Binding : If the Narcissist Was Honest

[@No-Name-f8p]

I really was “in the center, on the pedestal of an illusion!” 👺

[@sarahsilver4008]

He fooled me and hurt me, but I got out very quickly. I realised almost immediately when the devalue/discard phase began, but I was so confused and in shock that it took a couple of months for it to sink in. During that time, I told him I would not participate in merry-go-round conversations or gaslighting, which did not go down too well. He actually "indirectly" confessed that he was "maybe" a narcissist, he recounted his childhood and relationship with his mother, and how he disassociated, and that he had a habit of wrecking peoples' lives. He became hell, cold, twisted, manipulative--another person entirely. I loved the person I thought he was and am still ruminating even now, I admit, but I will not go back. He is trying to hoover but I am not letting him back in. I fell out of love with him as soon as I fully took on board what he was, but had to spend 45 days at his house because at that point I had lost my home. It was extremely painful but I understood that none of it had been real and that somehow made it easier. A month and a half after breaking away I still feel wounded but it gets better every day. In my eyes I am sovereign and he has no right to my energy.

[@ihdtdd]

Entertaining them in your mind is binding them to you. Financial hardships resulting from the narcissist is also binding. Continual slander of you, they also bind you, you're unable to control. GOSO and know it's a heroic move and will over time, sometimes decades, pay off.

[@davidarundel6187]

Its worked very well on both , the landlords staff - All of them - and the neighbour's, in 3 blocks of about 200 flats - some have taken a while to learn , not to mess me around , while working , or visiting freinds in said blocks . Pets , farm animals and birds , all know their friend's, so to speak as they don't fly off but stay near .

[@user-yts-x8g]

@@davidarundel6187 Sorry about that, sounds rough. Apartments or co-op complexes can be rough with limitations on people's individually and narcissists looking for fuel, especially when they have power on a condo board in a position to slander and impose fines to extort money.

[@rahoche3]

All true and disheartening. Even after escape, the ties remain longer than one would like. It seems they will always be there, perhaps in a lesser form after time, but there none the less. Thank you, HG, as always.

[@flapper27]

Thank you for these marvelous videos, HG! 💜

[@maryarchangel2131]

Demons work through the narcissist to steal your soul

[@bonnielee7134]

Hi H.G. You say, “ bound to the hope “. I just recently saw, in a comment section, someone call that, hopium. Hahaha!

[@lorishu48103]

A prisoner of hope - Zachariah

[@monka124]

It's a question of lust It's a question of trust... Dave with his panty dropper voice with those beats that always bring trouble and fun. Much like you, I imagine.

[@MargaretM-vd7bb]

These Videos need to be listened to before you enter into a Relatioship. Thankyou for your Honest Analysis HG.❤️🌻

[@חנהכהן-ד9ר]

Superb description!

[@tamaradelaney5160]

It's interesting to hear what they're thinking, except I did none of these things. After 21years, there was zero longing.

[@mariemohan2383]

Yes..yes.. feel nothing…smh..True…Gio Mee - IS THIS THE WAY 🎶🎼😏

[@ihdtdd]

No you can't keep a toothbrush here, take it with you or the cleaning fairy will throw it away.

[@davidarundel6187]

😂😂😂❤

[@No-Name-f8p]

👆🏼🤣

[@matthewmason2793]

I sure can't wait to find out what happens to Ashleigh and Wynn, now that their relationship is about to tail spin...

[@lorishu48103]

Me too I been waiting ?!!!

[@justanopinion_really]

HG, as a narcissist how do you reconcile the empowerment you give those of us who have been victimized by a narcissist(s).

[@silent_lucidity6375]

This world and all the characters in it is akin to a computer game gone amuck.. Time to change the "program"....

[@nobodynobody695]

❤

[@bonnielee7134]

Yeah. Well. What can I say? Just a sad reminder of what a shit show, that I went through as an unfortunate part of my healing journey. I wondered, was the love bomb inside of me? And, your ties, were really my ties because I wanted control.

[@Leah-i1e]

Sounds childish to me.

[@No-Name-f8p]

I fell for it 😮

[@No-Name-f8p]

I said, “Leave now and take the cheap food you put in my refrigerator with you!” 🫵🏾