Picture Perfect Marriage Ruined When I Discovered My Wife's Year Long Affair.

Picture Perfect Marriage Ruined When I Discovered My Wife's Year Long Affair.
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Timestamp-
0:00 - Story 1
23:16 - Story 2

[@rxzwl]

Okay but bro didn’t need to go into that much detail about his drunken night with the AP’s wife 😭😭

[@JJ_issomething]

Exactly like I was with it until Op started talking about head😂😂😂

[@throwergirl966]

Same, not what I was expecting to hear as I was doing dishes

[@Not_willow-messdag]

No but fr I was dying laughing😭😂💀

[@thisdude9363]

Thats because its fake.

[@kelupthegnome2871]

That part came off as fake.

[@KilroyWasHere83]

Story 1 ohh this is the "i cheated on you because i wanted to be the stay-at-home parent instead of you" story.

[@murdock94]

Yeah. It's an old story and I wish it had a further update. But knowing the ex is miserable is good enough.

[@TheSergio1021]

Yeah there's like 6 videos of that same story

[@urmomeatmysoap3843]

​@@TheSergio1021 tbh it happens so often. My dad cheated on my mom in that way and my cousin's parents too so yea

[@cuernosbeste]

Her dumbass should have said she wanted to be a stay in wife wtf 😭 I almost feel like this would have happened even if he did become the breadwinner.

[@ianolson19]

​@murdock94 do you have a link to help a bro out? Please?

[@rhiarebecca2000]

The AP cheating on his partner whilst she had cancer and had just had a child etc.. damn that’s heartbreaking, I know cheating isn’t okay no matter what but damn this is another level of cruel behaviour

[@thelastkillerchaos13]

That is some silent hill 2 shit right there

[@benya14-bo5rx]

That is freaking horrible on multiple levels. There's regular cheating, and there's cheating on your wife when she was probably taking care of a newborn (that was YOUR newborn, as well) and had most certainly just given birth and was even more vulnerable then regular new moms who don't have cancer. Heck, she could've died! Save the cheating for when the kids a toddler!

[@josephlawson2768]

It's pretty common with major illness. They're neglected by necessity, burdened much further, and can't confide in their partner because that would add to the partner's stress. So an emotional connection with someone else where they can unburden themselves is a super strong release.

[@therealneutrxl]

​@@josephlawson2768 doesn't make it okay

[@aaronvector4750]

​@@josephlawson2768 I like how you explained it without defending this horrific behavior

[@tallyp.7643]

I love the MIL in this story; she sees what's going on and daughter's attempts to use the kids being around to prevent arguments and get back into OP's good graces. Her yanking the ex away by her hair and yelling at her is just awesome. It would be great if more parents held their adult children accountable for their crap rather than prioritizing image or some idea that family must back each other no matter what. Nope--you screw up, you deserve getting called out for it... and cheating for a year is BEYOND just a screw up. Glad mom saw that and didn't give her daughter an inch.

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

😂same I was shocked but glad her mom taught her some manners

[@mnomadvfx]

I think you misunderstand what the MIL was doing. She knows a significant amount of the time she will get with her grandchildren depends on the charity of the parent with majority custody - which in this case with be the OP/father. The mother acting the fool is something MIL fears will poison the well for her chances of future time with her grandchildren so she is smacking da beech upside the head.

[@tallyp.7643]

@@mnomadvfx Or, she's a mom with a conscience who knows her daughter did something selfish to hurt her family over a long period of time and isn't gonna accept it. Not every mom acts like their child's a precious flower who can do no wrong, so they'll support the truly wronged party due to the fact that it's right rather than a hypothetical fear. And there's nothing stopping the OP from letting MIL see the kids more often whether mom is there or not, especially if their in-law relationship has been rather good. It's the contentious ones where this fear of not seeing grandkids becomes more prevalent.

[@shadowsnake5133]

​@@mnomadvfx that may be part of it, but if you raised your kid to be better than this and they weren't, you'd also be doing everything in your power to help out your in law get away from that kid and then disinherit them. I know I would.

[@antoniomendez1325]

Grandma : Goodnight *shuts door* OP : Girls, remember when I used to say to not to mess with your mother? Girls : uh huh OP: That goes double for your grandmother

[@DarkEinherjar]

I love the karmic justice of a cheater being cheated on by their own AP... it's just as they say: if they cheat with you, they'll eventually cheat ON you.

[@swagsloth4037]

What does ap, (and the other acronyms that channels like this use) mean

[@davidyoon3772]

​@swagsloth4037 AP means affair partner( basically person who the spouse is cheating with). STBXW means Soon To Be Ex Wife. OBS means Other Betrayed Spouse( the spouse of the affair partner).

[@swagsloth4037]

@@davidyoon3772 thank you

[@nomo1633]

S2 - shocker! Husband is uncomfortable and has a bad feeling about another man, and the woman ignored it.

[@reillycurran8508]

OPs Lawyer was def playing matchmaker for that Christmas! Never know when clients will wanna come back for a prenup after all!

[@branddransnothing]

That lawyer looking for a long term investment!

[@coolconnor3228]

That mother in law seems so genuine and awesome. heartbreaking

[@rhiarebecca2000]

Looool so she loved it and was happy enough when OP was making 3x what she was but then when she took over her dads company and basically told him his job didn’t matter and he listened and stepped up to be a great stay at home parent, she then was mad about it.. like girl you took on your fathers company and you said your career was more important.. cheaters forever finding the dumbest excuses as to why they cheated.

[@TheStraightestWhitest]

She meant what she said. This was just hypergamy. Women cannot escape this. It's sheer instinct. She became more valuable than him, and women are DISGUSTED by men that don't exceed them in value. That's why the seggs stopped. She became grossed out because he stopped being her superior. It's just how women work.

[@mr.halfright]

Perhaps the clearest example of "I said one thing, but if you could just read my mind you'd know I want something else"

[@jannalewis858]

Exactly 😂😂😂

[@NonchalantSims]

So the coworker cheated on his wife when she needed him most…well no wonder he and op’s wife’s cheated with each other, both are pos

[@johnnyhall9154]

It's actually somewhat common for husbands to cheat when their wives when they get cancer

[@kerlat4302]

What is pos?

[@fl4minratbag]

@@kerlat4302 it stands for “piece of 💩(sh*t)

[@nowan6221]

​@@kerlat4302 It means Piece of Sh*t.

[@tommyvercetti4687]

yeah, sometimes fiction is addicting

[@cliff9887]

sometimes? it’s basically the only media people consume.

[@thierryntoh24]

TBH. GPT working overtime these days.

[@sublimationtv7090]

@@thierryntoh24😂😂😂lmaooo

[@PringerXYZ]

C'mon, theres 3 updates to the 1st story, what a jeep. Wife wanted to be the stay-at-home partner instead, thought she can possibly prolong the divorce by not showing up but backfired, her suicide attempt. The eldest having to be medicated as shes struggling to cope with the seperation. The AP showing up high and drunk and barging into his former home to do vile things to OBS.

[@StreetWarrior24]

Do you know the redditors username?

[@Animodeus]

Any new updates

[@justinekho4751]

@@StreetWarrior24what does OBS mean?

[@gabrielrognon6238]

@@justinekho4751 other betrayed spouse :)

[@abicrystalwing1543]

@@justinekho4751 other betrayed spouse

[@sophiecharlottesnowe5529]

Story 1 turned into smut real quick lmao

[@SayanOfRagnarok]

"I began giving her disk" not sure if thats the slang for it or a typo but either way the term is genius and if it is the slang for it i cant believe this is the first time ive heard it 😂

[@shane6431]

I thought the same thing

[@ashermademe]

"Hard Disk" is now forever tainted in my mind

[@AlexandreGTavares]

What does it mean?

[@alana.dyer.author]

​@@AlexandreGTavares he licked her kitty

[@phillipschwoerke8374]

If a man ever becomes a house husband, the female always gets resentful. Even if it was her idea. Some part of the brain still expects the man to be the provider. Seen this theme in a few of these stories.

[@belooga-bj3pw]

Yeah it's actually quite complex. A 2015 study conducted by Christin Munsch, a sociologist at the University of Connecticut, "Relationship between income dynamics and infidelity." The research found that women who are primary breadwinners are less likely to cheat. In fact, as their income contribution increases, especially when they derive 100% of the household income, their likelihood of infidelity decreases. However, other studies suggest that social expectations play a significant role. Specifically, when the husband earns less and does not contribute to household chores, the chances of a divorce increase dramatically, not cheating related. If couple can't accept financial situation and feels uncomfortable (cuz of social expectation) with each other cuz of it, this can lead to a sense of unhappiness within the couple due to unmet expectations in their head

[@Sharky____]

8:25 did the Ai’s ball drop or sm

[@user-fw7fj3df5r]

@11:33 MIL is not to be messed with. Ha ha ha. I can picture MIL reaching pretty high to grab a fist full of hair and look at her Son in Law over the shoulder and say, NOW YALL HAVE A GOOD NIGHT, DRIVE SAFE. Smiling and saying through her teeth, Stop acting a fool STBEX Lastly I picture OP IS 😮or 😳 and says, Thanks for having us.

[@KSttt-ck9wv]

THAT FIRST STORY IS STRAIGHT OUT OF A FANFIC HOLY CRAP THATS AN AMAZING ENDING

[@theonlycloudyturtle]

RIGHT?!?!?!

[@truthbetold6322]

What was that weird ass voice swap 😭😭

[@Ghosts223NB]

I was looking for this lol

[@truthbetold6322]

@@Ghosts223NB fr it was for 5 seconds and never came back

[@nigellim9729]

I think that was supposed to be the grandma talking

[@Pastry_Dragongal]

The bots balls dropped for a moment

[@shadeblackwolf1508]

I agree with this therapist. If kids are old enough to ask, they're old enough to know some age appropriate version of the truth. And ofcourse they needed to cuddle you. They probably realised that they put you through hell at thanksgiving now, and with their constant asking for mommy, and feel really bad about that, on top of feeling like mommy betrayed not just you, but them too, cause she broke up their family.

[@shaelybjorn5889]

The sad reality is that yes, in order to go forward in therapy there needed to be that communication to his girls, that their mother cheated (age appropriate). If you lie or aren’t transparent, no growth will happen.

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

I love how he probably never had an outburst. Just stonewalled her

[@lordanubis1475]

Never believe the " he is just a friend/coworker and I would never" story and never let your partner be with a guy or woman who gives you that bad feeling in the gut

[@Roronoa1213]

Story 1 grandma is amazing.

[@Black-Rose12]

Never expected that turn with OBS in story 1

[@Shikaschima]

Can we for a moment appreciate MiL's stance to the whole thing? Her pretty much going "I'm not okay with what my daughter did and I will mot try to get you to change your mind on it because it's justified, but please, let me remain your children's grandmother." is an incredibly strong mind.

[@doncjack5913]

Definitely look into alienation of affection laws in the state you live and demand compensation from the AP for emotional trauma and expenses that might have been spent using your money from the infidelity with the ex-spouse.

[@chunellemariavictoriaespan8752]

1:55 =The nerve of her... Having a house-husband is already a jackpot and she demeans it... Staying at home ain't easy girl...

[@chimbuschungus5379]

Story 2, the ap was dumb asf. Blud thought he was in a ntr manga or some shit.

[@Afghanisstan]

Right, bro thought he can use the NTR strategy only for him to lose her lel

[@R.DeMora]

Could've been an epic bro moment tho, if the APs intention was to inform OP.

[@GuardianHalberd]

Ah I remember the first story. It's incomplete here. This is the best example why this bullshit about "no doesn't mean no" should be cut down. In a later update, OP finds out everything went down because the idiot wife wished he told her he would take her father's business and let her take care of the house and kids - but never expressed it out loud. She wanted him to read her mind basically. So she crushed the marriage for being a woke empowered woman. So, if you have a girlfriend or anything, and you go out to buy something to eat, ask her "want something?", and if she tells "no", don't buy her anything. If she tries to grab a bite later, forbid her and tell her you are no telepath and she better stop that bullshit and tell clearly the next time what she wants.

[@TheOneWhoSimps]

I broke my girlfriends jaw once because she stole a curly fry after she said she wasn't hungry. Got to put them slags in their place you know.

[@princessqueen6881]

​@@TheOneWhoSimpsdamn... see me personally you would be worrying alot more then them fries if you do me like that wth wrong you?,YOU BROKE A JAW? OVER SOME DAMN FRY? Now I'll kill over some food but all that? It's not like she tried to Steal the whole plate. I'm surprised you have a gf acting like that.

[@TheOneWhoSimps]

@@princessqueen6881 if it was normal fries I'd let it slide, but them curly fries are sacred and at that point it's a matter of principle.

[@olala-fe9rp]

Do they get together after the divorce The pixie cut lady

[@erinfield1943]

Damn. I mean, it may have taken her some years to come to the point where she could articulate the fact that she wanted to leave the company and stay home. Different personality types have different capacities for being direct about desires, or even feeling permission to have desires, and sure, when that gets into the lower levels of emotional intelligence, that can get into manipulation and dishonesty territory. The affair might have been a half-conscious, half-unconscious way of sabotaging things / dealing with anger. Women (and men) aren't 100% able to articulate every difficult thought or emotion all the time. People are complicated. Choose someone who is fairly well adjusted, no need to force the literal interpretation of every word on your partner.

[@darpmosh6601]

For Story 1, the moment I heard that she got a pay increase and became a higher status than her husband, I knew, FUCKING KNEW, that it was the beginning of the end.

[@SayanOfRagnarok]

Stiry 2: and he thinks the cheating started with the girls' trip and not the sleepovers?😂 usually, when they feel comfortable enough to go on trips with the AP to cheat thats no where near the first time

[@MrDucktastic]

OP in story 2 was sent an portfolio of evidence by AP so unlikely he thought it was the trip.

[@chessieray1465]

How pompous do you have to be to "intentionally butt-dial" and self-snitch to prove something worthless, and not think your spot wouldn't be blown up from it?

[@chimbuschungus5379]

He really thought he was slick with it.

[@GodlyWodahs]

He watched too many dramas and thought he'd ruin OP's life and send him into depression

[@rkuzmych]

8:20 WTF man...

[@stonybaboon]

lol "u can sleep on the couch" I would say "NO YOU ARE THE ONE THAT GETS TO SLEEP ON THE COUCH GET THE F OUT "

[@TheDLI12]

I dont know if the op will see this. Im sure he wont but speaking as a divorced kid you NEED to know. You cant progress until you know. You get stuck on the car crash until you learn and cand advance

[@xIuvr]

the random voice change scared the shit out of me 😭

[@Raina_mz]

Too much detail of that Christmas day😂

[@crowfather0249]

Okay bro, way too much detail with the AP's wife.

[@VeryRefreshing]

Eh wasnt that crazy there r way worse stories that go full detailed.😅

[@C.G.Gaster]

Listen, some of use want those juicy details.

[@VeryRefreshing]

@@C.G.Gaster fr let us down bad people hear da slightly lewd 😹

[@C.G.Gaster]

@VeryRefreshing really the whole time I was saying it's a bad idea, but it got an actual reaction out of me, though Besides, if I wanted that, I would go to the hub, for it.

[@Magnet_Chaos]

I'm surprise he didn't burst out the purple prose. Jesus Christ.

[@mikehilbert9349]

Story 1: The typical woman gets a higher paying job and suddenly decides she is too good for the guy who's supported her.

[@noahnewcomer5180]

….and then gets a reality check when she realizes the consequences of her actions, that she not only fucked up her life but her entire family’s as well for dudes who wanted nothing but to boink her

[@Anakin_0YT]

First story was entertaining as hell

[@firehot427]

Story 1 get that bag queen 💅

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

It never was perfect marriage to begin with.

[@juliancumbia6443]

Damn story 1 is one hell of a switcheroo

[@fanofpink]

I don't understand why if you have children and life together that you throw that away?

[@BenDeMarco-qr4dq]

You wouldn’t understand. If a girl cheats on you. 99 times out of 100 she will again. This is why most people leave them.

[@edfmed1080]

Bruh i get it but i didn't want to know the details about love making, dude.

[@MxkoTsunxmi]

The ai voice changing actively scared me

[@EmotionsTalesStories]

Okay but bro didn’t need to go into that much detail about his drunken night with the AP’s wife

[@Katzykeens]

UGH the girls flipping out T__T and hugging him, god that had to be crushing. I'm so sorry they had to go through that... CHEATING ON HIS WIFE WITH CANCER WOW HE'S VILE AND DISGUSTING AND HE DESERVES OP'S EX WIFE. EW. GROSS. Aww it's v cute he ended up with his fellow jilted lover ;w;

[@TheLapri84]

The voice switch up is wild 🤣

[@analyticgeometry9014]

Anyone have link to first story?

[@sahaal79]

New drinking game every time they say "soon to be ex". Take a shot see how long it takes for you to get liver failure

[@chloebishop481]

Story 2 Grandma is a true G

[@Fanny-ge6ge]

From classic reddit story to smutty fanfic in 20 minutes...

[@JackKaminski-v2p]

8:25 bro went through Peubrety right then and there💀

[@vmrstl]

“I just thought “ guys like this are so ridiculous

[@justcallmeroach8035]

Holy lawl, i giggled when MIL went full SFOD on the cheating wife.

[@ghamdansaleh5578]

Never be financially reliant on a female

[@Thanatossssx]

Pls dont use that other voice lol

[@adriannaranjo4397]

Fakest story ever, especially when they suddenly started dating other girl who got cheated on two and went into *extreme* detail on their xxx time

[@LazyP0tat05]

That switch

[@jesschen5513]

I hate when people call these stories fake, that don't matter these are good stories..

[@PUPKIN_UrMum]

Okay, I liked the story and all. But why in HELL did the guy have to go into such fucking detail? He could’ve just said that they had slept together?? I cringed at it cause he explained literally everything they did eventually after I realized he wasn’t gonna stop taking about it, I ended up having to skip that part. Fucking disgusting. I probably misspelled A LOT of things in here haha-

[@arhael3594]

Did you rub one out, while at it?

[@PUPKIN_UrMum]

@@arhael3594 I’m a girl 💀

[@arhael3594]

@@PUPKIN_UrMum Did I stutter? 🧐

[@iceman850none5]

To be fair, no sex for 2 years???? I’d be going insane.

[@zihadsy8120]

One thing I learnt from this video is when it feels too good to be true it is not true

[@Darkspark06]

“Nice wig” BROOOOO 😭😭😭

[@johncisney15]

That MIL is the GOAT lol

[@hinatakenpachi6564]

The first story hits a nerve cause the therapist decided to tell the girls why they were separating before asking him if she can. "They can make their decision to have a relationship with her when their older" Wtf does them growing older got to do with it? Force them to go see their mother when they don't want for years on end. As a now 35 year old that was forced doing that crap all I see it now is a waste of my years.

[@chunellemariavictoriaespan8752]

3:01 =The nerve of her... You asked him to stay and you demean him for saying yes... F***ing hell with cheaters... God they disgust me...

[@yusufyassim3]

aint no way bro said "just dont leak too much stufF" bro should send the vids to lawyer

[@milkpieofficial]

bro the voice change had me tweak 💀

[@0Adnin]

2nd Story: AF's powerplay was not about separating with you and landing with hr. Hi s powerplay was to end her marriage. If he can't have her, so cant you you ! Clearly he won...unfortunately.

[@klodianacela1598]

Is there an update to story 1 i need to know

[@blight4519]

How is each one of these people saying "your mother loves you". If she did love them she wouldn't break their family

[@VanshKumar-jn6gl]

I think I heard it before!

[@WowzaBoyz]

I gotta stop watching these simp Reddit stories….shits starting to affect me o think

[@celinereyes1185]

right on !!!

[@NightCourt1984]

Amazing. The wife is the one cheating and she calls the husband a tramp because he refuses to have sex with a cheater.

[@akamokz2927]

The divorce lawyer is Harvey spector😂

[@vlad-igor]

Whats POS & OBS?🤔

[@loading_file7654]

POS is piece of sh!t, I don’t know what OBS is.

[@loading_file7654]

OBS is other betrayed spouse

[@C.G.Gaster]

And pos means piece of sh***** Producer: GET HIM OFF AIR RIGHT NOW.

[@KrisMainYT]

POS is piece of sheet

[@IkeTheSir]

Someone link me to the first story please

[@winkmink7709]

Imma say, I still find it icky when people who aren't divorce screw around with another person. Like, cmon

[@samkordbacheh81]

Bro didn't need to explain how did they do it

[@ramishalhoob8359]

dose any one knows the original post for story one?

[@lalvarez5151]

Story 2- op let her male bf come over to the house? What a lack of respect on her side

[@richarddimeck4578]

Pride comes before a fall.

[@johncisney15]

What does "obs" mean?

[@SilveredRaven]

The therapist should have talked to you first before EVER touching the truth.

[@Justyn_Lim]

What does OBS/BS mean?

[@user-ct1yh7sn9y]

Most real reddit story

[@nagreneil]

"Nice wig"

[@unitcharles8278]

Mil is fking hero at this point

[@mr.youtube4723]

Bros got someone amazing rizz man

[@Odd_Interaction]

S1: Oh I disagree, Karma isn’t a tramp. She is a*itch and worse, she often spends time with Murphy and they double tap you. Sadly sometimes it’s good for you and sometimes it isn’t.

[@user-tl2ou9xw5f]

Yep it’s your fault, no such thing as house husband😂

[@AZNboi10921]

What's the background song?

[@foxx003]

You fed us an unfinished story

[@saltukbugrahancokuk]

8:25 what happened to the voice

[@Newt-69420]

I Must say even tho in story one he doesnt beleve in god he still prays w mans