What Should I Do With My Life - How To Find Your Passion For Life

[@abdelraouftria4247]

What i do with my life is sitting in my room thinking for hours trying to figure out what the hell to do with my life. It has been driving me insane! I can't seem to identify my goals. I also have a very poor social life and not many friends. And im soo jealous of other people's lifes. I already know that sitting here won't help me and I just want to change things SO bad but I don't even know what the hell I want. I just DON'T KNOW. I am getting more and more depressed.

[@GiveMeLiberty3]

I completely understand. I do the exact same thing. All my life I've wanted to be a US Marine. But I feel as if there are so many things holding me back and so many reasons why I shouldn't go, but every time I think about what to do with my life it always comes back to the marines.

[@GiveMeLiberty3]

Honestly I don't know what you should do. I can't help but feel like this is a problem that many people in our generation have. Sometimes I feel like the entire economy should just collapse so that in the struggle we can discover a purpose to our lives. I know that a lot of people are going to die when it happens, but if it's going to happen then let's get it over with.

[@TiaMitra]

+Abdelraouf Tria i feel you. i feel so completely lost , so worthless. so many times i considered just ending my life. but i snapped out of it. i know what i want to do, im searching for the courage and discipline to do it.

[@abdelraouftria4247]

+Tia Mitra Yeah agree with you, sometimes i feel i just want to die

[@TiaMitra]

yeah, all the time. i thought about doing it so many times. honestly sometimes im glad i stuck around, sometimes i wish i wasnt around. but then i think about my mum and how miserable her life would become if i killed myself. she would never be happy again, she would blame herself and people would blame her and call her a bad mum and stuff maybe. thinking about her makes me want to be strong and stick around. do you have anyone like that?

[@ActualizedOrg]

If you liked this video, I recommend you watch these related videos too: 1) How To Succeed In Life - The 6 Key Elements of Phenomenal Success 2) How To Find Your Passion - Why You Have No Passion & How To Fix It 3) How To Get Motivated - Creating a Consistent Drive for High Performance 4) What Is The Purpose Of Life? - Use Purpose to Achieve Massive Success

[@AugustAdvice]

Your advice is to "Think more". Honestly, after 4 years since graduating high school I've been thinking every single day and I still have no idea what step to take. So the whole "think more, think deeper" just sounds like a slap in the face because that's literally what I've been doing for 4 years, I've been thinking so much and so deep my head hurts! I'm waiting for that "Ah-ha!" moment after all these years of contemplating and it's just not happening. I meditate, I do yoga, I eat healthy, I go for walks and runs, I go out in nature, I sit for a whole hour just thinking about which career I want or what to go to school for, and nothing! Not only that but I literally can't afford to pay for a year of school let alone 2 for my first degree. I already spent over 2grand on a tech school that I dropped out of during my rotations because the instructors said I sucked at it and I got so nervous. What's the point of going to college when you don't know what you're studying for? What's the point of getting a minimum wage job when it won't cover your living expenses? I'm stuck and that's an understatement. My friends have this clear goal in their mind, like wanting to become a cop, and they just go for it, but I don't have that clear goal in my mind! I don't know what my goal is! And without knowing my main goal I can't move in the direction of it! Its like telling a blind person to feel their way across town to get to the other side when they don't even know where they're going!

[@financemaster1400]

Sell crack.

[@AugustAdvice]

***** Thanks Michael, yup I'm definitely a creative. Always wanted to start my own business because I can't stand routine especially the whole 9-5 routine. I see no point in working for others, I only see a point in working for myself but everyone I know including friends and family says my goals aren't realistic and it's better if I just get a "normal" job like everyone else, so that's what I've been trying to do but I don't have an interest in traditional jobs or college classes other than maybe psychology. I mean I was seriously considering a administration job in a hospital, how depressing is that, being a paper pusher? But that's a "normal" job! Anyway, thanks for your advice.

[@travisfiander3528]

***** Don't think, do. "Willing is not enough, one must do."

[@revirevers]

Maybe I will help you. I am almost 40yrs old and I was thinking all my life what I want to do or which way to go- I have been doing so many different things, yet I was still in the same point- not moving forward. Let me tell you - it isn't about the career - it doesn't matter what you do - all them things go after;) just try to imagine your perfect life in future - the way you want it! If you have an image of your perfect life already, sit down and start your research- asking yourself: ok I know how my life going to look like so what do I need to do or what tools I need to achieve that? and that is the point when you start to put the puzzle together- and it is getting easier with the time passing by. I only discover that myself. It is not easy I hit the wall almost once a week, but then I am asking myself again why I started doing this and than it is all clear. Piece of advice -do your personality test, there is a few online- it will help you to find your weak points - it is so much easier to know who your enemy is - fight the motherf@#$% and don't give up. I gave up too many good things in the past and I wont do that ever again! So I wish you all the best! good luck!

[@Bcooke17]

Travis Fiander it's a waste of time doing with no point!

[@ActualizedOrg]

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[@shawniecewatson]

+Actualized.org This is really helpful. Thanks!

[@zentagon4278]

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[@vamosama]

I do appreciate the quality and wisdom in your work. Your advice is useful but I keep finding mysell stuck in cycles. For a month or two I can make it, work on improvements,change habits, think different and then suddenly I get very anxious, I feel empty and not only I stop the change but I go back to my worst self-destructive habits from the past, like no rules, overeating, too much tv, negative thoughts. These cycles are very hard to bear,you end up feeling a loser in spite of all the efforts made before the crisis.

[@ActualizedOrg]

That's normal. Just keep going. You might want to go a bit slower at it.

[@damir8145]

Actualized.org

[@lucaspaterson2696]

i feel like I'm exactly the same

[@LitsaPizza]

same here

[@pekkygaming8111]

I highly recommend Leo's "Life Purpose Course" for you all in this comment section and for everyone who is kinda lost on that thought loop: "What's my Life Purpose" and "What should I do with my Life"? This course will boost you with various ideas, thoughts, you will sit in your room with pen and paper and think through - what's your values, strenghts etc. It's okay to feel kinda lost in a society like this where we are all disconnected from ourselves and we haven't really sit and think about us really and what we want to do in life. Our whole life we've been on an auto-pilot (our whole story in our minds) talking and society kinda orienting what should with do with our lives, what is good and what is bad, what is right and what is wrong to work. So please don't lose hope and keep working on improving yourselves. Try to add new habits in your life, try exploring new stuff etc. Maybe instead of using social media for 30 minutes a day, replace it with 30 minutes meditation (just an example, you should customize it for yourself of course.) Lots of love, You - in another form.❤

[@TiaMitra]

reading all the comments posted here, i feel less alone. i dont mean to glorify anybody's struggle nor invalidate anyone. but just knowing that so many people out there experience the misery of being stuck in a limbo gives me the hope that this is a phase in our lives that will open up into something great. not that we'll all become billionaires and stuff. maybe it'l drive us into following what we've always wanted to do, whether its being a youtuber, a stay at hope parent, a computer programmer. always remember. dont bother about the size of your audience. just keep up the good work.

[@adramalech5109]

Belle of Bengal or it might just be a state, a state of misery and pain with only one way out. I'm already done trying.

[@humanityandme]

Belle of Bengal where are you now? Are things better

[@210fella]

🖤

[@angeee122]

I am a 18year old nurse student but don't want to end up doing this job. I always somewere wanted to become a olympic athlete, but don't/didn't know were to start.

[@MaybeVicky]

You can do it! :) Try talking with people that are athletes in your country or region, or look for testimonies online, do exercise in the sport you like, dont lose practice, and set a disciplined schedule for it. Look for clubs, or for people that can support you financially. Look for sport contests , participate in them, even if you dont think you will win, you will gain experience and connections. Watch videos on youtube about your sport, learn from them and if you can, find a trainor. You can do a lot of things! The order, how to organize your time, and balance it with your nurse studies(if you still wish to pursue them) is up to you as well :) Figting! :)

[@froharazimi9091]

I'm a third year university student that has no idea at all what I am in university for. I'm completing the courses but I'm not happy or motivated and that makes me anxious and nervous. My depression and anxiety led me to this video. I agree that its my thinking that I'm not smart enough or capable enough to achieve the goals I crave and want for myself. Sometimes I feel like my laziness has a big part in me not knowing what I want as well. I have all these ideas yet my laziness and fear keep holding me back. Part of me wants to know what I want and be set for it, and part of me feels I'm not smart enough to achieve it and doesn't want to leave hibernation mode.

[@xeenw.9066]

I'm finishing my master now and have that too..that also led me to this video. How are you doing now?

[@michaelcdarby]

Same here

[@humanityandme]

Frohar Azimi relate. Where are you now? Better?

[@MYSTIANAAAAAAAAH]

Heard thatb

[@LewisFernandezFilm]

Leo. I think a lot of people know their passion, but they get anxiety about it and that makes them demonise it, think it's stupid, totally push it away and search for something that causes less anxiety but can't possibly be as fulfilling. Do you agree and if so what do you have to say on that? Thanks.

[@nahidahalabi7263]

SO true!

[@16OnRock]

yea I have that problem with my drawing or animated skills since I thought there is no opportunity to achieve it since it pays a price.

[@Yui_6472n]

Lewis Fernandez ya no. Not me

[@tobihashtag803]

Lewis Fernandez No, and don’t even talk about that problem, you know what to do, imagine how it is not knowing anything and constantly trying to find out, that’s what sucks

[@stevanoottokun]

Good point. Another point is they might decide to pursue their passion but have no idea how to turn it into money. There are 2 solutions for this: work a normal job and set aside enough time for this passion OR make your passion into a money-making business. The first one could be easier but requires time management, the second one is more difficult as it requires more imagination and marketing skills.

[@BrenMurphy1]

Hi Leo, Aimless - the word you mentioned at 0.36 - I made a thing with some friends that I would put the word aimlessness into each essay I wrote at college regardless of the subject or question. And I managed to do it for a semester - or eight essays in a row before it got tired. Trouble was - I was aimless and I was living for other people - doing a program for my migrant father who wanted a lawyer son - and I was bitterly unhappy. But I did nothing to change things. Just this year I have enrolled in a life coaching course following the heart centered approach and I now know I have found my passion. Thanks, Bren

[@AliJalay]

Is anyone else crying😭?

[@xneo-iv620]

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[@marcinpl1989]

Pussy

[@AliJalay]

dick

[@josh021588]

yes, me

[@Chibisaiko]

yup..

[@ferrari19862]

The part of the video where u say, write what u want, being material or any other thing that I want in my life, has help to take it day by day and actually start knowing what is it that I want for me, regardless of what people think. That simple exercise in a way. Have me the key . So thanks for taking the time for this video.

[@mmneander1316]

Dear Mr Leo, I've just found your videos and website, and am currently "binge watching" your videos on energy and motivation. You are giving me some valuable hints -- such as, in this video at 13:01, "Whatever it is [that you choose as your purpose], make sure it is BIG." And in your video on How To Find Your Passion, "Passion is about authenticity". I see (now) that a life purpose can not be fulfilling or motivating without these two ingredients. Many thanks for your videos and I wish you good luck in your future projects and endeavours.

[@anamz7841]

As I was just sitting here, having no idea about what to do, no perspective on life and certainly no motivation, I was trying to look for something that might spark something inside me. And I'm glad to say that this was it. Thank you so much because you have helped me a lot! When you were talking, I focused on every single thing you were saying and it felt like you were getting through to me! This was exactly what I needed. It inspired me to start with that vision and at least, start; somewhere, anywhere. :)

[@56warlord]

I am a medical graduate. 25 years old. I want to be a surgeon :'( pray for me that I become one. Its my dream :(

[@ActualizedOrg]

Haha, you don't need pray man, you just gotta want it and work for it.

[@56warlord]

i will... ;)

[@user-cv5rb5cj1y]

you can do it :)

[@hajertounsi5787]

Actualized.org in some cultures "pray for me" is a way of saying wish me luck

[@clipthatbalkan7620]

Frankenstein nice, i hope u will become one

[@jennyclassymogbo6304]

I am 30yrs today.I dont have a job,no husband, no life,I am a degree holder but I don't know how to put my life in place,something I feel God is not truth with yet.but something I feel depressed.

[@milind264]

Leo, absolutely an awakening video. Perfect to sail me through in the rest of my life.

[@johnnyb.3719]

Thank You Leo for your Time. Im 31 years old and have been very confuse for the past years.....You touch on a lot of topics that relate to me at the moment. I will keep you posted on how things go. Thanks again!

[@omgitspotskie]

Hi Leo! This is exactly what I am looking for. Thanks for sharing a very powerful message!

[@arni1337]

I don't wish to work for money , i'm having quite a few money problems because of that but i don't mind nor do i concider them problems, I've always wanted to make solo music that can really make people think about everything , and i'm never going to give up on that and i'm just going to increase my efforts daily , found your channel yesterday and really apricciate all the info you are putting out there! Thank you , many people need your help and many are too scared to find it , you should think what they could search for and make them get on track , lots of love , keep up the amazing work

[@eleftheriajb94]

15 most valuable minutes of my life. Thank you!

[@dunkeleon2891]

It's been 4 years since when I finished my highschool. I've tried to study in two different universities, changing the house and the city I lived in until this year I felt really bad physically because of the stress I had accumulated, so I decided to drop out and leave the university forever, that shit is not really my thing. Now I'm trying to think about alternative paths but I still feel kinda indifferent, I really care about this issue but it's like I already gave up with myself and I can't really think about my life concretely. I don't really know what I should do, living in this society seriously sucks.

[@Macsk8ing]

I agree, Im sick of this political bullshit

[@tommychappell6359]

+Gentleman I feel the same :/ the news, the social media, explicit images on the internet, etc. I can't stand it.

[@theGuilherme36]

And now, how are you?

[@michaelcdarby]

I've done the same thing. Schools didn't teach us shit so we don't really know what we want to do in life

[@humanityandme]

Dunkel Eon what's life like now since you write this?

[@lucast.cammarota3574]

Mine is a life where i m smileing and peaceful at least 80% of the time The unconditional haipness and peace= my dream

[@dripy9439]

I just want to help people.. teach ppl. I want to wake up every morning knowing I'm going to make an impact in someone's life. I want people to be like "wow she's talented and I need her knowledge and help!"

[@gummibears27]

When I watch things about finding my passion in life I feel horrible emotions and intense resistance. My whole life I've done the things I have no passion for. I still love many things, but doing what I hate day in and day out for most of my life has made me severely depressed and at times suicidal. I'm in my senior year of college pursuing a degree I have no interest in because I was told that it would help me get a semi related job. I don't know what to do I've been given horrible directions. I'm told I need to work or go to school but it's just the same old stuff I hate that makes me miserable because I just go to school because my parents are paying and if I'm in school they pay for me so at least I can survive and have food and shelter. But really I want to become enlightened. I meditate daily and watch spiritual masters, and in my free time I do the things I love. However, against the backdrop of the energy wasted on things I hate I can hardly even enjoy my passions. It's like the people around me and society itself are going in the wrong direction and forcing people to go with them. Many get resistance to the wrong direction, and without proper guidance to find their purpose in life, they become very depressed. Depression is caused by and sustained by society. I was born naturally happy and excited and despite being beaten down repeatedly by society, it took me many years to become miserable and have too low of energy and self esteem to hardly function. My primary goal as of now is connecting with and maintaining the naturally happy peaceful self I truly am. But with society going in the wrong direction and taking me with them it's like fighting an uphill battle.

[@cardiacade]

What Actualized was probably saying (but maybe in a slightly harsh way seeing as how crap you're feeling) is that you have to have the courage to say no. 'No' to doing the things that make you feel awful (though on occcasion we all have to do those things and keep our chin up) and being strong enough to take any flak from people who feel that they know what is best for you and they themselves feel let down. You know what is best for you, and even if the people who you feel give you pressure to do things (probably through their love of you and their desire to see you succeed) may be dismayed, you know what generally is best for you (but guidance and accepting criticisms can be invaluable). Fuck it, take control and you'll see that the dark abyss you're staring at is not as deep as you may think.

[@Macsk8ing]

When I was a teenager I was so passionate about skateboarding and then being a professional rockstar. All dreams dead by now.

[@gladprokiller7207]

What happened?

[@Macsk8ing]

GladProKiller Life, one can't simply live off of that :( I still dream that I'm on stage while my guitar gently weeps. I did play live once at a local show, best experience ever. For the first time in my life I felt full of joy and completed.

[@alitwfigalsuliman9279]

im 18 and i dont know what to do im fucking hate my life i never wanted to be what im today i feel lost i dont talk with anyone even my family ..

[@slappingpictures9968]

A lot of people are like you but it never lasts forever. Whatever you do just keep going. :)

[@Aphrodit16]

+Ali Mystogan you are 18 so this is a teenager age tolking n making you hating life n everybody so wait intil ur 20 n ull figuer all up ;)

[@AhmedAlkhazali1]

same here bro :(

[@trailnscaleRC]

Thanks Leo. No really, thank you! Life has been a struggle lately and i an committing to figuring out MY vision of what i want to create. Thanks for speaking so well n not sugar coating.

[@chaitanyabhardwaj6371]

Helpful, thanks. We must remember to follow up the mental work with consistent action and take time to look back how far we've come. Progress is inevitable - and 'experience is king' as Leo says

[@tubeyou4116]

I don't have interests, I'm trying to join the millitary and i lost 80 pounds and been studying. But because I've been proscribed adderall for ADD the millitary doctors might reject me, and i won't have a future if im rejected. The past 2 year's of hell will been meaningless. The millitary is my only door out. I don't have money there's no jobs around here that pay well enough for a single individual to move out and start a life. Im terrified, if im rejected, i get to see how dark hell really is. I wanna start a union. I wanna feel needed. I wanna cry. I wanna love.

[@WJstudios04]

tubeyou4116 and you will!

[@YayaBolender]

Thanks! I accomplished a huge thing in my life which lead me to be stuck a little more massively. I don't regret the risk I took because I still have something and I learned so much. But now I must imagine a happy continuation for that. I thought that I was spending my life chasing impossible dreams, but your video showed me that I was not. It seems I must just do more and find a true solution for myself. Thank you.

[@MrJodenkoek1]

If you really want to accoplish something you can and will do it. If you can't accomplish something you should ask yourself if you really want it

[@parce98]

Fellas, this trick helped me a lot, a lot of yall niggas are thinking in the future, you fear it, then just don't think about it, set yourself short goals that you can accomplish in a day!, if you keep thinking in long or hard goals, you will only be able to see how far or weak you are. Thank me later

[@ShabangPresident]

Thank you words cant describe the contribution you've made in my life.

[@freshfresh6942]

What if there is no passion for anything. What happens then

[@truthseek3017]

Eli Sternfeld Get some hobbies man...hunting, fishing, shooting guns, snowmobiling, dirtbiking, etc. Then allign your carreer with your hobbies. Conservation officer to help environment/animals and enforce law. or Start a business like cleaning houses or mowing lawns. You have to understand that we have to *let go* and accept where we are in this reality, we need money to uphold our hobbies...just think about all the shitty jobs people have to work like construction, plumbing, sales, etc. The best way for us to be happy in this reality is to get a job that we will enjoy because jobs take up the majority of our time. Have to play the game

[@freshfresh6942]

Logic Seeker what are ur hobbies.

[@abbreviateTome]

live for others, you will then see the light :)

[@flamemojis]

Logic Seeker good advice

[@l0wbtry]

Everyone has passions. Not one, multiple.

[@chtjagadesh8078]

I will write down all my dreams and goals on paper now and thanks a lot for the video. Thumbs up.

[@zappandy]

Great video Leo. Although, I loved working and studying music, I felt aimless working only as a composer. To be honest I was losing my motivation and positive attitude... Now I'm 20 and with a new goal in mind! I'm really excited to go back to school to pursue a major in foreign languages so I can get into grad school in the future for a masters in cognitive languages and music. I think I can do something more meaningful in that area while mixing my creative side with the more logical one. I believe one of the biggest mistakes we all make is we tend to narrow our view to the possibilities. It wasn't till I started doing research about music and languages that I discovered this masters degree. It resonated so much with me. Admittedly, getting into this has been difficult since well I'm basically starting over but man you couldn't be more right. You just have to set a goal in mind, the one that gives you that spark, and keep going. The mind is a powerful thing, as a musician, I've learned that with discipline anyone can overcome any challenge to achieve anything.

[@RH-ul2bc]

+Actualized.org Leo, i think one of the best things about your videos is that you are or have walked the walk. This is so me! I am a single parent and feel stuck. Im in survival mode and its a bit much to switch to uncertainty. So i dont dream about what could be very much, although i am beginning to ask myself "what comes next?" Last year almost killed me emotionally. It was the most stressful of my life. However I am making progress. I am digging myself out. Great video. Im saving it.

[@andrewrobinson7472]

My part time job I’ve had for almost 2 years is the only thing that keeps me sane. Also, had to cut off a lot of my friend group. That helped me find some more peace. But I’m definitely very lost feeling

[@k4tzzz803]

Actualized.org Thank you for this video! I just finished watching it and will be thinking about everything said during my drive to school.

[@kjellman96]

Unfortunately I don't really want to make the world better. I'm going to create a job where I can, eventually, work very little and still make large amounts of money. After that I'll probably play video games, dance and have fun all day. Thank you. This helped. I'm not sure this is what I ultimately want to do but it's a start and it's emotionally compelling for me.

[@SparshRathi]

Some times when i sit alone to think about my future i don't know what happens all i think is that my grades are low in all major exams and then i feel like nothing.. It feels like every thing is over all i can do is nothing.

[@alainfux2801]

Thank you for your video. I was really lost and you brought me light. Now I'm motivated and got energy! Keep up your good work, you make amazing videos! Thanks so much!

[@rhaeroberts6481]

LEO!!! You are my man!!! I showed you to my 83yo psychiatrist she loved your animation and approved for me to watch your most inspirational videos! I would love to pick your brain!! HEHE! You have helped me in more ways than I have words for! You are fantastic please never stop! I really would love to meet you sometime!! Or over phone? I don't like texting!!! 🌻😇

[@ishmamnaveel2198]

Here in 2022, 8 years later! Leo does have a million+ subs.

[@charlotterose1557]

it's actually my dream to have a youtube channel like yours!

[@CoDLover7771]

This video is one of the best videos I have ever watched in my life! Thank you Leo :D

[@odindolmark]

Leo I have a problem. For the first thing i would like to say is thank you for your wisdom and knowledge. I have a few problems which i haven't fixed my entire life which i would really like some guidance in. I grew up in a family where my father was a successful business man, where we as a family never needed money and that means I always got want i wanted and never really had to work had for anything. I was always under the wings of my mother who loved me so much, and my father had never time to talk about my life or future since he was busy making money for the family and always minded his own business. He was a closed man, and i only got to see him 3 months a year for summer after i was 12 years old. Life for me was pleasent, i always got want i wanted, and never seen to struggle to get a job since i was covered by my family business. Until now in a soon turning 30 years old, and haven't found the meaning of life for myself. My mother always said to me i should be a Artist - but i am not motivated. I tend to look in life to be just successful with lots and lots og money, with a nice big apartment, nice car, and clothes and so on. Since my family has always been money (business) orientated, i feel that if i become a Aritist i will never proove my father that i could earn or become something big i life. Because lets face it, only a few artists who really want to life that life only make it to the top. I want to make it to the top in something, to prove to myself and to others that I CAN achieve massive success in something - but i have not found the answer yet, even though i have so many opportunities since i do have cash. I don't know what to do. Maybe just get Laid and go to fancy parties ? I tend to feel that people envy me because of my possibilities, and want to pull me "down" if you know what i mean. Once i had a huge apartment, and i did get myself a hot girlfriend. But that apartment attracted the wrong people. I dont know what to do. What do you think i should do ?

[@odindolmark]

And i am also scared to be too social, since i dont want people to make fun of my flaws... what shall i do ? I Need Help Please! Any Kind of Help!

[@annagreen6217]

One big issue is that you care to much what your parents think. I have very similar parents absent emotionally unavailable professional "successful " dad and a mom who tries but when I stopped caring about what they thought and stopped looking to them to see if I was successful a lot of hints changed internally. Trust yourself and your gut and intuition. Make small actions every day towards your goals. If you are already meditating every day maybe start looking up ways you can help that with activation your mind and body. Look up sevan nomad secret energy.com And resistance2010.com you have to create a free account on that website. Read lots of books, heal your diet and environment, start working on every time you have ANy negative thoughts, knowledge them accept them, feel them and then decide if you want those emotions and feelings if not let them go and tell the thoughts they are banished from your mind. Look up Higher self on KZbin also youryouiverse on utube wim hof and his breathing techniques and a few others the subtle breath by transforming reality. Also there's a lot of recommended books on Leo's forum/blog good luck. You can do this.

[@annagreen6217]

Oh sorry it's reality files not that other thing I said

[@ada7896]

You'r videos are helping me a million! Loves it :-) I can sympathize with many of the commenters about how they feel they are not good at anything. However I think my problem is once I try something I like, I look at all the other people out there that are professionals and think " I'll never be that good" and I give up before I even try. I know its these limiting beliefs and thoughts that are preventing me from becoming good at things I like.

[@hifazhamza]

I really appreciate this. Actually am 25, about to finish my finance degree, Completed a Diploma and did well in school level. But I felt lost recently because I couldn't get any real jobs except my 6 months internship. Am still unemployed, and last night I was asking my self, what I am gonna do with my educational qualifications... Still I feel a bit lost. I hope to try this method just now. I`ll make a comment here after 10 years as the CEO of largest company in Sri Lanka. (Mark my words)

[@osasereegheomhan728]

Thank you so much Leo! I needed this.

[@trieulieuf9]

Leo, I have that vision. "I see myself a billionaire, and i use my money to celebrate the biggest new year celebration in the world. the huge 3D animation will be shot into the sky instead of firework, that everyone in 50 km around can clearly see it. The music go along with that animation come out from the TV of every house, so everyone can hear it. Everyone is watching that feel so proud about their country and love their life. when I am seeing that celebration going, tears come out from my eyes." . This vision has appeared when i was watching the new year countdown in my country. I feel so motivating about it now. But i'm not sure is that come from my ultimate desire because it appear by the influence of something external ( the new year countdown ). can i stick with it, as long as i can get motivation from it ?

[@lucyescarzaga8616]

last night i prayed for some inspiration, and today i found this so thank you!

[@williampatrickwoods]

but didn't you search for inspiration yourself?

[@Ender_FPV]

I am being held back from taking the full commitment it will require by fear, that someone else will actualize my dream in the world while I am working at trying to figure out how to make it happen. Or that someone more qualified and connected will see what I am creating and take my dream niche for themselves, leaving me lost.

[@Megbers10Gaming]

My mum is always telling me to do something with my life... I just wanna meme tho

[@ya_boi_second]

And then.. A legend was born A myth A hero An entrepreneur But most importantly A memer Megbers10 Gaming the conqueror

[@scortch8907]

So true Bro

[@samanthacleaver]

Thank you so much for kicking starting my 'vision board'! Very inspirational!

[@liamdabrowski9643]

If I was to give any advice to someone watching this is would be to start improving yourself weather it's working out, studying, meditation, diets, no fap, earn money. Set goals and actually do them, start small and get bigger.

[@andynava4403]

Worst I'm fucking sitting in my bed and not doing what I want what makes me happy .i just don't feel like me any more in don't find my self,I don't love my self. I don't find the meaning but this is going to change I got in to the point where I don't what to be a shit anymore THIS IS GOING RO CHANGE AT THIS POINT AND THANKYOU FOR OPENING MY EYES.

[@jontravon323]

I think your right about the imagining where you want to be in life I actually did this and it gave me motivation thanks bro

[@AR-id2np]

oh man. I am so glad I watched your video. Everything you said is so truth.

[@VibratorPoliceisgod]

It isn't really the fact that "oh well that could never happen to me" it's that I don't want to go down a path if I don't know where it leads. I would much rather stay in my comfort zone than risk a bunch of stuff. The best analogy I could come up with is: I'm in an airplane about to skydive, i know where i'm going, but the fact that the parachute could be defective scares me enough to not jump. Just like university, the fact that I have no idea what i would go for, even though I want to, scares me enough into not going. Or the fact that I might hate it and drop out and be left with crushing debt. I really need to get over this

[@brandohernandez5822]

Leo thanks for being a wake up call for me. I appreciate it very much. Your great.

[@tripelon]

My dream is to be at least the top player of a fighting game in my country, the to be able to compete in the world leagues (still thinking about how impossible that is but im sharing), and my 2nd dream (hopefully have having both dreams come true) is to work in cartoon network, but right now i don't have a bachelor degree, i'm only half away in my thesis to finally getting it BUT now i reeeeeeeeeaaaally couldn't care less for that degree, not that i don't like my career but i just don't ever wanna know or be near an academy. I'm lost on what to do, as i said befor, i really really don't care about finishing my thesis anymore.

[@uneasylouisa]

My dream is to do what you do - motivating and encouraging others - but specifically for youth. I want to be a teacher. I just graduated with a BA in philosophy. I hope I will be admitted to a B.Ed after this. Thanks for your video!

[@GravyB0ats]

I had a major goal in life, i LOVE football. My entire life revolves around football. I was going to go to college and play football and maybe even try my chances on making it to the pros. But after having multiple concussions, ive had to stop playing my junior year in high school. ( this was a year ago) i had to skip out on my senior year of high school football. I went to every practice and every game for the year, i couldn't hold myself away from it. I've been extremely depressed ever since then. idk what to do with life anymore. I started powerlifting, i like it and all, I'm also extremely successful at it. I have a great chance at qualifying for the state power lifting meet in these next couple of weeks. but nothing will ever giver me that feeling of playing football again. I dont want to be a coach because my social skills are crap and im an extreme introvert. id like to be a body builder and all but where i live its impossible to do that and my parents would never let me move far. idk what to do.

[@TheSajadreshi]

Leo .. Thank you very much for sharing these videos.. I believed in self control principles since my childhood but got bogged down with circumstances as you mentioned in your other video. Well, I believe many people out there would have been suffering in same state.. My soul still have that quench to make it right, take corrective actions to put things back on straight path and this lead me to search something that could help me to get started. I came across your videos and found them interesting and quite explained.. Thank you once again for this wonderful work..

[@mysticalmillenial3503]

Great video. It certainly is a "tricky mind game" as well as a process. "Go at your own pace", they say :) Much love to everybody else trying to find their passion and make it real.

[@TheresaDelHaze]

I never really thought that I have a dream. There were always some small pieces of my "dream future" going on in my mind,but i never really thought it is even possible to put them all together and make them "look" like a real,one big dream. I mean - wow - i really have one. And maybe it is crazy... but i want to go for it. Anyway...thank you for this video! I think it helped. *crossed fingers*

[@ActualizedOrg]

Make it happen now. You only have one life.

[@chawa630]

this is incredible. I watched this video almost a year ago and by that time I moved into my own apartment and am totally living on my own in a one bedroom apartment. but I want more. I would like to meet my soul mate and find something to do for a living.

[@calumaimes132]

I want to live well and find the best way to live a happy life as a individual and community

[@Bcooke17]

This is a young man with a big dream that he can help people and he hasn't a clue what's going on. I commend you on trying and probably making a good income off of others!!!

[@jelaienfinue]

Thank you for this video, I was about to give up on everything, now I feel better. Let's work on it !!

[@veranakhimova5642]

I found this video helpful, but when I asked myself what I want to contribute and create I felt stuck. I realized that I want to provide some type of service or non-physical product (maybe something creative, a TV show of some sort, something visual), but I feel like I want to send some kind of message with my work, plus I enjoy customer service and working with people in general. I don't know what that message is yet, I recently started working with a mentor to discover my purpose, and it's going good, but obviously it's a long process. So basically at this point I have no idea what I want to create, so have no motivation to wake up in the morning and do something. With me, I have a lot of anxiety about the future, to an extent where I'm almost always focused on the future and not the present. So when I started thinking about my dream life, I just felt that having dream job, great marriage, awesome health and body and being a good mom is just too much! I feel overwhelmed, I think that I'd just burn out living such life where you have to be 10 out of 10 in all areas of life! I would want it a lot, but this vision is so overwhelming it makes me physically sick and uncomfortable. I think it's too much work and pressure for an average human being and it just makes me feel like it's impossible, it's too much...

[@SoulGlowHealing]

My dream is to have the laptop lifestyle. I want to be able to make money online and be able to travel and work from anywhere. I want to make good money and I have thought about life coaching or web design but I don't know exactly which job I would enjoy the most and make the best money at. I have taken courses in Life Coaching and Reiki and NLP but the thought of starting a business is overwhelming.

[@trailnscaleRC]

Hi friend. Just ran into your comment n thought id ask how ur life is going 2 years after ur comment. I like your goals and wish u full power in all u do. Watching this video today i am taking action to put on paper what i want to create. I wish u lots of happiness and success in all u do. #beawesometosomebody

[@Dopamiinetv]

I believe that you are indeed a very wise man.

[@annakadir]

I happened on your page because I am looking into becoming a life skills coach. I think you are great! :)

[@freshramses]

Sounded a little generic but this is absolutely what I needed to hear. Thank you

[@ZainMeghji]

Interesting idea, but I would have found it helpful if you were specific on HOW to do the exercise of coming up with the compelling vision for our lives.

[@ghelhead]

Wow this video was great. Completely put things right in my mind. Thanks!!!!

[@6XMariaBForRX9]

Comforting to see that there are so many who feel the same...I finished college and nd now I'm stuck.

[@Anuojat]

This video is pretty good. :) Felt good afterwards and have ideas what to do. Thanks. YOU certainly have accomplished something in me and... *pokes at the wiev count and subs count* ;)

[@jennifercharles9975]

I'm only 14 nd in middle school but, even with my young age, I feel like I should be doing something. I just don't really what that 'Something' is. life is short and it shouldn't be wasted. I've been thinking this way since last year.

[@fiets5784]

Never knew an Elf was gonna teach me about life...

[@doberdanponovno3035]

Fiets ...😂😂😂😂

[@kerstievictorsen1787]

Resolution, no sexual contact or relationships for a year, I haven't had a full year since I've been sexually active and I want to take a year to focus on myself and my goals ❤ lots of love! x

[@NewNew-ud9vz]

I used to love basketball and practice everyday from morning to night. I became really good, but all of the sudden i dont even want to play anymore. Im lost.

[@inhabitantofearth]

I feel like this now. It's like I have all of these interest and hobbies but I have no idea what I want to do for a career. I have the motivation but I don't know what to focus my motivation on. I know I love to learn, and I would hope that where ever I end up working, I can learn to do new things. In addition to that, I want my dream career to involve a lot of hands-on activities and/or labor because I love physical work and I tend to be good at it. Right now I'm stuck between having a career in science (preferably in a lab involving anatomy or pathology), and carpentry. I've been recently house hunting and seen all of these renovated homes, and I thought how awesome and fun it would be to be able to turn an old home into a brand new one. My love for art and my perfectionist trait would probably do me well in that area. I'm worried I will eventually get bored with either one though. And then there's job opportunities and salary to worry about. I don't want to do all of the steps for nothing to only end up stuck at my current job. I've been to 2 colleges only to find out that my majors were only things I was curious about, but not what I would want to do as a career. It's been real trial and errory for me, and that has cost some money....some times I think I should just settle for a so-so career and focus on being a full-time dog parent because I love dogs. I quit pursuing being a vet tech though because I realized I didn't want to (or maybe I was afraid to) stick needles in animals, hence the pathology interest because you can't hurt a dead person, and I have a burning curiosity about death (the whys and hows of the cause).

[@JustinSavaia]

Put this at the top of KZbin

[@manishahatzade1006]

best motivation ! helped me thanks, I'm gonna make my dream reality was thinking a lot about what others would think

[@kaylav2005]

fair play to you! I can't wait to get to where u are now and help others in the way that I can and in a way that I Will enjoy. I have liked and subscribed and will watch follow up videos!

[@lamecasuelas2]

o've always wanted to have a movie store, you know where people could go in and talk about movies, sell cinema related books, posters, do screenings depending on the season, with a popcorn machine and all that good stuff, and you know what happenned? i fucked up my life and also freaking streaming happened man

[@Earthtime3978]

This is a good video if you already have money . Sometimes you are stuck in a job that simply pays your bills. I know what to do, I just don't have the financial resources. You may not be able to ," just get another job" . Trying is good but limitations exist.

[@iselaocampo2255]

You are so awesome! Thank you for this video!

[@70DAMNED]

I have been watching your videos and they have helped me a lot. I am in a club where you can do experances like motervation seminars events like speed boats and others. i think there is a fear I find before you try these things and because it's all over England it can be hard to get on with all the people there or talk to them all but I do think just going there facing that fear can be sometimes good. Anyway I feel you have really helped me out. Thank you

[@wongjin8382]

Wow motivations on altruism surfaced along your video. Honesty in your offering, thank you very much for explaining in examples.

[@CarlaRiverasharesgoodvibes]

You are the best, IDK how I end up seeing your videos but I'm glad :) Just found you and I'm your brand new fan!

[@zawzawx3857]

You changed all my thoughts ♡ ily

[@JL90s]

Want to be successful, I know exactly what type of lifestyle I want to live willing to work for it but I don't have a clue how to get there, can't think of a passion I want to pursue..

[@CC-fq8bn]

This still doesn't make sense to me, what is worth dying for?.... Nothing..., because when you die, the universe ends, and it literally doesn't fucking matter. The Sun will eventually expand and everything is gone, and completely forgotten. Who cares, all I want is to be happy, but I'm not willing to fucking die for it, that defeats the whole purpose of being happy in the first place.

[@mamajagrekab2964]

omg! everything you said resonated with me so much! thank you