AITA for being in love with my house? (React Court)

[@keneogbuefi9384]

“Do not stand at my grave and cry I am not there, I did not die” ~React Court

[@XxPLADxX1]

I am never more pogged than I am when react court is posted

[@LancerFanClub]

I am so pegged rn

[@imixmusic8377]

Staying pegged

[@AlargePotato]

@@LancerFanClub I love when he pegs us with a new vid

[@anthraxcrab2222]

Pegged*

[@brycephillips153]

Same

[@FrostedSapling]

I hope everyone can learn from this line “the male urge to own someone in a conversation against your own self interest.” Learn from that one well kids

[@DanButOnline]

I learned this lesson at about 20 when one of my friends put an emotional argument to me, I had the perfect put-down, but instead of a round of applause or whatever I was expecting I made everyone annoyed at me. I still feel bad about it, being right and sounding cool doesn’t negate hurting someone’s feelings.

[@canox6017]

Growing up is realizing that witty responses don't work like in superhero movies and social media is hinders that by a lot. Just look at some of those comments on the posts

[@guyanomaly]

This took me embarrassingly long to internalize. Even now I sometimes still get caught up in the urge, but I at least have enough sense now to realize I’m getting too fired up and however good it might feel to own someone with logic and reason, I will be grateful to myself later for smiling and nodding and/or taking ten minutes to chill and regroup.

[@ohnoagremlin]

for sure. you can always go back and say it later, but a good 96% of the time i feel like the cool down has you realizing its not necessary at any point (or effective)

[@weirdchamp4601]

24:52 “the male urge to own someone in an argument against your own best interests” so true

[@SomePeopleCallMe]

oh boy! a hot steamy new episode of "I'm glad I'm not these people"!

[@stinkybuttrat]

Also, "Im so glad these people arent real"

[@Realest_Jerry]

+2

[@leethax100]

Sorry, but I'm watching "they just like me FR" tonight

[@brinka7918]

having a trusted person have a spare key could be very useful in the future and if his mom won’t just go in there whenever she wants and they don’t have bad relationship then idk what’s the issue.. tho him thinking he is the sole owner bc she was loving enough to pay for both of them is INSANE

[@sts-31]

Yeah he is so undeniably the asshole but for completely different reasons than he doesn't even understand

[@bumfricker2487]

i don't know that I trust OP's word when he says they "don't have a bad relationship". Why else would wife be so opposed to her mother in law having a key?

[@maxcohn3228]

When people refer to their mom or dad as just "mom" like "and then mom came home", it always sounds like they're some omniscient being that were all aware of. Always makes me giggle.

[@myspicyclips6402]

that’s pretty normal. the “my” is implied by whoever is saying it lol

[@soquality9405]

I think it's an Italian thing idk

[@kevlar3994]

Has to be an ESL thing

[@Derzull2468]

@@myspicyclips6402 No it's not, it's very weird.

[@myspicyclips6402]

@@Derzull2468 lmaoo whatever u say jbp incel

[@shanedancer3895]

I'm usually not looking at the screen when watching these videos so when NL reads out a certified reddit response like at 12:53 I get to play the fun game of guessing if he's satirizing reddit comments or of someone actually commented that

[@ezgolf1764]

+2 so true

[@PlanetCapeStudios]

I made fun of that comment in my head but I did a literal spit take when NL was talking about someone breaking into the wedding and stealing food

[@SemiIocon]

NL's capacity to balance out relationships and knowing how to keep people on the respective teams is insane to me. He has it all figured out.

[@speefy7311]

He's an ideal neutral third party. I think it's because he's literally just a guy.

[@nazmulahmed5853]

This is what the average non-terminal internet adult looks like UNPOGGED

[@TheDool]

its not that hard to be a decent human being. Just take one for the team equally and dont be petty over it and 99% of the AITA posts wouldnt exist.

[@kidneybean5688]

@@nazmulahmed5853 but he's professionally online... But he is just a guy... Idk what to think man

[@CodexAce]

35:26 I'm actually dealing with this exact case at work. The library was initially written in Delphi years ago. 7 years ago some tool was used to convert it into C#. All the methods are horrible public void GetData(out dataTable), all the dependency graphs are insane and no one knows it very well since our Dev Lead of 25 years retired. Now we are being asked to upgrade it to dotnet 6 and I'm trying to argue to recreate it as a cloud-based service.

[@ougonce]

"I know what will fix this messy codebase. More complexity!"

[@christopherthomas484]

I sometimes think about what it must be like to just get absolutely eviscerated on AITA. I couldn’t bear reading all of that sort of stuff (insane personal attacks, etc)

[@8xottox8]

Really it is like gambling, 50/50. Either you get validated by internet strangers, which does nothing to help you salvage whatever situation made you post in the first place. Or, you just get dunked on by redditors and your entire personality is shredded and strawmanned. Luckily, I suppose, if you are posting on AITA with something that obviously makes you the asshole, you are insane enough to just deflect all the criticism. "Clearly all these people are just snowflakes like the wife or mom or friend that was offended by me, what do they know?" And all that.

[@Derzull2468]

The type of people who expose their dirty laundry on the internet for validation from strangers are already insane.

[@bobba515]

Most of the people that post are so convinced that they are right that they expect people to just pat them on the back.

[@dqgry5131]

NL the law does not usually work like you were suggesting. In fact, it is extremely common for contracts to be nullified due to hiding something in fine print or other duplicitous means and any "ridiculous" terms in an EULA would not hold up in court. A court would also almost certainly look at the totality of the evidence in regards to determining ownership rather than just saying "one names on the title, my hands are tied". This obviously varies by jurisdiction but holds generally true for NA.

[@Philgob]

"The fishier the better, I know I've said it before. One of the reasons my wife and I have a very good relationship..." 10:02 I was wondering where that was going

[@luk.oh.9959]

Three me for a loop fs☠️

[@luk.oh.9959]

Threw*

[@cooraa]

Regarding the house key discussion: Something I've realised is some people make a conflict out of "principles". "It's not that bad that my MIL has a housekey but I'll keep defending this point because I'm annoyed I wasn't asked before or (in this case) because I don't like it and want to win this fight no matter what". _However_ , the husband is not much better by using out favourite "my house my rules" argument (ignoring the fact that it is not even entirely his house and he was only able to afford it thanks to his wife...).

[@juice17776]

Well only because the wife for some reason said “my house, my rules” mentioning that the MIL didn’t pay a penny towards the house. What a weird reason for her to not have a key.

[@archaicapples765]

One member of my family is vegan. On holidays we simply make one or two vegan dishes for her, its not that difficult to fix. People just look for conflict

[@dancingmathusalem5451]

The news of react court's survival have been massively understated

[@willfisk0]

I'm pretty sure that 92.6% of AITA posts are the other person, playing the role of the OP and telling the story completely from their own point of view and bias. The other 86.2% are complete fiction. Unrelated, but math is awesome kids!

[@lorenzo8755]

What about the 73.4% that's AI generated ?

[@maxj433]

Actually every post is written by me and is also true

[@Lore_Keeper]

1st guy got NL to defend a picky eater, and that means a lot.

[@dewott3754]

I thought the same thing, to be fair they were also the least controversial picky eater on one of these

[@woutertron]

​@@dewott3754 IMO bringing your own food because you're too much of a child to eat someone else mashed potatoes is dumb, and so is ruining a holiday because you insist all the guests eat your cooking. They deserve each other

[@darthfastball1150]

@@woutertron Maybe people just have trouble eating the food? There are plenty of valid reasons for being a picky eater: ASD, dietary restrictions, geographic tongue

[@ougonce]

@@woutertron Bringing your own food as a picky eater is acknowledging the issue and not putting the responsibility to fix it on others, while still not sacrificing yourself. It's literally the perfect solution for everyone involved, unless the other people value their pride more than they value the other person's company, which seems to be your case.

[@connortivoli3161]

It's so weird that couples, especially couples that have been together long term, even have to worry about "plus 1s" or the stipulations therein. My significant other and I operate as one cohesive unit when we go out, wherever I am invited she too is invited and vise verse. Case closed, no arguments necessary. Also, if your mother in law is trusted and everyone is gravy with each other, mother in law having a house key is not only acceptable, but necessary especially if you have kids. Many times we've been thankful that our mothers had keys, like if we both got stuck at work and the kids needed someone there after school. It's a blessing lol

[@brinka7918]

i’ll never understand people who invite couples then they say “plus ones” like who is the plus one? someone in that couple is an after thought??? just say we invited couples and didn’t allow plus ones

[@brinka7918]

it got worse.. what a horrible woman

[@chatnoir9038]

It's really odd to call coupled people "plus ones". But I kinda understand why some people don't want (actual) plus ones at wedding generally... some people will only invite couples and then single friends without plus ones, so that there wouldn't be a bunch of randos at your wedding, especially if a bunch of your friends are single and there would be like 7-10 plus ones consisting of tinder dates and some friends of your friends you've never met. If I ever got married, I would do a small wedding and I would allow plus ones only for those straggler friends that aren't part of my larger friend group. I wouldn't want them to feel lonely. But that's just my opinion

[@kunaldes]

"I can FizzBuzz with the best of them" was an incredible ending to this video.

[@brinka7918]

insane man who says he saved up on his own then tells us he didn’t have to pay for anything.. how is he missing it

[@jenm1]

average redditor

[@junglerat7247]

Actual financial abuse in my opinion. He was able to afford it because his wife paid for everything and now denies she helped and her name isn't on the deed. Now, he's weaponizing against her.

[@Acecrafter99]

There is a 0% chance you go to thanksgiving and refuse to eat every single food there. Even if that's the case just bring enough of something you like for everyone it isn't hard. Everybody sucks on the first one; wife's childish, husband has no tact and his mom is petty.

[@papabaddad]

Getting offended that someone doesn't like a food you've prepared is so petty. You can give them a little jab for being picky and once they leave say "Wow can you believe Janet doesn't like carrots??" but if you're having a stern conversation with your son because his wife hates gravy you need to get some real problems

[@pedroff_1]

Yeah, that reminded me a lot of how picky I sometimes am with birthday food. I'd just rather wait and eating at home, and, damn, have I heard sometimes from my dad I was being rude when I did so. It is such moon logic to see it as a personal insult

[@huckthatdish]

Yeah my soon to be mother in law doesn’t like onions. I use onions in most shit but I just deal with it and make something else when she’s over. It’s weird for sure. But like I’m not offended. It’s not a commentary on my cooking. It’s just a weird picky thing

[@stinkybuttrat]

@@pedroff_1 i mean you literally should not have a reasonable expectation to be comfortable 24/7. Sometimes you just have to eat stuff you dont like because thats what adults do 🤷‍♀️

[@stevebob9504]

@M D what’s immature is being such a picky eater you can’t stand to eat your MIL food a single time per year without making a big deal about it.

[@stinkybuttrat]

@M D asking someone to make something else because you don't like it *is* inconvenient lmao wdym

[@stealth3122]

4:40 idk, NL kinda unhinged saying that its not considered rude to brind your own food to a meal when the plan was for a diff person to cook for everyone. The implication is that the food is bad.

[@cardboard2night]

Oh boy... But the family knows already that she's a picky eater and doesn't like her mil food or rather doesn't like certain ingredients in it. To avoid the conflict would be for mil to ask wife beforehand how she wants her food to be prepared or for wife to tell mil beforehand that because wife is a picky eater she would like her food be prepared differently, or maybe to help at the kitchen to prepare food? Like, allergies or not, if you cannot eat certain foods it's better to either bring it with you or to ask person preparing food for accommodation. It's better than just starve at the dinner table. And the mil should already know that her food is good based on that everyone else eats it without problems. Maybe it would be better for husband to talk it first with his mother. To mediate. Idk just talk it out, people, there's more problems in life than this petty bullshit.

[@stealth3122]

@@cardboard2night idk if i didn't like the food i would prob just eat it anyways. If I was actually allergic it would be different but if I just didn't like it I would jus eat some of the food then just eat later or something. I def think the guy was being a dick head in the situation too but I kinda think it is esh cause the s.o. wouldn't just kinda tough it out for one night

[@justinlabarge8178]

@@stealth3122 and that's great for you. But wife appears to have a spine, and this really shouldn't be a pain point. Bring whatever you want, more pie for me. Even better if you let me try it. She isn't controlling the dinner, it is already know she doesn't like how the food is prepared, so the harm is already done. Brining food does no extra damage, unless everyone is deranged.

[@Monkeyman12534]

Should bring your own food to share. Won't be as weird and there's guaranteed something you will eat

[@sommerblume9671]

Idk about having to share by default simply because if you are picky or have dietary requirements, it's for yourself. Maybe add in a little gift (some wine or chocolates idk) as a way of not seeming too "rude" but that's it imo.

[@Vipre-]

Yeah I really don't get some of these dynamics. When we used to have big family holidays everyone brought two or three dishes. In that situation were the person to just bring a personal portion because they didn't eat anything else brought the most that would've been said would be letting everyone know not to eat it by mistake.

[@JD-wu5pf]

@@sommerblume9671 She doesn't have dietary requirements, she's a picky eater. Depending on how picky, wife is the asshole, but it's a very safe ESH. Maybe we just have very different Thanksgivings but someone bringing food just for themselves would be seen as weird but someone bringing food for everybody would be seen as a good thing. Wife should bring a side dish she wants to eat and make enough for multiple people. OP should grow a spine and stand up to his mom. Why are holidays so hard for some people?

[@peytonalexander5300]

If someone has dietary requirements, fine. If someone just has a 6-year old's pallet and all they'll eat is chicken nuggies and spaghetti, sorry, this is adult time. You might have to be a big girl and eat something green for once. And like you said, just bring chicken nuggies and spaghetti with you to the Thanksgiving table. I'm sure she'd get to have as much of it as she wants because everyone else will be eating like normal humans.

[@sommerblume9671]

@@JD-wu5pf I mean.. if i hate fish and everyone is cooking that, i wouldn't expect them to cook me something i'd just bring my own. I'm the one with the problem not them. People here don't share literally everything with everyone out of some weird moral duty. I had vegans come to xmas last year and they brought their own food, nobody complained.

[@rubenacosta8662]

For like 33:25, 99% of the time I understand people just jump to conclusions with minimal context. But, I don't understand in what world you would leave your wife out of the title of the house when she definitely contributed to its payment.

[@candybar9000]

I thought that i'd heard this series was over?

[@princiedv]

The rumor may have been greatly exaggerated.

[@TauntsForDays]

@@princiedv Many people are saying this

[@Silas_MN]

@@TauntsForDays so true

[@diddo9338]

what is with people becoming totalitarian when it comes to weddings?

[@brinka7918]

they get a bit of power and go insane

[@leejames929]

Feast of the 7 fishes and a chicken sounds baller

[@williammitchell6254]

I love it everything Ryan talks about marriage. Actual good relationship advice on twitch/youtube, rare.

[@kristiandevil]

I like how the "rebuild the law" bit reoccurs every few weeks now

[@IanM1243]

Some particular rumors have may or may not been greatly exaggerated

[@XxPLADxX1]

Perhaps

[@Efthimisko]

The Rumors Chico. They never lie.

[@verilymcarthur9471]

In this case I believe the rumours have lied greatly

[@xXChipsAndGravyXx]

I do think its silly to bring your own food for yourself only in the pretence that you definitely omnipotently know will not like the food which will be cooked for you. Bringing your own food in general however is a good thing.... If you share it, it being thanks-giving and all (i do not care about the holiday however if youre doing the holiday isnt the sharing of food kinda the point?) That being said the husband blew it way out if proportion for no real reason

[@steadypacegaming9837]

You get what you get and you don't throw a fit

[@TBH_Inc]

Is giving out keys not normal? My family/ close friends/neighbors have always traded keys with each other, or hidden keys outside the house and told others, in the case of emergencies or caring for the house/pets when on vacation.

[@0cheeseburga]

I think the first one is like a situation of "Hey, if you do this it will not alleviate the issue of you and my mom fighting, and in fact, could very well exacerbate the issue." And the response to that isn't "omg I am doing nothing wrong why should I change????" But should really be a conversation about his spouse and his mom arguing.

[@noThankyou-g5c]

i mean, maybe I misunderstood what you said, but it should be a conversation OP has with his mom about picking fights with her. It’s more his job to get his mom to treat her with respect than it is for his spouse to beg the mom to be treated with respect. At least in this situation.

[@Nowolf]

@@noThankyou-g5c I'm not getting the implication that the spouse was doing much, very much less anything along the lines of begging.

[@noThankyou-g5c]

@@Nowolf I’m not sure what you’re trying to say to be honesy

[@zanebutler8717]

@@noThankyou-g5c picky eaters are shunned in my family. They bring great shame.

[@noThankyou-g5c]

@@zanebutler8717 ok?

[@noThankyou-g5c]

I gotta admit it’s kind of insane the lengths people will go to make you eat something you don’t want to. I used to be a picky kid (im autistic lol) and so many adults would try to “teach me a lesson” about not liking certain foods. The worst case was getting punched in the stomach 5 times a row at 11 years old because I didn’t want to eat the fat on some steak. Obviously it wasn’t all that bad but I had plenty of grown adults express how much they didn’t like me as a person because I didn’t want to eat something that would make me throw up. The only adult in my life that didn’t push it to an insane degree was my mom since she actually saw me throw up multiple times. As an adult now I eat a lot more foods I used to and I feel like in general more people are aware that not everybody’s body is identical and people have basic rights to autonomy. but every now and then I still run into people that feel entitled enough to police over what another adult decides to eat. As far as I can tell it always amounts to a very childish primal sense of disgust/dislike. People just don’t like that somebody hates something they like and it drives them to do insane things. Wether or not you think picky eaters are annoying or whatever, every story of somebody getting heated over a picky eater just reads like that tweet about the dad that made their daughter open a can of beans before they could eat. An insane double down on something completely arbitrary that the person rationalized into some kind of moral/ethical lesson.

[@noThankyou-g5c]

cool story bro

[@lolmanyeah1]

No you just overreact to not being allowed to eat burgers and fries everyday because you are on the spectrum and think that is an acceptable diet. Theres a reason you people need caretakers and don't fit in with the cool kids.

[@Nowolf]

gotta tell ya, I think the getting punched story goes deeper than a picky eater thing. as a general rule, people find excuses for violence, rather than the violence legitmately being 'caused' by your decisions.

[@Zemawrath]

@@lolmanyeah1 You read a recount of serious physical abuse and mock the victim, and then claim to be an authority on what is moral or acceptable? I'd ask you to reconsider your actions but you clearly think that any opinion you hold is intrinsically worth more because you're neurotypical

[@samgreiner4725]

@@lolmanyeah1 are you stupid, this person is perfectly able to fit in with society, just cause they are a picky eater (and try new things now) doesn't mean you get to dehumanizing them

[@wormsonly]

nl finally found something that overrides the picky eater yta

[@gustave7619]

yeah because this mf brought samosas??? to thanksgiving? wtf

[@mellow3995]

Damn the '...outta my wedding' on the end of the second story synopsis kinda disappointed me. Physically kicking a random girl you don't know sounds like a way more interesting story and debate tbh.

[@xionkuriyama5697]

I had the same thought lol. More physical violence on AITA pls

[@andrewgallagher7690]

I think the main problem with r/AmItheAsshole is that "normal" people have the ability to correctly judge whet they're in the wrong don't need strangers to do it for them. It leads to posts either being people completely in the right looking for validation, or insane people asking if beating their spouse for overcooking the meat loaf was a little too far.

[@michaelfenlon9398]

5:14 is his version of the xqc "15 minute delay" Speech Lmao

[@AzureFlash]

9:30 "SEA CHICKEN! SEA CHICKEN! TORI JANAI YO, SEA CHICKEN!"

[@saykhia]

When is this man getting his comedy special? Dayum

[@ianweston310]

"It's MY special day." "It's MY wedding." These are incredibly selfish statements, and are NOT a good enough reason to be wholly inconsiderate to the feelings and existence of the person you're marrying.

[@bobba515]

"Then I told her to calm down multiple times" It annoys the shit out of me when someone says that. No dude were having a discussion, you have nothing better to say except kind of shutting it down and trying to play the other person off as being hysterical.

[@charge2025]

I just can't think of a legitimate reason why the wife wouldn't want the MIL to have a key to the house if they're apparently on good terms. What could possibly be a concern for the MIL having a key that wouldn't also be true for the wife or the husband?

[@nickburose8286]

Uh yeah maybe cuz she doesn't live there, a concern that does not in fact apply to the wife and husband

[@charge2025]

@@nickburose8286 She's their mother in law, not a random stranger

[@nickburose8286]

@@charge2025 nobody said she was

[@charge2025]

@@nickburose8286 Then I don't see your point

[@RickJaeger]

The point is, my house keys are for me. It's my house, I decide who gets the keys. Nobody who is not part of the household is entitled to the key.

[@ivantumanov1015]

"If you're gonna give a plus one to some people, you gotta give a plus one to everyone" "Also married couples dont count as plus one, so technically you already did what i demanded by not giving anyone plus one"

[@dubsfish154]

I cant help but feel like if his take on story 1 is that the wife should be able to do whatever she wants to be comfortable i dont understand why he sided against the boyfriend who didnt want to do omakse a couple weeks ago

[@JD-wu5pf]

NL would eat his own hands before admitting that a woman did something wrong in a relationship.

[@annhilator55]

I mean that guy was being an asshole lmao. He likes sushi but what only from a box from Walmart? Like this is a case of someone who doesn't like the food at thanksgiving and would rather bring their own food whereas the other guy likes sushi and was just trying to be prove a point.. completely different circumstances.

[@xionkuriyama5697]

@@JD-wu5pf the man was bringing a whole ass ketchup bottle to a resturant to prove a point my guy

[@JD-wu5pf]

@@xionkuriyama5697 I was thinking about a different picky eater story. The one I was thinking of was the guy who went with his girlfriend to a restaurant and just didn't eat anything and the girlfriend got pissy at him (as did NL). Apparently the guy should have brought his own chicken nuggets from home, since that's the level of coddling NL is willing to grant to some people.

[@jamesbellamy9328]

​@@JD-wu5pf He gives girlfriends/wives YTA all the time, what are you talking about? No need to be offended that sometimes men are the arseholes too my guy

[@uns33n]

The real issue is the bride calling specific invites plus ones. She wanted to invited specific people and their partners. So just invite them. Calling it a plus one means bring anyone

[@trethagamer13]

Stay pegged everyone

[@karel3xp]

Honestly I would hate someone who's not living with me and my spouse having a house key, no matter who it is. If it's an emergency just call the fucking ambulance like bruh.

[@zoeybechamel2859]

my god, I'm so glad I'm not alone on the "mom/MY mom" thing. Your mom's not my mom, stop calling her "mom" like I'm in on this.

[@李tsu]

I’m watching this while playing marvel snap😤

[@guildardaze1438]

15:00 counter point. send invites tell them to ask for +1 and you veto it. If they don't do the work they can't be mad if you don't like the person or reason you can say no.

[@lilslash]

I NEED THE RUMBLEVERSE VODS NOW

[@DudokX]

NL is lucky that he didn't experience the ck2 political games of family gatherings that often happen at least here. People throwing shade through fake generosity, one upping each other, it's silly but some people take it like its GoT.

[@RV1AND]

I'm with chat on the first one, she should make enough to serve both herself and the rest of the class. That's what Thanksgiving is about, bringing a dish and sharing with your family. Then she can pick and choose from the rest of the meal, nobody's going to be offended if she only takes a couple things from everybody else's cooking. If this was a "my wife only eats dino nuggies" situation it would be framed that way, so I don't think that's the issue. She just isn't into turkey or whatever. So help her make a sharing-sized amount of her favorite, idk, pasta salad or baked ziti or whatever and she can get through Thanksgiving with a plate of mostly that.

[@ruski77]

is it really that big of a deal to bring your own food just for yourself? it's your family for christ sakes, it's not like you're bringing your own food to a restaurant.

[@Aether_GM]

NL is singlehandedly saving my faith that people can be reasonable and sane. AITA is painful but also somehow satisfying

[@frog985-2]

idk, dude. I wish my mom cared more about me than her husband. bahaha

[@brinka7918]

oooof mommy issues found! child and mother is different. as a parent u always should kid’s well-being in mind ofc but if it’s between married couple and their parents it’s your significant other

[@frog985-2]

@@brinka7918 okay?

[@SigmaticSkippy]

It’s rude to refuse to eat food the host prepared just because you’re picky. At least put some shit on a plate and pretend to eat some of it. Have a couple rolls and get nuggets on the way home. It’s psycho behavior to bring your own food to thanksgiving.

[@emerz3530]

Man why can't people just relax, who cares if people don't eat your food

[@danielblack8497]

@@emerz3530why can’t she just eat before or after. Doing something you know will lead to an argument to me is worse than just pretending to like it for a few hours

[@Vipre-]

Ironic considering the first Thanksgiving is presented as a literal potluck dinner in which everyone brought something.

[@JD-wu5pf]

@@Vipre- Yeah... to share.

[@SigmaticSkippy]

@@Vipre- yeah, to share, you psycho!

[@MrChelomo]

Woman wants to bring her own food to Thanksgiving Dinner: Teehee NTA! Guy wants to bring his own condiments to a restaurant: Just watch me.

[@azazeeel5043]

The heinz incident was way different though

[@momo_11o9]

Mr and Mrs Levinson-Gould got me

[@winniey.w.41]

I love the Whopper meal ad XDDDDD

[@North_Beach]

I feel like if you brought your own food as well as food to share that would’ve been the best action so you can be still seen as contributing while also staying in comfort zone. But excluding intolerance and allergies as an adult you should be past being a picky eater.

[@anthonyyanez7327]

NL post help me get thru the day.

[@oozingtulip1534]

also with the wedding one like it's also the Husband's wedding?? it is a wedding for two people?? imagine not being able to invite TWO ppl to ur own wedding without it being an issue

[@dontGetMunsoned]

NL talking about X-COM while I'm playing X-COM. Mind blown.

[@MelMelodyWerner]

19:30 that's the Love Island game, the dev studio behind it is pretty bad to its writers, iirc.

[@ruski77]

"I was an absolute dick to my wife, AITA?" "Update: Thank you to the few INSIGHTFUL people who said being a dick to your wife is ok and I did nothing wrong, no thanks to those normal people who suggested otherwise and didn't validate my shitty behavior!"

[@MikeTheSpike]

I cannot WAIT to be pogged

[@critormiss6084]

I NEED React Court, NL

[@a2i939]

Damn NL on fire. Seriously the level of eloquence in this stream of consciousness is beautiful.

[@zwenkwiel816]

First one, just put her at the kiddy table and give her some fries and apple sauce...

[@weirdchamp4601]

10:06 bro

[@hereisdann]

love me some react court

[@mrbleepblopguy4638]

Some families it about sharing the meal prepared and eating it as a way of showing gratitude for the work and effort put forth. As someone that cooks often I would just make separate alternatives. I don’t think he is the ass hole his mom is because she won’t make something she would like to eat.

[@nevec1991]

as someone from the US who doesn't like thanksgiving food this video is extremely offensive (/s)

[@Szanth]

Algorithmic engagement

[@TheQats]

I think that woman is crazy she was so mad the mom got a spare key

[@caliwagg1898]

The most wild thing about the first post is that the wife supposedly said “am I supposed to eat food I don’t like?” It’s one meal and she doesn’t have dietary restrictions. Just nibble on a roll and eat at home later?

[@ruski77]

is it really that big of a deal to bring your own food? it's your family for christ sakes, it's not like you're bringing your own food to a restaurant.

[@lagspike7763]

Rumbleverse? Is he playing Rumbleverse again?

[@gameboytre]

😏 The rumors of its death were greatly exaggerated

[@JulianFortune]

associates degree is whatever, you mention fizzbuzz and we know you’re a software nerd for real

[@weirdchamp4601]

5:05 yes, yes you do. Someone bringing their own food is weird unless they share

[@nicolebridges6212]

fisrt line is so real

[@Mad_Pretty]

For the Thanksgiving wife, she might not even be a picky eater. Coming from a US household in the south, people try their hardest to really fuck up the classics.

[@annhilator55]

What I've learned from this comment section is that Americans are insane about thanksgiving.

[@emerz3530]

I love the egg man but man is he weird about picky eaters lol. As an autistic person it's hilarious when people do the whole "It's weird that they're picky about..." man, who cares haha. If someone wasn't even picky and just didn't want a certain food for personal vendetta I don't care

[@Zemawrath]

So here we are again, with an insane NL picky eaters take. Surprised he didn't suggest the guy leave his wife for someone who doesn't have any dietary restrictions. When the wife wants to bring food to thanksgiving: "oh darling, precious" When the boyfriend wants to not purchase food: "you fucking donkey"

[@JD-wu5pf]

Lemme just take advice on what's normal behavior from an autistic person

[@Zemawrath]

@@JD-wu5pf take advice from this🖕

[@lolmanyeah1]

You have to omit your opinion as an autistic person as you should realize you don't understand normal social boundaries and concepts

[@lolmanyeah1]

That's like a 5 year old trying to talk politics. Like ok go back to coloring let the grown ups handle this hahahahaha

[@FreelyFooled]

Not with NL on the first post. I think the husband has communication issues, but for a person to work hard on a meal, and then you showing up with your own food to avoid what they made is an insult and is pretty rude. Obviously the vegan thing NL had is an exception, but in the vein of being an adult, you seriously can't stomach a meal you don't like for one night, or find at least something you do? Being a picky eater as an adult is also just kind of embarrassing, but that's neither here nor there.

[@ambi8822]

I feel like a lot of NL's more controversial takes really just come down to a cultural difference.

[@Silas_MN]

was there a specific example in this episode that you feel can be contributed to that?

[@Nowolf]

@@Silas_MN the idea that bringing your own, personal, only-for-me food to a family gathering centered around sharing a meal not only isn't rude, but that he can't even understand how it could possibly be rude. which is really weird, since when he was talking about a guy and girlfriend going to a restaurant and the guy not ordering, he had a lot to say about the cultural implications and impact of sharing meals.

[@Death101344]

Canadians talking about an American holiday they have latched onto should not be allowed.

[@TheInfectous]

bro do you think canadians just spawned into existence at the advent of modern technology? just because you don't know about the origins doesn't mean they don't exist.

[@viking8796]

HOLY BRIDEZILLA

[@erainmartinez8175]

Hello

[@vepply]

Different sub every once and a while

[@goaway9977]

The wife was clearly being spiteful towards the mother in the first one. Suprised NL didn't pick up on that. Whether justified or not, the mom is obviously the type that would get very offended if someone brought their own food to her home to eat instead of the food she'd prepared. So why offer a "solution" that's going to make the situation worse unless your intention waa to escalate? And frankly I think the mom has a right to get offended by someone refusing to eat her cooking. It's one thing to dislike something, but to dislike something so much you refuse to eat it even as a courtesy to the host who prepared it for you? The food is either inedible or you are unwilling to put in a reasonable effort to spare the feelings of the elderly woman who cooked you a meal.

[@ArtemisCartography]

I don't tend to think of myself as a very picky eater, but there are some things I absolutely cannot get down (Endives are somehow a popular vegetable in my country... I curse the medieval farmer who thought it would be a good idea to selectively breed the most bitter leaf imaginable). No matter how offended you would be if I refused to eat your cooking, I can only imagine it would be worse if I was eating it and gagging. If this lady truly just can't stomach certain ingredients that her mother in law apparently can't cook a thanksgiving meal without, then bringing her own food seems entirely reasonable? She can eat a slice of her mother in law's cake for desert and compliment her on that to make it up 🤷‍♀️

[@goaway9977]

@@ArtemisCartography I agree that there is nothing wrong with have foods that you dislike and that it is no big deal to politely decline to eat them when offered. But this is Thanksgiving, meaning most likely there is a whole array of food on offer. And you want me to believe that there is so little acceptable for the wife to eat that she has no choice but to bring her own food? I'm sorry but I'm struggling to imagine what wild and exotic ingredient you could put on a Thanksgiving turkey to make it unpalatable. To me it's pretty obvious that the wife has a problem with the mother's cooking, which to be fair may be atrocious. But in my opinion this is one of those situations where you just suck it up and endure the same crappy food everyone else is forced to eat for one meal.

[@ArtemisCartography]

@@goaway9977 if we are taking the husband's word for it, she is an unreasonably picky eater, but it also sounds like the mother in law takes it unreasonably personal. I don't think the wife is an asshole for being a picky eater. It sure is annoying for everyone involved and I would personally also try to suck it up and eat around the parts I dislike, but from what we're told in the post that doesn't seem like it would satisfy the mother in law. There is no way for the wife to win in this situation so she chose to avoid it and go be with her own family. Seems fair.

[@zelo1996]

Just because the mom would be offended doesn't mean she is being spiteful. If she wanted to spite her MIL she would have shown up with food and pulled it out on Thanksgiving. Instead she asked her husband to run the idea by his mother and he refused to do so. It is fair for him to do so if he thinks his mom will be offended but what is she supposed to do? Its been more than one thanksgiving and she doest eat much. I think she trying to make the situation work for her by suggesting a compromise that only gives her more work. If the only solution is for her to ear her MILs food, and she's not willing to do that, then she should stay home. But at least it seems like she is making an effort.

[@lolmanyeah1]

@@zelo1996 making an effort would be making an effort to respect her MIL, not be petty on a holiday about giving thanks

[@baseballgenius3]

Always love AITA

[@jawsper1199]

React court! Pog!!! :D

[@bradyspencer]

Pog gourd

[@Blackobluna]

NL is a Grade A wife confirmed

[@MindGobby]

Aita pog!