Accepting This Frees You From the Narcissist

[@cyberspelunker1980]

This truth. “No one who has abused you, has liked or loved you.”

[@gracegrace9567]

@@cyberspelunker1980 worthy of memorization

[@BettyBooper-z1i]

A simple statement that cuts to the heart, stings a bit, and is easy to remember.

[@kimberlywind2418]

One thing about narcs, there is a guarantee of abuse. If not used to it or never experienced it, it’s shocking. You can’t fix it. It’s the air that they breathe.

[@joannturi3968]

Iit only shows the power that we have or had over them. To have them actually lie to you and themselves at the same time is not only childish but laughable. I personally think that it makes them look like an idiot once exposed.

[@remembermyname718]

The bad thing is that in order to love yourself you had to pass through the clutches of a malignant narcissist.

[@fouad4260]

Indeed

[@joannturi3968]

There's definitely a light at the end of the tunnel.

[@remembermyname718]

@@joannturi3968 💯

[@TruthSeekingElf]

A shock to the system for sure but yes this does of course make sense. It´s this information that´s missing in our world today. I would go so far as to say it´s the most important information on the planet.

[@joannturi3968]

I let them believe that I believe them first.

[@SamsungPhone-kk3ot]

These videos are very helpful. We as a species are hard wired to have empathy and emotional responses, it is why we have survived and become so prolific on this planet, because of this it is very hard to stop listening to your heart and start listening to your head, your logic. Thank you Mr Tudor , I now take a step back and try to apply logic when my alarm bells start to ring around anyone. I now feel that I have tools to aid myself, thanks to your work......

[@ViolettaD1485]

Parental narcs are the hardest to break free from, if you're ambivalent. Mine are dead, and i still hesitate to they might have been full narcs. Not ready for the Narc Detector on them, though I've had it for co-workers: highly narcissistic is as much as i can face right now. Sometimes I envy HG for not loving anyone. No ambivalence to torture him.

[@flapper27]

Thank you, HG! 💜 The teaching from this video applies to the ukulele club I had to leave. This past August were three narcissists that took over the club and decided to replace me as leader. These women showed they were not my friends, but power hungry. They were entitled and arrogant. The woman who led the other two women, used the group text on our cell phones to air out her grievances against me. She didn't want to talk to me privately. Instead, she wanted to teach me a lesson. When I was forced to step down, they were drinking up the fuel when they were given positions of leadership by the woman who led the two other two women. I was treated very badly, so I decided to leave. HG Tudor said in one of his videos "It is not logical to engage with a narcissist... When you know, you go." So, I told the director of the senior center that I was not continuing as the ukulele leader because of the bad treatment from the three women. She thanked me for 20 years of service to the community. I wouldn't be surprised if those three narcissists collided. 😆😆😆

[@notaclue822]

I know exactly how you feel. I feel the loss of a community, but it'll never ever be the same.

[@joannturi3968]

Play the game is what I've been accustomed to do. I can sense it a mile away.

[@familyandfriendsfuntimes]

Important video

[@CamCam-mq6ji]

7:47 100%

[@CamCam-mq6ji]

Your most important video 🙏🏼 I'm so grateful for your presence 🙏🏼

[@GrassIsGreenEnough]

These are so good they should be PSA information announcements, maybe on sound systems while shopping, to help spread the word. Thanks HG ❤

[@robinstekkinger3902]

BRILLIANT! And if anyone doesn’t agree or accept that fact, then they never will and ALWAYS be a victim of a/the narcissist.

[@LeilaJane]

So many people need to get this through their head!!! This is the most important fact in my opinion. ❤

[@TheTower73]

I’ve applied this not just to the narcissist I was involved with, but also to my upbringing and the religious cult I was in. Evidence trumps belief. Logic cuts through emotional thinking. Thanks HG

[@gpparis2023]

Merry Christmas and Happy new year HG! Thank you for your work, Charm and entertainment. Much love to you Sir. ❤

[@Bringer_of_Tempests]

They love you like someone might love a dog that they beat.

[@ladyvirgo013]

Lived it,no need to write it down. Truth 💯

[@ane9376]

I love you HG. I know you don't care😂. Your videos are so informative. Thank you so much for your help( I know you are not doing this for us but for you) and your time.

[@juliechurch1799]

Great vid.merry Xmas

[@remembermyname718]

But above all there is one very important thing to understand narcissists lie to themselves and if they told you they love you they probably believed it too. The point is that it is a flash love, the narcissist every day is a different person. I think I have only met psychopaths with comorbidity at this point, what I liked was their very charismatic personality. A psychopathic person is similar to a person with autism they live in a world apart.

[@joannturi3968]

I like to let them believe that I believe them. It would take an army for me to believe anyone these days. My old standard and motto is, believe half of what people say then subtract 50. End of story.

[@Mt48lp6bfh]

Thank you H.G

[@lenihassveasphaug9634]

Is it normal to only feel disgust towards them?

[@alexkuieh1565]

VP: my lack of understanding of what happened to me. my lack of understanding of what happened to me. my lack of understanding of what happened to me.

[@helenhoward5346]

Thank you HG. In a way, one chooses to live when he implements GOSO just like the drug addict chooses to live when he commits to long-term inpatient addiction treatment. If only us cripple and bastard and broken empaths had a rehab to assist us in our initial GOSO journeys too 🙄😚. HG could be the warden. What could possibly go awry?

[@mariemohan2383]

True…so True..to the point ..

[@Victoria-c4n]

Touché!

[@Lynch888a]

So true.

[@CamCam-mq6ji]

4:49

[@alexkuieh1565]

VP: arenas of interaction. arenas of interaction. arenas of interaction.

[@alexkuieh1565]

VOCCABULARY PRACTICE (VP): hoover seeks to reasserts control. hoover seeks to reassert control. hoover seeks to reassert control.

[@joannturi3968]

It's like a backstroke of the brain.....better to find a swimming pool and really do some laps.

[@remembermyname718]

It is no longer appropriate to say fake golden period aka you will be used and abused

[@joannturi3968]

It's unacceptable. End of story.

[@No-Name-f8p]

Yes, and amen. I thank God for this man. Very edifying!🫵🏾

[@LulusMom1961]

You are absolutely right. I followed this advice, and it works. Also, followed by no contact. Thank you, HG. 🦮I got you a Labrador for Christmas. 🐊🎅