No African Man Mentality Abroad

[@obulandoseke-pu572]

"A happy wife is a happy life." I like that.

[@babylove1609]

mhnnn jah neh, I use to wake up 4 :00 am to start my shift at 6:00am, finish at 3:30 afternoon. He is at home the whole day doing nothing . waiting for me to come back home cook for him😏😏😏😏😏. he never appreciate anything I use to do. I use to pay half of the bills. at the sametime taking care of everything in the house.I got tired and I left him. trust me I 've never been so happy in my life. I prefer to be single than our African brothers .😏😏😏😏

[@nichp6374]

Most African men are unappreciative. So sad. Bless you sis💞. Love from 🇺🇸🇺🇸

[@addyybrown4661]

Fact...they feel entitled

[@sophieukekeruke8342]

Thanks aunty for this video. Everything you said is very true. I live in the UK and my husband and I do the house chores together. If there are dirty clothes in the laundry basket, either of us will put in the washing machine same as bathing the kids and picking them from the school and it makes life so much easier. Big hugs aunty. xx

[@wilfred.u.6271]

Its good to help our woman because that is why we are together,that is why you married her,the both of you should Wash you're hands together

[@oliviaseed1199]

Iyore Edukhure Exactly... I have been seeing your comment a lot in different channels. You are very unbiased, you look carefully into situations while commenting and you don't bash women and men eitheir. YOU ARE A WELL mannered person. I like that.

[@godspromisesamuel5497]

Bless you.

[@LadiArchTV]

I'm very lucky that my husband is very domesticated naturally. Hes always been that way he says and he also admits that it is not traditional for him to be that way. And if we were to build a house back home people should not see him in the kitchen at all or they will talk about me as a wife. I'm American black & white mixed... It has been very interesting being with a Nigerian man for almost 20 years. I'm still learning the culture little-by-little but I have very much enjoyed your videos.

[@boluwajiadelabu6571]

So funny but true!!! I agree with you about communication. It's key in any form of relationship. Hopefully our men will be more open to partnership :)

[@douglassmith2457]

You said it all dear...Communication is the key in a relationship

[@asheosadaye6643]

Sis you are 100% right

[@ednisep6554]

Yep I changed everything I stopped doing laundry I cook whenever I feel like. I was never appreciated. Now he's so mad 😡

[@tessagbaso6720]

Have been saying this for years, if all this so called church pastors preach this on a regular basis rather than financial prosperity life will be more pleasant within matrimonial homes.

[@Alicecouture2024]

Chimakufood but the pastors behave the same way. So how is he gonna preach this

[@freeasabird5239]

that is true my sister. imagine going to work in the morning and finding the sink full of the utensils from the mornin that the kids used be4 school, just waiting for me to come from work and clean. it is terrible i am in USA

[@deyojames1728]

watajua hawajui i leave my sink full of dishes and i know my husband Will wash them before i come back

[@tinasnow2006]

U chose him stop complaining

[@TalkMentalHealthwithEunice]

@unapologetically me, how old is your children? , if they are over 5yrs start teaching them how to do dishes. I can relate with this. But i have start teaching my children small chores at home like changing bins, cleaning when am cleaning. Please don't overload yourself with house work. It does age woman quickly.

[@darlington1able]

Your wife must FINANCE you, WASH, STARCH, IRON your shirt, take care of the BABY, clean the HOUSE and still COOK for you. But you have never acknowledged and appreciated her efforts???? That's the definition of WICKEDNESS. I will support deliverance in this case.

[@oliviaseed1199]

Darlington Billy Bright Lollll

[@officialblessingoTv]

Darlington Billy Bright lolz

[@looveontop]

My brother, for Edo men they also expect the woman to do ashawo work so as to enable them to build their house for them in Nigeria, buy them good car etc!!

[@cicyzoe9755]

Alot of women stay in silence and struggle about the junk they have to deal with doing everything financial for a man. It leads to lack of respect, sometimes a woman gets tired of being the man in the relationship or marriage.

[@folazuri376]

True it's not easy with kid's. Once UA c ya husband no help with 1st babies. Please ladies don't have more babies because it's goin ta get harder fa ya if ya husband no helping

[@cheesecakeonice]

Very true

[@shaydembo2506]

I love your channel. Can you please do a video on Americans visiting Nigeria for the first time and what to expect? Thank you!

[@indolilyindomitablelily7306]

Thanks dear. You're on point. That's exactly what I recently discussed with a Nigerian guy, who is interested in me.

[@bellaoland7520]

Kudos to you I really appreciate your advice

[@loveamajesus2792]

Thanks for this wonderful message big aunti a happy woman is a happy life , God bless you

[@cheesecakeonice]

Am a Ghanaian..I've vowed that none of my girls will Marry an African man .99 percent of African men have this mentality and its not going anywhere because it's a cycle..they see their mothers cook and clean and take care of them whilst their father does basically nothing at home to help.its a cycle and it's not going anywhere until we the millennials put a stop to it.Id prefer my daughter's marry a different race biko..just being honest🙁

[@akahomhenfranklin8581]

Thanks for this video for those who are not helping there wifes...or their girlfriends. Alot of men are out there doing all you say.. nice video. God help our men..bcos they are our brothers.

[@katiepaisley4749]

Running like a headless chicken haha thank you sista

[@ritausua9993]

Nothing bt wickedness n if u complain they got angry bt if they marry European women they does all things.

[@godspromisesamuel5497]

What a shame.

[@ademayowaadebiyi1092]

Very true

[@janeromeeks8862]

You are absolutely right.

[@oluabiola3203]

Not all African men but our women are something else 🏃🏃

[@olubunmioluyede9613]

Always on point lady B.

[@generalnwankwo8689]

As an African Man l just drop my children in school this morning and I will pick me them up when they close from school, so what else do I need to do.

[@missbarn2396]

Hahaha

[@JK-dv6wx]

Is not all about the drop and pick the children but about if you help in your home do you appreciate your wife and help her instead on be on the couch and do nothing waiting for her to do all the chores at home when you where at home at the moment and you could do it when she was working in the morning.

[@tinaperps5923]

Thanks alot aunty this video made my day

[@reginauwalaka253]

My sister, thanks for speaking your truth

[@bedinabebe4521]

Brilliant!

[@folazuri376]

Maturity matters. Love fa our Creator will guide man ta do rite

[@pambean9069]

Love this lady

[@folazuri376]

Greetingz thank ua Beautiful fa ya video. I shall share all ya videoz.

[@princeaghamiogie7154]

If in England most of the African men don't help their wives to do little domestic work and help in regards of taking their children to school and also pick up the children from school is very bad. In US majority of the African men help with domestic work most especially with the issue of child care. Most of my none Nigeria co workers do praise Nigerian men in regards of helping with the children.

[@TheSARAFINA2000]

Prince Aghamiogie , do you live in all african households? west, north, south & east africans?

[@nicsnics5523]

bella reesa 😂😂😂

[@dorcaschidi4991]

Pastor Dunne Adejumo ooh, she is the one on this table LMAO.

[@LadyJaneAnams]

Good talk my sister.

[@eseinomwan3834]

thank you mama for the message

[@ymnatymnat]

Na so sister tu as bien parlé 🙏🏿

[@psalm18xqizit57]

MY HOMEY TURN OFF THA POWER WHEN HE USED TO LEAVE FOR WORK!!!😄😄😄OMGOSH!!! I LAUGH SO HARD& I TOLD HIM DO NOT TO DO THAT BCUZ HE WILL SPOIL FOOD IN FRIDGE!!!😄😄😄

[@ruthrichardson3155]

I'm sorry but you definitely married a BRUSH MAN that needs to be returned to the village...LMFHO

[@simplykoko9033]

Lol I need to share this video. I didn’t grow up in africa but I see african men in Australia doing this rubbish - African Man”. Foolish men everywhere

[@worldmatterstvwmtv1940]

Kween Kokoa I greet u dear, but I just wanna correct u on something pls, African Men are not rubbish as u see it dear, maybe the ones u have seen as made u think so, but that's not a True, Loving and caring African Man, I can promise u dear, if u should come across a real African man, u will love it dear.

[@simplykoko9033]

Mrsoft re read my comment 😂😂😂

[@worldmatterstvwmtv1940]

Kween Kokoa oh my dear, am really very very sorry for misunderstanding ur point, now I get it dear, thanks and good afternoon

[@humanhuman9447]

Kween Kokoa i didn't grow up in Africa but i see African Australian women do this in Australia. Rubbish. African women rubbish every where. Quote me am in Brisbane

[@simplykoko9033]

nwankpa ikechukwu they do what rubbish in Australia?

[@judygaunitz4108]

Head less chicken 😂😂 You are funny

[@TheKingofHowTos_TKHT]

My sikista, very true. I believe both parents should equally be involved. Although in fairness, I do know of a lot of Afro-men who do all those things you said like pick up their kids, drop them off, occasionally cook or shop etc, just to relieve stress of mama-bear ;). However, like you rightly said, a lot of men, particularly western ones, may not necessarily be as involved with the kids or cooking etc, although this also varies from case to case.

[@ugochianusiem3680]

Thank you my sister, they are very very lazy, some of them are so ungrateful

[@lashondalittlejohn755]

My sisto u preaching now o!!!!

[@luckychuks2936]

You are right my sister

[@JackyHapy]

Preach Madam, Preach

[@charlessunmola87]

Wonderful sister thanks a million God bless your home 🏠 IJMN 😘👀🌹

[@beneditaalfred3454]

Correct sister B tell the men ooo

[@ireneosuyi8609]

You are right

[@KBTadieh]

Ma'am, if your 'man' is sitting there watching television or not taking care of his family as his duty then he's a boy not a man...YOU picked a boy because he was smooth. There are ple plenty of us African men who take excellent care of their families.

[@cocobella384]

Thank u

[@Njoofene]

I don't know which African country you are from but I'm guessing Nigeria. In fact, I'm pretty sure is Nigeria. I agree with some of the points you've made especially helping the wife with domestic chores when they are in the west. However, most of the African men that I know of in the west married to African women do that exactly. In fact, my late father was a better cook on some dishes compared to my mum when they used to live in the west. Also, when my father moved his family back home to set up his business back in the 70s, he was the one who used to take us to school on his way to work and back from school after work. My mother was a housewife. I know of many African men from the older generation as well as this new generation that do that.

[@joweeannazores2226]

There should be a women's rights in Africa so that if a husband hit you or cheat on you, you have the right to send him in court.

[@Heyjayy-k4q]

Amen amen amen

[@themortgagechics_chronicles_ca]

Honestly , I'm wondering how you can address this issue with a smile on your face! This is an epidemic...lazy men....its appauling

[@queendaniels211]

True so true👏

[@iyayi1ofitaly10]

The true sister

[@MaiAngelTv]

New sub. I hear you.

[@nikkinaildesign]

Amen.

[@dammyj9136]

Pls tell them o.

[@Nhylah4fyah]

i'm a white italian woman and it's true

[@queeni9ja]

Wow... The way you are talking, clearly there are some miserable marriages out here.. This mentality is soo archaic and cannot be carried with such strict boundaries outside of Nigeria. The simple fact that women here work just as hard/more and earn just as much/more than the husbands should instill common sense into the man that he needs to help with some domestic responsibilities. How can you say you truly love your wife when you're just sitting down not contributing to anything. I've also heard of these useless men who, because their wife is a nurse, will sit down and be feeling ok being useless and not work. The first thing God assigned the man in the Bible was to work, even before he created Eve. How can you as a man feel ok with yourself sitting down at home while your wife is waking up at odd hours, working crazy 12-16hr shifts and then you want to demand sex and food and expect her to carry the domestic responsibilities? You are a demon, and her father did not intend for you to enslave his daughter when he gave her to you for marriage. Shoo...Being single is not bad at all, and it's 1000x better than being in some of these miserable marriages with selfish African men. Thank God for the good African men who truly love their wives as Christ loved the church. They deserve all the good that life has to offer...

[@skylynevaa3146]

Mama you too much.

[@jessxzica7203]

no babes must remember we are Nigerian wherever we go and carry our values. It’s best for gender roles to remain how they were from time, don’t come abroad and start moving shakara. We are not oyinbo so because they behave one way doesn’t mean we must follow follow.

[@JK-dv6wx]

Then you don't understand nothing because we have African men in Africa who help the wife a lot and the wife appreciate a lot so this mentally needs to go away

[@ruthrichardson3155]

Bushman if you want to live like a villager then go back to the village.

[@jessxzica7203]

@@ruthrichardson3155 please bitch I’m abroad babe your the one fighting to get visa. Didn’t they born you in somebody bush !!!!!

[@mondayajabor8445]

This lady talk too much but she is saying the truth. Good advise for our Africa men.

[@isatoujammeh2179]

🥰

[@mrk5700]

Eyaaaaaaaaa

[@womanoflove4476]

👍👍👍👍

[@olorunfunmiomotola1701]

Good talk/advise....my question is......if both of them works, i would say Yes. If it is only d man that works, d lady should do d chores and take care of d child or children......!!! Men are not crazy, if d lady do what she supposed to do d men always help! As a woman of d house.....when u know d time ur husband supposed to be home, keep his FOOD warm and ready, exchange warm greetings wt smile!! By d time he finished eating trust me d man would help u wt d remains! Some ladies are taking chores and kids care as a big deal....in obodo oyinbo! U hv everything within ur reach, WATER, LIGHT, BLENDER, WASHING MACHINE etc.... conducive environment! 🤞🤞i was a house wife for 8yrs..also in control of our bank acct!!! I thank almighty God today....they are all grown on their own!!! Thanks, for ur advice Keep up d Job...

[@glamanesthesia5259]

Please dont influence others to slave just cos you did. What does he do for you? Caring for kids is a full time job as well that is 24/7!!

[@Afrohairnmore]

The work of a full housewife with kids can never be equal to an office job. Don't validate your suffering. I'm a mom, I do both and one day hell broke loose! I can't kill myself. Housework is a great deal!

[@tinasnow2006]

glam anesthesia stupid women like this omotola person makes me sick

[@opeyemio705]

You can never compare full time taking care of young kids to office job.

[@opeyemio705]

@@Afrohairnmore 👌

[@folazuri376]

Yes true dem are fake happie. Also dem fake sex. Yes husband actions must show love n respect

[@RevolutionaryAutomatic]

Nah way oo

[@Banadir-State]

Sister do not think like westren life...they living hell life..they love is fake..I am afican my wife never harm my life..obodo are you single...

[@MrOu83]

Ben - She is married with kids. There are many Western women who are happily married. You say your wife has never harmed your life, but I wonder if she would say the same about you not harming her life. If you want a servant, hire one outside of the home, please.

[@folazuri376]

Us can't get respect if ya noa give it to women

[@yayavellilion8136]

Lmao

[@patrickpatricia7615]

Lol

[@Nhylah4fyah]

:)

[@floreedith4667]

My father picked and dropped us in school in Africa and he cooked only at weekends. I am old school and not keen on a husband who eats outside and cannot do what my father did for his wife. My partners have done shopping for the home for me so maybe it's just something that happens in Nigeria but not here... So I have to disagree with you as it's never happened to me in Jesus name

[@JK-dv6wx]

But doesn't mean they don't exist don't be delusional if are lucky to have a helper partner but your partner or family males are part of od the 1 or 2% Most African men are not helpful whit the partner because I've seen them a lot so you need to know that. Not everyone are lucky