I am listening to this, while I am in this exact cycle over and over… and yet I don’t have the strength or courage to end this cycle… Kindly use this comment as a like button to remind me that I can do this!
@jasmindrace Жыл бұрын
When you are weak, He is strong! This is the perfect situation for Him to step in and display His Glory. You said “I can’t”. BUT HE CAN. Speak to Him, seek Him and He will transform you and you will be victorious. In fact you already are! I thank Him for breaking your unhealthy cycles. In Jesus Name. Amen. God has glorious plans and promises for you. Walk with Him. He has you.
@naomiowesme6447 Жыл бұрын
You can do this!!!
@Starsunshine777 Жыл бұрын
What cycle
@NieshaDenise Жыл бұрын
Praying for you. I was in a 12 years relationship with someone who mentally abused me not always physically but it was at times. He would cheat and leave and I stayed because he told me if I left he wouldn’t be here for my daughters anymore. I knew how much my girls loved their dad so I dealt with whatever. God knew that I should have left years ago. I didn’t listen it got worse and worse. I feel like I taught him how to treat a woman. Because 6 days after cursing me out and being with me he had a side chick he went and married. I told god why me. I’m still lost for words it’s only been 2 months and I’m still hurting. But I believe god was like “you wouldn’t leave so I showed you why you should” god knew I wasn’t going to get anywhere with this man. But now I have to heal and I’ve been getting closer and closer to god.
@sarahkyobutungi Жыл бұрын
@@NieshaDeniseoh dear😔😔… how are you holding on now😔
@majortaylor1374 Жыл бұрын
I'm tired of the same cycle. Same mistakes. Teach me lord to move forward and not to look back. Heal my heart from pain from my past. I hold myself accountable for my decisions and those who I have hurt in the process of looking for remedies to take the pain away. I pray God heals me and in his timing that I receive what is his desires are for me. Amen.Amen
@breezy417610 ай бұрын
You got it Bro 💪🏾💪🏾
@GodsDaughter7710 ай бұрын
Amen
@daniellecollins58739 ай бұрын
You said it 🥹😢😢😢
@meiapearson36619 ай бұрын
Amen
@Kedia129 ай бұрын
Amen
@RizalWany Жыл бұрын
Whoever is reading this comment, I wish you success, health, love and happiness
@candylambert650811 ай бұрын
I receive.. IJN! AMEN! TY ADONAI.. SAME TOU YOU..
@evelynrobinson613411 ай бұрын
Thank you.... and to you as well... !!
@SyvilleJosephine11 ай бұрын
Thank you
@SyvilleJosephine11 ай бұрын
I pray the same for you as well. 😇
@proverbs319410 ай бұрын
AMEN 🙏🏽 Same to you 🙏🏽
@jon2o92 ай бұрын
12 yr relationship over. I immediately got sober and turned to god even though i didnt want to i knew i had to. Best choice ever.
@halstomstarks29222 ай бұрын
Best decision I made was turned to God. I had to switch up to see the path God was taking me. Praying for you my g 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@markbeen52 ай бұрын
2and half years found out she moved on her and the dude went atl I flew down to win her back but she never came to me now she trying to put me out I try to be cordial and she just starts going berserk I paid all the bills for this months and paid for her real estate license and board but she took the money to go with o boy now she driving his car and still lying
@eyerun2k622Ай бұрын
@@markbeen5i know that feeling of betrayal going through it now man. even though it’s hard to believe rightnow, God loves you and us and he will never forsake us. it gonna be alr love you brother
@msbeautiful01Ай бұрын
I’m glad you did because boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is not biblical nor of GOD.-(creating a ungodly soul tie) Therefore GOD only honors marriage.-(KJV)Hebrews 13:4💯📖✝️🙏🏽💯
@DiyanibeatsАй бұрын
Congrats on change and sobriety. Why didn’t you want to turn to god? What was the breaking point that force you to change ?
@erica8657 Жыл бұрын
You have arrived to spiritual maturity when you view disappointment as God ordering your steps ❤️💯
@tiff2831 Жыл бұрын
That! I felt like I was in a spiritual chokehold when I heard that! 😂😮
@karrisma057 ай бұрын
🙌🏾🤍🙏🏾
@dailyn43345 ай бұрын
Mmmmm. Was just told to look into spiritual maturity
@MLG.SAFARII03Ай бұрын
Crazy that a message from 2023 has found me in 2024 in a time that i need it
@keepingitrealwithmarquita6670Ай бұрын
Me too... God so intentional
@MLG.SAFARII03Ай бұрын
@keepingitrealwithmarquita6670 Amen 🙏🏽❤️💯
@Rodd6deepАй бұрын
Me too as well right on time
@diachellebellАй бұрын
That part!
@emmaperez667024 күн бұрын
That's right it found me today December 31 2024. 🔥🙏🤍 2025 it's all about pursuing God
@Leedy06 Жыл бұрын
I needed this message! This year has been a rocky year for me. I lost my grandfather, I lost my relationship with my ex, I lost friends, and I lost my dad on Dec 1st. It’s tough and I’m a bit puzzled with everything at the moment with my walk with God and Jesus. But through it all, I didn’t lose God and Jesus! Whoever come across this message. Pray for me. Thank you 🤲🏾💙
@yolandarichardson2766 Жыл бұрын
Praying with and for you.
@malikhoward1971 Жыл бұрын
Sending you love and light 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@meelahmanifestslove Жыл бұрын
Very sorry for your loss of your loved ones 🙏🏾 that is a rough year indeed. Thanking God for his presence throughout it all is a testament of true faith
@Leedy06 Жыл бұрын
@@yolandarichardson2766 Thank you 🤲🏾💙
@Leedy06 Жыл бұрын
@@malikhoward1971 Thank you bro 🤲🏾💙
@chells_tells3894 Жыл бұрын
God is faithful and amazing! One year ago I was soooo heartbroken over someone who I thought was my soulmate but God reveal to me it was a soul tie. I prayed for that bondage to be broken and now fast forward today- I’m in a healthy relationship. THANK YOU LORD PUBLICLY AND PRIVATELY ❤
@VanessaNyatsapfu11 ай бұрын
can't wait to reach this stage🥺
@chells_tells389411 ай бұрын
@@VanessaNyatsapfu you will very soon in Jesus mighty name!
@maryrosecericos1548 ай бұрын
Can relate😢 I really knelt down in prayer. May I ask your WhatsApp and how did u cope
@naomibk-d3l7 ай бұрын
Amen !!
@Healhealthywithdrea7 ай бұрын
I’m praying to get through this … I’m in the beginning stages
@Carmennnw Жыл бұрын
“Father, I trust you even when it hurts; help me to view disappointments as you ordering my steps”
@danijane20035 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@Telisha19878 ай бұрын
I found this video during my current breakup. I never thought we would get to the level of anger that we reached. This video really helped me and gave me some answers. Please pray that I can hear God and make him the head of my life.
@thebikehub74218 ай бұрын
He is the only answer you need in life ❤️ God is the long game to salvation in the moment and in the end - I’m in the same struggle
@mariahnicole53328 ай бұрын
Going through a breakup as well, or ghosting which is worse. Spending as much time with God and in his word as I can❤ stay focus on him and he will heal your heart and help you through it
@melulopes8 ай бұрын
You are not alone, same here 😢
@G.spicey8 ай бұрын
I was in unimaginable pain after my breakup with my ex 6months ago! The stages of grief were incredibly raw! The anger was heightened because of the betrayal I felt! But I prayed, & trusted God for healing! My heart was in physical pain & I never thought the pain would go away, now… 6months down the line, God healed most of the pain! He continues teaching me to trust Him! Endings/ Rejection are a form of redirection. Trust Him! God is good all the time!
@shannondalcour84478 ай бұрын
Amen
@Funcomputer2219 күн бұрын
This has found me in 2025
@Free2bme75 күн бұрын
Me to today😢😢 and I needed to hear this!!
@ndiazOma3 сағат бұрын
SAME 🙌‼️🤣 God will do it
@JesusismyKingNL11 ай бұрын
The heartbreak was so bad, I thought I was going to die, but it was a blessing in disguise. God also blessed me with an infected stone in my jaw, that lead me to a nurse who prayed for me in Jesus name(yes she said in Jesus name!!) it's been 4 years and I've been practicing celibacy (no more fornication) and serving the LORD daily❤🙏
@jasmin20526 ай бұрын
God also blessed me with an infected stone in my jaw? God did this to you
@nicolegreene22083 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉I'm so proud of you, Fam!
@TheHealthUnprofessional16 күн бұрын
@@jasmin2052 ahhahahahha 😂stoooooppppp … the dEVIL exists too! The pharmakiea sorcerers cause disease God/Source blessed me with the skill to help you avoid future infected “stones” In your jaw.
@shelbybrice42 Жыл бұрын
I am going through the worst heartbreak and KNOW it's only God that lead me to this sermon. Thank you God for a perspective shift. 🙏
@MJ_LifeCoach Жыл бұрын
Same here…
@adetomialbertina11 ай бұрын
Same here
@patriciajere54311 ай бұрын
it's well
@MrLolaandcharlie9 ай бұрын
Me to x
@quovadiswise89029 ай бұрын
Same!❤
@MellyArias9425 күн бұрын
Currently going through the biggest and worst heartbreak of my entire life. 6 years together, lived together for 4 years and were engaged. He told me the day before our wedding he didn’t want to be married yet,I haven’t been able to stop crying for 2 months. God is good and I am choosing Him over everything. I’ve had a hard time letting go of my partner but this week I decided I am moving out and not looking back.. I don’t know how I am going to do it but I know God will provide
@Akafoo24724 күн бұрын
😅 Marry me, I've been gaslighting through my ex drinking. 6 years
@JerrionaLeyy21 күн бұрын
Rejection is always God protection and redirection !
@la-keyawilliams687214 күн бұрын
Exceedingly and Abundantly. Hold on Melly. Love and comfort to your heart.
@jasnax21046 күн бұрын
I have a close friend who went through the same thing, she obeyed God and he blessed her with the best possible man for her 6 months after the break up!!! Lean on God, He is faithful and you will heal
@tiffanybuell60104 күн бұрын
Sorry you are going through this. I have been going through my worst heart break for a year and a half now. I kept going back to my ex fiance knowing he only wanted sex with no commitment. I had hopes he would want us back but he is a very negative person and always thinks the worst in everything so self sabotages, left me blind sided and he turned to alcohol. I am so ready to let go and quit hurting my self over and over trying to help him change when I know he won’t. I have never had the connection we had at one time, so it has been hard for me to believe he isn’t or wasn’t the one. Praying to god gives me strength to finally heal and let go. I pray you are able to move forward and god be with you through this hard time. 😢
@letho69246 ай бұрын
“Everything that’s built on a weak foundation will collapse in a storm” 🔥
@hyperboliq Жыл бұрын
If you’re reading this - stop thinking whatever is on your mind right more and remember this : God’s already figured it out - just show up and do what he says
@1dawg2437 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@BWREMYPISTOL5 ай бұрын
Out of all the comments THIS hit my spirit 🙌🏾💯❤️🙏🏾
@SydMS3 ай бұрын
Needed ❤️
@tymoneey3 ай бұрын
this broke me to tears man…
@crownedhisglory3 ай бұрын
❤❤
@actillman27 күн бұрын
I can relate to First Lady… hurt and hurt some more… made a vow to God and BOOM he let the man for me find me. 2025 we will be celebrating 20 years of marriage!!! 🙌🏽
@kekedoyouloveme777219 күн бұрын
Praise God ❤
@robertjaredwilliams7788 Жыл бұрын
“Until the pain of change outweighs the irritation of being stuck, you’ll never move.” WOW. 💪🏾🙏🏾
@daphneeb.8979 ай бұрын
Amen
@pholilepreciousmaseko18288 ай бұрын
First thing i captured❤
@lala50615 ай бұрын
💯
@God_Addict7 күн бұрын
“Until the pain of change outweighs the irritation of being stuck, you’ll never move.”
@ameenamims50004 күн бұрын
Mmm break this down I feel it a lil but I don’t fully understand so I’ve been with my man for 10 years and it’s breaking us his mom passed 4 years ago I have 4 kids just had twins and we just not working is it a soul tie ?
@PrettyMango Жыл бұрын
I've been ready to give up .. I got on my knees today and cried out to God, questioning if he even hears me. I feel bad for single mothers, struggling & feeling alone. Especially single moms who aren't single moms by choice. We deal with so much alone ... the load gets heavy & tiring. I hope anyone going through can find the strength to pull it together.
@lockedintogod4404 Жыл бұрын
Sending you some love sis ❤
@user-es1qt2ib2p Жыл бұрын
God will provide that. Seek Him. He will give you all you need. Strength, peace and more my love. ❤ sending you light.
@velmahairston81069 ай бұрын
I can totally relate to this. Trying my best to stay positive and patient in God’s plan and not my own.
@samottientertainment2819 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sis❤
@Eiiorab1119 ай бұрын
I’m feeling the same way, that is why I found this video 😢
@toyaspears637610 ай бұрын
I need this type of sermon... I don't need the gospel sugar coated 😢. I need deliverance. Please pray for me.
@leannethomas9797 Жыл бұрын
"Some of you won't turn to the next page because you know that person (that we shouldn't be with, it's not God will) won't be in the next chapter." Thank you for that! I did leave, but I keep wondering if I made the right decision out of loneliness. That statement spoke to me that I am right where God wants me and to keep moving forward with the Lord.
@meiapearson36619 ай бұрын
Same… 🙏🏽Amen
@CookWithStephhАй бұрын
Same with me .
@jodeneM0415Ай бұрын
very soon very soon ill leave a toxic relationship and I know he will fight me as he was not heaven send, but I trust God that He has this in his control. Please pray for me and my sons
@alexisbrown93719 ай бұрын
I feel like I've been living in pain for over 30 years, I'm only 35. This was so good
@meiapearson36619 ай бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@veronicaprado41366 ай бұрын
❣️🗣
@CookWithStephhАй бұрын
Wow me too. My pain started from childhood and my whole life been a cycle of using things and people for my pain
@Delores-h7l29 күн бұрын
Same from childhood to adulthood. I don't even know what love is from family or "friends" I'm 30 and super depressed. Just alive. Not sure why .
@Starsunshine7772 ай бұрын
This is the type of preachers we need relevant to our culture but with sweet truth!
@leslieanntheodore5015 Жыл бұрын
I needed this. After being in a relationship with a man who showed me who he was throughout the relationship, I kept holding on. Now I actually see the blessing in the breakup. It definitely had to happen to draw me closer to God and be tired of toxicity . I now have a growth mindset. Still growing. Thank God ❤
@danilaroche11562 ай бұрын
You only get involved with a man who A. Serves & loves Christ & B. Is intentional to court & marry you.
@alishathomas2972 Жыл бұрын
When Jerry said “I seen her at a funeral”….. my Spirit was like “yeah, death had to happen (death to self) for resurrection to occur”….. ohhhh weee - right person, wrong time! Jesus- ya’ll give me hope for that future husband
@thelastbookyouread10946 ай бұрын
That’s good sister!
@mdrenewed11 ай бұрын
I've decided to heal, surrender and keep my legs closed before marriage. 🙌🏾🙏🏿
@thea741811 ай бұрын
🤝🙏❤
@andreashley432218 сағат бұрын
Me and my wife needed to hear this for what we are going through right now
@rayonnaandrews74246 ай бұрын
"Can I trust you with disappointment?" Bars from heaven.
@Johnwill-t7dАй бұрын
Praise to God Almighty!!!!'m favoured, $140k every 3weeks! | can now give back to the locals in my community and also support God's work and the church. God bless America🇺🇸❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@CharlotteSilver-p7bАй бұрын
I believe when God blessess it exceeds beyond my expectation. I know my Father in heaven is a generous father who provides the needs of his children感
@MarkSarah-qn2ocАй бұрын
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
@Johnwill-t7dАй бұрын
Sure, the investment-advisor that guides me is …………….Mrs Cynthia Bereniz Galvan! After enduring many struggles, I am now filled with gratitude for owning a new home. My family is happy, and everything is finally falling into place.
@philkelvin4588Ай бұрын
Hallelujah!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good f twas owning a loan of $47,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (David), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $12,000 and got my payout of m $270,500 every months, God bless Mrs Cynthia Bereniz Galvan.
@YoungEmmanuel-Ай бұрын
Praise God! Hallelujah! ** It's truly amazing to hear how God's blessings have touched your life and helped you through such a significant journey. The transformation you've experienced through the daily devotionals is a powerful testimony of His grace and provision. What a blessing to hear that your financial burden has been lifted and your son's health is being cared for. May God continue to guide and bless you and your family abundantly. All glory to Him! 人 Blessings to Mrs. Cynthia Bereniz Galvan as well for her role in your breakthrough
@lunanightfall672110 ай бұрын
FATHER, I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS!!!
@nonya7099 Жыл бұрын
Choosing obedience in 2023 was hardest decision of my life. But I know the break up was necessary for me and him. Out of love I did it wanting his best. So hard to love someone but not be able to be with them. I dont know Gods plan but I know He loves me and will lead me. Faith over fear.
@SkegeeAceАй бұрын
How are you doing now? Praying you're happy and at peace.
@theway6493 Жыл бұрын
Mrs. Flowers, I’m in that same situation right now. I just got out of a relationship and now I’m focusing on God. Thank you ALL for this AMAZING, Word!!!!
@user-es1qt2ib2p Жыл бұрын
Me too, sis. So hard. But I find peace in God and His will for me. This was something He tried to show me about and removed from my life once before. I fell back and am paying. He once again shows me He has better in store for me.
@ItsShaniForReal11 ай бұрын
Same here sisters but God ❤
@roseblack60576 ай бұрын
I’m going through a break up. 😢 And this message is what I need right now.
@reynalyne56806 ай бұрын
same , im in pain because of break up 😭
@roseblack60576 ай бұрын
@@reynalyne5680 Pray for strength, peace and understanding. Get closer to God during this time. 🙏🏽
@seanscott36426 ай бұрын
Prayers to yall and you guys healing 🙏🏾
@maria_grasya7775 ай бұрын
Sending hugs.. let's heal together 😢❤
@roseblack60575 ай бұрын
@@maria_grasya777 we can 🙏🏽 I’m feeling so much better this month. Praying you heal expeditiously 🙏🏾
@yazitful4 ай бұрын
Day 1 of letting a narcissist go… permanently. This video has helped me sleep tonight. Thank you
@jayjemful3 ай бұрын
From your lips to the Lords ears. I hope you're on the same path of letting go. I to have recently broken up with my narcissist boyfriend it's not easy, but I'm trusting in the Lord to pull me through thus
@AliyahMonay5 ай бұрын
I’m currently going through this. I was in a relationship for 4 years the worst and since I’ve been in cycles and my 29th birthday I prayed and surrendered to God letting him know I give up and if it’s no longer his will i don’t want it. I prayed God take my lustful desires away and when my ex tried to come back I didn’t even feel anything. I’m so thankful i surrendered and finally allowed the lord to do his work in and through me. 👏🏾🙌🏾
@bethelchioma86953 ай бұрын
I pray I come to this final understanding and let God to heal me ! It’s usually very difficult
@PraiseGodall Жыл бұрын
Was in depression I lost all hope off living but my parents and my sisters continued to pray and cry out to God for a merical thank you Jesus
@LaDonnaTaylor-Details Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@SyvilleJosephine11 ай бұрын
Praying that your faith hasn't failed and that you know how very mu h you are loved. Remain encouraged. 😇
@PraiseGodall11 ай бұрын
Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you. Thank you very much. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉 @@SyvilleJosephine
@PraiseGodall11 ай бұрын
Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you. Thank you very much. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉 @@LaDonnaTaylor-Details
@najiHER8 ай бұрын
Give your parents and sisters a hug for me. They knew your worth even when you didn't believe.
@nicolem528 күн бұрын
What a beautiful sermonnn!! Literally listened to it at the perfect season in my life
@_humblekay7075 Жыл бұрын
Heart break is when our emotions have to readjust unwillingly
@Millie-q6x Жыл бұрын
Prayer time saves time. Jesus took time. Be patient. Heal well.Take time to grow. Regulate your emotions. No time to waste
@meiapearson36619 ай бұрын
Amen
@abeekuworldchanger3808 ай бұрын
So true. We don't like to wait in our society. In the previous sermon in this series by Jerry Flowers , he mentioned how we like to do secondary things First. That was convicting. Prayer time saves time indeed. Many skip this step, blame God and wonder why portions of their lives are at a stand still .... God gives us free will, but he'll step back because his love for us is so strong. Yet, he steps back and let's people do what they want, but knows that people can be digging themselves into turmoil on their own.
@mslily209 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jerry, I can’t even begin to thank you enough for allowing God to use you to reach our hearts.
@melaninpoppies5709 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. To those who see this Please help me pray to steward my pain well. It’s hard guys. 🙁
@Ambers_Walking_In_Freedom Жыл бұрын
Things will remain the same until the pain of remaining the same is greater than the pain of change.
@kekedoyouloveme777219 күн бұрын
He loves his wife u can tell he stares watching every word come out her mouth 👄. God bless their union in the name of Jesus
@youngpacman1222 Жыл бұрын
For someone that's willing to have a significant other in their life, I feel like I been done the shadow work, completed personal goals of mine, and elevated and still feel depressed and lonely cause of the things I do doesn't honestly fulfill me when I don't have anyone to share those moments with
@yvonnehutson667611 ай бұрын
I understand. This entire world has to practice self love! It begins with ourselves🙏Its extra Lonely if you get with other people and your Not on the same page! We have to trust Gos Timing! I truly understand how you feel. But we have to do the work the self Love, So we can being balance to another whole and healthy person
@leratohope228819 күн бұрын
Its 2025 and i needed this i reeeally needed this, I'm going through a heart break too, only this time i'm choosing to steward it the right way, thank you so much
@YourChronicIllnessAdvocate Жыл бұрын
Heartbreak is MARRIED to God's Timing - mind blown 💥💥
@kaleighaalejaga747011 ай бұрын
Lord.. just got out of a 5 year relationship yesterday. Children included.. needed this.
@zaniayanae11 ай бұрын
Congratulations! You needed that message then! God has you and those kids!❤❤
@alexarenee29 Жыл бұрын
Just when my edges grew back, Pastor and the Mrs came and snatched them off again! Praise God!!!
@zaniayanae11 ай бұрын
WONT HE DO IT🙌🏽🩷
@Itsonly_Michelle11 ай бұрын
I’m starting to think Joy coming in the morning means it comes when you finally morn the promises you made for yourself. God help me to finishing morning so I can have Joy Amen
@shirleysmith856511 ай бұрын
❤️🙏🏼❤️
@GodsChosenMekAmoR Жыл бұрын
J Flowwwwwwwwwwwww, ahahahahahahhaaa. Awww this is beautiful "My purpose was watching me as I was asking for clarity". God stepped in. His timing is beautiful. Thanks for sharing. I am at this point. It's just I want God to get the glory and have no idols or attachments to distract me. If it ain't His will I don't want it. Thank you for all you do for Kingdom.
@Missteachable Жыл бұрын
This message is for ME🙌🏾 Just experienced a horrible heartbreak after a 3yr relationship. I’m tired of mismanaging my pain. I just want Jesus and his timing! That’s it🥹🙌🏾
@MariaJane-rg2iy9 ай бұрын
We would all be alright
@dinaledimpho Жыл бұрын
I went through this and prayed. Someone i met came back into my life and I prayed for clarity and I got it. Though what happened was I placed him before God once I felt i had him. Then he left. Blocked me, no explanation nothing. This last Saturday, 8 months after we broke up, i bumped into him with his brand new extremely beautiful bride, and she is gorgeous, at their wedding reception. I was there to pick up a parcel and I was late for my appointment. I have definitely not stewarded my pain right. I have been on antidepressants and all sorts since we broke up. I was broken all over again. I needed this and I will listen to this on repeat and keep praying. I know I am where she was. I dont want anymore pain. I am even tempted to say i dont want anyone else. I am 43 and childless and it just doesnt seem to be coming.
@Carohuynh97 Жыл бұрын
Aww this must’ve been so hard. I’m sending you so much love and strength!
@yvonnehutson667611 ай бұрын
God Bless you Sis! 😢❤Phil 4:13 You are a testimony. God will restore and give you better. Trust the Process you are coming out as pure Gold! Gods turning your pain and to your greatest testimony!
@SkegeeAceАй бұрын
Oh, honey. Biggest hugs. You dodge a BULLET. Trust me. God was looking out for you and you bumping into them was Him showing you that! Anybody who would do that to you and then be married 8 months later is not well and I feel sorry for his bride.
@priscilladelucas7663Ай бұрын
Going through a heartbreak and my bf who broke up with me 3 days ago .. been so heavy and feeling devastated. Took my butt to church today. and this message was amazing. thank you. it’s been so hard.
@craigford3311 ай бұрын
My Mother died September 12, 2022. I lost my faith. I became worldly and fell away. Then I had a dream about my Mom. She shook her head and knew it was her saying “this ain’t how I raised you” the coming weeks I turned back to God. I’m looking and praying for grace. I had to realize that God knew my Mother first. & he loved her more. She was his. Not mine. And everything I felt was because I wanted my Mom back and God did not see fit to grant that. However two years later I’m seeing that he needed to break me so I could finally learn to really seek him. & even though I miss my Mother. There are blessings born from the pain and loss. I praise God I’m seeing this now. I love you. May God be with us all.
@EvolutionofJaide10 ай бұрын
This helped me genuinely
@DarianaRosales11 ай бұрын
Wow .. I’ve been depressed for weeks now dealing with heartbreak/disappointment -& I came across this sermon after coming home late at night from work . I was tired but I stayed -& watched the whole time . Thank you for sharing this word . I needed it 🙏🏼❤️🩹
@shirleysmith856511 ай бұрын
❤️🙏🏼❤️
@SyvilleJosephine11 ай бұрын
I pray that your strength is increasing and that you're beginning to feel better.
@missrd3959 ай бұрын
❤
@tamikomann23 ай бұрын
❤🙏🏿
@sabrinadesir2847 күн бұрын
I couldn’t even watch this all the way through. I will have to take this one in increments. It’s just too heavy 😢
@Yemaya1982 Жыл бұрын
Father, I trust you even when it HURTS! Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps! AMEN AND AMEN!🙏
@BreeAdanna7 күн бұрын
Pastor came for MY edges and all of my ancestors edges. 😮❤🙏🏾
@mariemuhammad7983 Жыл бұрын
If we mismanage pain, we will mismanage time. ❤
@TruthWillprevail135 ай бұрын
God help me. I’m struggling to take care of my children. Both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. I struggle providing the necessities for them, especially now that school starting up. Lord Jesus I’m overwhelmed as a single mother. Please hear my prayers. I’m constantly struggling Lord give me strength I can’t do it without you.💕
@dollsfordays38944 ай бұрын
I lost my husband of 19 years to my special needs son's 72 year old jezebel weirdo bus driver I have special needs twins and their big sister it crushed my daughter as he up and left our house to live in a trailer park with that "human" worst of all...he does anything and everything to derail the divorce process including calling police and tying my name up in court so I can't use my masters degree to provide for these innocent souls
@fikiledhlame95503 ай бұрын
I pray for you, sis 🙏🏾 May God cover and carry you and your children through. He’s with you, even when it hurts. Sending you my love. ❤
@aishadavis55413 ай бұрын
Father were coming to u today to ask u to lift the weight off this woman allowing her to feel ur strength and endurance, feel ur love for her father. Show her that u will not put more on her than she can bear. Show her Sometimes a feeling is just that a feeling father and that's it. That it may have no truth to it, it's just how it feels. Show her that she's has a support system even if it's not family. Show her that u can maintain or remove anything that in her path. Father opener eyes to who's there for her. Put those I her life u know she needs and that the help they give is from u. One last thing Father Show her thru her children that they will be strong and they will make it, they will live normal lives according to ur will for their lives and hers. Also that this experience will make her stronger. In Jesus Christ name I pray Amen. I love u sis. I kno that single motherhood can be challenging. I'm out here with u. I love u....keep going baby, our jobs don't stop as a mother and that can be overwhelming but u will shine as u already are. I love u. Have a great day everyday with love
@aishadavis55413 ай бұрын
@dollsfordays3894 May God lay hands on ur situation. Father I kno u see everything, yet swaddle her heart and allow her to do and say the right things to get her life and situation where u see fit. Give her children peace thru it all and to not feel strained between them both. Train their hearts to be righteous, to have the view u see fit for them to make it thru. In Jesus Christ name I pray Amen.
@leonajackson60933 ай бұрын
❤ sending you love!
@dawnmitchell86375 ай бұрын
I know this was 8 months ago but it was His perfect timing for me to hear this today!!! Thank you God and Thank you Pastor Jerry!!!!
@mycrewletsgo46015 ай бұрын
Same ! I was just crying out To God wondering if he hears my prayers and sees my tears and was just saying no one cared about me , I feel alone , and worthless and what’s my purpose .. Cried and cried and asked God to pleaseeee show me you are here with me …Time passes , I open youtube , and find this video ..WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED ..literally .. GOD IS GOOD , GOD IS GREAT !
@adidouglas25715 ай бұрын
Same here. Needed to hear this message today.
@fikilemabuza60234 ай бұрын
Same here 😢@@adidouglas2571
@Gorgeous_Royalty Жыл бұрын
FATHER, I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
@estherm.gitaari3632 ай бұрын
I lost my husband of 27 years last year. I did the praying, believed, and trusted, and 72 hours later, he passed on. I have done everything, the pastor said, and I am still doing it-drugs, drinking, sexing the pain away. I wreak off the abomination and sin. Will I ever be able to come back to God? I am so heartbroken, not sure my heart will mend, and I don't know how to give these broken pieces to Him. I know I need Him, though....just now, the chains of the pleasures I have given myself into are heavy and weigh me down. Please pray for me.
@ChristianMig19804 ай бұрын
I broke up with my best friend of 30 years. I thank her for the pain, the good times, and for serving her purpose in my life. My emotions have now been recalibrated and I know my future will be filled with the fruits of this season. This sermon did not come to me as a coincidence, but as an affirmation in my life. Thank you Lord for revealing your truth in your perfect timing. Not one second was wasted. Lessons have been learned and you will redeem my time. Amen.
@Life.OfLexi Жыл бұрын
Father , I trust you. Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps💕✨🧘🏽♀️
@tiunaredick4718Ай бұрын
Whewwwww why am I going thru this my heart is aching I need to keep listening to this daily as a reminder that I am stronger than self sabotage ❤
@buck_maize1117 ай бұрын
While in the world I met, fell inlove with, married with 2 kids the woman of my dreams. Everything was amazing.. till I found God in 2019.. she gave me a choice "it's either her or God" I chose her.. 2022 she left me and I attempted suicide twice.. lost everything and she became a meth addict.. and has spent the last 7 months in and out of drug rehabs and mental hospitals.. I've made desperate choices to fill that void ever since.. drugs, alcohol, women.. all the worldly answers. I have my 2 girls full time while working full time. Goto church on Sundays with my girls. Read my bible and I'm getting back on my feet. But this sermon just gave me hope. Thank you! ❤
@nikkigiles15817 ай бұрын
I'm going through a similar situation, except I have two boys! I thought that the man I was with was who I was going to marry. I already knew God but I compromised my faith, just to satisfy him and we lived together unmarried twice. Over the course of 6 years I lived in the turmoil of not being aligned to God's Will. Until I finally left that situation in January 2023, that followed by a year and a half long breakup that was messy because I became active in ministry again and surrendered myself to God, but I loved this man so much so I couldn't let go. And I wondered why I had so much spiritual warfare, I was literally worshiping God and playing with the devil at the same time. He finally found someone else and ended it which was the biggest heartbreak, put the biggest blessing because I am now focused on completely walking in my calling feeling the pain of it for a purpose that is greater than me. To whom much is given, much is required, it's time to get to work! Keeping you lifted in prayer! ❤
@prettylove14074 ай бұрын
Hope you’re better now ❤❤❤
@MarquisBell-j2t8 ай бұрын
“You can’t birth anything without pain” beautiful
@kholofelocarol91023 күн бұрын
My now ex boyfriend of 8 years decided to end our relationship. I honestly breathe through these sermons… I swear by myself I’m dead inside but God’s word is gradually breathing life into my body…I don’t know how I’m gonna make it out but I choose to hold on to God’s word in this season
@jonathanolivo2137 Жыл бұрын
Man I needed this spiritual food today!! Been dealing with an major disappointment and heartbreak .....4 1/2 year relationship to my fiançè ended....I found out she was having an affair with the guy she called just a "friend". It hurts!!!!, But this pain will not be in vain
@Ma-Wanga Жыл бұрын
Going through the same pain and disappointment
@yvonnehutson667611 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙏
@EdnaDavid-cf1ur10 ай бұрын
This has been such a tough year. But I am hoping and praying that God heals my heart and soul through this rough phase of my heartbreak.
@natalierodriguez844711 күн бұрын
I feel So Good about this message even though I am in the middle of a Heartbreak 💔, I think I'm going to Say Thank you because I Know God is preparing Something Great for me ❤ Amen
@debbiefain966611 ай бұрын
I needed this so desperately. My husband and I separated over a year ago and divorce was final in September. I kept thinking about how the devil has such a grip on him, but now, hearing this, I have allowed the devil to get his grip on me by doubting God's plan in my life. I have been trying to understand why I keep having such heartache in my life. I know beyond a shadow of doubt that God removed my ex-husband from my life because "I loved him too much to walk away" when God was trying to protect me. I have probably said thousands of times " I will never get married or even date again, because I will never trust another man!" What a fool I have been! This message was sent to me by a friend. This is the first one of your messages I have ever heard, but NOT my last! Thank you so much for sharing what God placed on your heart!
@jessicaruiz82032 ай бұрын
Felt this just got divorced in November
@TaylorSprag Жыл бұрын
God is truly using this man. My sister and I made it to service yesterday and the congregation was nothing but millennials. It was so beautiful seeing so many young people hungry. The Word was RIGHT ON TIME. The church has a separate parking lot and four overflow rooms that were all filled to capacity yesterday! God is going to bless them with a larger building soon!!! Thank you, Jesus!!!!
@meelahmanifestslove Жыл бұрын
Yes God 👏🏽👏🏽
@MsVoiceOfReason Жыл бұрын
BUT GOD!!! ❤🎉
@mikalyonsoneal9890 Жыл бұрын
I pray that the Lord blesses this ministry 100 fold because it's fruitful and impactful for change. Our generation has become weary by the complacency of tradition and church as usual. We've grown weary with leaving church the same way you arrived. Weary of not addressing the elephant in the room and hiding our face to the very things that are wounding us. God bless the anointing over Pastor Jerry's ministry and life.
@abeekuworldchanger3808 ай бұрын
Oh I can see God moving in that aspect! The move of God is extremely unstoppable. One Bretheren and Sisteren are a part of the Kingdom of God, he uses people to make the plow manifest. This ministry is impactful for change. And it's clearly just the beginning of what God is doing and will continue to do.
@brittanythequeen7 ай бұрын
Amen!
@God_Addict7 күн бұрын
“Pain is inevitable but misery is optional.”
@brianabattle6247 Жыл бұрын
Tanisha’s testimony touched my heart! Heartbreak is hard but God always uses our pain & experiences to show us we can get through it with Him. In the end , he gets the glory from it all! And we get to experience His love on a deeper level… even through heartbreak. Thank you for sharing this testimony Mrs. Flowers!💙
@memedoyou211428 күн бұрын
I really want to be married. But not for the wrong reason or to the wrong person. I have cried out to the LORD for deliverance. I know I'm sick.
@JeauxHoward Жыл бұрын
Arms that hold me, hold me from my peace, purpose and prosperity. Help me release him in Jesus name!
@NieshaDenise Жыл бұрын
I was in a 12 years relationship with someone who mentally abused me not always physically but it was at times. He would cheat and leave and I stayed because he told me if I left he wouldn’t be here for my daughters anymore. I knew how much my girls loved their dad so I dealt with whatever. God knew that I should have left years ago. I didn’t listen it got worse and worse. I feel like I taught him how to treat a woman. Because 6 days after cursing me out and being with me he had a side chick he went and married. I asked god why me? I’m still lost for words it’s only been 2 months and I’m still hurting. But I believe god was like “you wouldn’t leave so I showed you why you should” god knew I wasn’t going to get anywhere with this man. But now I have to heal and I’ve been getting closer and closer to god.
@wendyxiomara62946 ай бұрын
Going through a heartbreak, but listening to this has healed a part of me so much. Thank you for spreading his word 🩷
@teeshhh29515 ай бұрын
You're not alone ❤️🫂 God's got us, he'll heal our hearts . Let's not linger longer in what he closed ❤️
@mitchellperez36008 ай бұрын
Thank you Jerry. This breakup is hard, especially when the person who was there to assist my healing is now doing the hurting. Seeing and hearing how my own choices and actions are affecting others too much has really sat with me, I want the pain of change to outweigh the irritation of staying the same.
@k33y93Ай бұрын
When you have to rewind it 5 minutes in - because he’s dropping gem after gem.
@ariawilliams6499 Жыл бұрын
“we were meant to be just not at that time”
@SeeK12892 күн бұрын
It's January 22, 2025, and I NEEDED This!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@CL-do5eq Жыл бұрын
My heart is so tender listening to this because it’s true. I believe it hurts more because you realize how you treat yourself. God needs us to do better. It hurts but I’m listening.
@urmama0008 ай бұрын
Tired of learning thru pain😢, i feel that
@samanthamuybonita Жыл бұрын
I love your wife testimony. I was in the same boat. But God has me in my listening season right now. I now want what God wants for me.
@ikeyangel4 ай бұрын
Walking around with a broken heart is not fun🙏🏾 the eves and flows of joy and pain🙏🏾 after a month and a half the tears are less often but when he said “I did not want this to be a lesson!!…I wanted this to be love!” That’s exactly where I’ve been!🙏🏾 Open to God’s healing ❤️🩹
@akoredeoshunluyi19823 ай бұрын
I’m right exactly with you sis! God has got us.
@porchewilliams142211 ай бұрын
Omg. His wife spoke to me. Like what! Praise God 🙏🏾 just tears flowing ! Thank you God.
@AshleyNicholeMouton15 күн бұрын
I actually just threw the rest of the weed away! I’ve decided to be in all in!!
@newenglandtoffee9190 Жыл бұрын
FATHER I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@jillh440 Жыл бұрын
💯🎯If the enemy can get us to mismanage pain it will lead us to mismanaged time. Because pain causes us to pursue false remedies.💥
@msaverielle Жыл бұрын
Never let your guard down always be watchful.
@g.elizabethlunday93846 ай бұрын
I have come to the end of settling for less! I am set apart, surrendered to the Lord for his service in Jesus name. God bless you Pastor Flowers as you are a vessel for the kingdom of heaven. Glory be to God
@thessanoelle Жыл бұрын
This is probably the best sermon I've watched. It was so personal and spoke to my current situation. I'm so thankful to come across this video. Thank you God! ❤
@AshleyNicholeMouton15 күн бұрын
Unaddressed pain keeps our evolution and spiritual growth in transit.
@carlissable Жыл бұрын
I find that when I follow GOD and all his instructions...there is far less heartbreak 💔. He gives us instructions and guidance to help us avoid a lot of things and situations that put us in the position to be hurt and broken. Thank you Father God for your love, compassion, mercy, forgiveness and giving us the opportunity to turn back to you. Praise your Holy name. Thank you Father God. Thank you King Jesus. You are more than worthy to be Praised. 🙏🙏🙏🙏 Amen, Amen and Amen. 💕💕💕
@ConstanceWright-e3e17 күн бұрын
I swear his wife testimony is my testimony. I was just ghosted by a guy I’ve been knowing for over 20. But, it had to happen. This pain pushed me to a deeper prayer life, more journaling, and more time with God. Yes, it absolutely still hurt, but I trust God will send me my one 🙌🏽🙏🏾🫶🏽❤️
@Chula-LunaDelMar Жыл бұрын
No more recovery seasons...it's time for re-grounding , reflection and regrouping. Needed this today.. absolutely 🔥