Addict Wife Plans To Kill Husband

[@TheGuardianssorrow]

She's mad that he was getting evidence of her behavior. She's mad that her behavior is captured and she can't keep pretending she's a sane person.

[@summydog]

My exact thoughts 😂😂

[@warwarneverchanges4937]

He put hands on her when she ran twoards him attacking him after he retreats across the street, Im imagining he used the old RB straigt arm.

[@heisrisen7899]

Those women eat the grass at night.

[@Lisa-kf4iu]

It may be as simple as just being filmed. As someone that had an ex who would do that, it's very infuriating.

[@mikryan6567]

Sarcasticitly hi mum

[@Crazyathome24]

2:03 as a recovering addict I'm pretty confident that "glucose monitor" is code for "insulin syringes. " 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♀️

[@annjepsen1621]

I was thinking she wanted to meet up with her plug at Walgreens, but your answer makes more sense.

[@tobi_talks_2_much]

Good to know! I'm always glad when I find helpful advice in a random comment section. I got some friends I get a little worried about, and I didn't exactly grow up in or around that life, so I'm a little underprepared when it comes to knowing what could be dangerous, but I'm glad I know that now!

[@WompwompPI]

@@tobi_talks_2_muchif someone asks if you bang, say no, they’re asking if you inject drugs in your veins, or if they ask your friends and they say yes, you’ll know what they’re talking about

[@nathanielturner2577]

That actually explains her behavior!!

[@Gabetarazzo]

good point

[@Anna.T.]

“No I don’t want to spit the grass out!” She’s like a defiant child who is determined to do the most inconvenient thing just so they can disobey the authority 😂

[@Anthonybrother]

She was trying to bait them into getting their fingers bitten off. Of course, that won't work on someone who's not drugged tf up.

[@JustinWahlne]

It's also a desperate and pathetic attempt to gain some sort of control.

[@bubblingbubztheklown5902]

It sounds like something someone mentally ill would say 😢

[@YamiNoSensei13]

I have an 11 year old emotionally impaired student who does this exact thing

[@its-aydonus6842]

@@Anthonybrother Also could be trying to use the "I had dirt and grass in my mouth" excuse as evidence that the cops pushed her to the ground with force, which obviously they did not.

[@fayc3986]

The sister is nuts. The police officer is very patient and understanding. I worked for CPS for 15 years and this is a very typical encounter.

[@verandastritzinger7774]

Honestly felt like I was responding to a call

[@FormedUnique]

cps is awful and would say there isnt enough proof

[@2bunnies254]

I worked at a livestock auction many many years ago and there wasn't this much BS!

[@its-aydonus6842]

Also claiming the wifes children are her (sister) grandchildren, like the fudge is that about?

[@limner123]

I’m glad y’all recognize and bring attention to domestic violence against men. It’s not taken as seriously, and it’s outrageous. It’s hard to find organizations that will help men. I’m blessed to have never been in this situation, and I’m a chick, but I have eyes.

[@housewilma4904]

yep male ape and male domestics are so looked down on that there used as "jokes" on tv and media.

[@GrifoStelle]

I work with a DVP, the regular programs serve men and children. The men get their orders granted just as often as women, if not more. The problem is the guys don’t step forward nearly as often as they should. It’s a societal thing. An important issue is the question “were you afraid” or “did you think they were going to hurt you”? Men’s knee-jerk reaction is often to down play or deny, especially if she is much smaller. The problem: Menacing is defined by the aggressor knowing and and (in a reasonably apparent way) trying to provoke fear or fear of an imminent attack. Ie Eating something you’re deathly allergic to is fine. Finding out you’re allergic and saying or acting like I’m going to expose you to the allergens is menacing and is illegal. Also an extremely common example of DV. If the guys cover up and insist they were never worried, just vaguely annoyed, and the abuser probably didn’t know she was spooking him… Then the police have a hard time assuming menacing. I repeat for the tl;drs It is not only okay to admit when someone smaller than you is freaking you out but If you don’t let the police know that she put the fear of crazy in you… it’s VERY difficult to charge her. SPEAK UP, BOYS. If Depp can do it so can you! We’re here, hit up the DV programs

[@limner123]

@ Thank you for being part of the solution! People who understand in positions to help are important.

[@aethertoast4320]

Yeah, it honestly blew me away that they actually arrested the wife. For sure I was certain that even with all this evidence that she hand delivered to the cops that they were still gonna arrest him.

[@amberwillard3199]

​@@GrifoStelle 🎉🎉🎉🎉 As a woman who's gotten out of more dv situations than I'm proud to admit and I fully understand the impulse to down play how scared or hurt I was. I've spent my life feeling the need to make sure no one sees me as weak....looking back as a 37 year old adult I see the irony of that mind set and still being in nearly constant unsafe situations 🤦🏻‍♀️..... So I understand how men must feel when confronted with a situation that makes them vulnerable and puts their perceived masculinity in danger. I hope my son grows up to know abuse is abuse and he can always come to his parents for help if he doesn't feel up to going to the authorities. Men have rights too ❤

[@Kari0520]

I did not expect it to hit its peak when the sister showed up. She was making grass mouth seem normal. Holy cow.

[@kyrauniversal]

Literally, because that grass was being eaten like one.

[@lavendardust]

"She was making grass mouth seem normal." lol It's unbelievable.

[@mikesanders8621]

I'm at the grass mouth part now and I cannot imagine anyone making this lady seem normal.

[@20stardust]

The woman’s family have definitely watched WAY TOO MUCH true crime with their “hidden box in the woods” theory 🤣.

[@Catmandan42069]

Are thay sure it's a box in the woods and not a cabin

[@AshleyLake-m1z]

I lost it when she said a black box in the wood. LMAO

[@J.G_Hazel]

That’s what it sounded like! Thank you!

[@zarasbazaar]

I wonder if they've searched the woods endlessly, trying to find that imaginary box.

[@shadowlawx1]

The was episode 13, season 5 of NCIS

[@natashapowell9445]

Both my boyfriend and myself are domestic abuse survivors. We regularly surprise each other with how kind and understanding we are. When you become accustomed to gaslighting and violence, kindness and communication become a shock.

[@willowmoon3461]

I get that. After years of being in an abusive relationship, I’m finally in a loving and supportive relationship. Even after 2 years I still get caught off guard by kindness and respect at times

[@trashboat115]

A beautiful and rare connection, hope yall the best

[@Jarl3169]

That's so wholesome, pain can bring us together and make us better people, hell yeah!

[@eatmedrinkme689]

Same here... we both went through so much and then stayed single for a long time after. When we did finally meet we connected in the best way. I told him once I felt like we were brought together to finally have some peace after our rough journeys and he said he felt the same way. ❤ I'm happy for anyone who finds that type of peace.

[@badgerbane]

Met a girl at work about 6 years ago. We started dating, I'd just come out of a very controlling relationship. After about 3 months of us seeing each other we moved in together (circumstances called for us both to leave where we currently resided so we thought we might as well move together and see if it works). One day another girl I'd been chatting to online messaged me on discord when my phone was on the table, I was cooking and my girlfriend was sat at the table talking to me. She looked at the phone, saw a girl had texted me, got up, passed me the phone without questioning anything, and carried on talking to me. I was shocked. Asked her a few days later (she had completely forgotten about it) and she just shrugged and said 'if I didn't trust you I wouldn't be here, dumbass'. Got married to her 2 years ago. She's never stopped trusting me for a second, and I've never broken thst trust. Still amazed at what being with a 'reasonable' person feels like sometimes.

[@katrabbit]

I'm a child of a mother exactly like this. My dad had custody of my brother and I when I was 6 because my mom acts like _this_ My mothers family also acted like hers. But my maternal grandma... My grandma launched a HATE campaign against my dad when he got custody. It took me as a child looking her in the eye and telling her my mother had left me alone in multiple trap houses with strangers throughout my entire childhood. My dad tried to get her help. My brother and I begged her to get treatment over the years. It took 4 jail stints for drug possession and assault for her to finally have enough time sober to get her mind right. Sort of. But I was already 24/25 when that happened. And she still hangs around the same kinds of people. Which is a big no-no in recovery. Because of that, I haven't had a conversation with her in almost 10 years. I honestly hope this woman gets help while her kids still have hope. When I lost that hope I stopped caring whether my mom was sober or not... I made myself numb to it... and her. It's a weird kind of grief after you mourn someone still alive. It feels like she left a long time ago

[@NO.NAME83]

I wish you the best for today and for always. ❤️

[@topazfire974]

Yeah I stayed with my mother for years because my father and my stepmother was kind of abusive to me and they try to smear my mother's name by calling her a bad mother but she had 2 jobs and 3 kids to raise without any help so I perfectly know what you're going through .

[@V10lette579]

I went through the EXACT same thing with my father. It is a weird kind of grief and when he did die, that was also weird. I felt ashamed because I wasn’t really sad. I was kinda of mad, he never tried to be a part of our life and then I found out he hated us, my brother and I. I’m baffled as to why he held hatred towards his two children who he walked out on when I was 10 and my brother was 8. I found that out from my half sister who found us after he died. He had done the same thing to her but, they reunited and were on good terms when he passed away in his sleep from a drug overdose.

[@candiebe3193]

Sounds like your family needed you. And you left her.

[@katrabbit]

@@candiebe3193 You almost had me... But then I remembered you're a stranger on the internet. Your opinion isn't based on factual knowledge of the situation or what happened in my family for over 20 years. Have a good one!

[@randomuser3555]

I was in an abusive relationship once. As a man it is REALLY hard to talk to police about it. This happened to me in the 1990's. Suffice it to say that the police were looking at me with a look of sympathy and just... pity that made me ashamed about letting a little woman beat me with a pan. It makes you feel weak and pathetic. I never did speak up, and she never ONCE was charged. Glad to see things are improving for abused and threatened men in the old USA. Got a great life now with 4 sons, who in turn now have their own families. I hope that woman gets help.

[@captaingramcrackergrams5990]

Hell I had a buddy who was physically and emotionally abused by his at the time. Girlfriend when he finally had enough and called the police on her.... They arrested him and let her stay in his apartment that she didn't even live in. Guess what? She stole anything valuable and destroyed everything else in the apartment. She got a fine. He spent a weekend in jail for no kidding grabbing her wrist after she repeatedly punched him in the face and busted him open as a way to get her to stop hitting him. Craziest part is there was a room full of witnesses who testified to the police on his behalf, including multiple people who recorded it and he still was the one who was arrested and then people wonder why men don't come forward because more often than not, they're the ones punished, not the abuser

[@randomuser3555]

@@captaingramcrackergrams5990 Yup, this sounds about right!

[@SchindlersFiist]

I'm sorry you had to deal with that. There are good women out there and I hope you found one. God bless😊

[@machiavelliandcheese]

Biting the ground while getting arrested is hilarious- also the black box in the woods?? Girl go find it 😂

[@nonameimpotantlive9233]

Voldemort and hes horucuxes

[@joshuadovahkiin3054]

🤣 that part had me rollin, then goes all into him being a porn addict🤣🤣. WTH is you on ma'am!? 😖

[@caseydixon4763]

She's a cereal killer, lol.

[@austinparmer3259]

Truly a heinous crime 😂

[@enchanted_blue9807]

Best comment of the day

[@Shannon-vv6rr]

Captain Crunch is crying and shitting rn 😂

[@stevenalexander6713]

I knew I wouldn't be the first one to make this comment.

[@greengramma4879]

​@@stevenalexander6713same. Darn. Thought it the second I heard it.

[@kayiugh]

Holy hell, I've never been this early. "She has that I smoke meth hair" 😭😂

[@kenjones9326]

Resident Evil Seven Mia lookin' @$$ mef mouf broad!

[@evolveyourself9518]

What is 'I smoke meth hair?'

[@GDKF0238]

Tumbleweed hair. Unconditioned for several eons

[@WompwompPI]

@@GDKF0238shut up 🤣 that was funny

[@LILBEAN257]

@@evolveyourself9518I believe is someone that does drugs doesn’t wash their hair or sum

[@April-t6z]

He's been called a B too many times by her to admit he's afraid. It's a mental block at this point

[@PrincessKeys9256]

Them being so careful with their wording is very much so beneficial and important to his case. We can only ask so many and very direct questions without a lawyer twisting it.

[@Call_Em_Yall]

Just FYI - You don't have to have a prescription for a glucose monitor. -Your friendly neighborhood Pharmacy Tech.

[@Stormageddon81]

I was going to say this, lol

[@h0rriphic]

Maybe he meant it wasn’t covered by their flex account, and since she doesn’t have a prescription that calls for one they will have to pay out of pocket? Although, i think most FSA/HSA do cover them…

[@cookiedoe6068]

This. You can get them at Walgreens without even talking to anyone in pharmacy lol

[@Spooky_Platypus]

You used to have to have one. And if you want it covered by insurance, I am relatively sure you still do need one. That could have changed too. 🤷🏻‍♀️ ~Your 40 year old retired CPhT 😊

[@lone6718]

Medicaid and Medicare require a prescription for glucose meters. I have been through this with my parents. Especially if the patient has full coverage, a prescription and doctor’s recommendations are required as well as constant testing through your doctor’s office to create the paper trail to prove that said treatment is necessary. Since most elderly people on Medicaid do not have a steady AND abundant income they need the maximum medical coverage they can get. It also means you have to fight for medical equipment and/or medications far longer then if you had private insurance or could pay out of pocket. As the glucose monitoring patches/apps were gaining in availability mom’s doctor decided to file the appropriate recommendations, reasons for said recommendations, and the prescription needed for my mom to get one. 6 months, it took 6 months before we got the letter say she was approved. Mom had died almost 2 months prior. The monitor wouldn’t have been this huge life saving item, but it definitely would have improved her comfort. Just because something is obtainable without a prescription doesn’t mean a prescription isn’t needed.

[@zerobalanceadventures1778]

Boy these sisters got all the behind the scenes accusations that they couldn’t possibly know but are 100% sure of.

[@ashleynicole333]

😂😂😂

[@kitkatboard]

"Yeah we know our brother in law has been locking her away and drugging her against her will for one year and a half and we did nothing about it :)"

[@andiward7068]

That's known as 100% / 0% Absolutely certain with zero percent proof.

[@NerdyHippy]

@@andiward7068 Makes me wonder if he can possibly take them to court for defamation. I doubt it, but I wouldn't mind seeing the loony sister get her comeuppance for falsifying that much.

[@dollartreetankgirl]

I'm a cook at a county jail and this woman sounds exactly like a lot of the women we have in house right now. We have several ladies whose own children have no-contact orders in place. The excuses and just the way they speak...like I'm flashing back to today's meal pass LOL

[@Sniperboy5551]

I would love to have a job like that. I worked at McDonalds for a while and was the only guy who could talk sense into people when they were acting up, I’d *LOVE* to get some county jail stories even if the pay is shit.

[@dollartreetankgirl]

@Sniperboy5551 oh the stories are great! Pay is pretty damn good too but I'm sure that depends on the company

[@Infodumptruck]

The ones that are slick enough to stay out of jail are even worse

[@dollartreetankgirl]

@Infodumptruck right? Cuz they're just smart enough to get away with it, which is scary enough but it also gives them more confidence to attempt worse and worse stuff

[@Gengar-Gang]

Oh Lord I used to be a guard at the county jail and women like her make me lose hope

[@Banned4Life]

The little black box in the woods is where he keeps those saucy Sears catalogues from 1977 to fuel his crippling addiction.

[@andiward7068]

I mean, "woods porn" is a well known phenomenon. Random drug stashes, not so much.

[@its-aydonus6842]

@@andiward7068 Yeah a guy eager for a jerkin will hunt down that magazine with federal agency like accuracy. Imagine trying to remember where you put a single black box in the woods and then get out again because you're tripping. (Guaranteed an opioid addict wouldn't wait til they were out of the forest for their hit).

[@abbie_joan]

bro her sisters are convinced that their precious sister is a prize worth stealing when she's really just a rabid raccoon shoved into a taped up box

[@Jay_Mc_Baby]

And you know what her husband injected 💉 her with the rabies

[@tomjay-i5j]

That's hilarious 😂

[@AydenSalem]

"I don't wanna bite you" is crazy 🤣

[@Pocket_Pyro]

Crazy lady: “I don’t wanna bite you!” Also her: *proceeds to eat grass, without hesitation.*

[@Anthonybrother]

When you always sucked at strategy games:

[@raineivy5091]

😂😂😂​@@Pocket_Pyro

[@Shenn3165]

Paramedic here, this was years ago, but I had a domestic call where the female jumped on the BF back and started hitting him in the face, he was able to get her off of himself, but she was hurt in the process. While we had her in the back and was assessing her vitals she asked if we had the test. We were very confused and asked what she was talking about, she said she wanted a drug test, so she could get her children back! People are nuts!

[@bumpkin.7778]

“Listen to me” absolutely pissed me off

[@danthemankhan]

Ten bucks says she has a "I back the blue" bumper sticker.

[@emilyhubbard137]

My guess is that she wanted to go to Walgreens to get needles but obviously she can't say "hey take me to Walgreens to buy needles" or else he wouldnt take her. So she made up a story about wanting a glucose meter lmao

[@galeforce3192]

Even if you can buy a glucose monitor over-the-counter, that does sound like a BS excuse for something else. I didn't know you could buy those OTC until I saw comments here saying that you could, so I'm not surprised that the guy in the video didn't know.

[@brittroberds5500]

If there is a “black box” he’s hiding in the woods it’s for storing documents and memory cards and evidence in case she decides to burn the house down one day.

[@dylanparrott8347]

Cop: spit out the grass The woman: *NOOOOO*

[@1WEareBUFO1]

The grass eating was wild. Maybe that's where she keeps a stash 😅

[@lovelyangelxxx]

me 8 min in reading this…. HOW does it get to this level 😭😭

[@trashboat115]

​@@lovelyangelxxxonly a dumbass would read comments before finishing

[@Caffeinated_Acrobat]

She identifies as livestock

[@trashboat115]

@@Caffeinated_Acrobat ☠️

[@Fun.Guy.Forager]

😂😂after the cop was done listening to this 15 minutes of bashing this man. Cop puts his hand out "you have to give the kids back" he is probably thinking this lady is not fit to take care of the kids.

[@HIPsteHeero]

I swear, these two women are writing some crazy novel while high on drugs themselves, and they just confused this guy with their main antagonist. That is the only explanation taht makes sense.

[@k1tt3z98]

LMAOO

[@alb91878]

Qanon queens!!! The both of them! Good Lord! Black box on a chain, taking the long route in the legal system, porn addiction, drugging sister, secret insurance, Fox News buzx word this, and Newsmax buzz word that! Jesus! They're all taking the same drugs, three the of them!

[@ScarletAngleGaara]

They sound like my NPD parents. These type of people always sound insane and unhinged when you attempt to tolerate being in a forced conversation with them. They just say the stupidest shit while constantly insulting you and then trying to gaslight you into thinking you’re the crazy one for not understanding their sheer insanity. It’s beyond exhausting when they try to force conversations on you because of how irrational and utterly unhinged they are. I was forced to come back to my abusive parents so forced conversations like this are happening again as I repeatedly walk away, tell them to go away, and lock the door so they can’t get to me. Just watching this made me feel tired because I know how utterly drained and annoying these lunatics are.

[@HIPsteHeero]

@@ScarletAngleGaara Yeah, I know exactly what you mean, I've had to deal with people like this as well.

[@alb91878]

@@ScarletAngleGaara oh good lord I am so sorry I hope you're able to get away from them again soon. I really hate that for you and other people that have to go through this s***! I just don't understand why family just can't either love you or leave you alone. Pick one. Don't be horrible and toxic and abusive and God knows what else and then force yourself into people's lives. Jesus!

[@ranggasetya1984]

when touching grass wasn't enough lmao

[@katiehagan2066]

The reason they ask and clarify so much in dv cases is because often the parter changes their mind and say you didn't have reason to arrest them so its to cover their buts

[@Linda91952]

The grass is for her glucose ☠️🤣

[@Sniperboy5551]

That would actually make sense, since pica (eating inedible things) is correlated with malnutrition. I’d assume she’s withdrawing from opioids since that causes nausea, vomiting, diarrhea and a loss of appetite along with agitation and irritability. She probably hasn’t eaten in a while so everything looks appetizing to her. That or she actually just wanted to go buy syringes for her “diabetes” and not a glucose monitor.

[@IDpeaceBOA46]

My husband was in an abusive relationship for FIVE YEARS because no one saw how much he needed help and did nothing when it was evident he needed help. I think this is what happens in a society without gender equality. People think men should just “man up and take it” but the truth is, if you’re being abused YOU SHOULD HAVE resources to turn to. The fact that men have so few resources and support for domestic abuse is devastating cause no one should have to tolerate this kind of behavior from a partner, friend, or anyone.

[@aristobrat4987]

why meth use and addiction in women isnt taken serious i have no idea. my step mom was a pill addict and abused us horribly. ive honestly seen more abusive women get away with it on a truly grand scale because of this. for whatever reason because of how brains work and because a womans fists just cant do the same damage a mans can , drug addiction to meth and other hard substances in women isnt even taken serious. my meth addicted mother got custody of me until it was proven she just didnt want to quit. she grabbed me by the shouders and shook me and blamed me for why she lost custody ! oh but thats just women ! just crazy !! women being delusionally psychotic is NOT NORMAL and im tired of that being how people think

[@hannahs3981]

Well I think being a true man in an abusive situation would be to man up and stand up to the abuser, not by hitting back but by getting law enforcement involved. In my opinion "man up and take it" is meant for other situations, like work/war etc

[@nuviretto]

It's mind-boggling how very few media exists in general that care enough to cover these topics, while the "man up" shtick is everywhere. Kids pick up on that mindset at a very young age because it's just.... accepted as the "norm". And it's sickening. Unhealthy. (kinda offtopic?) I only learned how to let go of that toxic "be a man" mindset when I watched Jojo's Bizarre Adventure of all things during COLLEGE, where masculine men were shown to cry and ask for help in a healthy manner. It's hard to let go of this toxic mindset when you barely see things that actively contradict it.

[@mambutuomalley2260]

@@hannahs3981 I know too many men that were in just that situation and actually sought help from law enforcement just to have the woman involved spin up a story which was instantly believed. It sadly goes A LOT deeper than just a man being willing to ask for help.

[@0tterMom]

​@@hannahs3981 oftentimes the police will make fun of men who call them on their abusive wives. Other times, their wives are manipulative and can twist it around to make it seem like she's the victim when the police show up. There are very legitimate reasons why men have a hard time calling police for domestic abuse.

[@BAValliere]

As a recovering addict, no one is responsible for your addiction but you. Small edit: I don’t mean addiction is our fault, but it is our responsibility to overcome it.

[@austinparmer3259]

Well said friend 👏👏👏

[@Mashy8722]

As one as well, I TOTALLY agree! One of the first steps in getting better is taking accountability.

[@jamphire_]

I hope you fully recover Godspeed

[@k-chan4842]

Depends on the situation. When I had 3rd degree burns from a house fire at age 16 I could very easily have fallen into an addictive cycle just like multiple of my friends did after an injury they were prescribed oxys for. My self-control didn't save me, my oxy-induced constipation did.

[@mattmingo7694]

Yo...Truth. Im in AA for a reason. Alcohol ruined my life MANY times because I CHOSE to drink that SH*T. 'Nuff said.

[@hollygallapoo5812]

Rehab is voluntary. You can leave rehab at any time. Even if you commit a crime and the court sends you to treatment you can still leave. You will go to jail when you get caught but you can leave rehab. So no your husband cannot make you go to rehab. He can have you committed to a mental health facility if your having symptoms of a severe mental illness but not Rehab.

[@dezert956]

My mother acted just like this. It was a combination of Crack, BPD, and NPD.

[@Anibunny]

Being in a family with an addict is. . .something. One of my therapists used the Karpman Triangle to help explain the dynamic of my situation. You have an addict and their enablers. The addict will lean on the enablers and do so by playing a victim to earn sympathy and get something they need. You might tell your mother or sister that your husband is keeping food away from you so you need money for help. "Wait, why aren't you going to the police." He took my phone! If the enablers try to do anything other than what the addict wants (They want money, but you are offering to actually get help), they turn around and begin attacking the enabler. It would NOT surprise me if this woman is also abusive toward her mother and sister. In some situations, this is why enablers become so desperate to pacify the addict that they will even rush to the defense of the addict at the drop of a hat. Because if they don't. . .they will be put through hell. When you are in this dysfunctional dynamic, everyone just wants to get to the "status quo." The addict is using and everyone else is minding their own business. It sucks and it is rough to be someone in this situation who finally says "Enough is enough." And when enablers only have a skewed version of the story, it becomes infuriating. When I finally broke free of my family dysfunction, I had relatives I hadn't even spoken to calling me and emailing trying to pressure me to apologize to the addict. They all had no idea what I had been putting up with, they just had a very upset and angry addict calling and messaging ALL of them. It's rough. I am really happy to see this man making an effort to protect himself in addition to the children. I think that men, sadly, feel additional pressure to stay in abusive and/or unhealthy situations because they don't want to seem (or feel) weak, don't know how to ask for help, or believe they can fix the situation even at the sacrifice of their own mental health.

[@malooskitty9124]

Can I ask how can you help a child with an addict father and an enabler mom? How do u break this dynamic? P.s. Child services don't exist where I live.

[@katesear7631]

Well done for putting yourself first and escaping, you definitely made the right choice as you deserve a good life. I know it's hard because my father's an abusive alcoholic, I cut contact 6 months ago and although it's hard I know I had to protect myself. Stay strong, I wish you a wonderful life ❤

[@housewilma4904]

yep living with one myself right now who found her golden ticket to never getting kicked out getting her own 70 year old mother addicted to eroimn and eth. making her now so dependant on her she will defend her from anything. including accusing said grandma husband for cheating telling a uicial person to off themselves duing a breakdown "me" stealing said grandmas money and even saying unforiviable shitte like "i hope your kid daughter gets APd". when people dont jump to her commands in silence.

[@faefiercevulpine6990]

I’ve lived with an addict for extensive time (i am dependent and begged for my mom to NOT LET HER STAY WITH US) and it’s hell on earth. The screaming, the anger, the EXTREME PARANOIA, the “meth hair,” oh my god. Druggies think they’re so sneaky about it too when they’re not. The rambling and psychosis, the manipulation. Strange people coming around, and oh my god she was ALWAYS, ALWAYS on the phone. Always angrily contacting someone, always feigning for pills and meds and god knows what else. It got to a point i started carrying a knife on me and looking around corners for her. And i’ll never forgive that my mom exposed me to that by allowing her to stay even tho she herself hated the whole experience!

[@melisenx]

my unfortunate childhood life, never could bring friends over and was always asked why

[@faefiercevulpine6990]

Yikes, that’s painful! I was an adult by the time my bs happened. Hoping you’ve found healing ❤️‍🩹

[@crappyaccount]

why did she let someone like that move in in the first place? cant wrap my head around it

[@Caffeinated_Acrobat]

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I've struggled with addiction and mental health myself and while I never got anywhere near this bad, I still did things and behaved in ways that I am now ashamed of. I also used to think (while in active addiction) that people treated drug abuse like it's a bigger deal than it is, but I now see that it at best kills the best parts of people and at worst makes people evil.

[@Caffeinated_Acrobat]

​@@crappyaccount Addicts are extremely manipulative

[@Juggler1525]

I'm from the Bible Belt, and it might shock some and surprise no one, but there are tons of people like this. Unfortunately I have experience with them. One friend of mine just didn’t want this girl he cared deeply about out on the streets, and she gladly accepted a place to lay her head. Feelings cross, and before you know it, her issues exist because of him. He "wasn't a real man" who couldn't "keep his woman in line". "I'm hurtin', I need help, and you won't lift a finger to help me. What are you doing with me if you ain't gonna help?" She'd say. He asked, "What do you expect me to do? You're a grown woman." She said, "You see me acting a fool, drag me back home. By my hair if need be!" ....Needless to say, it was a bad situation, and sorely not the least. Had another friend get hooked on H with her boyfriend because she couldnt get him to stop, and didnt want to leave him. In her mind it was, "I don't want him to die, I really don’t want him to die alone, and I don't want leave him because I'm all he has." As silly as this video was, it brought back some memories that are tragic. Real, and unfortunately, common.

[@lemissa1]

oh my god, im a very liberal Canadian from a super progressive area, my Ex was from the bible belt and I was SO shocked that these people were real, it was actually inconceivable that this was real life to me, i had never met anyone like this in my life

[@gremlininblue2601]

It's so hard being an actual christian in the bible belt because you're surrounded by people who will call themselves christians all while going against everything God actually teaches in favor of being hateful people who twist verses from a book they've probably never read to let themselves lie to themselves about being awful people to everyone who isnt just like them. It's depressing.

[@dubyabalthazar4598]

I've seen this all the time n I'm ALWAYS perplexed how men get with and STAY with these women and GO BACK TO these women. It's actually insane. I talked to this one guy and went on a couple dates with him... he told me his ex was crazy n they were going thru a divorce n she accused him of s.a.-ing his daughter, they went thru the whole investigation of it all... I guess long story short, he stopped talking to me "cuz he was scared of how much he liked me" only to get back together with that ex n got her pregnant again, 😂😂..they separately shortly after that.

[@nyphira]

@@gremlininblue2601maybe instead of shitting on them and saying theyre not really christian, putting yourself on a pedestal, try to realize that maybe something is wrong in the christian community. It says a lot about a group when in different places where they gather, theres issues that turn into addiction and dv etc

[@journeehyde9128]

My mom is very much like this. Always the victim. Always blaming others. Always begging for help she doesn't need. Addicted to klonopin. Mental issues and refuses help. I had to cut contact with her and now she's stalking me. The Bible belt breeds crazies

[@ritawashere5787]

"I don't want to spit the grass out", I'm dead.😂😂😂

[@lanaesworld6976]

I have never seen an addict be able to successfully convince her family the most crazy excuses.

[@rayne1213]

These two women created a back story straight from life of luxury. Just waiting to see Chester peaking around a bush or something.

[@warwarneverchanges4937]

Shes tha type of woman who belives anything as long as it comes from another woman. He started her on opioids cause she wanted a divorce, and then hid in the basement lol and trying to get out

[@Hippiechick11]

I just thought that too!

[@Lostouille]

​@@Hippiechick11 they should replace the holywoods writers. They can do better than them 😂😂😂

[@1WEareBUFO1]

She's the demon, and there's a docile version of her trapped in the basement.

[@harley4230]

Don’t you bring our boy into this lol (Puts on sunglasses)

[@audreybossman8369]

They totally sell glucose monitors without a prescription. I watched this about a month ago. That lady is fucking nuts. It goes weeeeeeelllllll beyond not just bringing her to the store.

[@richards8872]

Yeah I get them every few months because I have hypoglycemia but I never have to have a prescription to get them

[@audreybossman8369]

@@richards8872 I’m super happy that folks like you are able to get them at a fair price without having to go to the doctor. Even though I don’t have diabetes, I see ads all the time for the new fancy smart ones that one just has to go to the website and order them.

[@zarasbazaar]

We have them in our veterinary clinic and we don't need the doctor to write a prescription for us to buy them.

[@kelleythomas303]

it depends on how old this recording actually is.. a while back you had to have prescriptions in certain states to get the lancets and strips, not the device itself.. but it looks too recent for that

[@koumoridroid]

Late reply, but I was wondering if they might be referring to a continuous glucose monitor (CGM), like FreeStyle Libre. Pretty sure Walgreens carries those and they are still Rx only.

[@jjcall5931]

It sounds like her mother never held her accountable for her actions and continues to do that. Make excuses for her daughter and blames everyone for shifty behavior.

[@Anthonybrother]

Worse, her mother is why she's like that.

[@stacimarie2294]

You can't blame her mother she is a damn grown ass women

[@rebecca_____]

Boooo always the mom gets the blame 🙄

[@SeleneBeatty]

This is sooo SAD ON SO MANY LEVELS.

[@corvinredacted]

My ex started using cocaine and developed paranoid delusions. The way all three of these ladies are completely oblivious to how bizarre their own behavior is reminds me strongly of my ex's behavior. And anyone who doesn't side with them gets labeled corrupt or "in on it" because everything is just so obvious in their mind that nobody could be honestly unconvinced.

[@TheIlluminatedartist]

I love these longer videos, especially when they are featuring unhinged people. The channel you're watching is great for drama at an arms length.

[@lizzieros1323]

Every new upload of body cam footage, I can't help but think "alright, what version of intoxicated human trash are we getting today!?" Love your content Ken & Dane, always makes me smile!

[@victoriawilliams2786]

I feel so bad for that dude. I hope his situation has improved and the kids are doing much better too.

[@auger8451]

Her surgery must have been a labotomy gone wrong

[@TheFUSense]

so a labotomy

[@maddyc2412]

A lobotomy gone right

[@auger8451]

@@maddyc2412 i think mot cause that b gone crazy

[@auger8451]

@@TheFUSense yall dont know what a labotomy is do you? A labotomy is supposed to correct certain mental illnesses. Basically making them more calm. This did not

[@TheFUSense]

@@auger8451 and you seem to not know that 1. this was a joke 2. labotomys never worked as they were supposed to and just made people a veggy

[@Craig_Spurlock]

It was so fun listening to the officer get invested in the story. It was like "and what did he do next?"

[@marinerouffaud1828]

It's nice to have the whooooole story, that way when you ask her again, if it's lies, she'll have one hell of a hard time remembering all the lies, and it will be easy to prove it was all BS

[@MushroomMayhem]

OMG her sounding like a South Park character was so friggin accurate 😂

[@laragirl84]

“Do you have anything on you?” Just a little bit of grass. 😂😅😂

[@publicserviceannouncement4777]

Book 'em boys!!!

[@bobbriggs9748]

That woman has committed a cereal offence. 😂😂😂

[@austinparmer3259]

It's so she can eat the grass instead 😅

[@notsure1969]

A cereal offender indeed.

[@iStarlit]

I'm so glad someone finally found and is reacting to this gem of a bodycam. I thought it was wild how they claim he has her on opiods and all this nonsense Then say "oh she has oxy but she only takes half a tablet" As if she would admit to taking 3 or 4 tablets at a time lmfao

[@Peekaboo6969]

Fun little update the 2 ladys got arrested a month ago for drug paraphernalia(proably needles)and meth and a suspended licenses

[@southernxbelle1993]

Dane looked so concerned when she said she didn't wanna spit the grass out. This is hilarious. 😂

[@kenziebentleyyy]

Law enforcement is a BIG part of my life and you'll absolutely lose your mind and go crazy if you don't make light of it like this. It gets heavy if you aren't careful so these videos are just my favorite ones you make. Please never stop making these, Ken. You and Dane make the crazies we deal with a little bit funnier!!

[@tiffanykasadara475]

I like to wait before watching police videos. I love the commentary from you guys!

[@drummergurl99]

12:23 wow I have never heard such an on point vocalization of what dogs think “I don’t wunna spit the grass out :( “

[@StinkyKey]

Crazy how addiction can ravage through an entire family. I can't be convinced that the sister isn't also using in some form the way she's acting and her conspiracy theories on how the husband is somehow in the wrong.

[@stewpidasso3910]

You wouldn't happen to have a secret crush on her husband would you?

[@Mashy8722]

I agree. As an addict who’s been clean for 7 yrs, the sister is giving addict mentality as well

[@tiffaniarmstrong5930]

I'm confused why she said she's the aunt but calls the kids her grandbabies

[@Orquet-qj2nf]

To a certain extent. I thought my husband was abusive because he was an alcoholic. Nope. Turns out he was an alcoholic because he was abusive. He was very self-indulgent. I'm sure addictions change people, but sometimes they don't. In the question of what came first, the abuse or the addiction, I think this is another case of addiction because of abuse.

[@TsunamiKitten56]

??? ​@@stewpidasso3910

[@lina9535]

9:39 When Ken said that, my brain went straight to Thomson and Thomson from Tintin 😂

[@taylorp535]

THE “HE WONT TAKE ME TO THE STORE” GOT ME 😂😂😂😂 but on a serious note I really really hope she gets the help she needs for her addiction. It is NOT EASY TO GET CLEAN FROM OPIOIDS, I know a lot of people who have over come opioid addiction but it takes a LOT of work and it is up to the person to want to do the work to get clean. I really hope she starts the work to get clean ❤

[@Brounshugavision]

Ken’s laughter made this 10x funnier 😂😂😂 “I don’t wanna spit the grass out”🤣🤣🤣

[@starstarr3739]

She said she’s gonna take the locks off the doors because she afraid of him 😂 wouldn’t you want more locks then

[@Sebastian-Draegon]

She wants to take the locks off so that she can invite someone in and murder him to make it look like someone just broke in or something probably. It really sounds like a conspiracy to murder, if there's no locks then anyone can come in so she doesn't have to do the murder herself. Just a guess though

[@academyjason]

Man this is why Sarah Connor went to the Asylum in Terminator 2:Judgement Day

[@vapingmonkey2529]

I thought the same exact thing when I saw her

[@DJCinthaBoy]

Instead of fighting Skynet she’s fighting meth demons

[@rose_allie]

Yesssss I rewatched this recently hahahaha it so is

[@trashboat115]

​@@DJCinthaBoy☠️

[@TheDuchessFox]

"She'll be eating dirt after that" I didn't know Ken had the gift of prophecy

[@SanchiraVanity]

It's like dealing with a toddler, "spit it out" nooo "spit it out"

[@Mike-k2m7r]

Watching this on the train, and one of the train cops recognized Buff's laugh, and told me she's a big fan too

[@C-Unit97]

Use Headphones ffs

[@gooeyglitterygirlygutzz]

@@C-Unit97well I don’t use headphones because I don’t wanna get kidnapped but ok. 😂😂 I always play everything on one bar, or most times simply play nothing at all. If everybody else is wearing headphones, why does it matter if I do or not? 🙄

[@loustancu3480]

Homie just admitted to being "that guy" on the train 🤣

[@Mike-k2m7r]

@@C-Unit97 would have loved to, but I got jumped the day before and apparently they were in the market for some new ones, which is why I was on the train, headed to the mall

[@C-Unit97]

​@@Mike-k2m7r and that makes playing a video through your speakers ok because of what? You don't have any headphones? Sucks. Does not give you any right to be obnoxious towards everyone around you.

[@alatussimp420]

“As long as he don’t step to me” to your spouse is wild. I hope this man can heal the way he needs to. And I hope anyone in this situation will know it’s never okay. If your partner loved you they’d never say something like that to you, treat you like that. You deserve better and more. Please get out before it’s too late.

[@justsomeone9054]

We all know what's going to happen though.

[@ZeallustImmortal]

Imagine a man talking like that, they wouldve tased em

[@harley4230]

Yeah I hope the husband and kids are ok and away from this. This is insane.

[@anonymouscommentor411]

It's also probably indicative of how she would treat her kids too. If she has no issue beating he husband, I can't see her drawing a line when it comes to her kids. Absolutely degenerate behavior.

[@TechnomancerTheWise]

The way they were asking that man those particular questions they’re most definitely building a case against the woman here

[@RGBeanie]

Getting video/audio evidence is the best thing a guy can do. Nobody tends to believe the guy. Speaking from experience here. Had the same thing with the exs family siding with their daughter even in the face of video evidence. I get standing by family, but there is a point where you *should* be like, "oh shit we were wrong"

[@3LayerdDip]

The little black box was a twist I wasn't ready for😂😭

[@beautifullyanimatedspeaks3301]

Why does he lock himself in the basement. What if Crazy decided, "Fuck it, Imma burn the house down with him in it." 🤷🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀

[@malooskitty9124]

Don't give her ideas! 😅

[@gothicfairy2407]

Most likely so that he can't be accused of house abandonment. Unfortunately, even in abusive and otherwise toxic situations, in many states and cases for custody/divorce, if one party leaves the home it is considered abandonment and that counts negatively towards that party. Lowers the chances of retaining the property, makes custody more difficult, etc.

[@beautifullyanimatedspeaks3301]

@@malooskitty9124 Right. My bad. 🤣🤣🤣

[@beautifullyanimatedspeaks3301]

@@gothicfairy2407 Oh yeah. That’s so true. Thank you for your comment. I appreciate the info. ❤️‍🔥

[@ktsmttt3174]

They also might have a door to the outside in the basement (like a storm door or its own entrance/exit).

[@LonewolfKhujo]

That scream at the beginning was wild

[@jvanausdeln]

This has been helping me on my depression journey. Thanks gentlemen.

[@LoreF.]

Good luck bro on your journey, one day it will pass and things will get better.

[@greengramma4879]

​@LoreF. That's very kind of you. And Jacob, me too! I'm dealing with grief right now and this had me laughing so hard, I forgot for a few. 😅

[@elenan8505]

Good luck!! Each day you will get better at coping with it, and depression will only be a part of you, instead of your entire existence (that was the case for me at least)

[@indecutink]

Biting the grass was her last attempt of her having control over the situation 😂😂

[@DaHolyCanadian]

Im glad Ken hasnt given up KZbin yet, he always has the most common sense approach to anything

[@desertsunshine]

These 30-minute videos are my jam! 🎉🎉 thanks for all the hard for my dudes!

[@chasespeelman4209]

Throwing the captain crunch on the car will take the paint off boy 😂that tears the roof of my mouth up 😂😂😂😂

[@dreadedstill]

FOR REALLLLL

[@justinchapman5774]

How much memory does her phone have, geez shes scrolling through it for like 20 minutes looking for the assault video. That cop has alot of patience listening to both of them crazy ladies what a waste of his time

[@ChimeraGirl_]

Imagine how the kids must feel and what they're going through in all this mess... Poor kids, man. I hope they're alright.

[@fancydeer]

it would be so scary and confusing to have a mom who is going through active addiction and is fighting with your dad like that. plus what would she be saying/doing to the kids? so sad. I hope they're okay and the dad can get custody

[@ayoayo1044]

​@@fancydeer not only a mom like that but crazy aunts keeping you from your dad.

[@jontevalera5899]

As a Walgreens pharmacy technician PLEASE do NOT send her here 😂😂😂😂

[@dixie-chick1765]

Cops can’t put “words in their mouths” so they ask how the comment made them feel so it can’t be turned around saying to cops coached that person into saying they felt afraid for their life.

[@marinerouffaud1828]

Cops definitely can't put words in her mouth. Because it's filled with grass.

[@jazzy2toedsloth4290]

She screams & fights in lowercase letters, lol

[@baileybrian9560]

taking bites out of the grass, talking about a black box in the woods with a leash on it... this video is a rollercoaster

[@jaydawg7229]

I love you guys man, such a chill channel to laugh and kick back too. Keep it real yall, you got it down🤙

[@raybanz8218]

I listened to the "aaahh!" like 10 times

[@CantonGirl1981]

I knew this was in Ohio before I knew it was from Ohio. 🤦‍♀️ Another one we don’t claim.

[@Orquet-qj2nf]

If it's so darn common, maybe it isn't so much as you don't claim this person so much as Ohio doesn't claim you. lol

[@AshleyLake-m1z]

@@Orquet-qj2nf wow that was soo funny NOT! Do you know what is funny? You got 0 likes and CantonGirl1981 got 14. Your jokes are dry dude. What makes it even worse is you laugh at your bad jokes.... How pathetic!

[@ayoayo1044]

Damn I was hoping it wasn't Ohio but opioids are big here

[@DylanSnider]

She probably put grass in her mouth to make it seem like the cops were aggressive and pushed her so hard that dirt got in her mouth.

[@Chris.Woodcock]

She doesn't need to go to the store. She needs to go to the ranch!

[@dubyabalthazar4598]

True OG

[@carleethe1st]

Abusers are notorious for stating they have mental issues. It’s a really easy way to take responsibility off and put a level of responsibility on the victim (“You know I have issues! Why upset me?!”)

[@nomnomnom72]

Ok, so here are the laws (generally speaking) - you CAN court commit someone to received mental health treatment (civil court order). - you CAN NOT court commit someone to substance abuse treatment. you can only mandate substance use treatment through the legal system (DUI or possession charge and then are mandated to go to rehab, or outpatient programming).

[@kellismith558]

As a former addict, you guys hit the nail on the head with what you think happened there

[@kellismith558]

Also you can't sleep on meth so....

[@Jarl3169]

​@@kellismith558yup which the combination of that and sleep deprivation literally causes psychosis, it's why so many meth heads become crazy or just not all there clearly kinda detached from reality, they don't start like that, same goes for other amphetamines they seem normal at first, heck even good super productive, smart, might hyper focus on stuff but other than that great, but after some time of using all that constant sleep deprivation and constant amphetamine use and they start getting angry not making any sense losing touch with reality believing conspiracy theories seeing shit it's crazy.

[@themoohawkman4067]

🎵He was a skater boy, she’s horribly addicted to opioids🎵

[@helenablanks255]

He wouldn't take her to the store, now she is angry screaming and crying Now she's smashing up his car Her sisters a drug addict Making up all this shiz Now she's lost the kids aswelllll oh

[@themoohawkman4067]

@@helenablanks255 amazing

[@Cressyn]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY EVERYONE

[@Gods-Shepherds]

Don't patronize me

[@nyteskii868]

Birthday is tomorrow!!

[@AlmightyPooFlingerVI]

My birthday is today! Thank you very much, kind stranger! Haha

[@r_edfacebaby]

@@AlmightyPooFlingerVIHAPPY BIRTHDAY TWIN ME TOO

[@sophielopez1179]

Same!

[@Kuejena]

The way the cops are trying to guide the husband to say the write words to build a case against her without outright saying it tho. I can feel the stares directed at him while they ask like "say you were in fear for your life already dude" You can tell they feel for this dude and want to help him

[@dcbabe0270]

Omg! I can't express how happy I am yall covered THIS video! The first time I watched it I thought yall would have a blast with it!

[@KJprkr]

This took quite the unexpected turn 😂 those two spewing all of their "knowledge"

[@mattkroll4464]

"spit the grass out!" "NO! I don't want to."

[@Anthonybrother]

Cows *like* grass!

[@warmasher]

So as a type 1 diabetic for 35 years. You do not need a perscription for a glucose testing machine. They range from $8-$30 on the shelf in the diabetic isle at walmart. Walmart also has over the counter insulin with no perscription needed for cheap, i pay $25 per vial fast and long lasting.

[@camillasaietz4856]

Why do I have a feeling that those two women are the ones with a "black box on a chain in the forest"?

[@ScarlettOHara0087]

As someone whos married to someone who is a alcoholic..who just started drinking again after nine years of not drinking..in 2 months we lost everything. they can break anything they want regaurdless of what it is. Bc when you're married everything is mutual possessions. Now when domestic happens they do go to jail. Bc about a month ago my husband drank a half gallon of vodka and started destroying everything when I tried to stop him he got violent. Now he's in jail. 9 years of an amazing man. And when he started drinking he completely changed never seen him like that. That's not the man I've been with for 9 years. Now I'm spending my time trying to convince the prosecutor that this isn't a violence issue...it's an alcohol issue. And he would never hurt me while sober and he never had before. Very gentle loving man. And as soon as thay vodka hit he became an insane violent person.

[@nellie790]

My older brother was a decent man when he was sober to dark liquor made me mean and nasty towards his fiance she's often called me of she caught him drinking.😢

[@bumpymary3769]

I'm sorry this happened to you but don't think alcohol is an excuse, sure sober he never did that, but alcohol just doesn't turn someone violent, the violence was here all this time. Alcohol just allowed it to let it go out.

[@satellafelix4597]

even when i’ve been blackout wasted, i’ve never broken anything or tried to hurt anyone… and these periods of drinking were during some low points in my life nowadays when i get pretty drunk, i just feel especially appreciative of the good people in my life 😅 i understand that alcohol can make people act in horrible ways, and that you’ve seen him at his BEST, but are you positive you can handle this possibly happening once or twice more in the future? addiction is a lifelong battle that people will inevitably have some scuffles with

[@Orquet-qj2nf]

"In Vino Veritas." "In wine, in truth." People have known that for at least two thousand years. Alcohol didn't make your husband violent. Alcohol didn't make mine mean. Alcohol revealed our husbands to us. My husband lied to me about who he was. So did yours. It sucks. Your husband, after he thought you were trapped in marriage, took his mask off. Mine did the same thing. He waited until we were halfway across the world on our honeymoon and dropped the pretense. So did yours. I thought if he got help for his alcoholism, then he would be okay again. But no. The man I married didn't exist. Your husband as you thought you knew him didn't exist. It's not your fault. He lied to you. But please. He showed you who he is. Please believe him.

[@yourlocalofficechair7953]

​@@satellafelix4597 I'm a person w anger issues and I have trouble controlling it sometimes. That being said, I've never been violent or angry while on any substance. If I was, I wouldn't drink or smoke anymore, plain and simple. If you become violent when you're drunk, don't drink- or drink alone.