Age of Aisha (RA) - Part 2: Definition of Childhood

Age of Aisha (RA) - Part 2: Definition of Childhood | Mohammed Hijab

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@Kimeikus Жыл бұрын

*Age of Aisha | Mohammad Hijab* 0:00:00 Introduction 0:00:18 Recapping Previous Episode 0:16:44 What is the definition of “Child”? 0:22:45 Medieval Transition to the Modern Lifestyle

@raeesdean6908 Жыл бұрын

may Allah bless you

@user-ir3qm3rh4f Ай бұрын

So.... raping a girl of 9 is halal is authorised by papa ? Is that OK? 🤔

@fy3219 Жыл бұрын

May Allah be pleased with her

@999legend8 Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@nanashi7779 Жыл бұрын

رحمها الله

@user-ir3qm3rh4f 2 ай бұрын

mainly Mohamed 🙂 lucky man is nt it???

@peacenow6618 Жыл бұрын

May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!

@thibzlatanp729 3 ай бұрын

Sahih Muslim 1422c 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) married her when she was seven years old, and he was taken to his house as a bride when she was nine, and her dolls were with her; and when he (the Holy Prophet) died she was eighteen years old. وَحَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم تَزَوَّجَهَا وَهْىَ بِنْتُ سَبْعِ سِنِينَ وَزُفَّتْ إِلَيْهِ وَهِيَ بِنْتُ تِسْعِ سِنِينَ وَلُعَبُهَا مَعَهَا وَمَاتَ عَنْهَا وَهِيَ بِنْتُ ثَمَانَ عَشْرَةَ ‏.‏ Sahih al-Bukhari 5134 that the Prophet (ﷺ) married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that `Aisha remained with the Prophet (ﷺ) for nine years (i.e. till his death). حَدَّثَنَا مُعَلَّى بْنُ أَسَدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا وُهَيْبٌ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم تَزَوَّجَهَا وَهْىَ بِنْتُ سِتِّ سِنِينَ، وَبَنَى بِهَا وَهْىَ بِنْتُ تِسْعِ سِنِينَ‏.‏ قَالَ هِشَامٌ وَأُنْبِئْتُ أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ عِنْدَهُ تِسْعَ سِنِينَ‏

@fatimah9202 Жыл бұрын

Jazaa kAllahu khairah fid daarain

@FOOTSHOTS1 2 ай бұрын

We can build the case in many ways and they wont be able to answer, but the thing is we never claimed that Aicha (ra) was a normal girl, she was a prodigy... she was special.. and many classical islamic ressources testify to that. she even became one of the greatest scholar of Islam, n was a key figure of the knowledge transmission . she was clearly ahead of everyone at her age Allah chose her for the Prophet (pbuh).. and we can see the wisdom of it , how she played a key role because of her intellectual capacity n memory... Anyone who studied the Sirah will get that Aicha (ra) was an adult this argument fails everywhere but the craziest thing is people in the modern time can believe that we came from a fish then a fish n find no problem with that, and they cant believe that 1400 years ago in the desert of Arabia a 9 years old was adult... thats for me is mindblowing

@lejamesbron5880 Ай бұрын

and she wasn't 9 but more like 18

@FOOTSHOTS1 Ай бұрын

@@lejamesbron5880 nop, she was 9. And there nothing wrong about it.

@user-ir3qm3rh4f Ай бұрын

So embarrassing tentative... 😳 terrible... a rape of Little girl is a rape.... perpetuator is a monster....

@FOOTSHOTS1 Ай бұрын

@@user-ir3qm3rh4f then try to gain something in the court

@ebrahemshabaan2857 Жыл бұрын

Good video Hijab, but a few things need clarity. We can understand that history/children situation is different from the modern era, in every totality. The ‘delaying’ of children becoming Adult is definitely a thing of the modern era, but in Quran and Sunnah it’s still unclear. We have many ahadith in different context to men becoming Baligh? And the prophet PBUH giving specific age when to order children to pray etc. or when our beloved nabi send Usamah Bin Zayed to war at 15 etc. -I think Hijab SHOULD of concluded with making it clearer on Male/female dynamic in Arabia at time of Prophet, and rough age when boy becomes Man. -Clearing up misconceptions on male puberty/female menstruation and whether that clarifies ‘adulthood’ -And what Quran and sunnah says on this matter, even if there isn’t a specific age when we become ‘adults’ and responsible for our actions.

@sametyildiz10 Жыл бұрын

Allahumma barik.

@The.muslim_wojak Жыл бұрын

BarakAllahu Feekum!!🤍🖤

@thibzlatanp729 3 ай бұрын

@mohamedalahmadani5174 Жыл бұрын

Ironically, those who claim to be open minded won’t have enough of an open mind to have this discussion.

@enlightenedvagabond3556 Жыл бұрын

We had the discussion, then realised all your nonsensical points are pathetic and pedophile-affirming. Nice try abdool

@nomoresunforever3695 4 ай бұрын

Open-minded to pedophilia?

@thibzlatanp729 4 ай бұрын

A discussion about having intercourse with children ?

@UriPhoneCracker 3 ай бұрын

@@thibzlatanp729 you're literally part of the problem. You didn't even bother watching the video did you?

@thibzlatanp729 3 ай бұрын

@@UriPhoneCracker Because I have no time for people who defend pedophilia in 2024. Sahih Muslim 1422c 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) married her when she was seven years old, and he was taken to his house as a bride when she was nine, and her dolls were with her; and when he (the Holy Prophet) died she was eighteen years old. وَحَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم تَزَوَّجَهَا وَهْىَ بِنْتُ سَبْعِ سِنِينَ وَزُفَّتْ إِلَيْهِ وَهِيَ بِنْتُ تِسْعِ سِنِينَ وَلُعَبُهَا مَعَهَا وَمَاتَ عَنْهَا وَهِيَ بِنْتُ ثَمَانَ عَشْرَةَ ‏.‏ Sahih al-Bukhari 5134 that the Prophet (ﷺ) married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that `Aisha remained with the Prophet (ﷺ) for nine years (i.e. till his death). حَدَّثَنَا مُعَلَّى بْنُ أَسَدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا وُهَيْبٌ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم تَزَوَّجَهَا وَهْىَ بِنْتُ سِتِّ سِنِينَ، وَبَنَى بِهَا وَهْىَ بِنْتُ تِسْعِ سِنِينَ‏.‏ قَالَ هِشَامٌ وَأُنْبِئْتُ أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ عِنْدَهُ تِسْعَ سِنِينَ‏.‏

@unknown-villian 8 ай бұрын

Claiming childhood is a “social construct” is absolutely absurd. Babies are childs and I’m sure we can all agree babies are not adults . Even the quran makes a distinction between children and adults, that alone shows there something objective about maturity especially if you are a muslim.

@zawarshah8335 3 ай бұрын

He didnt say being a baby is a social construct.

@thibzlatanp729 3 ай бұрын

@karimyayou3811 Ай бұрын

irrelevant comment

@legend6943 Ай бұрын

Irrelevant

@ad1103 Жыл бұрын

Jazakallah. The statement of Imam Shafi'ee about women in Yemen reaching puberty at 9. You mentioned the word 'women' was used. Can you post the Arabic. As I've seen the same quote but it says 'girls' in stead of women. عن الشافعي قال: رأيت باليمن بنات تسع يحضن كثيرا.

@RodDJoyboy 10 ай бұрын

thank you guys

@morrishallie8631 10 ай бұрын

But Moses didn't say they should have little children as captives and sleep with 'em at the age of nine(9).. that's evil bro

@nooruddin-ali 2 ай бұрын

Your scholars in the talmud said as young as age 3 Check the palestanian talmud which is an authoritative text

@user-ir3qm3rh4f 2 ай бұрын

@@nooruddin-ali talmud is sh...it yes... we agree... so what about quran?

@legend6943 Ай бұрын

The torah is corrupted.

@arthurholmes2210 25 күн бұрын

How old was Isaac 40 and Rebekah was 3 in the Bible.

@green.1 Жыл бұрын

What is the best way to get in touch with you, with regards to a collaboration on a Palestine Project? Jzk

@louislower3724 Жыл бұрын

Matt Walsh needs to convert to Islam and make a new documentary "what is a child".

@jageerdarjag3883 Жыл бұрын

Why? Why can't a Muslim do it now?

@env0x Жыл бұрын

i think you misunderstood the point of matt walsh's documentary "what is a woman?"... he wasn't literally asking "what is a woman"... he was making fun of people who think sex is based on social constructs and not biology.

@SuntzuMocro Жыл бұрын

@envix he did understand it. This is the Internet, people do everything to be funny and get the likes.

@alberxenos Жыл бұрын

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

@haatib42 Жыл бұрын

How can I attend these sessions live?

@Tex_155 Жыл бұрын

Hijab enjoying that Capri Sun 😂

@wawaweewa9159 Жыл бұрын

42:00 such late maturation of modern people due to the liberal construct of '18' results in terrible negative conditioning of our minds and character

@cocoalfaridah5831 Жыл бұрын

from verse 4 of Surah 65. In this verse, it says: “And as to such of your women as have despaired of menstruation, if you be in doubt thereof, their waiting period is three months, as also of those who have not yet menstruated. And as to those who are pregnant, their term is when they give birth.”

@genericuser-1 Жыл бұрын

@@cocoalfaridah5831 Sadaqallahul atheem. But what exactly are you even trying to prove with this verse. The iddah period of a prepubescent girl is 3 months, yes. What can you conclude from that. How does that necessitate that the Quran permits intercourse with prepubescent girls.

@johnoops4633 Жыл бұрын

@@cocoalfaridah5831 Allah said: وَاللَّائِي يَئِسْنَ مِنَ الْمَحِيضِ مِن نِّسَائِكُمْ إِنِ ارْتَبْتُمْ فَعِدَّتُهُنَّ ثَلَاثَةُ أَشْهُرٍ وَاللَّائِي لَمْ يَحِضْنَ Those who no longer expect menstruation among your women, if you doubt, then their waiting period is three months, and also for those who have not menstruated. Surat al-Talaq 65:4 This verse refers to the waiting period until remarriage (‘iddah) for divorced “women,” who are by definition adults. It does not use the word for children or prepubescent girls. The verse merely delivers a practical rule for determining the waiting period for any divorced woman who, for whatever reason, does not menstruate. A woman might not menstruate for several reasons, because she is too old to menstruate or has a physical disorder that prevents or delays ordinary menstrual cycles. As such, the verse covers all of these cases in a general sense. Classical scholars also interpreted the verse to apply to a marriage to a child that has been contracted but not consummated. Such arranged marriages to young people were ordinary in the pre-modern world, so it is expected that jurists would have developed rules for them. Ibn Battal writes: أجمع العلماء على أنه يجوز للآباء تزويج الصغار من بناتهم وإن كن فى المهد إلا أنه لا يجوز لأزواجهن البناء بهن إلا إذا صلحن للوطء The scholars agreed that it is permissible for fathers to marry off their young daughters even if they are in the cradle, except it is not permissible for their husbands to consummate the marriage with them until they are prepared to safely have intercourse. Source: Sharḥ Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 7/172 That scholars allowed contracting a marriage to child did not mean they allowed sex with children. Physical maturity and safety were the prerequisites for lawful intercourse. It is important to appreciate that the verse 65:4 does not prescribe child marriage, but rather expresses a general rule that might apply to such a situation if it occurred. Muslim scholars discouraged fathers and guardians from contracting child marriages unless it served a clear interest to all involved. It was an exception, not the rule. Al-Nawawi writes: وَاعْلَمْ أَنَّ الشَّافِعِيَّ وَأَصْحَابَهُ قَالُوا وَيُسْتَحَبُّ أنْ لَا يُزَوِّجَ الْأَبُ وَالْجَدُّ الْبِكْرَ حَتَّى تَبْلُغَ وَيَسْتَأْذِنُهَا لِئَلَّا يُوقِعَهَا فِي أَسْرِ الزَّوْجِ وَهِيَ كَارِهَةٌ Know that Al-Shafi’i and his companions encouraged a father or grandfather not to marry off a virgin girl until she reaches maturity and he obtains her consent, that she may not be trapped with a husband she dislikes. Source: Sharḥ al-Nawawī ‘alá Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1422 Child marriages were not recommended by classical scholars even though the social customs of the time did not consider them unusual. They understood that one of the most essential purposes of marriage mentioned in the Quran is to engender love and tranquility between spouses, which cannot be obtained by coercion, force, or harm. Moreover, it was recommended by the Prophet (ṣ) himself that candidates for marriage be of equal or suitable age. Buraida reported: Abu Bakr and Umar, may Allah be pleased with them, offered a marriage proposal to the Prophet’s daughter Fatimah. The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: إِنَّهَا صَغِيرَةٌ She is too young. Source: Sunan al-Nasā’ī 3221, Grade: Sahih Al-Qari provides an interpretation of this tradition, writing: الْمُرَادُ أَنَّهَا صَغِيرَةٌ بِالنِّسْبَةِ إِلَيْهِمَا لِكِبَرِ سِنِّهِمَا وَزَوَّجَهَا مِنْ عَلِيٍّ لِمُنَاسَبَةِ سِنِّهِ لَهَا The meaning is that she was too young to be suitable for the older age of Abu Bakr and Umar, so the Prophet married her to Ali, who was of suitable age. Source: Mirqāt al-Mafātīḥ 6104 Since considering custom is a principle of Islamic law, social customs that are no longer conducive to the Islamic objectives of marriage should no longer be followed and, if necessary, outlawed altogether. For this reason, the vast majority of Muslim countries have imposed an age limit on marriage, usually at or around 18 years of age. Careful study of modern child marriages has revealed startling statistics concerning the detrimental effects this practice has on young boys and girls. Different conditions warrant different rules in Islam, and what might have been appropriate for societies in the past is not necessarily appropriate today. As Ibn al-Qayyim said: فَإِنَّ الشَّرِيعَةَ مَبْنَاهَا وَأَسَاسُهَا عَلَى الْحِكَمِ وَمَصَالِحِ الْعِبَادِ فِي الْمَعَاشِ وَالْمَعَادِ وَهِيَ عَدْلٌ كُلُّهَا وَرَحْمَةٌ كُلُّهَا وَمَصَالِحُ كُلُّهَا وَحِكْمَةٌ كُلُّهَا فَكُلُّ مَسْأَلَةٍ خَرَجَتْ عَنْ الْعَدْلِ إلَى الْجَوْرِ وَعَنْ الرَّحْمَةِ إلَى ضِدِّهَا وَعَنْ الْمَصْلَحَةِ إلَى الْمَفْسَدَةِ وَعَنْ الْحِكْمَةِ إلَى الْبَعْثِ فَلَيْسَتْ مِنْ الشَّرِيعَةِ وَإِنْ أُدْخِلَتْ فِيهَا بِالتَّأْوِيلِ Verily, the law is founded upon wisdom and welfare for people in this life and the Hereafter. In its entirety it is justice, mercy, benefit, and wisdom. Every matter which abandons justice for tyranny, mercy for cruelty, benefit for corruption, and wisdom for foolishness is not a part of the law, even if it was introduced therein by an interpretation. Source: I’lām al-Muwaqqi’īn 3/11 Hence, any practice that causes verifiable harm to children is necessarily unlawful in Islam, even if previous societies considered the practice harmless in their particular situation. Success comes from Allah, and Allah knows best

@johnoops4633 Жыл бұрын

@@themadkalimurjiasecularist6683 what?

@al-imranadore1182 Жыл бұрын

@Madhkalis, Secularists, and Moderates are the same What??? who are you talking to?? stop it don't do drugs......

@wawaweewa9159 Жыл бұрын

its also common for people lie about their age to get into clubs, fake ID and stuff and people are none the wiser and everyone accepts said person as 'adult' doing adult things.

@uksultan3920 Жыл бұрын

Ended it!

@ismatbabiker3553 Жыл бұрын

I truly appreciate the amazing video, if possible would you please do a video explaining the situation of working women in Islam and the dynamic of women working in the modern era, is there an islamic preference with or against women working. Thank you in advance

@HealingLight231 5 ай бұрын

This defense is laughably weak. The passage in Numbers does not sanction sleeping with 9 year olds. It just says to save the young girls. Doesn't say anything about when to marry them.

@UriPhoneCracker 3 ай бұрын

Read classical Jewish commentaries on the topic. It clearly means to take them for sexual slavery

@FollowtheSunnah632 Ай бұрын

Copium

@irenegyu7949 Ай бұрын

when? It is clear. Plus Aisha ra is not a kid anymore.

@legend6943 Ай бұрын

Take the virgin woman for yourselves, Take the Taff for yourselves. Taff means child

@Just.a.person_413 Жыл бұрын

Well done☝🏼

@100dunno Жыл бұрын

Nice Tudor 58 watch Mohammed hijab

@peacenow6618 Жыл бұрын

جزاک اللہ خیرا

@vishnusurendran3301 8 ай бұрын

The question is not about aisha .Its about mohammed .Who dreams a girl in child cloths and want to marry her ?

@TetrahedronIX 7 ай бұрын

A P-word does and I'm not talking about a Prophet

@UriPhoneCracker 3 ай бұрын

Hindus shouldn't talk about this 😂😂😂

@vishnusurendran3301 3 ай бұрын

@@UriPhoneCracker then who should ?

@vittoriosartori6947 Жыл бұрын

something to consider. mehmed II was 12 when he defeated a hungarian crusade. 12

@abokias Жыл бұрын

Can we see the slides?

@marcolucius5083 6 ай бұрын

The poverty of the num31:18 is the assumption is that it is calling them to rape or to have sex/marry 9year olds...... it does not say that

@bluelightmoon777 Жыл бұрын

The youngest mother was age 5 and a few months. There is a condition called Pubertas praecox. It makes females reach their puberty way faster

@al-imranadore1182 Жыл бұрын

that's not a regular/normal case.

@teacwarren6849 Жыл бұрын

Grown women recently got the authority to drive in Saudi Arabia but 9 year olds can be wedded. Please make it make sense.

@Nemo.24 Жыл бұрын

Women driving in Saudi Arabia have nothing to do with Islam

@johnoops4633 Жыл бұрын

What logic do you follow, a thousand years ago in the island, schools or hospitals were not invented, and secondly, now in Saudi Arabia, girls get married at the age of 18, and sometimes in some areas 17

@irenegyu7949 Ай бұрын

what is the correlation?

@legend6943 Ай бұрын

There is an enormous difference in your comment. Just like there is a huge difference between presentism and anachronism. Irrelevant comment

@AbuTinneen Жыл бұрын

May Allah subhanahu wa taala bless you brother Mohammed. May Allah subhanahu wa taala unite us in jannah al firdaws. Ameen.

@enlightenedvagabond3556 Жыл бұрын

Jannah isn’t real slave

@legend6943 Ай бұрын

@@enlightenedvagabond3556 I guess will find out together. If there is no jannah, then it does not affect us. If there is a jannah, it only effects you cuz you'll not be in it for all eternity. 2) Being a slave of Allah is the highest status unlike this world. I am a slave of Allah and I am proud to be one. Ever since I became a good slave, my life has been better honestly. No Alcohol, No weed, No promiscuity, being modest, being grateful instead of complaining. Life is a blessing when you become Allah's slave. Thank you for your comment.

@youssssef Жыл бұрын

You forgot to talk about the verse u mentioned in the 1st episode

@terrykrow7820 Жыл бұрын

If you havn 't started you're period, you are a girl not a woman, biologically speaking, no 'meta-morals' needed. Do your mental gymnsatics to make your morals fit.

@mystichalaly8083 Жыл бұрын

Please do an episode on the slavery shubuhat. Maybe compare it to the horrible justice system in the west.

@RayOfHope8 Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹

@jawed__akhter Жыл бұрын

There are many Hadith, in English, about Aisha's age they generally state as this Hadith does : "It was narrated from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah married her when she was six years old, and consummated the marriage with her when she was nine." Grade: Sahih (Darussalam) Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 3255 It is graded as Sahih by some, but that is wrong. These Hadith were transmitted by Hishaam ibn Urwa or sometimes it's just stated Hishaam, one and the same person. When Hishaam grew old his memory suffered very badly and it was then that he transmitted these Hadith. In the science of Hadith there are five conditions that must be met in order for a hadith to be graded as Sahih. One of the conditions is that the narrator have a high precision of memory. Hishaam had a very bad memory and therefore doesn't meet the criteria in fact as his memory was very bad the Hadith is Apocryphal, Daef or false. There is a Hadith transmitted by Umaartubnu Ghazeyah but he is listed as being Daef and therefore the Hadith is Daef. The Hadith such as these are Apocryphal, Daef or false and many people do not know. Asma, Aisha's sister, was 10 years older than Aisha. Asma died in 73 AH at 100. Which makes Aisha around 17 at the time of Hijra to Medina. She was conducted to her husband, Peace be upon him in a later Shawwal making her 19 years and 10 months old. In The Holy Qur'an Allah says "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 Marry THE WOMEN NOT CHILDREN. Extra knowledge: The fourth chapter, The Women, starts with "O' Mankind…" 4:1 and therefore the address is to Mankind. In Hadith 10 from 40 Hadith an-Nawawi It is noted that : "Verily Allah commanded The Believers* because He commanded with it The Messengers and Allah said "O' The Messengers Eat from The Good and Act Righteously" and He said "O' Those who Believe* Eat from The Good which We provided you"..." We note that Allah addresses The Messengers separately from The Believers* and this is true throughout the Qur'an. Therefore, Allah begins Chapter 4 with : "O' Mankind…" 4:1 and the address is to Mankind and excludes The Messenger, Muhammad, Peace be upon him. As the chapter continues it still addresses Mankind and says : "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 This address is part of the address to Mankind and not to The Messenger Muhammad, Peace be upon him, who is excluded from this address. However, Further along in The Chapter, The Women, Allah says : "Allah wishes to make clear for you and guide you to The Practices of those from before you…" 4:26 In this verse which is still addressing Mankind Allah says He makes clear for you, Mankind, and guides you, Mankind, to The Practices of those from before you, and The practices of those before you is to, as Allah says : "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 and those before you are The Prophets. All The Prophets from before their practice was to marry Women NOT children exonerating them from any and all blame. and Allah says : "...Never will you find in The Practice of Allah A Changing…" 35:43 and their other verse from elsewhere in The Quran. And no changing in The Practice of Allah in respect to The messenger of Allah, Muhammad, Peace be upon him. The Prophet Muhammad's practice was already in line with The Practice of The Prophets from before that he and they only married women and therefore it was not necessary to address him,Peace be upon him, when Allah began The Chapter, The Women, with " O' Mankind…". Allah makes clear and guides Mankind to The Practice of those before us namely The Prophets and The Practice of Muhammad, Peace be upon him, in which there was no change in that practice from before to : "...Marry who seem good to you from THE WOMEN...' 4:3 Marry THE WOMEN NOT THE CHILDREN. There is more evidence but it would make this too long.

@dayzoflot2022 Жыл бұрын

Exactly !

@wawaweewa9159 Жыл бұрын

44:20 oh daymmmmmmmmm

@skrrskrr99 5 ай бұрын

Why does it take 2 hours to make consummating a sexual relationship with a 9 year old seem reasonable? Y’all know this is insane.

@Xxshxxdowx 4 ай бұрын

Did you watch any of his videos and see the reasons he presented or are you a narrow-minded,pedantic ignoramus who comments without comprehending and responding to the factual arguments he is displaying forth to prove people with your fallacious arguments invalid?

@user-th5mg3eu5g 2 ай бұрын

You're just dumb

@arthurholmes2210 25 күн бұрын

Who said they had sex ? Isaac was 40 years of age and Rebecca was 3 when they were married! Do you think they had sex or waited until she was of age.

@skrrskrr99 25 күн бұрын

@@arthurholmes2210 ....so you think it's okay for a 40 year old man to marry a 3 year old? You're insane.

@mm-wm3jd Жыл бұрын

Let's make sure that Matt Walsh gets to hear Hijab's famous line 'What is a child?' It may help awaken Matt or many others Insha'Allah.

@env0x Жыл бұрын

@mm-wm3jd Жыл бұрын

@@env0x Hijab's 'What is a child?' is also a mockery of the system which ignores biology and takes arbitrary ages to measure maturity. In reality when children turn in to adulthood, biology gives its signals. But the system ignores the signs and symptoms and forces the grownups to remain being called a child. Matt says that biology (nature) should be the only barometer to tell gender but not subjective arbitrary emotions. Similarly Hijab argues that maturity of a child should be naturally known from the biological symptoms than the system's set arbitrary age. Hijab's appeal to Matt Walsh and to all the fans of 'What is a Woman?', is therefore 'if you believe biology to be accurate for gender determination, how come you don't apply the same criterion when it comes to maturity of children?' In short, if Matt really believes that gender is not/should not be a social construct as it has a biological reality! then he should reject the socially constructed definition of 'a child' too! and promote the same biological based definition of 'a child'.

@env0x Жыл бұрын

@@mm-wm3jd I've heard the arguments before to support Aisha's maturity level and they usually say that back in Muhammad's time 6th/7th century AD or whatever people were a lot more mature back then at younger ages than they are today. that's not biological that's sociocultural. if you wanna say everyone matures at the same age that's not biological either because age is an arbitrary factor based on the earth's rotation around the sun which has nothing to do with biology.

@snakejuce Жыл бұрын

@@mm-wm3jd exactly spot on. Jzk

@Reknaw155 3 ай бұрын

Would love to hear Matts response to this.

@marcolucius5083 6 ай бұрын

What a train wreck the more you think about the arguments and the straight face they have around the game of dawa / apologetics. it really is embarrassing to see confident men convinced it's ok to have sex with a nine year old playing with dolls (andin wthem stupefyingly try to explain away the doll as one with no face/not childish or some nonsense) Aisha is calling to these guys to wake up by mentioning the dolls while saying "intercourse"

@UriPhoneCracker 3 ай бұрын

Playing with dolls or not is not a marker for maturity. Men in their 20s own action figures on their shelves, play video games made for children, how does that prove that they aren't mature? Stupid argument tbh

@legend6943 Ай бұрын

Woman reach puberty at different ages for inst. Arabs hit puberty earlier cuz of the warm climate. You can't win an argument by saying she wasn't a particular age to give consent. You can estimate and keep in mind estimate in this generation but not 1400years ago. The legal age of marriage in the west was in fact 8. Just 200years ago ! I have won the argument the moment you have read these points below. 1)Aisha was an Adult and there is clear proof she was not mentally, emotionally or physically harmed. 2)Trying to paint a picture of our prophet saw as a bad man because ## falls under presentism, not anachronism. 3)Our prophet saw married Aisha cuz she was a prodigy and ahead of her time in terms of intelligence, emotions and physical 4)Why is there not a single documented case before the 20th century labelling our prophet as a 'Pedophile' 'Womaniser' why did none of his enemies at the time called him this? It's been 14 centuries with a total population of more than 12 Billion people who have passed away and yet not a single case of this?

@marcolucius5083 Ай бұрын

@@legend6943 Age of marriage is not the issue. Sex / consummation with pre-pubescent girl (as defined by Hadith) is. Islam/Hadith know that pre-pubescent girls are different (hence allowance to have dolls with faces etc and allowance on drawings of living things etc - there are videos on this teaching today) this all relates to an awareness that at that age they are not complicit to the sin (ie not mature to recognize it) 1. Aisha was not an adult as defined by Islam/Hadith, she was still allowed her dolls. 2. Presentism - no, I'm making an argument of Islam's own requirement / presentation according to the Hadith 3. He decided her to take her from a dream he had of her (hmm yeah not good) it's obvious reading the Hadith that he can influence families 4. No prior complaint ? Hmm may be that the historical focus has been the Quran. The Hadith were compiled a couple hundred years after. There is a lot of Hadith text, it is relatively obscure to locate the sahih entries that demonstrate Aisha flagging that she had her dolls at 9 when he did it.

@marcolucius5083 Ай бұрын

Age of marriage is not the issue. Sex / consummation with pre-pubescent girl (as defined by Hadith) is. Islam/Hadith know that pre-pubescent girls are different (hence allowance to have dolls with faces etc and allowance on drawings of living things etc - there are videos on this teaching today) this all relates to an awareness that at that age they are not complicit to the sin (ie not mature to recognize it) Aisha was not an adult as defined by Islam/Hadith, she was still allowed her dolls. Presentism - no, I'm making an argument of Islam's own requirement / presentation according to the Hadith He decided her to take her from a dream he had of her (hmm yeah not good) it's obvious reading the Hadith that it's a little difficult to say no to him socially No prior complaint ? Hmm may be that the historical focus has been the Quran. The Hadith were compiled a couple hundred years after. There is a lot of Hadith text, it is relatively obscure to locate the sahih entries that demonstrate Aisha flagging that she had her dolls at 9 when he did it.

@arthurholmes2210 25 күн бұрын

@@marcolucius5083So next talk about Isaac 40 and Rebekah was 3 and how that worked out .

@ZiIIous Жыл бұрын

So to summarize this 52 minutes video: He says the marriage is acceptable even in the bible, but today he thinks it is inappropriate because nowadays a 9 years old in modern era doesn't get the education and preparation they need for marriage. Today even a 18 years old is still playing games, they lack the mental maturity required for marriage in Islam, but physically, when you look at a 14 years old's body, you can tell that they are clearly not children and they can overpower an adult.

@johnoops4633 Жыл бұрын

Your kokr

@Kapojos 7 ай бұрын

She was playing with dolls dude... she was mentally a child

@abdullanasif6760 6 ай бұрын

@@Kapojosbro didn’t watch all the videos or even listen fully…

@Kapojos 6 ай бұрын

@@abdullanasif6760like the really weird arguments? As adulta today also play videogames and stuff? Adults playing videogames is already kinda childish and Aisha is supposed to be this great woman? Also playing dolls is in these verses clearly an indication she was a child. No grown person at that time is mentioned in the quran, hadith or bible to play with dolls..!

@Skibbityboo0580 5 ай бұрын

@@Kapojos Now, now....we must respect their belief that pedophilia is an acceptable practice in some circumstances.

@ehwiavsksvs 5 ай бұрын

How do you handle someone saying “just because something was right in the past doesn’t make it right now.” Slavery was okay back then but that doesn’t make it right.

@dayzoflot2022 Жыл бұрын

Err ! Hate to say this Ustadh, but this video was a waste of time. Please, don't insult our intelligence. Why don't you prove the Hadith transmitted by Hishaam ibn Urwa is not da'if ? There is no evidence in the Islamic corpus that Aisha married at the age you think she got married, period. Your only proofs are the Ahadith of Hishaam ibn Urwa, which had been proven weak. No, I'm not dissing the Sahabi Hishaam ibn Urwa. He's reliable in the books of Ahmad because his Ahadith were collected in the Peninsula, but Bukhari et al collected his Hadith outside the Peninsula at a time when there was question mark of his reliability. So yeah, we take it that you were ignorant about this and willing to pardon your mistake. {Everyone makes mistakes}, providing you make a disclaimer video otherwise we will brand you as a deviant who not only quotes weak Hadith but also a wicked scholar who' s pushing noncery to tarnish the reputation of the good mainstream Muslim community.

@BRAVE_BALLZ Жыл бұрын

AL7AMDULILAH ☝️

@zack95 5 ай бұрын

When you need to justify a point by it's context, then the message is not universal anymore. How do deal with that since we consider our holy Quran to be universal and Rassoul PBUH to be the perfect example of what a human should be ?

@irenegyu7949 Ай бұрын

Learn Islam. We call it as asbabun nuzul, we do care of the context, time, and culture. All muslim women should wear hijab for example. But every country and time has different style of clothing. As long as they stick to the guidance, nothing wrong in it. Islam is way of life, not a law nor rule. Muslim Indoensia, muslin arabs, muslim america, they are different. But they stick to one common thing, pray for example. Style how you pray even can be different. Pork is haram, but if you have nothing to eat, you can eat it. That is islam.

@zack95 Ай бұрын

@@irenegyu7949 maybe I should learn about my religion, but should also learn to not consider people stupid or ignorant. I know what is Sabab nouzoul and what you said is everything but sabab nouzoul. Sabab nouzoul literally means the reason of the revelation. Nothing to do with my question. Is Quran universal and timeless ? The answer is Yes. Is Mohammad PBUH a perfect example ? The answer is Yes. Then explain age of Aisha please, considering Quran is universal and timeless, and rassoul PBUH is an example we should follow.

@trillanthropistgawd8488 Ай бұрын

@@zack95the only thinking Muslim in this comment section

@wawaweewa9159 Жыл бұрын

37:40, never thought of it like that hhahaahah so true, tomorrow theyll pull something else out their arse and demand everyne to conform... oh wait they doing that already.

@adamlabnaki9216 Жыл бұрын

I think a great argument could be put forward for saying that sexual orientation is also a social construct

@al-imranadore1182 Жыл бұрын

It is most definitely a social construct, nobody is attracted to same sex naturally it's an adaptive choice due being an inadequate in certain things in life, having an attraction to the same sex is caused by choosing to not overcome certain inadequacies. It's not inherently wrong but it's not natural either.

@kapiltriv 6 ай бұрын

bruh, you get gay lambs these days @@al-imranadore1182

@concerned_parent Жыл бұрын

You are ignoring the European Marriage Pattern which saw the Mean Age of First Marriage for females in the mid-20s from the 1400s. This is even in J. Brown's "Misquoting Muhammed". In 1558-1603 (Elizabethan Era) " The common belief in Elizabethan England was that motherhood before 16 was dangerous; popular manuals of health, as well as observations of married life, led Elizabethans to believe that early marriage and its consummation permanently damaged a young woman's health, impaired a young man's physical and mental development, and produced sickly or stunted children. Therefore, 18 came to be considered the earliest reasonable age for motherhood and 20 and 30 the ideal ages for women and men, respectively, to marry.". Puberty was not relevant for when women married. Women married at 150%-200% of the onset of menarche age for safe motherhood because the pelvic floor and birthcanal in women do not mature until the late teens. So early teen pregnancies are high risk for the girls and the babies.

@concerned_parent Жыл бұрын

That part I quoted is from the wikipedia page on the Western European Marriage Pattern and it is referenced to Franson, J. Karl (1996). "'Too Soon Marr'd': Juliet's Age as Symbol in 'Romeo and Juliet'". Papers on Language & Literature. 32 (3): 244. which used to be available in zlib.

@nanashi7779 Жыл бұрын

@@concerned_parent What does this have to do with any of the arguments Hijab put forth?

@concerned_parent Жыл бұрын

@@nanashi7779 Muhammed Hijab tries to claim it was normal until the 1900s. It was not. People married in their mid 20s from the 1400s.

@al-imranadore1182 Жыл бұрын

1400s is still modern age compared to when Muhammed married 9YO.

@sar_performance_nutrition 9 ай бұрын

Europe didn’t have the best science until quit recently in history. Victorians used to consume mummies you know…. Medically, after puberty, younger pregnancies are accepted to be less damaging to the body. And historically the mental and physical maturity of both genders have taken longer and longer to be obtained, the further along time we go. A 9 yr old boy in a war torn country even today is likely more mentally mature than some 30yr old guys now tiktoking as their main gig. And the delaying of physical maturity as time goes by is an established fact. Even today, some regions show very early maturity compared to europe. Lifestyle factors have a lot to do with that. Also in Blackstone’s commentary of England’s laws state that in 1700s, 7 was the age at which a girl could be married off.

@abdullahassaffah Жыл бұрын

We have three authentic narration of how old aisha radiallahuanha may have been number one 6 and 9 hadith then the 7 and 10 hadith and last she was a playfull young girl when verse of surah najm was revealed while that narration does still make the 6 and 7 hadith option possible many scholars said that the age of 3 4 wouldnt be a age a child would remmeber this accurately and her description of playful young girl puts her more in the zone of 5 or 6 when this happened meaning she was 6 to 9 when she got engaged to the prophet salallahualayuwasallam 9 to 12 when she got married to the prophet salallahualayuwasallam and 10 to 13 when she moved into the house of prophet salallahualayuwasallam She couldve been any of those ages mentioned somehting that was known to be common in those days ali radiallahuanhu we have narrations thay say he was 6 when prophethood began and 9 when prophethood began 3 year gap same as aisha radiallahuanha uthman radiallahuanhu his age is also put in a gap of 3 years fatima radiallahuanha has a bigger difference which has some narrations claiming she was born 5 years before prophethood or 5 years after prophethood started both unikely to the more likely correct opinion that she was born in the year of prophethood or a year after prophethood so she has a age difference of 10 years from the 5 year narration As for dolls as the brother said toys dolls even a 14 year old still plays with them both in todays time and past but we known some children at young age stop playing with toys example fatima. Radiallahuanha was known to be more serious from 6 to 10 in comparison to aisha radiallahuanha hence she wouldnt play with toys or hang out with friends as she felt she needed to support her father she also saw her father get beaten up sahaba get beaten up hence her mindset was very different to aisha radiallahuanha Bpth were of same similar age and their relationship of sisterly friendship identifies their great relatonship and bond

@Just_A_Stranger Жыл бұрын

🌟🌟 Ibn Khaldun : >

@voiceforpalastinerohingyau2507 Жыл бұрын

She was a adult At-Tirmidhi said: 'Aishah said: When a girl reaches the age of nine years, she is already a woman. Sunan at-Tirmidhi (2/409) . In Islam you can't do something which is something harmful to you or to others .for example alcohol and cigarettes is not directly prohibited from Quran or sunnah but still we can say its prohibited bcz of its harmful so for today's a 9 years old girl shouldn't involve in sex . Especially when mother marry alai Salam gave birth to isa alai Salam, she was a teenager right ? But today's world it's not safe for a teenager to give birth to a child . Just like the miracle birth of isa alai Salam. The marriage of mother Aisha rali also exceptional. Especially It's not mandatory to marry a young girl . Btwn do check about world's youngest mother who gave birth to a child at the age of 5 .

@thibzlatanp729 3 ай бұрын

@muratbeyoglu1087 Жыл бұрын

Aisha(r.a.) married with Prophet(s.a.v.), when she was around her 18. There are several authentic hadith narrations about the age of certain woman which seems contradicting with each other. And, we can find several examples on these contradictions; 1 - Some narrations says Khadija(r.a.) was 28, some says 40, during her marriage 2 - Some narrations says Aisha(r.a.) was 9, some imply she was 17, during her marriage 3 - Some narrations says Esma(r.a.) died when she was 100, some says around 90s ... So, all these authentic hadiths seem contradicting with each other due to an old Arab tradition: in the absence of a standard calendar, Arab society took certain important events as a milestone for their life, and they referred them when they need to count years. ARAB WOMEN USED TO COUNT THEIR AGES STARTING FROM THE FIRST TIME THEY OBSERVE MENSTURATION, since that is relatively important event for their life. You can find more information, and authentic references from a book written to only address this issue; "HZ. AISE KAC YASINDA EVLENDI" by Researcher Dr. Resit Haylamaz. (available in google books) God knows the best.

@AM-bm9rs Жыл бұрын

@AHK4680 Жыл бұрын

You used to get Afghan "boys" in secondary schools as well, it's so obvious hahaha.

@johnoops4633 Жыл бұрын

Muslims is Brother Muslim

@ineffableedge 6 ай бұрын

I wish I was present there attending these classes.

@dayzoflot2022 Жыл бұрын

TBH, this discussion doesn't make sense at all. I would go as far as calling it dumb! If you think Aisha married at the age you think then how do you explain that she was on the battlefield and yet a 14 year Old boy back in the day was prohibited from being on the battlefield, huh? Do you really think an under 14 old girl would be on the battlefield? Are you insinuating inconsistencies ? Astagfirullah! So it goes to show that you need to make a 'Part 3' video and arrive at a different conclusion.

@StudentOfKnowldge Жыл бұрын

14 year was prohibited? Idk about u but my great grandfather got married at a young age(and it was so normal that she didn't knew it would be different to us). Moreover kings like Babar, Akbar & others took over thrown of India at the age of 14-16.

@neuro944 Жыл бұрын

The yaqeeninstitute article went over this claim. Aisha couldn't have went to the battlefield as a soldier which you had to be 15 for. Rather, she went as a nurse to carry water skins to the soldiers. Can you kindly show me where a nurse was rejected for attending soldiers in the battlefield for their age? Surely a 14 year old boy wasn't going to enlist as a nurse.

@dayzoflot2022 Жыл бұрын

@@neuro944 Yaqeen Institute? You listen to them? 😆😆I feel sorry for you...God help you ! Allah musta'an Seriously, how can you trust these disbelievers when one of them said it was okay for people to insult the Messenger of Allah? Do you think anyone can talk like that in a Muslim country? Are you serious? So yeah, if you wanna follow them, slandering the Prophet (ص)’s family, putting spin on hadith and leaving Islam that's on you, but don't shove your BS down my throat.

@nhalikul Жыл бұрын

Lols😂not Mohamed Hijab drinking Caprisun. He should be drinking from a Gallon jar.

@emaanserghini1919 Жыл бұрын

The best argument hands down is the one made by Asadullah Ali. His article is one of the best if not *the best*. It addresses all contentions, and it has never failed me when confronting non-Muslims accusations. I don't mean to say to take the light off Hijab, but I wanted to mention it for those who want citations and read something well-written.

@MisterSolitude Жыл бұрын

do you have a link

@abdulrahman7183 Жыл бұрын

Please Send the link jazak Allah khayr

@emaanserghini1919 Жыл бұрын

YT doesn't allow to post links, but it's titled "Age of Aisha: an interdiscipilinary approach" . It's not a revisionist argument. It's based on the authentic narrations.

@nadirahmed4224 Жыл бұрын

@@emaanserghini1919 Although there were some good points, I agree with you these are not the best arguments... the main reason is because of SCIENCE - which states that sexual attraction to children is a mental disorder. Therefore it is categorically wrong from a scientific point view, Hijab was only looking at it from a moral point of view. The article you quoted is quite long, what exactly is the argument which is the best?

@al-imranadore1182 Жыл бұрын

@@nadirahmed4224 What is considered "children," by science is a ridiculously young age.

@humamaltamash4345 Жыл бұрын

You should not have given the left wing such a powerful argument😂😅

@asadshah3827 4 ай бұрын

It's a lot easier to fool someone than it's to convince them that they have been fooled. It was easier for Mohammed to fool oblivious pagan Arabians that he is a prophet from God than it's today to convince Muslims that they have been fooled by Mohammed.

@abdullahassaffah Ай бұрын

Benefits of marriage of rasulullah salallahualayuwasallam and aisha radiallahuanha Firstly we found out what the correct criteria for marriage is its not about being 18 16 12 all ages used in west rather it is about a women puberty physical mental maturity and readyness to get married regardless the age womenhood is based on puberty and physical mental development not age alone a 12 year old still may not hit puberty yet a 9 year old may have hit puberty and her mentality will be different to the girl who hasnt gone through puberty due to hormones and mental boost along with physical development Before going to the next part response to even some muslim is that she was not 18 19 at marriage infact she couldnt have been anything older then 12 at marriage so those muslim trying to impress the west you need to fix yourself according to three authentic narrations her age was 6 to 9 at engagement 9 to 12 at marriage and 10 to 13 when she moved in with the prophet salallahualayuwasallam she wouldnt have been anything younger or older those are the possiboe ages, in those days age dispute was common, fatima radiallahuanha the daughter of prophet salallahualayuwasallam narrations show she was born 5 years before or 5 years after prophethood both these are unlikely the more agreed possible date of her birth is born on the year of the prophethood or a year after prophethood had started her husband ali radiallahuanhu its said he was 6 9 or 10 when prophethood began so theres a 4 year gap in his age, uthman radiallahuanhu had a 3 year difference for his year of birth you will see for many sahaba their age is slightly disputed but we have a rough idea on how old they couldve been but no doubt she was nothing older then 12 at marriage and 9 minimum Second benefit of her young marriage was she was of a similar or same age as fatima radiallahuanha the daughter of prophet salallahualayuwasallam depending on which narrations you accept, when she moved in with the prophet salallahualayuwasallam he moved fatima in the same house as aisha radiallahuanha where she quickly became friends with her and would remain close to her even after the prophet salallahualayuwasallam death, also she aisha radiallahuanha got the best of examples to follow there was prophet of allah the best of creation and there was the daughter of the prophet who was one of the four perfect women, she aisha radiallahuanha living with these two great people was a great learning experiance for her in every way she saw how their relationship was their manners good behaviour and in fatima radiallahuanha she had a women to look upto for all this Last benefit to mentioned she lived upto her 60s or 70s where she narrated the second most hadith of sahaba and spread knowledge

@user-we9jc5zf6d Жыл бұрын

a child is an human that hasn't reached maturity.

@user-ls4tv6np7b 6 ай бұрын

9 year old is a child however you argue it. 53 year old is an old man however young he is in his attitude. do not defend it.

@fahadiit9144 5 ай бұрын

Aisha was not 9. She was 11 or 12

@user-ls4tv6np7b 5 ай бұрын

11 or 12 year old is a child however you argue it. 53 year old is an old man however young he is in his attitude. do not defend it.

@matthoffman6962 3 ай бұрын

@@fahadiit9144that’s not why Bukhari mentioned. I really don’t think there is denying that she was 6 and then 9 when he married her. It’s in Hadiths

@anteupofficial8477 3 ай бұрын

Did you watch the video and listen to it lmao, define child? Than tell me why your definition makes sense and how it supersedes everyone else definitions. If it's not a biological definition basically it's a social construct you can't prove/defend as other countries and places would disagree with your definition. And you won't have proofs to show what changes from child to adult. What the difference even is. Imo you're using an age based definition of child or the age wouldn't really matter, what should matter is the Biological and physiological processes, and wether or not Harm occurred.

@nahidaakter1492 3 ай бұрын

She is 9 and she hits puberty that's mean she was teenager .... A female Child can't hit puberty when she is her in teenage that time she hits puberty .. That is the prove that she was more than 9 .....

@BlurryFace-ro3mp 3 ай бұрын

The church defined an adult as someone of 21. Stop lying

@mohdfaiez44 11 ай бұрын

here i will give answer why Mohammad marriage with Aisha is not a bad thing but a good thing so here we will break this into different angle of attack happen: marrying a nine year old is wrong : bro that was 1400 year ago they are not living for fun but for survival and mortality rate was like 25-30 years and lot of child are not able to make it till 20 even if you look Mohammad's child so only one child crossed her 20 , and 10 of his son and daughter did not make it before 20 so if you think it was just culture so it's not, rather than it was a necessary thing to do to increase population ,and population was a big thing at that time otherwise you will be annihilated in war , and 9 year old girl of 1400 ago is different than todays 9 year old girl they are more exposed to society so phycology and physically they are ready to marry at young age. so whenever parents see that their child are ready to marry so they fix their child marriage. The only consent was asked to girl if she ready to marry a guy or not. so Mohammad was 52 years old and Aisha was 9 years old : so first thing which needed to be clear that Mohammad did not ask for marriage but Aisha's aunt sent proposal to marry prophet with Aisha, so denying the marriage would be more wrong because of age because it would send a message that person cannot marry young child which would be disastrous for population growth because everybody have to reproduce before you die and now Aisha R.A knew she is going to marry prophet and she accepted the proposal and marriage was done between them . so do that mean prophet is Muslim role model so they also should be marry a girl at young age: no we don't have to , Prophet used to ride horses that doesn't mean that we also have to ride horses now , prophet used to do use different medication when he got injured so that does not mean that we also have to to that , so now Muslim have pretty guideline which prophet also followed which is girls physically , mentally should be ready for marriage and in today's time these condition are set on age of girl like 16 or 17 which is legal age of marriage which is also for Muslim . Now I will tell you why it's a good thing: its a good thing for Muslim because. Aisha was great scholar and she produced very authentic hadith and Aisha is the only wife who provided hadith through which ummah get to know personal thing about prophet because that what only wife can know. She lives 47 years after prophet death and she provided a lot of knowledge for Islam through her whole life even once she thinks that things are not according to Muslim than she waged a war , even Muslim women can learn from prophet wife what are the rights are given to Muslim women because she tends to be very debative women , from hadith we can see there are many times that Aisha debated with prophet and if you look her life you get to know that she was not oppressed at all as shown by people .

@dianab6590 7 ай бұрын

what hasthis got to dowith marrying 9 year olds?? it is a juxtaposition, children from poor families helped out on farms etcthey were sent to school more if they richer families. this has nothing to do with marrying a child, ur absolutely disgusting trying to conflate the two.

@goosemonroe2695 5 ай бұрын

the example for Christians is Jesus. The Bible is very clear: There are ceremonial laws, ritual laws and moral laws. The Bible says we shouldn't eat mouse, but this is for taking care of the body. You are not going to hell for that. Jesus came for fullfill a new covenant, the promised since Genesis. Jesus came to explain and fullfill the heart of the law. Nothing has changed, the old Testament laws are not essential for salvation, because of this Jesus came :for saving through undeserved grace. Nobody can obey 100% the law. A real believer tries hard but can't. Salvation is for Grace. Killing is wrong, marrying a 6 years old also, it's disgusting

@user-du5tg4si2j 6 ай бұрын

Aisha?

@Nellytheelephant2012 5 ай бұрын

Hijab although I respect the work you do defending islam on this issue you have made a massive mistake. The scholars who defend the hadtih have to do so in profound error of the Qur'an. The Qur'an is Al-Furqan and Absloute Truth that Judges the hadith not the hadtih that judges rhe Qur'an. In the Qur'an Nikkah which permits sexual intercourse is ONLY to a WOMAN! The Qur'an defines what a woman is so we don't need Hijab or any other scholars define it because the Qur'an explains it well without the need for external reasoning. Submit the interlect to the reasoning of the Qur'an. Some people use a solitary verse in the Qur'an to justify the Hadith to marry a girl of 9 or 6 Surah At Talaq 65:4: such of your women as have passed the age of monthly menstral cycles, for them them the prescribed period.... For those who have no menstral courses it is the same.... Such a woman who doesn't have her monthly menses either be one of two things. 1. She has not reached the age of puberty hence a child of 9 Or 2. A woman who suffers from abnormal menseses Which of the two is the Qur'an refering to? The Qur'an defines Nisa as Harth meaning a field which is ploughed so that seed can be planted with the hope that they will fertilise to grow and and produce crop: Al-Baqarah, 2: 223 ...your women are your Harth meaning tilth or field: go, then unto your tilth as you may desire... So for a girl to become a Nisa woman eligible for sex she must reach the age of puberty because only at this age her womb biologically develops into the Harth or a field ready for cultivation. Prior to that age she is a child who's womb cannot be cultivated since no seed can ever be fertilized and grow. This is further reinforced in Al-Nisa, 4:3 ... the orphan (girl), you can marry those from amongst them who have become women... So you can marry orphan girls only when they reach the age of puberty making them into women. In addition to puberty Al-Nisa, 4: 6 ... you have to test the orphans until they reach the age of Nikah (woman). So, if you determine she is mentally mature give her inheritance to her. Therefore, if in addition to puberty a woman who reaches the age or nikkah must also be mentally mature. It is unequivocal the hadith in sahih Al bukhari that declared the prophet's marriage to a six or nine years according to other narrations is in manifest conflict with the Qur'an. Therefore, it is a FALSEHOOD! and FABRICATION! Those who defend the hadith should have the integrity to declare it is a sunnah to marry a six or a nine year old child and that they themselves prepared and to apply this sunnah, since Allah Most High declared in Al-Ahzab, 33: 21 ... That the conduct of the blessed prophet is the best example of human conduct. In addition according to the school of fiqh if a sunnah is left to die then the entire ummah is responsible for neglecting the sunnah and therfore, sinful. The scholars who defend this hadith should explain why Nobody including them is willing to follow this sunnah and elevate the burden of sin that is upon the ummah. If the scholars say this was only exclusive for the prophet like him having more than four wives then this is the clear exception given by Allah in the Qur'an. Then, be careful not to attribute a lie to Allah in your sham attempt to defend the hadith literature as Allah has not said this. Therefore, to attribute to the prophet that which you cannot defend or follow yourself is a blatant lie against the prophet that you will have explain on judgement day to the prophet when you reach Al-kawthar.

@Kapojos 7 ай бұрын

But still muhammad was in his 50s when he married 9 year old aisha!!!!!

@arthurholmes2210 25 күн бұрын

Isaac was 40 and Rebekah was 3!

@Just_A_Stranger Жыл бұрын

*17:11* Whoever rejects this rejects human history and is also a fool when it comes to history Marriage later than puberty marked the lower classes and poor financial ability in ancient Europe, while The upper classes and wealthy merchants etc tended to marry younger as they had the means to house themselves and provide for a family at a younger age. The legal age of consent to marriage was twelve for girls and fourteen for boys, though betrothal might be arranged at a younger age by ambitious parents. Lady Margaret Beaufort (Countess of Richmond and Derby), mother of Henry VII of England, married as a seven *7* year old girl Queen Isabella of Valois, daughter of Charles VI of France, married Richard II of England as a second wife when she was six *6* years old girl The problem is that scientists say: "There was no such thing as adolescence, And our generation now has adolescence that continues to the age of 25, And It increases generation after generation"

@billyjesus5442 Жыл бұрын

yeah its really sick the kind of things that used to go on. Fortunately that backward medieval mindset has been erased from much of the globe.

@Just_A_Stranger Жыл бұрын

Watch the full video *17:11*

@SIGSEGV1337 Жыл бұрын

"Today, with teens trapped in the frivolous world of peer culture, they learn virtually everything they know from one another rather than from the people they are about to become. Isolated from adults and wrongly treated like children, it is no wonder that some teens behave, by adult standards, recklessly or irresponsibly." [The Myth of the Teen Brain, Robert Epstein]

@concerned_parent Жыл бұрын

Full history includes that the risk of harm to a 9 year old was serious enough to have made intercourse with 9 year olds illegal. Minor Marriage in Early Islamic Law, Carolyn G. Baugh, LEIDEN | BOSTON, 2017 "Middle Persian civil law allowed marriage at age nine, provided that consummation wait until age twelve." “Byzantine law required that a girl attain the age of thirteen before contract-ing a marriage. Whether she would have consented to the marriage or not prior to this age is deemed immaterial as she would have no legally viable consent to give. All parties to a marriage needed to issue consent, including the groom, the bride, and her parents. In cases where a girl consented to intercourse prior to marriage it was assumed that she consented to the marriage itself and the families would then arrange it. However, if that intercourse occurred prior to the age of thirteen, the groom would meet with the law’s most serious punish-ments due to the girl’s assumed legal inability to consent." They had made it illegal because the medical risks were known. This study by a sunni shows that the medical risks were known. CHILD MARRlAGE IN ISLAMIC LAW, By Aaju. Asbraf Ali, THE INSTITUTE OF ISLAMIC STUDIES MCGILL UNIVERSITY, MONTREAL, CANADA, August, 2000 pp 106-107 “Medical Consequences of Child Marriage Modem Medicine shows that childbirth for females below the age of seventeen and • above forty leads to greater maternal mortality as well as infant mortality ... The closer a woman is to menarche, the greater the risk to both mother and child, as well as to the mother's future child bearing capabilities, for the reproductive system has not completely matured when ovulation begins". …… Another problem seen more often among underprivileged women is that they develop fistulae which is often due to the pelvis not having fully formed. This can be caused by a complicated pregnancy or having intercourse at a very young age.28. This leads the girl or woman to have permanent damage and often she is shunned by her family and community (4). ……... Knowledge of medical complications involved with early marriage cannot be considered "new" findings. Ancient and Medieval Medicine texts indicate that doctors were well aware of the physical harm posed to girls by early marriages and pregnancies. ……..In fact, not only doctors of Medicine but other scholars in Most societies had a clear understanding that intercourse should not take place before the menarche. Hesiod suggested marriage in the fifth year after puberty, or age nineteen, and Plato in the Laws mandated from sixteen to twenty years of age, and in the Republic he gave the age as twenty. Aristotle specifically warned against early childbearing for women as a cause of small and weak infants and difficult and dangerous labor for the mother, and the Spartans avoided it for just those reasons.” So the risk of mortality and fistula was clearly known in Muhammed’s time. That is why Muhammed can be rejected for his behaviour. .

@concerned_parent Жыл бұрын

@@codylittle7259 His actions were considered immoral in his own time. Minor Marriage in Early Islamic Law, Carolyn G. Baugh, LEIDEN | BOSTON, 2017 "Middle Persian civil law allowed marriage at age nine, provided that consummation wait until age twelve.[24]" Byzantine law required that a girl attain the age of thirteen before contract-ing a marriage. Whether she would have consented to the marriage or not prior to this age is deemed immaterial as she would have no legally viable consent to give.[22] All parties to a marriage needed to issue consent, including the groom, the bride, and her parents. In cases where a girl consented to intercourse prior to marriage it was assumed that she consented to the marriage itself and the families would then arrange it. However, if that intercourse occurred prior to the age of thirteen, the groom would meet with the law’s most serious punish-ments due to the girl’s assumed legal inability to consent.[23]" Both dominant neighbouring empires of Muhammed had made it illegal to have intercourse with 9 year olds. Looks like Muhammed forgot to consult about the health risks to a girl that was too young to understand the risks to her as a minor.

@chahinebourenane6291 2 ай бұрын

i expected better honestly....

@yaseenameen545 Жыл бұрын

I found this video very uncomfortable to watch - it's almost as if they are justifying child abuse. Instead of the tonnes of disputing we could do with this Bukhari narration, some have loyalty to Bukhari to such an extent that it can't be questioned like the Quran! What bizarre conclusions and half baked arguments (eg childhood is a social construct!) to defend the indefensible. Children exist, period - they cannot consent to marriage contracts with older men! In the previous video it stated that Aisha RA playing with dolls doesn't signify her immaturity because some weird adults play with dolls! What half baked arguments - no wonder non Muslims laugh at us and apostasy rates are high.

@ishxyzaak Жыл бұрын

You literally have no arguments, do you? What exactly is your point? BTW we muslims don't care about what some kafir think. We aren't here to please them.

@yaseenameen545 Жыл бұрын

@@ishxyzaak The point is that a hadith mentioned in Bukhari isn't infallible. There could be many reasons why this would be mistaken. The Quran urges us to marry WOMEN. A child, at the age of 6 is no woman. A woman can't consent. Marriage is a consent contract. Children can't engage in contracts. A Muslim child isn't even obliged to pray at the age of 6, or even 9! The arguments in this video stating that childhood is a social construct is one of the most stupidest things I've ever heard..

@ishxyzaak Жыл бұрын

@@yaseenameen545 according to who can a child who reaches puberty not marry if they live in an environment that allows them to mature mentally faster? I'm sorry but your liberal societies today are not the historical standard but rather are the anomaly. If a child that reaches puberty at 10 or 11 today can have sex as we have many doing today, do you not think that it would only make sense that they are also supposed to be socially mature to be responsible for what comes out of that? It's unfortunate that our society doesn't raise children to be socially mature when they reach puberty as every society has been doing since the paleolithic age.

@farhanshawkat558 Жыл бұрын

@@yaseenameen545 believe me a lot of bizarre things were common back then which now for us is peculiar and unjust. Although I haven't watched the full video I believe there are more arguments rather than the social construct thing. Also, remember there is still not enough proof to justify the hadith. I hope such a matter not yet proven thing would be sufficient to impact your relationship with God.

@cocoalfaridah5831 Жыл бұрын

@@ishxyzaak 😢 if you aren’t here for kafir, what are you doing in their area, countries?

@dadir13505 5 ай бұрын

Aisha was 17 to 21 history shows stop this nonsense

@goosemonroe2695 5 ай бұрын

Oh really? Hadid is very clear :she was 6. Stop defending that Islam, Islam comes from Satan

@simbam12 Жыл бұрын

What’s wrong with u speaking bad about the scholars who spent there lives working so hard to spread the sunnah and u here speak bad about Abdul wahab who are u

@user-we9jc5zf6d Жыл бұрын

lol. i thought y'alls morality came from god, not social constructs.

@sosnikit 13 күн бұрын

he want some young !

@roshanchaudhry7348 Жыл бұрын

The life expectancy was approx 45 back then.

@Ibaaz33 Жыл бұрын

Lower. During the 7th century it was between 30-35

@itsallinyourhead8251 Жыл бұрын

@@Ibaaz33 so Muhammad was ancient and fancied a child 🤮

@cocoalfaridah5831 Жыл бұрын

@@Ibaaz33 😂😂 Good catch!!!! from verse 4 of Surah 65. In this verse, it says: “And as to such of your women as have despaired of menstruation, if you be in doubt thereof, their waiting period is three months, as also of those who have not yet menstruated. And as to those who are pregnant, their term is when they give birth.”

@dmytoe5679 Жыл бұрын

@@cocoalfaridah5831 What do you make of this verse? What do you suppose it's talking about?

@cocoalfaridah5831 Жыл бұрын

@@dmytoe5679 I dont make verse..

@mistermurtad2831 Жыл бұрын

Please keep defending and being open about child marriage and consummation. If repulses those you wish to convert.

@ishxyzaak Жыл бұрын

And we could care less

@mistermurtad2831 Жыл бұрын

@@ishxyzaak Then why did you reply?

@ishxyzaak Жыл бұрын

@@mistermurtad2831 to let you know

@mistermurtad2831 Жыл бұрын

@@ishxyzaak So you don't care to make a rational defense against the accusations that Muhammad is a false prophet because his immoral behavior was ordained by what you claim is holy? You don't care to spread Islam by peaceful argument so that more people can follow the same prophet as you? Do you only want to convert by force of arms? Or do you not care about people?

@AM-bm9rs Жыл бұрын

we don;t want arrogant people to convert anyway

@billyjesus5442 Жыл бұрын

i remember when this guy was going down speakers corner saying she was 6 and 9, now he's doing everything to claim otherwise? Is this another case of "holes in the narrative".

@Just_A_Stranger Жыл бұрын

Watch the full video *17:11*

@Kimeikus Жыл бұрын

He’s playing devil’s advocate bro

@billyjesus5442 Жыл бұрын

@@ishxyzaak yeah thats pretty dirty, which really shows how bad 60 and 6 is. the adult double the age and the child half the age.

@ishxyzaak Жыл бұрын

@@billyjesus5442 according to whose standard?

@sena5701 Жыл бұрын

Aisha was not 6 or 9, she was around 19 and there are countless articles and pamphlets that go over the evidence that prove this. Stop destroying the honor of our prophet with this outright falsehood.

@sneaky5412 Жыл бұрын

do you have daleel of her being 19 this is my first time hearing this

@Kimeikus Жыл бұрын

The honor of the prophet ﷺ is not determined by or connected to subjective 21st century definitions of childhood. Please don’t fear the blame of the blamer.

@SIGSEGV1337 Жыл бұрын

All of them are clearly and obviously flawed. Even if she was there is nothing forbidding marrying a 14 year old or a 13 year old anywhere in the Qur'an and sunnah, so you would still have a problem to contend with.

@kaz4845 Жыл бұрын

Those theories are based on conjecture rather than clear evidence. Are you a hadith rejector?

@Faith-in-the-One Жыл бұрын

Prophet Muhammed's enemies spread false narration about Aisha being nine or six years old, but Muhammad himself was never quoted as stating anything like this. It is from those unreliable sources that we hear about Muhammad marrying a young girl of nine named Aisha, when in essence, Aisha was nineteen at the time of betrothal. (The only thing that makes sense is that Allah intentionally allows a lie like this to spread about our prophet because He does not want certain groups of evil people to accept Islam so those Islamophobics use this excuse not to become Muslim, but Allah knows best.) Prophet Muhammad had no reported scandals in his youth, and at the age of 25, he married an elderly widow named Khadeejah. It is obvious that he did not marry her for sexual gratification but for love and mutual respect. Of all the accusations laid against Muhammad, his critics love to accuse him of pedophilia. They say that Muhammad was a pedophile or a child molester because he allegedly married a young girl. This accusation is made to de-legitimize the authority of prophet Muhammad as a moral and spiritual guide. So, Islam-bashers and Muslim-haters have a field day when they play the pedophilia card in a debate. Arab historians say Aisha was sixteen years old at the time of betrothal and was married at the age of nineteen, but that the prophet never consummated any of his marriage beside the first marriage with the noble older woman.

@quicktingz2097 Жыл бұрын

Bending over backwards to protect Bukhari's book instead of defending our Prophet. Absolutely disgusting.

@Kimeikus Жыл бұрын

I don’t know about you but these are actually very powerful arguments. There’s no bending over backwards. We are actually putting the critics on the back foot and showing how absurd and ahistorical their claims are. If you can’t see that, then you are basically affirming their analysis of the Hadith before rejecting it, in which case you must be incorrect as well.

@UmerKhan-zy2sg Жыл бұрын

@@Kimeikus leave them bro if they still don’t understand after all these lectures and answers, as Allah says in the Quran, there is a veil over their hearts. They will continue their arrogance until they meet their Lord. Don’t waste breath on these fools. Plenty of sincere non Muslims looking for the truth

@Kimeikus Жыл бұрын

@@UmerKhan-zy2sg Exactly bro They’re not even engaging with anything that’s being said, they’re just throwing out silly emotional arguments like: “you won’t defend the honor of prophet” and other nonsense about the authenticity of the Hadith. Imagine thinking that the prophet’s honor is dictated by how well he adhered to a 21st Century European man’s opinion as to what constitutes as a child. That sounds way more like bending over backwards if you ask me.

@hh-hj9fn Жыл бұрын

i agree. if anyone actually looked into the controversies of hadiths then they would know how hypocrticial they are.

@cocoalfaridah5831 Жыл бұрын