Actual BDSMer Watches Fifty Shades of Grey | Kat Blaque

[@KatBlaque]

Oh, if you're curious, YES, I'm watching all of the movies. You can see my review of Fifty Shades Darker here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/haSQcnR-ZbKqkKc

[@zainqudah4838]

i love that red flags are soo ✨romantic ✨ uu cracked me up

[@irenes8689]

I wish sooo much that I actually know you. I'm subscribing. I just love your energy.

[@TecTitan]

Holy shit. Half way through this video I thought you were wrapping up how you felt, and I moved the mouse to find more content. And then This comment was under. I was like a 1/4 through this journey and I find myself foolish.

[@eireannClover]

Actually, another thing that shocked me in this movie is that you would not, as an experienced dom, buy any stuff for bondage in a random hardware shop, this is not safe at all for your body xDDD. Especially ropes, you could say that.

[@marybeaird6171]

I realise I'm late to the party but have you seen Preaching to the Perverted? If you haven't, it's a British comedy about the BDSM scene that features real members of the scene from back in the day. I'd love to hear your thoughts on it. X

[@wonwoop]

tbh i’m so tired of the trope of an innocent naive girl gets stalked by the brooding mysterious dude with a dark backstory

[@soda_crackerr]

Ikrrr

[@yutisima]

(and he's rich and has issues)

[@pallavik5220]

Just can't agree anymore

[@del5981]

Same, it was meh at first now it's just downright creepy

[@C-SD]

Someone said if he'd been poor and locked her in his trailer it would be a very different movie.

[@leinahstarr7007]

If some random man I hardly knew took me to a hotel room and changed my clothes while I was drunk, I would panic and immediately assume this guy is a creep

[@FatimaMarques0890]

Real life. These characters are TOTALLY unrealistic. That's why we can't emphatize with either of them.

[@yashvimaram2059]

I'd be dialing 911

[@FatimaMarques0890]

@@yashvimaram2059 exactly!

[@alastor.mp4836]

I'd be calling 911 and reporting a homicide

[@sibilansnel]

I'd call the police point blank periodt.

[@aileencrain6558]

Fifty shades is really funny cuz Anna isn’t a submissive and Christian isn’t a dominant or even a sadist, just an abusive jerk.

[@ninjakeks9326]

In the movie... yeah. In the book.... not really. The movie cut out the scenes when he gets his "job" done decently.

[@sophiiesgm9279]

Ninja Keks i wish people would read the books to movies first.

[@Queen-cf7pr]

The books are even worse though lmao, he’s even more of a scumbag there

[@sophiiesgm9279]

Nicole Ngwenya i should read it just to get mad 😳

[@jaymeerenee2357]

Honestly Anna gave me some bratty vibes here n there but other than that I agree

[@ForeverPaintingRoses]

The bdsm itself isn’t abuse but all the weird controlling, manipulation, gaslighting, boundary crossing is abusive and that’s weirdly enough not at all what Ana is worried about at all

[@sometimessnarky1642]

Exactly! She's upset about the spanking but not the mind control. WTH!?

[@acookie7548]

it’s definitely weird that ana, as a fully grown adult, is still portrayed so naïve and childlike (infantilising white women check) but i think the emphasis should be placed more on christian doing these creepy ass things bc he’s rich not her not noticing how creepy it is (though this whole movie is a plot hole, i mean, if you can’t interview a billionaire or whatever christian dark white is uou usually get someone from your company to sub in for you?? not your roommate who doesn’t even have the background????? yeah i dont like this franchise much)

[@tia2676]

In the book, Christian Grey is even worse. He controls her diet and exercise routines...

[@acookie7548]

@@tia2676 wtf if dude wants to control someone he should just play the sims nor do this abusive shit 😒

[@JariDawnchild]

@@acookie7548 He should control and discipline himself first...

[@themaggattack]

"A consent contract ignores what consent actually is." Exactly. *Consent goes moment by moment.* All you really need is a SAFEWORD.

[@loverbxy]

Safeword: Firetruck 🚒 wee woo wee woo

[@jungwooyoung2255]

@@loverbxy h-hyung why are you here too 0_0

[@tsukikage]

I mean, I think there might be value in an informal "contract" only because it can aid in making sure everyone's on the same page after initial communication about hard and soft boundaries, but that "contract" needs to just serve as a baseline which safewords and further communication can and will always override.

[@ololo518]

@@tsukikage Yeah, it can be useful (and fun/sexy if some wants that) but it's not "consent to end all consents"

[@tsukikage]

@@ololo518 True! I can definitely see some people finding fun and/or sexiness in it.

[@capir0te]

The biggest plot hole for me is how the heck did she graduate with a degree in literature with no access to a computer. Our girl was out here writing her thesis by hand.

[@KatBlaque]

Hahahaha I didn't even think about that

[@lemonstealer2902]

Libraries dudeee

[@artemisneza7480]

In the books she said that she used her roommates computer .

[@sierrak6388]

@@artemisneza7480 I mean that's still a big plot hole. Borrowing a laptop in college is like borrowing a limb.

[@anomnomnomnivore1350]

Brub 300 levels classes have me writing 8 pages ☠️

[@indigotrini]

If Christian was poor/unattractive...this would be an episode on FBI Files

[@joycelinlgbtq]

Sshh. Don't give the incels more fuel.

[@Naa45702]

Joycelin lgbtQ it’s not untrue though lol

[@heenaarya7492]

🤣🤣

[@naranciaisbestboi125]

No, if Ana had any common sense it would be an episode on FBI files. He's crazy regardless of status and looks. The status may help him get out of prison but his looks won't hide his ulterior motives if Ana just looks a little harder.

[@lulumand324]

Gagging! I've never laughed so hard in my life. 😩

[@CosmicAlliance03]

"If you were mine you wouldn't be able to sit for a week 😈😈😈" Ana, who probably has a massive hangover and just woke up in an unfamiliar place in not her clothes: what?

[@paisleesheppard5629]

Never been vanilla in my life 🤷‍♀️ knew what BDSM was before I had sex and was lucky enough to find a partner with similar preferences right off the bat. If I hear a man say that without the whole "this is what my sex life is," I'm filing him away in the garbage bin under 'values shock value over transparent communication,' and 'blatantly threatens with physical abuse without any kind of context.' I'd be in fight or flight mode and never trust him again. Sorry, dude, I have a type and it's called transparency. 🤷‍♀️

[@lunarsma8446]

Someone! Break out the arnica!

[@veronika4870]

worst pick-up line ever in my humble opinion

[@TheNocturnalOracle]

"The sex was underwhelming but the music was FIRE" This killed me

[@emilmik1822]

I see army lol 😏💜

[@alishashashasha6909]

I see army's I'm happy 😊💜❤️

[@fayesingleton7427]

Killed me too

[@tatheerakbari3964]

Dead 💀

[@solocomics1820]

@@alishashashasha6909 Hahaha...NO.

[@miav.3373]

Aftercare is EXTREMELY important. Even I, a virgin that has no experience with BDSM or sexual intercourse whatsoever, knows that aftercare is key & important in ANY relationship.

[@Dorlainedainwenz]

I'm in the same boat as you and I knownthat AFTER CARE IS SOOOOO FREAKING IMPORTANT!! we need to shout it out for the people in the back.

[@gdog9423]

what's aftercare, can someone explain I don't know much about any relationship other than platonic.

[@covereddonuts1279]

gdog 942 basically, after doing the do with bdsm, both partners take care of each other. It’s like a mini self care session. They talk about how they’re feeling, they cuddle, they just relax with each other and try to make sure that one another are okay. It’s an important aspect because at times doing bdsm can leave people feeling guilty. That’s why it’s important.

[@Miller-og8ke]

Same dude

[@00imz]

Covered Donuts that’s wholesome negl ty for explaining

[@mausebaer69]

“Which isn’t creepy, not creepy at all. It’s romantic, ACTUALLY.” Did...did you just sum up the whole movie?

[@Justinya0]

I read this comment right when she said it😂

[@tink6225]

hey baby gorl

[@ouwebrood497]

The whole movie is just a rape fantasy. Nothing wrong with rape fantasy in itself as long it is fantasy, but far too much movies tend to normalize this non consensual behavior.

[@user-ayiy824jbd]

@@ouwebrood497no there absolutely is something wrong with fantasizing about lifelong trauma that changes the way you perceive EVERYTHING from that point on in your life.

[@yumalove7223]

​@@ouwebrood497 rape even if its a fantasy is wrong in every way

[@Astrolionking]

Reminder: do NOT CHANGE SOMEONES CLOTHES WHEN THEYRE DRUNK. That’s still sexual assault. I hate that stupid scene with a passion.

[@ptboy18]

.....errrrrr...had a friend change my clothes when I blacked out AND a group of us changed another friend's clothes when he blacked out and puked on himself...shower the whole 9 yards. Is that actually a thing? Maybe it's because we were guys? It never struck me as assault, more like removing puked covered clothes.

[@ouwebrood497]

@@ptboy18 Well, that's something else I think.

[@overgrownkudzu]

​@@ptboy18 in this scenario he took her with him even though she didn't want to come and then completely undressed her, and at this point they barely know each other at all. that's not comparable to a group of friends trying to help their other friend to get cleaned up.

[@reign_issue]

@@ptboy18 i think thats because you all had an established relationship where trust was present- its different if its a stranger, and your friend could know for certain none of you had sexual intentions

[@moonoftheblood]

It is? What if you're taking care of your pass-out drunk friend and change their clothes because they're dirty with puke or something, even if the friend hasn't explicitly stated "hey if I'm passed out you can change my clothes I consent", is that still sexual assault? Genuine question (for writing reasons lol)

[@kkuudandere]

"Laterz, baby" has the same energy as "Are you lost, babygirl?", and they're both too cursed for me to handle 💀

[@KatBlaque]

I vomited in my mouth a lil when he said that lol

[@RedWolfhound]

Listen, at least Christian said "Laterz baby" to Ana when they were already having some sort of relationship (no matter how unhealthy), "Are you lost babygirl" was used on a woman that didn't even know the guy. XDDD

[@TXejas19]

😂😂😂💀💀💀👻👻👻

[@SebastianSeanCrow]

Outside of the cringe of "laterz" being said OUT LOUD (who does that?) isn't it like... wayyyy too early to call her baby? They JUST MET it's really weird to me.

[@robbinova]

LOLOL i thought the same thing. I could handle Laterz, baby a bit more tho.

[@cyverbunny]

This whole series isn't about BDSM, it's basically about a guy who is abusive due to his traumatic childhood

[@tralaritralarajiju2652]

Of course it is? Why on earth a healthy man would want to enjoy a common interest with his partner? Not. Just a trauma could cause that a man want to have a kinky interest. (All of these is sarcasm. Of course.) As an asexual person....I watched the movie because a recommendation. Total regret. Edit: grammar 😅

[@belosneshkaaaa]

mommy issues 👁️👄👁️

[@eastereggggg]

@@thatonekid655 who here is paying for fanfiction? No one? Kk moving on.

[@tiffanypersaud3518]

Yes.

[@MikeyJules69]

I will say the one thing I really liked about Anastasia is that she wanted to deal with the woman who abused Christian

[@gggthsb]

Take out every hint of BDSM from that movie and it is a straight up abusive relationsship. Adding BDSM shouldn't make that ok.

[@lunar-1340]

If he wasn’t rich and successful this would be a Criminal Minds episode.

[@_lol.imagine_]

Lunar -13 Fr 💀

[@jezelle9674]

Help that is all it is. He talks Ana, and everything he does leading up to being with Ana and making her have sex with him and fall in love is all creepy and forceful.

[@jezelle9674]

*stalks

[@sunasday]

You can edit your comment ya know?

[@imlost8999]

why are all the wattpad type movies based in my fucking state 💀 like omfg leave us alone y'all 😭

[@DarthFurie]

NO I AM REALLY CRYING AT THIS COMMENT LMAOOO. It's just so ✨brooding & mysterious✨

[@kimberlyh.7797]

Shades of grey was based on Twilight, which of course is set in Washington. Guess that also influenced the wattpad community..

[@ellagris]

cus the rain:/ do i know why? no. but that’s the truth

[@bi-myself7628]

As a Washingtonian I can relate- like omg why do all the movies based around this place have to be ones a 14 year old wrote on wattpad

[@frankieremacle-grimm7116]

@@kimberlyh.7797 also after 😂

[@liromoliro]

The fact that fifty shades was originally a twilight fanfiction is just PRICELESS and explains so much

[@brynb9493]

fr!! also i love your profile picture btw!

[@goldtrash]

I'm sorry it was WHAT

[@abhilasha9608]

IT WAS?!

[@razorxseraphim149]

Yeah, I'm not surprised this was a hot garbage book/movie. Hard to make something good that was based off of another piece of hot garbage.

[@twiixie1654]

the way my first thought watching it was literally: "shit, that's even worse than twillight". i had no idea it was actually connected hahah

[@chardaebryant9904]

I swear this whole movie is a wattpad fever dream 💀

[@Zeni2468]

Lol, well it is originally Twilight fanfiction.

[@lesuperbooper4622]

And it is :(

[@avgfgcfan]

the worst part is that it practically is it was born from a wattpad fanfiction

[@farajiaziziaddo.6840]

Of course it is

[@honeybeeknees6469]

And that's because it is!

[@bobatealily]

I'm not even into BDSM and I don't find anything wrong with BDSM at all. It's just a fetish like any others out there. What really bothered me about Fifty Shades of Grey is it's implied that Christian got into BDSM because someone abused him. It basically implied that being into BDSM means you have a mental illness when no, that isn't true. From what I researched, there is NO correlation between liking BDSM and having a mental illness. Even psychiatrists and psychologists say so!

[@mottyreef]

Bdsm relationships require trust and vulnerability going beyond what most relationships include or expect, and the exact opposite of psychosis usually involving manipulation and/or social isolation. It's necessarily healthy, albeit alternative. That's why a lot of people were upset about the portrayal here

[@cyber_runner]

Same! As long as both parties are giving consent, have boundaries, safe words, etc, I dont see anything wrong with it. It's simply a kink. But even me, a person who has never been interested nor experienced BDSM, can obviously tell this is a very abusive and unhealthy relationship.

[@LittleDeamon0358]

I'm into bdsm because it helps me learn to trust people, and it's fun. So, yeah, my dark past lead me to submission....lol I'm basically living a fanfic of Fifty Shades, just the more accurate version, with none of the abusive relationship stuff.

[@melaniearakawa]

THIS!!!!! First thing I noticed too. You are so right!

[@C-SD]

Not the entire reason I (and other people) started. As an assault survivor, this made a great impact on me. I learned that I do have control over the situation, and that people have to earn my trust. A lot more, too.

[@multifandomperson8703]

Friendly reminder that in canon (I think) none of the women in his office are brunette so he wouldn't be attracted to them because he has "a type". Thats why they are all blonde in the film. It's disgusting and animalistic, like he cannot control himself if one of his employees is brunette? Creeeeeepy

[@hopelessone15]

HR is like "Well, you graduated with a 4.0 and have ten years of experience and glowing recommendations but you're brunette so the boss won't let me hire you. Can you dye your hair? Or a wig? Please! The only blond candidate we have showed up drunk."

[@flowersforyouu]

ew omg so sad that shit like that is romanticised

[@elanorheinz7787]

Calling it animalistic gives Chimpanzees a bad name, that shit's straight up MONSTROUS.

[@lumityviktuuristanartist4100]

​@@elanorheinz7787 you're giving monsters a bad name , monsters are creatures that consent on s-x

[@Rosemary46840]

Giving fetish

[@albehoe2327]

Christian x therapist should have been the main couple all along

[@Tterror510]

Otp 😂😂😂

[@triplechinnn4726]

Christian × Self-Love would of been awesome.

[@mercycunningham2813]

Wrong movie. Christian x Therapist = The Joker x Harley Quinn ;)

[@greengoblinboy585]

@@mercycunningham2813 then the sequel; Harley gets her own therapist

[@veryrespectfullesbian3968]

Christian entered the room to see Therapy Chan sitting her chair and ready to start off the session.

[@eden-elysium]

Why couldn’t we have a movie where the billionaire is a sub and needs his secretary to dominate him so he can have a break from being in charge

[@LoveLove-fp2rn]

Should be more accurate. Right?

[@Langlangsland]

Would be too real so wouldn’t be hot dumb world we live in

[@kami8484]

OOOUUU

[@amandarama3314]

id watch that.

[@Mouseymouse678]

*me reading tony stark x Steve Rodgers fanfic* hm yes close enough

[@tellnate29]

Petition to remake 50 shades of grey but the only thing different is Kat blaque as Anastasia and she constantly makes fun of Christian Grey

[@JC-yy8iv]

50 Shades Of Blaque

[@anava7030]

"Anna." "Dommy Dom McDommerson who's always domming eveything -"

[@pennycheshire5608]

Yeeeesssss. That is the BDSM movie I need in my life.

[@khazermashkes2316]

I would totally watch that!

[@the_nikster1]

sign me up!

[@serena_v01]

"if you were mine you wouldn't be able to sit" um sir, are you going to steal the chairs from my house or-

[@theab3957]

Lol

[@komal2018]

pfffttt-💀

[@cole1551]

I CAN'T LMAO

[@krishanubanerjee6955]

Nope, I'll simply smash them all with a sledgehammer and leave the remains around to torment you!

[@ddshhrss]

😂😂

[@periwrinkle5205]

The funny thing is that the actor who played Grey genuinely disliked his role. He hates sex scenes, isn't dom at all, etc. and felt super uncomfy with basically the entire series.

[@quackdaddy69bahaha20]

It really shows lol

[@whizzersterriblehorribleno773]

I’ve heard both main actors are sweethearts irl, which made me feel soooo bad that the characters in the film are absolutely terrible

[@quinintheclouds]

then why was he cast? XD If he was uncomfy, it'd show in the acting and chemistry -- and it did. Poor guy

[@rolanfitzgerald2580]

But-the irony- the male lead of twilight HATED his character and role, and then- in this movie about a fanfiction of twilight the actor of the Edward character also hates his role. Like, we love cinematic parallels

[@minionsofthelordbagali5324]

@@quinintheclouds some people are great actors I guess?

[@ariannasantina]

a "dominant" who wants an inexperienced person for that reason... i dont consider them doms i consider them abusers.

[@naranciaisbestboi125]

That's because they are abusers. Saying they're dom is an excuse but never a good one.

[@marsrigger2641]

The community actually also sees "doms" that look for inexperienced people specifically as abusers as well, and most of the community encourages to start slow and go at your pace. which is exactly opposite of christian and what he does to ana.

[@JacquelineUnderwood]

Mars Rigger that really depends on how saturated your local community is with abusers. My local community, I wouldn’t put *me* near it with a big stick to protect myself, let alone a newbie. Like I know it’s not that bad in most places, but also, a newbie won’t know that until they aren’t a newbie anymore. No one warned me that x, y, and z had consent violations or that people they had “played” with left in short order, I didn’t find that out until after I had experienced issues too.

[@broombed7888]

THIS!!

[@Riaaonline]

So could that mean people have a kink for getting abused?😭

[@ashnelson5562]

Can we please, *please* have a heterosexual sexy movie where the girl isn't borderline stalked and pushed around by the man and it's treated as hot? I'd love to volunteer to rewrite a better version of 50 shades of grey where it's clearly consensual and both parties are not.... Whatever these two are???

[@blessiemasancay4818]

That'd be nice!

[@chrisj8244]

Yes please

[@jasleenkaur3072]

I know this comment is old but jenny trout reviewed 50 shades and then rewrote it as a much much better novel. Its called The Boss series under the name Abigail Barnette :)

[@katara2021]

Watch Korean dramas. The older ones definitely had these tropes but most of the new ones are fantastic.

[@ConchaDel]

As in The secretary which btw is much older than these books?

[@megan2768]

most of the issues of her being scared and traumatised could have been solved with this cool thing called a ✨safe word✨

[@missserenity1090]

Megan I’m not even into bdsm and even I know about safe words.

[@justagirl1245]

There was two safe words. Yellow and Red. Red was the safe word for him to completly stop. And they made him ask her if she remembers the safe words. She said yes, but never used it.

[@EveryTimeV2]

If only there was a safe word for when you're a minority and society is denying your existence.

[@k80_]

I think in one of the sequels they have one and she uses it and he doesn’t respect it

[@megan2768]

@@k80_ thats even worse

[@SazSupreme]

“who is the only person of color in this film” LMFAO

[@casie6609]

Ikr I'm white so of course I didn't notice that, except the guy that fixed her computer was black as well as a another college student I think. That's pretty sad though that they didn't have more diversity. But of course since the main actors are white their families are more likely to be white, and her roommate just happens to be white. It's not too unusual because the story revolves around them but they could've added diversity in the people working in Christian's business/ building, and in all the college students in the movie. 💛

[@Mainlymoemonkey]

@@casie6609 why is every protagonist in these types movies white as mayonnaise with a loving mother and father

[@jaidarichardson4024]

Christians sister isn't white, so the second person of color

[@casie6609]

@@Mainlymoemonkey Not sure. Maybe more people are more likely to watch them if they're white? Unfortunately many people are racist in this world and if the main protagonists are Hispanic or African American or Asian probably some people wouldn't watch it. Of course that's wrong. But it's all about the money. And there are a lot of shows and movies that do have a lot of diversity and even mixed relationships etc, but this is one that doesn't.

[@emmettseggsack]

Had to stay true to it being a twilight fanfic

[@dailyleaf]

Him: I don’t do the girlfriend thing Me: oh! Holy shit thanks for not wasting my time *leaves immediately*

[@KatBlaque]

Same

[@mooptom2599]

*turns the movie off* after he says that. What a good movie 😅

[@zuluau]

Facts hahahahahah

[@TheTaxburden]

Lmao exactly

[@christinecannibal844]

Forreal lmao 😅 Buh-bye!

[@scootergirl3662]

*Gives her an NDA and a glass of wine, but says he is worried about consent* Welp, that tells me all I need to know.

[@theab3957]

Oof. I hadn't caught that.

[@SunriseViewer]

I remember my best friend (who's a BDSMer) insisting that she read the book before me. When I got it, it had tons of notes and post-its in it where my friend pointed out everything that was wrong with the representation. Actually, I enjoyed reading the post-its way more than I enjoyed reading the book.

[@sarroumarbeu6810]

Your friend is amazing

[@SunriseViewer]

She really is! ❤️

[@frankiemillcarek6976]

What a good, responsible friend!

[@charlottecaligari784]

😂 I wanna read that copy 😂

[@SunriseViewer]

@@charlottecaligari784 Sadly, it belongs to another friend. We traded books a lot during that time. :)

[@transylvanna_]

The film portraits BDSM as some kind of mental illness like depression or bipolarity that obligatory needs a dark past or trauma It's just a kink man, chill....

[@hat7475]

I heard that it was made by non kinky peeps

[@oliviawilliams6204]

elanit_lk yeah E.L. James has no understanding and or experience of BDSM, she just put her vision of it without really doing any research before

[@hat7475]

@@oliviawilliams6204 that's bad. it just makes it worse for the kinky community :/

[@oliviawilliams6204]

@@hat7475 yeah, but that's the reality of it

[@zuko5651]

elanit_lk that explains a hell of a loy

[@mihaelfajt293]

in the "original" version of the film, at the end Anna was supposed to say the safe word and Gray would ignore it. That way the ending with her crying and running away would make so much more sense.

[@jenniferowen2801]

Yes, this would have made so much a better ending. The way that they played it, it seems like she is setting a trap for him, then shames him for doing what she told him to do. This is a tactic of abusive, toxic people. In other words, this is the second woman to abuse him through gaslighting.

[@victoriakinny9210]

I would have killed to see that ending

[@fernandoherrera8410]

Why they don't keep that?!?! I mean ...

[@imnotgoodwithnames4101]

@@fernandoherrera8410 Because then Gray would have been seen as a abuser (which he kind is regardless of the cut) and they wouldn't be able to make a series out of it.

[@ladymalkavian8710]

@@fernandoherrera8410 got of books that become movies get new endings. The ending Lord of the Rings movies were a 180 on the books.

[@svinjamaria]

Anna: “hurt me, I wanna see how bad it can be!” Christian: *googles How To Legally Kill Someone*

[@blessiemasancay4818]

*chokes*

[@Skwishy121]

We all know he uses Bing. He seems like that guy.

[@MrTbk3]

@@Skwishy121 He has people to his research.

[@Skwishy121]

@@MrTbk3 I was making a joke.

[@MrTbk3]

@@Skwishy121 I thought I was, too. Sorry if you felt stepped on

[@deezballs4733]

Okay but imagine this: Christian and Ana don’t get together and she gets into a healthy, stable relationship

[@nobodyun5922]

imagine this: they dont get together, chris gets a therapist and starts using bdsm as something healthy, respectful and not abusive, ana gets a therapist to overcome her social anxiety and self esteem issues and doesnt need a man to validate her. priceless

[@breakdown4o148]

Christian is a broken person and it’s a misconception that he’s abusive out of a hard place. Trauma breaks people. PTSD is real and Ana may not have needed it but she grew as a person and brought a light into his dark past.

[@A_328FL]

You are a degenerate weeb I am a weeb we are different

[@creakycrow4045]

Imagine this: It’s 4am and I’m watching this with a bowel of cereal 🌝

[@A_328FL]

Random Baby I like that idea

[@Tossboi]

“Are you lost, baby girl?” Oh wait wrong movie....

[@karisdietrich1964]

Is it though?

[@violetdreams1772]

@@karisdietrich1964 it's the child of lAtErZ bAbY.

[@YouDontKnowAnnyeonhaseyo]

🤣🤣 close enough

[@MorroTheGhostNinja]

That movie makes Reylo seem like nothing

[@grechka7]

dOn’T pRoVoKe Me

[@corvidaemoon8744]

"She's just taken back by this little boy in a tuxedo." GIRL I am WHEEZING x'D

[@googleface567]

To be fair, in the book there is aftercare, there is a safeword, and when she tells him she is a virgin he gets upset that he didn't tell her sooner because she is in way over her head and he shouldn't have showed her the room.

[@kiaraswan9940]

This is EXACTLY why I haven't watched the movies.

[@RoseRosa95]

Even in the books there are still things which are wrong. The character is still stalkerish, controlling, and abusive. The BDSM community wasn't portrayed well in these books. Though I can understand why everyone took to these books like they did for twilight.

[@worldkitemuseum]

✨The bare necessities✨

[@overgrownkudzu]

it's still bad though...

[@theonionqueen3519]

I hate the idea of “not liking experienced bottoms”. I want a partner who knows exactly what they want, what their boundaries are, and how they want me to go about things. I NEVER want to make anyone uncomfortable while having sex.

[@Haghenveien]

I'm not a BDSMer so I can't really know but my impression because of what she sayis is that, specially, after these movies there might be some intrusism of men that aren't real doms but just plain abusers, even if that abuse is restrected to the sessions. And I'm not saying that just because someone prefers an inexperienced partner, they are abusers. Maybe they really enjoy the teaching and discovering a new world to someone part and that's not bad. But I think that it would be easier for abusers to get away with certain things if their partners don't know any better.

[@xeverydayisbeautiful]

PREACH IT

[@amityislandchum]

"Not liking experienced bottoms" is just code for "wanting to abuse someone who won't recognize that they're being abused."

[@lawlinrofl]

That kind of “I only want inexperienced people” mindset reeks of the idea of grooming someone, so I’m inclined to agree with you :/

[@chasejones7008]

That's just not an okay preference. Like preferring blondes to brunettes is very different than being like whoever I have sex with shouldn't know how to do anything in the bedroom. It's just such a fleeting thing to teach people, you'll never be fulfilled with 1 partner, the age gap will most likely keep growing, and it's more likely you'll get caught up because as someone with a bunch of experience you don't get any slack for traumatizing that 20 year old because you wanted to be a weirdo.

[@the.smol.redhead]

Why does this make kinksters look like we're mentally ill? Also, why do all the worst movies have the best soundtracks?

[@spookyoatmeal5605]

The soundtracks are their last resorts

[@carolbuzelim]

Thats because is a twilight fanfic that ALSO is a bad saga with awesome soundtrack

[@the.smol.redhead]

fam I did Not expect this many likes on a comment especially as a small youtuber like, I have 30 subscribers I'm not used to this amount of attention you guys XD

[@boobunnylovesyou]

Google search result: Did you mean the twilight saga?

[@Alexfolledemoi]

I bet the other movie you're thinking of is 'After' 😂

[@thotrot8262]

we just gonna ignore that Grey basically told Ana that she should be his sub because he was deadass abused when he was 15 and liked it so she might too? like that was a legit conversation in this movie and no one is talking about it???

[@wendyokoopa7048]

I forget where it was but I believe I read somewhere that they did yes feel Ana was being abused and had stockholm syndrome.

[@sammy67311]

In the secondbook/movie Anna calls out his abuser in front of his mother. Its *chef kiss* she dumps a glass if wine on her and kicks her out it was great.

[@FatimaMarques0890]

@@liamii5603 no idea, dude.

[@ninjakeks9326]

Not really what he said and what he wanted but... your interpretation...

[@FatimaMarques0890]

@@ninjakeks9326 the problem is HE DOESN'T BELIEVE he was ABUSED. Ana tells him several times, it wasn't right, he was groomed, etc... Sadly for Christian abuse is all the awful things he lived through as a child, of course they are, but he can't see pass that. I'm 100% sure when it happened he was confused and shocked and then brain-washed by this horrendous woman.

[@KarmaCifer]

I don't think the "give me your all" was the worst he did, but tracking and appearing out of nowhere inside her home, changing her clothes while she was asleep when they barely knew each other and all that "romantic" stalking is the worst. Those teenager fanfics really romanticize stalking and that's the creepiest thing of all. If I write a stalker romance, it would not be a love story, it would be some kind of psychological terror/toxic romance.

[@iatemycat5320]

Agreed

[@padawanofconfusion5954]

I wonder how different the overall fanfic landscape would be if Twilight didn't exist/hadn't been marketed to teenagers

[@iatemycat5320]

@@padawanofconfusion5954 actually, apparently twilight isnt a love story, it's more than that. A few days ago i got the notification of a video that explains it but i didnt watch it so idk

[@rn2787]

My biggest issue is that they kept throwing up red flags and they both ignored it. I am sorry, but throwing a virgin into the deep end of BDSM is the worst idea I have ever heard. They don't have any clue about what they like or don't like in bed and the chances of them literally freaking out and running for the hills is extremely high. Anyone who can't see how bad of an idea this is and has any experience needs to think about what they are doing.

[@reu2002]

‘Oh, you’ve never even had sex, let alone done anything kinky? Great, let’s enter a 24/7 sub/ Dom dynamic with a contract!’ Like, what a fucking train wreck lmao

[@SpeakingJargon]

I agree with your larger point, but virgins with pre-existing interests in BDSM do exist! I was one of them.

[@Indiegirl007]

YES. I was dating a dom at the time (We were in a vanilla relationship at the time) and he just couldn't believe that this man would even solicit such a thing from her. He was mortified.

[@rn2787]

@@SpeakingJargon fantasy and reality are two very different things. It's one thing to ease into stuff, go slowly, watch some videos, maybe go to a few parties, and acclimate to the activities. This story line from what I understand was like a month or maybe two. She had no real relationships before. At that point she really had no idea what she was doing (according to the story).

[@rn2787]

@@reu2002 yup.

[@u-nicole7645]

You have called Ana the two most perfect words to the describe her at the start: vanilla and confused

[@Kay-kg6ny]

The whole saga would have been a LOT more interesting if Christian Grey was a confident submissive who gradually guided Anna into domming and discovering a new bold and forceful side of herself. I would actually watch that movie. I will NEVER watch THESE lol.

[@psygaud]

I never knew it was possible to want a movie so much when only hearing about the idea one second earlier.

[@moonlites2028]

this is exactly what I was thinking this whole video! yes please

[@littlebiceps]

@@ibaavaya1633 omg, do you remember the name of it and where you read it? because i would love ti read it

[@ibaavaya1633]

@@littlebiceps it was a pretty short destiel fic, which was kinda disappointing. I'll have to search for it cause it's been a while since I last read it and I don't remember the name now

[@LocalGongoozler]

Yes, I stan~

[@alucard73]

Grey: I don't make love Also Grey: I fok hawrd

[@Isthatdiana]

Fok😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nerdywolverine8640]

The "hard" afterward gets me fhdbf

[@Riaaonline]

THIS IS TAKING ME OUTTTT

[@animalunaris]

Christian: ‘Laters baby’ Kat: ‘DISGUSTING’ Me: *actually deceased*

[@jaheriawilson19]

the first time i heard this line was in the book and i absolutely cringed

[@strwvsksth]

I searched for a comment about it because I don't know what it means and why it's disgusting, can someone explain it to me?

[@jaheriawilson19]

@@strwvsksth It's just really cringe-worthy. First of all, the slang doesn't fit Christian. It's foreign and way too casual, whereas Christian is generally uptight. Also, i feel like "laterz baby" is cringe regardless of who says it, but that's just my personal opinion.

[@strwvsksth]

@@jaheriawilson19 okay but what does it mean tho?

[@jaheriawilson19]

@@strwvsksth oo ok so "laterz baby" is the same as "see you/talk to you later, baby"

[@TheGamingFilly]

Bruh I'm asexual but have never been more starkly certain of my non-attraction (repulsion) to a man in my life. It's hilarious to me that this dude is supposed to be sexy

[@clearlynotaneldritchhorror8798]

@MK912 😂

[@BooksToAshes]

Even as a straight female, I don't find this man to be attractive. The moment I saw the first scene of him I was like....no lol

[@canonicallykayfabe]

Same here honest to god I watched the whole thing one time and I could not imagine how anyone could find him remotely interesting

[@imsadlol4528]

he usually has a beard and an Irish accent and let me tell you it’s much better lmaoo

[@Nadical]

Hun don't worry most people don't find him attractive like he looks like someone slapped a toupee on a cauliflower

[@KT12346]

“Laters Baby” “That is disgusting. Don’t ever say that to a woman”. 😂😂😂

[@zaniyahgordon2040]

Yeah don't :) Maybe bae or babe or lil mamma

[@dysmissme7343]

💜

[@delrosario7453]

Its also grammatically incorrect aka trying too hard 😂

[@alexandriar.triplett4199]

Yes! omg that is how children talk to each other and even then mostly in text and not out loud! unless it has been clearly established that she uses this type of language herself do not talk to a grown ass woman like that she will want to vomit on you! Later Babe. Is borderline ok but only if she really is your babe and you have plans to actually see her later.

[@lindsaycall6826]

Sooo dumb, it bugged me. I literally laughed out loud in the theatre.

[@nuisance1114]

So basically grey uses bdsm to cope with trauma, that's not romantic at all, that's concerning and kinda sad

[@kinagrill]

That's like a tamer version of murdering women that looks like your mom cuz of abuse.

[@kionamonroe3001]

@@kinagrill killing stalking reference?

[@kinagrill]

@@kionamonroe3001 Noooope. What's that?

[@goldenbunnies4143]

@@kinagrill ghdj r u being sarcastic or….? Like, give us a crumb of tone indicator here bestie /lh

[@kinagrill]

@@goldenbunnies4143 It's pretty clear tho. It IS a tamer version of 'kill women looking like mommy cuz mommy abused you as a kid' levels of crazy.

[@ibefullofme]

this man received the message "it was nice knowing you" and he said "y'know what? I will let myself into her house." This is what women want?????

[@francescablee3366]

Him being rich allows him to get away with a lot😂

[@BlahBlah-cm1os]

NO

[@missserenity1090]

Howard Marner No

[@yeahyeah8890]

@@francescablee3366 ew no

[@aquabitxh9770]

The fact that you ask!! HELL NO MAN😭

[@misa7449]

Ana not knowing what she wants and said “do your worst” sounded like the dumbest thing someone could do. Coming from someone who isn’t into bdsm but also is open to getting into it. Like you said there needs to be a build up to the “worst”

[@judeannethecandorchannel2153]

She was trying to figure out what's going on and the full range of Christian's desires...

[@lejulietterayne2436]

@@judeannethecandorchannel2153 that's still a no no. You dont make the threat if you cant handle it.

[@wesleyhart1950]

@@judeannethecandorchannel2153 that was Christian’s opening as an experienced dom to remind her of her safety protocols. That was an incredibly unsafe and naive thing for her to say, which is understandable, because she’s new to this. The way to understand your dominant’s desires is through communication, not through going as hard as possible until you have to fold and say “uncle.” Sitting through and discussing scenes, fantasies, asking each other questions and not being judgemental, that’s how to get that data. And it was up to Christian do explain that to her.

[@jasminenorthington9847]

I love that you keep calling him dommy mcdomerston lmao.

[@bamb00zled71]

Of Domserston Street.

[@sophiadibella7042]

I GOT BDSM MIXED UP WITH ASMR AND I WAS CONFUSED AND CLICKED ON THIS not what I expected (obviously, bc I'm stupid), but still quite intriguing

[@bubbybets9336]

LMAOOOO

[@flowersforyouu]

LMAOOO WHATTTT

[@Elizabeth-Cassie]

You win for the best comment 😂😂😂😂

[@tayberjk2559]

I just laughed so hard 😂 best comment

[@bellssonline]

BUT BESTIE

[@sapphosscullerymaid4856]

If this movie was about Dakota Johnson pegging men it would have been a 10/10

[@Klee36911]

I SCREAMED 😭

[@viceb7]

😂

[@03zekiel09]

XD

[@sierrak6388]

I think she would 100% star in that movie and love it.

[@amandarama3314]

id watch that. and shed most definitely do after care and respect boundaries and safewords

[@neoyan2555]

I feel like a ton of guys watched this movie and thought "Oh great, that's how I get cute girls!" and now we have a ton of 'alpha males' more than we already had from other movies/media T.T

[@KatBlaque]

True unfortunately. But they didn't watch, they know women watches and fantasized

[@viceb7]

Seriously, it irritates the hell out of me

[@nej6246]

Who would watch this movie in the first place and then after all this shit show think that's how you get a girl/boy???

[@neoyan2555]

@@nej6246 I think it's because so many girls and especially midde aged women claimed to like that movie, so yee that's my theory. Besides, these 'alpha males' had get their... sfuff from somewhere, they couldn't have popped up out of nowhere

[@__-nw8xu]

SO TRUE. I've had the unfortunate experience of meeting men who claim they're doms, but no, they're just abusive cunts.

[@Izavel9210]

I’m crying her first character trait is mousy brunette

[@MelissaMayhem99]

Literally every guy Ana meets can't control themselves around her and act like she's this one in a million specimen that MUST be had. When in reality there's not one interesting thing about her.

[@BrieCheese]

Same is true for Miss Bella Swan.

[@_melodyx]

Every cliché, annoying, weak main character ever

[@multifandomperson8703]

@@BrieCheese well it is a Twilight fanfiction soooo...

[@BrieCheese]

@@multifandomperson8703 yeah that's why I brought it up.

[@tessablol309]

Like Bella From Twilight

[@victoriaandrews4547]

U said that Christian looks like a little boy in a suit and now I can’t get the image out of my head

[@Undeadharpie]

I thought of Kennie JD’s line “he has a short dude voice”

[@theuncannydag]

Boss Baby

[@ptboy18]

Yes! He looks like a Gerber baby or some generic smiling baby logo! The big doe eyes and the pouty lips look very baby-esque. Something about the proportions of his features and hair lend to " child"

[@ll6256]

Me too!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@baileycheesepuff7787]

Vincent is that you?

[@goobypoo7815]

If you think movie Christian was bad, book Christian was WORSE.

[@tracy_cakkes]

Really? I disagree except for the ones in his point of view I liked hers tho

[@Wet-Milk]

@@tracy_cakkes book christian was so much more verbally and emotionally abusive.

[@lulubellpop13]

grey christan is terrifying

[@seranathenecromancer3470]

@Domi B Christian Grey is EL James’ self insert

[@jinny8431]

@Touch me harder was a popular fanfic.. a fanfic of twilight.

[@zialightning]

having you narrate the movie is so much better than actually watching it

[@heatherpony]

Agreed! I would love to see the other books/movies done because I don't want to read/watch them lol

[@imalionimaqueen7234]

I haven't seen it and don't plan to, so I just watched this because I didn't know what it was about😂

[@carolbuzelim]

Kat at the beggining: 'i'm going open minded' Also kat: 'i'm done with this movie' Hahahahahaahahah thats the feeling

[@krishanubanerjee6955]

Well, everyone has their limits! :)

[@victoriakinny9210]

The only realistic thing about this movie is when Anna gets drunk at the grad party and drunk dials a guy she's trying to forget. The two times I've gotten blackout drunk was when i got my bachelor's and when i passed the bar. I ended up drunk dialing my ex the second time who came and got me, took me home and came by the next morning (even though i apparently begged him to stay) to help with my hangover. We're married now.

[@insertusernamehere3173]

That's wholesome

[@riz7855]

Hey that’s pretty nice

[@intensestare5027]

Rozés lmao pfp twinss

[@riz7855]

SugarBatz Well hello there Lmao

[@estellesmith4118]

That’s actually kind of cute.

[@songbird6414]

“If you were mine you wouldn’t be able to sit down for a week” *IMMA JUST LEAVE*

[@viceb7]

😂 Same

[@barachel6469]

AND he fucking eats her toast. That was the point where i wouldve left lmaooo

[@kalokairi7569]

Lmao that's when you r u n

[@misterminutes4504]

That's a cliché line I've seen in hundreds of fanfics 😩

[@barbararab6390]

@@barachel6469 i would throw the toast away, thanks bruh you ruined breakfast

[@NathanielTavington]

The problem I think isn't the "bdsm" part, it's the fact that he ignores her free agency outside the bedroom. He violates her in several emotionally abusive ways (invading her home, stealing her car and selling it, tracking her movement when she's not consenting for him to do so), and that's the part that reflects badly on the BDSM community. Because she did NOT give her consent for him to run her life like that, and I know you didn't read the book, but she is very clearly upset about these things when he does them. But because she's "so in love" that she just lets him walk all over her. Which is not what BDSM should be. It's abuse.

[@No-zp5mv]

And in the books he keeps having sex with her even after she says the safe word, which is r*pe

[@noelsmaison685]

Yes I hate his character. He’s the perfect example of the guy that you DO NOT want to date. STAY AWAY FROM SUCH MEN

[@mariekedeelen-dokter8547]

@@No-zp5mv Can't find that anywhere in the books??? She never used the saveword? Thats what's upset him after he punishes her in the end of book/film 1, when she breakes up with him. In book 2 they have a relationship and relationships don't have contracts, punishments or savewords. Though book 2 does contain a scène where she finds the sex too intense and she askes for a moment. He waits for her. It was her roommate who lets him him into the house. And he didn't steal her car. He took the old one away after he gave her a new one. She was fully aware of what he did with her car. They made an appointment so his butler could drive it away.

[@koushikibhattacharya7305]

@@No-zp5mv Christian sucks and the entire franchise sucks. But this is a wrong information. Ana never safe worded. She safe worded in the third book and he stopped immediately. The entire story is disgusting and horrible but your information is fake

[@xRaiofSunshine]

It’s so, so much worse :’)

[@clownfromclowntown]

I’m super asexual but I watched this whole thing because I was genuinely entertained by your content; that’s gotta say something!

[@agendergod6534]

Yes- same.

[@pippip2700]

Same as well

[@Alex-ed9wm]

Yep same

[@natalia-vs9lg]

same

[@theab3957]

Hey same

[@darkred1438]

the scene where he sells her car really annoys me. my mom has a car that was my grandpas before he passed away. she’s had it for like 7 years. what if that was her situation? and he sold something rly sentimental? just kinda frustrates me bc if we took out the bdsm aspect, everyone would be mad. but bc he’s a dom, no one saw it as a problem. to put the situation into perspective without the bdsm: christian sells her property, he doesn’t even ask her before. ana is obv upset and bc of this, he spanks her. there’s so many scenes i could do this to.

[@criticaldrive7688]

My condolences for your grandfather.

[@darkred1438]

CriticalDrive7 thank you, it’s been a while and i’ve somewhat healed :)

[@criticaldrive7688]

I hope that things will be well for you soon.

[@vqleh]

When u see another ARMY here: 👁👄👁 (btw I wish all the best to you and your family)

[@darkred1438]

Multi Clown ❤️

[@adamwise1111]

Anna: Give me your worst Christian: * gives her his worst * Anna: * surprise pikachu face *

[@nanikakumori7221]

I'm dead from thos comment😂

[@dakotaadams3418]

In the book they had sex 2 times , after the mother scene he spanked her and then raped her . Thats when she avoids him ..

[@justagirl1245]

@@dakotaadams3418 Damn...

[@aquabitxh9770]

Okay but cmon now. Shouldn't he understand that she didn't really want that? (Not saying that he is on the wrong cuz she technically agreed to be spanked) it was crystal clear that she wanted to see his true colours so that she makes sure he is the asshole she thinks he is

[@niloofarsabet2165]

even her normal face is suprised lol 😂

[@dn6457]

a list of things the director doesn’t have a perception of: ✨reality✨ and ✨abuse✨

[@theblinndspiral]

✨aftercare✨

[@oliviawilliams6204]

It’s an issue with the source material, the director could possibly have changed that, but it would have changed the whole story I guess. It’s the author who’s to blame more than anything

[@emuman42]

I recommend checking out Folding Idea's video on the film(s). Really goes into the behind the scenes interactions between the author and director. Also Dan's channel is dope.

[@chioma916]

director wanted to change things, author want didn't to change them.

[@wolfenicshadowbain1054]

From what you have said, he should have given her aftercare and a safe word. And not only that, but like you said, he shouldn't have done his worst on a newbie, just because she told him to. He should have given her time to adapt to it and time to become accustom to the BDSM world. Instead of hitting the poor girl head on with the BDSM train at full speed right out of the gate.

[@bubbybets9336]

red and yellow were the safe words

[@sometimessnarky1642]

If you read the book there was safe words and aftercare.

[@isabelleboulay2651]

that's an abuser that gets off on getting a green light to damage someone physically and mentally while enjoying that she didn't have a clue what was about to happen.

[@C2-J0]

I'm not into BDSM. And I've never seen this movie. Why am I here. And how. And why am I still watching. And why am I going to watch another one of your videos after this. How did all this happen.

[@ALM-je2gv]

I don't know but same

[@booperdooper9762]

I am except I dislike the movie but I haven't dabbled in this subject in quite a while. So happy this was recommended to me though! This person is just amazing.

[@scrubbywubby2694]

im asexual. i don’t know how i got here but it’s pretty interesting to watch!

[@_lol.imagine_]

Just embrace it

[@sakurafan771]

@@scrubbywubby2694 ditto on that.

[@littlemisswolfee1095]

This movie bothers me because it pretends to be BDSM when really its just a billionare with boundary issues who doesnt know the meaning of the word NO and I dont like that some girl out there probably thinks what is happening in this movie/book is hot and something they want because its extremely unhealthy and toxic and is NOT romantic or a healthy BDSM relationship, period.

[@sonnidesoto]

When I was watching it, it kinda seemed like Christian Grey wasn't nearly as experienced as he thought he was. Like, he had all the toys and knew some of the basics but, yeah, like you said, he clearly has never been part of a community and still holds A LOT of shame about his kinks. Throughout the whole film, I just kept thinking that the guy desperately needed a financial planner (because dude kept throwing money around like it was nothing; classic sign of new money who is going to lose it fast), a sex-positive therapist (because, boy, does he have childhood issues he needs to fix and lessons to learn about boundaries), and a community (both kinky and not, because man has not been properly socialized for either kinky or vanilla spaces and desperately needs friends to slap when he starts acting creepy as hell). Boy has issues. Part of me thinks that the main reason he's so attracted to kink and Domination, in particular, is because he has such a need to control his surroundings and kink gives him an outlet to do that. Like, we know that he was physically abused as a child (they show the cigarette burns on his skin) and is now very particular about being touched (Ana is constantly upset that she never gets to touch him the way she wants to). I think he uses kink and Domination as a way of saying, "I'm the one who touches you, not the other way around. I get to say who does the touching, when it happens, and how it happens." (Again, he needs a therapist more than he needs a submissive, so he can process that and use kink as a healthy outlet for that feeling). I also think that Ana isn't nearly as innocent as people think she is. I think she successfully manipulates Christian all the time in the movie. From her cheeky "Nice knowing you" message, which she KNOWS is going to provoke a dramatic reaction from him because he is such a drama queen, to her not answering his calls during a fight, which causes him to fly across state lines after her, to her asking him to do his worst just so she can treat him like a monster afterward. Each time, she does something to get the exact reaction from him that she wants. She pulls away, not because she wants him to leave her alone, but because she wants him to chase her. Which is why she is never surprised when he does. Why she's happy when he does. And she asks him, in anger, to hurt her, because she knows he worries that his kinks make him monstrous and she wants to hurt him with that. Think about how she frames that scene. She needs to know "how bad it can get." She doesn't understand why he wants to hurt her. She doesn't understand why he can't be normal. She's taking his kinks, that he's done a fairly good job of presenting as pleasurable and consensual throughout the whole film, and reducing them to the worst stereotypes and hurling them at him to hurt him, not because he physically hurt her, but because he wouldn't be the vanilla boyfriend she wanted him to be. When I watched it, it just seemed like a cautionary tale about two miserable people who really needed therapy, not a relationship.

[@SpecialBlanket]

nailed it.

[@Sandreline]

Spot on. It puts a whole new spin on the movie when you notice her manipulation.

[@Sasu123456789x1]

All of this!

[@ToruKun1]

Your interpretation of the film shows just how much the screenwriter and director made the story tolerable. In the book, Anastasia is a complete moron who's perpetually flustered and confused by everything Christian does and everything going on in the world around her. The book is 90% Ana's inner monologue asking dumb questions like "I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT ANY OF THIS MEANS?? WHAT'S VANILLA SEX?? I THOUGHT WE HAD CHOCOLATE FUDGE BROWNIE SEX WITH WHIPPED CREAM AND NUTS ON TOP??"

[@christmansonpunk2927]

Both these people are trash, they deserve each other

[@beautyintheskies]

“who looks like a little boy in a tuxedo” THANK YOU so glad someone said it!

[@DatSoftGuy]

Okay. After she "slipped into something more comfortable", that EYE MAKEUP. Now that's enhancement. Her eyes were already piercing but WOW!

[@kyrahiggins7625]

For real!

[@sabosage]

Yes! I would LOVE a makeup tutorial.

[@enderphoenix11]

Her whole outfit is just 👌👌 Yaaassss Queen! Is her eyeshadow like a gold-blue gradient, because if so, that is so cool.

[@lila2793]

I’m not mad that this is a twilight fan fic, but that the author really thought the Edward was dominant. After he and Bella bad sex for the first time and he literally cried worrying about her. She had to talk him into it and when they had sex for the second and third time he is still upset with himself. Y’all really want to tell me he’s into BDSM? On an other note, this was a great review.

[@its_himm_]

Yes and he would lose his mind over ever even whipping her

[@itbelikethat4940]

Yeah like didn’t he bruise her a little and REFUSE to touch her again?

[@ktgirl-oh9px]

@@itbelikethat4940 he bruised her a lot actually but yes he basically became very upset and stopped having sex with her. Despite his many faults, hurting Bella physically was a big NO for Edward.

[@littlearies3862]

Exactly!!! Hell, if he ever could dom, he would be the softest dom ever.

[@lovelyartist6795]

And honestly, if anyone is dominant it’s probably Bella.

[@anayancykyanna9016]

I think it goes beyond just Christian and Ana not being compatible although that’s certainly a big part of why they don’t work. Christian was controlling and made decisions for Ana beyond her consent, like selling her car without asking. He was able to find her and tried to isolate her from her mother. Is this connected to Christian’s own personal backstory, sure, but it doesn’t give him permission to try to limit her socially or just control her outside of what they agreed. As far as why Christian would be interested in domination, I think he’s not. I think he’s interested in being a controlling partner and that that need for control extends to the bedroom. He’s not into BDSM, he’s into abuse. Which is why it gives off the impression that those things are connected in the film. BDSM is his cover for not being an attentive partner and he was really a good dom he wouldn’t lack the aftercare, he wouldn’t pursue and control an inexperienced person, he wouldn’t “do the worst” to someone on the fence. He’s just an all around bad partner.

[@Emily-ce7hd]

If I recall, in the books (and maybe later the movies) he explains that he's into abuse because he wants to punish women who look like his biological mother. It isn't a power or domination fantasy, it's a revenge fantasy.

[@ElfInTheFlowers]

Yuuuuuuup! BDSM made a poor cover for very vanilla sex and emotional abuse. And it goes on in the other films /books. I get the feeling that E.L. James’ was going for non-consent erotica with her fan fic but steered it towards romance for sales reasons and it just ends up a weird abusive mess with the main attraction being absolute .01% wealth.

[@Catglittercrafts]

Most Doms on fetlife be little Christian Greys

[@Emily-ce7hd]

@@ElfInTheFlowers I wish she was aware of it, but when people said how her scenarios are rape/abuse, she got mad and claimed they hadn't read the source material. Even when an actual rape survivor on Twitter mentioned it, she just told her to fuck off.

[@atinyevil1383]

Yes! This is what I’m saying! If they had taken the time to make the story about him crawling out of trauma and stopping the cycle of abuse, it would have been a much better series.

[@minuit6305]

Fun fact: Most of these CEOs like to be subs to doms. They literally find release from it from all the bossing around they have to do.

[@Thanks4AllTheFunTimes1221]

And that’s on periodt ^

[@beautyintheskies]

I think he’s a switch

[@ouwebrood497]

Yes, what I know of BDSM these rich CEO types are the most sub there can be. Want to crap domina's on them, locked in cages under the bed, vacuumed into some rubber bag, watching others f*cking a hot chick while being shouted at, all that stuff.

[@overgrownkudzu]

that's a popular urban legend but not true actually.

[@v.e.jansen7720]

But why does Christian himself ask her if she has a boyfriend and if she is a romantic and then storm off because he ''doesnt do the girlfriend thing''?

[@arkyark5401]

Cause he's an ass

[@broombed7888]

Because as a toxic man, he loves to have options but her?? Hell no, she better be loyal

[@marshmallowkitten4685]

I think it's more that he was making sure that she was available. Anybody with an ounce of respect wouldn't try to fuck someone with a significant other or is asexual.

[@SpunkyQueeny]

Well if he would stop approaching her if she has a boyfriend, that would be a good thing

[@muyo77]

Christian has anger & control issues and uses BDSM as a way to take it out on the women he "dates." The soundtrack was so good it felt like it was for a completely different movie.

[@glass.hammer]

It’s appropriate that this was born from twilight fanfiction because that film’s soundtrack and score were also leagues better than the actual plot.

[@anneliseorcsik710]

the soundtracks are elite

[@daniboy4153]

The only good things about Twilight and 50 Shades are the soundtracks

[@AnnekeOosterink]

Yeah, in later books it's made clear that he picks his subs because they look like his mum. He finds women who look like his mum and abuses them (he does not really do BDSM, because Ana's consent is not a thing in 80% of the things he does outside of the playroom).

[@neutralman9124]

@@glass.hammer New Moon's score should have been nominated for an Oscar and it's the worst film in a terrible franchise.

[@Containing-Multitudes]

literally choked on laughter when you did the "I don't make love line...". the delivery was priceless.

[@serenaj1821]

Jay Rogers I had to skip over that part, my face can’t take any more cringe

[@SayHelloHelli]

Seriously I’m dying

[@mayalikesfood]

That was the best XD

[@maurinet2291]

@Dale Twokey That's what I thought too, it felt like it was written by a middle aged woman with 2 kids who had only had unsatisfying vanilla sex with her high school sweetheart she was still married to. The "every man in her life is in love with her and she doesn't know" thing really screams women's mid life crisis to me.

[@LennyPepper]

I yelled YESSS KAT! 😹

[@sofiaboo6739]

in my opinion, he was pretty abusive towards ana, NOT because of the BDSM thing itself but because he STALKED her and chased her even after she told him that she didn't really want that, and that's pretty much the only reason why she agreed to that in the first place so of course, she wouldn't like that because she didn't really want that. she was mesmerized by him and because of that and the pressure he put onto her she agreed to do things she clearly wasn't ready to do

[@ouwebrood497]

It's so toxic, this trope of the man that 'does not give up'. Every time you see a woman says 'no' in a movie the man goes even harder after her and eventually 'steals her heart'. Men see this as a role model, at least I saw it that way and was surprised it didn't work. Fortunately I wasn't too creepy.

[@djarinriduur]

When someone’s recap of a movie is better than the movie itself

[@nazsanchez5518]

Killian Jones I- killian sir? Lmfao firs I realize Christian is graham from once, the. I find someone called Emma swan in the comments and now I find killian smh, I’m Regina mills nice to meet u

[@jaxxynna786]

rachelchanandlerbong h-have I met a fellow evil regal 😳😭and oncer?!

[@nazsanchez5518]

Jaxxynn A YES U DID AHHHHHH

[@jaxxynna786]

rachelchanandlerbong yayyyy ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@am-zj4mq]

Jaxxynn A YES I AM ONCER

[@coffeeandscarves]

I fail to see how anything that Christian Gray does is romantic. Maybe I'm just too gay? Or maybe I'm just too into self-respect and consent?

[@BunnyKira85]

As a het woman, I'll go for the second option.

[@ajpdubz7049]

TOO INTO SELF RESPECT & CONSENT,, you SENT me AAHAHAH THANK YOU A+ 10/10 COMMENT

[@ines1084]

2nd option is great for demisexual me.

[@Luminescent135]

Its the second one

[@xxwolfrocksxx1829]

THAT LAST PART KILLED ME LMFAO I LOVE YOU

[@anothergirlwithabowtattoo]

Nobody: Christian Greys Energy: ArE yOu LoSt BaByGoRl

[@MorroTheGhostNinja]

Oh god...

[@antipower]

the tiger king of all pickup lines.

[@happyjellycatsquid]

This joke is both hilarious and painful 😨

[@hafsamalik8869]

Oh god that line gives me nightmares. That whole scene gives me nightmares. And I didn't even watch the whole film!

[@turtleyawesome7233]

The moment where all you can hear is Gru's voice instead because of the memes pinterest decided you must see.

[@felitastic]

His playroom looks more like a store with all those things nicely on display.

[@animalunaris]

With how rich he is I would expect a Batman’s Cave level of dungeon equipment, like robot spanking machines and some kind of BDSMmobile, like a St Andrews cross with wheels and an F1 engine.

[@bloopbop181]

@@animalunaris BDSMobile is just a beautiful word

[@MIKI-x4p6v]

I’m so glad that someone else is calling chris what he is A LITTLE BOY ON A TUXEDO

[@jennaye8142]

me: does not care about fifty shades of gray me: does not care about bdsm also me: *clicks anyway and spends the next 54 minutes glued to my screen and intrigued by what this woman is saying* You speak so eloquently! I also didn't know anything about this so it was very informative. Nice video :)

[@KatBlaque]

Haha thank you!

[@jazzicalgate]

I didn't even know it was that long! I just enjoyed it so much

[@nosoyheineken]

Sammeeeeeeee

[@ebg6273]

Same!

[@xilanda]

I did the exact same thing after weeks of recommendation of this particular video. You want me to watch it so bad KZbin ?....okay *sit with my bowl of soup*

[@libbyluv2619]

Kat: Some rope, some tape, a tarp, bleach, Ya know Naughty McNaughtyson things Me: WTF DO YOU NEED BLEACH FOR??!

[@tralaritralarajiju2652]

I try to guess that is forma After everything. To sanitaze the place. I guess...

[@janeryan2709]

To inject. Cures COVID, don't you know?? :P

[@VoidStaresback]

To wash your eyeballs when you're done

[@psycho-delicpyromaniac9595]

To get rid of the fingerprints....

[@joannadzenowski6214]

Go buy stuff in an actual kink store,he has the money.!!

[@MyDuckSaysFucc]

This isn’t a sexual kink. It’s psychological abuse.

[@hobimin3091]

I agree

[@Leoji0325]

Facts

[@carna-9501]

And physical

[@princess1peach]

But it is

[@princess1peach]

@ ok

[@AK-td7ji]

Am i: -into bdsm? no -into fifty shades? no -into film reviews at all? no did i watch this whole video and love every second? HELL YES girl you are so damn entertaining you don't even know :))

[@torilynn2002]

I remember when I first watched the movie with my friend, he was cracking up and yelling at me to shush cause I kept comparing the movie to twilight and said the storyline is the exact same but with bdsm.

[@KatBlaque]

Apparently fifty shades of Gray is actually twilight fanfiction lol

[@cherryjello777]

@@KatBlaque 🤯🌛

[@dtanatanoshugotenshi9347]

that board in the background saying "we will survive this" makes me cackle because I can see the pain in your eyes

[@SQUEAKERLOO]

Why is this more entertaining than actually watching the movie hjfhsjrkswbv

[@justme6804]

Cause this gurls voice makes it a little less traumatizing to watch that movie

[@lillianrenner5117]

Fr

[@sf2934]

Because at least she’s entertaining

[@solammcanzy1545]

I didn’t watch the movie but i watched 5 reviews of it at this point

[@lannie_turn7738]

I was thinking this same thing. The movies sucked, but her explanation makes it so much better.

[@anxious.strawberry]

The fact that my ex unironically said “laters baby” and tried so hard to be a Christian Grey type 🤢🤮 anywaysss on to better things am I right lol

[@bubbybets9336]

omg nooo, thats so creepy

[@mikaelamanzue4675]

Ew no absolutely not.

[@andreac8437]

I had an ex that would always say this. I realized a few years later he was emotionally abusive. 🤮🤮

[@sannh]

The NDA would set off a hundred alarms in my head. NDAs are used to avoid sexual assault charges.

[@ZelGirl113]

I can't tell you how many SVU episodes I've seen where the police find another victim and the victim won't tell them their story because they signed a NDA

[@ellie_sarabellum]

It's found out later that he's not a dom, he's a sadist. His escape is punishing women who look like his mother. That was the dark story he was scared to tell her, and understandable, it's disturbing.

[@bunsy9299]

that’s so disturbing holy fuck

[@idontknowreally2474]

That’s fucking disgusting. He needs major therapy.

[@stankylegg2413]

WHAT THE FUCK??

[@icebiirb9440]

disturbing, but a better plot

[@_b0p]

Its just fucking Sangwoo then ig

[@daneroberts1996]

I swear "Dommy McDommerson on Dommersons Lane" is the first line of a book by Dr Seuss

[@nelliiel]

69 likes lol

[@neith6450]

What's the book?