Holding Women Accountable And They Hating Every Second Of It

Holding Women Accountable And They Hating Every Second Of It | Episode 12

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@ADifferentPerspective 4 ай бұрын

Quick question do you think its ever a good idea to choose to be a single parent and take on the responsibility by youself? artofkickz.com/collections/dizzle-drizzle-collection mentalhealth2011.com/ instagram.com/thequeenofaccountability/ instagram.com/artofkickz/

@ItsDaJax 4 ай бұрын

I think it depends on the situation. I believe a child needs both parents, but if one of them is toxic, or otherwise not doing the job, then they don't need to be there, and are going to end up a bad influence to the child. If nothing can be rectified, then as a last resort, so mote it be. If ones hand is forced, what else is there to do, if all else is exhausted? I basically saw it happen in real time with two of my friends, and the impact on the kid, I was nearly blind to it, and my attempts to help fell to the fathers deaf ears,

@TheMSS1977 4 ай бұрын

My ex tried it, destroyed our kids. Eldest tried to self delete, walked past mom's bedroom and disappeared into the night. Me, 11 miles away did what I had to do to get her found, just in time before expiry. It didn't warrant a "thank you" from mother.

@Deadwood1919 4 ай бұрын

In extreme cases where the other parent is some sort of danger or even not present then you'll have to 'single parent'. Otherwise, both parents being involved (and at least civil to each other) is better. Best is both parents together, but that is not the majority anymore. Sadly.

@disturbedwaves9505 4 ай бұрын

@@ItsDaJax& marriage minimizes that drastically

@kellie9668 4 ай бұрын

I believe in God's plan. There is a reason God made it ONLY possible to create a child with both sexes. If a person finds themselves without the other parent, God will guide you through the challenges, and hopefully we start raising children in his grace and light.

@teresahenderson95 4 ай бұрын

I'm a Mother of 4, please don't say Happy Father's Day to me. I'm not a father, I'm a mother. Happy belated Father's Day to all the men out there. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@CoffeeNChronic 4 ай бұрын

We appreciate you 💪🏾🙏🏾

@jonathanbyrd9289 4 ай бұрын

Thank you

@TChalla007 4 ай бұрын

Much success to your kids. They will owe it all to you and the father.

@sarahliz376 4 ай бұрын

I say this every year. I am not a man I am a woman.

@tnk4me4 4 ай бұрын

Happy belated mother's day to you too. Hope your kids continue to give you the same wonderful energy that you give them

@johnnyodom6915 4 ай бұрын

Women don’t even won’t other women to be happy. She blocked her “friend” from a job over a man she didn’t even want. It’s a shame.

@jewels964 4 ай бұрын

Ya that is a pretty disgusting thing she did there. I been mad at girls before but never would I sink that low. That is horrible

@ericalechel 4 ай бұрын

Daphne doesn't get nearly as much credit and praise as she deserves. She does such amazing things for people.

@jewels964 4 ай бұрын

She truly does.. I adore her ❤

@AB-ez4rm 4 ай бұрын

Daphne deserves some sort of Humanitarian Award or something.

@drrrl1647 4 ай бұрын

She probably just takes pride in calling these women out.

@atay6413 4 ай бұрын

I wouldn't go that far, though she certainly does deserve more credit and kudos for her actions.

@mikehill584 4 ай бұрын

Yes, she needs to be protected at all costs!!!!

@jewels964 4 ай бұрын

Hell ya she does!!!!

@jewels964 4 ай бұрын

@drrrl1647 I don't think she takes pride in it in the way u think . But I think she recognized this is a necessary thing to do not just for her community but for men all over. ....as a woman I'm gonna say it. . We get away with way too much and we absolutely should be held accountable.... if ever comes a day I need to be held accountable I want someone like Daphne to do it bc I know that what she does comes from a place of love .

@momma2thewilds88 4 ай бұрын

Daphne supports the good. Doesn't matter the gender. I support her ❤

@johnnyodom6915 4 ай бұрын

Calling Daphne a “pick me” is social media suicide.

@sarahliz376 4 ай бұрын

Men aren’t celebrated like they do women. So, I decide to do a dinner for the men I work with and it felt good to show them that they’re appreciated.

@johnjameson3476 4 ай бұрын

And I bet they remember that the rest of their lives, those men sound blessed to have you

@Stonecoldalston 4 ай бұрын

5:01 if she friendzoned him what’s the issue ? Another example of why female friendships don’t work a lot of times

@brianwilson4250 2 ай бұрын

New to the channel but from what I've seen Daphne has done many good things to help people. Her character should be celebrated much more than these haters out here.

@trillatsunset 4 ай бұрын

This is so damn TRUE wtf! I said "I'm unbothered, grew up without a daddy I'm unfathered" and she immediately said "you were fathered cause I fathered you". I love you mama but hell no, you are not a man and not a father. I see this so often

@Sg190th 4 ай бұрын

I'm glad she got the woman that job. It really be other women that hold others back due to bitterness.

@quanlito8343 4 ай бұрын

But somehow someway it’s the man’s fault

@addajjalsonofallah6217 3 ай бұрын

@@quanlito8343 always

@evelynwiberg1955 4 ай бұрын

I had to take care of my children by myself while my husband was deployed for the post 9-11 war. I can tell you that children need both their parents involved in their lives, especially the boys. There are things that only a dad can do, no matter how hard we try.

@zanieyoung2201 4 ай бұрын

I agree. Men don't demand anyone to wish him both a Happy Mother's Day and a Happy Father's Day, so why should any woman demand anyone to wish her both a Happy Mother's Day and a Happy Father's Day? Men have the role of the father and women the mother. In addition, men don't demand gifts for Father's Day, unlike women on Mother's Day or any other day or holidays.

@whipmasterhart243 4 ай бұрын

Salute to the Queen of Accountability. She's the dam best.

@mykoal5 4 ай бұрын

I just wanna say happy Father's day to all fathers, father figures and positive male role models who step in to help the children become great adults. Thank you

@tjtruth4793 4 ай бұрын

They think it’s acceptable to say because they ignore reality. Ignorance is blissful and many ppl, not just women, choose to stay there as opposed to acknowledging reality.

@jinxie712 4 ай бұрын

5:40 I think this is more of a case of her not wanting something to work because it didn't work with her. It'll show that she was the problem and not the dude.

@flawlessvictory8034 4 ай бұрын

And, it's always these bitter black women

@EngrishVT 4 ай бұрын

We men need to step it up if mothers day comes we need to say happy mothers day to us men because we are strong and independent before women became strong and independent... Drizzle drizzle.

@franchialbarnes5240 4 ай бұрын

Happy blessed belated Father's Day to all the men. I never liked people saying Happy Father's Day to me. It really gets on my nerves. My husband got the biggest Father's Day, surprised by his life. I always listen to him even though I get on his nerves sometimes..lol. There was something that he wanted so I secretly ordered it for him and gave it to him and cooked him dinner since he had to work. He loved it, and so did his children. We are a blended family. He is always there for me, and I really appreciate him so much. I pray that everyone has a blessed day.

@hehe-hehe1 4 ай бұрын

my dad may not be in my life anymore as much but hes still willing to support me, and I still told him happy Father's Day because he's still my dad. im sure im the only one that did

@chasevickers5794 4 ай бұрын

A woman can never be mother and father, she can only be a mother.

@GenXfrom75 3 ай бұрын

Even when my oldest son’s father died, I never tried to claim “Father’s Day.” That’s ridiculous 🤬

@bolotabr12 4 ай бұрын

My mom (86 years old) became a single parent when my father passed away (20 years ago) and she never remarried. We don’t celebrate Mother’s Day or Father’s Day at home it wasn’t necessary.

@jbhatts610 4 ай бұрын

Sounds like something a community that has 75% children out of wedlock would say. Seems to me seeing these KZbin clips that number will only go up not down.

@kashawnb8102 4 ай бұрын

🎯

@kylehall3390 4 ай бұрын

Black men are built to last ....best suited to live the longest on this earth

@GenXfrom75 3 ай бұрын

I love being called a pick me …. I just reply with “I was picked! 21 years ago” 🎉🎉🎉

@TheLastAatroxMain 4 ай бұрын

she is the female version of Uncle Ruckus from Boondocks lmfao

@coach_p23 4 ай бұрын

She got reverse vitiligo😂😂😂

@ItsDaJax 4 ай бұрын

Daphne would probably have a field day on LipstickAlley.😅😅😂😂

@heratalks2317 4 ай бұрын

right? That place is a cess pit

@Eddybo22 4 ай бұрын

I can only imagine what currently goes down there lol

@shakeishah9398 4 ай бұрын

I was happy that my husband‘s baby mama text him happy Father’s Day. He also had text her happy Mother’s Day. They have both been doing their part since they were 16 and 17 years old.❤️❤️

@cheriwheeler2199 4 ай бұрын

Daphne is a beautiful spirit! I said why I said! Thanks Daphne! ❤❤❤❤

@Maybeyoudorho 4 ай бұрын

8:00 aww I’m glad she was able to get the job

@jbogle531 4 ай бұрын

Being an MVP doesn't matter if you're the only person on the team...Especially if nobody else wanted to join her one man team. Smh.

@user-eh5cr4or6k 4 ай бұрын

@17:10 just imagine what she could have looked like has she learned to channel that inner anger towards a healthy lifestyle?

@fallenspartan4206 4 ай бұрын

And the worst part is they expect a gift on mother's day AND fathers day too, that's just wild!!!😂😂😂

@christina5kids16grands 4 ай бұрын

Daphne, and you, are doing the Lord's work. By the way, happy late Fathers Day to all the dads here. You are so important to your kids - just as important as their mother. Hope you had a wonderful day. I want to add that I'm a mother of 5 kids - they're all married now and have given their father and I 16 grandbabies to love. We divorced when our kids were in high school, and he very quickly remarried. I have been alone for the last 12 years since the divorce, but there are no hard feelings. My boys would NOT be the incredible men they are today if they didn't have a strong, intelligent, fantastic dad who taught them how to be a gentleman, how to work hard, how to prioritize, and how to love. My girls would not be the strong, independent, gracious women they are today if they didn't have a father who showed them their worth - who spent one on one time with them - stroked their hair at night as he read them bedtime stories - who treasured them and loved on them. So no - I can't fathom, just because I'm a single mom and gma now - not giving my kids' dad the credit he so much deserves.

@willgee.1483 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for keeping your ex in your kids lives and not being mean and bitter about him remarrying. You are a very intelligent and beautiful woman and anyone would be lucky to be with you 😊

@christina5kids16grands 3 ай бұрын

@@willgee.1483 so this comment - well, me just now seeing this comment - is right on time. You have no idea. I was invited to the huge family wedding week with the entire family on my ex husband’s side over in Idaho (we’re in Wa state), and I declined so I could dog and housesit for our daughter and her hubby & 4 kids while they went. I’m feeling pretty down with a lotta fomo 🥹 But these kinds of sacrifices are a part of what builds a lasting legacy of service, faithfulness, and dedication for my loved ones as the years go by. Their dog is under a year old and they were very worried about leaving him. (I’m actually really allergic to him 🫣😵‍💫) Anyway, thank you again for a really kind comment. I appreciate it so much.

@christina5kids16grands Ай бұрын

@@willgee.1483 oh my goodness 🫣you blessed my heart tonight ❤️

@revelation6175 4 ай бұрын

Deuteronomy 28:56 [56]The tender and delicate woman among you, which would not adventure to set the sole of her foot upon the ground for delicateness and tenderness, her eye shall be evil toward the husband of her bosom, and toward her son, and toward her daughter,

@missladybug73 3 ай бұрын

I shouted out my dad and all 3 of my my step dads. I also took my step dad out to eat. I asked him where he wanted to go. He said I could take him to Taco Bell. I told him to pick a better place. My treat. I told him to pick a nice place he always wanted to try. He picked a nice Italian restaurant. I wanted to make sure he knew he was appreciated. The man has been in my life 40+ years. He wasn't perfect, but he still calls me his daughter. And he still protected me growing up. ❤

@BleuReign13 4 ай бұрын

People r taking these made up holidays too seriously..leave Father's day to the men..if u dont wanna say something nice, don't say anything, easy.. *there were fools acting out on mother's day too..

@commanderbracey7501 4 ай бұрын

We call it clown world. 😂

@atay6413 4 ай бұрын

On fathers day spare a 30-second thought on those men who will never have a fathers day, due to medical or just trying to make socially and personally responsible decisions.

@nameblocked 4 ай бұрын

The ex friends name is KEISHA. It always is 😂.

@Eddybo22 4 ай бұрын

Everyone knows Keisha 😂😂😂😂

@magburn 4 ай бұрын

First thought, was Mother’s Day not enough?🙏🙏

@Eddybo22 4 ай бұрын

Nope because if it was they would not need to request to have father's day for themselves.

@therealshortyq5495 4 ай бұрын

You will always need that masculine energy to raise your child. Just as much as the feminine.

@iandonoghue4263 4 ай бұрын

She just doesn't have to lose weight.She has to lose the attitude too! But even then, i don't think she will get man weather with a healthful way towards man.Facts!

@firebug19841 4 ай бұрын

My baby's daddy and I are not together anymore so we co parent. I saw him the day before and wished him happy fathers day for the day after. Like he wishes me happy mothers day on mother's day. Just because you not together doesn't mean you can't be civil especially when your children are in the room..

@JBCCT01 3 ай бұрын

Where do the prison system, strip clubs, drug dealers get their occupants and employees? From-BABY MOMMA'S raising children with no fathers!!!

@MaxxD86 4 ай бұрын

Swevieeats sounding Auntie Ruckus to me lol

@KassiaPoties Ай бұрын

My mother was a real one! As a GenXer, I grew up hearing a lot of baby boomers who were single mothers say they celebrate Father's Day, too. I remember my teacher wanting us to create cards for our fathers, but my father wasn't in my life, so I made one for my mom, thinking she would appreciate it. My mother was highly upset with me, but she explained that being a single mother doesn't make a father. She said that she doesn't take on more of a responsibility just because my father wasn't there. She would have to raise me regardless. To her Father's Day was for fathers only. She told me to make cards for those men in my life who are fathers, not her. When I grew up and had my first born I understood and never celebrated Father's Day and dislike when I hear women claim that day for themselves. As a widow, I find it even more offensive because my sons lost their father, and claiming Father's Day as my own would be disrespectful to the wonderful father that he was when he was alive.

@AnimeFreya Күн бұрын

@ADifferentPerspective I was raised by a single dad, and he would always say that he's the mother and the father. He would say he should get gifts on Mother's Day as well.

@BabySpiegel 4 ай бұрын

And it's crazy with Father's Day and how there's people trying to replace it. I think since 2018, I would hear about how people are trying to change it from Father's Day to Special Person's Day or something like that. Fathers are absolutely key, I'm not a father myself but I didn't realize how crucial a father is until I played one in a play I acted in a few years ago

@jsmomo2 4 ай бұрын

All my kids even step kids all said it to me before 10am. An my kids mom also texted me the same, as we have always done. We may not do bdays every year, but we make sure those days we acknowledge the fact we respect our roles.

@DelightfullyDanni 4 ай бұрын

I don’t have social media but I did wish my ex a happy Father’s Day. He and I not working out doesn’t change his role as a father. I support his relationship with his children 100%

@gigaman47 4 ай бұрын

I can hear the Uncle Ruckus trombone theme from this lady 😂

@StreetSouljaz1 4 ай бұрын

I wished my son's mom a Happy mother's day and she in turn did the same for me on Father's Day.

@franciscocarrillo9745 4 ай бұрын

I been waiting for this video!!

@nicolette100 4 ай бұрын

I do not understand why some women want to be told Happy Father's Day.

@commanderbracey7501 4 ай бұрын

Masculine energy. 😂😂😂

@nicolette100 4 ай бұрын

@@commanderbracey7501 I guess.

@teniquacarter1679 Ай бұрын

I'm a woman and would tell my dad Happy mother's day and happy father's day... didn't live with either growing up but my dad was always around. Couldn't say the same for mom

@ProMeiFilmsOfficial 4 ай бұрын

In ranking. Most popular holidays. Mother's day is nr 2 (after Christmas). Father's day is nr 20. I can't think of 17 other holidays!!!

@Patient4ImLearning 3 ай бұрын

Daphne is the perfect example of the better option is for all of us to be nice to each other and help out as best you can. Ugliness has no place in a community

@MysTLRP 3 ай бұрын

Imagine not being grateful to a man who provided you with the most beautiful gift on this planet...

@PurpleVR111 4 ай бұрын

Love this channel 😀

@romkin1197 4 ай бұрын

Rule 1 when it comes to any social media. If you want to spout out stupid shit, don't have anything from real life being attached to your social media. There's a reason why I am anonymous and I choose to be. Because people rather just go into other profiles and try to find dirt than to address any actual argument.

@papidamuddafucare4699 4 ай бұрын

i love Daphne the Queen of Accountability, i like the hat at 3:00 with the "MENtal HEALth" bcz MEN(tal) need to HEAL(th) as well! =)🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

@isiahrowser 4 ай бұрын

It doesn’t matter if she loose the weight. Her attitude speaks for itself.

@robertnoble6661 4 ай бұрын

Words are only words it only has effect if you let it, let them call you every names in the book a mountain will never bow down.

@ce581 4 ай бұрын

10:25 i heard it in uncle ruckus voice. The theme was in my head.

@bigdoggham4269 4 ай бұрын

Great Clip Much Respect

@brad2812 4 ай бұрын

Yeah every store has tons of Mother’s Day stuff with large setups but you’ll be lucky to find a section of Father’s Day cards in a store

@jewels964 4 ай бұрын

Look it doesn't matter if u have the worst dad on the planet for your kids. Fathers day IS STILL HIS DAY AND THE KIDS SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO CELEBRATE THAT!!!! I don't get it. Men bust their butt's to support their kids and families and they deserve at the very least one day of the year to be celebrated and appreciated for what they do. Happy belated father's day guys.... some of us appreciate what you guys go thro! ❤

@stefanwolf4978 4 ай бұрын

Stevie got that big back energy 😂😂😂😂😂

@TrewB.a.a.B 4 ай бұрын

i choose AGGRESSION: "no Father's day items in Target..." Dude, there were no Father's day items in Wal-mart, Publix, or CVS where i'm from.

@johnmartinez-valentin5427 4 ай бұрын

I have a step dad and me and my mom celebrate father's day by spending time as a family watching a movie together and baking him a cheesecake

@devontyrell1969 4 ай бұрын

I honestly don't even wanna celebrate Father's Day most of the time all the post were directed at single moms or diluted the appreciation of Fathers

@immabooberry2740 4 ай бұрын

I want to know if y'all saw the woman who made a group chat with like 5 baby Daddy's and wished them all a Happy Father's Day in a group chat is wild!

@nmccon2010 4 ай бұрын

It's sad. My son is with his dad right now. Whole summer, father's day, every other Christmas & Thanksgiving. Shoot even on Mother's Day. These mamas just want the child support checks.

@tjsmoothrock 4 ай бұрын

How Daphne be knowing all the people in these situations lol

@Hype2k23 3 ай бұрын

Got my wine ready lets go 😂

@freemanthomas6166 10 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Aye we said OH MY GOD at the same time when her pic popped up.

@EddieCastillo-d7r 4 ай бұрын

single a mother by choice..... Not only does I mean she's the problem, but every single freaking kid is gonna be suffering her consequences. And the worst part is she don't give a f@@k, till it's too late.

@falecialogan1717 4 ай бұрын

Well, some mothers were raising children alone 🤷🏼‍♀️…for whatever reasons. Single mothers won’t wish a man Happy Fathers if he didn’t participate raising the child. About the “pick me” phrase….he may not have picked the mother BUT was required to pick his child upon arrival to life.

@jamesgoldsmith2336 4 ай бұрын

These poor lil tink tink ladies out here are going to realize the hard way that our pick-me ladies are the G.O.A.T's and will 4ever win over those dusty and crusty women who can't keep a man, please a man properly nor give proper support to her man will always lose to a pick- me! Signed by a real woman lover 💯💯💯💯💯💪🏿

@TheNaturegirl30 4 ай бұрын

12:41 Stinkmeyer's Sister? Or Uncle Ruckus's ?

@ericdefay7198 4 ай бұрын

I can understand this content, but right now, we need to put this aside when we are at the brink of war and people worry about the wrong things

@smokiemcgoo8569 4 ай бұрын

We are always at the brink of War....its been that way since the beginning of time. Our Government saves us daily from issues that arise...and we dont even know. It's just relevant to "YOU", because it's during your time and our society is informed. I don't know about you...but we can Walk and Chew Gum.

@thomas77778871 4 ай бұрын

The hate is real. I love my black men. Sometimes, they love you. Sometimes, they don't. Every couple is not perfect. Happy Belated Father's day.

@johnmartinez-valentin5427 4 ай бұрын

That just means that she couldn't find someone that doesn't want to be with you

@alexaikens1610 4 ай бұрын

That woman sound like the female version of Uncle Ruckus ( very related)

@Lovingness626 4 ай бұрын

My brother is a single father, because he fought for his kids in court. The only reason I won’t tell him happy Father’s Day again is because of his religion. He prefers that no one celebrates it, because I think he’s basically muslim now. He knew that the mother of his children would probably end up ruining their lives so when everyone wants to keep bashing men, especially black man, think about men like my brother please. He is now celibate according to him.

@sigmaenigma5437 4 ай бұрын

The Pick Me's are getting PICKED!🤣👌💯 2:09

@rolyrod69 4 ай бұрын

Daphne is a very cool lady!

@traindawg21 4 ай бұрын

Bro Daphne been on a flat out tear lol

@orealz 4 ай бұрын

Stevieeats an aunty ruckus 😂

@classicblue 4 ай бұрын

Lol she warned everybody she would be on they a$$ if they did that😂

@caroline.mokone5879 Ай бұрын

I don't if it's a bad thing but I'm very overly protective over my dad from everyone. I even fought my estranged mother for this kind of toxic behaviour in the past. I'm not hearing any thing father's day is FATHER'S that's it.