Age gap in the Philippines (How old is too old?) street interviews

Asked women in the Philippines what's the oldest guy they'd date.
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[@Livingabroadalex]

Do you think age matters?

[@zayda.7367]

Depends, if the guy taking care of himself and looking good girls will choose him even its 50 years old, but then if theres ugly oldie no way filipina girl with be him unless for some reason

[@sabsabnone5837]

Sometimes it does depend on the culture/religion & the personality of the person

[@GAJELAScc]

Disgusting

[@djc6436-e4h]

It matters to me in my personal romantic relationships but I don’t care about the age gap in other adult relationships. That’s up to them. Clearly Filipinas are more open to high age gap relationships than their western peers (and some western vloggers).

[@jujjeelf309]

Not really. I find that women who are open to meet an older guy, adapt quite easily.

[@carlgomm9699]

My late wife was 14 years older than me, we were very happy for 40 years, lost her to Alzheimer's 3 yrs ago, nothing wrong with age Gap relationship !!

[@Livingabroadalex]

Sorry to hear about your loss. Thanks foe sharing your thoughts.

[@katula14]

Nice but that is not some gap. Not long ago one gentleman also said same story to us and was crying as he spoke about her. He was very dapper and not aged.

[@MrKvp1]

Sorry for your loss.

[@Sage16226]

14 yr old girl looks at newborn baby boy and say I'm going to marry you. Sorry my subconscious just thinks about that when I hear a age gap relationship. Nice story though

[@katula14]

Then delete your comment if you are sorry. And keep the contents of your brains well, contained. Nobody cares.@@Sage16226

[@eodrex]

The Filipinas crack me up. Most are very shy until you get to know them. Very sweet. This is the type of video I like. Brings a smile to my face.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Very true Rex. I'm happy to hear you enjoyed the video 😊

[@shahramsareminouri4195]

Do not fall for their bullshit man

[@Flat_Earth_Sophia]

Filipinos are not shy. lol Not sweet either. Rude, racist, loud, dirty, and violent.

[@YoursTrulyThe1Pony]

I worked with a lot of foreign girls, mostly were phillipina girls. And they are indeed very sweet and cute too. Never knew they're very short than the average American woman. I'm about 5.8, that's average height.

[@Flat_Earth_Sophia]

@@YoursTrulyThe1Pony Filipino girls are 4' tall. And none of them are sweet or cute. lol Maybe you are confused. Filipinos are rude, racist, and violent. And short.

[@johnnypastrana6727]

You are one of the few good interviewers...you do it with respect and you allow them to answer. Good job!!!

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you so much 😊 I'm happy ypu liked it!

[@poplaurentiu4148]

@@Livingabroadalex I live in Europe man and i enjoy your video and i'm really honest these young ladies you interview just show how mature and educated they are regarding starting a relationship and even possibly a healthy marriage.. i really am serious planning to do a trip there since i'm single and most single girls from my town moved few years back to other countries, what remained are either under-age way too young for me or already engaged & married.. so yeah thank you for the tip !

[@Livingabroadalex]

@poplaurentiu4148 Thanks for sharing. I'm happy you enjoyed the videos and the tip.

[@bigglyguy8429]

Yeah but why throw the 3 6's into it? That lady didn't say that, didn't want that and just looked confused when he put those words into her mouth. Why go somewhere so nice, then spew American crap over it? Isn't the point to get away from exactly that kind of silliness?

[@Livingabroadalex]

Stop being a snowflake. I'm not here to try and explain my videos to you. You're obviously new here. Take that negative shit somewhere else.

[@edmundpotrzeba6094]

I wish I knew about Filipino women when I was young because I love their softness, their gentleness and their beauty. ❤️

[@CharlesRussell-zj3jp]

All is true...but they are savages if mistreated

[@derekellisCAN]

@@CharlesRussell-zj3jp And western women are not? lol

[@FilCanGil]

Like my Father use to say, “Age is mind over matter, if you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter”🇵🇭🇨🇦

[@Livingabroadalex]

Well said!

[@darkglobe406]

i think it is actually beneficial for the stability of the relationship if the guy is older . i mean not too old but 10-15 years gap is fine . filipinas are not like western women - 18-20 years old western girls want to party and have fun while most young filipinas want to settle down and they want stability (of course they also want the financial support if they are dating foreign guy) most western men reach true emotional and mental maturity in their 30s and they still look good physically as well (some even better than in their 20s) . i´m 36yo now and much more ready to settle down and be a good boyfriend material compared to who i was 10-15 years ago .

[@John-ds6jz]

😂😂😂👍

[@ravenlorans]

Age Does Matter and the LAW Will Make sure it does.. Age of Consent over there is 13yr Old... According to your Saying, a 60+ yr old man can have a Relationship with her. And even tho it IS Legal, the LAW will Find a way to Punish Him.. Specially a American who goes over there has to Obey the Age of Consent Law that His State Says is Okay. Example: Age of Consent in Mississippi IS 13yr old But The LAW Will Find a Way to Punish Any Man over 18yrs old, No Matter What...

[@ravenlorans]

@@Jonathan-yr3so I had to study it for two years. Only thing that is different, Miss. Use to be 13 at the time I studied it and raised A. of C. to 16 early 2000's. And over there in the Philippines early 2023 Raised it from 13 to 18 but in the article I read, said it was for the "Working Class" only... In Some countries the A. of C. is as Low as 9yrs old... Some don't have any. Some are as high as 23... All Depends on the Parents and if they Like you or not.. Back here in the States when I was age 16 - 26 I had parents offer me their daughters as young as 9 ( looked 18 ) and to marry them.. or just be in a relationship with them and even to Adopt them.. Had to say "No" to all of them.. Move over to the Philipps and would be No Different because I am "Rich" according to them and they want their Children to Marry us and bleed us dry of anything they can get in return or to take us to court and sue us or or or or ....

[@Leyzell93]

Doesn't really matter at all, what matters most is to find a responsible man with a good heart .

[@Livingabroadalex]

I agree 😊

[@Livingabroadalex]

😅🤭

[@rickyrichardson5780]

How so true 👍 🤔

[@omweridouglas9432]

True ❤

[@mirzakhan8821]

I am available from the USA 🇺🇸

[@1inamillions]

I am 55 year old Malaysian banker, 5 years ago i met my current Filipina wife in Manila. She was 24 then. I posed as a poor old man 😆 and she liked and did not look down on me ! My posing as a poor old man was to filter and test people around me , to filter out who was my real friend and who was not. When i went to Philippines, i learned Tagalog before hand. It was easy to learn because Tagalog share many similar meaning words with my native Malay language like anak, tulung, utang, sakit and more. Now 5 years on, my wife told me i look ten years younger than my actual age 😉. I found someone who like and love me as i am in my wife not in Malaysia but in Philippines 😉. That surprised me.

[@alals6794]

Hey, that was a smart tactic to take.....week out the gold diggers.

[@loveudon6972]

What are the Malaysian women like about the age gap?

[@anchorpoint3631]

@@alals6794 yep, lots of those in the philippines

[@isanchez9839]

Old perv looking for young girls

[@luciddreamer11]

Beautiful story. 🎉 Filipino women are amazing.

[@gladysgalvez-vo7yd]

yayyyy finally out!! was waiting for it, it's been ages lol 🤣. thank you Alex, it was a great experience 😉

[@Livingabroadalex]

Haha glad ypu enjoyed it. Thanks for being part of it!

[@Jorge-dy8hv]

Fun times

[@Jorge-dy8hv]

Fun times

[@SonGokaiCAPacificPalisades]

my filipina from Mindanao is 39 and i'm 44 and she's the best woman i met in my life. beautiful, simple, kind, faithful, understanding... she really has a golden heart and i think we'll live together for the rest of our life! i'm french but fortunately we know both english language otherwise i'm not sure it could be work 😅

[@Livingabroadalex]

That's Amazon!! Thank you for sharing your story. Wish you guys all the best!

[@danielhackney7806]

I keep hearing from expats 30 and older is safer bet than those 18 to 22 year old girls. 30 year old maturity = wisdom and stability.

[@SonGokaiCAPacificPalisades]

@@danielhackney7806 yes they don't look for the same way of life and i don't judge anyone but i Can't be with a 18 years old girl it's too young for me 😉

[@danielhackney7806]

@@SonGokaiCAPacificPalisades Yes I agree, 18 is to young for me to, but I did see a 56 yr old expat marry a 18 year old Filipina. She is now 22 and he is 60 and they seem to be doing well together. I can only assume he was a very immature 56 year old. So he matched up well with her. Now if a mature 56 year old had married that 18 year old he probably would have become bored pretty quickly and they would have parted ways.

[@SonGokaiCAPacificPalisades]

@@danielhackney7806 some people says filipina women look a foreigner for money and when they're married it's with the whole family well maybe i'm very lucky but my filipina is not like that. She works hard and prefers to use her money and don't ask for my money she's very proud and independant she already told me it's a shame for her to ask me.

[@kiki-farrahmikee]

Generally, Filipino youths date with people their age. But when they grow matured enough like adults, many do not really mind age gap because they have grown up so they look for partners who could provide stable living and bright future and people above 40 years old usually are stable with good jobs or businesses

[@zoltanfabiansk5795]

Very well written!

[@Hellolife...]

N become second wives..third wives n so on.. Philippine is the only country in the world which commodifies love n women ...just like some commodity is being sold in the market .. it's really sad n bring shame to women all together .. please don't sell us like some commodity.. get some education and respect bfr getting impregnated by some grandfather..or dad. It's pathetic n disgusting. N shameful to us all women who r not raised like u . We call uncle n grand dad's to the man u marry n get pregnant with.. it's so awkward n such a perverted outlook of life .r u filipinas that desperately poor??? That u really need grandfather's age men to sighhhhh!!!! God .. seriously

[@andrewlynham606]

Speaking as an older guy, we do have a lot to offer. Speaking for myself, I would certainly invest more in a relationship with one of these ladies than perhaps a younger guy would. It has taken me many years to learn the value of a woman, one that doesn't only see money signs and a means of paying bills.

[@jesse75]

Look what the Pinoys do ? Or are you blind ? It's unfortunate, but these girls are cheap. They will do anything to get out and have money.

[@Mary-lb3lv]

Well, those young girls are seeing $$$ signs. Lol that is why they are willing to get involved with men 20, 30, 40... years older than them.

[@paulpiasano9251]

Agree

[@Echo3_]

Omg these girls are so cute!! And look how sweet they all are. This is where all the keepers are hiding ❤

[@Livingabroadalex]

Absolutely! Thanks for watching and sharing your thougts

[@j3fitnesstraining2023]

I agree

[@popeyen7550]

i dont find them so beautiful, esp for 20 year olds

[@Echo3_]

@@popeyen7550 thank you for sharing I guess 😂 youd be surprised how many look 20 but are actually older

[@Jhogz-wt4wn]

I am 63 with a dad body flatbeder in shape but got no chance

[@DHarri9977]

Hey Alex good job, their answers seem typical for that area as they seem a bit more educated, self-reliant, and motivated so you know how that goes sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. All seemed to be lovely young women, wishing them all the luck in their future endeavors.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Yes absolutely!! I agree 😊

[@imelda7100]

Yes, for me a bit older but my daughter and son their girlfriend and boyfriends the same age. For me as long as you love to each other, it's not a matter.

[@skip2it426-]

This is a great topic, very much talked about and debated for decades. However personally I don’t think age should matter as long as the two consenting adults are Happy. Thanks for sharing ✌🏾.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts 😊

[@danielfinch362]

What I learned very quickly is that young women in the Philippines have a adult mindset.

[@Johnnybomb1]

@@danielfinch362 Some do, some don't. But I will say that most have a more mature mind-set when it comes to what they want in a relationship at a younger age then many Western women. Many of them are much less likely to jump from 1 guy to the next, and promiscuity is definitely much lower on average with Pinay.

[@4ty7ven]

Guapo is also handsome in spanish. Its a spanish word, since filipinos were once under the rule of spain, they kept some words.

[@AllEnglishShorts]

Phillipines is so beautiful country with one of the most kindest people on earth ❤

[@Livingabroadalex]

Definitely

[@Barefoot433]

I have issues with that question, when it comes to nurses in elder care homes. I've seen some cold things.

[@jesse75]

But desperate and not much opportunities for the people. No middle class.

[@jesse75]

​@@Barefoot433agreed. Want to hear a story about a filipina who worked in the baby delivery part of the hospital where I had two kids ? My wife is a filipina. Belongs to the Filipino Community in the town. Same place the filipina nurse works at. My wife knows this filipina. But when in the hospital she puts on a different face.

[@rooster8925]

😂😂😂

[@donateloh6894]

If you got the money then age won't matter. This applies to all countries and to all marites.

[@chicagohoosier1]

These girls are so sweet and were not hesitant with their answers. Age gap being a problem is just a developed stereotype. Sure, some women may not feel comfortable, though that doesn’t mean it’s the rule. Other women are very open. It’s about the relationship. Of course, be cautious over any new relationship and let it play out.

[@charleshopper4638]

Filipina's are amazing! wow, beautiful, genuine, sweet. I can see why all the American guys want to go there to meet them.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Absolutely

[@zaidmohammad757]

Respect man. You and Pea the best philippines content creators..

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you 😁

[@johnoh7705]

I'm 38 and my wife is 19. She's a great girl. She's pregnant with our first child. And she raises my daughter from previous marriage.

[@themediterraneanguy]

Western MEN are going after Filipinas because they find love and care. Filipinas are so sweet, friendly and funny, it's a pleasure to marry and be around them

[@stevewebb7126]

I'm married to one she's better than any western woman.

[@HeIIRaiser666]

YES. the typical obese loud-mouthed entitled feminazi is PURE TRASH🤮 most filipinas are SWEET/CARING/TRUST-WORTHY!!!!! and most of all LOYAL. SHE'll be my queen if she treats me like a king. THEND.

[@fayestueben-oe4dg]

Age doesn't matter as long as you love him or her. im 5 years older and he loves me and happily married ❤

[@-MakeItGood-]

“Age doesn’t matter (as much as money)” is the full quote.

[@jamespoitiers9257]

I believe, this may be the first time, watching your channel. Great interviewing technique. I will be recommending your channel.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed it and welcome to the channel 🥳

[@waymore4472]

I was in Olongapo in the 70s when I was in the US Navy and they were the sweetest and most Beautiful women I have ever met ❤❤❤!!!

[@jaybee1597]

If you’re an older guy looking for a young Filipina, get into and stay in shape!

[@GrandWalkingTours]

round is still a shape right ?

[@jaybee1597]

@@GrandWalkingTours Excellent point! 💪

[@GrandWalkingTours]

@@jaybee1597 phew .. ok good. Then im in good shape so 🤣🤣

[@SoopaFlyism]

Nah the only thing that needs shape is your bank account.

[@CountryLifestyle2023]

It doesn't matter

[@briancrawford69]

Filipinos are such great amd funny people lol. All the ones i know here in America are awesome. Philippines are one of the countries i have wanted to visit

[@Ricksworld1962]

I’m 62, and hope to find my love (36-46). Her heart and maturity are most important

[@user-ep3ck5re4o]

Good luck sucker 🤨🤨🤨🤨

[@carlosramirezarriagada5065]

Hi rick, do you find the girl?

[@Ricksworld1962]

@@carlosramirezarriagada5065 Not yet. Not so much actively searching. Staying busy preparing for our future 😊

[@koufax174]

These are very interesting videos Alex! It’s been surprisingly that many young Filipinas love much older men. I don’t understand it but I know many couple that are truly in love with very large age gaps. I think the dynamic is one of mentor and mentee. The young Filipina loves older man for their insight, wisdom, respect, worldliness, emotional maturity, gratitude. It’s a difficult mindset there. I think it’s true what many of the Filipinas said age doesn’t matter as long as there is true love, respect, mutual emotional support, and appreciation

[@Livingabroadalex]

Glad you enjoy the videos!! You're absolutely right 😊

[@koufax174]

@@Livingabroadalex Alex I watch you every time and I attend you live sessions. You have truly blossomed. Keep up the great work. Congratulations! So proud of you

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate it! You're too kind 😊🙏

[@maryrose.samson18]

Younger guys here are mostly immature and loves to play around. While Filipinas just always into finding true love and usually see that in matured guys who are seeking the same..

[@showbizbalita9949]

We want a mature man who can handle us smoothly. Where feminity and masculinity coexist together in harmony. That's just it

[@kenichitamagusuku3194]

The Filipina ladies may not be beautiful like in I.G. models but for sure never ugly but with the upside of wanting to make their partners happy is a huge plus for them. Also not many huge ladies there like in eastern worlds. As Maverick said it’s a target rich environment, slim picking in America. Hopefully you can make her happy as she makes you.

[@peterhuang1431]

Philippines is great. not only the country is great but in every subject spoken, it seems like a lot of people like myself will care a lot and a lot more than usual and have a lot of traffic of comments and interest in philippines video. Very nice video Alex.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thanks and glad ypu enjoyed it!

[@HEILtotheconDON]

There are more young Filipinas pairing with older gentlemen. Filipinas in my opinion are more mature for their age the men (on offense gents) because they are expected and are in fact more caring and more responsible for their families. They are reliable, hard working and loyal to their loved one’s and that explains their early maturity. Eventually Filipino males catch up when they have their own family. But it is more unusual for a younger Filipino pairing with older ladies…. Just my observation ‼️ 🇵🇭💋🇵🇭💋❤️❤️❤️

[@sudokuguru]

Great video! Thank you for posting. And the girl in lavender swinging her arms. omg the love of my life! Manila here I come!

[@mobaili3770]

Honestly, Filipinas don't look for old foreigners. They usually prefer men belonging to their age group. Unfortunately, due to economic reasons or poverty, they would marry an old guy rather than see their family languishing from the effects of poverty. If you are a keen observer, you can see that these Filipinas don't come from wealthy families. Many of these women come from families where fathers don't have stable jobs. Their mothers are plain housewives, and they have plenty of siblings who are still dependent on them. Thus, to escape poverty, they will sacrifice themselves to marry an oldie as long as they can sustain the needs of their family. This is the true, sad plight of Filipinas in the Philippines. Remember, 60-70% of the population is categorized as poor. This is also the same situation that is going on in many parts of Southeast Asia, such as Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia, and Cambodia. Unfortunately, instead of understanding the situation of these women, foreigners take advantage of their situation. This become a norm, and nobody cares about it for there is nothing that can be done.

[@jatal4891]

youth is an asset and valued across the board, no matter what the nationality is. a man values the physical beauty of youth, as does a woman. women are less inclined to indulge in or fulfill fantasies of the physical, and men are more inclined to do so, but it is universal. some people will take advantage of any situation, i agree. but this is natural and not necessarily a bad thing. what the older man brings to the table can offset or complement what the younger woman brings, and as well, what the younger woman brings to the table can offset or complement what the older man brings. t's a win-win if the situation is by choice and all are happy. choice includes understanding your situation and making decisions for yourself vs. worrying about what someone else wants to believe is right for you. in the case of a poor filipina, her choices are limited, and while the things contributing to her situation are not 'fair', they are the condition of the world at large, which is not 'fair'. fairness is a construct, reality is what we live in. handling life successfully means leveraging and learning to live with what you have, and planning for a real future. happiness is easier to find for age gap selective people that have the luxury of wealth at their disposal (unfair in it's own right), less so for the poor, who have fewer options to start with. the norm is really survival first, and there's nothing new about that. survival coupled with happiness is success by any metric

[@Livingabroadalex]

Well said. The most intelligent and articulate response yet. I applaud you 👏

[@SunShine_sublime]

Nah, mostly it's about maturity. It's like you're implying all foreigners are rich, when it's farther from the truth.

[@unclejessiephilippinesadve7050]

Well I'm 60 and my wife is 25 so that's a big age gap but it works for us so far, we just selibrated 3 years 😊

[@Livingabroadalex]

That's awesome!!!

[@unclejessiephilippinesadve7050]

@Livingabroadalex and I'm broke hahaha 😆

[@Livingabroadalex]

Haha it's cuz you're handsome my man. Something come straight down ti thr basics

[@glendacastillo6504]

Gross!!

[@zoltanfabiansk5795]

Congratulations! Wish you all the best!

[@neuroadvancementnextlevelp461]

My Filipina is 28, I myself am 44, turning 45 in August. That’s not that bad of an age gap in my opinion, but others feel I’m too old for someone in their 20s. I agree with the Filipinos that says, if it’s love involved who cares about the age. The reason why I’m interested in 20s is because I would like to have healthy kids in the future. Your fertility rate of having healthy babies decline in your 30s. So that’s the cut off for me.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts

[@American_Mike]

The Rule of Seven. You are basically there.

[@paulthurson]

you're simply being a NORMAL male .. youth and fertility which all heterosexual males are instinctively attracted to .. others saying you're too old for an ADULT 28 yr old woman? well the moral of the story on that: don't give a flying F about others sanctimonious hypocritical judgmental opinions

[@glendacastillo6504]

With such a big difference in an age gap. You know, it didn't start from love.

[@neuroadvancementnextlevelp461]

@@glendacastillo6504 yes I do know, but I will say, having this age gap. I’m on top of what is going to happen in the relationship & how it’s going to work. She’s all over the place, I’m not. She offers her youth. It’s like a new to very use car. Most young guys will push her to her limits, I myself am not that careless. I’m gonna baby that female. TLC is the way to go with someone so new. She will last longer & I get to mold her into what I like. In return she will grow to love me as the man that showed her that TLC. I’m ok with the trade off. She does what she’s supposed to do as my partner & will have a long lasting relationship. If she pulls some American female bs, I’ll get another.

[@Hicks-g1m]

Cool interviews Alex some Filipinas just consider age a number. They seem very relaxing to be around. Take care out there 🆒👍😎

[@Livingabroadalex]

Glad you enjoyed it bro!! They are relaxed for sure! See you in the next one 😄

[@BetoMelancia]

nice interviews has always filipinos are polite to answer - im 40 years old from Portugal my Filipina is 32 we have a good age gap i never looked for girls bellow 25 i think its important the couple can support phisicaly and emotionaly on all different moments of their lives

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts

[@rastadog007]

I absolutely love their attitude about dating. Their moral compass is absolutely awesome. They're more concerned about how you treat each other than anything else.

[@maderightamerica3216]

I have known my fiance' for over 8 years. She is 38 and I am 64. We don't care about our age difference. We are soulmates and we do everything together. her family members are awesome people. They are very family oriented and I love being part of their family. My nicknamee for her is "Beautiful Heart" and it fits her to a tee. I loved watching the interviews. God bless all the pilipinas! Wonderful loving people. Have a wonderful day.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thak you for sharing your story 😊

[@American_Mike]

The Rule of Seven. You are basically there.

[@brandon9161]

​@americanmike1957 what is the rule of 7, divide by 2 and add 7?

[@American_Mike]

@@brandon9161 Yes

[@brandon9161]

@@American_Mike ya that sounds about right. Not some 65 year old groomer with a 20 year old

[@phil-amvlogsi8359]

When you're in love, age doesn't really matter.

[@stilltuckered]

My Filipina is 17 years younger than me. We’ve been married for over 16 years and the longer we have been married, the closer we are.

[@Livingabroadalex]

That's amazing!!

[@brianokane1698]

I live in Japan and found the Philippine people very nice

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you for sharing!

[@sabsabnone5837]

Do another “learning bisaya/tagalog video please. Loved those videos ❤

[@Livingabroadalex]

OK 😊

[@peeweebarney]

I am a Pilipino that was born in the Philippines, but raised in the U.S. I am in my late 60s and have no problem getting a Filipina that are younger than me when I go for a visit. Ladies from late 20s to mid 40s, and attractive. I meet them on dating sites first. Foreign men must be careful because there are a lot of Filipina scammers, especially on dating sites. Be careful on how much you empty your wallet for them. They make you feel sorry for their financial situation. You need a heart of steel, not a soft heart. Be frugal with your money when you are with the women there.

[@AshishKumar-if4dt]

So you have to pay money to them basically prostitution indirectly

[@preciouswear8845]

A Filipino girl deceived me. We stayed together for 4 years and married for 2 years. We bought a house. Now she is gone just like that. She had a boy friend outside my life. She just left leaving me alone. I am alone in this world now.

[@Livingabroadalex]

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[@tootellustraight]

Same thing happened to me brother. Just recently

[@AfricanandAmerican]

@@tootellustraightsorry

[@AfricanandAmerican]

Sorry

[@iSpeciaIist]

How did you not see that coming?

[@chimaubochi5698]

My Filipina is 45 and I am 32. We live in Northern California in two different cities in Northern San Joaquin valley. I'm Nigerian American

[@terencebarrett2897]

Absolutely wonderful beautiful people God bless everyone, the ladies " have that wonderful female feminine innocence,, you Philippines are absolutely wonderful everyone of you

[@pasta...]

Some filipina don't care about the looks and age as long as the guy has money

[@Livingabroadalex]

Yes that's true. But to be fair. That's the case with all nationalities

[@antonioachilescastro4458]

Maybe you came up with that conclusion because that’s what your mom taught you.

[@blackcurtains4710]

Western women are experts at virtue signalling and leading on beta simpswhile in College about personality > money. But when they graduate, intern at an office job the guy with the car and the house is always first port of call. Especially if he's her boss.

[@ZxSpectrumplus]

True in a way. Encountered many such cases on Filipino dating website. But majority of them comes with kids...even when they're just 20 something. Looking for sponsor for their kids and worse...their family....so think carefully!!

[@IPMDAPLUG-ro4wj]

what?, dont do it🧐🧐🧐🧐

[@gkschick6804]

Gotta love the approachable nature of these young ladies. Al except the last two seemed to have it together. The last two were a bit different than the rest, perhaps because they were slightly better looking and thought they were the cats meow or what. Maybe they were just younger and less experienced. Couldn't help but think they seemed a bit more stuck up. Good job Alex. You're respectful and treat the ladies well.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Yes they're all very friendly and approachable. I'm happy to highlight different personalities Glad you enjoyed the video!

[@hunterpanther6360]

They are ladyboys 🤣

[@cronosphere4224]

theyre just concious and holding their voices.

[@nijao9079]

The last two are obviously trans. I can’t believe people here didn’t see that. Lol not that there’s something wrong about being trans.

[@KristinaApplegate]

just because a young girl does not want to date a grandpa does not mean she is stuck up. get a clue

[@FoundingYouTuber-2005]

Wow, did you put an effort in finding the prettiest women to interview. There wasn't a 5 or 6 in the bunch. And all of them appeared to be really nice charming happy intelligent women. One of your best interviews IMO. As you can see ---> this video put me in a really fine mood. P.S. Keep up the good work.

[@findyourfocus]

A good rule of thumb for a proper age gap is the divide a man's age by 2 and add 7 to get the woman's age.

[@shawnkelly695]

So im 50 and shes 23. Been together 5 yrs. Half my age plus 7 is 32. Thats way too old, not interested in such a old woman

[@shawnkelly695]

@@skyluh9448 not sure. I will be about 60 so maybe by 60 30 will still look good. But thats assuming im still alive at 60.

[@shawnkelly695]

@@skyluh9448 do love her but i also loved my 2 exs that screwed me over. All depends on her if wishes to stay. If leaves then oh well no hurt feelings. First wife took my kids and horrible divorce. Ended up with nothing living in a truck. Second wife abused me and i ended up in the mental ward. Lost everything and became homeless. No real gaf about any woman. She can stay if wants or leaves if wants. I have no more to lose and no gaf.

[@shawnkelly695]

@@skyluh9448 why delete your comment?

[@shawnkelly695]

@@skyluh9448 dont gotta delete your comments friend. Once a person makes their life public they no longer private and others may not always agree. If i cared about others opinions i wouldnt post it for all to read.

[@Aki-f5v]

In Philippines and everywhere else, accepted age gap in relationships depends on how much money you have and how little money she has..

[@theking1446]

Hey Alex. Most Filipinas don’t care for the age gap. Interesting fact, the older the Filipina the bigger the age gap gets. My Filipina is 34. I am 58. You have seen big age gaps there. They just don’t care which draws many foreign men their. Like me 😁

[@Livingabroadalex]

Yea you're right! Great point about the older the bigger the age gap. As long as everyone is happy 😁

[@parabiology1014]

Age gap relationships do exist in pure Filipino couples as well. My fiancé’s sister married a man 15 years older than her. That sister passed away at the beginning of 2020 at only 33 years old, leaving behind 4 children. My Asawa tells me that we should appreciate every moment with our partners, and not worry about age gap because you never know how long you have. I’m 51 now and she’s just turning 25, and we’ve already been together 4 years. It has been the best relationship I’ve ever had, and she has had a more mature attitude towards the relationship than any other girl I’ve ever met, of ANY age.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Very interesting Thank you for sharing

[@jamesballard6564]

Make sure these older women have never been married. Get a CENOMAR. That's why I focus on the younger women.

[@theking1446]

@@jamesballard6564 James , my Filipina is a widower.

[@danmyname]

Love the two girls Marmi and Janine. A lot more mature than their age would suggest.

[@fred932]

When I was over there in my late 20s I had no issues. Most foreigners are older guys so its hard to judge what they would prefer. Most of the women who move to the U.S. or go abroad date close to their age.

[@Johnnybomb1]

Yeah, if you're late 20s-early 30s and look good, than they're will be plenty of women 5-9 years younger than you that would want to date, simply because they like you. Any older than that and it's usually for ulterior motives, Ie. money and lifestyle/security. Most women in any culture doesn't want a significantly older man.

[@Livingabroadalex]

@Johnnybomb1 agreed

[@tonydillion9807]

They are beautiful ladies, I was in cebu in February and although I didn't meet many people. They were all very hospitality

[@Livingabroadalex]

Well said!

[@soiraider2201]

As an Englishman who's been rolling with only Thai women for 21 years. I think it's now time make the transition to Phillipinas. They still seem to have that traditional charm and shyness that's been totally lost by their Thai sisters now. I want that back in my life again. 🙏

[@downunder365]

yeah mate after all we sit on top of them being from english country ,we can choose and change whenever we want

[@Roro-kz5zn]

Play with the prostitutes of your country and leave behind the girls of Thailand and the Philippines. You want to show yourselves in front of girls who are not from your country, you sissies

[@Roro-kz5zn]

​@@downunder365 you cant do nothing sissi

[@marilynnguyen5887]

What is this.. a meat market?! lol

[@bigglyguy8429]

@@downunder365 Sit on top? Wut? You want a horse?

[@CatsintheCradle74]

I think the age gap is not an issue if you have dreams and desires in life. I am actually older, but still desire children. I love family and want to support my wife in meeting her dreams and goals.

[@suschimoods9819]

Sir keep geriatric sperm to ya self yuck

[@quadq6598]

Interesting, new sub. My wife is 7 years older than me, 2 grown up successful kids & 36 years later still together all good so it works fine for some, not sure I would go for these huge age differences you talk about though.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you for sharing and welcome to the channel 🥳

[@briancrawford69]

I worked for the state of California for a few years and we had lots of people call in with their insurance on the other line and they were in the Philippines a lot. I always liked dealing with the Filipino agents because they were always so eager to try and help or please the person. I would get really mad sometimes when the American would yell at the Filipino for having an accent yet I could understand them fine. A few times I had to say something because the person was just being belligerent with the Filipino agent

[@steveroman3729]

Were you working for Employment Development Department during the pandemic?

[@DarkWater4Eva]

5:00 Girl on the right in that brown/orange looking shirt. So cute hearing her say she's a proud Filipina. Soon after 2 children and the dude left her, she will be singing a different tune.

[@jon6309]

Hmm we just had this conversation at work. One of my older colleague who turned 50 who is financially well off told us he can’t imagine dating a woman who was born when he was already an adult dating other women. I believe his wife is a bit older than him. My mutual friend who is an estate attorney told me it actually makes more sense for the woman to be a bit older than the man since on average they live longer than men.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Very interesting perspective

[@cliffrussell4281]

That's all rubbish i was married to one for 10 years and she lied to me all the time it was only when I retired here i found out she had a daughter which i knew nothing about we are now separated and i have no intention of getting involved with another philipino as most of them are scammer's

[@-whackd]

Your older colleague can't imagine himself with a sexually attractive woman.

[@-whackd]

​@@cliffrussell4281Why were you so stupid?

[@boblimits753]

I am 48 and my gf is 31, we are happy as ever!

[@Livingabroadalex]

Awesome! Thank you for sharing 😊

[@lifeinnorthcarolina4770]

Hello, Host it's nice to meet you as I am watching from Greensboro North Carolina as your new friend. And yes I am currently in LDR with my Manila Fiancee as I am 60 and very active not a couch potato and my Manila Fiancee is 38 and we both are compatible as she was so hard to find.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Excellent! Thanks for sharing your story

[@lifeinnorthcarolina4770]

@@Livingabroadalex you are so welcome

[@joeblough4605]

My Thai wife is 14 years younger than me. It's a good age age gap because men are boys inside. 19 years married now and I would do it all over again in a heartbeat! Thai and Phillipino women are the best women on earth, true totally committed partners.

[@josephrobi6806]

Finance is a big problem in Philippines 🇵🇭 it was like that in Canada long time ago. My mother in law asked her daughter if she could love me and my father in law said he will support you financially 😅and both happen. She was 23 and I was 49 now together 12 years. She is the best high education from up university great family cannot ask better and we have a child together.

[@streetlevel4996]

Love your video and may Jesus Christ richly bless you and show you His GREAT love towards yall ❤️

[@Cheeky-fingers]

Filipino women are so beautiful with a lovely attitude towards life.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Agreed

[@thomasmanning829]

Im 73, active and still told i look much younger. Let's hope so! My filipina is 38. Ive been here in the Philippines for 28 months. My girlfriend has demonstrated true 😘 ve to me and i do love her. We are very compatible in ALL the important ways! I will provide stability with my limited social security income. For her, her 2 young children (4 and 7 boy and girl respectively) and iniwing her as well as i do, im sure we'll have a very loving family home domestic lufe together. Thank God for the Philippines! 😀

[@brightmark777]

I've (41m) been chatting with a filipna (27f) trying to bring her to the US. SHE LIKES TO TEASE ME THAT I'm an old man, but ultimately says it's fine because I look so young and gwappo. It feels genuinely like a sincere compliment. I think she can be a bit immature but for me it's fun to see her childhood wonder. And compared to western women, she is very mature. I'm not supposed to compare her to other women though lol.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you for sharing!

[@catloverfurever00]

😂😂

[@brightmark777]

@@CAHSR2020 ok, then don't.

[@brightmark777]

@DawnDingayan-sc2sf I've chatted with a few thousand different Filipina online and I would say less than 10% are scammy after money. I had an online LDR before that didn't go anywhere and that's what gave me such a good impression of the country and it's citizens. I'm flying over in 5 weeks!!!

[@mydancinglife730]

I'm about to turn 64 and have been getting to know a Filipina who is 26 years old. She wants to marry me. I have two daughters who are in their early 30's. She is very nice, but I think of her more as my third daughter than a potential wife. I just try to encourage her to live her best life and am helping her to get a government job. I love the Philippines and they are very kind people. I've been to the Philippines twice and would actually live to live there. This young lady is very sweet and hardworking, but I guess I can't get over the age gap.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thanks for sharing. There could be potential hardship given the age gap. You can be her mentor and find a lovely lady closer to your age 😊

[@clarkvaughan]

It's nice to see young people act young. Its a sign of good family structure.

[@lephilosopheinconnu3952]

Interesting comment. How is that a good structure ?

[@mattrickswayze2917]

​@@lephilosopheinconnu3952hot farts

[@nabi5864]

Previous few hot gorgeous women I dated in Asia (Not hookups or Prostitutions), were 20 years younger (ages 25-30) ... They said the reason they were open to have relationship with me was because I was young looking for my age, tall, loved my maturity and humor, decently wealthy, and able to hold some light conversation in their own language

[@chindian987]

Its interesting to learn other cultures. Philippine is usually considered culturally very close to US. But this particular thing looks like an exception as I haven't come accross girls in US with same thinking in this matter.

[@maryrose.samson18]

Filipinas are into commitment and finding true love.. while younger guys here are usually immature and wants to play around..

[@chindian987]

@@maryrose.samson18 I see..

[@nativebisayavlog8845]

Excuse me joe not the same america is ligal to sex the dogs and even their own relatives, pinoys are more traditional the america lol.😂

[@Renzee-ct4wz]

@@chindian987there are culturally more closer to Latin America over Anglo America technically speaking.

[@johnnykeener3727]

As long as the love is TRUE (most important TRUTH), age does NOT matter (as long as they are both legal).

[@Judith-gj4pz]

Hello. Of course age will matter. Maybe in the beginning does'nt but it will and for sure it will if the guy is getting really old and she is still in her 30s.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Hmmm good point

[@hat7134]

Im from uk i visited Philippines in January to meet my filipina such a loving soul she's 36 I'm 52 age doesnt matter.. loved everyday I was there, especially the palawan was paradise coming back within next two months so can't wait 😊

[@zoltanfabiansk5795]

It is good to know there are more women to whom is age gap not a problem. I am 50 and looking for a nice asian woman because I heard about their humbleness, kindness, etc. which is not the case of european or american woman. 😇

[@byrddog2495]

Best Phillipines vid I have seen so far! For my interests.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you! Check out my other vids. You might enjoy them 😁

[@byrddog2495]

@@Livingabroadalex Have watched 3 of them so far

[@Livingabroadalex]

@byrddog2495 thank you 😁

[@jasoneastwood9986]

The last two would definitely be getting the mick dundee special

[@kevod09]

Absolutely 100%. They are way over the top sassy divas both of them. 😅😊

[@skstb665]

those were lady boys 😂

[@agirlyman]

Awesome video keep up the good works! 😃

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it!

[@MikeSmith-frog]

Nice interview! Maybe next time interview an older age group. 👍

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thanks but older women don't say yes to interviews. I've asked several

[@christopherpaul7588]

@@Livingabroadalex Even in their 30's?

[@Livingabroadalex]

Yup. I get the occasional 30 year old. Maybe cuz they're all at work lol. I usually go out mid day 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@locker1325]

I like your style of interview. Respectful and not to raunchy like others.

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you!

[@gelynch52phPH]

I'll be 72 in January & my lady turns 23 only 3 days before my birthday. We get along just fine & we make each other happy.

[@bobbythespaceghost51]

I'll be 42 when I make it to The Philippines. I always heard the saying "half your age and plus 7". However, I do believe that it's on a case-by-case basis.

[@sean1997d]

The Western world has some tough competition. I am only 25 and have been a passport bro since 23 and traveled to Eastern Europe and some South America, next to the Philippines.

[@pamelareyeshizon6743]

Come son 😂😂😂 I have daughter 🇵🇭😂😂😂

[@waltgreen8759]

nice to find your channel! your presentation style is welcome!

[@Livingabroadalex]

Thank you Walt! Welcome to the channel 🥳

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

Age doesn't matter, it's all about your "Peso-nality" =)

[@Livingabroadalex]

🤣

[@squallleonhart4605]

Wow. Another word for the day

[@onewisedre]

Money

[@Xris18713]

Age doesn’t matter… love doesn’t matter as well.. its about practicality for these girls

[@mervynmontague1811]

Interesting and informative 🇯🇲 💯

[@Livingabroadalex]

Glad ypu enjoyed it 😁

[@milsu6282]

I so want to visit the Philippines. And maybe even find me a nice partner. The Filipino culture and family values seem very nice, as opposed to the current western culture and values.

[@Livingabroadalex]

I agree!

[@ZADAIN88]

If you marry a filipino, you are expected to also fund their family. Its a culture thing. And they will always disturb you by asking money or gifts every time. Its so bad that people divorce their filipino wifes because of the nonstop harassments from the family.

[@Livingabroadalex]

One should always set clear boundaries prior to marriage

[@johnl9977]

The Filipina gals, especially from the provinces are very traditional. American women love that that division and drama, and like monkeys jumping from branch to branch. The vast majority of Filipina women are not like that.

[@voicevoice2053]

​@@ZADAIN88 your negative view is only your experience .

[@keenwood571]

Met my beautiful wife there in 2013 she was age 27 and I was age 48. She was photo lab girl in the mall and she was also modeling blue jeans! We built a house and now have 3 children together. Our relationship is great and if anything she is more mature then I am! I am retiring from the US military soon to live there permanently. God bless everyone seeking to build a family, I pray they get a good match like mine! 😎❤

[@Livingabroadalex]

Wow that's incredible. Thank you fir sharing your story. 🥳

[@jammehsingbeh4855]

I'm on one of their love website where over 90% of the girls into high age gape. But this video has satisfied my research.

[@samuelmendoza8585]

Hi Alex, I imagine many future expats would like you to ask the Filipina single women what they think about not having any kids in the future?

[@Livingabroadalex]

Oh great idea for a topic! I'll make a video of it 😊

[@cristinasumadchat605]

@@abc-mf4jn There are Filipinas who don't want to have kids.

[@Milliardo5]

Moat Filipinos would want to have kids. Filipinos are very family oriented and not having kids is almost unimaginable. There are those that might not want to have kids but most would. Unlike in the US, Filipinas put family first. It's more important to have a good family than a career.

[@samuelmendoza8585]

@@cristinasumadchat605 Those are ones I want to see Alex to find when he makes the video

[@jeffthomas3707]

I think age is completely up to the inidividuals involved. If we're not part of that relationship, and are not privvy to the dynamics of it, we have no right to cast judgement.

[@jesselovesyah]

Love the Philippines!❤️‍🔥

[@scottie47h]

True age not important. Love and good heart most important make couples happy and wonderful life. Give ❤️🌹 to Rose

[@Livingabroadalex]

Yea very true

[@RichieRichAbroad-us6ol]

Theres definitely an age gap thing here in the Phils, but who cares? I don't mind it at all and why should anyone else care either? I think as long as two people are happy in their relationship, why should I feel some kinda way about it? Unhappy people are always looking to judge others and bring them down. Ignore them and enjoy the happiness that most people don't experience in life! Richie Rich

[@Livingabroadalex]

Well said 👏