Kids and Destructive Behavior

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[@kennyharper6990]

Thank you so much for all your videos and work with this! I'm a father with ADHD and at least 3 of my boys have it also. Literally a WWE Fatal 4-way match with a 17, 15, and the scariest one...the 6 yr old😂 We are doing better by implementing your advice, and hope to possibly work with you soon. ( Sidenote my son, said what if the parent is the one breaking Xboxes to get their kids to comply😔)

[@ADHDDude]

Thanks so much I appreciate hearing that. Please tell your son that the parent then has to "clean it up" with the kids. 😁

[@brightlinebetty1258]

Overall I like this approach. Not giving attention, and putting out in the open❤ One critical thought- Guilt and shame are different. Constructive guilt seems more accurate. I agree someone should feel guilty for mistreating someone, but they shouldn't feel like they are a bad person for making a poor choice(shame). Might just be all the Brene Brown I've consumed.

[@ADHDDude]

I appreciate what you said here, I think that's a good point.

[@ChristianConstitutionalist3192]

What Worked for My "Tyrannical" Behavior as a Child Was: 1) School Bus Drivers Threatening to Call the Cops (Police). 2) My Sister Pretending to be on the Phone with the Cops.

[@ADHDDude]

Makes sense, I appreciate you sharing this. Thanks

[@jeremycusack6737]

😎 Thanks Ryan !!! ✅

[@ADHDDude]

Thanks for watching!

[@user-cb3sn3uv2c]

Some Theripist say it’s fine to call the police on the child.

[@user-sx9ir2if4g]

We just had to do this exact thing. 12 year old boy got violent and he had been told this would be the consequence. This was over a month ago now and what a difference in this child! He is respectful, loving and thoughtful once again. The experience was not a pleasant one for him (or us) but I don't think he wants to have a repeat of it.

[@alyssachausse6752]

That’s true. I feel it could go either way. but when I was a kid and my mom called the cops on me- boy that helped me tremendously 😂 I still thank my mom for that. They threatened to take me to the “funny farm” if I didn’t stop. Well I surely stopped 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ADHDDude]

Sometimes, that is needed

[@davidsworld7444]

What about self-harm rather than property destruction?

[@ADHDDude]

Same premise, this is covered in Scaffolding Better Behavior. kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZSqXquuiN97nKcsi=W7Tnl91WyAOyMA0x