Nightwatch: Dan Cares for a Patient Grieving Her Mom (S2 Flashback) | A&E

Dan calms down a woman suffering a panic attack over the grief of losing her mom in this clip from Season 2, Episode 3, "Trust The Ones You're With." #Nightwatch
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[@robertdesmarais3821]

EMT was caring and helpful girl just holding your hand and talking calmly is so caring

[@jessicarewa5176]

I've been their! Let me tell u! Caring ems is AMAZING

[@timeeaanamariazotescu6353]

Honestly sometimes that's all that you need. Actually a nurse holding my hand like that was what made me decide that I want to work in the medical field. I can't even describe the feelings that you have as a patient, both physically and mentally unwell, when someone just shows you that you are cared about and it's just the greatest encouragement to feel that.

[@Finessed.m8]

He’s a paramedic

[@noblegamer871]

@@Finessed.m8 a well decorated and awarded nurse as well. I love Dan he’s the best on the team that we see even if we don’t see every one of his feats he is a pure good man.

[@itsyevette836]

I love how men from Down there talk 🤣🤣🤣😭❤️❤️

[@kimsmith819]

That young girl has to be devastated losing her mother while she is so young

[@austinmasoni3750]

im happy my terrible mom is gone but im sad that the womans mom is gone

[@shondasmith5470]

@@austinmasoni3750 Wow God bless you and be safe.

[@mindyramirez9753]

Must be so hard to have a trauma like that poor girl😥

[@dorothya8999]

I lost mine at 6

[@rylandtrenton5919]

@Jimmy Marcel definitely, I've been watching on InstaFlixxer for since december myself :)

[@xxnimue.lovexx]

She really said "you got me acting ugly with these people for nothing" the nerve. No ma'am you're choosing to respond that way. She's panicking and you're making it seem like it's her fault that you're being unnecessarily rude. Panic attacks shouldn't be taken lightly you can't talk like that to someone in that state. No wonder she has that built up in her and sadly that happened. I hope she finds someone she can talk to because whoever that lady was to her was not helping the situation.

[@serenanance8263]

Im still trying to figure out what she meant by that. Lady still kept on acting rude when they tried to explain that her vibe is isn't helping her nice.

[@xxnimue.lovexx]

@@serenanance8263 Right. This was hard to watch. She really blamed her for the way she's acting. It's bad enough that her attitude wasn't helping but it was embarrassing as well. I wouldn't be surprised if she was the reason it triggered more not being able to talk to her, I assume.

[@stayswaggy6826]

Grieve can do many things and people can get very angry

[@FeeOJLee]

It’s not being rude just to be rude. I used to work in mental health and it’s a response from fear. If you’ve ever been around traumatized dogs before you know that some dogs cower and shake in a corner and some dogs bark and try to bite. When you feel powerless and scared the actions you often take is flight, fight or freeze. She is showing fight due to being scared and not knowing what to do. She’s wrong but it’s not unknown.

[@xxnimue.lovexx]

@@FeeOJLee true

[@pattibrown7989]

It doesn't matter how old you are. When you have a devastating loss it can shatter your heart. There's nothing childish about it. When my grandmother died my adult cousin had a complete breakdown.

[@pattibrown7989]

@Kimberly Jaymes He said at one point that as she grows up she has to learn to deal with things as if to say adults don't have trouble dealing with loss.

[@jillwisland680]

@@pattibrown7989 I took it more as, adults know how to deal with it better, or at least we should. We can still have meltdowns, but we should know enough to have a close group of people to help us through those meltdowns etc.

[@tsigner73]

I lost my mom this past April. She was my best friend. I used to go minute to minute. I've progressed to day to day. Doesn't matter how old you are. Loosing your Mom just hurts so dang bad. 😢

[@jillwisland680]

@Kimberly Jaymes i think I meant that comment for someone else... these comment sections can get a little confusing at times.

[@kelseybordeaux9206]

Exactly,losing anyone in your Family that you care for is a Crushing Blow. When my Grandma died it took me 5 years to even be able to say her name without Sobbing.

[@pattymullin8515]

Auntie almost threw ME into a panic attack.That type of behavior doesn't help anyone, anywhere at any time and doesn't solve a thing. I'm so sorry the young lady's mother died. I was relieved they took her to the hospital if only to remove her from that bedlam and give her what she needed - some soothing words, some words of advice and a hand to hold.

[@slvrbullet22]

seriously.. i got anxiety watching her

[@SoKelly]

@@slvrbullet22 same!!!!

[@xxnimue.lovexx]

Exactly. Unfortunately I've been in a situation like that. It's too chaotic and doesn't help when you're overcrowded and there's too much going on. It was almost hard for me to watch. I'm happy they got her away from that.

[@pattymullin8515]

@@xxnimue.lovexx I completely understand. It's not a good place to be.

[@grylltheonion]

Peope grieve differently.

[@shelygrimmer3344]

I am so happy that Dan and Keley stepped in. The Aunt was to harsh to be with that little girl.

[@florecitaroquera4311]

Why some Family membersalways made the situation worst🤦🏻‍♀️

[@that.ll_do_pig]

@Fredo Staryes. both things are true.

[@abbyxg5596]

@Fredo Star yes but her behavior was uncalled for she made things worst and was giving me anxiety just watching her in the video I can only imagine in real life .

[@tamikaoneal9746]

@@abbyxg5596 righttt!!

[@FeeOJLee]

It’s not being rude just to be rude. I used to work in mental health and it’s a response from fear. If you’ve ever been around traumatized dogs before you know that some dogs cower and shake in a corner and some dogs bark and try to bite. When you feel powerless and scared the actions you often take is flight, fight or freeze. She is showing fight due to being scared and not knowing what to do. She’s wrong but it’s not unknown.

[@exoticfn4759]

That aunt was CRAZY, that poor girl was having a panic attack and that lady was just going ham on the EMT’S

[@jrodd05]

We’re use to it lol

[@01keyboard]

That's that one aunt in everyone's family that has her heart in the right place, always trying to help, but always ONLY just making everything worse.

[@anthonyhutchins2300]

Ugh she was terrible... Just a low IQ person clearly

[@01keyboard]

@@anthonyhutchins2300 hey someone's got to be the loudest and most obnoxious..might as well be her.

[@michelaforeman9739]

in her mind, the solution to every problem is to be loud and fight, her heart really was there, but its just not what that poor baby girl needed at the moment

[@istankon-el2470]

Fr!!

[@jacquelinevanholten1838]

Try having more than 1 in the family. Recipe for disaster! Just depresses u!

[@youngnurse9994]

The auntie was probably making this poor child more upset with all of her hollering and screaming!!!!! I pray the girl finds someone that she can talk to when she feels like she is having a hard time dealing with the loss of her mother. R I P MOM 🛐

[@jazminlewis1804]

Keeley, that lady ain’t coming with me 😭😭

[@brireid1895]

favorite thing lol

[@matthewsmatthews3671]

Her people are just ignorant that’s just sad... then she blamed her niece for her being rude that’s just sad.. that’s baby don’t have no support

[@firstname3993]

?

[@horsegirl07]

Very sad! Just like Dan said, she didn’t need a hospital ride she just needed someone to talk to 😔

[@Liliithchild]

@Tiffany Hall oh wow

[@kathryn-anon]

@@Liliithchild lmao right? but she's not lying! Anyone who voted straight republican in this last election definitely hates people-- and wants the end of them haha

[@jacquelinevanholten1838]

I can understand why he didnt want her riding in his truck. She doesn't need that kinda talk in her head

[@sirCRASHtheGreat]

Respect for Dan for standing his ground

[@kelseystump112]

And Keeley!

[@nhtom8]

Keeley just lays down the law and makes it stick. Don't mess with Keeley.

[@HaniaGamer]

Dan's a good man

[@Charles-c9y]

Yeah

[@daijamitchell8908]

When he wiped her tears 😭

[@Charles-c9y]

He's sweet

[@keepinitkawaii]

Im 24 and watching my mother slowly waste away to cancer. I couldn't imagine being only 15 and going through something so devastating.

[@tamarapblacksnow]

Sorry for your loss

[@eileensmith925]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@markelbritt4888]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@chinkz6375]

Praying for you sis 🙏🏾

[@ari9313]

How is everything now?

[@iTranscendx]

Having just lost my dad at 26 and dealing with losing my mom now at 27 I can feel this woman’s pain. Edit: wow! Thank you for all the likes. I wasn’t expecting that at all. I just really felt for the woman who lost her mom after dealing with that myself this past year. It’s been a hard year for everybody and I hope 2021 is better!

[@bethanym7391]

i’m so sorry for your loss❤️ they’ll be waiting for you. you are so strong!

[@iTranscendx]

@@bethanym7391 wow! Thank you for this, I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your kind words.

[@lilianacastro6238]

I’m so sorry to hear that❤️ I wish the best for you and keep your head up

[@iTranscendx]

@@lilianacastro6238 thank you, Liliana! You’re so kind and that means a lot!

[@littlewhisper1045]

I’m sorry for your loss. Hopefully you have good people around you to help you through this time. Best of luck to you❤️❤️

[@kiajames7737]

That baby needs hugs, cuddles, forehead kisses. Gentle words and a Soft embrace. She’s so vulnerable my heart breaks for her. Life can be so scary without the one who loves you the most. 😔

[@Olivegreeennn]

I’ll never forget my dad passing away from cancer at the age of 7. He died at home and the paramedics were so incredible. I can’t remember the lady name who hugged me and told me everything would be ok. But I’ll be 25 next month and she was absolutely right. I’m doing just fine. I miss my dad but I know he’s not suffering anymore.

[@moonbased7796]

I’m so sorry for about your dad! I bet he’s watching over you smiling and is very proud of you! :)

[@heatherraines6857]

Dan is so sweet , and has such a calming voice! He is a beautiful soul altogether..

[@waytoson]

New Orleans is my fave crew... Dan, Titus, Holly, Keeley, Nick...yes please Dan, " That woman ain't getting in my truck!".. I love him

[@fhxs]

I just want to hug her she’s only 15. I couldn’t imagine going through losing my mom at that age & getting through all those emotions.

[@jillhuddle7379]

You Dan was on the right call that night...God Bless you , stay safe ...

[@Pattyphoenixrising7799]

He is an excellent EMT!! Bravo to you for being so compassionate!! I used to suffer from anxiety and panic attacks. More people need to be like him when dealing with people who are struggling. 🙏🙏

[@knee9819]

My anxiety rises when ever i saw some one in such situation. Anxiety/ panic attacks are worst we cant control but we can deal with it . Just relax !! Let all worries blow away with the wind

[@rolan6603]

I'm diagnosed w severe panic anxiety attacks. I once heard "Smell the 🌹 roses,blow out the 🕯️ candle" slowly. Hope it helps someone.. anyone.

[@throughpatseyes]

@@rolan6603 thanks for the advice. 💕

[@xxnimue.lovexx]

@@rolan6603 that helps a lot

[@knee9819]

Rola Nesh thanks for sharing blowing candles is really a good technique . Reverse Counting and changing location also helps sometimes .

[@brandongustafson7497]

I understand she was nervous but auntie needs an attitude check real quick!

[@jake92forreal36]

That poor girl is left with that monster. Smart EMT workers “I’ll let anyone else who is going to be calm. It’s for everybody’s safety”. In other words, lunatics are not welcome haha

[@marleysgrandmacp]

So odd I would see this today because it’s the anniversary of my mom’s passing 😭😭😭

[@nancyhammons3594]

I'm sorry that you've lost your mom, I know the holidays can't be easy for you, but she's looking out for you.

[@bleebleeblahblah]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[@PulseParadox]

Sorry for your loss man

[@sierraclements7276]

I’m so sorry for your loss 🤍

[@cindycindy2894]

I My condolences on your loss.

[@Sara-xk1ns]

I'm 35, lost my mom at 19 and it still feels like yesterday. I remember my first anxiety attack after she passed. Never had one befode , scariest experience in a store. Hid in a bathroom and called my aunt who talked me thru it so I could leave the store. After that first one they seemed to happen all the time.lots of therapy and grieve and processing. Seeing her brought that back and I feel for her. But Dan was so right. He did just what she needed.

[@ColinPatrickxo]

I have a crush on Dan. lmfao. he handles situations so nicely and is good with kids and upset patients. (not to mention, really handsome) ;D

[@autumnallen456]

Bruh sa me he is 60.he stopped aging at 30 I swear

[@Charles-c9y]

He's not 60 he's 40

[@misssmisssymaria]

“She ain’t getting in my truck” Yup, I’ve done that too. We want to create a calm environment for our patient so they can calm do. Even if it means not letting jackasses like the woman ride with us. That lady was arguing with the medics about the questions questions that they’re asking, meanwhile, the girl is having a full blown anxiety attack and hyperventilating. How can someone be so self absorbed. 😠

[@aprildawn3999]

That Male EMT was so sweet when treating this young lady. I can't even imagine what she is going through over the loss of her momma.

[@jch12341]

This is why I love Dan. He's so caring and compassionate, I can see why he's also an RN, on top of being a paramedic.

[@bettyb1313]

The care they took with this young lady is beautiful the way he talked to the cousin was amazing...

[@hamilcross]

it’s bad enough to feel out of control and completely at the mercy of anxiety during a panic attack. it’s so unnecessarily rude to further add to that stress just because you’re trying to save face in front of people. i wish the very best for this young lady.

[@Warcity777]

I was 9 when I lost my mom I feel for her hope she can find someone good to talk to.

[@chasinbready]

Sorry for your lost, I can’t imagine losing mine

[@fionawaymire3198]

I’m so sorry

[@firstname3993]

@@chasinbready :(

[@joelenglish4349]

Dan is a beautiful kind gentle soul

[@Misswarlord]

This is one of my favorite Dan and Titus rescues 💕💕💕 Dan is so caring to her and helped get her out of the situation

[@JenniferAmyFriesen]

That poor girl. She has so much pain in her eyes. What a good EMT team helping her

[@dvnlady29]

Dan hit the nail on the head. all she needed was someone to hold her hand & help her through the emotions. Mental health gets mistreated in hospitals, some of the things they do just make situations worse. 9x out of 10 all the person needs is someone to listen to them & help them calm down, maybe help them sort out their emotions & on occasion maybe someone needs a little medication to help calm them. Mental health is so poorly handled the vast majority of the time.

[@wonieblue1657]

Poor baby has to many crazy people in her life behind the scenes she needs love not yelling and screaming

[@jasmineg3928]

Dan and Titus are one of my favs on this show they have such big hearts and are amazing at their job

[@madalynlindemann6048]

This made me tear up. Poor baby, n the EMT was so caring ❤️

[@gigwgt]

As soon as she said “My momma.” 😞😢. Cancer took my mom to.

[@sweetlisajohnson]

I feel for her thats a hard situation

[@dave1986R]

I actually started crying when I watched this. Losing a loved one is tough.

[@makenziemarie3565]

Dan is such a sweet guy. I can feel my anxiety just hearing her talk.

[@charlotted6247]

Dan the man is just an awesome guy. Love this show.

[@lindapatterson8573]

Dan is so sweet I just love him wish there was more people like him

[@feleciajohnson8467]

I lost my mom 2 years ago in july it feels like yesterday 💔 when he wiped her tears that instantly made me cry ...it feels good to be cared for but missing my moms touch and voice is something we never forget

[@torriewilliams3998]

1:24 "why you cuss at me? i just got here!" 😂❤️ gotta love dan. lol and titus responds "i heard that answer from all the way over here"

[@torriewilliams3998]

and dan's "you aint coming in here" is killing me lol

[@reneedunkel216]

That was a good thing he did and I think there should more like him in the field .and I think he is very handsome man.thank you & God blessed them.

[@reneedunkel216]

Thank you EMT

[@A1TEXAS01]

Can we give them both an award 🥇 Love the way they handle the situation

[@QueenRissa_34]

Titus & Dan are so funny! I love their friendship!! Aw....😩🤣😂 That was so sweet of Dan to calm the girl down....🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@calebbigcbark]

Dans a real one bro!!

[@sassyspice2727]

I can't lie this was very emotional for me to watch...Some Ppl don't understand how touch anxiety, depression, and stress is. When I saw that young girl I saw myself. I saw me. 😭 I struggle with anxiety and depression too and being around ppl who are committed to misunderstanding you makes it worse. A toxic environment only makes mental health disorders worse...I pray that this young lady finds the help she needs.

[@Niyah127]

I feel terrible for the 15 year old woman Poor friend 😲😥

[@stmull8678]

Wow. That Keely, she is SOOO good at what she does. They all are, but man, Keely is a cool cucumber. I have so much respect for all of you. Love you all.

[@jduncan8838]

Dan needs to have kids he does so good with kids and if he had kids they would love a great dad like dan

[@RahimahUnwrapped]

No one NEEDS to have kids just because they're good with them 🙄

[@chentilafricanqueen8863]

@@RahimahUnwrapped says who? So because his good he should have kids your very ignorant

[@wrathofthelamb318]

Not everyone wants or needs to have kids. Just beacuse their good with them...dont force that on anyone

[@lildasani]

Dan the man best explained to the young girl how to talk to someone in her family. Love this show.

[@boto8309]

I’m so blessed to have a nurturing family when I have my episodes of anxiety/panic attacks. If I were in this poor girls situation I would die of a heart attack with how this aunty is talking to her.

[@culturethevibe2125]

My mom died and I felt her pain!! I was prompted to cry 🥺

[@lexibug]

I felt this in my spirit 💜 I remember I started having panic attacks after my mom passed 😭 I hope where ever she is she's doing a lot better

[@Aries_Fire89]

Poor girl with the panic attack 😢all that yelling by the family makes it so much worse when you literally feel your about to die.. the paramedic was an angel sometimes all you need is a soothing person to help calm you down and it helps tremendously!!

[@awesomegameplay746]

I am studying to become a EMT and as a EMT your job is to have sympathy for the patient and always treat the patient like if it is one of your family members but it come naturally!😀😁

[@TraciHilbers]

Thats Awesome!! I am a retired Advanced EMT,I retired due to my MS,I miss it soo much! I could tell you some stories,keep studying,its a lot of hard work but soo worth it in the end

[@awesomegameplay746]

@@TraciHilbers thank-you can you give me any more advice

[@carmenymigue2010]

Feels soooo good having the perfect person at the right moment!!! May God give this young lady the strength to find the spirit of peace ❤️

[@idkimalwaysconfused]

wow no one gonna talk about how nice the cousin seemed. he didn’t talk much but he immediately stepped up and volunteered to go

[@BaileeXsweets]

I love how they can still joke even when something serious is going down now you gotta have skill for that lol ❤️❤️❤️

[@scottyp2505]

I feel for that girl because she clearly lives in a stressful environment on top of losing her mother. The aunt was acting like a lunatic

[@lakeshiaball1609]

This has me crying 😢 my heart ❤️ and prayers goes out to this baby may God comfort her and get her through this and be with her always God bless🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

[@michelletrasatti5771]

Dan gave great advice about that teenage girl in ONE sentence. SHE ONLY NEEDED SOMEONE TO HOLD HER HAND CALM HER DOWN AND LISTEN!!!!

[@janaydaniel3725]

This is what I love about St Lucie County EMT in Florida. They’re paramedics are VERY nurturing and caring: they give u a pice of mind. Their trainer trained them well!!! Shout out to St Lucie County Fire Rescue and EMT in South Florida!

[@natalycorona8340]

Thank you Dan for being real and sensitive

[@Honeypieasmr15]

This was really comforting… all of these EMS responders are some of my favorite people

[@pamelaguzman7516]

I have so much sympathy for her, oh my goodness, I hope. That she gets the help and support she needs, blessdannsheart, he’s so good with everyone.❤️😇🙏🏼❤️😇🙏🏼❤️😇🙏🏼

[@beverlythacker4426]

I Lost my dad in 2012. He had cancer as well. I was in my early 30 when he passed away. I wanna hug this girl. You have a amazing family hun. It's okay to grieve. It's okay to cry. It's okay to get mad. I hope they get her into some grief therapy that really helps. I hope she is doing better

[@darksoul479]

I'm so sorry. I hope that that young lady does better in the future. 😣

[@oompa172000811]

I lost my mom a few years ago so I can understand I was 28 and her cancer came back after many many years and she chose not to fight it after such a tough fight before, it's devastating and crushing at any age it's something that no one should have to deal with. I pray she can find someone to talk to her and help her through it.

[@emileechristian6552]

this hit a little too close to home. i lost my mom to cancer and i knew when i started watching id cry... im sorry for anyone whos experienced this, i know what youre going through and ill always be willing to talk :))

[@katiepetersen8185]

This hits close to home. I get really bad panic attacks and I have people I can talk to but choose not to. Sometimes I feel like I am genuanly dieing but it feels good just to know that people care

[@gigidecember2445]

My heart goes out to this family, I lost my 23-month-old grandson on Dec.17,2020 when he fell into a pond and drowned while my son is Police Officer, EMS and Volunteer Fire Dept.

[@meowersmeow54]

My sister passed away 4 years ago when I was 15. Not a day goes by that I dont think of her. The first few months after she passed I had panic attacks almost daily. Even though this episode is a few years old, I hope that she is doing much better now. Anyone else going thought something like this, I hope that you have a good support system.

[@ari9313]

I'm so sorry

[@janeishaortiz5623]

I love that they are so caring !!

[@kaydacia9846]

One time I had a panic attack and the EMT did the same exact thing, he held my hand and it made me feel so much better. I wasn’t able to calm myself down in the hospital and they had to give me medication but the emt holding my hand made me feel so much better.

[@cynthia437]

Dan : "We all grive baby, we all grieve differently" Me : 😭😭😭 Yess baby, please be strong for your mama, i know how it breaks your heart but you are not alone. Trust me we are all grieve in this unfair world

[@donnalynn3589]

Good to see Dan and Keely get control of that situation before it got too out of hand. So sorry about the young ladys mama. I know exactly what she's going thru 😪

[@aaliyahgabrielle2849]

I had an asthma attack that turned into a Panic attack. The EMT was so sweet to me and that's what made me want to study EMS. The adults are scared and I get that but them being hyped up hurts the little girl more.

[@pandoradraws2529]

To be honest if the aunt were mine I would've had a panic attack! my panic attack triggers go along the lines of this, person being hostile,verbal or physical altercations due past trauma. I feel so bad for the poor girl losing a loved one let alone your own mother is devastating.

[@oliviaround4696]

I hate that I can understand about her panic attack because I lost my grandma and grandpa in less than 2 weeks to cancer and in my science lesson I HAD to learn about it for GCSEs and I started having an attack and had to leave the room

[@BaniBani_1998]

I can’t imagine losing my parents. That poor girl 💔

[@robylove9190]

I loved when Night Watch was in New Orleans. I'm happy they are going back there.

[@dakotaromero6319]

Props to the cousin for going with his little cousin. He knows she needs calmness

[@pennyschroder2553]

These guys are just amazing true angels. much love to them.

[@Twin-kd5sf]

Man God continue to watch over this young lady 🙏

[@tonybradford1719]

I can relate my grandpa passed I was lucky because I got to spend the last few minutes of his life with him and he was loved and surrounded by people that loved him even the nurses at the hospital cried when he passed

[@jesussaves7849]

I used to be a CNA and the nursing staff got tearful when someone died. I had one I had gotten really close to you would have thought they told me my Daddy died.

[@zoelifecoach7099]

Both paramedics were caring and gave great advice🌻

[@monesimon3573]

Sorry for her lost RIP ANGEL GOD BLESS YOU

[@KillJoy_Since2017]

Poor lady, I hope she got better

[@ajlocs2361]

Love this show these guys are awesome. God bless them for all they do.