How to Declutter without Guilt when Messes come back | Bathroom & Makeup Clean Out

[@sherrygantt2158]

You are amazing. You were tossing things without hesitation. You just kept letting things go. Look forward to more bathroom refresh videos.

[@leelouh]

Ms Heart, I really hope I explain this properly. I absolutely love to watch you, but I often find it difficult. Firstly, I have to be in the correct head-space...while I'm not a butterfly, I am a hoarder and watching you can be...triggering. Secondly, when I am in the correct head-space, watching you is difficult as I have to keep pausing to go and tidy/organise/clean/declutter due to your inspiration. I dearly hope you see this because you have no idea what you have done for both me and my family. What watching you has started, what watching you has caused to grow and blossom, and the love I now have for not just clean and clear spaces, but my own clean and clear spaces! A joy which has flourished under your inspiration.

[@debratakagawa4764]

I’m so glad you have found a way to help yourself. Wishing you peace so you can make your own journey.

[@debgamble8368]

I’m so glad you are on this amazing journey with Miss Heart. Wishing you lots of peace and success for the days and years to come 🥰

[@ThKiwi]

I’m glad that you know yourself well enough to know when to watch and when to wait. ❤ That kind of self knowledge is not easy to learn!

[@debgamble8368]

Miss Heart, I love that you are the only one out there talking about real life solutions for peeps with hoarding disorders. Recognising that it’s a lifetime work in progress and always celebrating your wins makes me smile. Also I love that you show the world that self love and understanding is one of the main keys to success. 💕💕💕

[@pattyjames4956]

Make sure to put a clock on the wall in your bathroom. It helps me keep up with what time it is to get out of the house on time. 😁

[@tgayer1]

Or set a timer

[@keelienne]

That is a great idea! Also the soapthingy should get painted with clear nail polish on the bottom, that prevents it from rusting 🙂

[@ΕλένηΣιδέρη-ο1β]

I have osd and i have put clocks in evey room

[@cb9825]

This video starts with a cat's butt and I like it!😂

[@ahoardersheart]

😂😂😂

[@eileenlester4342]

😂

[@dominiquewoodward8548]

🎉

[@denisemarie6131]

How can I “donate” money to this channel ???? Thank you

[@heatherroberson8981]

@@denisemarie6131, there’s a thanks button with a dollar sign in it for one time donations.

[@beckysam3913]

you could get another pot for the currently used brushes and another for dirty eyeshadow brushes, that way, they do not make mess and leave stains by laying on the counter or rolling around. maybe you like a magnifying mirror that is mounted on the wall that can be extended toward you, a flexibel one which you can pull and push away. the less you have items on counters or surfaces, the better. have a nice day xo

[@cb9825]

I love the mirror idea👍🏽

[@Saforra99]

that's a great idea to have 2 pots for clean + used :) (just like at the doctor's office (during that tricky time :) with freshly-disinfected-pens + used ones ;) )

[@margaretjab09]

Adding a small recycle can next to the garbage can in my bathroom really helped get empty packaging out quicker so it didn’t sit on the counters. This way when I am going around before trash night I can take this out as well

[@absurdistsloth]

yes this!! it’s honestly such a handy fix to stop the empty soap bottles or cardboard lying around 😅

[@TexasAlabama]

Great idea! I'm a huge recycler, so I get very upset and leave stuff all over the place because I don't have a recycle bin upstairs.

[@mtncreekdawn]

Yay for a stress-free session! Brainstorming: 1. Maybe handle your makeup like your clothes & swap things out seasonally? That would give you a scheduled refresh every 6 months. Plus with a rotation plan, you wouldn't as many pretties out at once so the regular 'hot spot' cleaning would be less overwhelming. It might help keep your pretties from becoming crazies. 😁 2. One of my mantras is "maximize the vertical & minimize the horizontal". That means using wall or shelf organizers for storage while floors & countertops are left mostly clear for walk-space & work-space. Maybe install couple of flexible hanging rails (just like people do in kitchens) with hooks for hanging tools & little adjustable baskets/shelves for bottles? 3. Maybe treat your bathroom a mini makeover? It wouldn't have to be as extensive as when you did your master bedroom. Examples: Some new drawer handles; faux marble contact paper on the countertop & drawer fronts; a new faucet with prettier handles; cute liner paper inside the drawers (that could be swapped out when something spills).

[@moniquefuselier7711]

The counter looks great. When I think back to how "full" it was even when you would declutter, it's even more amazing!

[@beautyplayground]

maybe you could add a second bin under the sink that is solely for paper / packaging? this was you can clean up the countertop and still collect it and later bring to the recycling bin :)

[@ahoardersheart]

You got it!! Great minds think alike!! I was writing out what I could use to make it easier to stay tidy… and a little recycle bin was definitely one of them!!!

[@aldawnadee357]

I feel like your channel could be used in the mental health treatment community 🎉 for hoarding disorders! Bravo! What a life purpose! 🎉❤

[@sula1529]

I hope so.. just found this channel so need to explore more videos

[@porcelina956]

Don't beat yourself up everybody gets busy and forgets to clean up the bathroom. You did a great job now you have a place to get ready in and not reach for empty cosmetics. Also, I am jelly you have your own bathroom.

[@sula1529]

I have visitors coming in 2 weeks. Can't even get into the spare bedroom. The bathrooms are full of junk as are the cupboards in the kitchen and all the work surfaces. I need to clean and scrub and every day tasks are taking up too much time 🙈

[@madz9198]

Mrs Hart your videos help me SO MUCH 💕🌸 I have a family history of hoarding and I have the same behaviors and your videos are a lifeline to help me understand and forgive myself as well as others. I’m beyond grateful you share your story and progress! Thank you.

[@donnanealis579]

Looking forward to seeing the next episodes. Even though I don't have hoarding disorder I find your videos to be very uplifting. We all have our own struggles and the kindness and grace you show to yourself and others is so helpful. Thanks for sharing your triumphs and set backs.

[@josephdaly2015]

You have the counter looking beautiful so quickly, well done 🙇‍♀️👏 With the soap dispenser holder, paint clear nail varnish on the bottom of it so it doesn’t leave rust stains. Looking forward to seeing you do this room again and you are off to a marvellous start. Have a great weekend. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍🙏💐🐈🦄

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you so much my dearest friend!! As always, your messages always cheer me up!! I hope you have a wonderful weekend 🦄💕🌟🙏🏼💜

[@pppetra]

I was going to tell the clear nailpolishtrick. And i agree to the rest, love the progress and the process

[@Saforra99]

haha, me too! so, yes! hooray for clear nail polish tricks :D

[@charminsavage2512]

I like the cover for your bottle of soap, I had one similar that I coated the bottom with clear nail polish to keep from rusting in a high-water area. I really appreciate that you don't go for an unrealistic empty look, but go for one that most people can attain and maintain with a bit of practice.

[@DistanceTraveled]

I love this one! It feels like you are giving your bathroom a spa day so you can have the next year full of girly spa nights whenever you want! ❤🎉🌈

[@susanpiaquadio7336]

It wasn't THAT bad when you started...you have come so far😊

[@pandabear4014]

I look forward to these videos each week. This group makes me feel happy.

[@poppinin9823]

Thank you so much for normally this for all of us fellow hoarders (and those who don't have it and are trying to understand us). I too am a butterfly and as I am reorganizing I am starting to replace my cheap dollar tree bins - I am going strictly to clear bins (mostly acrylic, but any clear bin works) and am finding those spaces are the ones that are working with so much less work. SO glad I found your channel - I love Cas from Clutterbug and the Minimal Mom, but I needed to find you to really make those things come together for me. I found you through a collab you did with minimal mom last year (not sure of time frame) and am so glad I did. Keep up the amazing work - what you do makes a huge difference!

[@kbal1451]

I think I've been watching you from the start. This was one of the first areas that you tackled and your whole frame of mind has changed so much for the better since then. Brilliant! Love the confidence from all your successes.

[@livc832]

This reminded me that I haven't cleaned my makeup brushes in quite a while. Thanks for the motivation to get that done today.

[@mellowwy6]

Wooo, you did an amazing job! Can't wait for redecorating. Also I've seen your hairdryer on the floor - and because it's a small space and you're a 🦋 maybe you could give hanging up your decives on command hooks a thought? It's visual, cheap, doesn't take up space and easy to put away. Just an idea! And now, I'm off to declutter my bathroom too 💕🌈

[@gigipaz5959]

Just an idea to place all of the crystals in one container to free up space on the counter top since it is a small space. You did a great job decluttering!❤❤

[@sulmaoropeza7848]

You are doing great! Can’t wait to see this space transform! Maybe add shelves to the right. Apply clear nail polish to the bottom of your soap dispenser holder to prevent the rust forming.

[@krystalrossi]

I love how easy it is for you to get rid of stuff that is old. I am not a hoarder by any means, but I always feel guilty unless I can find someone to give it too. Also I love all the affordable makeup. You don’t have to spend a lot to look great ❤😊

[@sandraglassner9618]

Make up expires so be careful what you’re donating

[@sandywlaschin3878]

Put some clear mail polish on the bottom of your soap dispenser so it doesn’t rust out on your counter.

[@angeladroesbeke415]

Hey Miss ❤ maybe one of your organisation drawers you have in the basement fits under the sink so it’s easier to manage and more butterfly friendly? Great job 😊 keep going !

[@valeriejkelly]

As someone who has also struggled with hoarding since a child, I can so relate. I love that this video is real and relatable.

[@ccelms6581]

WHEN you are at a high level of healing; YOU may be the one who actually creates the “12 steps” or however many steps it takes to go from a hoarder to an organizer!❤️😁👏🏾 I’ll be the first to buy that book, btw!🙋🏾‍♀️

[@Saforra99]

for sure! I agree! it may not be 12 steps but you are definitely creating some wonderful guidelines on how to work through the emotions and the things :D

[@crystalsdance]

Excellent job clearing out! Remember that cosmetics and cosmecutials have a picture of little jar with a lid on the back with a number. If the jar says 6, the item is to be discarded after 6 months. I can't remember if you knew this, but this might be helpful for those who do not! Also, that makeup eraser! Bless! I use mine with no product as detailed, and it takes off everything! Then, I immediately wash it with soap and water (I let it soak a bit) and it comes out perfectly clean. Remember that it is important to clean it with each use to keep it free from harmful bacterial growth. Your space looks better each time you tackle it! I'd find two of your pretty crystal vases or cups for your brushes. That will clear up that tray space (rathercthan lying them down) a lot, and you can see what you have quicker! Another tip, I take all of my brushes and wash them at least every other week or so. I use a cup with shampoo or dawn, add hot water, swish and bounce them every so often as they soak. Rinse and air dry, and they stay much healthier! Keep up your hard work! I look forward to your refresh of your space! Maybe you will add some if your lovies like your My Little Ponies, unicorns, dalmations, etc. It is YOUR SPACE, so add those things that are stored away and enjoy them! And, your completely allowed to just go wild! You have decorated the shelves nicely, but adding those things will thing you added joy! Blessings as you continue your joirney!

[@alicequinn5194]

Look great! If you put some clear nail polish on the bottom of your new soap dispenser it should stop it rusting onto the side when it gets wet like the old one did ☺ xxx

[@alanbirkner1958]

I am so proud of you. I am trying to change my own bad habits and it is so hard. Tina, Al's wife

[@Nenona1200]

I always try to remind myself that life is full of cycles. During summer you probably want certain things out--stuff to make cold drinks, supplies for lemonade, etc, and then in winter you probably want stuff out for cold drinks--and I accept that kind of cycle as part of life. So every week I try to like, just remove a layer--i don't expect things to be perfect, but I set the goal of doing *something*. My family has the same issues so I find myself cleaning out the fridge for them and taking out the trash regularly because I don't want things to get worse--but I'm still working with them. Doing things myself is far easier, so convincing them has been a process. I do find it helps them that if I say, clean out part of the laundry room, they'll often be inspired to do the rest of it, especially if the rest is their stuff. Any forward progress is better than none. I have also offered to take things to the thrift store to them to discourage them from putting things in a box and then procrastinating the errand, or "saving it for a yard sale". My dad also recently purchased a smaller house, but I don't know how he expects to sell this house when it's still pretty hoarded with stuff, and they'll likely need to get rid of 75% of things to make it comfortable to live at the new place. Right now he's seriously thinking about keeping part of the property(2 warehouses that are 100% full of stuff) and selling the house right next to them, assuming someone will pay 250k for a private drive with a junkyard next to a home.... It's hard. I struggle with interacting with my family because I have clutterbug tendencies, but I have also worked hard for the past 5-6 years to get more in the practice of getting rid of things I am just not using, and not acquiring new stuff unless I actually need it. My family feels unwilling to change their ways and get spending and stuff under control, but I want to keep trying, because they deserve to be in a space without expired food or trash, you know?

[@MrsHerzueberKopf]

After just starting the video. i Think you should put your my little pony collection on those shelves in the bathroom. you will see your beloved collection everyday!!

[@rebeckamattisson5083]

Wow, your little bathroom looks amazing and you cleaned the countertop so fast. 🎉🎉🎉

[@britt5753]

I love following your journey! I used do do professional organizing and your progress is just astounding! I love listening to how you talk yourself through things, which we all do when we're decluttering. I think you make such good points about feeling safe. I think that's a big one, to one degree or another, for most people. It might be voiced as, "I'll need this some day" or "when I lose weight I'll wear this", but in the end it comes down to a fear of not having enough. Thank you so much for bringing us along, and as a runner, I wish you nothing but a good tailwind and downhill slope! ❤

[@AuthenticallyAshley]

Please never get rid of the blue sink! It’s so retro but vibrant 😅love it and your videos

[@erinkerbs6789]

Trays and containers that corral things on flat surfaces are a great idea!

[@jessieloubamboo]

Congratulations on this achievement. Makeup and skincare are one of my hardest things to declutter and also my brain doesn't seem to recognise that I don't need any more lol. I'm slowly working on this ❤💄

[@stylenseason]

Thank you! I am not a hoarder. Usually very neat and organized. But for the past couple of months, things have been crazy that my work desk become cluttered to my standard. It made me feel iffy but often at the end of the day I am too tired to do anything about it. Most ot the house is still somehow neat and tidy but this corner, and I have been beating myself up about it. Thank you for the reminder to give ourselves grace.

[@stephanyec.7519]

Hi! I am a bee, super visual, just like you as a butterfly. One thing that has really helped me is using the shelves to put my everyday stuff, mixed with the decor! I think my stuff is beautiful (and when it isn't, I put it in a nice recipient, hahaha), maybe you could consider taking some things out of the drawers and countertop and putting them in the shelves you already have, along with the updated decor you are planning! I love your channel, kisses to you and Pepper ❤

[@joanlauridsen2288]

You have gotten very good at decluttering. Very good indeed! ❤

[@rg-mi5hh]

Something that helps me is putting things in a drawer that has drop in small containers. I have tried to keep all my stuff off the bathroom sinks. It helps me. It also helps to keep a low quantity of makeup. Less mess.

[@MellaYellow]

My daughter was killed by a drunk driver and now I hoard. Watching you gives me hope for me but also anxiety. 🥀

[@jeannebowes2898]

You are such a natural beauty, just a light touch of make up to play up your nice features!💌

[@lisaann6267]

awesome! Have a blessed weekend! 🙏🙏💗🤗🌺🌿🌻🌿🐈🥤🌸🌿🦄🦄💥💥

[@larissatom6910]

It may be easier to keep up with if you designate the counter for skin care and makeup only. The crystals could be moved to the shelf with other items for decoration. Seriously though it’s not bad that it took a year to become untidy. It’s a dynamic space that is used daily. Even those who do not identify as hoarders have spaces that become cluttered within a few months.

[@ellenstam-mulder3002]

you did so good i am proud on you. big hug Ellen

[@zzzeus78]

Ohhhhh Miss Pepper at the very end is TOO cute!

[@SalsaNube]

You did a fantastic work! Cannot waiy for the redecoration-I already know it will be stunning, as uou are very creative! And the gem rocks are so precious! As someone already mentioned, a small second been just for recyclings might be handy, so you will have less mess on the coutertop and can always tossy it in the big bucket once full or whenever you feel you want to do it (e.g. while cleaning the floors or similar). You rock, Mrs ❤!:)

[@nellieb4252]

Maybe consider using some of your fabulous my little ponies on one of the shelves. Would be a wonderful celebration and joy to look at every day. 💓💞💕

[@jennyjenkins877]

I'm impressed with how much you decluttered... great decision making!

[@theannamueller]

the bodyspritztray with the bottles on them looks soooooo pretty!

[@margaret1336]

Hint paint the bottom of that soap holder that goes rusty with some clear sealer.❤❤❤

[@care2998]

So satisfying!! Love how organized everything looks!!💕💕💕

[@koalafriend9851]

Put clear nail polish on anything that is metal like the soap holder you bought for your bday, that way it won't rust and leave the markings on your countertop. Good job on decluttering your home day by day.

[@elly2842]

Kinda neat I had this video suggested to me the day after I did a deeper cleaning of one of my bathrooms.

[@cherienewlove5666]

Great encouraging word, blessings to you Ms ❤️

[@charishurt1768]

Fantastic job looks beautiful 🦄💜

[@bethvlasman1748]

For your makeup palettes, have you considered stackable paper trays to organize them? It would give them a designated "home" while still being visible and easily accessible.

[@MsArtistwannabe]

So pretty and girlie. Looks amazing.

[@shirleyadkins4254]

Luv it, can' t wait 2 c more

[@alh9477]

Look up makeup cleaning bow at Five Below and they have some that has creases inside the bowl and they are good to use to clean your makeup brushes without having to touch the brushes with soap you hot water that will help you out more love your videos we've went through the same thing

[@amandadavis5658]

You're making such great progress!!!! great work!!!

[@amystewart9228]

Love it…. You should find small bins for recycling and trash then you can just toss it in there as soon as you find it.

[@francinehogsett3065]

Wow you did a wonderful job….just a suggestion under the soap dispenser maybe you could put a piece of cloth or small dish so the rust doesn’t get on your counter….I had the same problem 😊❤️

[@nellieb4252]

Clear nail varnish on the bottom of the soap dispenser if it starts to rust. 💞💕💓

[@kellyharris4639]

That was great!

[@sarahvandekendelaere8761]

Absolutely amazing. ❤❤❤

[@Ann-vr1qr]

Fabulous job! 🎉

[@ThKiwi]

Ah it turned out so pretty! ❤❤

[@janetdamboise6225]

Very nice job and I love your voiceovers while you're filming!!

[@AllTheMiniThings]

WOO! Looking great! I need to do my makeup area as well

[@elizabethsmith4580]

looks really pretty ❤

[@bruckssarah]

Omg you did so WELL today❤❤❤

[@shannonpeterson1694]

Pro tip, paint the bottom edge of y;our soap holder with clear nail polish…. No rust!

[@cararea-garcia9603]

I've been watching some of your videos because I need to do some decluttering in my home that I've been living in for over 20 years. I am a single mother of two teenage boys and have been a high school teacher for 30 years. I put in so many hours a week as a teacher that I just haven't had the time and energy to do what I know I need to do. Your videos give me hope that I can get to where I need to be in time. I definitely feel overwhelmed but have to accept that it's going to take a long time and that I'll have to be happy with doing a little at a time. I'll need to get past my perfectionism, which results in avoidance. I have a question for you. Do you think that your shopping and spending is part of the problem? I feel that spending is part of my issue. Are you doing anything to keep yourself from buying, buying, and buying? From the videos I've seen, it seems like you purchase a lot of craft items and makeup. I purchase a lot of clothing. I probably don't need to buy any additional clothing for the rest of my life. Do you have any suggestions for putting a stop to consumerism and spending for people like us? It's a big problem. We don't need to purchase most of the things that we do and without addressing the problem the hoarding isn't going to get any better. Just decluttering and throwing things out doesn't get to the root of the problem, we will buy and hoard once again. It's wasteful and terrible for the environment. I was just wondering what your thoughts are on this topic of the underlying problem of overspending/overpurchasing and consumerism.

[@veganryori]

If you still have the old clear nail polish you can try and paint the bottom of the new soap holder so it doesn't rust like the old one 👍

[@katelynnmcdougall9826]

ooh hun i love the after it looks amazing ❤ my whole house is always so cluttered and messy .. baby steps and one area at a time 😜

[@kitw76]

Since the bathroom is small have you thought about getting a new vanity and sink as it wouldn’t cost too much

[@findingaway5512]

I am sorry about the dryer. I hope you get one soon!!!! I went some months without one this year and it was a pain to hail everything. Threw me off a lot. Hope you are up and running again.

[@firecrackerpopsiclesaresup6204]

This video was great! You did awesome! 💙

[@Debbie.4263]

The metal holder that rusted and you replaced... Use clear Rustolem spray paint and give the entire thing 3 coats, outside of course, and let it dry completely. It won't rust out as quickly. Im sure you know, to also keep that area under it dry. Also if you have a coaster that will fit or can be cut to fit under it that helps as well.

[@vazlet]

I love Pepper ❤ -Lety from Chicago

[@findingaway5512]

If you have doen it before you can do it again. 😊 I reclutter but i know i can always get it back there again. Especially in busy seasons. I need less stuff to manage so it becomes easier and also work on spaces more often so the clutter doenst creep in as much when i am not paying attention. I want to be better about working in times i tidy apaces i already over hauled. Like once a day or once a week hit a room for a quick tidy depending on what it needs.

[@debo3496]

H❤, I really enjoy your videos and you sharing your thought process on how you declutter things. Would you ever consider having a clock or sharing the time it takes for your projects. I sometimes have trouble starting because I think things will take a long time. Have a great weekend!

[@melanietrester]

Hello from Germany and hi miss heart and miow pepper. The top of the bathroom zink looks nice. The rest you Rock it in the next time, be safe

[@kbal1451]

Place a little recycling basket underneath the sink, that way it won't accumulate on the counter top.

[@phdyer7717]

Put a couple of layers of clear nail polish under your holders to prevent them from rusting and marking your surface.

[@amnasmith3514]

Looks great ❤

[@ruthlloyd1163]

You have come sooooo far 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@plaisirdelanglais]

Great job! I am thinking could you put an appointment with yourself to do quick cleaning every month or every 3 months. I never miss my meetings or things I have to do for my business on weekly basis. When it comes to tasks with general open end and no urgency is where it gets difficult.

[@ahoardersheart]

Oh an appointment every 3 months!! What a great idea!!! 🦄🙏🏼🌟💜💕

[@94cjmc]

I have an idea, since you seem to not throw away packaging from this room, you could have a "recycling bin" underneath the counter as well :)

[@rachellskerlec4713]

Great job! It was good to see you get rid of another big pile. I have a terrible mold allergy so I'm with you on ditching the moldy stuff! But how can you keep the chair if it had all that moldy stuff on it?! Do you think you will clean it and use it in the basement?

[@MsDDutch]

You are so very clear in your explenation. How would i help someone declutter that has difficulty letting go? What would be the respectfull way?

[@elizabethannferrario7113]

Hi i think your doing very well , your bathroom looks fabulous, what colour are you decorating your little room ? thank you for sharing love liz x

[@christinastewart2688]

Maybe a clock for the wall. I did that for my kids, they kept losing track of time in the while getting ready for school. The clock helped them.

[@emilykravish3888]

Your hubby should build you a little floor to ceiling shelf in between the toilet and the bathroom vanity for storage so you can see what you have

[@TexasAlabama]

I think it's important to realize also, that you may need to spend some money on organizational tools. That's important for me, I didn't want to spend money on things like that for some reason, but I didn't mind my 50 ink pens. LOL. So I started purchasing tools for organization such as a pretty spinning pen holder that could hold my office supplies and my pens. I now throw away pens as soon as they go dry or even if they just start giving me trouble writing. I'm also in a rental situation and at my age I have gained a lot of stuff from family and my own stuff that I refuse to let go of. So when I get my own place later this year it will be much less.