After 7 Years of Marriage, I Found Out That My Husband Cheated on Me With His....

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After 7 Years of Marriage, I Found Out That My Husband Cheated on Me With His Secretary During Our Anniversary. So, I Took My Revenge.
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0:00 - Story 1
14:19 - Story 2

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@Souchi-ito 5 ай бұрын

Funny how the comments are blaming the women for cheating husband but in other videos when men get cheated it's all the women's fault. Cheaters are pos. Doesn't matter which gender they are.

@yeyosilver7067 4 ай бұрын

You're blind

@Souchi-ito 3 ай бұрын

@@yeyosilver7067 no you dumbo

@Souchi-ito 3 ай бұрын

@@yeyosilver7067 projection

@yeyosilver7067 3 ай бұрын

@@Souchi-ito lol

@bryn1063 Ай бұрын

Ikr. It sucks that there's such a double standard.

@dhyeymendpara2169 5 ай бұрын

The irony of OP's occupation

@JohnnyBravo1911 5 ай бұрын

Not very good for business

@mannydcbianco 5 ай бұрын

Yup. Part of me has doubts of the authenticity of this story because of that, because a real relationship counselor would obviously know better, but at the same time there's a saying in my old home country that goes something like "The house of a carpenter often needs more repairs than the house of a shoemaker" (very rough translation). It has a few different meanings, but one of the meanings is that despite our profession we are often blind to, or willfully ignorant of, flaws directly related to our profession in our own lives, in our own houses. It's sort of like "Can't see the forest for the trees", while it's obvious to an outside perspective you're blind to it because you can't see beyond 50 ft in any direction because trees are in your way.

@RandoWisLuL 5 ай бұрын

Lakeside is real i can confirm that. Been there many times @@mannydcbianco

@roevhaal578 5 ай бұрын

@@mannydcbianco I can assure you every decent carpender is well aware of any flaws with their home. But yes skirting boards and stuff like that can often be left unfinished.

@DarkEinherjar 5 ай бұрын

"I feel sorry for him." Why? Cheaters deserve no sympathy.

@A.M.142 5 ай бұрын

For story 1, I will always remember a quote my best friends mother told us growing up. "When you're deep in the Lily Pads, you can't see the swamp." Often people won't understand or see these signs as they are cause they are involved, that's why it's always good to have an outsiders perspective on situations. But JUST the perspective, at the end of the day, the situation they are in, and the decisions of what to do about it, are all in them.

@DivineKnight_115 5 ай бұрын

Cheaters are the worst

@mannydcbianco 5 ай бұрын

Especially when children are involved. They're not only cheating on their partner, but they're cheating on their children too. And they're ruining the lives of the affair partner's partner too, and their kids (if they have any). It's just such a mess.

@Biolo-G_KJ 5 ай бұрын

Yeah if you really wanna hookup with others, just divorce. To me the craziest thing is when cheaters say they are so regretfull that they sometimes don't hook up with anyone for years because they want to go back to their original partner. That is insane to me. Like now you are loyal when you broke up?? But when you were together you went out? Really? That one always blows my mind.

@Maninawig 5 ай бұрын

I think now that OP gained the experience of being cheated on, she should go for further training

@Souchi-ito 5 ай бұрын

Eh, I mean doctors fall ill. Don't make them bad doctors. Same here. Besides, it's easier to see the cracks from outside.

@UtkarshSingh-hd5yn 5 ай бұрын

Bs logic@@Souchi-ito

@bryn1063 Ай бұрын

@@UtkarshSingh-hd5ynit's true. She can be really good at seeing other people's problems but not her own. It's so much easier to see the issue when you're not intangled in it.

@chrissy6822 5 ай бұрын

A marriage counselor (after one year of training, lol) so focused on helping others overlooks her husband's red flags and the "cracks" in her marriage. The irony.

@Biolo-G_KJ 5 ай бұрын

More common than you think. It's the difference between interpersonal and intrapersonal intelligence. Many psychologist have a high degree of interpersonal intelligence, the irony is that many of them also have low intrapersonal intelligence. Therefor can easily fix others while not seeing their own issues. It's basically the opposite of a bad teacher. He can teach himself very well but has no idea how to help others learning the same thing.

@tanmaygupta2373 Ай бұрын

You know, my mother says a good doctor is the worst patient

@Souchi-ito 5 ай бұрын

Good for op to take out that cheating pos. Chad woman 😎

@kennycai8695 5 ай бұрын

Story 1: OP, do not apologize. Your ex reaped what he had sown, and all you did was to expose the truth, even if he did get roughed up, which was unintended. While I can understand you may want to maintain good ties for the sake of your children, I still advise keeping him at arm's length. Keep it strictly business, and if you still do not trust him with your children, push for supervised visits.

@lawsonallen7741 5 ай бұрын

Story 2 Never be the good guy to a Cheater.

@m-is4vw 5 ай бұрын

UNO reverse. Now she can truly understand those people's pain whom she adviced,wish no one has to go through it.

@i_stories1738 5 ай бұрын

TellTales, you should of added a warning in the title as OP went nuclear on her ex husband 😂😂 damn, there goes that man 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@debapriyabiswas8900 5 ай бұрын

It is kinda weird how much the OP kept stereotyping. "Men's issues", "flirty type of men that stray", like what? Shouldnt you keep an open mind as a counsellor?

@analyticgeometry9014 5 ай бұрын

She's probably the type of marriage counselor that blames the man for everything lol.

@ianmoritzplatapino3684 5 ай бұрын

Story 1 if he cheats he belongs to the streets, glad op wasn't the classic spineless doormat and took action by exposing him and divorcing him .Story 2 well, well ,well if it isn't the consequences for her actions, being alone and without her family after she destroyed it by cheating.

@devhxh1558 17 күн бұрын

OP is marriage counselor Still acted so dûmb ignoring red flags Thn tried staying with a cheater without going through everything.

@chessieray1465 5 ай бұрын

Call it karma in the second story.

@fa1ruz 5 ай бұрын

That friend knew but didn't want to gossip. Kinda the right way to break it to your friend I guess

@sasi5841 5 ай бұрын

OP is like a blind optometrist, or a paralyzed physical therapist

@Souchi-ito 5 ай бұрын

Nah, more like surgeons can't perform surgery on themselves and need to seek other surgeons' help. Nothing wrong with it.

@calebkerby2581 5 ай бұрын

"just assumed it to be men and their issues", and people look surprised when i tell them i would never go to therapy

@_juju_jojo_ 4 ай бұрын

How tf is she a marriage counselor💀

@ladyweasellou3367 5 ай бұрын

Marriage Counseling is not exactly a very good occupation for this woman, especially since she and he both followed the exact same patterns of a massive majority of people.

@Zach-dc8ws 5 ай бұрын

I’ll take things that never happened for 500

@papirojo4228 5 ай бұрын

Moving to Lakeside Cali was there first mistake. Yikes.

@RandoWisLuL 5 ай бұрын

Right? jesus. its not as bad as El Cajon but still.

@RandoWisLuL 5 ай бұрын

ooof Lakeside. What a shitty place lol too close to home

@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona 5 ай бұрын

18:00 what? that was confusing or my brain's just mushed to understand

@DarkEinherjar 5 ай бұрын

Second video in a row where you forget to loop the music. What's going on?

@ToaRahkshi 5 ай бұрын

i kinda prefer the lack of music tbh

@SelflessHero 5 ай бұрын

bahaahhahaha, the irony of her job.

@chadisnotachad 3 ай бұрын

OP is just as bad. I absolutely hate people that take the kids away from their spouse. I don't care about the whys, it's bull

@nightwynd5663 2 ай бұрын

Cheaters don't deserve kids.

@chrisj.1608 3 ай бұрын

So I got to join the bandwagon here she's a marriage counselor but she couldn't see the red flags that she talks about with her patients on a daily basis with her own husband

@FrostGaming1000 5 ай бұрын

Story 1 She has marriage problems? Why not just visit herself to fix them, smh

@Souchi-ito 5 ай бұрын

That's just stupid and shows your iq level. Surgeons don't do surgery on themselves. They go to other surgeons. Same here.

@tuby_wrld410 5 ай бұрын

blondes are hot.

@umagovindarajan4339 2 ай бұрын

Ok lemme calculate , u said u were dating during college and married right after the graduation and now it's been 7 years but u also said u were 37 and he is 40??.... Even it's fake atleast show some basic math 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

@brianarnold8666 5 ай бұрын

How does op have her job? Clearly she's awful at it

@Souchi-ito 5 ай бұрын

Bruh shut up. Judging by your logic doctors can't get ill.

@taylorross5339 5 ай бұрын

Op is unhinged. Thinks the dating profile is a "sick joke"? What does that even mean lol, it's a dating profile, calm down. Actively avoids them on campus, you know, just cuz. Then OP gets to work on their qualifications, for 1 year. 1 year. You know, totally qualified (to help a high-schooler ask out there crush, maybe). Op say "oh no, these are the first red flags I should have seen" then follows that up with "I, the totally qualified marriage therapist, have been in a constant state of distrust and going through my partners shit desperately looking for evidence, but I couldn't ever find anything"

@TianeStrydom-or5ls 5 ай бұрын

Damn I'm early

@seifalisiammohammed5925 5 ай бұрын

first

@MrRealGreenn 5 ай бұрын

Remind us who cares

@seifalisiammohammed5925 5 ай бұрын

idk i just felt like it@@MrRealGreenn

@deadgirl2832 5 ай бұрын

gay

@Girlgonewise 5 ай бұрын

Op said, he was a great Husband and father. It sounds like she neglected him after becoming a mother.

@lanrelara9481 5 ай бұрын

Victim blaming

@2magnet 5 ай бұрын

Sounds like you can't hear correctly

@Classof-wf5jw 5 ай бұрын

There are no reasons for cheating

@Just_a_Goth 5 ай бұрын

Neglected? In other words, he didn't do crap around the house or with raising their kids, didn't come to her, and proceeded to cheat. Even if you hand everything to a man on a silver platter, it means nothing if he has no intention to be faithful, fair, or safe.

@SHAHABUDDINKHAN719 5 ай бұрын

Op's Husband just need a 2nd Wife We Men Need Polygamy marrige System Having Relationship with multiple women through Marrige is only way To not get involved in affairs So marry with 3 or 4 women is better then cheater

@samsonxd 5 ай бұрын

😂 you cannot be serious. You obviously don't know the problems of polygamous marriage.

@SHAHABUDDINKHAN719 5 ай бұрын

@@samsonxd I'm Muslim Polygamy is part Of my culture I know every problem of polygamy marriage But also the solution So i used to it My Grandfather had 2 Wives my Uncle too So grew-up with big family i know every flaw and how to fix it

@tintinismybelgian 5 ай бұрын

@@SHAHABUDDINKHAN719 Well, aren't you the omnipotent one.

@clamiyep7008 5 ай бұрын

Please do not extend your own pov to every men on this planet, I respect your decision to be in a poly relationship, but not everyone thinks like you. And not every guy needs two wives to feel "like a man" (I kinda want to know what you think of open marriages lol)

@SHAHABUDDINKHAN719 5 ай бұрын

@@tintinismybelgian Yes