Stop Buying These Clothes to Improve Your Style in 2025

[@luluandmeow]

My tip is to return things immediately if they don't suit or you don't love them, don't sit on them and miss the return window. When taking inspiration from someone else, I look at each piece of clothing they're wearing, usually it's the silhouette I like, not the particular item of clothing.

[@germainelo3369]

I check the tag session from an online brand, yes, including accessories, as Adeline mention if I find a flaw, i.e., no pockets, it gets culled.

[@mauishopgirll]

I would add to try on the item, including accessories/bags, with other items right away to ensure it works with existing wardrobe and body type. I do this within a day and sometimes find although I love an item, it doesn’t work for me or doesn’t work as well as something else I already have. If it doesn’t work it immediately gets packaged for return by mail or into my “out” area to be taken to the car (and a to do added to the calendar).

[@JamieParada-f5w]

there are also big discounts and good customer service *suluxy* .

[@snezhanamyers9985]

I am so 💯 agree with you, if the item is not “Heck Yes!!!”then it’s a no! Don’t spend money on it, you will regret the purchase

[@AdelineLoke]

I have learnt that the hard way so many times!

[@jeannieqchan]

Omg I am totally that person that buys the same thing but different colors and fonts so I need to stop my closet is exploding and I only wear 25% of it! 🤦‍♀️

[@AdelineLoke]

I think we all do it 🤣

[@lynettefinnigan9540]

Yes, I absolutely enjoy my clothes more since I reduced the size, and surprisingly, I kept a lot of my oldest stuff!!

[@valeriam.9929]

Oh my God!Me too!!!😂😂😂

[@JamieParada-f5w]

A website that I often repurchase recently *suluxy*

[@josy28xo]

I sometimes have two items of the same style when I find out that the first one is something that I truly love and that goes with almost wverything when I experienced that this certain kind of item is hard to fund but mostly I want to keep the second one almost untouched because I want to have the opportunity later as well. Luckily that only goes for basic tops and one or two pullovers.

[@janic54]

I don't dismiss impulse shopping because I have found pieces that I love and rewear constantly. The last one is a long black pleated skirt in a synthetic fabric (but nice!) I wear it in every season, mix it with pieces from different styles, I take it on my trips as it is wrinkle free!!! I got it in a thrift store for peanuts! I have other items like that (but I must confess I made some mistakes as well)....

[@AdelineLoke]

Sometimes our impulses can be right! And I love it when they are 🤭🤭

[@hummingbird4934]

Same! I have five striped tops that are all very different two of which I thrifted from my Mum. But I also know I’ll wear all of them with different items so it’s certainly not a waste

[@MariahTahmisian]

I love that you talk about not only statement pieces but not just basics either! Because it will become boring or not work too.

[@AdelineLoke]

Definitely need a mix of both to keep it interesting!

[@MariahTahmisian]

@AdelineLoke For sure! People don't talk about that!

[@inaballik2643]

I have to say the BF and pushy sales season do quite the opposite to me: they completely turn me off. Went to a TKMaxx today to sense check how I feel. I never felt as uninspired in my life. I think we've exceeded the saturation point of fashion and I LOVE everything in my wardrobe so much more than anything I see in the shops these days.

[@AdelineLoke]

You have passed the shopping final boss 🤣

[@xchanchanx]

Facts!!!

[@MachellPlumlee]

You and Filippo are the most wonderful unboxing. You are like sunshine and nothing can compare to your amazing personality that shines through the screen. Yes, we love Hermès, Valentino, *hotdups* and all these great brands, but you are the best! Thank you for showing us beautiful Monaco. Can't wait to see more.

[@edennis8578]

I buy the same style in different colors because I'm very picky. If I find three styles out of 50 of the same type of item that I like on me, that's a lot. So when I find a style of top that I'm mad about, I'll try to buy it in every color that works for me. Shoes, pants, blazers, sweaters, same thing. Since I usually keep my clothes for years, I still end up with a very good variety. Honestly, I wouldn't care even if I didn't have a lot of variety. As time goes on, I need to feel well dressed and comfortable more than I need variety.

[@AdelineLoke]

Sounds like it works for you ☺️

[@Loumow1]

Everything you said is spot-on! My struggle is that I get really bored with my clothes over time. They tell me to quit buying cheaper, lower quality clothes and invest in higher end but less. It’s a catch-22 for me!! So lately I’ve been recycling frequently so buying pre-loved clothes is best for me. Unbelievable what you find that others have discarded! I just bought a 100% lambswool red cropped jacket made in Italy brand new for 30€ in Italy at a pre-loved store along with a 100% like-new cashmere large throw blanket for the same price.

[@TaniaArgent]

I buy more and more thrifted clothes nowadays too! And I think the same, how people get rid of such amazing pieces!

[@sparklie962]

My Mum always said never buy something if the only reason you're buying it is because it's on sale. "It's not a good deal if you won't wear it." I've heard that ringing in my ears the past few weeks with all this Black Friday hoopla. I've actually been deleting a lot of the sale emails without reading them to stick to my guns and not add anything that I don't need and that isn't a total Wow piece.

[@storksandstarks7073]

The wishlist thing is so on point. As I get deeper and deeper into the world of fashion, I realize that 1) good things are not cheap 2) and if I keep buying stuff just because it's on sale, I won't get the sense of fulfillment that a curated, well-thought out look will give me. So a wishlist REALLY helps me focus, and then the actual purchase and the fact that I get it cheaper is secondary - if you think about it, buying a number of things on sale is not necessarily cheaper than just buying one nice thing. I am shopping less, but cherishing what I buy more.

[@hathor2]

my mom always said if a certain cut and style of blouse works on you get it in different colors, i've never encountered the "different fonts" as mentioned in the video

[@arlenehayworth5378]

Yes I do that too haha I collect the colors same design lol

[@tenaciousone4721]

I have to agree, I am petite and have wide shoulder's so when I find a top that works for me I buy it in a couple of colors or variations.

[@hathor2]

@@tenaciousone4721 yep a different color deceives the eyes enough to make the onlooker think you're wearing something totally different when it's just the color that changed. the cutting of the dress, blouse and specially pants make all the difference for me to wear them again. both comfort and how it drapes over me are my key factors to decide to buy

[@punkaakee]

I disagree. You will still gravitate towards your favourite colour.

[@hathor2]

@@punkaakee ok when i mention different colors i really didnt mention opposite on the color wheel colors. nonetheless if i buy a black blouse, i'd buy a white and gray one

[@martinafox5696]

Love your honesty . In my experience, my worst mistakes came from online buying. And why? Because I hate to waste the time in shops. Mistake.

[@sigriddjernaes]

Would love to see a video on how you use your wishlist ❤ I'm always interested in new tips and getting smarter using my wishlist.

[@SGPropertyCollective]

Agree please do the video!

[@AdelineLoke]

Okay, I will work on it! 🙂

[@sigriddjernaes]

@@AdelineLoke 🙏❤ Very curious if you add specific or generic pieces or a combination to your wishlist? Do you have any criterias for adding pieces?

[@scottmeaney2383]

Thanks Adeline for some great tips to make our shopping more intentional and sustainable - please keep up this thoughtful and innovative content!

[@AdelineLoke]

Thank you, so glad you enjoy it ☺️

[@verity4013]

Love your posts and your brown leather jacket because it hints at burgundy. For me that's enough of a nod to the current trend. I find if I buy trends I hold them a year or too before wearing them.. personally not a fan of wearing what others are at any given time. I feel it strips me of my uniqueness.

[@sarapanzarella97]

Actually I can say I love almost everything in my closet. Unfortunately, I am entering my peri-menopause era and half of it doesn't fit right now LOL cause I gained some weight this year. I refuse to give up my battle though! I will wear these cute clothes soon!

[@LCJ-di7zo]

Excellent video! I can’t tell you how many times I have not bought a clothing item after I place my thumb over the models face. It ever looks as good without the beautiful face in the photo. Great advice!

[@AdelineLoke]

It really helps so much, doesn't it. Someone's beautiful face can really make you want something.

[@purplethumb7887]

I told myself years ago that I'm not going to buy clothes that I don't love, and I've pretty much stuck to that. I have my basics that I mix with items I love. I work in a professional environment, and I have so much fun dressing now for work now.

[@KazHampson]

I love your content Adeline, it really resonates with me. As always really thoughtful and intelligent. I only buy things I love, otherwise I walk away.

[@irenelem7038]

Great advice! Especially the part about loving all aspects of an item before buying! And yes, I have multiples of the same things! 😍

[@annmaupin4307]

Really like this content and the way you spoke. This is exactly me and something I want to change. So I am now following. Thank you.

[@suzanschneider6163]

Such good reminders. I’m guilty of the last one-for sure. Remain strong against marketing.

[@SandyCheeks63564]

Great point! Sometimes I'll get a couple variations just because I can't decide which one. Especially if ordering online & on sale! Then after a while I'm like why do I need all these different loafers? Sneakers? baggy jeans? argyle sweaters? on and on. I refrained from doing that for about two years now, but I made an exception with all the cropped blouses out now, as they will be harder to find later, and being petite, Most blouses & sweaters are TOO LONG and so unflattering. I also doubled up on two pairs (same color!) of leggings that I can wear lounging at home, to bed (they're slippery enough i don't get tangled in the blankets), to work, to shop or going out!

[@violoyolo8262]

This is the first video I saw from your channel and I totally love it! Really details and you talk about stuff that most influencer don't do! Love your work subscribed!

[@claudiawilmot505]

Thanks for this. I’m having a massive clear out but you have motivated me to keep going x

[@monicawall778]

Great advice especially about cutting off the head of a picture. I don’t know how many knitting projects I’ve pursued because I love the hair of the model on the pattern. The sweater can turn out lovely, but somehow my hair is still the same when I wear it.

[@kathleenludricks3289]

Loved your video! Such wonderful ideas. ❤ I love the cutting off the head of the picture, I can see how it helps to picture yourself. Thank you very much, I will look forward to more of your videos!

[@annewatkis5824]

What a wonderfully honest review. Thank you

[@kathywrightable]

I just had this thought today of how i would really look in an item or outfit, as opposed to whether it’s their vibe -an image I might want for myself.

[@lynettefinnigan9540]

The blue shirts..the first one was obviously different, the other 3, all looked the same, so I'd pick one and discard the other 2, the brown and green are obviously different, so I'd keep them to get a different look. I have been clearing out more items, now I'm down to only taking out an item, because I want something new and fresh..

[@LizSteeves]

Cropping the head off an image is so smart! I have also found that when you purchase something because a content creator/influencer has it you end up looking like everyone else!

[@everythinghealthtonibrayer6056]

You are so right about buying the same thing over and over. 😂

[@midcenturymatchamama9284]

Actionable tips! Thrifting is always my downfall. And I’m a statement piece queen with few occasions to wear them to!

[@GemmaMadell]

Love your tip about cutting the head off - never heard that before but will do this from now on. Hitting subscribe now 👍

[@andreecafung3066]

Absolutely loved this! It’s exactly what I needed to know, and I needed to know that all of it.directly.to.my.face!

[@AdelineLoke]

Hahah thanks Andreeca ❤

[@DesireeGonza]

Great advice. Especially cutting the heads. Genius. I have bought so many shoes that hurt but still I don’t learn. Thanks

[@lindaalden2867]

So agree with everything you say, I'm trying to buy less but better, have managed to stop buying from the likes of h&m, peacocks, newlook, primark, this is the first year i haven't brought from these stores at all.

[@AdelineLoke]

Congratulations :) It's not easy to break out of shopping habits. Less but better is such a good approach ☺

[@MachellPlumlee]

Your Chanel bag is such a beautiful color! My eyes are drawn to it whenever it appears in *HOTDUPS* , this color should be used more often! The chain on the other bag is like some kind of wonderful fashion self-defense weapon

[@nichegoseberazdvatri]

Most people I watch recommend clothing brands that are for wealthy people. It makes the shopping experience that much more frustrating. Sezane is for wealthy people. One button down shirt is $200. That's just ridiculously outrageous. I can get a very similar one at Target/Macy's for less than that.

[@carriehodges6566]

I’ve bought a few vintage pieces that I shouldn’t have purchased. It’s absolutely not a good deal if you never put it on. Graphic t shirts are a good example. Love to buy -don’t ever reach for them!

[@vianjelos]

Why don't you frame them if you never wear them? If you are buying them for the design you can use them as wall art to get use out of them.

[@nikkig1146]

"Cutting off the head" 😂 Great tip!

[@EmL-kg5gn]

That sweater is so beautiful, could you get it altered instead? I love the idea of cutting off the head haha! That’s so funny but it seems so effective!!! For me perfectionism is one of the biggest temptations for over-consuming so I try to remember that if I already own it close enough is good enough. I can alter it, dye it, or just be patient and wait for it to be worn out before I replace it. And sometimes it’s ugly but it keeps me warm is also good enough. Perfectionism is for shopping, gratitude is for what I already have! I had that backwards for a while

[@bbappzz98]

The red jumper is a knit, if you cut the bottom to rehem it would just unravel. Knits are much harder to alter and you need to be very experienced.

[@EmL-kg5gn]

@ Oh yeah they definitely are! But to me it seems worth it for something so close to perfect

[@lisapolanski9379]

I can see you wearing the In and Out t-shirt in the summer with white jeans, belted or with a front tuck. I usually take scissors and remove the banded collar from the neck, and cut a small slit in the center of the neck/chest area (Flashdance style.) This was an excellent video, I got so much out of it. You make so many excellent points about my wardrobe that I needed to hear.

[@AdelineLoke]

Flashdance style, I love it 😆 Thank you for saying that, it means a lot!! xx

[@ElaineHowden]

That’s totally me for everything you mentioned, uve made me think, next time I go to buy something I shall think twice, thank you❤

[@irsinium]

great tips and i just realised how on point. thank you

[@carolynm.8868]

OMGosh Adeline, I belly laughed when you said cut off the head. Seriously…it totally works!

[@AdelineLoke]

It really makes a difference!

[@trueblueyellowgreen6]

Best video on YT! ❤❤❤❤

[@deborahcardillo8446]

Loved this video. Yes! Please show me how to make a wish list 🙂

[@Tereza_Svo]

My first video from you and it was an immediate subscribe!❤ Love your voice, edit and fashion sense!

[@AdelineLoke]

Thank you 🥰

[@dudemorris7769]

Barrell Jeans are the only ones on the runway this season for 2025, along with the Mom & Dad jeans, so don’t get rid of those.

[@AbbySandlin]

Would love to see how you manage your wishlist!

[@kathryn2334]

Such an excellent, helpful video. Thank you!

[@mariachico6469]

I would love you yo post a vídeo about how to Make a good wish list!

[@elena_a-2023]

Thank you for this video! How interesting you found an In-n-Out shirt in Tokyo. This is a fresh fast food company originally from the Los Angeles, California area and it has not expanded to all the states in the US. Thank you again for the tips on this video!

[@AdelineLoke]

I think Japan source a lot of their preloved items from the US :) You're welcome and thank you for watching ☺

[@rabarnettify]

Please do a video on creating and curating a wish list!

[@GeorgiaMontgomery-i2i]

WOW great video! Hit really close to home, buying without NEED - and I agree I NEVER do duplicates, as soon as I do that, I don’t like the original item- so strange. - Georgia in BC😊

[@wendys243]

Great tips! Thanks Adeline. You are adorable and have great style.🥰

[@AdelineLoke]

Thank you!

[@lamaldo6237]

I don’t “cut the head off” when the model has my light-ish, California blonde look And wears unusual colour combinations that suit her extremely well. It helps me to come up with outfit ideas.

[@chickadee8180]

I would love to see more about your wishlist!

[@karenley7356]

Would love a video on how you create your wish list

[@christinesnowden4562]

This really spoke to me, thankyou! Lots of useful tips🙏

[@sofiar.2369]

I loved your video! Such interesting tips! Cutting the head of is something I will be doing no doubt! By the way, where is your leather maroon jacket/trench from? Love it!

[@pappyone6062]

Yes to the curation!

[@DanRead-k4k]

Great video

[@AdelineLoke]

Thanks!

[@rosesroundup]

loveeeed the video ❤ my vision for the in&out shirt is tucked into a midi skirt with a belt, sambas, leather jacket

[@gillianmallory5176]

If u live them and it is a small change get a tailor to alter it. It’s a lot cheaper then u think

[@jamesbriggs5740]

I tend to buy the same styles in different colors,. Like Tshirts and sweaters. Kathy B

[@RuffiRaggaMuff]

4:38 and the sleeves are too long! Thanks for the reminder 💕 went shopping today and blest with nothing cause so picky!

[@t_grumpynoodle]

Red lips look amazing on you!

[@earthmother4507]

You should get the burgundy sweater altered at a tailor

[@chickadee8180]

Knits are really difficult to alter because you can't just cut the fabric and shorten it, so in this case, probably not practical.

[@jessgirr1728]

Bleh, the neckline is awful. She should def let it goo

[@ChangPaul-b5k]

Your Lip color suite you great, what brand and color is it.

[@chungalexa6568]

Great tips. And I also like to know what lipstick you wear in the video 😍

[@sally3570]

Spot on! 🎉

[@jasminetyxo]

Love the “head cut off” idea 😂

[@j.p.p.1964]

the idea with cutting the heads is 👌 If l ask people about a haircut for me, l show pics from the haircut with hair models but pixeled faces

[@melbla3609]

Only good advices. Keep up the smart work. ^^

[@danielagardavska8491]

Called out in the pre-loved part 🙈

[@AdelineLoke]

Hahaha you and me both! We won’t be perfect all the time but we can try 😂

[@megandunkley2850]

Great video, lots of relevant good advice, I’ve subscribed👍

[@AdelineLoke]

Thank you :)!

[@SquintyBubbles]

Excellent video, thanks. I'd love to see how you manage your clothing wish list.

[@josephdepaz194]

Cutoff the head method works wonders. I've been doing that for a couple of years now. (This item looks cool on this person; but will it work on me?)

[@everythinghealthtonibrayer6056]

I hardly ever wear my 2nd hand purchases. They look good but it’s an impulse buy and seldom works. I admire people that can thrift but it doesn’t work for me.

[@ssoroken]

loved this video! very interested in getting the Sezanne max shirt, would you mind telling me what size you're wearing in it? Thanks!!!

[@readaloudkids1407]

Great video!

[@karadesu82]

Thanks for the great video! What app or site do you use to keep a wishlist?

[@AdelineLoke]

I use Notion! I plan to share soon xx

[@andreah.1033]

Great video as always!❤

[@Amy-q8t8g]

I tell my daughters if you don’t absolutely Love it, don’t buy it. If you find something that ‘speaks to you’ (like love at first sight!) get it - as long as you check fit and quality.

[@lc224]

What brand is that lovely leather jacket?

[@isabelgoncalves8711]

Very useful tips but, please wear the t shirt, it is so cute 🥰

[@AdelineLoke]

I want to! Just need to figure out how I'd style it!

[@corinakessler5719]

I really love your lether jacket - is it available somewhere?

[@Supervin76]

Good video!

[@destinylo_]

New subscriber 😊 loved all the tips and looks!

[@AdelineLoke]

Thank you ♥️

[@lulul958]

Could you please let me know where you got the yellow trainers from? Many thanks

[@AdelineLoke]

Onitsuka Tiger Mexico 66 SD - go.shopmy.us/p-10652512

[@theresacarter1033]

Hello! What are the sneakers you are wearing with the gray coat? Thanks

[@Diiful]

I am worse. I buy the same thing in the SAME font. I have bought the same pullover in the same color because I love it and want to always have one available when the others are in the wash😂😂😂

[@AdelineLoke]

If you wear them all then that's fine and it makes total sense! The point I was trying to make is buying similar items but not wearing them, or not identifying WHY we like the main item which leads us to purchase similar things for the wrong reasons! 🙂

[@Ria23854]

Love that 💕💕

[@isabellorigadosdiaz8870]

A very good video.

[@KingaSulewska]

Hello Adeline, were do you buy your white T-shirts? Thank you 😊

[@AdelineLoke]

Uniqlo! The one I am wearing here is the mini t 🙂

[@KingaSulewska]

@@AdelineLokethank you 🥰

[@sherrieconley210]

Please share how you create your wishlist.

[@ruthieo9754]

Love your brown leather jacket, where is it from?

[@AdelineLoke]

Massimo Dutti but I got it preloved xx

[@tortillachipping]

wait why cant you tailor the first burgundy jumper to become shorter so u could keep it since it's great quality?

[@AdelineLoke]

I've never tailored a sweater before. Some comments on this video have said it's quite difficult 😭

[@zaadiacolon6689]

Graphic tees are for sick days and pjs