how to manage multiple interests & passions: a different approach

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Adama Lorna

Adama Lorna

Күн бұрын

how to manage multiple interests & passions: rethink your approach
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@Twinsane_in_the_membrane
@Twinsane_in_the_membrane Ай бұрын
So nice to not have it called adhd and for this perspective to be so positive
@LivingItwitDrea
@LivingItwitDrea 23 күн бұрын
This ‼️‼️
@severinechantalou128
@severinechantalou128 21 күн бұрын
Actually multiple passion is quite different than ADHD. It's more about being a polymath. I have discovered this book last year. Multiple passion with mastery isn't instability or lack of focus. It's natural.
@aliciaburbank8297
@aliciaburbank8297 20 күн бұрын
Goodness! I totally agree.
@colleenreid2429
@colleenreid2429 16 күн бұрын
Agreeeeeed❤
@ladariaduffie9093
@ladariaduffie9093 16 күн бұрын
As someone who has ADHD and multiple passions, this video is very helpful.
@CaseyBowman7
@CaseyBowman7 21 күн бұрын
crochet, drawing, watercolor painting, sewing, ukulele, guitar, yoga, strength training, gardening, journaling, gaming, watching youtube and cartoons, researching, fashion. So many things interest me and that is a beautiful thing, but it can be so hard to spend time on all these skills and balance them. Edit: I didn't know there were so many people with oddly similar interests to me 😂
@millietanner8023
@millietanner8023 18 күн бұрын
I agree I’m into quite a lot myself and I’m still trying to learn how to balance everything I’m way better at some things than the other it’s difficult at times but I try to be more more organized with it.
@emdeevlogs7880
@emdeevlogs7880 15 күн бұрын
Twinnnn. where have you beeeeen
@user-lu5pp7jn7h
@user-lu5pp7jn7h 14 күн бұрын
Gurl ...are we the same person ❤😂😂
@MorkyMuffin
@MorkyMuffin 14 күн бұрын
So glad to see at least two other people with the same interests as me
@quejimenez
@quejimenez 13 күн бұрын
This resonated on so many levels for me. Thank you for giving me language to better navigate and understand/accept my journey. ❤
@DefinedByAlex
@DefinedByAlex 25 күн бұрын
When you said that the growth will be slower is such a true statement, I find myself to still want the instant gratification while pursuing multiple passions & interests
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 24 күн бұрын
It's understandable because I also struggle at times with the pace of progress but it get's easier over time!
@julisabasak5180
@julisabasak5180 18 күн бұрын
THIS 100% I think that instant gratification need is such a curse and it's propagated even more due to social media and seeing only the success stories
@Lotuaoki
@Lotuaoki 4 күн бұрын
That's understandable, we live in a world that pushes instant gratification and quick results so much but you just have to remind yourself REALLY good things take time.
@mx.chi2
@mx.chi2 20 күн бұрын
“A jack of all trades is a master of none, but oftentimes is better than a master of one.” Like you said in the video, with time and different seasons, I know we can master them all!!!
@shonylclaudia7370
@shonylclaudia7370 21 күн бұрын
"stop ignoring signs of passion or intrigue-" girl I HAD to pause the video because I know exactly what you're talking about and I need to be more serious about the cues my soul is giving me...thank you
@artteacher5589
@artteacher5589 13 күн бұрын
Yes, that's the one ❤
@marymills2849
@marymills2849 18 күн бұрын
We are multidimensional souls having a human experience so it makes sense we want to try so many things in this lifetime
@yadiraruda7062
@yadiraruda7062 12 күн бұрын
@marshamartial9637
@marshamartial9637 6 күн бұрын
@marymills2849 I always think this
@iNekol
@iNekol 5 күн бұрын
Yassss
@mgcc9500
@mgcc9500 14 күн бұрын
HOW DID MY ALGORITHM KNOW 😭😭😭 this is my EXACT dilemma!
@motlatsimabalani3397
@motlatsimabalani3397 Күн бұрын
I only thought of this and then I come across this video😮
@ExtraReagan
@ExtraReagan 14 күн бұрын
I love this take. I love to say I am a Jane of all trades. Society wants you to feel that you only have one option when it comes to what you want to do with your life but life is about experience. Everything doesn’t have to be monetized either. Do it because it makes you FEEL.
@raquelrodgers2865
@raquelrodgers2865 12 күн бұрын
I call myself the same thing lol I was even going to make that my IG name. I have raquelofmanyhats but I haven't started creating content yet lol because I've been in paralysis. This video has been so encouraging.
@iamnyoka
@iamnyoka 22 күн бұрын
Often times I feel like I don't know where to start. So I just brain dump all of my goals into my notion lol and take my time working through them.
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 21 күн бұрын
Same, I'm planning on doing a video around this next ☺️
@StudioHannah
@StudioHannah 18 күн бұрын
Same here haha, I have a whole list
@Annamipad
@Annamipad 15 күн бұрын
This is a great idea!
@tiki7501
@tiki7501 13 күн бұрын
Yes there is so much I want to do, the question is where to start first and how to get unstuck.
@rizzmaster5000
@rizzmaster5000 18 күн бұрын
One thing i’ve heard that changed the perspective on learning all my passions i’m interested in is this: You don’t have to be Da Vinci to pursue a craft. All of my hobbies lived and died in my head because I was so worried about not being the best at it. But that’s okay, you don’t have to be the best to find enjoyment out of something. Now i’m crocheting, gardening, etc. It was so freeing to take the perfectionism out of learning.
@davienstrong
@davienstrong 17 күн бұрын
Everything is connected, and everything works together. I’ve always felt that all my interests and passions are within me for a reason, and tie together somehow. It’s like geometry, all points being connected.
@zovinamaria
@zovinamaria Ай бұрын
This was a wonderful video. I do get overwhelmed with how many things I am interested in! I am a full time artist (oil painter and clay) but I am so interested in Physics and Chemistry, Spirituality & Quantum Physics, I want to learn the piano, learn languages, learn martial arts, I want to learn about Medicinal Plants... the list could go on and on! 😅 But I am only now at age 27 starting to see how this is actually so beautiful! I have such a zest for life and passion to discover and learn so many things about this existence! Even if it means having 8 different careers and 35 hobbies over my life span, what a colourful and vibrant life it will be! 😁
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 24 күн бұрын
Thank you! I recognise that- I went down a physics rabbit hole for a while after watching space time odyssey. It's a beautiful thing to be interested in the multitude of things life has to offer- you're so right. Do you share your art on instagram? I have an art page that I primarily use for following other artists and would love to connect if so ✨
@karitthasun290
@karitthasun290 19 күн бұрын
Relate to this on a spiritual level: same!
@KatShakti
@KatShakti 18 күн бұрын
I think we should be friends 😅
@soulestate_5
@soulestate_5 13 күн бұрын
I felt smart just by watching this video. Damn this woman is highly intelligent.
@emdoubleu1763
@emdoubleu1763 11 күн бұрын
Bruhhh saaaame 😅❤❤
@kaidoll8616
@kaidoll8616 12 күн бұрын
Piano, yoga, bass guitar, graphic design, dancing, watching movies, trying new foods, meditating, travelling, learning new languages, hiking, weight lifting, reading, podcasts, witchcraft, baking, teaching, singing, cleaning, crafting, decorating, growing herbs, nurturing my cats and husband and plants. I have so many interests/hobbies and so little time and idk how any of those sync up and I’m trying to find a balance so I can do ALL those things. I just have to remind myself I can’t do them all every single day. But I can do a few everyday and switch them and incorporate multiples at the same time!
@millietanner8023
@millietanner8023 18 күн бұрын
Drawing,painting,sewing,violin,piano,singing,songwriting,producing(still learning ), and dancing(I suck but I’m still learning), agriculture, running a business, gaming, yoga, cooking, and baking
@angelglowstudios1454
@angelglowstudios1454 Ай бұрын
I can relate to this so much. Recently I started to prioritize my goals and really pay attention to what’s been fed the most and what’s gives the most value. And while I also need income, I put energy into what’s going to bring me income as well without chasing it. Happiness comes first.
@spicychia410
@spicychia410 18 күн бұрын
Omggggg sameeee!!!!
@Cerisesoul
@Cerisesoul 13 күн бұрын
This is so me😭 and sometimes I feel like I’m operating from a place of lack because I’m a master of none
@l.taylor7953
@l.taylor7953 Ай бұрын
I love hearing another polymath speak about their interdisciplinary approach to life. I live and thrive this way despite the opinions and small-mindedness of others. It's very refreshing to hear perspectives which embrace broader, more nuanced thinking.
@cheyennemyrie5347
@cheyennemyrie5347 Ай бұрын
This was such a great video. I wrote my college essays about being a "Renaissance Woman" because of my seemingly varied experiences and I've come to love and accept that I'm most definitely the "Jack of All Trades" type who brings synergy between my interests, hobbies, passions, and aspirations. Currently finding my path between Philanthropy, Finance, and Nonprofit Arts & Culture. It's going swimmingly!
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 21 күн бұрын
What an interesting essay! That’s a super interesting combination too! Love this all for you 🙏🏾❤️
@AriasAudios
@AriasAudios 14 күн бұрын
Oh my god, I needed this. I’ve been neglecting my channel, my health and fitness, my art. I’ve felt so overwhelmed while somehow doing nothing at all. This really helped me change my perspective. Thank you 💕
@kat_n
@kat_n 18 күн бұрын
It is so true that you shouldn't ignore signs of passion or intrigue! I believe that our higher self / God / the Universe sends these wants and desires to us for our life path and purpose.
@user-wm9rg6ty3k
@user-wm9rg6ty3k 12 күн бұрын
Very true, I believe so too. Ignoring these signs of interests /passion is similar to the servant who buried his talent in the bible ...
@elizzyland
@elizzyland 19 күн бұрын
This is the first time I've ever heard someone explain very well exactly what I've been trying to explain to myself and to my friends for years. I feel like we should all make friends and then we can all do all the things with other people who also like to do all the things! 😅
@Theoracleyaya
@Theoracleyaya 19 күн бұрын
The isolation is real. Sometimes I get so overwhelmed by all the things I’m interested in that I just rot inside my room. I wanna start a channel on here to share all the thins im interested in but I just feel stuck. And scared. What if ppl thing I’m weird? Ik I’m weird but what if they think it in a bad way? But I guess I just have to be weird. Be weird or rot in my room forever.
@stephanieclaudio_
@stephanieclaudio_ 18 күн бұрын
and being “weird” is okay because then a “weird” person like me finds you and then supports you! It’s vice versa ✨☺️ We find our community and support!
@flyaiselatus
@flyaiselatus 11 күн бұрын
Go ahead and make that channel! I love to watch people share the many things that they do. I am very far away from home and the people that get me are at home so I understand the isolation, the friends I have here do not get how I think even after I explain it so I end up doing things alone which is fine because I am also an introvert but it would be so nice to sometimes talk about things with like-minded people.
@elizabethallardyce
@elizabethallardyce 6 күн бұрын
people are desperate for realness. being weird and free and yourself is precisely what it takes to make good, worthwhile, personal content. give yourself the chance to find fulfillment for no one's approval but your own, wishing the best of luck to you
@LAIDOCKS
@LAIDOCKS 14 күн бұрын
you said nothing under the sun is new but connections and personal experiences are and i think about that all the time! my old english teacher once told me that nothing we will ever do or say is original because it’s “already been done” but ive always thought she was wrong because every person is SO INSANELY COMPLEX. nobody is the same.
@yadiraruda7062
@yadiraruda7062 12 күн бұрын
these are my thoughts lol
@beautyandbeyond000
@beautyandbeyond000 Ай бұрын
I relate to this a lot! I’ve been like that since I was young. I love weight lifting & Pilates, making KZbin videos, writing books & studying advertising & graphic design. I used to play sims too! I still would if I had enough memory because I can only play with mods 😂
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 24 күн бұрын
Listen, the memory issue is the only reason it's not still installed on my machine and now I cba to reinstall the base and all the expansion/game packs. It's probably for the best atm 😂. Love your combination of interests too ✨
@aweirdlife
@aweirdlife 14 күн бұрын
I enjoy learning about the advertising and graphic design world. My career path I chose is commercial photography. I also have a keen eye for branding (such as studying logos, colors, etc.). Are you currently studying this in school or are you learning on your own?
@beautyandbeyond000
@beautyandbeyond000 14 күн бұрын
@@aweirdlife I’m in school currently! It’s been amazing so far :)
@jupiterShoezR4Me
@jupiterShoezR4Me 28 күн бұрын
It amazes me everyday how the right videos show up in feed at the right time. I'm currently trying to figure out what I want to do with my career while balancing all of my hobbies and interests (running, pottery, making floral arrangements, learning Chinese, and hiking). I graduated with a degree in architecture but Im also interested in learning and development. During the pandemic, I started teaching ESL online (and took the certification process very seriously since it's outside of my level of expertise) and I've found myself absolutely hooked on lesson planning and text reading lessons. I've also been dabbling in learning more about instructional design. So now I'm at a point where I feel like I need to choose between these 3 professions: architecture, teaching, and instructional design. I feel like Im getting closer and closer to somehow meshing these fields together but I just cant see it yet.
@books6000
@books6000 23 күн бұрын
It seems to me that you would be a great professor. If not an instructor at a school like trade school that you combine all your talents and skills. I think everything you are doing now really are in the same family. you are using both sides of your brain for analytical and creative. Step back you will see it; it’s all woven together like 12:30 in video. You could develop a course online via skill share website or something. I think it would be cool. Congratulations you are doing great keep going.
@jupiterShoezR4Me
@jupiterShoezR4Me 21 күн бұрын
@@books6000 Wow, I never thought about it like that. Thank you so much for the insight! Becoming a professor was also on my list of possible career paths too. I took a strengths assessment test a few years ago and found out that my top strength is "love of learning". One of the jobs that were recommended was professor/teacher. I've always wanted to create a course, but I just have no idea what I would make. 😅
@books6000
@books6000 21 күн бұрын
@@jupiterShoezR4Me I am glad to point it out to you. Please don’t limit yourself and take action the worst thing is to overthink and end up not doing anything. I know from experience. Create a course for people about architecture, intro course or maybe a test/course for would be students to take to see if they would like that subject or not. You have accomplished a lot keep going. Make money off your knowledge so you can keep learning. You can work your way up to being a professor by continuing to teach at different levels and your own courses. Take care, I am praying for the very best for you. Blessings & Light ☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️
@user-wm9rg6ty3k
@user-wm9rg6ty3k 12 күн бұрын
​@@books6000 wow, what amazing advice .❤
@books6000
@books6000 12 күн бұрын
@@user-wm9rg6ty3k Thank you. I hope all is going well for you in life. Blessings & Light ☀️☀️☀️
@imanirosetaylor5718
@imanirosetaylor5718 16 күн бұрын
I love this! I grew up in performing arts, ballet, voice, and piano, and can break down how it helps me cook well. Understanding the mechanisms and intricacies of the pieces of required for certain movements and sounds directly correlate to flavors, textures, spices. I am so passionate about these things, and am in school becoming a dentist.
@vicky_d1896
@vicky_d1896 13 күн бұрын
oh my god??? THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL LADY OF THE INTERNET???!!!! I’m in tears because I’ve been struggling with this ever since I was a kid and why did I NEVER think of researching such topic??
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 12 күн бұрын
You’re more than welcome ❤️
@YouNeverKnowWhoIsWatching
@YouNeverKnowWhoIsWatching 15 күн бұрын
I left my job 2 years ago to become a writer. I have tons of material that I had started but never had time to finish over the years. Over the past year though, I've been doing odd jobs including personal assistant and animal care. Working with clients animals made me start doing dog walking as a serious side hustle. And last month for no apparent reason, I decided to dress up as a clown on my birthday. I am now a 46-year-old woman 46 year old woman who is dabbling in writing, companion care, dog walking, and clowning. On any given day any of these jobs bring me joy and seemed like the perfect thing for me to be doing with my life. I've always wanted to have multiple sources of income, but I do realize that I am stretching myself in all different directions to make this happen. My daughter recently asked me if I am going through midlife crisis. It doesn't feel like it. It just feels like I'm discovering all the wonderful things in the world that are possible and I want to do them all. From 2:18 to 2020 I was doing KZbin and thought it would take off, but it never did. But I still have a notebook full of content ideas that I am genuinely interested in producing. *Sigh*
@connectropy
@connectropy 14 күн бұрын
I love that you dressed as a clown on your birthday, that's like something I would do 💓😍🤩
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 12 күн бұрын
This comment was an emotional roller coaster- I literally could not predict the next line 😂. I love this all for you though! Yes, without some directed focus it's hard to achieve anything including financial goals like diversified income streams. The balance between exploration and focus takes time to form. KZbin is hard. I've been doing it for almost 4.5 years. My advice is if you enjoy it continue- make the content and share. If i had given up because in year one a few hundred people watched I'd never have made it to this video and the community of people who have formed from it ❤️
@cristianaalexis
@cristianaalexis 15 күн бұрын
Omg.. reading this comment section was so relieving.. to know there are so many people with multiple interests… it’s often mistaken of not knowing myself (I know myself perfectly fine), or that I can’t master one (and it’s not that)… or as adhd like it was something bad. 😭😭😭 this video found me at a really good time.
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 15 күн бұрын
Honestly this comment section has been one of the best one's i've ever seen. Inspiring, honest and encouraging! Thank you for contributing to it ✨
@juleswifey6003
@juleswifey6003 Ай бұрын
I hope to meet women exactly like you, wise beyond your years.
@kichikiaks941
@kichikiaks941 15 күн бұрын
I’ve got a interest in crocheting, sewing, yoga, gardening, animals, makeup, fashion, photography, sea life, environments, study and a lot of other things and I’ve just been trying to find a way to balance everything so then I can satisfy my excitement to learn everything
@lilacfields
@lilacfields 15 күн бұрын
literally same 😭 i think one barrier to me is actually finances. like with sewing and crochet, the only way to learn is by doing! but you have to pay for yarn and fabric and if you mess it up, that’s money wasted
@pickledshoe
@pickledshoe 12 күн бұрын
​@lilacfields you have a learning experience everytime so don't think the money is wasted ❤
@monalisi--egobishi
@monalisi--egobishi 19 күн бұрын
I wish I had this video years ago, I thought I was crazy trying to find one part like everyone else but I get bored easily and have multiple interests, I always feel like I don't have time for it all. Thanks for showing me what is possible
@Venusingatorade
@Venusingatorade Ай бұрын
Can I just say that there's nothing wrong with liking things like the Sims into adulthood? Just as long as it doesn't become toxic, having less "common" or "normal" interests are perfectly fine.
@sagittariusbeauty
@sagittariusbeauty Ай бұрын
Yes, a lot of people 20+ year olds play Sims as a hobby, and some made it into a career. I still play and I’m 26.
@Sarah-kv3qs
@Sarah-kv3qs Ай бұрын
I play video games still in my 20s so why can’t people enjoy sims or collecting legos. You are absolutely right 🤷🏾‍♀️
@PrettyPearPricess
@PrettyPearPricess 20 күн бұрын
My still loves it & she’s in her mid 40d
@chokemebloo
@chokemebloo 19 күн бұрын
LMAOO, I'm pretty sure a majority of people that still play The SIMS are older than me and I'm 25 🤣
@aweirdlife
@aweirdlife 14 күн бұрын
I have a friend who's in her early 30's and still plays it.
@khloeeromero7395
@khloeeromero7395 8 күн бұрын
singing, dancing, acting, musical theatre, fashion, gardening, cooking, baking, running, pilates, drawing, watercolor, acrylic painting, embroidery, jewelry making, writing letters and poems, reading, hiking, watching youtube, writing music, philosophy, biology, anthropology, foreign relations, social and environmental activism, and i’m hoping to be a theatre teacher during the school year and wildlife biologist during the summer😂
@nessawithsmiles
@nessawithsmiles 15 күн бұрын
Sometimes the issue is that we are viewing our many talents and interests in the guise of capitalism. Without capitalism, we’d just explore and explore and maybe never think about the need to compound that interest upon itself to make it a good or service.
@Jess-yp9fo
@Jess-yp9fo 13 күн бұрын
This comment is spot on
@s.macedo7026
@s.macedo7026 5 күн бұрын
This
@Lotuaoki
@Lotuaoki 4 күн бұрын
Wow, this omg
@aweirdlife
@aweirdlife 14 күн бұрын
God knows what He is doing! For weeks (probably months), I've been thinking about my other interests outside of photography and how to pursue them. I fell off my road to my commercial photography path because of fear. I didn't think I was good enough. Most recently, God has called me back to this passion along with other desires. I miss painting, dancing, and traveling. I want to plant herbs, take singing lessons to perfect my voice, and to study Spanish (again for the umpteenth time). I've been ignoring these signs because of fear, time, and finance. I didn't think I was good enough or capable of learning how to master these interests because of my learning disability. These desires aren't random!!! God has placed them on my heart but I never knew how to balance them all because of my 9-5 job. I knew I wasn't meant to commit to just one thing! God is going to make a way and trust Him with this. Thank you for sharing this video because God has been laying this on my heart for a while. P.S. You're very beautiful 💗.
@henl0ei
@henl0ei 14 күн бұрын
the universe led me here, as a fresh undergraduate confused because I wanted to do a lot of things, thank you for this validation ❤
@AyeGetItBroady
@AyeGetItBroady Күн бұрын
KZbin has been recommending this for a couple of weeks now and I'm glad I finally watched it. It's so nice to hear other people talk about the things I feel. And not just like, little interests, but huge ones! Being an engineer, AND a painter, AND a fitness coach AND a content creator is insane!! And I love that for you! You're obviously doing a good job balancing them all. I work for the gov't, trying to be a content creator, am learning multiple languages, love fitness AND I want to study neuroscience 😭 Lord help me lol
@cebimdutyana
@cebimdutyana 14 күн бұрын
I finally have a name to describe myself "Renaissance ❤". I'm a Chartered Accountant 🇿🇦, Chef for my food passion, finance coach. I'm pursuing content creation as well marketing. It's beautiful to find people that I can relate to in a world where we are seen as unstable for having multiple passions. Thanks sis ❤
@jennymedranocoaching
@jennymedranocoaching 15 күн бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing this! I feel like our collective would experience greater liberation if we were truly allowed to be renaissance people. It’s a dream of my to create leadership spaces for people like us. One thing I admire about you that I’m trying to establish is a grounding job that keeps me interested, builds my expertise AND funds the kind of lifestyle I desire. It gets difficult when I keep flip flopping jobs and feel less stability.
@ryoku1236
@ryoku1236 20 күн бұрын
I'm a software engineer, lifter and digital artist...I swear this video was made for me.
@carvontewilliams7847
@carvontewilliams7847 15 күн бұрын
The algorithm actually doing its job. Great video👏🏾
@Amda4436
@Amda4436 11 күн бұрын
I thought the same lol
@PaigeOutLoud
@PaigeOutLoud 21 күн бұрын
My favorite connection so far has been learning salsa dancing, reading about leadership and love in the Bible, and practicing intentional singleness.
@AllieDicky
@AllieDicky 20 күн бұрын
So interesting!
@traceen.goodman8774
@traceen.goodman8774 19 күн бұрын
I went on an "Intentional singleness journey" of sorts in 2021 after my last child graduated. Going from single mom to empty nester in my 40s was big. A real now what moment. I became an international housesitter, traveled around central America for 1 year and ....took salsa lessons. Being intentionally single is truly a journey of self rediscovery. Congratulations on your new journey.
@aweirdlife
@aweirdlife 14 күн бұрын
How is the journey of intentional singleness going? I didn't even know it had a name to it. I want to practice this but I have a strong feeling God might throw me into a relationship 😂.
@mx.chi2
@mx.chi2 20 күн бұрын
This video was a prayer answered. I am so incredibly appreciative. You may have just changed the course of my life. I'm about to cry. Thank you so much.
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 19 күн бұрын
Wow, I’m not sure I expected this video to be this impactful but I’m humbled 🙏🏾❤️
@Psilolcybin
@Psilolcybin 16 күн бұрын
ever since i was younger, i always felt limited by the fact that we are expected to have just one career path for the majority of our lives. i just have so many interests and it’s just simply hard to pick because so many things bring me fulfillment. i have never figured out how some people can do one thing and that thing only for decades lol
@allx.g
@allx.g 6 күн бұрын
Me and my girlfriend recently tried clay sculpting for the first time. About 40 minutes in, we were each immersed in our own process. For a while, I wondered how exactly we developed our own way of sculpting the clay so fast, and what you’ve said made me realize that it was everything else we’ve done coming together in this new practice we were learning. She was sculpting like a nurse-crocheter-painter would. I was sculpting like a programmer-artist-writer would.
@yumadossantos
@yumadossantos 19 күн бұрын
So glad that a beautiful lady has done a video talking about the struggle I'm currently facing,because of fear and not putting to much belief on multiple things i want do ,ends up on being just in a place of desire or wish. I strongly believe that if i stop capping myself I'll definitely make progress in all of this areas i want to pursue. God bless you and make you more influential for woman growth 😘😘😘
@hara30
@hara30 12 күн бұрын
Graphic design, languages, photo and video editing, film making, script writing, singing, music producing, guitar, dancing, drawing, fashion, content creation, mathematics, psychology, journalism, chess (?) and many other smaller interests ✨️
@kamarae.2444
@kamarae.2444 22 күн бұрын
I really resonated with what you said about seasons. I just quit my job because I'm moving to a new country to start my MBA in September and I wanted to take some time to rest, startup life almost took my life 🙃. Not even a week after, I was already stacking up personal projects I wanted to work on, I was so excited to not have all my time sucked in by capitalism. But I had to remind myself that this was supposed to be a season of rest. I've tried to outline all the things i can do that contribute to this season, things that can feed creative rest, sensory rest, mental rest and physical rest and sticking to doing just those things for this season. My ideal life is 9 months of work and 3 months off to just explore all the different things I'm interested in and I'm actively working towards that. There is just not enough time within full-blown capitalism to explore all the things I'm interested in 😭 Amazing video, thank you so much!
@Dakoda-bx1fx
@Dakoda-bx1fx 14 күн бұрын
When I’m telling youuu , this video popped up at the perfect time.. I was justtt saying how the heck do I manage all my hobbies and find time for all of them, and I end up doing none of them 😂😭
@Nai_L96
@Nai_L96 20 күн бұрын
This is literally so me ! So many interests and often feeling stagnant and looked at as someone who jumps from one thing to another but I see it as exploring and immersing in my interests- thank you for this video ❤️
@MedicoreMacaroni
@MedicoreMacaroni 6 күн бұрын
When my friends say they have so many "unfinished" projects, I kindly remind them they have many projects "IN PROGRESS." Because in reality they are, for example, for a painting in order for some mediums to dry you literally would need to wait a week or more inbetween sections. For some reason the world has a weird perspective that linear = progress and anything else is a failure, mistake, unfinished. Then they imprint that perspective onto us at a young age. When in reality for many of us, doing things the right way means going steady, taking breaks, reflecting, and bouncing beteeen other projects in between. It is not unfinished, it is in progress. Steady is smooth, smooth is fast. That's how many of us operate and it is just as valid as any other mode of thinking. Thank you for bringing this point to light and thoroughly explaining this concept down to its core!
@JuliBom
@JuliBom 18 күн бұрын
I feel less alone when I see videos like this, thank you! Sometimes I have to also self-analyze and see if my yearning to go for multiple interests comes from lack (a feeling of inefficiency or not meeting self-expectations if I 'don't' do many things), or from a place of love and curiosity. If it's latter, then I have to see what I can fit in between work, adulting, fitness, socializing etc, but most importantly, recognize if it's an interest I'm willing to learn/fail/keep at/slow down when need to, with time and patience OR if I'm just looking for instant gratification. Often times it's a mental battle, especially with that feeling of paralysis, fears and frustrations of not meeting the expectations you want, dealing with external conflicts, feeling isolated when it's a singular activity like writing, feeling overwhelmed when it's a social activity like dancing, etc. The slow growth is so real too. Regardless, that's all to say, managing multiple interests really do reveal a lot about ourselves and our capabilities.
@kristlecasey9506
@kristlecasey9506 18 күн бұрын
I highly related to this video. I wrote all my interests on little pieces of paper and put it in a jar. Every week i pull out one or two to focus on. I think this is a good technique but maybe i should focus on them for longer than a week bc with work and school sometimes i dont have time. Like you said, i do struggle with sharing my work and progress bc I feel like other ppl wont relate or support me. Ive also heard the sentiment of staying private so that people dont have the chance to sabotage you. To balance between this, i share my progress wayy later so that by the time ppl are aware of it, im on a different level
@stephanieclaudio_
@stephanieclaudio_ 18 күн бұрын
THAT’S SUCH A GOOD IDEA! I just put in a big notebook that has all my ideas and sparks of imagination 😭😂
@ASMRChemistry
@ASMRChemistry 16 күн бұрын
Spot on with the idea of synergy!! For more data and support for this idea, the TEDx talk “The remarkable impact of hobbies on career” encapsulates it in about 8 min. Thanks for bringing in another layer of multi-passions that allows me to love my life so much.
@EMPRESSUDOKA
@EMPRESSUDOKA 14 күн бұрын
I love sims and I can’t wait to knock out this one goal before I start playing again. Thank you for articulating this topic so clearly. People think I’m unfocused but I actually do a lot of research on my interests. I love learning and not being limited to one thing or path. The opportunities in life are infinite and now I’m confident in knowing that it’s okay to have and pursue multiple passions without comparing progress. This video is a blessing!
@user-iz2qq9kg9w
@user-iz2qq9kg9w 18 күн бұрын
This is so refreshing. I love so many things. I always put myself down because I couldn't focus on one thing, especially careers wise. As a kid, I felt free to do anything I wanted. I was the only one among my peers to be able to do so many things, especially in athletics. Thank you for being yourself. ❤
@nessawithsmiles
@nessawithsmiles 15 күн бұрын
My dad always used to tell me to focus in and not be a jack of all trades. There are pros and cons to being a jack of all trades and mastering only one. I can say one con of being a jack of all trades is it is hard to put my head down and grind bc all of my grinding feels divided. I think being organized and mastering one at a time is a good balance.
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 15 күн бұрын
I agree, there are trade offs associated with both. It depends on ones goals, the time frame they have and what kind of life one is trying to live!
@sevmone
@sevmone 14 күн бұрын
I am so so so glad I found you. I'm technically a Full Stack Web Developer, but I'm mainly focusing on SRE and Back End Development. I love painting, crocheting, baking, pilates, so I'm also spread out across multiple domains. This video really spoke to me, thank you (:
@Kuroqueeni
@Kuroqueeni Күн бұрын
I’m working on being a coder working with games lol
@buse_ekmen
@buse_ekmen 3 күн бұрын
This video spoke to me on such a deep level. I'm a 3rd year Computer Science student and over the past couple of years I've discovered my true passions for music, art, and creation. Throughout my academic journey, I've felt so stuck and held back like I'm not where I'm supposed to be. I've learned that I'm not on the wrong path, I've learned that coding/tech IS art. Seeing where tech and art intersect and connect has allowed me to transform my passion that I thought I lost for coding into a new, greater passion. Thank you for showing me it's possible to balance what I felt were two different lives, showing me it's possible to bring them together. Everything is connected, and harnessing this fact is what will allow us to nourish our multidimensional souls
@BlessingAmeho
@BlessingAmeho Ай бұрын
Relatable last year I was doing everything I love what I realize is I didn't see any proper result. This year I decided to focus on one thing and guess what I have seen massive results in those areas.My KZbin channel and TikTok growth amaze me.
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 24 күн бұрын
It takes time to work out the optimal set up for growth but that's part of the journey too. All the best with your KZbin and TikTok too ✨
@ocrawing_d9993
@ocrawing_d9993 8 күн бұрын
growth will be slower is such an important point. especially when we constantly fall prey to comparison. this was such a refreshing point of view and as someone who branches out in many hobbies, it was so amazing to hear thoughts that have clouded my mind before be explained in such an eloquent and caring manner. thank you, sincerely.
@msvladyslavap
@msvladyslavap 8 күн бұрын
I found that in spiritual work the reason behind this multiplicity of interests nowadays is in fact the many unborn souls(abortions, still births etc) from your parents, ancestors are trying to finally live their lives/gifts through you. In previous generations most were in survival mode and today we have more freedom to self express. Meditations on quieting all them voices and passions inside helped me, acknowledging which ones are my own and prioritising them over others is the next step. When you do it all, the progress is slow but you eventually get there ❤
@domithepotato
@domithepotato 13 күн бұрын
I’ve been thinking for a while that I’ve been a “jack of all trades” with all of the things I want to do as a half joke, because I despise the idea of just picking one thing to do (especially since I’m an artist and creative person) but I felt bad about being so mediocre or just inexperienced with all of them. It was just funny because I wanted to find a way to do it anyway and this is it! I felt like I was just being indecisive with what I want to learn and was kinda just like “ok I guess I have to do one thing, fine” and I kept pushing away my interests until recently thinking about my summer plans and realizing there is a loooot of different things I want to learn, like from comp. sci to gymnastics, I just need to write everything down again and make a plan without getting too overwhelmed before I even start. And when you mentioned that your community inspires you, AND you inspire them by sharing your work as well I realized that is really important because I almost completely stopped interacting with people and communities my senior year of high school just cause I’m used to doing things by myself and never sharing unless it’s a really close friend, yet I’m always so ready to listen to my friends blab about stuff they like.. but then I think it’s awkward when I do it! And the end of this year was probably the most burnt out I felt because I didn’t have much inspiration for my fleeting motivation, and stressing about that on its own didn’t help at all with my art and I really didn’t make as much progress as I hoped for. That made me glad again that I’m going to pursue art because I will be around like minded people and none of us will shut up about our interests (including me) and it’s perfectly fine because we love it! And I learned about the renaissance in art history! So I’m already interested and get the idea! Thanks for making this video!
@musealot9161
@musealot9161 15 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! I've felt like this my whole life. I'm an architect by training, I write, I paint, I consult for projects, I'm getting my yoga teacher training, Into agriculture, voice overs. There are times i've felt paralysed but over the last 5 years, I've been working on getting better at each of these areas and its made me learn so much about myself and my body, and even transferred skills. Thanks so much for helping me put it into perspective!❤
@sajidabenmbarek
@sajidabenmbarek 18 күн бұрын
1:42 I so appreciate the emphasis on computer based skills because so often that's what we are told we "should" master as a generation since it is the "future" instead of other skills that "will not be useful anymore" lt is so refreshing to find other people that also struggle with being scattered all around the place!! I don't have ADHD but I am interested in painting, drawing, photography, digital design, writing novels, reading fiction, fashion, study tube!!! Just this week I wanted to create 4 different social media accounts to share all of my 4 ideas that could become side hustles and I got so confused as to which one I should do first 😭
@ProgressiveYoruba
@ProgressiveYoruba 16 күн бұрын
Fashion design, filmmaking, Cultural art, Content creating and working in Tech 😅…This video came when I literally needed to hear it! My creative energy gets burnt out so quickly. I have learnt to find a central theme and this helps me perfectly juggle two interests.
@aishakandel9893
@aishakandel9893 14 күн бұрын
You speak so eloquently and elegantly, something I believe needs a lot of patience and self awareness. Goes to proof that the only way you can manage a different interests is PATIENCE, SELF AWARD AND FOCUS
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 12 күн бұрын
What a kind comment! Thank you ❤️
@Karlisa
@Karlisa 16 күн бұрын
Every time you post, you open my eyes to things I haven’t thought about & you remind us that everything we want is possible! Loved this❤
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 12 күн бұрын
Thank you!! ❤️
@adeebahmuhammad7727
@adeebahmuhammad7727 21 күн бұрын
literally SUCH a great video and i happened to find this at the perfect time. just started my 20s and figuring out what path i want to go down, but found that i have sooo many interests. it becomes really difficult trying to balance and grow them all continuously and it made me feel burnt out and almost paralyzed to do anything like you described. im going to use this video as a reference for the future and my journey and balancing my passions. thanks so much for this video :')
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 20 күн бұрын
You're so long and have so much ahead of you! Focus is important but use this time to explore and grow too ❤️
@aggroangel4478
@aggroangel4478 13 күн бұрын
I think this is absolutely beautiful to know there’s so many of us that want to do so many things. I don’t feel crazy anymore lol
@NalaBalenciaga
@NalaBalenciaga 15 күн бұрын
I have about a dozen passions/interests no lie lol I have no idea how imma manage them all and be come good in them all but I am!!!! I’m gonna make sure I set an attainable schedule that is to overwhelming and realistic.
@issasecret2365
@issasecret2365 14 күн бұрын
This video is so refreshing! It’s amazing to see multifaceted women articulate their interests and share tips for the soft life approach to it
@Jess-yp9fo
@Jess-yp9fo 13 күн бұрын
Like i literally manifested this video and it comfirmed so much. I was told most of these things but this gave me even more of a better understanding. Woooow
@msagameuponedayatatime3551
@msagameuponedayatatime3551 16 күн бұрын
Multi-passionite ?? Absolutely beautiful, that is when I knew I needed to subscribe you stated that word so eloquently❤😂😊
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 12 күн бұрын
Idk why it's not a "real" world tbh 😂
@laurenpetersen6233
@laurenpetersen6233 3 сағат бұрын
I loved this video. It's so true and felt so validating to say that you will have different seasons of your life that you focus on your passions. I like to paint with acrylic, paint markers, draw with alcohol markers, make bracelets with beads, make earrings out of clay and also small sculptures, along with doing some commission window painting and murals locally. So juggling it all can feel like a lot at times and that I'm not doing enough but really I just have a lot of different passions and interests I like to explore.. thank you for this perspective 🙏🏼I felt very seen.
@darkacademiavanessa
@darkacademiavanessa 8 күн бұрын
this channel just popped up on my recommended. WHAT A GOLD MINE. not just a woman of color about self improvement, but also one in tech, with a bunch of other interests like me! it's like your channel was made for me
@aggroangel4478
@aggroangel4478 13 күн бұрын
When you said the sims i literally was like my sims are great at a lot of things why can’t I in real life and I never wanted to do just one thing. People think I’m crazy when I say I do hair, im going to school for cybersecurity, I knit, etc I love doing things I don’t want to be stagnant
@iNekol
@iNekol 5 күн бұрын
Love finding people like me, thank you for this video! Finding balance and connection within your passions is key! I am a painter, active wear designer, podcaster, Content creator and the list goes on. I also work a 9-5 😩 and am a mom. There are times where I have to dedicate to a few things at a time and find balance.
@amermaidstudio
@amermaidstudio 14 күн бұрын
pet sitting, I wanted to do weeding and yard work during the day but realized thats too much, so now im just doing, house sit, drop ins and walking, and I dont have that then I do, all my other interests, dollhouse and miniature market vendor, honor system farm stand, Twitch and TikTok Live, one on one sessions, all my cozy crafting hobbies, gaming and nature out door hobbies, its a lot trying to manage me lol
@ofuchi
@ofuchi 12 күн бұрын
My university studies were in computer science and spanish with a minor in Studio Art. Every time a professor would ask me why, I told them it just made sense. I couldn't explain it then, but they seamlessly complimented one another. Having graduated, I am so grateful for not staying in one field because life is so much fuller this way. I just discovered you and from switching out of being a medical doctor to being in tech and loving oil paint, I finally understand it is possible. So thank you for being you
@Mona-LisaDi-Maccio
@Mona-LisaDi-Maccio 15 күн бұрын
I never usually write comments on KZbin videos but I just have to say this is a beautiful video Adama, I feel so seen! Also, the way you speak is so full of wisdom - very intelligent. Thank you💗
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 14 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! 🙏🏾
@sydneyparker883
@sydneyparker883 11 күн бұрын
Never would I have thought in a million years that I would come across, not only just the video, but a content creator that shares similar interests as me...from being an engineer... loving art...to Sims guru lol. The algorithm knew what it was doing because I am, as we speak, overwhelmed by all my passions and interests to the point that I choose to just work, sleep, repeat. Definitely loved this video!
@ZoeJoiel
@ZoeJoiel 19 күн бұрын
This is my first time coming across you. This video is so well put together. Absolutely lovely!
@animerage1862
@animerage1862 21 күн бұрын
This is really nice to hear, I've been so caught up in the "I am proficient in a lot but not good enough to make any of this a career and its all too stressful" that its been hindering and blindsiding me. When in actuality I have a lot of great skills to offer and I want to always dive into new things and that is ok, even if I live the "starving artist" lifestyle cause of it for a while, at least I get to have the wonderful experiences of learning a bunch of different passions and explore life in all it has to offer
@lovelydeedlight1448
@lovelydeedlight1448 11 күн бұрын
I am so happy I found someone like me❤ I am a candlemaker with special designs such as ice cream, frappe ect, health provider, and make homemade meals for cats and dogs. I forgot homemaker. I have to set my alarm at 4 a.m. and usually don't get to sleep until 11:00 at night. A lot of things I am not mentioning it makes me dizzy lol. I look at us as gifted people but at the same time a little overwhelming. I really thank the most high. I am grateful that you came to my page, I just subscribed and I will go back and look at other videos I think this will be good for me.❤
@TamiaDWade
@TamiaDWade 10 күн бұрын
This blessed me ❗️❗️❗️🙌🏾Girl deeper than you probably even know. I grew up being told Al of the time “You’re all over the place” because I truly couldn’t pick one thing at a time I was passionate about my gifts.
@secretscarlet8249
@secretscarlet8249 12 күн бұрын
I love your diction and clarity of way of speaking, makes the already-inspiring message even better!
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 12 күн бұрын
That’s very kind- thank you!
@raya4ya204
@raya4ya204 15 күн бұрын
When i say I dont think i have ever needed avideo more especially at this time!!! I am exactly the same, I have so many interests and passions that i am currently and always pursuing and I have been trying to find balance
@mkpetros
@mkpetros Ай бұрын
Loved this! I’ve been feeling overwhelmed by my goals but recently came to the conclusion that I need to focus on one or two and understand progress won’t be as quick for the others. This video provided the perfect affirmation and encouragement as a multi passionate creative 🫶🏾✨
@Swayla
@Swayla 16 күн бұрын
This video healed something in me. From the message to the relaxing jazz, I have never felt more calm and inspired. Thank you
@8notes_
@8notes_ 18 күн бұрын
No fancy editing needed but i listened through it all. Just an intelligent and informed lady speaking fluently. Love it!
@missfabidia
@missfabidia 2 күн бұрын
Love the idea of working with seasons ! Last season, I really focused my creativity on cooking with spices and perfume collection. This new season : I want to focus on fiction writing and jewellery design. And you are right, I can totally make the synergies and connections ❤
@crvstal2666
@crvstal2666 9 күн бұрын
i’ll be a junior in high school in the fall and i probably should figure my life out soon. i’ve had similar thoughts to this but it was just so overwhelming and i couldn’t really make sense of it, but this video genuinely helped me clear my mind and see things from a long term perspective, and not just choosing one path to take through life. thank you for this. (also you are STUNNING❤️)
@catharinemartins4830
@catharinemartins4830 19 күн бұрын
I work all day long and I don't have enough time to spend on my interests but there is one thing I did that might help others on the same situation: 1. I wrote almost EVERYTHING I was interested in at the moment 2. I separeted 4 of them I was most interested in 3. I put in a order of the least interested and the most interested (I know... This is difficult) 4. I planned a schedule in wich I would do all of those 4 every week For exemplo, I got piano, singing, learning idioms and exercising I have 1 hour in the mornig, 3 hours at night and my Sundays. I can exercise in the morning, at night I can Play the piano for 2 hours and a Half and Sing for 30 minutes. Also I can write at my journal about my day in the targed language and whatch something at the target language at the weekeend (English is one pf my target languages so I'm kind of studying now) Of course I wish I had more time to spend equally on all my hobbies, but I know it is not possible so I had to do this 21:19 Edit: If English is your first language, please feel at ease to correct my mistakes 😉
@user-wm9rg6ty3k
@user-wm9rg6ty3k 12 күн бұрын
Great tip , thank you
@lilacfields
@lilacfields 15 күн бұрын
sewing, crochet, gaming, art, writing, dance, language, skating, fashion, cooking, piano, singing. interested in all but i hate being bad at things so i don’t see through any of them. i’ve def attempted to do each of these things! but i always feel like i suck too bad and i just put it down and never continue.
@theofficialzuzi
@theofficialzuzi 13 күн бұрын
The way you think is not a hindrance is such an affirmation 🔥🔥 Stunningly put and so validating.
@only1dwill
@only1dwill Ай бұрын
I had to pause at 1:08! Girllll, I was addicted to “The Sims” all the way through my early 20’s as well! I think about how that life is like that game all the time!
@AdamaLorna
@AdamaLorna 24 күн бұрын
I was looking for my sims family with that one 😂
@sunshineysideoflife
@sunshineysideoflife 19 күн бұрын
I appreciate this video. Thank you for the efforts you've put into it.
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