling me if they are EVER in an abusive relationship knowing I was in one when I was a teenager. I will never fucking judge them

[@lilscenechick1995]

Same here. It scares me to imagine. I'm scared for my younger sisters.

[@elchamaco15]

That comparison to drugs is spot fkn on

[@zayajazz817]

Well, while I do agree, I actually think it’s why people need to NEVER EVER go back to an abusive person. Anybody who lets their life get ruined by drugs is looked at as bad. I will always hate abusers but people who go back to these awful people because of the good parts of them just pisses me off. LEAVE THEM!! NO NEW MAN WILL COME IN WHEN YOU GOT THAT LOSER BOYFRIEND OF YOURS AROUND

[@controlman7490]

@@zayajazz817 Similar to drug addicts, abuse victims form a dependence on their abuser. They've been heavily conditioned to be obedient to the point where they become mentally shackled to their abuser. It pisses me off when I see abuse victims go back to their abusers too, but I then remind myself that they're literally brainwashed into thinking this type of treatment is normal, which is why they need help, not judgment.

[@pidgedidge]

@@zayajazz817 have you ever been abused? It’s not that simple or easy to “just leave”

[@autumnrosalie1167]

@@zayajazz817 It has so much more to do with being abused as a child and/ or when growing up. If it's all you know then that simplistic idea of "just leave" is an entire psychological world away.

[@noemonae417]

Even if your partner treats their siblings, parents, and etc great. They can still be abusive.

[@Zaboogieboy]

My sister wont belive my mom is abusive because she was nice to her

[@cornick115]

You got to be strong honestly this is hard to watch because everybody’s situation is different I put my story in the last video and honestly I can’t even fathom bringing it up again the first slap or push that apparently is it gonna happen again ladies or gentlemen leave my story is deeper and I’m still paranoid knowing that he can never get to me

[@deedavis4961]

Ladies and gentlemen.....I've been put in ICU 3 times, I now have SEIZURES bc he stomped on my head, my confidence was nonexistent, and I truly felt alone, ugly, stupid, and all that is the same thing that happens when you are addicted to any substance. Yes,...both the abuser and the drug will kill you. You are strong, beautiful, worthy of love, kindness, and if I could just give 1 piece of advice to you young people..... 'Pay attention to how he treats his mama, auntie, grandma, even their sister. Why? Bc if they have no respect for THOSE WOMEN, he DEFINITELY wont respect you darlin. 'The same goes for the females....'

[@-ana-9737]

3:48 ok for the people who might not understood the pizza thing, the 911 has a code (idk how else to called it, i'm not good at english); and order a pizza means abusive/threatening person (man towards woman usually), so that way your abuser wont get the emergency call and you'll just have to wait for the police.

[@NoName-hv7xn]

The big problem is that now many people knows it, including abusive people, and if they listen their partner saying that after them beating them up they will know that police is coming.

[@NobodyssGirl]

This will not work. dont do it

[@livingforJesus2120]

I love being single. After 3 shitty relationships and 4 kids I'm living the life I want and I'm beyond happy.

[@ankitadevi3964]

That pizza/911 call gave me goosebumps😰😰😰😰😰

[@sositumahole9927]

In tears 😭😢💔😪😞

[@shaneelkins7597]

That's from a movie

[@TammieAbusedNotBrokenRecovered]

Yes, I have heard of stories like this but if real why would she be recorded making the call!? 🤔🤔🥺🙄

[@anxidote]

Makes me so sad

[@Princesskap23]

Super sad

[@lalamakeuprehab]

Baby daddy is a real one!!! An actual real man protecting the mother of his child and his child From an abusive situation!!!!!

[@rogenaqshairy3097]

I don't believe in love I didn't see any benefits from relationship I think the single life is the most amazing thing ever I decided to do for ever

[@osramdupa2724]

I don't believe in whales but it doesn't mean they do not exist. If you are unable to love, that's fucked up.

[@-ana-9737]

@@osramdupa2724 I think she meant romantic love... I hope..

[@rogenaqshairy3097]

@@osramdupa2724 Someday you will regrat and believe me The worst day not coming yet or maybe you don't realized the reality of life

[@osramdupa2724]

@@rogenaqshairy3097 nah you are just a sad person. The reality is: love does exist. It's only you who's been hurt and don't want to believe in. I've been physically and mentally abused for years, went through hell before I could move from.my parents house and live on my own. It's been a long time now but even then I have found love, not only romantic but purely unconditional. I believe that if you won't close yourself for good, that you'll find it someday. Bless

[@rogenaqshairy3097]

@@osramdupa2724 There is nothing called unconditionally love .. you run from your abused house you can't love abuser partner that's mean there's nothing called unconditionally love %99.99 of relationships is fake and build on mutual benefits even if you denied it it's truth it's the reality of life *Try to don't give your partner a sex if you're a woman or money if you're a man and see the unconditionally love how would works* 😏

[@goodra999]

the dog one does make sense, people who never been in this situation don't understand the trauma bonding stage

[@f.k.a1010]

it's a bad analogy. humans and dogs are different. trauma bonding is another name for addiction.

[@lifewithtaleah172]

Sorry I wasn’t early I was sleeping but love you❤️

[@iluvmylife134]

That guys psycho laugh gave me chills

[@gabi-pj9sp]

can significant others just not be on x-games mode for a sec and just CALM DOWN JAMAL

[@ptrombpttiwsmb]

Don't pull out the 9

[@tayeii2203]

That laughing guy at 8:30 I think is creeping me the hell out...

[@natnaelberhanu-i8w]

Demon

[@jjadac3529]

Laughing like a D.C joker reject 💀

[@ps123fan]

he's the joker lol

[@luna.rose623]

The guy that drove from one state to another to get his kids mom out of her abusive relationship ...

[@addie.w9]

the fact that i’m up edit: hello!

[@nevaehwhyte4602]

Hi

[@yaqiliu7678]

Scary, make me afraid of starting any relationships

[@rigze1192]

@@darthvader1793 then go find one bro

[@Saleigh]

Just look at red flags the first time they call you out your name any disrespect get out ! Wish I did

[@Hunter225]

You try to abuse me, you will find out how dangerous I am. I grew up in a severely abuse family. Mother is the best, and got my sister, and I, away from them. I trained myself how to fight. No one will ever abuse me again. Love is not pain. People don't change. If they hit you once, or try, run far away from them. You deserve love, respect, and no pain. Never forget you deserve all the good things in life, not pain. It's not your fault, it's theirs.

[@kaleybarry5544]

Coming from someone who was in an abusive relationship, I got sent to the hospital, and counting, 37 times from one man in 7 months. I almost suicided because I wished I had never met this man, and just last week I almost died because he broke into my house and stabbed me in the throat. I’m so lucky to be alive. I feel you guys in an abusive relationship.

[@BluEyeBeauti]

I've been in a abusive relationship before mentally and physically abusive. Especially when he was high it was bad but when he was sober he was perfectly fine. Yes I was scared to leave. And he kept saying he would change. Finally when he went to jail the last time I was with him I left for good.

[@RaidenShogunn.]

My parents divorced and got back with each other even though my dad was verbally and emotionally abusive

[@lokamako3319]

Oh I’m sorry for that :c

[@beautifulbrokenangel786]

I feel so bad for the people that has been in abusive relationship.

[@shelbyskinner8456]

If they put you down, Hit you , Cheat on You , Lie to You , Threaten you then understand that there is a MENTAL Problem with that person and it is not YOU. Love means Lifting that person up, Making them the Priority in YOUR life. One more thing RESPECT is EARNED not GIVEN. SO if YOU think YOU Deserve Respect as a man , Then Be ONE

[@autonom12341234]

Been away from my ex GF for 3 months now, she was emotionel abusing, threaten to leave , blamed me for everything, cheated on me but again blamed me so i just accepted it.. never been more happy bring away from her

[@controlman7490]

Good on you my boy or girl.

[@elizagaskell7957]

IMO abuse is akin to cheating...once the act has been committed, I'm gone. Done with the toxic relationship. Done with my partner. In my eyes, the are down graded to an ex and the forfeit any second chances.

[@rebeccashifflet8843]

Seriously people need to realize leaving is way harder than you think. Co dependency is one hell of a drug.

[@erisnorrvandt8307]

That dog example is spot on!

[@christygonzalez5771]

Woman nor man doesn't deserve to be abused,I'm a survivor of both abuse

[@hihowareuwannabefriends6949]

I am sorry that happened to you i hope u are doing better God bless

[@JesterEnthusiast]

It is so hard to get out of any abusive relationship, whether it be family or relationship whatever, because they are so nice to you and then the next day they are so mean so you start be be reclusive so they say sorry and hug you and make you feel safe and are nice to you then they do it again but you want that nice feeling of them loving you so you stay

[@moonthecatfish3880]

I have literally never met my first bf,he was “amazing” when we were still dating,and guess what,I was literally always told he was a horrible person,aaand instead of listening to them,I instead stayed with him for 7 months

[@lillianmartinez8078]

This is so sad bruh 😭

[@1kfryd]

is funny

[@pachio2011]

@@1kfryd Yes lol

[@thegrimscreamer7561]

8:27 origin story for joker? like bruh what’s wrong with him

[@bradleystone1065]

And this here is why I’m single

[@michaelavalek2649]

Wow the second one.. Exactly how I feel, it’s hard to admit to yourself and be open about. But they are like a drug, the anger you feel when something bad happens is so overwhelming that in that very moment you are done, your done with how they treat you and getting blamed saying it’s your fault, then you leave, you calm down, you miss their touch, their voice and you believe them when they say they love you and they don’t want things to be over and the cycle continues again, and again until you feel broken, unfixable, unloveable, lost and alone and sometimes just numb, you almost accept your fate with them, that life that feels so bad might be yours forever if you don’t break the cycle..

[@melje6740]

I'm just going to say this. I survived marital abuse in the 80's. There wasn't laws to protect me back then. There wasn't battered woman shelters. I got out. We worked hard on changing the laws and establishing services. SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIVE LIKE THIS! PLEASE USE THEM! I came close to dying several times! Please, these stories break my heart. 😭

[@lokamako3319]

Stay safe !, hope sended from Mexico 🤗

[@lyndseyteeler3349]

8:23 that laugh was pure evil...

[@JohnWilson-ey2qn]

3:36 When your spouse beats you what you both need is Pizza...

[@yaku4225]

8:23 literally that joker laugh- got me dead

[@TomSir79]

2:52 "This is the Girl he didn't want. So i became the Girl he could never get." Sooo....she went from drop dead gorgeous and naturally beautiful to unrecognizable fugly? Would've made the same Decision like him then...

[@deedavis4961]

Instead of asking us why didnt we leave.....why does no one ask,...why doesnt HE LEAVE....

[@elisejackson2854]

This literally makes no sense.

[@deedavis4961]

@@elisejackson2854 I'm glad to hear that hun. That means you've not had to go THRU it. Ppl always ask the victim of abuse....'Why didnt you leave,....noone ever asks the abuser....why didnt YOU LEAVE.' One of an abusers favorite things to say is, 'you MADE ME DO THIS, YOU make me beat you. If a woman 'makes someone,' beat them.....why not just leave instead of staying if the relationship or partner is THAT bad,......(which there IS NO REASON TO BEAT YA PARTNER.)

[@elisejackson2854]

@@deedavis4961 I have actually. I left. And obviously the abuser won't leave. And there are men that are victims of abuse as well.

[@deedavis4961]

Look....you 'didnt understand,' bc you said, 'it literally makes no sense.' You dont have to say literally, if it doesn't make sense to you. Just say, 'This doesn't make sense.' Your not telling me nothing THAT I DONT ALREADY KNOW.....and I'm not gna keep up this mess bc your sensitivity to lack of pronouns in my comment.....Sweetheart glad you got away.....but dont act like your abuser by nitpicking at every comment to get a reaction. Have a great night

[@domi9146]

@@deedavis4961 actually, she is right. Abusers don't leave because they like the feeling of being superior and they hate it when you try to stand up for yourself. They are insecure about themselves cuz in that way they can't control you when you show fear, and fear shows when you're not leaving. So the best thing you can do is leave, literally just leave. Secretly, openly, with scars or blood, but you leave. Cuz you have more brains than a psycho who hits women just because their fucking self esteem is lower than yours actually. And yes, that shit is hard, don't tell me anything about it, I know. But the sadness and heartbreak and fear dissapears with time, especially if you will start loving yourself.

[@bonamy25]

Yea. “What everyone sees VS reality.” Story of my life

[@OldManLuffy]

Having withdrawal symptoms over a gf/bf is the craziest fucking shit ive ever heard

[@zerozen100]

If a man abuses his partner, he loses the right to be called a man. If a woman abuses her partner, the woman loses the right to be called a woman

[@robinochoa6428]

Sorry I was late but I LOVE YOUR VIDEO AND THEY ARE FUNNY!!!!!!!!! :) and some of it got to me 😂😭😭

[@bigyin1415]

That dog analogy is spot on, that is what happens. Its a trauma bond, I read a book about it called Women Who Love Psychopaths, I highly recommend it. Leaving can also be the MOST dangerous time in some cases too. You think they gona let you go that easy? You are property to them.

[@mistyfagan1320]

Be strong ladies stay away cause a broken heart is better than being dead or disfigured! They don't deserve you beautiful ladies! Stay away from them that goes for men who are abused from women too! Use brain people be smart not dead! Love y'all!

[@Wouldyoujust_]

I watched my dad beat my mom for 15 years, tell her she was no good, she'd never make it without him. She finally left (and took a trip to the hospital thay day with her entire row of bottom teeth punched through her lip... he pulled her out of the shower while she was crying, in front of me and my siblings and popped her so hard she needed multiple stitches in the ER) Even though that day, the day she left, was a hard day.... It wasn't the worst of it, not even a little bit. But she left. Now she's amazing, has a career of 20 years she LOVES, is successful, a homeowner, and even though she's single (she's dated, and had some long terms, but she KNOWS what she's worth now) she is SO HAPPY. She's about to retire, has traveled the world, and doesn't put up with ANY CRAP. It gets better girls ❤❤ Edit: just remember a MAN doesn't make your life worth living. YOU do.

[@jaylablack6729]

i watched this the day it was posted when i said"22 hours ago" like what the H.E Double Hockey stick. :>

[@jc7069]

7:25 Ok but ur not a dog lol

[@marshalljones69]

Thank you

[@btter710]

U missed the point...

[@jc7069]

@@btter710 Nah it was just a really bad analogy

[@btter710]

@@jc7069 u are entitled to your opinion but I respectfully disagree

[@jc7069]

@@btter710 Wow u really don’t see that every day on KZbin, I was waiting for u to call me retarded or something lol

[@skylar-rainworch4038]

being single is better so u wont get abusive relationships when you dont know when they will happen..and im single wich feels GREAT.

[@jamalwilliams1792]

Hmph! Smh, the thing about abusive or toxic relationships is that when u r tired of it, of everything the best way to leave is in silence. Don't announce that ur leaving because once u do that, u give the abuser ample amount of time to abuse u . That's the biggest mistake u don't want to make at all, I promise u that u will regret it. Stay safe and stay blessed and always wear yuh mask and sanitize yourself and always watch ur surroundings and the people u let into ur lives

[@gh0stface_774]

8:24 THAT LAUGH SCARES ME

[@nevaehwhyte4602]

Hiii I love ur videos!

[@erikaangelique5025]

That second girl lost me, especially with all that crying and no tears

[@Anonymous92xx]

Run out of tears 😭

[@augustvukosovich4683]

So, to the girl comparing humans to puppies. We are not dogs. We are capable of abstract thought. And yes, I was in a relationship that was abusive. But I got out after 8 months. I left the state to get a way from that psycho. You have to be brave and love yourself enough to say, "I WILL NOT ALLOW SOMEONE TO TREAT ME POORLY BECAUSE I AM A GOOD PERSON WHO DESERVES GOOD TBINGS!" Please don't let him anymore. I have a wonderful husband now and a 7 year old and a 4 year old and this man has never hit me. There are good men out there I promise...

[@HappiiWheels]

I literally just wrote a long a$s comment with my story because of that clip. She wants to compare us to animals? If you back an animal into a corner, and you try to hurt it, does the animal not lash out and protect jtself? Life is scary and you have to sometimes make scary choices. I will never let someone treat me like my ex did ever again, I don't care about familiarity.

[@samdubs13]

the comparison made complete sense to me. she wasn’t saying we are only capable of thinking the way that dogs do. that was a perfect comparison to trauma bonding imo. how someone can be abused, but then shown a bit of love or attention so the brain cancels out the abuse or at least minimizes it. over time it does become a cycle, or a bond.

[@btter710]

It's called an analogy. She's not saying we're like dogs, she just comparing situations that include trauma bonding and love bombing. Also, "love yourself enough" is easier said than done when u are being abused and someone is breaking your self-esteem constantly and trying to make u feel worthless so u feel like u will never feel love or happy without them. As someone that says they were in an abusive relationship, u should know this and know that hindsight is 20/20. When you're in the situation, it's almost impossible to see a way out.

[@LRMillsy]

Ill never understand how someone can think that they deserve to be abused thats just so horrible :(

[@geishamaria2082]

WORSE IS WHEN YOU HAVE AN ABUSIVE FAMILY. NOT STRANGERS , NOT SOMEBODY YOU MET FOR A YEAR... THAT SHIT IS HARDDDD...

[@NightmiraMoon]

The thing that will always blow my mind is gaslighting and how dangerously powerful it is. It was always my fault. I make him this way. I get what I deserve. The way he would explain it would really make me believe I had major problems for the longest time. He made me get mental help. But that help is what came back to bite him. They realized after a few sessions what was happening and helped me.

[@jessi2113]

I dont support abuse on any standard. but to the ones who cry, writhe, and threaten suicide. Please be aware borderline personality disorder makes this behavior prevalent in a breakup. If your partner threaten suicide take it seriously and get them help

[@lilnikki2025]

Trauma bonding. Gosh...all of us souls...please, be kind.

[@mercedesharrison5550]

The laugh of the man being broken up with 😲😦

[@TillowFrik]

That second video kills me, because I did it 4 times before I learned.

[@aditikhedar8389]

Girl if they abuse you even once you are done because they never gonna improve so no second chance to break your heart.

[@bambimarie2873]

7:06 lady said "i dont cuss but it was hell" lol that is not a cussword lady lol that was kinda cute. i am not at all making fun of the situation.

[@sagthenaturalsiren5997]

LIFE IS A SERIES OF CHOICES YOU ALL HAVE CHOICES If you make bad one stand on it and learn from it then stop doing it. Nobody makes you do anything it’s all YOUR CHOICES

[@BiggieGoblin]

8:24 I literally thought this was a scene from the 2019 Joker movie....

[@Koko-bb2ie]

All it takes for evil to prevail, is for a good man to do nothing.

[@mgnhllktty]

OK this is so sad 😭😭😭

[@kane3077]

7:34 is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard

[@OptimisticFanatic15]

"just tried to break up with him 😕" why is he laughing like that tf

[@erikadee8668]

8:32 that guy is a legit psycho. Run!

[@Starsofneon]

The one at 8:35 ...I hope he is getting help. That does not seem abusive it seems psychotic.

[@murayagami6006]

Smoking is bad for you. Drinking is bad for you. Drugs are bad for you. I know to avoid all these things, and I'm a young adult I've been raised to know what is what and to stay away. But this is what I'm afraid of, toxic relationships. Because they can act one way and then be a totally different person, and like 0:57 lady said. People, I'm not saying EVERYONE is like this. No. I'm not saying that. But it is scary, and it is real, and it can be addictive. I get everyone has their own issues, no one is perfect. . . but this is depressing. BE cautious. I've never been in a relationship yet, but I pray to God he will send me someone who will love me, respect me and treat me as an equal.

[@FreeMahee]

I don't like the woman's reasoning as to why people "cant" leave an abusive relationship. Firstly, women are not dogs and not leaving an abusive relationship just because its what is familiar, is not a "I cant leave", it's because they choose not to and aren't ready to leave quite yet. Even when they know it's just a vicious cycle of abuse and torture they're stuck in. Speaking from experience, as scary and uncomfortable as it is to leave, when a woman has truly had enough and wants to leave, she absolutely will. Especially if she has babies to think about and protect.

[@mikeropaynus410]

Damn, that’s how you teach your woman! She had to call acting like it’s pizza.

[@TrueCrimeTalkWithTaves]

Oh no that guy laughing about break up made my stomach drop

[@bushesoflove9616]

I saw an explanation of why you miss toxic exes; Basically, your brain becomes accustomed to your situation, and treats it like a normal thing. So when you leave, your brain seeks that situation again and again, because it wants a feeling of normalcy. To get better, you need to create a new normal, one where you can be happy and healthy without that toxic ex. And that isn’t that hard. I may have got some of this wrong, but this was the gist.

[@1985Viggen]

8:25 lol xD

[@domi9146]

That's not a lol, that's a perfect example of a psychomaniac o.o

[@karlhilton6641]

2:54 becoming insecure is not a win

[@goshagosha7948]

My dad was abusive to my mum and us. My mum always told me once men pud hand on you he will always do. You need to be independent woman. Lady's run and never look back at them, run away from your abuser!!!

[@Saleigh]

When you leave find support if your mind is off of them I know how it is yup you feel like your safe and you leave it’s terrible but you need to break free

[@Warhead_235]

The one clip at 2:59 I had a neighbor who did that by trying to break down his access door. When I confronted him, he didn’t start banging on my door, and even though I had a AR-15 he still stood his ground. It took police officers to Tasia, and before that he was telling me to shoot him. I believe he was probably trying to end his life or he was on something.

[@anykoop]

It's a little stupid seeing people faking black eyes for clout. They're exploiting actual victims for views. It's gross.

[@mysticgaming2455]

I was at my friend's birthday before the pandemic and he shouted at her and I can tell she was crying and telling him to leave her alone he didn't, so I stood up infront of his face and said if you don't leave her alone I will make you. So he pushed me I apologise to her and I pinned him to the floor with a hold told her to get to safety which she did and me and him wrestled like mad and he finally left, as he left I locked the doors and shut ran into my arms thanking me so she is okay and she's happy thanks to me

[@booshay922]

Seems almost impossible to find someone who isn't broken these days and as stated these individuals are not content with something that isn't broken. They resist a healthy relationship because it's not what they're used to. Men and women. It's a shame. People have to want better for themselves. Also imo principles and values like trust, honesty, respect, morals, etc have disappeared. Best of luck

[@HEA_01]

2:52 "this is the girl he didn't want.. so I became the girl he could never get" *Proceeds to turn herself from a 9.7/10 to a -2000/10.

[@beverlystewart4465]

ex bf every abusive to me): he tired to kill me

[@hihowareuwannabefriends6949]

I am very sorry that happened i will pray for u