Girlfriend Cheated on Me and Tried Every Move to Win Me Back After Getting Dumped, So I Ghosted Her.

Girlfriend Cheated on Me and Tried Every Move to Win Me Back After Getting Dumped, So I Ghosted Her.
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[@80m58]

What the hell is wrong with OP? I have watched 12 minutes on 2x until now and can't tolerate the frustration I have got from liatening to his story. A doormat.

[@Taranymph]

She clearly disrespected him and he still moved in with her... why???

[@ianmoritzplatapino3684]

Because he is a spineless simp charming

[@80m58]

It only gets worse...

[@arandomfan4710]

Thinking with his "head" and not his head.

[@SB0418]

These men are a lost cause. I hate to turn my back on the boys but sometimes you just have to 😥. Thing is, there is most likely going to be things your partner does that annoys you but you’ll have to deal with it. This, on the other hand, this is just being plain oblivious to someone so flawed.

[@matsu7086]

After listening to this story, the title is just a massive lie. Bro never cut contact with her at all and the vibe is ENTIRELY different than the title implies. Bro is just a simp who can't stand up for himself

[@alegendarywolf3278]

I agree, to be blunt he deserved everything he got for having no backbone to stand up for himself.

[@matsu7086]

@@alegendarywolf3278 Exactly. People need to realize there is nothing wrong with sticking up for yourself and wanting to be respected in a relationship. And also need to learn how to collect evidence such as recording the disrespect, lies, and abuse.

[@guyjackson1261]

@@alegendarywolf3278 Most people in abusive relationships have no backbone, do you blame all of them or just the men?

[@legiontepes3474]

Warning : title is clickbait. The story is about a total wimp.

[@Flipflopflopper]

Yeh, people in abusive relationships normally are

[@SilveryBlue1010]

Thank you, I was about to wasting my time hearing an irritating story about a doormat.

[@jsb1585]

I'm one minute in and already the alarm bells are ringing, what a mess

[@ianmoritzplatapino3684]

Tales from doormatland the chronicles of simperiex the doormat god.

[@jsb1585]

​@@ianmoritzplatapino3684I'd laugh if it wasn't so painful, Lord have mercy

[@musabokmen7681]

Alternative way to say first

[@jsb1585]

​@@musabokmen7681 Is it? Whoops, my bad 🤣

[@boblee7998]

Same

[@kossettereaditte7552]

Yeah i almost couldnt finish this one. This man is THE BIGGEST DOORMAT

[@adrianflores7269]

I almost couldn't neither. I have to pause the video several times to digest the level of idiot OP is

[@yukiandkanamekuran]

he was being abused. physically, emotionally, etc.

[@wobblefoot7607]

@@yukiandkanamekurandoesn’t mean you have to be bitch made

[@kishagirl92]

@@yukiandkanamekuranvoluntarily

[@cameronharshaw5982]

He probably gets off on it cuz like DAMN

[@simonking7791]

Nah that guy had like 5 chances to leave, i feel no pity for him

[@Hoki4]

Never be the guy like in this story. If someone constantly lies and does shit towards you, just leave and never return or give them any attention again. It's obvious from the start that she didn't value this guy and he was just being a doormat. small edit here: Also I think the girl is definitely a narcissist and oh boy they do love people who have no backbone and are easy to manipulate. If you let that shit go on, it will just keep going as long as you let it to. They will never respect you and you're just a tool for them to use.

[@HeyThatsMe3]

She admitted that she cheats in every relationship and her continues the relationship for another 4 months? lol

[@dirtfallingfromtheceiling]

He's constantly uncomfortable, but still kept the relationship going. I can't make sense of it.

[@tommybell4850]

He's a doormat.

[@stygiangaming6498]

My story is completely similar to his. It took me a long time so stop being a doormat. You know what the actual problem is? Us doormats? We tend to be the nicest(trust me it's not a good thing) people, I have helped my friend with college tution only to be back bitched about I have helped my ex with her entire ducking life only to be used and betrayed in a worse way. I was blackmailed into having se* with her and I ducking cried because I didn't want to but to everyone else the only question which would come to their mind is how can a guy not consent to a woman (especially when it's his cheating girlfriend). I faced aggravated assault and so much shit but the only reason why I couldn't leave was because it was either the devil or the deep blue sea. I recieved some fake affection from her which I had missed out on all my life. I am thankful I was born in a financially well off family but I never really formed any deep connections, meaningful relations and never experienced affection. I did get into flings but I always felt like they were in it for the money or idk something was off and for the first time I thought I had struck gold because of the way she would fake all that cuddling and affection. Ofcourse I know I am a total wimp, after literally saving people's careers, helping people pass, giving out loans to people only for them to be never repaid other than the backbitching ofcourse. I did nothing. I didn't take any revenge. It takes time for people like us to keep getting battered and fucked. It takes time for people like us to keep getting betrayed. But once we reach our limit, life's so much better. I see everyone and everything as scum, I will never fall for anyone's bs and never ever lose my way again. It's simply work, MMA and alcohol(I can't sleep otherwise but I run for atleast 3 hours with rest ofcourse and 2mma sessions a day) ps. I am in IT. So yeah, he's not a wimp, he's simply in his training arc. Once op is done he will never experience heartbreak, betrayal, disappointment and never crave happiness, peace, affection, relation whatever. People like us are only fuelled by hatred, anger and an everlasting craving for revenge(lawfully ofcourse). So from here on it's only upwards.

[@randomgeeseinatrenchcoat4775]

God damn door mat central here fella got 1000 red flags within the first 2 minutes.

[@SuperThekid1991]

FACTS!!!

[@blackfire6009]

How someone can get themselves and stay in this situation is beyond me. Clearly OP is the one at fault here

[@emyleyva11]

I’m speechless. I kept waiting for him to finally cut her off and be the hero of his own story but it never came.

[@alttablife6965]

Was checking the comments to see if this would happen. Made it 12min in and I can't stand this guy. A lot of the people that give cheaters a second chance initially, I completely understand since they've worked so hard for it and it's essentially denial playing out. This dude's either so much of a doormat it would take a full rug restoration video to find a human under there, or he's in so much denial that she could walk him into a firing squad claiming it would help their relationship by it actually being a glory hole that would allow him to let loose while he thinks it's some type of hyperbole for a date at a water fountain.

[@vlad-igor]

OP needs to REWIRE his brain, don't put your self worth & value on having a relationship. You don't need them to live life.

[@ScarlettNightNyx]

Were are the revenge stories, this one pissed me off by how much of a pussy the op was.

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

the "Tried Every Move to Win Me Back After Getting Dumped" part started at 18:59 🙃 17:13 where op blocked cheater, but prior to that, its all denial and bargaining, dormat behavior on op's part. man needs therapy and needs to move on and respect himself

[@cedes09]

Thank you so much!!! 🫡

[@seanc7395]

He straight deserves all of this I’m only 12 minutes in and this dude has literally been cheated on abused and Murrietta other things and he refuses to do anything about it

[@goneloko1368]

It takes a guy as dumb and gullible as Patrick from SpongeBob to stay in this relationship for as long as the OP did

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

You know its sooo frustrating when someone has all the cards in their favor but chooses to be a doormat 😢

[@becausemynameiscommon5609]

Op should have just laid by the front door so he could be a more thorough doormat than he already was. I lost any sympathy for him a third of the way through the story. Absolutely pathetic.

[@safi6749]

Lmfaooo

[@SoldierOfGodwyn]

Actual doormat. I've seen newborn kittens with more spine than OP

[@RoseTiger-Roblox]

E-books have more spine! And they don't even have spines!

[@kirtisingh5487]

Goddamn, I wanted to feel sad for the OP but he's such a doofus.

[@chessieray1465]

OP needs to stay alone for a LONG WHILE. He got fed red flags and the runaround so many times that he has vertigo. That woman is a mother-effing nightmare.

[@ashessakura7518]

My reaction to this whole fucking thing was “Dude, just break up with her, she is waving the red flags happily in your face wtf”

[@tommyvercetti4687]

What a bunch of doormat behavior. LEAVE her at once ffs

[@kuma.369]

OP is a complete doormat but I get where he's comming from. Narcs hook you up quickly and is very difficult to detach, even though you know they are bad people and they do bad things to you. However, there's a point where it seems OP is willingly giving in... I wonder if he has any support network that helps him remain strong, because it isn't mentioned here.

[@Maninawig]

It doesn't sound like it. And his family don't sound too helpful.

[@ragingsaviorkami9862]

Omg yes! Finally a comment that calls her a Narcisist. I was thinking more of a psychopath or sociopath, but just narcissist works too.

[@kennyg.3966]

This story is so frustrating! I've never wish any of this on anyone more than OP. He deserved everything that happened to him.

[@memeboyr6177]

This guy clearly did not recover from his first relationship, and then he jumped into this one, where he is a doormat, completely disrespected and not accounted for. The dude should have left at first sight of infidelity, smh.

[@chrissy6822]

This woman was a trebuchet-sized red flag from month one and OP just shrugged it off. She literally showed him the texts of her emotional affair with her boss and he ignored it all. What a punk.

[@laestaca7182]

1:23 "As the relationship progressed" Bro WTF are you still doing there?!?! Bail!!!!! Everything that happens to OP from here on out it's his own fault for being with that crazy woman in spite of everything she does to him

[@arnoldmasitsa9490]

Calling this beta weak boy a simp will be an understatement

[@Devneek]

These are 20 minutes of my life I can't get back

[@16xOrion]

He's being abused by her, I'm just in awe. How can he stay with her? (I am aware people who are being abused don't want to leave. But he should have done something earlier.)

[@burningstariv]

I don't feel bad for wildlife getting hunted, circle of life and all that. Same applies to guys like this.

[@SketchbookGuitar]

Nobody is going to miss those signs. Those are red flags with 2000 floodlights and spotlight pointing towards it

[@nicknitro86]

This can't be real. It's like he intentionally put himself through this.

[@AgustinCruz70]

Say it with me now…. DOORMAT!!!😂😂

[@djezzflezzert6562]

i think this is just ragebait

[@boldnbrash7028]

It always is

[@devilishpie]

What an amazing doormat

[@firehot427]

How can this guy live with himself

[@cavey001]

If there's no trust, there's no privacy.

[@PMMcIntyre]

Ahhh, BPD. Never, ever try to have a relationship with these people. You will regret it every single time.

[@SilveredRaven]

Entire thing was "There were these 147 red flags, but we decided to try and work on it together, but she didn't actually try, so I had to try for her."

[@Hybrid301]

This girl just sounds emotionally exhausting.

[@stardustdeath2497]

Low self esteem is a sickness

[@experiencedotaku171]

I don't blame the cheater. Op is a volunteering doormat. At this point i believe he is enjoying this

[@safi6749]

Right? She straight up said how she feels about him and he is like ongggg you hurt me. But i feel sad now can you come over?

[@QuoteCaver]

I fucking can't with this OP. This dude isn't just a doormat, he's a soft velveteen welcome mat with a bowl of candy and champagne in the entryway.

[@sushobhanbanerjee9238]

And the doormat of the century award goes to:-

[@My_NameisMike]

Wtf is wrong with him fr

[@Afghanisstan]

Bruh not even a minute and she is raising a mountain of Red Flags. worse that he actually moved in with her. Smh

[@TheKG636]

I’m hoping op is extremely young because the amount of red flags has me face palming, he is way too passive and allowed this woman to disrespect him over and over.

[@RoseTiger-Roblox]

He's 31. Shameful.

[@Rj-ij6ko]

I...got angry listening to this. She's toxic, abusive and a cheater...but OP is a MASSSIVE doormat...

[@kakkiroth9148]

Goodness have some self respect.

[@glennguillen7069]

Wow this guy is so unbelievable.

[@srsh12345]

This guy is a doormat for such a long time. I'm more mad at him than the cheater.

[@RichHurtz]

Holy hell. This story is so frustrating. OP should have grown a spine about a dozen times and kicked this awful woman out of his life.

[@marthajackson1388]

"I want to hold people accountable", and who is holding him accountable for behaving like a doormat? There is a selfless love and there is you being a doormat. The two are completely different.

[@sharmaineipvaiching9826]

This guy looooove the pain!

[@damaijin]

"Things went downhill from here." My dude, you are in the Marianas Trench. 😂

[@ajzephyros7454]

I wonder how he survived 31 years with no spine?

[@thehiddensilentone1795]

This girl had red flags from the start and he still chose to be with her.......is he a masochist?

[@GOTTA_RUN]

This dude seriously thought he could get into a committed relationship with a bisexual LMAO

[@CatholicismAppreciator]

I don't know why straight men have this problem where they allow themselves to enter these relationships, straight women have it better figured out as they will absolutely refuse to be with a man who likes other men.

[@KINGtriller]

Bro 31 and dated a immature 25 yr old how was a walking red flag and ignored everything. He deserves everything that happened to him

[@jessicareis5446]

so many red flags, how this guy is still alive after ignoring so much shit is beyond me

[@pepsidragon1]

this guys got 0 self respect

[@sawsaw2388]

wtf is wrong with this guy. the holiest dormat

[@hotshower695]

Dude is such a wet wipe. Can't help but feel bad for him. Impliments no boundaries then calls his own actions unhealthy.

[@epimetheaus1214]

I'm assuming that OP needs to wear a helmet 24/7

[@river-kw8sd]

Poor op doesnt even know how to value himself properly.. I hope he works out his issues

[@FlamesAndShadows]

The antrophormised Red Flag must have been hot. Or OP hails from that parallel universe showcased in 'The Invention of Lying' and still has relapses, despite doing some successful investigating now and then.

[@That_Thing_Lucy]

This hecking relationship what’s doomed from the beginning dude

[@wolfman3339]

Jesus Christ this relationship went on way too long take the L and move on

[@mr.halfright]

Bro, she was waving the red flags in his face, making sure he could see them, even went out of her way to tell him she has always been a cheater and used guys for money, and this guy really just let it happen. He might as well ask her to spit in his face, at least then her disrespect for him and his lack of respect for himself would be out in the open

[@cloudyboy1756]

This guy is just walking through a field of red flags , just sad.

[@natsudragneel4347]

I hope this story is fake or this op is one of the stupidest person to ever exist. The story ends and I'm more pissed off with the op

[@Agrellar]

Yeah, I don't think I'm going to finish this. At this point I'm more mad at op. She's pretty much waving 1000 red flags in his face, and he's like, "oooh, what shade is that one? Maroon? I don't really like it, but anything for you!"

[@julialowry486]

I'm surprised the OP is a functioning human being

[@MrMK211516]

He deserved everything past the first 3 minutes. Bruh, if your partner is actively keeping stuff from you it's time to go.

[@CABRONZZ777]

Smh this dude is the biggest simp ever. No self respect at all

[@Swiizz.]

I know I'm late to this party, but seriously which red flag do you need in this SEA of red flags???

[@gizmo2101]

*self respect has left the chat*

[@Montyandrew45]

Look, I am bad with women but this woman had so many fucking red flags

[@demonvictim]

I blame op for not bailing month 1

[@randomstuffs_xp7362]

I cant even finish this, its like hes asking to get cheated on

[@Miss_jeongin92]

Im not sure if he just a doormat or a complete simp😅

[@peterparker3344]

wtf? OP is the biggest doormat in existence...

[@mannyparrilla1807]

Dude, what the fck am I listening to? I kinda don't even believe this to be real

[@ihateshorts32]

50 Red flags Per Minute type of video

[@fidossuperlaserpiss6670]

Guess what buddy? If you put yourself through this and dont leave you deserve it, After the first time it should of been done, Doormat

[@willemakit]

OP is stupid.

[@quitenerdy1]

This has to be fake who could be thie spineless

[@kywayneellis5958]

I really can’t feel bad for this dude

[@belooga-bj3pw]

Disrespected, threatened with a knife, Lies, cheating, yet OP still want that life. Just... wow

[@segmu4376]

I got 36 seconds in. OP is either blind or just loves red flags.

[@curtiswesley3261]

The story teller deserved every bad thing she did to him. She lied over and over and he still moved in with her.

[@lorenzoh2606]

Wow poor soul!!! Bless his little heart. He isn't made for this!

[@iamfrostii._910]

This door is a walk doormat. Omg, fella had so many redflags but he's just ignoring them.

[@TaeDoloSolo]

How did this fool even get to the point of moving in with her, she was horrible as soon as the story started 😂😂

[@i-am-goose8428]

All hail King Doormat

[@pinklemonade4742]

Op ignored every MASSIVE RED FLAG, the confession of HER CHEATING in EVERY relationship with men and women and the fact she beats op when confronted about the cheating. Yet in the end he still ends up missing her toxic a$$.

[@jonw3602]

Ladies and gentlemen. I present to you the King of Simps