Youtubers Don't Care: They Just Want The Money

[@GilbertsFriend]

Weston absolutely screaming in the background really completes the viewing experience 😍

[@guile5188]

@@mmotherofdragons 9:28

[@lobster9213]

LMAO

[@em_ilymay]

therapy in the psych ward🤩

[@kingj6677]

are they dating or just friends?

[@alyssaagracee3139]

@@kingj6677dating

[@zorro1319]

I know that thumbnail is supposed to look welcoming but I felt like you were reaching out to rip my beating heart out of my body. Great stuff

[@KoruGo]

thumbnail scared the hell outta me and i wouldn't have watched it I didn't already know the channel Edit: thumbnail and title have changed lol, originally it was implying some sort of "pov aisha gives you therapy" video lmao

[@theguy_222]

Was it supposed to look welcoming?? At first glance, I thought it was the behind the scenes of the new insidious movie

[@meddlesome-]

I think that's the intention

[@froggycolouring]

Samw

[@sbocaj22]

Yes really giving indiana and the temple of doom

[@josko50]

Absolutely love this format of watching you draw as you do your ramble.

[@quinevere]

me too!

[@paulines2604]

yes me too please more

[@weazu5783]

its like this tiktoks where its like the good doctor on the top half of the screen while the bottom half is someone making like 5 different types of slimes

[@StarSkies-]

@@weazu5783 not really

[@weazu5783]

@@StarSkies- we don’t care

[@codyisnumb]

as someone who had to drop out of school because of neurodivergency and is still living with my parents at 20, god this made me feel so much better. it's really nice to be reminded that not everyone is obnoxiously ahead of me in milestones society sets for me.

[@Weeniehutnurse]

I had the same thing happen, I have cptsd, severe anxiety, and severe depression. It gets better trust me, you can go at your own pace and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Took me years to finish school, and now at 24 I finished and have a job, and live with my boyfriend. We are just glad that you are alive.

[@mperezmcfinn2511]

I also had to leave school because of my neurodivergency. Then when I was 20 I ended up having to stay with my parents for a few months after I got evicted from my place. I had no phone, no internet, and basically no connection to the outside world. I was only allowed to leave my room (the guestroom) to use the bathroom. It was an incredibly isolating period. I felt like such a failure for ending up in that situation, that it was almost overwhelming at times. Honestly, I still don't know how I survived. But I made it, and so can you. Remember, this is just a minor setback and things will get better.

[@catcactus1234]

Reminder that America is the only place where it’s normalized for kids to move out when they’re 18. In most countries, it’s expected for children to live with their parents until they’re married. There’s absolutely no shame in staying with your parents.

[@mperezmcfinn2511]

@@catcactus1234 That wasn't normal until after WW2. The US had an unprecedented economy from the 50s to the 70s. In those days an 18 year old grocery bagger could afford to rent an apartment. At the same time, college enrollment expanded beyond just the wealthy. So it became common for 18 year olds to move out for college. Baby boomers had no economic obstacles preventing them from moving out at 18. So when their kids turned 18 they expected them to either go to college or move out. While ignoring the fact that the economy wasn't anywhere close to as good as it was for them.

[@catcactus1234]

@@mperezmcfinn2511 Yep absolutely, it wasn’t normalized until the unique economic conditions after WW2. I mentioned it being “normalized” because a lot of older folk still think it’s financially feasible for their kids to live by themselves in this economy (even though it’s not for a vast majority.) Media still portrays kids moving out at 18 as a normal thing. Even though it’s not actually possible for most people nowadays, it’s going to take awhile for the US to normalize staying with your family past 18.

[@Leverag]

i swore betterhelp got exposed as fraudulent like 5-6 years ago and then all of a sudden people just swept it under the rug and started taking sponsors from them again??? i'm going crazy??

[@medea__witchhh]

yea i def remember that. weird how ppl seem to forget.

[@juliesnoot2818]

if i remember correctly this was about a lot of the therapists not even being licensed or something and then they supposedly changed their platform guidelines or something to assure you only get in contact with licensed people. i could be wrong tho

[@Leverag]

@@juliesnoot2818 no that's exactly how i remember it too

[@asmrtpop2676]

@@juliesnoot2818It was so much more than that. It was about how it harms actual therapists in clinics, how it underpays the therapists it “employs”, how it ISNT REAL THERAPY.

[@micheE2001]

I'm so glad you posted this. I remember scandals coming out about better help and how terrible it was. So people stopped being sponsored by them. Then time passed by and boom! people were accepting sponsorships from betterhelp yet again. I was like huh? did they fix their issues or something I just disregarded it. Be careful with what some youtubers advertise to you, no matter how much you love them sometimes they don't do their research. Do your own research!

[@adamazar]

That's what I was thinking! I remember someone getting sponsored by betterhelp a few years ago and they were GRILLED in the comments but it seems like everyone just kinda forgot

[@tutu8896]

I've even seen famous people, like Haley Williams, advertising for them!

[@babyfaceweeb8937]

I commented under a video asking about it because they had made a video about the scam. That comment probably got deleted.

[@petrichorbones]

same i was like is this not the same company??? am i misremembering!!?? they have soooo many regular ads too which is not the fault of youtubers but still its like damg they are paying a lot of ad fees rn .... hmmmmm

[@newb4038]

@@tutu8896 Haley Williams? Really?

[@medea__witchhh]

"as long as you find a nice, big titty anime man, and you can imagine a life with him. all your worries are gone." truly words to live by

[@talesofunity]

You know, on the one hand I often feel lame, but on the other hand my life has so many cases of perfect timing, like coming upon your comment and reading it and then within two seconds of finishing reading it as I thought "oh I wonder where that'll be in the video," she immediately says this line. So thank you random citizen for making that possible. even though I would prefer to meet a big titted anime GF maybe my life path involves coming upon a wise old man with fantastic tits who will teach me superpowers.

[@spider-woman9482]

@@talesofunity You are also a great random citizen. I have little interest in anime, but I would be pleased to find a big titted anime woman during my endeavors.

[@axuwu6939]

I hate how this kind of thing is genuinely what kept me sane through some of the worst patches of my life

[@hazaubel6532]

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[@greasebag7032]

@@axuwu6939same… it genuinely works sometimes 😭

[@maarrriiiiaaaaa]

Hi! Therapist here! What you’re talking about are support groups, which are a great resource, but they aren’t usually run by therapists. Group therapy is usually run by 1-2 therapists and are structured a little differently and usually include therapeutic interventions. For affordable mental health resources, I’d check out open path collective, which is an online directory full of licensed or associate therapists that offer sliding scale fees. Or, working with local marriage and family therapy trainees (people in grad school still and being supervised by someone who is licensed) is usually much more affordable and still effective. Sending care to everyone reading this. There’s help out there that doesn’t have to be hella expensive or that’s by a big online company like better help (which exploits therapists AND clients alike).

[@TheOceanBearer]

I knew when I saw all these influencers sponsored by that app, it wasn't to be trusted. My gut helped me dodge a bullet yet again.

[@mackenzie1845]

In my experience, where I live the places that offer low cost "therapy" are run by Christians and its just as bad as better help. i went to one as a teenager and my therapist literally made fun of me for being a One Direction fan, made me take the Myers-Briggs 16 personalities quiz, then told me all my problems are just because i'm an introvert when I got INFP.

[@BRAN06]

pin this

[@crybabyteej]

Thank you for this! I was in DBT for 4 years and it helped me SO much.

[@fayelefayele2264]

​@@mackenzie1845I totally agree with her diagnosis about infps lmao, cuz same

[@somethingorother965]

The screaming in the background really adds to the experience

[@avianna7695]

@@ray-mc-lher boyfriend weston, has a yt channel called “Sinjin Drowning”

[@hernandez4856]

@@avianna7695i thought he was gay

[@urma8057]

@@hernandez4856 nooo😭😭

[@kodokuna.]

It’s so crazy how better help has been exposed again and again and again but your favorite influencer is paying their rent w their check

[@xi6969]

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[@megib901]

Anthony smosh guy

[@thejusmar]

I have no problem with them using them for ad money, getting paid for referrals is a bit different.

[@thatsclownshit3145]

​@@megib901literally each of his videos start with that 😭 i dont wanna believe he's a bad guy but i mean 🧍‍♂️ the issue with these influencers promoting it is they say "i know how hard life can be, therapy can help" then offer a worse alternative to therapy. promoting it with the benefits of actual therapy in mind manes it seem trustable but this company in reality is just scumbag-y

[@cyndriana]

@@thejusmar In the case of ads it's KZbin that pays you anyway, so you're not accepting money from the company itself.

[@alexhussey1308]

FINALLY someone is talking about this. Philip DeFranco covered it a while back after promoting it and realizing the error, but it’s wild how many big internet personalities and outright moviestars are peddling betterhelp and somehow there aren’t people coming out of the woodwork to call them out as usual (as they should)

[@princiedv]

I remember Danny Gonzalez doing a sponsorship a while back and ALL the top comments were just talking about how bad it was, but he never said anything about it as far as I know. Then after that I just kept seeing more and more people pick up sponsorships from them, so I've just accepted it as a losing battle tbh

[@sadmermaid]

Yet Cody and Noel/tmg, Anthony Padilla all still get away with it. I think Johnny Harris too. They do not need that money, aaaaaa I hate it sm.

[@princiedv]

@@girlwithnopersonality Oh wait, that's so cool. Glad it went down better than I remembered

[@Capybaragee]

I always feel sad when Anthony Padilla promotes it on like almost every video he posts :(

[@funguy9844]

PewDiePie made a vid on this

[@BRIGHT_LORD_C]

“There is nothing wrong, there just something going on” Her words are beautiful

[@TonyLeigh]

I think deserve more respect as an artist. Your use of 3 point perspective on those chairs is making me jealous. I could only ever draw like 2 point perspective max. You threw that 3rd one out there like it was nothing.

[@PumpkanTheBuilder]

oh yeah? well i can draw 5 so, big whoop

[@silverblaize]

She didn't really use 3 point perspective. She kind of just eye balled it freehand without using an actual grid. It looks pretty good for freehand, but it's not actually 3 point perspective.

[@christalcavanaugh]

@@PumpkanTheBuilderI can draw 5 million so you’re like actually kind of a loser 😎

[@natatatm]

They aren't though, they are very nice, but there aren't three vanishing points for the perspective of each chair

[@TonyLeigh]

​@@silverblaizeI was gonna argue but I think you're right. If it was 3 point the nearest chair would be larger compared to the other ones. On second glance they are all about the same size.

[@Flashywashy]

As someone with adhd, it feels really nice to hear someone else have similar experiences in school as I did. Appreciate that a ton. Love this format of a video too

[@tentacruel2525]

As someone with ADHD I always felt like I was stupid and dumb for not understanding stuff like everyone else in school, it was to the point where i'd break down crying cause I felt so incompetent. Now I'm doin way better, and I know it wasn't my fault, I finally finished HS. Things are starting to look up and I'm actually excited for the future :)

[@Protoman00]

This is the kind of therapy I needed. Thanks doc!

[@Londe_e]

"Why are you the way that you are?" *distant yelling*

[@emilyeicher7606]

I cannot tell you how emotional this video made me. I spent my whole school life trying for hours to do my homework and study only to be a B/C average student. (hello undiagnosed adhd) And it rips your self esteem to to shreds. especially being surrounded by "gifted burnout kids" Ive never seen anyone talk about what its like to have our experience. Thank you for sharing.

[@eniolaidris5533]

I started watching this In the morning and I'm literally in tears rn.... this video perfectly encapsulates how Ive been feeling for years now. I'm in college right now and it's not at all been easy... I constantly have this imposter syndrome and doubt myself every time comparing myself to others and thinking that I really am just stupid...

[@littlegirlblue6326]

The way my jaw dropped with that better help part. I was like wow they're really letting her say all that for an ad!

[@physicqsx]

weston yelling in the background 😭

[@nylabex]

You don’t know how much I needed this right now. My anxiety over basic living has been through the roof 😅 thx for making me feel not so insane lol

[@Frostbyte-Game-Studio]

i know right?

[@unsweetsweets]

Better Help’s crazy for giving me an ad on a video calling them out 💀💀

[@lll3931]

Sinjin drowning and Aisha posting AGAIN?? DAY BLESSED AGAIN!!

[@Minionflavoredyogurt]

YESS

[@georgenoodles1387]

out here living my best life!! sinjin is drowning this aint about them

[@lll3931]

@@georgenoodles1387 sinjin drowning

[@noam3561]

SCREAM this was so comforting to hear someone else talk about taking their time with school and feeling behind. I have been taking a few community college classes every other semester for the past 2 years and I'm having fun but with no direction and it is soo scary. I am someone who gets things intuitively but I genuinely think it's just a different brain wiring with pros and cons because studying DOES NOT WORK for me. I used to feel like shit for never studying but once I really started trying it was so obvious that I was learning less. like if I take notes during a lecture I will not remember any of it and will not understand what I've written so I have to just absorb information passively and then sleep on it and that's what I got. and that is so good to know that trying to learn card games can be so stressful that makes so much sense and I will keep that in mind as someone who is always trying to get people to play games with me.

[@fruitloopswithfruitontheside]

i really needed this, ik this might sound stupid but it feels like everyone around me is a gifted kid, I’ve been kinda labeled as “the dumb one.” When I don’t get basic stuff other people do I’m “slow” and honestly it’s been a lot. It feels like i’m trying to constantly catch up to other people and it sucks. Thank you for putting my feelings into words

[@wrappedonigiri]

couple of things (i didn't know how to structure what i wanted to say into a comment so now it's a list ig): 1: the drawing looks so good 😭 like your style and the perspective of the chairs and faces and the different designs of the people all look so nice!! 2: i could definitely relate with the fear of learning thing (for both academia and games), even as someone who was kiinda considered one of the 'gifted kids' (i remember straight up just crying in class one time when we were handed a math question that i just couldn't wrap my head around but i looked up and realised everyone else already got started and knew what to do) anyways!! i really appreciated this video, it was very comfy and reassuring to hear, and also super relateable :") hope you're doing well!

[@stannosaurus]

I love this! Thanks for speaking out :) I'm actually still religious and I think it can be a really great thing! Sadly, people in many religions just don't truly follow the whole "love your neighbor" thing. It's cultural issues more than teachings usually, which sucks.

[@mperezmcfinn2511]

Girl, your struggle is entirely too relatable. My grades were absolute shit, I never knew the answer when called on, I would stare at my homework for hours and it would never make any more sense than when I started. When I tried to get help I was gaslit and accused of being a drug addict by my teachers. Finally I was thrown out of my house at 18 because my academic struggles were interpreted as intentional self sabotage, which I had supposedly enacted in a bid for attention. Work was also a nightmare. I learn new skills so slowly that I've been fired from nearly every job that's hired me. When I inquired about ADHD as an adult, the therapist accused me of "grandiose delusions self importance" because I had the audacity to admit that I felt smarter than my grades would suggest. I cited as evidence the fact that most of my friends had above average grades. Reasoning that they probably wouldn't spend so much time with an imbecile? Nevertheless, her analysis deemed me "borderline mentally impaired." And while I didn't believe it, I also couldn't prove her wrong. I had to endure years of gaslighting and ridicule before finally being diagnosed with ADHD and dyslexia. But once it happened, it was like a giant weight was lifted off my back. At last, it all made so much sense. Sure, it should have happened so much earlier. And yes, I lost years that I'll never get back. But the relief of finally getting an explanation changed my life in so many positive ways. Looking back, my undiagnosed years felt like a long bewildering saga of trying to outrun an unstoppable beast that just got faster with with every new failure. Diagnoses and medication haven't killed it. But at least I know it's real. Thank you so much for making this video! I hope it helps prevent other people from going decades without help. Also, I love your art!

[@thattimestampguy]

0:00 Oh! Hello! How’ve you been? How’s your summer? 0:21 Thanks Better Help for sponsoring Aisha Rae. 2:13 Fear of Counseling. 3:54 In school I felt stupid. Gifted vs Average inferiority feeling 4:39 It was hard, I felt really stupid, I still feel really stupid. 5:18 Academic games make me nervous. 6:17 “You lost me at card”🃏 6:30 Fear of being slower to learn a game than Markiplier 7:09 Feeling behind 8:00 Even if I surround myself with similar people like me, I still feel like a failure. It sucks. *Aisha needed Assistance from friends* 8:48 Search For An Answer 9:39 “Oh you shouldn’t self-diagnose” “but you have to kinda self-diagnose to seek help.” 10:12 “You can’t find the solution to the problem without finding the path.” 11:08 “It is very telling how I can’t stay on topic.” 11:51 “SO, HERE I AM, WITH ADHD, AND NO PLAN.” 12:38 “apparently everyone in Arizona is in need of therapy.” 12:50 13:15 “Why are you the way you are?” 13:40 “Just because it’s going on does not mean it’s wrong.” 14:13 “Everything hurts” “I have scoliosis.” Which should I go to the doctor for first, my scoliosis or my brain 🧠? 14:35 Aisha drew the drawing in this video AFTER recording her speaking for this video. 14:50 It’s ok. As long as you find yourself a……. 15:05 “I was great during 2020.”

[@chinesesquidward]

Bro we will watch the full video 😭

[@thattimestampguy]

@@chinesesquidward (just kidding when I say this) 回去工作吧章鱼哥先生

[@chinesesquidward]

@@thattimestampguy wtf it means bro

[@itsMe_TheHerpes]

well, it's... the time stamp guy. lol.

[@thattimestampguy]

@@chinesesquidward “Go back to work, Mr Squidward.” 🦀 🦑🇨🇳

[@ambernrs]

this was so comforting

[@Terminallyposessed]

What happened to the part about betterhelp? I haven't even heard a full sentence addressing betterhelp and the video is almost over...

[@myvalntines]

i love this community in the comments, sharing thoughts, support coming from the other corner, while dark humor is being thrown around. this is the content i love to be around

[@SpideriMan]

Aisha this is soo real. I’ve always been aware there are people out there feeling exactly how I do, but you putting everything into words really made me realize. Even the part about prefering to watch Markiplier watching fnaf rather than actually playing or distracting yourself with anime boys back in 2020 (throwback to my mystic messenger era) really hit back home. I’m a very slow person and I have a hard time getting even the simplest of concepts, and seeing people around me seem like they have it all figured out makes me feel even worse about it. But what I hate the most is that I feel like I’m bothering everyone in my life by being like this. My parents get frustrated with me for not learning things quickly and my dad gets even more mad when I get distracted midconvo. Which unfortunately happens very often and results in a lot of yelling and fighting. My friends make jokes 24/7 about me being slow and not understanding things, but it hurts a little that they’re not aware how much I’m struggling with this. And I say ‘slow’ to kind of describe it all together but in reality it’s so much more. I just really don’t like myself

[@annaselbdritt7916]

I was diagnosed with adhd at 20, in 2013. This was back when there wasn’t so much talk about late diagnosis, people were much more focused on if adhd even ‘existed’ (idk if you remember). I only got the diagnosis and treatment because I pushed for it myself. So yes, it began with a self-diagnosis. I’m very thankful to be living in a country with free healthcare. Unfortunately now that many people are rightfully opening their eyes to the possibility of having adhd, they are confronted with the shocking lack of psychiatrists in the country. The waiting lists for initial diagnosis are up to two years long. All the things I’ve gotten medical treatment for, have all started with self-diagnosis, often following wrong diagnosis from previous consultations. I’ll always support it. It’s the first step towards self-realisation. It has no inherent harm to the group.

[@amelialoves_sp]

kahoot was always humiliating because when you got a question wrong that everyone else got right they would go around the room to figure out who got it wrong. HUMBLING.

[@flaritivity]

I literally cried the other night cuz I was scared I wouldn’t be good enough to graduate art school and actually get a job or be successful bc of my anxiety. This video called me out on so many levels wtf

[@cassidym.7687]

So many youtubers I watch keep taking their sponsorships and it's so frustrating, and it's often people you would think know better. Thanks for talking about this.

[@bl9081]

This is not what I thought the video was going to be but I am 1000% here for it

[@komradekokonut1571]

This isn't the Asian therapist ASMR role play DVD edition

[@ellacraft-eu2ih]

I need aisha to make a podcast bc i would have that on loop!!

[@tama9otchi]

7:19 ugh aisha i totally feel you with the college part and the expectation of finishing college in 4 years :( one of the colleges i want to transfer to require 5 years for the animation program. i know there’s going to be people in a similar predicament, but i’m still iffy about not graduating in 4 years. the “everyone is at a different pace” advice is super helpful though. thank u for this video. this brings me a lot of comfort and reassurance 🫂

[@emmscape]

ik that we can totally hear weston in the background but here some timestamps for my favourite screams cause i have nothing to do with my life 1:19 1:26 1:49 4:15 5:06 5:43 9:28 10:23 12:08

[@Vaguestofthemxall]

This girl has one of the most beautiful faces ever 😌

[@gregorychristopher9185]

What an enchanting human being.

[@nibowin]

Good day to you as well. diagnosed clinically adhd, didnt like the meds so i live with myself as is, healthy habits and safe ways to destress are key. when laying down to sleep i like having educational YT on in the background so the multiple thoughts can be let go and i can concentrate on one thing, the sleep. Have a Great Day! Dont be to hard on yourself, youll get to it when your ready!

[@shannonbullock807]

I’m very comforted by this video. I’ve always felt behind, slow, afraid of getting things wrong or “differently.” Working through college (not university, I guess what is called a “community college”in the US) for creative writing right now, doing things at a slower pace. You just gotta give yourself credit, make your own world :)

[@johnsmithwho11]

Another great video Aisha! You hit the feeling of “I’m not at the same level as everyone else and therefore I feel like crap” perfectly.

[@soupguy5243]

this might be one of my favorite videos of yours, it takes a lot of confidence to talk ab stuff like this and it definitely helps to hear someone voice it !! thank you :)

[@filldumbpea]

😭😭😭 weston shouting in the back is makin me giggle

[@PeacePants04]

I really resonate with this! I was diagnosed with ADHD in high school and now even after college I still really struggle with fear of learning new things, both topics and games. It’s been really difficult to find hobbies and new games because I’m not always great at them immediately like some of my friends are

[@kam4685]

you put into words how i feel and my experience perfectly, it honestly makes me a bit happy to know theres someone out there dealing with the same things. i saw someone online say therapy didnt adapt to the needs of our generation, who is actively taking the time to think and look into their mental health and problems and can already sense what the problem stems from, and i couldnt agree more. its like, i know what the problem is, i just dont know how to fix it, and no one fully knows either.

[@carbonatedgunslinger4115]

Pro tip if a youtuber recommends you any product online Don't ever trust them on it. Skip the ads and move on with the video, You must really like built-in ads in videos?

[@Honeyin2013]

It’s kinda scary how everyone is on a waitlist pretty much everywhere in this country. If you’re someone thinking about going to school for psychiatry please do

[@MVIVN]

I really loved this, the drawing really helped me stay focused. This is a godsend format for people like me with a really short attention span!

[@isabellas3167]

the FNAF example is so accurate for me tho??? like please Markiplier show me your ways and no I won't play the game but I will get really into fnaf anyway

[@Zinczub]

man it really does sound like that guy is screaming for help

[@billgoedecke2265]

I don’t know why but I love your ramblings - great artwork. I am an old dude but I have been doing serious “internal work”for the past while given that I had something of a nervous breakdown in 2018. I do anything that works - yoga, Chinese martial arts, therapy, meditation. Even a shaman for a short period. I avoided the pills for the most part. What I found really helpful for a while is the kundalini yoga but one has to be careful with that - still do some of their meditations. Gotta keep grounded - stance positions from the martial arts helps. Work with a massage person who does structural massage - Rolfing. I had some scoliosis which I think originates in how the hips are twisted - I think it’s gone now. Great videos!

[@heeeeeeeeyyyyyyyyy]

Hi Aisha! I really enjoy your videos, but especially this one, I know I'm not the only one that struggles with what for other people is simple stuff but It's always nice to feel seen and validated. Have a nice day/night :) oh i forgot to mention the drawings so cool

[@blestemat4426]

this is so extremely relatable to me. im honestly glad u talked abt it! it feels rly nice knowing im not the only one out here who feels "behind". it felt rly reassuring :) ♡

[@angeljaime8548]

The amount of common insecurities we have is stupid scary

[@gabrielsnowo]

The amount of times I've heard the "Chill quirky youtuber say" "Oh hello. How have you been? How is your [insert current season, date, or worldwide event]. [cut akward pause from video] [say something quirky and obvious]" Is immaculate

[@lamaa8699]

I I thought this is going to be a video about how bad betterhelp is

[@kylaolynn1327]

i just got home from thearpy and decided i needed another session😍😍 aisha #1 therapist

[@CHAUDCWN]

the most excited i’ve been for a therapy session!!!!

[@iheartlexi]

i love listening to aisha talk it is my favorite pastime

[@SeruggaRodneyWilliam]

'Asian lady rants while drawing with her mind'

[@sasha_bean]

this was very relaxing thank you

[@meowwchi]

owl house girl is really going thru it :(((

[@ickaruus4909]

i mean it's a good vieo but the title was having me expecting a highly structured essay on how betterhelp is garbage

[@ghastlycandle]

same, half way through the video and it was still a personal story and I was wondering when they were going to get to explaining why better help sucked (even if that explanation was based on personal experience) but that wasn't it at all - both the title and thumbnail is set up to look like a "better help is a scam" video

[@Parfaitcookiestan67]

me too I can relate to the story told in the video but Im confused cause I thought that this would be more about why betterhelp is bad

[@Dunamis_010]

Not gonna lie. The yelling in the background added a nice touch to the subject 🤣

[@milahthemagician]

ive never related more in my life! this was comforting! thanks

[@astroazula]

Most relatable post lol. I'm also in community college and feel painfully lame since I'm average in school

[@pink_ice9454]

She’s literally me No like seriously I relate to this so much. Like on an extremely personal level. Like even down to 2020 being great bc of distractions part. I am that person that’s as dumb as you 😂

[@lilttle_mack6008]

I do appreciate you telling us the truth of BetterHelp. I've never used it but with all the KZbinrs I've seen that promote it was like the "Raid Shadow Legends" of sponsorships. I will always love you for your realness! Also hearing your rant about school is so real. I don't know if it's because I have major imposter syndrome, but I really just feel like an average person in a honors system. Sure I was top of my class, but does that mean anything if I'm scared to learn about math? Why do I need statstics when I don't even know what I want to do with my life. You're so real with voicing my inner monologue. 7:18 and on is literally me. Everyone expects so much out of me but I really don't even know what I'm doing with my life. It's gotten to the point I don't even want to look at my freshly made college schedule. I feel like I'm living through like the SIMS but I'm one swimming pool without a ladder away from drowning. I don't know I didn't mean to rant but just know I feel so seen through your videos. I know you know, but know you're not alone. I've really considered to going to a therapist because I feel like in our generation mental health is more accepting of it but it's really because my father doesn't believe in the mental health thing and my insurance probably doesn't cover it too. I just feel like a diagnosis would solve my problems so I know it's not in my head and it's not because I'm a lunatic. Wow I'll stop this turned into a paragraph. Anyways ily Aisha bc I'm seeing so much of myself in you and seeing how you're slowly coping with your own problems and such.

[@JessicaPradoHanson]

I just saw a better help ad and stopped that video to remember I want to see this! Who else is with me?

[@ghoulboss7848]

WOW you really hit the nail on the head on every reason why i feel like a failure lol, glad to know im not alone :)

[@archangel819]

Here after the title changed

[@kipuvi9181]

The villian of this episode is once again the disfunctional American health care system 💀💀💀

[@Dr.Jekyll_]

Exactly, BetterHelp is paying for a chat buddy. lol

[@tgrey_shift..mp334]

POV: your asian therapist turns you into your her therapist during your session

[@elsalvedorven5546]

I find listening and playing music to be the best therapist.

[@atlaguz]

i genuinely forgot what this video was about for a moment and almost went to skip through the better help "ad" at the beginning

[@sophiataavao7870]

the constant feeling of being behind is so real i feel like i was born behind

[@semi_enigma]

I legit kept waiting for her ti say this video was sponsdered by Skillshare...

[@homemade.ladybugs647]

FINALLY AN ACADEMICALLY AVERAGE PERSON!!!

[@astroazula]

me too

[@isaacdennis4351]

My experience with Better Help was so poor it actually makes me being with a KZbin gets on the Better Help train.

[@marinetteadrien3155]

honestly ao3 is the best form of therapy

[@shineinstars]

so true

[@Shrimple329]

I signed up for better help and after the first session i ended up getting scammed 💀

[@mimimi5656]

I absolutely adore the way you comment on everything and agree with you so much. It feels so comforting (bonus for the coffee shop jazz music love it), and I hate betterhelp and how it's still being sponsored years after being called out as utterly useless and scummy.

[@H3art_c10uds]

I love your artstyle!!! And yeah ngl while everyone was feeling depressed and lonely in 2020, I wasn't affected because everyday I'm at home.😭 Seriously the only way I could get fresh air was either if there's an event my mom wants to take me to or at the store. Literally school was my way out of my house lol

[@StarJester]

WOAH ME TOO (i also have adhd) I was lucky to not be hit very hard at all during quarantine and i had a jolly old time hanging out with my emotional support fictional men and celebrities living in my own delusions for months on end :D tbh it was either that or mentally spiral to the point of physical paralysis (or in your words diy therapy)😍😍 im also lucky enough to have a therapist who cares and understands me but i stay struggling to tell him even 10% of the shit i write in my journal because i know id sound batshit insane

[@ann1e_ruth]

I went to church camp while I wasn’t even religious, and it was like a little game of trying to act like someone your not for a week because I only went to get away from life and reset.

[@moomin2165]

omg what aisha said about being average no matter how hard you try is so real

[@nicoler7439]

even before you mentioned being adhd, I was listening to your descriptions of feeling stupider than everyone else and having to do so much more to learn things and thinking "wow this is so adhd coded. Also the thing you wrote in the dialogue box really punched me in the gut

[@ZombieCrash14]

This video hit hard for me! Growing up being raised in a religous household attending both public and sunday school, struggling with undigoinased adhd public school was ruff i've always felt different. I know i've always been different from others i used to get bullied a lot in school for having a disfigured thumb everyone would laugh, make fun of it, called me names the usual. They would call me the r-word & slow for being in the classes for students with learning disablitys and because of that i always felt dumber than everyone else i know i'm not the dumbest nor the smartest. I would say i have an average intlect but still it was always hard & still hard dealing with it. Because of it right before i started high school i put myself out of those classes which made it more difficult on me since i no longer had the help i needed. i felt like asking for help made me look stupid and weak for a long time causing a lot of stress on my mental health. My mom has always been very smart and use to do excellent in acdemdics so i always had that presure of trying to live up to her expectations but failed. High school for me and like others was difficult a lot things i shouldn't have done. I stop trying to do well and tired to fit in which has aways been a problem for me because i always felt and was treated like an outcast, i wanted peoples approval which led to a lot of mistakes, thats one of the things i learned to embrace and like being an outcast. I wished in those years i stuck to myself and the things that made me instead of things that weren't me but i moved past that and stop looking back and now look forward towards my future and improving on myself and life. Lately i've been doing good and feel like my true self again but knowing theres other people struggling with the same issues i have, gives me a sense of comfort knowing i'm not alone. sorry for the tramua dump lmao I love this format and your artstyle!!

[@genesisvargas1399]

I love how open you are about your academic journey. The standard to graduate college in 4 years is absurd. Here in Puerto Rico it’s just to get it done. Most people graduate in 5-7 years by succeeding at their own pace.

[@mikhaellawalden]

Whoooa. It feels very validating that someone else feels anxious about playing games because of learning difficulties, and just generally feeling slower than others. And the drawing hits home, too, hoo boy 🙃 Glad you got your stuff figured out, though! Maybe I'll see a doctor too, although I'm worried I'm just stupid and neurotypical lol

[@Kelsjp]

I feel the same about college, I’m already “behind” in classes and I honestly feel lame. I couldn’t keep up at the university level so i switched to community college and they are so accommodating to me and life in general. It’s a lot cheaper too

[@dolce_dreemurr]

It's very comforting to see that I'm not the only one struggling with these things. I'm very slow, and being efficient and productive is really hard for me. Being neurodivergent makes me feel so inadequate sometimes, but I won't give up