Alex Costa Talks Becoming More Attractive, Uninterested Women, Maximizing Confidence + More

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

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[@aoxdashy.4338]

Try to get Austin Dunham on improving fitness glowing up long term and dating

[@alexcosta]

You guys are the real deal. I appreciate you grinding to bring these podcasts out so consistently! Thanks for coming over and having a great chat 🙏

[@heatherb1635]

He’s definitely a stoner🤑

[@elliotthedissident6077]

@@aaront4472 He looks fire bro

[@Refik9]

I invite you to my podcast next 😅

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Alex is a rock star and an icon living. Thanks so much for being such an inspiration for men everywhere.

[@vikramkaura]

Oh my god my Alex is here

[@realbenjaminseda]

Legends!

[@kamalsmusic]

You should be on the podcast next!

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thanks Zeus! Keep up the dope work brother, you're killing it as well.

[@chinmaybhabadYT]

@@kamalsmusic who will be on podcast Zeus or Benjamin

[@luciandavis5118]

@@chinmaybhabadYT lmao same person.He think we don't know

[@neodaltiair8624]

Costa is a dope dude, this episode shows that the 1% influencer life isn't what most think it is, they go through insecurities, mental health struggles and impostor syndrome it just like the average person. Thank you for giving a realistic look at what it's like to be at that level.

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[@TheNextManimal]

Man such a great convo that I needed. I’ve been in a funk lately. About to graduate from college at the end of this week, grades have never been a problem, job lined up starting in September but I’m just tired of the formula. Wake up, workout, school work, housework, sleep. Since covid started but really for the past 3 years. I’ve missed out on so much social stuff w my friends convincing myself school was the main priority. It was but like Alex said I’m too comfortable to the point that I’m uncomfortable being this comfortable. I’m in dire need of a change of scenery but I’m too worried about how everyone else will feel about me saying it. Their input matters but I just needed to self reflect to really figure it out, at the end of the day I know what it is I need to do. Been trying to improve w these Roomates videos for the past couple of months and they really helped. I’ll continue to grind it out, got a couple things left to do in the next year and a half until I’m free to make whatever move feels right at the time. When the job starts in September and covid clears up I plan on going out more and I’m preparing for that now. The Level Up grind won’t stop.

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[@nathancook7878]

Prayers to all the guys taking losses and who are in a drought 🙏🏻

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[@TheBitcoinExpress]

Hafeez and Chris, you guys are amazing, perfect combo, great interview with Alex 🔥

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[@grissom.]

this really helped me, thank you. I realized i needed a good work/life balance. like Alex, i’ve put in the time, i’ve done the hours, and i’ve been working hard. Maybe i should take a day off and focus on me and be happy.

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[@CraftedByAidan]

Listening to the wisdom on these podcasts and the Roomates channel more widely go a little way to helping guide me as a now 18 year old man after losing my father as a 12 year old. Its invaluable, and for that, I thank you ❤

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[@Brendanmuema]

That opening statement was one of the most truest statements that I agree with, You (need) a partner who understands your lifestyle and know every version of you vice Versa and they are willing to be active participant in helping you with things you are struggling with making you a better person.

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[@marcelchalobah7946]

🤩🤩🤩 how are you

[@JosuSustacha]

you can read "once upon a cow" from Camilo Cruz, that is a book that if you want, changes your mindset of victimizing yourself to the better

[@chinmaybhabadYT]

Bro thanks for reccomdation

[@JosuSustacha]

@@chinmaybhabadYT that book changed a lot of thing inside me, now i dont allow any drama, excuse, or really anything besides hard work, goals and positivity get in my mind

[@chinmaybhabadYT]

@@JosuSustacha that's great to hear.Will definitely read it

[@TheDaneyeledee]

@@JosuSustacha I genuinely applaud you! I see so many men complaining and I find it pitiful. Men are supposed to be leaders and providers; victimizing oneself won’t allow men to reach their full potential.

[@kemsolid]

This is like a chat amongst men and golden pieces of advice at the same time.

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

''Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to which many Kings have fallen.'' - Proverbs 3:13

[@mario125ww]

@Lili M. lol the red pill community is toxic. Don't get too invested

[@dozied6620]

Slight correction - It’s Proverbs 31:3. A balance is key. These “manly” channels make some sense but can easily get toxic. Be reasonable, Gents. Be the master of your own destiny. Do not become a slave to any woman or to any KZbinr.

[@felipecano-silva323]

Alex, Jose , Aaron the big three brothers we never had 🐺

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[@LiquidfirePUA]

All ex rsd

[@trxndesign3331]

They're literally Cap, Iron Man and Thor of men's fashion Avengers

[@felipecano-silva323]

@@trxndesign3331 fr 😂

[@trxndesign3331]

@@felipecano-silva323 Alex looks like Tony Stark tho😂😂

[@bigdon8668]

I believe why a lot of young men get scared (used to happen to me too), its after multiple attempts, along with many different approaches, strong rejections etc, it just gets depressing with the failures. age 21-25 will be the most difficult. plus our generation are heavily lacking in transparent social communication.

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[@WheresLauretta]

Family Matters is a classic! I can't believe Chris doesn't know what's good lmao - dope podcast y'all, full of gems.

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[@alicekbonilla]

Changing things up a little bit is MOST DEFINITELY NECESSARY!

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[@smeefyzeus7078]

Great discussion fellas really opened a new perspective when it comes to balancing both work life & relationships

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[@kaso1325]

i needed this podcast the balance. i work too much im so tired of working and just want to chill.

[@jacobcirrus]

I CANNOT thank you guys enough for helping us guys, including me, LEVEL UP! This podcast was SICK! The fact that it's free on youtube.. SO MUCH APPRECIATION! Keep it up guys!

[@sanch1se169]

Yall deserve more 1 million subs, these podcasts are gold

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[@senegalinhere1589]

you always bring my favorite people it why I love your Channel keep it up the good work guys bro

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[@ryanchapman3902]

Thank you so much for this video! I just went through a break up and this defiantly helped. I knew I wanted to focus on myself prior to the video but I was starting to go through the doubt phase, so thank you Alex and The Roommates for posting this. I feel that a lot guys need to watch and REALLY hear the messages here.

[@d00m_nick]

Cool thing is they shot this in Alex Costa's place as well, awesome video!

[@DigiDawg2]

Ty hafeez for saying that not wanting a 80hr work week is fine and acceptable. For a long time I'd watch these videos and videos like these and they constantly preach work work and works some more. And I'm like I'm already working hard now. I'd like to have decent riches and to have a kingdom and I know that takes work. But I also know that I hate having to work hard constantly and that kind of lifestyle would make me miserable, working so hard that I can't enjoy what I worked for. So thank you for seeing that and trying to explain to us that it's okay to not to be a hyper ambitious over achiever

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

"Men chase championships, women chase champions" If you winning in life, women will come on their own

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[@timelesshero6814]

in his inner circle program. If you thought this hour was great, watch his weekly livestreams, they are amazing!

[@Fit4mental]

Yessir!

[@phillipr.9038]

After watching the episode, I really appreciate the interview.

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[@melbuck194]

This video resonates a lot with me. I'm a guy that dates guys and I still get the, "you work too much..." convo. It's hard balancing things out.

[@raymondhoho]

Great episode guys. You two continue to inspire me. Thank you!

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[@nishonthebeat]

Fundamentally guys are scared to be by themselves. When you are chill and confident in yourself and genuinely enjoying your life the woman who is meant for you will resonate with that energy and you will let her in.

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[@RratRemi]

Im only about 50% in, and i feel like i learned a lot

[@GR890yt]

This episode speaks out the truth many golden nuggets 👌. Looking forward to the next one y’all are making change for the community

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[@kingezra9493]

This was such an informative episode thankyou Roommates and Alex Costa

[@mcneelynorman1]

Men, God bless you! You’re doing the lords work. My marriage has improved immeasurably since finding your content, so I just want to say thank you 🙏

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[@luciandavis5118]

@@pinñedbyMånñyKhõshbîñ fake account.

[@_THETIER]

This is legit, keep up the good work.

[@soumyajitdutta666]

1:03:00 had a fight with my girl and showed her this thanks Hafeez and Alex ♥️🙌🏻

[@xylexfn3275]

"my name is Chris to start the show babbyyyy" love that 🤩

[@ravbeast6827]

* Star of the show

[@MegaUtube99]

Lmao I immediately thought of that Chris Delia bit... “nononono...we shall call him.... Costa..”

[@kennypyne7821]

Exactly lol

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[@Fit4mental]

Alex Costa Inner Circle member here 🔥🔥🔥

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[@henrynankivell]

🚀

[@michaeljmclean]

I'm in as well!

[@salvadorvilla7326]

Dope stuff. Alex’s videos are awesome.

[@is2275]

🇵🇭 greetings from filipino guy!

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[@TheRealL77]

@@pinñedbyMånñyKhõshbîñ why

[@Me-in2ry]

I feel this need to do something else after playing sports so long (now collegiately). It's a major part of my identity so its definitely a venture of faith away from it. Hoping for the best in my next chapter of life... coming soon. Prayers up.

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[@phillipr.9038]

Nice to see Alex back!

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[@zinadinetaylor1197]

Great content guys. Keep up the Hard Work!

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[@JayBlackAfro]

Thanks for the transparency

[@Roxaslunar-s9j]

Great Episode

[@themattdreed]

Yes the part about not wanting to go home because it felt like another job.

[@abrakadabra2790]

Yes this is gonna be lit!

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[@anonvi8967]

Yooooo Alex is back, very nice

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[@josemarciaga285]

7 month Later. I really Needed to hear this. I decided not to date a girl anymore but I was kind of, we have a lot in common, we get alone Great but there were things not clicking between us. So, This video literally seems to be backing me up for my decision. Thank U guys.

[@mayatales6308]

Guys i am getting heart attack when you two laugh all of a sudden that loud in the mic 😂😂 well Alex knows how to talk in mic for sure

[@evgeniiakomelkova1852]

Chris is awesome.

[@jamesperrin5327]

Loving the content 💪

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[@wokedream9837]

Respect for this video 🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@PapaJRuiz]

iii love this channel 🙏🏽💯

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[@izzyiz8265]

Chris is litty man.. with the Mink Coat 😆

[@mikeelzinga4176]

Nice video. Hopefully Mother’s Day went well for you and your family.

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[@chinmaybhabadYT]

13:54 I think Robbi was there listening to Alex😁

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[@ScaryToRemarry]

Great interview! I would not be where I am today without men mentorship. That’s the missing piece to having a healthy culture of men

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[@ZoBeatz]

Yes this spoke to me

[@adrianblania5565]

Here for the algorithm gods. That's the part that's the most difficult. You can grind all day, conquer the world but when you come home - want just a litle peace and quiet you have to come to produce energy and attention.

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[@PrettyBoy2x]

Great video, can we see Kali Muscle on the podcast?

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[@Wheelsandjourneys]

I really appreciate this thank you🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

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[@theyutube6549]

A lot of KZbinrs do a lot of dishonest by not just admitting who the actual problem was in a relationship. I got that they try to be an adult and respectful and always state that It was both but in reality it's really one person atleast most percentage wise

[@Bhavesh_verma]

47:45 50:30 56:40 1:03:20 1:05:05 1:06:35 10:11 16:56

[@subzero5853]

@8:30 The way I see it is that guys live very lonely lives, cos school teaches us never to do anything risky (and approaching a girl for a guy is very risky for their self esteem and confidence (if theyre attached to the outcome)), so once a guy like this attracts a girl, they don't understand why the girl is attracted and they don't know how to get another girl once this girl leaves, so they get tunnel vision and instead of improving themselves, they chase the past that made them feel so comfortable ("Idk why this girl likes me, so she must like me for who I am")

[@improvwithlions4173]

Death From Above wrote a song about that...."Nothin' Left". Maybe that song is a little more dysfunctional though

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[@Xerlocke]

My left ear enjoyed the intro

[@elad-hadad55]

I want to see one day Jose Zuniga and Alex Costa in the same frame

[@abukhan5044]

Alex costa inner circle member

[@Fit4mental]

Yessir!

[@lennygalindo]

That’s a nice watch he got on.

[@lennygalindo]

@The Röomates ok will do can’t wait to make these gains

[@RahulSingh-ow7vq]

What about bringing todd v

[@cheapspeed]

When are you doing timestamps for your content

[@unowenwasholo]

There's a message in here I want to echo around the 25:00 mark. I quit my job to go full time into my side venture just a month or so ago, but it was a rocky road getting to there. Not rocky in the work that I put into the "hustle", though I did put in a lot, but in the mental strife I went through before I could finally made the decision late last year. When I first started on my business 3 years ago, I had told myself, "You're prudent. If you ever quit your good paying tech job for this, you're only going to do so when you're making 2x or 3x what you're making at your day job." It was this idea, that listening to the feelings that arose from lack of interest in my work, and to some extent resentment of it, created immense cognitive dissonance. My day job wasn't hard for me per se, not if I applied myself 100%--albeit there were truly some obstacles that I later found I would literally not be able to overcome on my own. And yet, every day I would find myself more and more repelled away from the work. There's a fair bit of background to the inception of these feelings, but the important part to keep in mind is that I felt an immense sense of guilt. Guilt. We're so accustomed to blaming ourselves for the way that our minds work. Surely if there's *anything* in this world we have control over, it's our thoughts and feelings right? Anybody who has battled with depression will tell you that this is not the case. But then for those of us that don't have to struggle with such things, we may think there's something wrong with us in a different way. It's internal locus of control gone awry, just enough awareness and the idea that we control ourselves to cause ourselves harm. What I came to learn is that for myself, I didn't have control over this feeling and that it wasn't something that warranted controlling. The feeling was a part of my that was calling out, trying tell me what I really wanted, but I was subconsciously telling myself that I was in the wrong for feeling it. This caused crippling amounts of cognitive dissonance as the things that I was consciously telling myself to do (and shaming myself if I didn't) were in direct conflict with what my subconscious was yelling at me. Now, gratefully with great effort over the years I managed to get myself into a place where I was able to concede the victory to myself and let me have what I needed after that year-long battle. Though it taught me a lesson in shame and guilt. There is nothing to feel shameful of or guilty of if I'm being true to myself. Of course, you have to know who "You" are, and I have enough hubris to say that I do. Furthermore, there's NO ONE, *NOT EVEN MYSELF* who can tell me who I am or should be. I can't _tell_ people "Me", I can only _be_ "Me", and I was successfully executing that when I properly listened and obeyed the feeling I had that ultimately led to me diving fulltime into my business. I stopped telling myself who I was or should be, and I started being "Me". I'm sure the psychologists say it better with the different layers of consciousness and personality, but I'll just say that we often know things before we know them. More specifically, we feel things before we can consciously find the root cause of those feelings. We feel then think--very rarely, if ever, does this happen the other way around. (I suppose Jordan Peterson actually hits upon this in his book, Beyond Order, which I do happen to be reading at the moment.) But in starting to think about the cause, we usually begin from a set of preconceived notions that may set us vastly off course or completely blind us from the route that we must take. It's taking a step back and asking as objectively as possible, "what is this feeling" which is better asked as "what do I need" that we, or I guess me in the case of my own story, begin to move past the things we tell ourselves and into the things that we do not yet know about ourselves. PS: There's some nuance to be made here. I am mostly fine with who I am and my current station in life. I am not someone who slows down, I speed up and search for ways to switch into gears higher than I've sustained before and I have values / philosophies that require a high functioning "Me". I have determined that being "Me" is one of the best things that I can be (and I have only heard positive reinforcement around me of this idea) and so it's my responsibility to make sure I get what I need to continue to power on.

[@abhishekmukherjee4857]

Damn the man himself 🔥

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[@shanewinfrey1723]

Can you tell me who makes that green button up shirt? Thank you

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[@ICEcoldJT]

Lol I thought he was Aaron Doughty for a second

[@360marcel9]

Good video

[@gabrielamartinyuk9894]

A man that is leveling up is very attractive!

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[@JoseRivera-be3bo]

We men need to learn how to better ourselves instead chasing females who probably could care less about us.

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[@treybryantstyle]

💯💯💯

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[@marcelchalobah7946]

Please get AUSTIN DUNHAM ON YOUR PODCAST

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[@ThaFilthyStreets]

Time stamps would help tremendously🙏🏾

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[@Mindsetolympics]

Yeah having a KZbin and an Insta and Tik Tok and other social media following really just seems like a volatile currency. At any moment KZbin can decide to take you down. At any moment the “KZbin Gods”can cancel you. Also the people who enjoy your content can cancel you as well. it’s all dependent on you and how much you can deliver. this is why I love the book Rich dad poor dad by Robert Kiyosaki and he mentions how the self-employed are taxed the highest in the cashflow quadrant. Little did I realize at the time reading it that meant taxed in energy as well.

[@TheLilMagic_]

Great Video,

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[@evaphillips2102]

A lot of men choose a woman then don’t know how to let that woman choose them back. Getting swept off your feet isn’t the modern woman’s dream, we want to have some say in our destiny.

[@joshuaemery1072]

The whole point of leveling up isn't that hey in one year I leveled up everything and got everything correct leveling up in building character takes time so if it took you 5 years to get where you're satisfied with leveling up and getting somewhere that's where these men the roommates and other men out there make it happen for us is because we were getting the learning tools to make it happen get disciplined get it going make it happen stop acting like you're all by yourself stop acting like you're a weak man get up on your feet and make it happen

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[@gabrielearaya2333]

46.00 hafeez referes to the money tree of freshandfit

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[@Siiello]

I think I could have done without Chris's mic splitting blurpt at the end there

[@Jp-gc6bh]

Bruh I was born in 96 and I watched family matters... it was average though but it was okay to watch

[@pulkitgaur4438]

Alex, ever noticed, how old we men get doesn't matter, we men are left in a room, away from from their women, their talk would same as the boys that were in high school. XD

[@brent7261]

When you get to a certain level in corporate American, there’s no such thing as a 9-5.... yes you can take off a week for vacation or sick but this work piles up or even worse you can come back to your job not being there and replaced by someone else

[@thekinginvestor47]

Chris jacket clean, idk about reppin white jesus tho

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[@BlackGarinim]

Great hair Alex!

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[@andyluong3780]

💯

[@Snicklez89]

So this has nothing to do with the video BUT......I really would love to see y’all invite women who have the knowledge and language who have opposite points of view on your show. Like ppl who have the credentials. It would be great to see @jouelzy @for.Harriet(Kim foster) @iam_eloho @nerissanefeteri. I honestly feel like the women who you invite on(no offense to them) don’t have the knowledge to speak on what y’all preach and are challenging. While i do not agree with most of what y’all put out, i watch sometimes to challenge myself and to get others points of view and do believe y’all’s hearts are in the right place( i love a good challenging convo haha). But please, i would love to see women who have the knowledge and can actually challenge y’all and give you actual conversation. P.S. this video was nice, def enjoyed

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[@Snicklez89]

@@pinñedbyMånñyKhõshbîñ of course, appreciate y’all 💛

[@luxurybuzz3681]

Alex Costa looking like Fabio

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[@krissysherrell6625]

The women you are looking for are less flashy and are driven. They are out there. It probably is hard to spot them if you are intimated by real successful women not just your IG model.

[@mario125ww]

Yep so true. I wish guys would stop looking for looks only. I'm pre med and there's tons of pretty girls that are too stress to put on makeup and look pretty. However when schools over, they are the prettiest ones but they keep a low profile because they are focus on their goals

[@joeuchiha1342]

@@mario125ww Hello there fellow medico. I get what you say. They’re pretty focused on their goals haha. Back when i was in med school seeing them made me focus on my studies more. There will be the party people even in med school but most of them have the balance between when to party and when to study. Anyway good luck with your pre med man. You got this. It gets hard but it’s worth it. Dont lose focus.

[@Macheako]

chick.....just stop lol just.......just stop chick 😂 no one is "intimidated" by women except for other women and politicians lol

[@trxndesign3331]

Bring Austin Dunham here please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏