Addressing Assumptions About Us - Your Couple Tea Ep. 31

[@Imfunny]

I love you both so much but please listen! 21:52 because influencers have a huge audience and predators can easily find it- as well as the amount of predators watching it is MUCH greater than a normal person posting on Facebook and stuff. Normal people typically don’t have creeps looking at their stuff because they aren’t relevant or known. But also- little babies and children CAN’T consent to being filmed and put on the internet for millions to watch. It could potentially ruin their future even. Aside from that how embarrassed they might be that all of their cringy moments as a child are out there for the world to see. I’m not a hater, I genuinely just care about you guys and your family. The internet is forever. She can be featured in videos because we understand she will become your entire life and it’s hard not to show that, but please don’t make her the sol topic of videos or anything like that. ❤️

[@SilviaPapazian]

Such a pleasure to watch you both. If I may ask, would you guys consider having Quincy and Zack as a guest ? especially now that they are expecting a baby the four of you would be amazing together❤

[@Divine1767]

That pregnancy "prank" is hilarious to watch now because Katie was like "I'm going to tell him I'm pregnant but I'm not" but she actually was😂 and Josh actually called it because he said it in the video that she could be and she was😊💗

[@DanaBovair]

My sister in law waited until marriage. My brother had previously already had relations in other relationships but he had no issue waiting for her and they dated for like 5 years I believe before they got married. Now they have 3 beautiful sons😊❤

[@debraolson8122]

Assumptions podcast was interesting. Crazy what people assume. I know from following you both that you look for the good in people. Your positivity, honesty and genuine nature shows through daily, and that comes from having solid morals & values. Keep the podcasts coming! 😊😊👏👏

[@traceypoole999]

Loved this one, you're always very interesting to listen to and you both have a great outlook on life 💕

[@haleykeef2489]

I sincerely hope you protect you daughter at all costs which means NOT including her in any content. I have a baby girl and I do not show her face at all online and I will do that for my future kids. Prove everyone wrong and be better this is your opportunity please don't mess it up for her sake

[@Breezeydragon321]

Boost!!!! This is so important ‼️‼️

[@bitnerknees24824]

I deleted my social media as soon as I got pregnant bc my husband didn't want ppl that we knew to creep us and keep up with our lives. Which I get so I chose to do it .. But I am here to say that all of that is an opinion. When u live and work as a social media influencer how the hell would u not want ppl to ever see ur daughter. Every single human does, more than ppl doesn't, shows their whole family in pics online. That's how ppl from diff states keep in touch with family. Kids get taken, and stalked and etc a lot and that has nothing to do with social media. I understand they are famous for this so they have tons of random ppls eyes on them. But ppl like this is the ones who gets on everyone's nerves in the world the most.... U can not tell someone what to do with their family just bc u believe and do something a certain way. Just bc she has her baby girl in pics and videos does not mean their bad parents. And how are u say "for ur sake" bc that comes off as rude and like a threat. If every parent who has exposed their child on KZbin, FB, IG or tiktok was bad parents then everyone mostly would be bad parents. And u can def tell @KatieVlogs is very awesome parents and treat their baby better than most ppl in the world that isn't on KZbin. Do you know some ppl beat their kids for being loud or getting into trouble. U know some dads are pervs. U know some kids don't have anything at all and live in filthy FN houses with no food or clean clothes. U know some kids sleep on the floor with no bed with five or however many kids. U know more than 45% of kids grow up with parents who are on drugs and who put drugs before their kids and their kids needs. Do u know some moms pimp their daughters out for money.... There are way more problems and issues in the world today. And way fn more things to be worrying about when it comes to children's safety than if their in a video on KZbin or not. Why aren't all of you going to all the crack heads giving them letters about how for their sake they need to change for their kids???? I was raised very well as a kid. But I do have to say I'd rather live a life like Skye Mae is fixing too. Than half of the kids growing up in my neighborhood with real shits for parents. @JatieVlogs these are ppl who just get off on hate and wanna always say ur living wrong like their way is the only way. Ignore them and always do what's best for you and your family. Always. Bc THESE PPLS WAYS ASS OF LIFE AND WISDOM ON PARENTING ISSSS NOTTTTT THE ONLY RIGHT WAY TO RAISE A CHILD. ITS A FN OPINION AND ITS 2024 NOT 1950. THE WORLD CHANGES AND WE ADAPT TO THE WORLD!!!! AND IF THIS WORKS FOR U SINCE YAH KNOW, IT IS UR EVERY DAY LIFE... DO NOT LISTEN TO THESE PPL. THESE PPL ARE LIKE SPIDERS. MEAN HATERS SNEAKING IN WHERE THEIR NOT WANTED SO GO LECTURE THE KARDASHIANS AND THE PPL WHO HAVE NANNIES RAISING THEIR KIDS AND JUST WANNA SHOW UP FOR A QUICK IG PHOTO FOR THE FANS!!!!

[@haleykeef2489]

It's called child exploitation look it up. @@bitnerknees24824

[@haleykeef2489]

making money off your kids isn't right and they know it too.@@bitnerknees24824

[@Radheshayam_3]

#stopchildexploitation

[@redshark222]

Honestly can’t stop listening ur podcast is very entertaining

[@LatishaDickens]

The difference in you having embarrassing pictures taken of you and them having their whole life on the internet is you get to chose if the whole world sees that picture they do not. Anyone at anytime will be able to go watch your kid grow up. They don't get a choice of who they get to share their life with, you are taking their choice away and that isn't fair to them. Why is it ok with you that anyone at anytime can watch your kids life. why don't they get the choice ?

[@kristenbutrum2375]

I used to have an actual mullet and I look back and think it’s so funny and a great little memory!!! Would I ever do it again? NEVER… Am I glad it happened? I wouldn’t change it for the world!

[@Delaney0927]

Love y’all and the podcast! ❤

[@jodyrobinson4224]

What would you guys advice be for people that struggle a lot with dyslexia and are shy and scared to be them self around people

[@MindfulMovement12]

Girls make you mature, I thought i knew alot before my child was born and that I acted my age but after 2 years with my baby girl , you will be shocked by your own growth. Happy for you guys

[@deliahfranklin1]

josh talks over katie so much

[@Atlastitan312]

He’s so annoying honestly

[@kaitlynbrown1850]

@@Atlastitan312then unsubscribe and move on with your life.

[@jilliant.4550]

Truth is that children DO NOT have the ability to give informed consent, so if you post your child on line and earn a penny from it, it IS child exploitation. It IS forcing your child to work. It doesn't matter how many excuses you come up with to justify being child exploiters, the result is the same, you are putting your child in danger. Worried that your fans will be mad at you if you protect your child, seriously, your fans are complete strangers to you, why would you care? The only thing you fear is losing fans and views if you protect your baby. I would hope that you would care about your child more than your fan base. Are you going to tell people your child's name? Will they know your child's birthday? How about embarrassing moments, funny comments, health concerns, doctors visits, injuries. Are you going to film feeding your child or watch them eating. If you answered yes to any of this, its exploitation. Its sharing the stories that are not your stories for views and money. By the way, the most downloaded and copied moments for children are when you show them eating or show their bare feet. Ask yourself why? What do complete strangers want with a picture of your baby's feet or your baby putting food in their mouth. If you don't like negative comments then get OFF social media, because we have as much right to comment as anyone. Negative or positive, you are still getting paid. Will you ever have your child in shorts, if so, don't try to tell me that you will never coach or tell them what to do.

[@Soulgirl620]

Exactly 1,000 %

[@haleykeef2489]

Well said!

[@Divine1767]

Josh is a big teddy bear,i don't understand how people ever think he's abusive😊 and if you have 3 kids,you just have to have 4 so there isn't a "odd" one😅😅 31:44 Your health matters way more than daily vlogging so we totally understand

[@mospap]

i love your mind set so much. You are already so wealthy indeed ❤

[@Atlastitan312]

It’s absolutely ridiculous to try and say that your friend posting their child is the same as you posting your child… it absolutely not. Child exploitation is financially gaining from your child which you said your friend doesnt gain money from it…. However you will!! That means you will be child exploiters.. you can make as many excuses as you want but that’s the stupidest excuse anyone has ever made. You can have a family and not show your child in your KZbin… you shouldn’t rely on showing your daughter to keep a fan base. It’s disgusting to think that you can dictate your child’s feeling with being embarrassed. You can’t. They have their own feeling and emotions and you stunting them feeling those is going to cause issues with them learning how to properly show emotions. Make all the excuses you want but the second you put your daughter on your KZbin channel and decide to put her in that life youre taking away her choice entirely. You may be her parents but that doesn’t give you the right to put her in the eyes of so many predators and with AI it can be so much worse… That’s disgusting and honestly will be terrible parenting

[@Breezeydragon321]

BOOST ‼️🙌🏼

[@kaitlynbrown1850]

Bruh calm down damn, it’s not your child or your decision.

[@Atlastitan312]

@@kaitlynbrown1850 no it’s not my child but it seems like I care about her individuality and safety more than her parents do. They are obviously very naive when it comes to being parents but DAMN.

[@httyd1864]

@@Atlastitan312here’s so many family channels on youtube its not a big deal and whatever they decide to do for THEIR child is up to them and you are just a stranger so whatever you say wont matter anyway

[@marybillington8235]

It doesn’t hurt to share the baby on utube bc so many fans want to see the baby grow up just like the fish fam they have five children and they all love making content and have become very talented with acting and singing.

[@em_si]

"It doesn’t hurt to share the baby on utube bc so many fans want to see the baby grow up" - The second part of that sentence shows why is DOES hurt to show young children growing up on the internet. Also, it would've taken you not even 1 second to spell KZbin properly.

[@jilliant.4550]

So many predators can't wait to see that baby too. They have parasocial relationships with them. just like their fans do. Hey Can't wait to know her name, her birthday. Watch her eat and play. Figure out where they live, shop and what restaurants they visit.

[@christianne2000]

Hey guys in the thumbnail it’s supposed to be “You’re”! Just so you know 😊

[@georgina276]

I didn’t even notice ❤❤😊

[@Divine1767]

Been waiting for this all day😁 and you guys look like a gender reveal with the blue and pink outfits😂

[@swagger5455]

What was the gender of their baby? I don’t want to watch the video again because I’m going to cry

[@Divine1767]

​@@swagger5455A girl🥰💗

[@sarahloyd7276]

@@swagger5455 it’s a girl

[@ambercaly4368]

Charleston, SC is the BEST place to live. Literally paradise on earth.

[@taytay13601]

He loves her even more now, as she is the mother of his child! ❤️

[@hannahbickley9]

These people are going to be parents… holy shit 😅😮

[@Radheshayam_3]

Ofcourse u can vlog with ur child but just don't put that on the internet in front of millions of strangers and thousands of predators

[@rylee.bosse1017]

all I'm saying is be concerned with mental health care and please never get mad of they did something that may be scary but try to be calm abt it for them

[@nadinekba8989]

Katie’s head tilts

[@coffee8599]

The response to child exploitation was painfully self-serving. Hopefully you rethink that in the future.

[@marieclark9938]

Loved this one ❤️

[@morganlightsey8137]

Love your attitude towards money. Have you ever thought about donating to other causes?💕❤️

[@Divine1767]

They probably do but they believe sharing they do just takes away the meaning of doing that😊

[@annmariedobbin4369]

Another poor child being born into exploitation 🙄you know there are predeters on the internet, and the dangers of it and you will still put them on? Make it make sense!

[@Atlastitan312]

Yes!! I can’t believe people actually think it’s a “cute idea” or Isnt harmful for them to put their babies online. Their explanation of why they were going to was so self serving and sounded like they were going to use her as an accessory instead of letting her live her life as a child. I have a feeling if they do put her on the internet they won’t stop because that paycheck they’ll be getting will be higher from all the creeps who want to watch. I really hope they don’t end up like the labrant fam or ACE fam… but from their “explanation” they are headed that way for sure

[@annmariedobbin4369]

@@Atlastitan312 its absolutely heartbreaking isnt it? I honestly dont know what their thinking with all the proof we have now, of the dangers of children being on the internet and yet they still have lots of fans saying its ok. Its not ok! I think im right in saying laws are being made in certain places, but it needs to be faster. Its clear these parents are incapable of protecting these children, so its up to the law to stop them. Your right i found myself thinking the same that they are very self serving, i know they are young but they are going to be parents they need to grow up! Thankyou for your reply😊

[@Atlastitan312]

@@annmariedobbin4369 I really hope they change their mind and don’t show the baby… no one else needs to see her. People easily have a KZbin channel and kids and don’t show their kids at all. It’s essentially the same as people with “normal” jobs going to work without their kids

[@annmariedobbin4369]

@@Atlastitan312 i hope so too watch this space🤞

[@shaythom8430]

You think your child at 0 years can say "no i dont wanna be a the vlog"? Wild.

[@jessicapearce2934]

Are you going to say that to the other million parents that do that just to have memories of their kids

[@shaythom8430]

@@jessicapearce2934 they choose to post it for millons of people to see. If it was truely for memories they would keep it to themselves and not post it. Simple as that.

[@Atlastitan312]

@@jessicapearce2934do you seriously believe it’s “home videos”. If it was home videos they would record and never post it. They would keep it to themselves and not get paid through showing their child. They wouldn’t let the money influence them into posting more and more videos of their child for creepy people to see. If they wouldn’t want a random person taking pictures or videos of their daughter in the park why the hell would they post their daughter online for those creeps to get for free,at anytime, and with no one stopping them.

[@Candygirl424]

When wil the next Jatie Vlogs be ?

[@sarahloyd7276]

The next video will probably be their baby shower in Michigan and their beach maternity photoshoot will be after that

[@caitlint2223]

@@sarahloyd7276they’re supposed to be daily vlogging but they’re busy I’m guessing so that hasn’t happened

[@mchicken1]

@@sarahloyd7276no the glucose test vid is first

[@beckyklepper315]

This is the first one of your podcast that I have heard, and I have to say I'm very much enjoying it! I watch your blogs and I watch your shorts, but I feel like the energy between the two of you just sitting down and chatting if so up in chicken awesome and it's not revved up for any reason. I think two for the people that thank you for your money, sometimes it's hard to see young people doing well, and I think that that's sad because you've worked hard for what you have. I'm not in a financially well physician at all, as I was a stay-at-home mom for 22 years and a military wife. I left you two domestic violence and I have had to fight bite and scratch for everything that I have right now, which honestly is not much. I live in an RV and I drive a car that's 21 years old. But I needed to wait until my son was out of school to concentrate on what I needed to do and then my health took a recent crash in the last six months since having spinal surgery. I enjoy watching people enjoy their lives. My grandparents did very well for themselves, and I'm forever grateful for the lessons that they taught me. Your love for Jesus is the most fantastic thing about you both. And I can't wait to see your little girl grow up and learn to love Jesus right alongside you!

[@yhazsminmason5182]

The podcast are sometimes hard to follow when they talk over one another.

[@bryceford9594]

They are excited to talk to the Jatie Fam🥳

[@rhondachambers7498]

Hiii:) i love ur vids

[@alimaloney8808]

Your audience has definitely wanted you to be a family channel forever. No exploitation there. ❤

[@Westerngirl4life-u6d]

So so true

[@Atlastitan312]

Financially gaining on their child is child exploitation. And the audience has no right to see their baby the safest thing they could do is leave their daughter off social media until/if she chooses to join

[@halleyschae]

You’re sick

[@haleykeef2489]

A family channel inherently means exploitation of children

[@kaailyntaylor]

Oh and I heard a mom of 6 kids say that the jump from 2 to 3 kids is a big financial jump but if you're going to have 4, you might as well keep going! Haha

[@kaailyntaylor]

I love how humble you guys are when it comes to your finances. I know people are just curious, but it's really none of their business 😂

[@emilywalton4105]

They are not humble they are millionaires. Have you heard of them donating to food banks and charities

[@kaailyntaylor]

@@emilywalton4105 lol cause you know where their money goes? 🤔

[@emilywalton4105]

​@kailyntaylor9386 Have you seen their home and the 3 cars they have? How many couples do you know that donate money. They have a massive platform they could raise money for charities.

[@kaitlynbrown1850]

@@emilywalton4105Oh please tell me you havent seen someone else have a bigger house then they do and have more cars than they do. They work hard for their money, you think being a influencer isn’t hard but clearly you don’t know that i’ve heard many people talk about how hard it is to be one because of the time and patience you have to have to do it. If you are going to hate because they make money then unsubscribe and move on :)

[@Atlastitan312]

⁠​⁠@@kaitlynbrown1850saying “someone else has much bigger” doesn’t mean shit. Your comparing apples to oranges. The price of houses in different states/cities is different everywhere as well as cost of living. The very fact that they wouldnt say they were rich and trying to steer the question in a different direction tells us all we need to know. They are obviously rich and are either embarrassed to say it/how they got it or want to come off as relatable and they know people who watch them aren’t rich so saying they are wouldn’t be relatable to their audience.

[@alexmassouh309]

What is May 15?

[@shynasetalvad]

I love y’all, to say the least

[@jakedorazio7756]

This is Jake and i am a Boxing Instuctor and a Goup fitness Instuctor and what other J80fit workout kind i do myown and i Love doing all J80fit workouts That Motivation to push the Envlope

[@bolivia.j]

16:53 this cracked me up 💀

[@qweenergy]

But that’s not showing off, that’s other people living in jealousy

[@reginaschellhaas1841]

Where is the daily vlog for today

[@dawnlafontaine7161]

Lovd you guys

[@halleyschae]

I already know y’all are gonna have fake ass thumbnails that involve your child to bring in money, just like the damn ACE family. Pretending they got hurt, or rushed to the hospital, or something crazy happened. You’re sick in the head and I seriously hope your child will be okay bc more and more children of influencers are coming of age and speaking out against their parents.

[@hendallharry4699]

San Diego is great

[@user-cu6cp9qt9g]

What did Katie and josh went to college for ? Like what did they study?

[@larac.8797]

Neither went to college, they have started their company and KZbin world.

[@lindscg22]

i think it’s pretty obvious they didn’t go to college

[@user-cu6cp9qt9g]

@@lindscg22 Josh Said , that he went to community college for 1 year

[@Divine1767]

​@@larac.8797Katie and Josh actually both went to college,they just didn't finish

[@p1993ess]

😂😂😂😂 Katie comparing her daughter to a dog like wtf

[@DassiKlein]

People are literally so annoying about people recording their kids like have you ever met a single mom that didn’t take pictures and videos at every single fart their kid makes lol it’s totally normal it’s not exploitive

[@em_si]

It's not the recording part, it's the uploading onto KZbin part that people have a problem with.

[@katiebain9328]

No one said that - it’s the posting it all over social media when you have thousands and millions of fans is what people are saying.

[@E.z.b.f]

Yeah but most moms don't have 3million people strangers seeing their stuff

[@brendachaves6375]

Hey Katie and josh ❤

[@rae-hn1qh]

I don’t understand the whole exploiting children situation. Yes I’m sure there are some that have/do but I don’t think that’s the case for most and surely don’t think that would be the case with you two. This is your job, to share your life with us. Imagine the amounts of people who genuinely watch every single video who are excited to see this phase in your journey. I think the term has just blown up in the wrong way because of social media and especially ever since tiktok blew up.

[@emilywalton4105]

Making money off your children is exploiting your child. The child has no say if he or she can be flimed. Every family vlogger exploits their kid. Some of these kids never see a penny from it either. It's not normal for a child to be viewed by millions of people daily. Some family vloggers have social media pages for their children and meet and greets. Pedophile are subscribed to these channels and social media pages. Not only do these family vloggers flim their child. But they give the child full legal name on the internet, birthday, and personal information. There's has been cases where children from social media photos were found on child sex trafficking websites. The internet is not a safe place for children period.

[@em_si]

We can tell you're not understanding it.

[@katiebain9328]

Yikes…

[@rae-hn1qh]

@@em_si I do. But not for every single influencer who has their children in a video or picture they post. Seems a bit unfair to always scream exploitation.

[@Atlastitan312]

@rae-hn1qh Exploitation is financially gaining by showing your child… which is exactly what they were saying they were going to do. Their child will be WAY to young to actually agree to having any of their life online and if they put her online they are taking that choice away completely.. also with AI coming out and all the new technology predators can easily change a video to be something else and having their daughter in that kind of world is gross and very stupid of them It’s very naive to think that you can just teach your daughter not to be embarrassed nor do they have the right to try and dictate her feelings at all. She’s her own person and them telling her to feel a certain way is gonna cause issues with her being able to show her emotions the way she’s meant to.

[@marybillington8235]

Yo have three expensive cars a huge house with a pool of course you have money!

[@sarahloyd7276]

Josh and Katie the reason why other people wait until marriage is because if you date someone and have sex and get into a relationship that leads to marriage that man if he’s slept with another woman before his new girlfriend it’s like the girl is sleeping with his former girlfriend or sleeping with her former boyfriend that’s why people wait!

[@em_si]

You need to work on structuring your sentences properly, you made no sense.

[@kaitlynbrown1850]

Bruh, they never said “Don’t wait until marriage” they explained that they didn’t wait and that it is okay to wait until marriage. If you are going to hate in everything they say or do then unsubscribe and move on with your life.

[@xXLifestyleXx1]

FIRSTTTT

[@marybillington8235]

Isn’t Absley is a cute name?

[@dominiquepetree195]

It’s dangerous to show your baby because people use that with AI. They make very bad contact in the black web. do you want to be a good parent do not show your children online. It’s embarrassing you say you knew what’s going on in the Internet but you’re still going to do it that sounds so stupid. I hope you do that it would backfired because a lot of channels. The kids are fighting back. Good luck. Lol