African Women Abroad, Stop that Nonsense!

African women abroad stop calling police to remove your husband from the home over any little argument! Its disgraceful and damaging to your children.

[@dr.jamesabiye2825]

I brought my wife, spent all my money to bring her to Europe...for 6 years she refused to work...The moment she used me to get a passport... she now has grown wings that she talks to me like a kid. I became bankrupt because of this woman...everything has broken down. She calls me the loser..a fool. hahahahaha. Kama is around the corner.

[@mosesocean7391]

James Johnson i feel your pain bro i was about to bring my girlfriend to USA then i thought about how she could change once she comes to USA

[@swiitdoll]

I can never feel sorry for men lmao.

[@sunrisefarm5489]

James Johnson don't worry my dear, I brought a man and immediately he got paper, he started running me down, calling me all sorts of names, finally he ran away and I suffered emotional wounds and I cried bitterly, I gave him over to God and after years he died by car accident and the only person to sign for his burial was me, I bluntly refused, he was finally burnt, and all his properties were handed over to me and above all passport and resident permit were all given back to me. The police has the copies though. I went to see him in the mortuary and my only question to his corpse was So You Can Die?

[@onyegboancientpeople7179]

Lol

[@dr.jamesabiye2825]

I am currently depressed. Worse still, I put this person in school...spent my money to get her MSc...Six years of my life wasted.

[@Dimplesmee]

Husbands love your wives unconditionally and the submission will come naturally with no fuss or quibble

[@symphoriankimbi4869]

Not necessarily... Some are pure Jezebel.

[@girlwiththemagicpen]

@@symphoriankimbi4869 Then you for kno before you marry dem

[@symphoriankimbi4869]

@@girlwiththemagicpen did u not hear that love is blind?

[@symphoriankimbi4869]

@@girlwiththemagicpen can u truly advise a man in love?

[@chizobaani4037]

Very childish way of reasoning, to say the least.

[@te6484]

For any woman to call the police, there has to a serious reason. Abuse should never be tolerated

[@kevinemmanuel8525]

A woman ringing police due to abused ok fair enough, but sadly 90% of the time the women who come abroad ring police on their partner is not due to abused

[@ogasontop]

Also the men need to understand that times have changed respect your wife

[@rosaokoye605]

Well im from Holland and i was married to a yoruba man living in Spain, he was claiming he loved me, but he was trying to use me for his document, and look for a moment to dump me for a woman in Usa who cant even help him with his document. Is on social media i caught him calling her his queen, when i was the one suffering with him. I understand you but some men are really something else.

[@kai_kai1843]

La-Rosa Rosa Okoye happened to me also....wise up folks

[@drsameer8737]

Kai_kai...and La Rosa Rosa Okoye. why do you ladies go through all that when you can easily go back home and get a man for yourself as husband, someone who will respects you and love you for who you are. When both families are involved the story would not be the same. But European folks can not help else they add salt to your injury. Wise up, nobody wants to be alone..

[@dorotv4897]

@@drsameer8737 the men coming from Africa are no better.

[@drsameer8737]

@@dorotv4897 How many men that comes from Africa have you stayed with? Anyway, let talk more in private if you wouldn't mind. [e-mail]. that's my email. Hit me up, then we'll take it up from there. Remain blessed.

[@olytee2142]

@@drsameer8737 gold digger. Look at you. #waka

[@cocobutterchin6768]

Marriage should be a teamwork. Both men and women should work together,grow together. It shouldn't be one way ticket.

[@comfortjohnson1520]

I like the topic of the woman in abroad. It's not all women that are doing that, I was marry for 25 yrs now my ex. I have called police for him only one time bcos of the abused. Right now as am texting you the beating from him have damaged my left eye. Some men deserve those kind of women that will not respect them and send them to jail.

[@joannaonyi2027]

Only God can judge, some men are pretty good and responsible but having a bad wife. Some women are pretty good but having irresponsible and lawless man as a husband

[@felilayusuf4919]

My sister I just found your channel and have subscribed. You make plenty of valid points here that I agree with especially the part about children and how their parents' behaviour will influence them. What I have come to realise in my short time on this earth is that everything a woman does is essentially a reaction to some male she has encountered in her life, so in essence, men do not realise that a lot of what is wrong in this world can be directly linked back to them. A man who fails to treat his wife, specifically the mother of his children well, will only find disaster along the way. Although men are the "leaders" in many, many societies across the world, it is women who spend the most time with children so if you as a man go around abusing and neglecting the women in your life (that you chose to have in your life), that will affect her and in turn affect your children (who will one day become hurt/ angry/ neglected adults). Many women become the way they do (mean, disrespectful, angry, etc.) simply out of fear. Fear of the known and the unknown. Far too many of us have witnessed how our fathers and uncles and cousins and brothers have treated our mothers, aunties and sister's. We have seen the helplessness of these women and as result we have become afraid. In an attempt to put in preventative measures, we have become essentially self-destructive. Too many people out here are hurt, heartbroken and afraid and have adopted this "better him/ her than me mentality". We need to learn to love again and the true meaning of kindness.

[@zapprecious6017]

Hi please not all woman are bad here in abroad,some man are very wicked. If i explain my own situation u won't believe what i pass through from man.

[@Esubey]

same here

[@olychi2onuzuru32]

One thing I have to tell men when u bring a woman to Europe try to treat her well don't use African styles there is stress and loneliness in Europe try to hold each other back not all women who leave their husband leave because of money but for loneliness and abuse without dat the marriage wouldn't work

[@workbook5749]

You hit the point

[@workbook5749]

Some of them don't know their children years in school

[@workbook5749]

They work like there's no tomorrow

[@SoothingSounds-ph5mm]

The men need to take on a more nurturing and protective mindset and lead by example. A good man should not expect to have a slave for a wife.

[@SoothingSounds-ph5mm]

Just Emeka I have no issue with being treated respectfully by men in my family, home or outsiders. I standby my intial comment. The men must learn that being a leader in their family, home and community is earned not owed. In most cases a woman will adjust to the man if he carries himself like gentlman and a good husband. If he were to lead by example, layout a clear family construct, keep his commitments, maintain a positive attitude, listen to the needs of his family, base his decsions on what is best for the family and make an effort to communicate his love the the vast majority of theses issues would not exist. Their wives and family would follow them to the ends of the earth.

[@christy7173]

Yolanda Walker Thank you. Why would you go seek out a wife all the way in Nigeria just to educate them to make them money? Men invest that money into yourself. A wife is not a donkey for making money

[@jonnynasz]

What are you talking about exactly?

[@beatricejacob8290]

God bless you

[@87lafoie]

Yolanda Walker I wonder where you have been? Take a good look at your close family and friends, is it a good environment? Your comment is sooo.....

[@Dimplesmee]

Sorry there are so many useless husbands abroad.

[@francisjohn5022]

Amazon Princess: sorry for yourself for calling men useless.

[@janicerichards8959]

I am not an African but believe me you Folks pay attention to what this Lady is saying please stop nit picking(picking out certain parts and making comments) it is so nice to listen and pay attention we so just want to make comments to be mean spirited. This information can be useful to every Nationality every Culture Please my Dears. Wonderful my Sister keep spreading the word. PEACE 😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤❤👍👍👍👍

[@openbooktips]

Instead of always buying them the latest Play station, X box, Nintendo, etc. but then god computers and enroll them in coding and media design classes. Let’s change our thinking and work our children’s young brains. Who says the next big thing in Tech can’t be am African kid?

[@lindalemoni5428]

why would someone call police on their husband if it's not for abuse? police will come for what reason?

[@ngoziasiegbulem9112]

Thanks

[@kemi.a.2000]

Did you talk about the men too? Maybe you have. The men abandon their wives and kids for another woman. Women have seen this and it seem to have thicken them too.

[@unstoppableunstoppable8687]

Kemi Agbonlahor you are right Kemi

[@lan16147]

Kemi Agbonlahor I

[@nguessnguess1892]

Kemi, I was thinking the same when watching. My children dad brought in Europe, the man abused me soooo much, including threats, emotional, physical... Abuses. I tried my best to make it work for 7years, I had to ran away from him, he nearly killed me. I never called the police or got any authority involved because I didn't want him to have problems. Up to now he never called nor visited his children despite having our details.

[@jacksonernie484]

@@nguessnguess1892 Should have busted a cap in his azz .

[@babyossa1015]

It's easy to look @ ppl nd make quick judements about them, their present, nd their past but you’ll be amazed @ the pain nd tears a single mind hides. What a person shows to the world is only one tiny facet of the iceberg hidden from sight. And more often than not, it's lined with cracks nd scars that go all the way to the foundation of their soul. Never judge, learn to respect nd aknowledge the reasons behind most women's actions. Thank you.

[@elizabethadebowale7963]

What of a man that left his wife with four kids and went to stay with another woman with three children of different father in this same country of London. We just need help of God

[@itz_kellyplayz4789]

Mmmmm all these bad men spoiling men's image may they all become impotent 🙏

[@folasadeadeseyoju7013]

I just listened to this footage until I rented a space in a "salon". What I saw and what I heard shocked me. What I mean is never seen or heard things like this before. The owner and her friends tried to force me to be like them. All they know is illicit sex having kids with different fathers parties, aso ebi etc. Complex lifestyle. It is by the Grace of God I resisted. I was going to university to improve my life and career. I was lambasted because of who I am. They are jealous and gossips. One day they level their verbal attack at me. That was how I saw the obvious huge gap between them and I. They realise I am levelling up, they are on ground 0.I did not stay long there. I left the salon unexpectedly. Went on to have a fabulous life, while their lives has gone downhill. Sister keep up the good work and and tell them the hard truth.

[@armandojohanna6000]

Sis folasade always flee the company of the wicked you did well💕🇳🇦

[@mariamofatai]

Some of our Men expects African Standard in marriages.Some wonen are treated like Slaves, or maids. It's Crazy

[@1LovelyMommyOf3]

I’m African American and she talks wisdom. I often say I wish I could have grown up in Africa or at least live there for some time. My African friends have taught and shown me so much.

[@joeagbaizu3208]

Afrocentrically Me BUILDING IN NIGERIA HAS SOME CHALLENGES, BUT IF YOU USE PROFESSIONALS SUCH AS QUANTITY SURVEYOR, ATTORNEY FOR CONTRACT, ESTATE SURVEYOR, AVOID QUACKERY TO ELIMINATE YOUR EXPERIENCE. JOE AGBAIZU ESQ.

[@imusttalk8839]

Hey, greetings and Peace I bring unto thee. Am Peace, can we be friends.

[@mupenzirobzy6643]

Come I will give land and u stay

[@olympicjoe8551]

Most african American are better than our own african woman who came from Africa

[@knowthetruthandbesaved7333]

African American what Different Dose it make.... Its nobody's problem... Miss America

[@omodayofakoya3968]

Some men are hypocrites, JEALOUS and wicked. They talk BAD about their wives at her back and pretend as if they loved her. Please that topic get as e be. Just advise men to not behave as if they are semi God. They need to work hard, most women work so hard to support their parents back home.so men should understand

[@boluwajiadelabu6571]

Thoroughly enjoyed this video. Thank you for posting this, people definitely need to hear the truth! Lots of love from New York.

[@imusttalk8839]

Hello friend. Greetings and Peace I bring unto thee. Am Peace, can we be friends.

[@elizabethgomes50]

One advice for AFRICAN MEN. Carry your duty well as a man at home, trust me, your wife will be the best thing you have ever had, she will worship your feets. This is nothing but the truth!! Simple as that. If you carry your duty well as a man and she's not treating you like a husband, leave her and move on with your life.

[@Chichichikito]

Going back to catch up on all these gems. You are such a blessing. 💕

[@jimmysheglo2258]

I am from a neighboring country to yours. I can say hear that i have been watching your postings for while now. Your topics are very educational and sincere because you have a very fine heart.

[@PaultheSheik]

This brings back memories not in my life but in the life of my great or what you would call best friend at the time. It was in March 2003 I was in Ghana on vacation when he called me from Virginia and said the lady he had gone home to marry had gotten a visa and he didn't have money for a ticket if I could lend him money. I bought a ticket for her and we flew on the same flight back to Dulles. She got pregnant right away (lol year my homeboy was not playing around) and within the span of three years they had two kids. She didn't work for the first four or so years because of childcare and pregnancy etc. Anyway shortly after that her family poisoned her mind that her husband doesn't want her success hence for over four years she has not worked to send them money and only getting pregnant. This was a guy who shared everything he had with her and put her first, I know because I was single at the time and used to spend weekends with them. Things got bad between them and during arguments she would call the cops. Meanwhile she knew my homeboy was undocumented. I was surprised because when I met her in Ghana she was so docile I was even wondering if this woman could talk. Ultimately the marriage fell apart and I heard she was in a financial mess and "giving it up" to some friends of my homeboy just to make ends meet. Sad sad story. There are two or three sides to every story however I think unless you life is at risk, you don't call law enforcement on your undocumented partner. It's a no no in the immigrant community.

[@AmaraOkpechi]

Paul A Funny...can't/shouldn't call cops each & every time a man beats a woman til w/I an inch of her life, cuz each time she didn't die? Well, I applaud the lady who decides 1 day that either we trade licks, or 1 of us is going to die, today! That's the trouble w/foolish men, today! Well, ladies, be warned...this is ingrained in EVERY, MAN! PERIOD!

[@PaultheSheik]

No need for the insulting language. You may have anger issues. I spelled it out clearly that if your life is at risk it is appropriate to call the cops. Sorry if some man hurt you and filled you with all this rage. You can go ahead and be miserable and stereotype all men and be filled with bitterness. It's your problem, not mine. I believe I was fair and balanced in delivering my opinion.

[@AmaraOkpechi]

Paul A It's called sarcasm & really idgaf how/what way you take/took my statement... THE END.

[@callmelizette]

But if u have a man who sees nothing good out of you, Even back home in Africa never wanna let u do anything or help ur family, threatens u everytime and keep on making life miserable for u just bcuz he knows that u can't possibly leave ur kids with him, and of course calling the police is also not the best for ur kids. In a case like this, what can the poor African lady do?

[@sharondunlap-mukera2870]

Lizette Tume WOW! Keep praying and believing for the good of u and ur family! Hugs!!!!

[@sarahakelo-agona3280]

Being down to earth,honest and open minded ; three qualities I love about this lady please keep it up-Continue being real.🌹

[@comfortjohnson1520]

Everybody story is different. I just pray to God in His kingdom to help those ladies that is looking for husband, for God to give them their own husband not another person husband. Am talking from my own experience. It is really tough but I give God all the glory that am still alive with my children. When I cannot cope with the abused I left. him.

[@Workhardnbelieveinurself]

Thank you sis for this great videos.i live and work in Swiss and have come across some of your videos.i want to tell that you're doing a great Job.keep it up sis,God bless you

[@adetutu200572]

Do you know what African women are going through from the hands of their African men?

[@uyiomo8159]

No I don't, so please tell me.

[@joshisah9332]

Look at this one... Can you enlighten us pls?

[@ajayibabarichard8553]

What are they going through? I brought a woman from Libya change her make are know that no one is superior that we are all equal....all i got from it is police asking me to go from her life 😭

[@michealmicheal2305]

What is goin on with African women

[@babylove1609]

Some men they think you have to be their slave just because they brought you to European. they will treat you bad talk to you like you are piece of nothing. I don't blame my African sisters of you are abused leave.

[@Elvis-q3i]

Mine applied for divorce 2 years after I brought her to Finland. Today I thank God she did I have left and never returned. There are always better women waiting. Young men take your time.

[@liferide2002]

My sister your wisdom is needed. Thank you. Well done oh!

[@janey_oge8865]

I am so grateful I stumbled on your channel. More grace to you sis. You have earned another subscriber💪👏👏💃🙅

[@eseese5484]

You are doing good. However, let me state some characteristics of a typical Nigerian marriage: 1. Only the husband deserves to be happy 2. A husband can commit adultery, a woman cannot 3. Only the wives do school runs 4. Wives work carrying their babies 5. Husbands can beat their wives ( no law on this in Nigeria) 6 . Husbands marry as many wives as they want 7. Nigerian men please outsiders more than their immediate family 8. You find wives moving from church to church praying for a stable home while the husbands are outside misbehaving Etc No woman would want to destroy her home after getting married l believe and no 2 marriages are the same. The one who is wearing the shoe knows where it hurts. Sometimes, I think marriage is a hindrance to many women because a lot of single women do better. One major cause of marital conflicts is to me our family background particularly the men. Love was never expressed in their presence. The only time a woman is to be loved is when they are trying to gain her attention. After that, no more. Now, a woman who has been passing through a lot because of the nature of her society suddenly sees herself in an environment where she can express herself. What do you expect? Pls there are no marriages in heaven. People should find out what works for them and not to live another person’s life. This can be very frustrating and depressing. Nigerians love to please others in issues concerning their personal lives and very mindful of what people would think or say. It is better to report than to loose a life. Afterall na report. Getting another wife is as easy as ABC for Nigerian men.

[@jdm3762]

Just subscribed because you simply speak with wisdom and heartily. It takes courage to speak the truth in the West. I'm married to an Italian man and living in Norway and I truly share your sentiments. Thank you.

[@spashdad]

your speech captivated me at once. it was homey. the warmth. you sound like a mother. nice one

[@womanoflove4476]

Came across your channel today. I subscribed because you make sense dear. 😊

[@diasporagardens4874]

Great advice for the women... I love how you ended it by telling them to spend time with their children. I personally feel that when I woman is truly committed to her family (job) she will scarcely have time for the other frivolities. 👍🏽

[@makehumanitygreatagain8128]

Sistaah, I'm thankful people like you exist. May you get more blessings than you know what to do with. Continue to share your wisdom with the world. Thanks so much. ❤❤❤❤

[@casmuden]

I loved your channel n subscribed. Keep up the good work my sis. We have lost what has kept us over the years as black African people. Be blessed. Salute

[@vnation4443]

I believe all nasty stories about marriages today is because many people today married someone because of reasons/expectations and when that expectations is not met oops here comes chaos True Love Has No reasons

[@nicole5495]

Best 37 that’s true I agree with you 💯

[@francisjohn5022]

Men need respect & attention. women respect your husband so your husband we love you.

[@gambeliangambelian7224]

Darling you have an excellent point however, you’ve made lots of unfair ones too like talking abt not calling police & women being like Europeans or Americans. Here we have a platform to report any kind of abuse that doesn’t exist in Africa. In Africa lots of women are left for abuse & their motherly & women rights are taken. Not even your own mother stands up for you in Africa bc of the value they have for marriage. Bad tradition & mail hierarchy needs to stop when it comes to abusing women & children so let’s not act like the men are good perfect & women feel civilized to call police on them.

[@MamaEgwuejiChannel]

Bridget my daughter, you can say that again, the African women, especially most of our Nigerian women living in abroad have no shame again. They have grown very big wing more than the men. Women don't even have respect for their husbands again. I feel so shameful when I see them vomiting rubbish , quarreling with one another. Showing their wealth. They have forgotten their culture , do's and don't 's. May God help them to change for good Amen.

[@khadhrikhan1549]

my dear keep up the good message. very uplifting , this is why I am subscribing

[@cynthiagonzo1279]

Thank you aunty Bridgitte......Good advice💯💯❤❤🔥🔥

[@tumerua]

Marriage is not easy, the devil creeps in all the time. I have been divorced about 7 months now. My husband was physically abusive but mostly emotionally abusive. With all that I still hung in there thinking Everything will turn around. Of course it got worse because I was unable to conceive. Come to find out, he did the same thing to me that he did to the mother of his son. Leaving her for me though he was not married to her. Family did not allow it. Come to find out, he did really love her but listened to family. He went back to her abandoned me emotionally, sexually and everything. I had no choice but to divorce him and let him go back to his first love, his baby mama. I think if you truly love your partner, you turn their hearts around with prayers. But if you are being abused, it's ok to separate. And if your partner says it's over, there is pretty much nothing you can do. PRAYER IS THE KEY 🙏😇

[@petranwosu9860]

Let me show you some love by subscribing. I really like you. I'm an Ibo married to an Italian man.. I'm very happy and wish blessing and happiness on every woman, home and abroad. Pls speak about women that hate and speak obscurity on other as a result of envy. This is common among Nigerian women. Women, when we stand together in love and kindness, we win!! God bless y'all

[@adriananaija87]

Good for you my dear my husband is as well. They assume all Nigerian women are married to or interested in an African man for that matter! I love her videos I just wish she made it more inclusive to us African women who are married to Oyinbo or non- African men🤗

[@cocobutterchin6768]

You are right Patra. I understand what you are talking about.I am also married to a white American man.

[@isaacohenegyimah7974]

If u are married to oyibo then this video is not for you please. She is talking about relationships of African couples

[@joyimudiaye2460]

Well spoken sister B tell them that 's for those who will listen God bless you

[@naijakehinde9117]

Listen to her, this woman is speaking pure truth. Very good advice. Hear her with a open mind. Iam African American and do respect this what she is saying. She is right; family is everything. Dont take on this western way. It is no good. I was raised the old school way, more like my husband's culture Nigeria.

[@johnettang9953]

Kehinde B. Wow...may God bless you. I didn't know there is a Nigerian woman leaving abroad with this kind of wisdom. God bless you

[@johnettang9953]

I am a victim of what you are talking about. She has taken everything I work for and made me homeless.

[@francescaharbor1731]

Girl you have the right attitude. My God BLESS you.

[@fajusbah1508]

Well said my sister.. personally going through with all this topics that you’re talking about

[@aunties5798]

My sister, shout out to you from Toronto. I just came across your channel. Am an African woman and I agree with some of your comments. Wish you could do a video on our "African Men" who come abroad. Be blessed.

[@Obodo1tv]

This woman is saying the true I don't know why people should dislike this

[@juneplumlogan]

Why would I call police on my husband when I can beat his ass tired 😂😂😂😂 my husband dont try me ( we love and respect each other ❤ )

[@cynthiachukwu5967]

Oh my gosh just came across ur video and am loving ur advice God bless u , we the obodo oyibo wives needs a wake up call❤️❤️

[@ehizsundaysunday8554]

God bless you my beautiful sister, a girl call police on me in train station, just because I wanted to ask her where I could take a bus. When I miss my train

[@victoriahutchful7043]

Some of this Africans women, they forgot where they came from, all b’cos women has the privilege in this country that’s the problem! ! And the leaving style in abroad is the 50 -50 bills paying! Greetings from Massachusetts 🇺🇸🙏

[@louisepennant7290]

GOD BLESS YOU,WANT YOU SAYING ARE RIHGT, I AM A AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN,AND I KNOW YOU ARE TELLING THE THUTH.LOVE YOU.FROM THE U.S.A.

[@ginaoye3206]

My thing is find someone who is already in the system who knows what it is.

[@inmythoughts718]

African American here.. My wife is Nigerian, we have been married for 15 years.. We met in Naija, I give her complete freedom, if a woman is going to cheat, she will cheat.. My queen has given me 2 sons.. Best practice.. Don't be a loser and pick the right woman.. period. I sent this woman like 4 million naira, when I arrived in Naija she had every penny.

[@flippinabby9725]

This is real talk ,really enjoyed watching, my first time watching your video all the way in Jamaica

[@olychi2onuzuru32]

So long my husband don't beat me give me bruises I don't have any right to talk back or call police to him no marriage is perfect many people do that in germany here

[@ogeudoku818]

What you are saying is nothing but the truth, honestly, we all should take this advice, though some African men are really difficult but with God, love and patience, one can build a good home. Nice job, have already Subscribed

[@kirbywiggins5643]

Hi. I'm a 60 year old single American female and this is my 1st time viewing. I love what you are saying. I will be following you. When you speak in your native language don't forget I'm listening. Pkease translate for me.

[@memorymalunga670]

You are a Very wise woman indeed. Beautiful African queen.

[@WhatMummyLoves]

Well said mama. As women, we should show more love and honour to our men and sow the right seeds to our kids. I enjoyed your video xx

[@patricktlou6252]

So much respect my big sister. Wish all our sisters from africa can reason like u.God bless u

[@nduifeanyi6608]

A powerful message my sister.

[@ghanamafia7199]

Lol...In the U.S.A, it's the African kids calling the police on their parents.....

[@okechukwujamesebuka6562]

I Love this Video. It's my Frist time to listen to you and you sound so professional and responsible

[@joyopara8600]

Thanks my dear sis for this wonderful advice,God bless u.

[@RevolutionaryAutomatic]

Im going to share your channel with my daughter

[@francescaldwell4217]

The conversation should be equality for black people around the world not separating male and female that is a phenomenon that the white women started against white men

[@olajumokeawolope9686]

Thank you for this great wisdom message. You're truely blessed

[@clt548]

Most men dont want a slave wife, just one properly raised by her mother to help her husband in her capacity.

[@austeneziuloh8073]

Your post makes sense. Tell the women in the US for they are guiltiest . Thank You.

[@augustayarteh7524]

Wow aunty B. This video makes me feel so guilty to the sight of God is very good. I am very touch with it This is a sound advice for us.

[@fynechyld]

I don’t agree with all you said but I will defend to the death your right to say it!! I love that you do ‘True talk’. I am all for supporting a sister. New subbie in 🇬🇧

[@nuridinadams9219]

Men should think well before bringing an African woman to Oyinboland. Personally my lesson will makes any person cry. My suppose wife I brought to Oyinboland nearly kill me. I hade to run to the hospital (She slapped me and hit me with a flower vas on the head, trying to save my head cut my wrist) to get my hand stich when she call the police on me. I spend 76 hours behind bar. She was on telephone 27 hours a day talking to men in Ireland, London, Nigeria and so on while the food is burning on the stove. She was 48 while I am 57 and we dated for almost 13 years before I brought her to Oyinbo land. The prosecutor order my release and I was compensated with 24000 kronor with a letter of apology from the state. Since then, I remain alone. No woman, no cry

[@isabellajobson7148]

Sister you are speaking the truth. The Jamaican community is the same. And I am not saying all Jamaicans if you get my drift. But yes 100 percent right.

[@jaxcoxon3019]

Husband treat your wife the way you want her to treat you. There's no problem in a man being the head of the house but that doesn't mean that he should treat his wife like trash. Marriage is a partnership; each has different roles to play. A wife's role is equally as important as that of her husband.

[@khadroahmed3606]

One of the best advice sister, these days you only see woman advising you how to be tough on husband

[@yvettedaly7035]

Listening attentively. Lots of good advice about developing your family and working with husband. Just, the word submissive to husband. No, work with husband and both show respect to each other.

[@wilfred.u.6271]

Thank you so much dear sister God bless you for this advice you are given us now?

[@saintbenedict6854]

Big sister you have said it all, thank you, wives please remember were you come from no matter what and husbands please respect your wife

[@Blessed225-u9s]

Such a beautiful woman inside and outside and very wise ! ❤ Pls keep up the good work, sister ❤!

[@omoruyicourageosazuwa4389]

For the men we are trying our best to make sure our wife is ok.but after all problem

[@blackberrybetty]

please if your husband is abusive call the police oo because one day he kill you ....i know one lady who her husband burnt her alive livin 2 children motherless.. another one he stabed her to death....yes you are right that one should be graceful but not in an abusive relationship especially if children are involve.

[@blackberrybetty]

lavidavi86 Yes she said that and she is not the first person saying that what most people will pick out of all she says is don't/ stop calling police for your husband which if you agree with me so will the family advice... I have seen so many women leaving in pain and agony and still pretend that the are Oki and at the end they end up paying with they lives

[@MYFATHEREMMANUEL]

Thank you for your advise my sister. God be with you.

[@confidenceoparaocha4226]

I hate that calling of the police to their husbands it so so annoying, we can't do that nonsense back home. I have a friend who did that; she don't speak to me now cos I told her the truth.

[@sandramukulu7081]

I am Kenyan but you have talked so much sense until I just clicked subscribe.Thanks so much for the video :-)

[@lma137]

what of women that brought their husband as soon as thy got their peppers thy will leave their woman

[@kai_kai1843]

L Ma exactly lol goes home and marries a witch, bring her abroad and she leaves too lol the cycle continues

[@roenhrconsult]

L Ma win some loose some love is a risk

[@elaaga8308]

On this matter people are quick to argue for or against women or men. God’s verdict is final and people will reap whatever they sow. Period.

[@ginaoye3206]

Abroad is not the same as back home. Theirs two sides to a story. Their should be trust and communication once the trust is broken, it takes the grace of God. Of you are not in the shoe you can't say a thing.

[@fumsyhammond382]

My sister I really love the advice you are giving us as women. God bless you

[@Syld0103]

You are a beautiful woman and your advice are GEM!! God bless you sweetie. For all those saying that some men are bad, I say this ; even if he does wrong, may your hands be CLEAN before God when all is said and done. God is a God of Justice, He (God) will vindicate you. Thank you for your channel my dear

[@damianblessed9442]

God knows I will not bring woman abroad never, for them in Italy they go hear am ooo. No marriage...

[@callmelizette]

Thank you very much for this special advice.