Age Gap Relationships, Controlling Men & Is The Soft Life Toxic?

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[@ElizabethSotiria]

Nah why my cheeks hurt now from smiling when baba came on 😭 he’s so cute! U don’t need to explain his aura girlies, we see it, it’s very evident ❤ What a a luminous force he is.

[@jessicacortez9087]

😂 same he’s such a sweet man ❤

[@jaydepenn9768]

Mannnn yall spoke straight FACTS on this episode. Control is definitely not love, it’s ego!

[@monserratcalvillo4732]

“Men are checking out children” CLOCK EMMMM

[@Denise0802]

As soon as I seen baba I clicked so fast! I lost my dad a couple years back so seeing y’all’s close relationship makes me so happy ❤

[@sophiarose2305]

me too girl… 😭❤️‍🩹

[@glendor94]

I love the way you ladies speak about women and what it takes to be a woman. More young women need to hear these things from grown women like yourselves!

[@christinescorner111]

NAZ YOU BETTER START WEARING THAT BRACELET 🥹❤️🥰

[@christinescorner111]

BABA!!!🥺🥹❤️THE SISTERS LISTENED TO WHAT THE PEOPLE WANT 😭I’m so excited baba is such a vibe already 😂❤

[@angeldoll17]

Book reviews should be a segment on the podcast! I loved the conversation.

[@AmericaHA]

Pleaseeee I would love this, I so enjoyed her sharing her read! I’m def checking out the series now 🥰

[@arianna592]

I love the podcast but can you guys talk about stuff other than relationships & men , I’d love to hear about how Yasmin changed her diet and started working out. Like talking about goals and how to reinvent yourself

[@MakeupByRandkhalil]

She already talked about it🥰

[@charlotterose4705]

Speaking from experience, financial abuse is one of the worst kinds of abuse. It impacts every aspect of life. And it often comes with other forms of abuse.

[@silosara]

It’s been 81 years since we’ve seen y’all. Missed y’all! 🩵

[@aminastone6381]

YASMIN ATEEEEE WITH THE EGO IN MEN TOPIC 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

[@preetchahal478]

Who ever ends with yaz is gonna hit the jackpot❤

[@ElizabethSotiria]

Also, I’ve noticed that in age gap relationships, the older person almost sucks the youth out of their partner.. bc they end up looking great and the younger one ages a lot faster 😭 Every time. Idk what that is. I don’t like it.

[@FaithAnswered]

Definitely something too it, I had one ex say “you keep me young” I clocked that so fast especially as someone who recognises energy transfer (I need to recoup & spend time with God if I’ve been with people for awhile) so definitelyyyyyy some truth to this!

[@ElizabethSotiria]

@@FaithAnswered I relate to all of this! 🤍

[@aticeedia_659]

i totally agree that the age difference can take away from you. I am Mexican and my aunt shares her story of getting married with a guy 10 years older & feels like he robbed her years as he has already lived his life and wants to "chill" and she is just starting to live her life.

[@Aggie4life77]

10 years is not bad. Well I guess it is if she’s 20 and the guy is 30. Once both people are over 25, I don’t see an issue with that gap.

[@gabbylicious_]

When my Dad died, my Mom was able to get survivors benefits ($) for us 4 children. It was a major help. If my parents were not married, we wouldn't have gotten shit. That is just a small example of benefits of being married. Sometimes the worst does happen ladies, and marriage is not just a piece of paper.

[@deanajones9852]

Yaz brings so much wisdom!!! I’ve been watching you guys foreverrrrr and me and Naz are both Sag sisters 👯‍♀️. So proud of you guys 💕

[@chelzj94]

ANOTHER GREAT EPISODE! I really loved hearing both of your perspectives. The don’t have a baby unless you can do it on your own is MOST DEF something that would only be said in America and I actually think the same thing. And my reason is because “if I let this happen, am I going to rely on a man that may or not be around” I think it’s more so for the women’s protection BECAUSE OF THE LACK of accountability men have for creating a baby. It’s horrible. You guys hit it right on the nail! If only other people thought like this

[@KarenxRizo]

Might sound weird but when you guys cheer on mom’s, I take it as if you guys are personally telling me to pour into myself. Love you girls 💕

[@Nevforev]

Keep going!!🎉

[@Stef420]

I don’t really watch podcasts because i feel like everyone is doing it but your podcasts i don’t miss!!!! I love it

[@AB-bf3gk]

I feel like the end is relatable for Wendy ortiz. So many people come for her and she’s literally just trying to hustle hard for her daughter. The things people say about her are so unbelievable sometimes.

[@CookieFridays]

Y’all got real with the “marriage is just a piece of paper” part, hahaha. I also don’t understand why people say that, they just say it to make themselves feel better about not being able to take the next step. If they don’t want to get married then fine, be happy without worrying about it, but let’s not reduce it to a meaningless piece of paper. Let’s not act dense and say “a guy can leave you whether you’re married or not”. As true as that is, a guy willing to commit to marriage will think way harder about leaving, and is probably more of a committed person just based on the fact that they decided to make that commitment in the first place. Yes there are very committed men in long term relationship without marriage but it’s more rare I think. Like if you’re trying to set yourself up for success, ideally you would try to marry before having multiple kids etc 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@MaryamPirzada]

Go off !!!! Yesss, very well said! 🎉

[@smistry11]

Totally on the money.

[@SimpleTing]

You guys are so blessed to have such a supportive father. Baba is really a cute❤

[@lizbethizaguirre5120]

Baba is the sweetest angel ever!!! He’s so proud 🥹

[@zurrahemani2602]

Literally nothing warms my heart then seeing girls who look like me (ethnic representation) being sooooo honest and raw been supporting since 2020

[@helinamisganaw1974]

Haha it’s so cute to see Naz get giddy over her mom bc she’s a mom herself but she’s still her mommy’s little girl 🥹

[@sleepingserenity8089]

The marriage segment is hands down my favorite! It was honest real and raw

[@rsxmm2272]

I’m in an age gap marriage with a millionaire for a few years and kids. You know that saying “marry for money, you’ll pay everyday”. Um it’s true lol. I didn’t marry just for money but the power/money dynamic is tooooo real

[@naidellsanchez8111]

YAS went off, straight facts!!

[@ItsMeAivie]

Real talk Naz! Some women here wear struggle like a badge of honor!! So toxic!

[@EdisZloma]

Nice video i really recomend this video to men but,why nobody talk about forbidden book called hidden techniques for manifesting women zorlest trust me guys

[@leareyna6015]

The way Baba and KK speak the same is so cute 🥹🥹🥰

[@SimpleTing]

That’s what I noticed

[@niella-q6t]

Yasmin is always spitting facts ❤

[@christinescorner111]

34:36 😂😂god he’s hilarious. Now all my questions on why you’re the hilarious, hard working, wise woman you are…is answered❤ happy new year baba thank you for that made my day ❤

[@TheKanwalMalik]

My favorite episode!!!! ❤ Not only did Baba make an appearance but man oh man did you girls spit facts!! Love yall seriously!!!💕

[@biancamejia967]

Closed mouths don’t get fed !!!! Ladies , ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANTTTTTT

[@chococat0663]

This topic was so good! You guys are amazing with your responses. I’m mom, and my relationship is soo draining. I needed to hear this ❤

[@marleymiller9894]

He is literally the best dad in the world. You both are so blessed

[@alinndesilva]

THANK YOU! HONESTLY! BEST PODCAST! It's great to hear from both of you. I wish most women spoke and taught other women this way more. love you both!

[@GeminiGlitters]

24:50 I agree for all the things your sister said it’s EGO . She was on 🎯 with what she said .

[@izabellasaini9245]

I have been following you two for years, absolutely love your content and both of your work ethics! I am also from Ohio and so happy guys represent us! Baba is so precious and I admire the bond--nothing is as special as the love from your parents! God bless you two and your families! xoxo

[@tatianaarriaga7479]

I love you guys so much but I just want to say sometimes people find themselves in bad relationships or even in a relationship they are unhappy in because of their up bringing. When Yas says she just doesn’t get it, it’s because you guys thankfully have a loving good family. Sometimes people come from sad broken families and once they feel love from someone else they want to hold on to it. No hate just food for thought 💕

[@tatianaarriaga7479]

Also not to say that it’s good or right at all. I agree with you guys. But I also understand why people end up in those situations

[@AS-vw9xw]

Naz the hair is amazing!!!!

[@TNDRAV]

57:27 exactly, these women giving out kids like candy on Halloween !!! Absolutely not. A kid is a much bigger commitment!!!! Insane!

[@elizathornton1385]

Definitely loving this podcast !!! These topics are so important and I felt like I related to a lot 😢of

[@chelsaemae]

I’m sure you guys know this but as I’m watching your video and I see baba come on I said out loud “you guys are so lucky” he’s such an amazing spirit and energy. My fathers wasn’t around. You guys are so lucky 🫶

[@celestea.5398]

Actually Meredith Blake was mean to the girls. Lol! She was faking being nice, the only reason she wanted the dad was because of his money she wasn’t really in love! 😂😂

[@syleva6829]

Exactly she planned to send them to boarding school before they even met.

[@AmericaHA]

This was by far one of my favorite episodes from the book share and to Yasmin preaching about discernment 🙌🙌 look forward to your episodes, reminds me that I can be feminine but still strong and respected and can care for myself still as a mom 🤍

[@yadiracortez3838]

I love your podcast!! This is my go to when cleaning and getting this done! I get productive and motivated

[@margrodriguez5059]

Can the next episode be about how we moms need to prioritize our mental Health ?

[@samingho8445]

I got excited when I clicked the video 😂 I thought baba was gonna be the guest for the whole episode

[@somyaprakash6948]

Ya’ll came CORRECT on the topic of age gap. I have soo many thoughts! One being i think an underlying reason for men to normalize going for really younger women is simply a fetish and they dont wanna admit that they dont wanna go for someone closer to their age. It’s also really selfish because the huge age gap could insinuate he might pass before she does and now she is a widow at a younger age… again may sound extreme but let’s normalize men not putting an expiration date on women and seeking women closer to their own age.

[@esmeraldabarragan9611]

As soon as I saw the intro i rushed to like the video before watching the rest because Baba said so!! :) He is so adorable!!!❤️ God bless his heart and love for his family!!💕

[@mayegomez9223]

I love this podcast so much. Wish I would of have this mentality when I was younger. I’m now 30 and realize my worth. And I now preach to my women that they are the prize regardless of what they have or don’t have. I truly love you guys, feels like my sisters. Please don’t ever stop. ❤️🫶🏼

[@starheartskull15]

“Control isn’t love” AMEN 👏🏼 👏🏼 💯

[@GuateruChilipepper]

Just woke up from my nap and I’m staying in bed until I finish this. I have no shame. 😂💗😘❤️✨

[@Clngems]

Go off sis! Absolutely LOVED this episode ✨ Nothing like putting yourself First ALWAYS 🤍🎀💅🏻

[@digserabreu]

Meredith was not nice yall lmaoo literally after meeting the first twin she said " "First chance I make is to send that two-faced little brat off to boarding school in Timbuktu"😂

[@letyhernandez1361]

With my finger I’m liking the video ❤️😭 we love a supportive and proud dad

[@SS-zn9kw]

Lol the whole time you were explaining the book I was like wow this sounds a lot like a book I started but haven’t finished. It took me like 5 minutes to realize it’s the same book 😂😂😂

[@NeesaRaspaldo]

Baba was low keying giving us gems on the age gap topic !! 📢

[@Maaryjaanne]

Baba needs his own episode 😂

[@bebesitatanita956]

In my option whoever said you’ll never be ready to have kids were not ready or had no support bc I planned my first baby at 24 and my second at 25 and girl my husband takes care of us financially and still loves coming home and running to spend time with his baby boy ❤

[@irakayeestrada5077]

This talk is amazing esp. towards the end. lol love it

[@saeedad6616]

I know someone who is fairly conservative, he’s not doing nothing behind anyone’s back. Anyway he liked a girl who wasn’t conservative and he decided that he didn’t want to proceed further with her because he didn’t think it’s fair she should have to change in any way for him and he wanted her to dress like she wanted and do what she wanted. I thought that was very sweet and mature

[@SamanthaFausto]

Love this podcast! I feel like I’m chatting with my best friend! ❤

[@Chiichii0503]

“CONTROL IS NOT LOVE CONTROL IS EVIL” speak that shit jasmine

[@AKAE47]

WE NEED MORE MEN LIKE BABA🥹

[@sahlahkondiah2707]

Baba is such a gem awwww

[@victoriasallet1074]

omg i love BABA!! hes such a kind soul

[@foodievlogs377]

Nah Baba should be in an advertisement 😭 he’s such a vibe

[@Glamourismymiddlename]

There is actually a reward to the mother struggling as a single mother or a mother in general. It was narrated from Mu'awiyah bin Jahimah As-Sulami, that Jahimah came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said: "O Messenger of Allah! I want to go out and fight (in Jihad) and I have come to ask your advice." He said: "Do you have a mother?" He said: "Yes." He said: "Then stay with her, for Paradise is beneath her feet." The meaning of this Hadith is that the proper treatment and respect of our mothers “No matter what their religion is” could be a reason to enter Jannah. This life is just a test and temporary. May Allah guide us all and help us to be always there for our beloved parents.

[@jodianfowler]

Baba made my heart smile ❤

[@Emily31662]

Best episode so farrrr🫶🏼

[@sarahmustafa2052]

I needed thisss!!!! I missed Baba Kavari so much

[@CindyValencia]

I’m seeing soft life as toxic because if a man wants to do you dirty you have nothing

[@Kamiajalise]

Lol as a lover of the Parent Trap, Meredith had the worst of intentions and was catty from the beginning. Like imagine if Mel got a new boo & she was weird & not welcoming to your kids 😂😂😂 love the episode.

[@MohammedIslam-hs8yz]

I love this conversation to be honest woman need freedom rather then listen what man thinks of us Red flag😢❤

[@kalexisreid99]

Baba is the absolute best omg!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@christy4]

I love Baba! 😂 he's like 'We listen & we don't judge - but don't do it!' 😂

[@ricanxali]

We love baba! Thank you for the podcast the only one I listen to! Love you both and your family ! ❤

[@ricanxali]

This whole podcast is me! Thank you for making me feel more than I am!

[@CynthiaLacy90]

Omgsh Baba!! The perfect guest! We love you!!

[@MarlenDiaz-qp4bn]

I love how yall talk about different things in every episode even if they can relate to eachother yall dont really repeat and babas appearance 10/10🎉😂

[@Oliviaamonique]

love this vid!

[@Hernandez.k]

Watching today’s episode while on my lunch at work 🫶🏼💛

[@HelloThere-kh3vo]

Omg i never realized liking a video was effective, i’ve always just watched it🤣 but just because your dad mentioned it, i liked the video

[@thatgirllondyn96]

We LOOOVEEEE BABA 🥹🥹 we need more of baba and mama in the podcast 🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@s.chou9]

''first of all..i kick her out'' hes hilarious lmaoooo

[@nataliazertuche8069]

Ordering the book now !!! I’m in my reading era again !!!!

[@nyaxguch]

what’s the title and author pleaseee?

[@nataliazertuche8069]

Sara Cate !!

[@missTRP]

You should add caption timestamps to the video !

[@mellymelxo]

It’s baba’s sunglasses for me 😂🥰

[@yulianarose.ovalles]

Liked for Baba of course ❤️, I believe if there will be more men like him in earth this world would feel so different.

[@katyhas9424]

Use rose water sold as a facial toner without any other ingredients. It’s amazing dupe for micellar water

[@Quetzalxx50]

Not me going & pressing the like button bc Baba told me to 😹♥️

[@paolaalvarez374]

Aww baba is so wise and so funny definitely gave this video a like cause of him!!☺️❤️

[@Bmar13]

Baba!! We love him !! He’s the cutest !

[@rabd945]

Arab from Dearborn, MI here (and originally from Ohio!) 💕 and we’re definitely dripped out in that 21k gold 😂

[@LovelyGaby103]

Liked the video cause Baba told me to! Can’t let him down he’s the cutest!! ❤

[@mzabie94]

Baba said like so we LIKE 😂❤