AITA For Not Telling Girlfriend I'd Dump Her If She Went On Vacation? r/Relationships

[@sophdog2564]

"I've been cheating on my wife for months but she is a sociopath because she took months to prepare to walk out on me"

[@juliearmfield2634]

Okay I know I'm going to sound extremely naive but what does opsec mean? Lol

[@judyjohnson9610]

@@juliearmfield2634 Operational security (OPSEC) is a security and risk management process that prevents sensitive information from getting into the wrong hands. I had no clue either, so I Googled it. New term to me as well. In this context, it means that he didn't cover his tracks and got busted for cheating

[@sophdog2564]

​@@juliearmfield2634 I didn't know either but I just googled it and it means "operational security"

[@agingophelia9812]

@@juliearmfield2634 operational security.

[@untitled-gv3qp]

​@@juliearmfield2634 from context clues I'm guessing it's the ability to hide an affair, maybe. It's my first time hearing it too. Maybe it's something from r/adultery since that's where he posted.

[@morganleanderblake678]

That cheating OP just keeps digging himself deeper and deeper and deeper. "I know I betrayed my wife fundamentally but how DARE she not immediately confront me?!"

[@alexanderhenby1362]

And icing on the cake, how dare she not pay for me to keep doing it. This dude isn't a train wreck he's a whole goddamned train disaster

[@BruinPhD2009]

​@@alexanderhenby1362 he's every Classic 70s Disaster Movie rolled into one psychotic package.

[@miminana-hd6nf]

and he had the nerve to call her a psychopath because she was able to keep up the facade. He is the scum of the earth.

[@kateemma22]

I need more updates because his spiral is genuinely hilarious.

[@clockwork3494]

The fact he said her not confronting him "wasn't normal" is surreal to me, I think it's a pretty reasonable response given OP's behavior in the comments. I've heard and seen my fair share of weirdos, idiots and jerks on Reddit, but I don't think any hold a candle to this level of deranged behavior from OP. The fact that he felt he deserved to see her crying and pleading to work on their marriage is just.. wow. Only on Reddit.

[@coreymartin6486]

"How can she know I was cheating, have sex with me, and smile?" You mean, like you? Except it's only you who broke the marriage bows at the same time.

[@RayvenLunaNite]

The guy who cheated and is shocked his wife left: what did he expect? Waterworks and pick me energy? Grown adults secure in themselves dont need to stoop so low as to beg for a cheater. They know they're worth better and will just leave.

[@judyjohnson9610]

Plus it may have been safer for her to choose that way out.

[@pippo17173]

I love post like this because you know their throwing out any kind of responsibility and hoping strangers will fix it.

[@karmagrl76]

That is exactly what he expected from her, and rightly so. You see, OP is god's gift to women. He should be fought over like the prime piece of real estate he is. It isn't his fault he cheats. He's just too much man for one woman, and she needs to respect that. /s

[@juliearmfield2634]

He reminds me of the married guy that was having a 6-year long affair with a married woman because they share the same Kink fetish. Her husband found out so he was all nervous that his wife was going to find out and then he found out that she was having an affair for about a year and he was so shocked he could not believe she was having an affair on him. He acted like she was the one that done him wrong. It was absolutely hilarious. You just can't make this s*** up. 🤣

[@johnbradbury8610]

He must have been great in bed. Or his wife must have major self-esteem issues. I hope this is fake.

[@browhattheactualfu-2659]

People like the second op are desperate for reactions. He wanted his ex wife to scream, cry, do the pick me dance and blame solely the AP because he's that much of a prize. He wanted a confrontation because a confrontation would make him feel desirable and a chance to blame everything and everyone else. He didn't get that so now the wife is the non human sociopath because she didn't play her part.

[@aubreymorgan9763]

he even said it "the attention is helping me cope"

[@thegayestgoth]

She makes most of the money. She didn't need him.

[@superc.j]

And didn't he also say he doesn't get any excitement from his affair partner now since his wife took the high road? Like, wtf!?😂

[@chinaking918]

@@superc.jright. Sound like he was cheating to hurt the wife. It could be because I hear too many of these stories but it sound like him cheating was his way to humble her. He wanted to show her she wasn’t all that because she pay for mostly everything. He expected her to lose self esteem and blame herself for his cheating because she couldn’t be the “woman he wanted”. This is all speculation on my part but the fact he dropped his AP like that and the fact he’s more upset she left without confronting him makes me believe this is what was going on.

[@Fangybite]

2nd OP: Hold on, I'm looking for the world's smallest violin...

[@Alissandre_Iskander]

There isn't a violin small enough for this guy.😅

[@Frostfern94]

@@Alissandre_IskanderThere will never be one smaller than his pp

[@A.ka.nna.]

I have a microscope to see it!

[@tayflowers13]

The second op is delusional 😂

[@elizahamilton5599]

All of R/adultery is

[@autumn557]

He 100% thinks woman are both idiots and dolls. How DARE she make opinions of my cheating and not act EXACTLY how I wanted her to!

[@untitled-gv3qp]

Dude didn't even learn anything. He acts like nothing he did was wrong but acts like she's so horrible for just quietly leaving when she got her stuff in order. What a narcissist.

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

I’ve spent the entire time trying to figure out WTAF I’m listening to!

[@agentzapdos4960]

Men. What do you expect?

[@amemooress6291]

The guy who cheated and is now plotting how to hide cheating better for the next partner is the actual sociopath 😂 Not the wife. The wife is a badass

[@botanyblack9826]

That was my thought. Only thing he cared for was "How did she find out?" as in how do I fix the holes in my statagy so not to be caught next time...

[@diamcole]

17:52 LMAO OP is still so confused - she doesn't give a damn about him wanting or respecting her, she's done. Which is exactly why he came home to an empty house and the sweetness is long gone. Ex is definitely a bad ass.

[@untitled-gv3qp]

That confused me so much when I first heard it. Like sir, she grabbed her sh*t, left, and served you the papers. Are you still somehow under the impression that reconciliation is on the table? And why would she need to impress you when you're the one that f'ed up? Heck, you can't even support yourself financially without her, she gains nothing from trying to save a dumpster fire relationship with a dude that hasn't even learned his lesson about cheating.

[@jimbobjones9330]

@@untitled-gv3qp He doesn't want or care about reconciliation. He just wants to "win", and she took away his opportunity. He wanted her to cry and yell and beg him to pick her, and then he'd graciously accept while still cheating on her. And she just said "Nope. You aren't worth it." It was a massive blow to his fragile ego.

[@untitled-gv3qp]

@@jimbobjones9330 You summed it up perfectly. That makes a lot more sense now.

[@starbird3939]

Story 2 Oh look, the consequences of OP’s actions.

[@untitled-gv3qp]

And he still learned nothing 😂 He even asked her how SHE could lie to him like that! 🤦‍♀️

[@boneymeroney2674]

So the husband gets caught and is shocked his wife left? 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Is this sketch comedy? I'm impressed with the bad ass wife.

[@Emcee91]

Gets caught doing what!? I’m so confused 😭😭😭

[@RayvenLunaNite]

@@Emcee91 he cheated. He mentioned an affair partner

[@locusxe1411]

@@Emcee91how? Like genuinely, how are you confused

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

@@locusxe1411it was vague for a min. It took me until that point to confirm this is cheating.

[@untitled-gv3qp]

"I can't even enjoy my affair partner now, she's such a b**** 🤡". How are you gonna cheat and then act like you've been betrayed.

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

OP accusing the wife of lying is insane! SIR! The wife seems to have a pretty good handle on this.

[@Deedoof]

Story: 2 "I don't think it's losing her that's hurting but losing like this." OP is classy. /s

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

What is story 2? Dude can barely say he cheated. Like, why is he making it seem like he’s the victim? “She’s been more deceitful about knowing than I have about doing it….” “I can’t even have interest in my AP now….” “Cheating isn’t the only crappy thing you can do to someone.” WTAF is this story?!

[@ZombieSazza]

It’s because OP is a complete narcissist with a massive ego, he’s playing the victim which is what narcissists do, along with refusing to accept responsibility for his own behaviour and actions, blaming everyone else for how he’s acted, his ego has been shattered and his narcissism challenged. OP believes he’s some prize she should be fighting, crying and begging for, so he can tell her “fine, I’ll stop cheating and only focus on you, my wife”, and she shattered his ego by showing him she isn’t playing that game because she doesn’t care about him, because he doesn’t matter, he means nothing and isn’t important. He’s being faced with his own behaviour and calling his ex wife, the woman he cheated on and is angry she isn’t begging and crying over him, a sociopath for safely planning her exit! In regards to suddenly throwing his affair partner away like a broken toy, that’s because she was only ever a toy to him and it sounds like he wanted to make his wife jealous and upset, to show her there are “better options” out there for him because he’s obviously an extremely desirable man and she needed to be humbled, that’s just how that comes across for me. What’s even better is you know this will live rent free in his head for the rest of his life, he’ll never get over this and it’s absolutely DESERVED!

[@EluneAnzu]

Story 2: The fact the OP's ex makes more than him is the cherry on top for me, I really hope he gets screwed over in court since he event mentions wanting to get money from her to keep living the life he's gotten used to, you know, cheating on her while living off her dime.

[@carlrood4457]

The way she left is a blow to his ego. He probably cheated for extra attention and now he's getting much less. The most powerful thing you can do is just walk away.

[@naoko7184]

Depending on where the second OP lives he may be in for a rude awakening. Many areas will not award alimony to an adulterer (essentially the adulterer broke the contract, making the contract void), so OP’s statement that she’s going to have to pay to support him in the lifestyle to which he’s become accustomed may be a pipe dream. I would love to see his response when he realizes he gets nothing 😅.

[@vanguardangel6912]

I laughed so hard at the second OP I scared my dogs (sorry babies!). Just, the absolute AUDACITY and sheer delusion he had is hilarious.

[@loganjoh1]

Story 2: OP isn’t just a clown he’s the entire circus. I was laughing my ass off the more stupid shit he said

[@whitneybennett4857]

Yes, most cheaters on here make you want to give them a good beating, but this guy's just so pathetic and has so little self-awareness it's actually hilarious. XD

[@maurer3d]

Story 2: YTA, wait your cheating on her, and you are complaining about her leaving your ass? This isn't "out of the blue", your a cheater, partners leave people who cheat all the time. Story 2 (OP's comments and update): Of course she has known for a while, and she took her time to make sure she could safely leave your ass. Oh and stop using Opsec, you were cheating, not killing a terrorist leader.

[@CanyonALynn]

He's a tool for using opsec unironically.

[@MrJpaynebb]

I had to look up what he meant by opsec. He got caught because like most long term cheaters he became arrogant and thought he was untouchable.

[@ivorydragon]

@@MrJpaynebbif i may ask, wth is opsec, i keep getting “operational security” and im still confused

[@MrJpaynebb]

@@ivorydragon it's orginal reference is correct but apparently cheaters now are using the term to indicate how secure their plans and execution are when conducting their affair. Going to different hotels for meetups, using prepaid credit cards, communications only through apps that erase messages, etc... They are treating their cheating like an ops mission.

[@ivorydragon]

@@MrJpaynebb a thank you very much for the explanation

[@autumn557]

I don’t really have a problem with how OP broke up. He said he didn’t like it, she said she didn’t care. Enough said.

[@gigicat3943]

Yes! And if the roles were reversed, everyone would be cheering the woman on for keeping herself "safe" from the big, bad man by getting all her stuff while he was away.

[@susankaempfer8427]

Agree. And then wonder if she’s sitting there resenting him for it? No thanks.

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

“I wouldn’t have done it if I thought she’d find out.” *_SERIOUSLY WHAT IS THIS STORY?!_* 13:52 wait…._*WHAT?!*_ The AUDACITY!

[@diamondmx3076]

Cheating OP seems like he's mostly upset that she isn't hurt enough. Getting psycho vibes from that and the complete lack of remorse.

[@FlashQuatsch]

ah, another great example of Cheater Brain, i swear these people are just wired different "I cheated on her but how could she not fight for me, she's so evil" i swear bro

[@fallingawayfromthenorm]

Story 2 - How are there commenters who are saying they’re sorry for all involved? OP fucked up royally and was so full of himself he didn’t think there was a possibility of his affair getting back to his wife. Why are we feeling sorry for him too? If he actually cared about his wife and marriage, he would have seen his own red flags and done work on himself to not give into his temptations. I don’t feel bad for him at all, he made crap choices and now he’s upset about losing. The more and more that OOP replies to comments the scummier he is revealed to be. It’s bold of him to act like she’s just as bad for ditching him.

[@vanillablossom]

Well, if I understood Markee correctly, this was posted on adultery subreddit, so other cheaters feeling sorry for one of them kinda makes sense, doesn't it? And I bet he posted on adultery subreddit to get more sympathy than from, let's say, relationship or relationship advice subreddit. People there would probably eat him alive. 🤗

[@clarrie93]

This is a sub for adultery, so the people are either adulterers themselves or people who are there to condemn cheaters

[@sargampareek2774]

Well, I remember a story where the husband cheated and the wife was a SAHW. After finding out, she just couldn't forgive him but stayed with him till both her kids were 18. This guy blasted, saying that his wife cheated by pretending to be ok with it and almost all the comments were in favor of the OP. So, no matter what the opinion, you'll always find d someone to agree / disagree with you.

[@bubblegum_flavor551]

Op in story 2 sound so desperate when he’s the one that cheated

[@xelectrix]

The fact that he uses the term "opsec" unironically makes me hate him more.

[@Kay-uy4xn]

Sometimes women leave on the quiet because they fear the man will get violent. Leaving is the most common time to be murdered by your male partner OP sounds unhinged to me and very angry that he didn't get the chance have a confrontation. His impotent rage speaks volumes about his character and her wise decision to bail on him

[@sandracox4341]

The fact that he thinks he's getting alimony. 😂

[@thesacredbeast2000]

honestly with this guys attitude he could be complaining about his wife trying to poison him to death and I'd still be on her side

[@beccaf262]

The ability for OP to make himself a victim is so unreal. I think he someway gets off on her being emotionally hurt. The way he speaks about her not getting upset gives me more idk than the post on its own.

[@Hen-of-the-Month]

"Where's Waldo?" An early 2000's rap video, apparently. 🤭 Markee, in all seriousness, I appreciate your willingness to go on camera! I love the personal touch you add to your Reddit readings. Thank you for uploading so consistently!

[@Akemi.24-45]

So, there's a whole vocabulary/code used by cheaters, to communicate amongst themselves?? 😱 This is soooo sick! 😡

[@Morpheusdarkson]

Opsec refers to generally hiding one from tracking and being found. It’s not a cheater code but something in tech and hacking scene. We use it to refer to how good we are at hiding our data and avoid being tracked by governments for snooping into their stuff.

[@PonderingStudent]

That's true, but its also a term cheaters use to describe how they hide said cheating. I believe the word originated in a military context, but now it's used in lots of other contexts, including by hackers and cheaters.​@@Morpheusdarkson

[@gigga143]

i was so confused in the beginning lol this guy and cheaters are such trash.

[@Akemi.24-45]

@@Morpheusdarkson I don't really care about the origin of the words they use, it's more about being so immoral, to the point, of building a terminology for their own malicious agenda.

[@projectjupiter5523]

yep, they even call themselves "waywards" instead of cheaters. i think it feeds into the "excitement" they try to derive from absolutely decimating their partner's trust and purposefully tearing the lives of their family into shreds plus, in the case of 'wayward', spares their feelings as being called what they actually are is too much for their fragile ego and delicate feelings. sorry for the long comment, it actually makes me sick to know that people use this language as they recount exactly how they're destroying the people they claim to love as though it's some sort of game.

[@burntblonde2925]

OP got what he deserved. He’s not sad, she’s leaving, but the lifestyle. How dare she, when she makes the money

[@TaterKakez]

I can’t even say how much I hate the cheating OP who was sad - not because she left, but bc she left in a way that hurt HIM. F that guy, gross

[@poptartdom]

First story, literally one of the most respectable things I've ever heard of a guy doing.

[@draughtoflethe]

My favorite part of story 2 is the way OP seems genuinely baffled by his stbx's reference to his "impulse control issues." (Helpful hint to OP: she's referring to your inability to control your impulse to break your marriage vows and screw somebody else.)

[@80soa]

Story 2: poor woman, had to go thru all that and plan her escape and not even her mom is by her side, hope she has some good friends.

[@OpticalArxenal]

Cheaters trying to validate themselves is just a narcissist w/o self-awareness...

[@OpticalArxenal]

@@LostSoulchild89 Nah, some know that they have an issue. Most don't, or don't care that they do.

[@Fluffy-Rose1993]

With that cute Where's Wally shirt, you gotta add the beanie and glasses to your avatar.

[@kalishaffer8210]

I was thinking prison wear. Playing up that angle.

[@mbyerly9680]

OP's wife played a smart long game. I'm sure she spent that time getting her legal and financial life in order as her divorce lawyer instructed her as well as getting evidence of his infidelity. He's going to be deservedly screwed in this divorce.

[@stellamccoy5259]

So, the OP is pissed because his wife found out that he was cheating on her and left him? WTF is wrong with people. Behavior equals consequences.

[@rosegirlz88]

Oo that last cheater ! Word for word he sounds like my ex when i found out, shut down and handed him divorce paperwork. He was shocked i went so calmly. He also assuage himself by imagining i might also be cheating that fining BJ picture of hid gf in our tax files was snooping and worse than what he did

[@rosegirlz88]

@@LostSoulchild89 I had immediate relief and improvement to my life after the divorce. It was honestly magical the weight off my shoulders

[@EllieC130]

Story 2: I had a great time all through this story sarcastically saying "Oh no oh nooo poor baby."

[@Mellow9795]

Story 2 has to be rage bait... no one is that stupid... right..?

[@Center-For-I.E.D.Mismanagement]

You'd be surprised.

[@juliearmfield2634]

​@@Center-For-I.E.D.Mismanagementthat's exactly what I was going to say. 😂

[@untitled-gv3qp]

I think he was just fishing for sympathy since he posted on the adultery reddit page. He probably thought everyone was the same as him and would talk trash about his ex.

[@jimbobjones9330]

Yes. Yes there are people that insane.

[@carolroberts4614]

My ex was extremely indignant when I decided to divorce him! He'd been cheating for a long time and I had to bide my time for various reasons.

[@nightmarefanatic1819]

I'm actually laughing to the point of tears from story two.

[@Kimberly_Sparkles]

I remember the comments on story 1. All people were trying to point out to him was it wasn't an ultimatum to be honest about his boundaries. He would have dumped her sooner if he had. His whole reason for waiting was to access her home without her supervision. He really still doesn't understand that his ex could go to the police and say he kept the key under false pretenses to access her house and now her expensive stuff is missing. Her cheating would just sealed the deal that he may have been trying to get even with her. Even if he didn't get charges from it, the local popo could make his life really uncomfortable. Why am I not allowed to call OP's who are setting themselves up to catch charges names?

[@lindah3803]

Last story: Gooodneesss. This was hilarious. The little prick didn't have the slightest clue that he was married to a Queen. A totally badass Queen.

[@BulletTooth504]

Story 2 OP: "Maybe she was cheating." Maybe you're projecting.

[@ilovesports5468]

The way that man is spiraling after his wife left his cheating behind is HILARIOUS!!!! Good. His broke ass about to go back on the poor house. Good on that lady for leaving!

[@SCUBASUEReynard]

First story he subconsciously recognized a lot of red flags. The trust was lost.

[@FanFicnic]

The number of cheaters who are angry that their wives don’t react with like screaming and yelling when they find out about their affairs is *wild*.

[@annenwachukwu9837]

Woah! The Delulu is strong with this one! 😅😂 Story 2.🤣😂

[@maryellen9503]

Markee! Don't let the horrible people you read about make you jaded. YOu seem to be a lovely person! I do love "what a muppet"!

[@sandracox4341]

Op in the second story is some kind of delusional, narcissistic in major denial. Let's recap: he cheated, but her leaving without a word after knowing for four months is worse. He doesn't care that she left, and he lost her, it's how she left and he lost. He isn't upset about losing her as much as losing her money. He thinks her leaving without a freakout is her somehow wanting him to want her more, but he can't respect her because she left so cold and unemotional.

[@katem.3677]

Lol at OP #2 losing it cuz he didn't get the ego boost of having his stbx wife crying and begging him not to leave her, or getting the chance to gaslight her into blaming herself and forgiving him, and most likely still cheating on her cuz he needs to have his cake and eat it too (getting his kicks with his mistress while still keeping his meal ticket) .

[@KCanbutwont]

Everyone's a loser baby 🎶 ❤ 😂😂 Story 2 "how dare she deceive me????" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@heatherweir8726]

Story two. Op. How can she just leave without asking me? She has self respect. Op.She abandoned the home how can she serve me? Is op really that stupid? Op I need to know how she found out. You're not that smart. Op Iwould not have done it if I new she would find out. Yes you would. Op. Cheating is not the only $#itty thing you can do in a relationship. It is one of the worst things you can do. Op.I'll have to ask her for money to keep living like I do now. The courts will decide that.

[@MH-ku5kn]

Last story…. “How do I not go through this?” You know it’s actually nice this hear a narcissist melt down. Even if it’s not the ones I’ve had to deal with.

[@MH-ku5kn]

OMG what a total pig!! “I don’t think it’s losing her… it’s losing like this.” ….Jesus.

[@DominosAndHearts]

Loving the where's wally vibes markee

[@juliearmfield2634]

That's the first thing i thought 😂

[@marktwain2053]

1. NTA. I've seen this on other sites, and the answer still the same All anyone, including her, needed to know was that he wasn't comfortable with her going on a trip with a bunch of guys he doesn't know, unless they actually ARE her brothers. He may have had no problem with her having male friends, but it's NEVER going to work out well, and she proved that. There's always going to be those who are going to blame the guy no matter what, because women should ALWAYS be believed...Yeah, Right. If I believed my ex-wife, I would have never known about the multiple guys she was cheating with (I doubt she even remembers how many).

[@TheSwagger81]

Last story: dude is a sociopath. Omg

[@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64]

If OP had told little miss Cersei Lannister he’d break up with her then she could’ve easily spun it so that OP would’ve been the bad guy in the situation and/or cover her tracks more thoroughly.

[@kmon1324]

Exactly, never let the cheating party control the narrative.

[@xelectrix]

I don't understand posts like OPs. He already broke up with her. Why does he care about what a bunch on randos on the internet think? Especially reddit.

[@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64]

@@xelectrix Looking for validation and peace of mind, basically trying to confirm that they made the right choice.

[@paulqueripel3493]

If he'd told her he'd break up if she went, Reddit would say he was being controlling.

[@Goddess_Aleu_White_Wolf]

Omg markee your shirt takes me back to my childhood down memory lane, thank you so much 😍😍🥰🥰

[@GaskyChan]

“How could she lie!? T-T” - the cheating c word OP

[@ChristineKrannich]

The guy with “great opsec” story is in my top 3 stories of all time. (The mom wearing her daughter’s clothes on the couch and the one where the widow’s inlaws tried to kidnap her kids so she moved across the planet are the other two) People’s behavior fascinates me.

[@immortalsofar5314]

I've a feeling that those commenters who claimed OP should have been clearer would have accused me of being manipulative, as my ex did when I told her "go if you like but I won't be here when you get back." She can be friends with men, just not the guy she cheated on me with.

[@asherikamichaela8425]

The ex gf in the first story and the OP in the second would get along. 😒 Just... wow.

[@HDB1974]

The holiday thing happened to me. My ex went on holiday with her ex, the guy she was seeing before me. We had the discussion beforehand and told her not to contact me when she got back. Imagine her surprise pikachu face when she got back and I'd have nothing to do with her.

[@randomusername3873]

I love how cheaters are mad because their victims doesn't openly suffer for what they did😂 "I didn't mean to hurt yoy" yes, you did😂

[@ajb7530]

People need to realize that putting yourself in a situation like what OPs girlfriend did is a red flag. Cheating can or could occur. It's better not to put yourself in it. It's not about being controlling, it's about respect for your relationship. I've seen both men and women make moves on people who are already taken because some people have no boundaries or respect.

[@susankaempfer8427]

I still don’t understand what the girlfriend’s grand plan was. Why not just break up with op? Why string him along? I can not get my brain around why people who are cheating get upset or surprised when the person they were cheating on leaves. What were they thinking?

[@nothereyetlost]

Story 2. I’m a cheater, but I deserve the best treatment of a reaction.

[@GeekyBibliophile]

I love your shirt Markee! Here in Canada, and the US apparently, he's known as Waldo.

[@lalalachris]

The story mad at the partner acting like not saying anything made the partner worse than the cheating lying OP. Funniest thing ever. What a narcissist.

[@DeeL-u1c]

That last story was crazy. I don't usually listen to the cheating OP stories, but that last story was off the hook.

[@marcusbergman6116]

2nd story is absolutely WILD

[@ratoim]

The GF from the first story should get together with OP from the second story. A match made in 🔥.

[@aduckofsomesort]

She left the house so how could she serve me? That is not at all how that works.

[@patc4586]

Story #2 reminds me of a radio psychotherapist I used to listen to back in the 1980s. Dr Joy Brown. This one fellow called in all outraged and out of breath to ask for advice on what to do because his "girlfriend" was seeing other men. Dr. Brown asked him why he was so breathless and whispering. He replied that he had to run down to the basement to make the call because he didn't want his *wife* to hear him. 🙄 😖😑

[@avalineriley6809]

"I'm so good at cheating, my wife will never know" ...... Wife has known for months, hilarious.

[@BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat]

Thank you Markee! Really great content! 11:48 #Narricist wanted #emotionalreaction 😭😤🤬🤧😪 aka #Fuel #NarricistSupply ⛽️ from wife, most important was to find out HOW she knew 12:50 #Entitlement 15:43 #AttentionSeeking 17:53 #Delusion #Hypocrisy 19:31 12:39 #Drama #Paranoia 12:10

[@rasheedabasheer4046]

Story2: how the tables have turned. 😂

[@TaterKakez]

I had to lol at the spiraling OP after his cheating 😂

[@nothereyetlost]

So giving them great sex also doesn’t save you from being cheated on or emotionally abused. If you’re fit and friendly and feminine, doesn’t save yiu from abuse or cheating If you’re submissive, doesn’t save you from being a sided, murdered or cheated on Providing great sex doesn’t keep you from being cheated on, murdered, or abused Being a provider doesn’t save you from being cheated on, abused or murdered Choosing a broke man doesn’t keep you from being cheated on, abused or murdered Being modest doesn’t keep you from being abused, cheated on or murdered. But they will blame women that it all happened. This gender is sickening.

[@susami_]

Ahahahaha the second story. I wish all the worst to that piece of crap for the rest of his life ❤ And all the best to that absolute QUEEN

[@feministawry1600]

Markee with the Where's Waldo shirt

[@SherriLyle80s]

Love your Where's Wally shirt 😊

[@CharlesJohnson-y3r]

Just can't understand the mind set of cheaters and their excuses

[@JRMAV1]

“wHy diDn’T yOu tElL mE?” Like you told her about your affair

[@delmarhi]

2….. came back around again for this one. This op is in a crazed bizarro reality…. Is outstanding a person this delusional actually exists. His wife is a quality, aware human. He lost out big…..

[@EluneAnzu]

Was going to make a "Where's Markee?" joke when I saw the red and white shirt then I noticed the where's wally bit on it.

[@LorienInksong]

Damn reddit AITA really has a population of users fixated on gender wars rather than the situations at hand. Guy gets cheated on? Obvious his fault somehow. Woman has severe PTSD and its impacting her life? She's a horrible person for not fixing herself so she can act like nothing is wrong and spend the rest of her life with her trigger under her nose. Its really immature and frustrating, and whichever way these people are reaching from the sexism is hurting everyone.

[@paulineisme]

I feel like people have a lot of rage in them so they take it out on convenient targets and posters are usually those easy targets. YTAs let off more ateam than NTAs so people get carried away. Some times it's just comical to what lengths people go to accuse the OP

[@ZombieSazza]

OP in story 2 is a complete narcissist with a massive ego, he’s playing the victim which is what narcissists do, along with refusing to accept responsibility for his own behaviour and actions, blaming everyone else for how he’s acted, his ego has been shattered and his narcissism challenged. OP believes he’s some prize she should be fighting, crying and begging for, so he can tell her “fine, I’ll stop cheating and only focus on you, my wife”, and she shattered his ego by showing him she isn’t playing that game because she doesn’t care about him, because he doesn’t matter, he means nothing and isn’t important. He’s being faced with his own behaviour and calling his ex wife, the woman he cheated on and is angry she isn’t begging and crying over him, a sociopath for safely planning her exit! In regards to suddenly throwing his affair partner away like a broken toy, that’s because she was only ever a toy to him and it sounds like he wanted to make his wife jealous and upset, to show her there are “better options” out there for him because he’s obviously an extremely desirable man and she needed to be humbled, that’s just how that comes across for me. What’s even better is you know this will live rent free in his head for the rest of his life, he’ll never get over this and it’s absolutely DESERVED! His ex wife is a QUEEN who knows her self worth, she’ll be on his mind forever and brought him back down to earth.

[@juliearmfield2634]

Story 1. Nta. I can't believe these people don't have any more respect for their Partners or their relationships then they do. To go on a trip with her male guy friends one who she slept with and doesn't think it's a big deal or disrespectful. I'm putting money on that there was more than one guy in that group she used to hook up with. I cannot believe she tried gaslighting him like she did it's so good that he found out now then later

[@morrisonlange2241]

Op got a huge dose of indifference. Op you fucked up own it.

[@ladiblue03]

In the second story if I was in that case I do the same thing as op wife. Always have a back up plan.

[@pitviper2]

I found Waldo

[@danielaortizcastillo9160]

*1:54* question: who the heck still keeps a picture of them kissing an ex or a previous hookup after its over??? I have a lot of questions!!! O.o

[@Acatandanomad]

I've got a couple, granted, their travel pics too, a cool late, next to entering a new state, blah blah. Just because I broke up with someone doesn't mean I'm gonna get rid of those photos. It just means I'm gonna think more about the places I've been than the person I was with. But I'm weird, I know my siblings would have immediately deleted them. And no, I'm not still interested in any of the ex's I have pictures of.

[@nondisclosure3920]

I can't believe how tone deaf this guy is, he actually complained that he can't enjoy his affair partner anymore... Cue worlds smallest violin. Christ!

[@MoonlightBelladonna]

Hope his ap cheats or leaves him, bro would deserve it.

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Hey Markee 👋 Have a restful night 👍 Have a wonderful day/night everyone 👋🤗