21 Things I've Learned at 21 | Alexa Losey

[@LukeKorns]

I really like this

[@HaileeWong]

+Luke Korns i really like YOU

[@na-qr1sy]

yours is gonna include "move in with Mikey." 💓

[@mctainment9600]

Me Too!

[@silviabautista941]

same btw love you❤

[@starblack8079]

Luke😍

[@LaurDIY]

THE FEELS ARE SO REAL, YA GOT ME TEARIN UP

[@alexa]

+LaurDIY aww thank you!! cry with me in la plz

[@leonasmall8574]

LaurDIY ily

[@ducktapeeverything]

Why did I start crying when she did 😭

[@luise3916]

I did as well, just broke down in tears while realizing my grandparents have been gone for a year

[@arielt3355]

my grandparents are all still alive and I started crying as well

[@allypie1963]

me too, I just lost my grandma a year ago and I miss her so much

[@giannaesposito819]

I did too :(((

[@nat-zq9wr]

I know i did too

[@travelbesttips1]

i cried when you started talking about your grandma, because is started to think of my own

[@idekvivian9365]

Same I cried too :(

[@catherineparada7470]

same, it hit me really hard.

[@jorjaaustin9099]

Im still sobbing

[@livep]

LITERALLY ME

[@ElisaJewell]

literally same because my grandma died and I didn't spend any time with her

[@lucyandlydia]

LOVED THIS! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

[@beatriceloproto]

+LucyAndLydia Why are you two everywhere? lol

[@Richa.Shetty]

+Beatrice Lo Proto Says someone from a blank profile! Lol

[@Hayleyyy1]

+Hello Gorgeous (Richa Shetty) what does that have to do with anything lmao

[@Richa.Shetty]

SimsGamingLife It's a no brainer, they're everywhere and why, she asks, and she's equal to non existent!

[@fallingforhealy]

ILYSM LUCY AND LYDIA BTW I LIVE YOYR SINGING SNAPCHATS💕😂💁🏼

[@KarissaPukas]

I moved for a boy and it was the best thing I've ever done with my life :) 5 years, AUSTRALIA, a house and a puppy later, I couldn't imagine my life had I not bit the bullet and jumped. 😝💗

[@jessicamatulick7248]

Love you Karissa!

[@faiAhmed94]

then you are lucky :)

[@madelinecmitchell]

same! Moved to boston for my boyfriend and learned so much about myself and grew so much in our relationship!

[@lovelywhateverXD]

This Video Makes ME happy 💜😍🔥

[@lovelywhateverXD]

anyone else?

[@peppamitchell4275]

+Lovely “LovelyWhatever” Peace that's a lil rude cause she was crying everyone probably started crying how does that make you happy

[@charlotte8659]

There are other parts of this video that show her strength and happiness. She may have been referring to that.

[@istypayhorlikson]

your voice is so calming yet what you say is so empowering, I love this

[@notyouraverageiz9009]

If I could retweet this, I would.

2:30 started crying with you you are such a beautiful girl keep doing you Lexa and be* AWESOME* happy bday xx

[@apostoliasafarika730]

me too it's so sad😣😭

[@lucymoon]

YOU'RE SO WISE

[@pingie9115]

You're so pretty it's like wtf?!😖🙌🏼

[@sophiabeckmann7325]

+Esmer Pedraza ikr

[@CoversByAshleyV]

When you started crying, I started tearing up

[@SarahJacklyn]

Ashley Victoria same

[@mermaidsunicorn]

This genuinely felt like an older sister talking to me & giving me advice while we are christmas baking

[@mckellarfx7229]

You where probably the best birthday present your grandmother ever got :)

[@haaveilla2166]

So proud of you, you've grown into a beautiful and wise woman! :)

[@meghanhughes]

FANTASTIC! FLIPPING! VIDEO!

[@ggotsis1802]

love you meghan !

[@lucyinthesky1991]

I love being one of your subscribers. 😊 This video is great. Happy birthday!

[@alexa]

+lucyinthesky1991 thats such a sweet thing to say! I love having you here

[@eves8406]

the feels are so real i was crying when you were talking about you grandma and after this i went and spent some time with her thank you Alexa.

[@Bea-wi7oy]

I genuinely like this video. Every lesson is like a piece of wisdom that you learn and can use throughout your life.

[@j.rod8]

the moment you cried about your grandmother was honestly thee most candid moment i've seen on yt. this video made me subscribe. take care alexa

[@JamieKlotz]

I am becoming obsessed with your videos and I don't not regret it one bit!!

[@ConanGray]

this video is so good and yes, the scarlet letter is incredibly boring.

[@anne156]

Conan Gray CONAN WTF

[@anne156]

Lol how did No one notice u for a year

[@SarahBelleElizabeth]

this was everything

[@BeautyByKat08]

When you started talking about your grandma I literally started crying so hard, that is such great advice

[@ayaha8119]

this video made me sad and happy at the same time

[@dannypadilla]

Sometimes, I feel like KZbinrs like myself feel as if they can't really learn a whole lot from other KZbinrs (because somehow we already know it ALL). I'm proud to say that I learned a lot from this video and I'm so incredibly glad that I took the time to watch it. Alexa, it's so insanely obvious that this wisdom you have has truly come from 21 years of trial and error, and that's so amazing. I found myself identifying with pretty much every single one of these points (even the female-oriented ones), and I just wanted to say thanks for posting this. Here's to many more years :)))

[@ShannonLeighMusic]

you are such an inspiration to me. this video made me want to make friends with people that will really stand by me & it made me cry because I miss my grandma too. you're an amazing person & I'm so grateful that you remind me of my worth, too.

[@CassieRaeCashner]

This is the most real I have ever seen you be in front of the camera. The sincerity in this is something that even editing can't take away. You're a gem and I hope you had a great birthday! :)

[@NicoleGrzeda]

This is one of the best videos on KZbin!! You're amazing Alexa

[@evacorcoran9147]

I love you alexa, thanks for being so real and honest

[@evacorcoran9147]

AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY

[@BuckleyBrittany]

I started crying with you. My grandfather was one of my best friends and he passed away in April. The holidays are coming up and it's the first time we have to celebrate without him.

[@izzywilson5190]

This is my favourite video on the internet. I've watched it over 10 times. So well said, and very inspiring I've never listened to a video and wanted to hear more in my entire life

[@izzywilson5190]

Btw I live with my grandparents and idolise them with every bit of my being

[@techblogger8323]

When she said make a wish I wished her grandma happy birthday She must've been really nice 😊 Happy 6 month late birthday Alexa

[@nicholejacklyne]

THIS WAS BEAUTIFUL

[@fizamir6549]

it my birthday today as well!🙌🙌🎉

[@fizamir6549]

lyl x happy b-daii 💕💝

[@idocare6208]

Happy birthday!!

[@orlanyssoto7143]

happy birthday💅

[@fizamir6549]

ido Care thank youuuu x💝

[@fizamir6549]

Orlanys Soto ty x💕

[@missmakebyjoanna]

Right when you said "Appreciate your grandma" I ran downstairs & helped my grandma cook dinner. This was such an eye opening video! I'm glad there's people on this world like you❤️

[@celiazerafa]

This is actually by far one of the best and one of my favorite videos I have ever watched on KZbin. Happy Late Birthday, Alexa

[@thecreativehermit]

I kind of teared a little when you started talking about your grandmother. I lost my grandmother too and I miss when she would call me on my birthday and make me laugh. Tomorrow's my birthday and even though its been two years that she's gone I really miss her phone calls. I miss hearing her voice.

[@ceciliawalker3221]

Probably the most down to earth and intimate video I've ever watched. Everything you said was so true !!

[@kitty1230la]

I kind of loved how you baked a cake while doing this. It makes it casual and comfortable and it made me really happy :)

[@RandomAwkwardWeird]

I think I just got a new favorite youtube video

[@paulinaskowronska6961]

this is your greatest video, not because it's well-edited or has great outfits or cool music but because it's honest and relatable. Love you, Alexa and happy bday!!!

[@jamierego2390]

aw when you started crying I started to tear up 😢

[@Katherinehere123]

You are not on here much... but whenever I am down about life I always come back to this video. It helps me so much mentally. Thank you for this video!

[@shalynhickem9216]

I feel you about spending as much time possible with grandparents because my grandpa and I have the same birthday also and I'm about to spend my birthday with him gone for the second time. It's tough

[@katiecodd141]

shalyn hickem I'm spending my first birthday without my grandma this year... it's sad😔

[@jillianivany5417]

subscribed for "the one thing no one can ever take away from you is your knowledge, and knowledge is the most powerful gift" PREACH GIRL

[@vervelingsfilmpjes]

loved this !!! so down to earth !!

[@GabrielaCenturionNeumann]

I miss all of my grandparents too :'( All 4 of them were awesome in their own way and I miss hugging them and listen to them talk about life and our families stories and showing me how to be a better person. I miss them so much

[@sabssads]

Your grandma would be so proud of you :)

[@tiarosaliedarling]

i got sent to your channel by mel joy and i honestly think this one of the best things to have ever happened to me. i watched your 3 letters to boys you've love and your morning routine and this one, alexa you are honestly he most pure you tuber I've ever come across. you're you, and i relate to you so much, as if you're like the older sister I've ever wanted. according to tray you turn 22 in two days, and i hope its as magical as the love and truth you spread to everyone you encounter

[@EloiseG_31]

Alexa this is honestly my favourite video of urs, u have wisdom beyond ur years 💓

[@hellodolly32]

I’ve watched this video at least 100 times. It’s weird to say, but this is my favorite video on the internet. Thank you for this.

[@rotsyliguar5036]

I just came here from watching her do it for her 22 years 😄

[@lunagreenbirch]

Me2 :D

[@LolitaFairytale]

I feel your pain about losing your grandma. My grandfather died while I was working as an AuPair in the US. He complained about me not sending him a card and when I finally did, well, he never received it. Never take your grandparents for granted! They are likely to be the ones you're gonna lose first.

[@ballisticbeuty2173]

Am I the only one who gets depressed about stupid things???

[@hellohalo2463]

Nope

[@ballisticbeuty2173]

Btw I am not trying to joke or make fun of depression for anyone reading my comment

[@Gordanmgleb]

elvian charina i stabbed a 300 punds pig

[@jg9368]

Trust me it is not a stupid reason, if it is affecting you to the point that you are depressed then it is not stupid, it is important. I am also proud of you for saying this in a KZbin comment, you are amazing.

[@sd-cy2cl]

when you’ve been depressed from so long, the smallest things can start to effect you in a big way. it’s okay, it happens to me too💕💕 feel better love

[@lexiekramer]

When you started talking about your grandma I started crying. I miss my grandma too.💜

[@SydneyInfinity]

this is by far my favorite video you've ever made

[@csk1452]

you have really gotten so likable and relatable over the years i was originally subscribed for the fashion stuff but i feel like im still actually here more for you now because youre so real

[@daniiel]

are you sad like adele was at 21?

[@ashleybrownn473]

+Daniel Mezquita ahah omg daniel

[@Rozana-bo2zs]

I can't stop crying now that you mentioned grandmothers :( its been 4 years since mine passed away and I still miss her every single night. May both of our grandmothers rest in peace ♥♥

[@TheBubblegumsongs]

by far my favorite video of yours

[@mishmalubabi7069]

I subscribed instantly when she said please subscribe. I genuinely Loved this I cried with her. All the things she said were 110% 200% the truth. If you Learn to Love yourself first you'll love others and everything else Better. Amazing and Happy Birthday! Love you! xoxox

[@dveryan]

21s such a good number idk just me??? 😂

[@dveryan]

21?

[@MileySelenaJbDemiFan]

+smilexoxo you just did

[@astrinamartin2240]

I don't see how it's awkward...

[@AveryJordanChannel]

+Astrina Martin me either

[@CB-lp5ld]

What's 9 + 10 XD

[@fiona3470]

you are one of the most authentic people on the internet

[@kristawilliams1417]

15 things I have learned in my fifteen years: 1: don't let anyone's words define who you are. 2: have ONE wallet. 3: listen to your best friend...if she is a good example. 4: BE YOUtiful 5: popcorn is the best snack on the go. 6: talk to yourself, it's healthy for you. 7: music Is a way to get away from life, use it. 8: be the kindest person you can be, don't be a bitch. 9: don't be fake, your friends won't like it, and I take that from personal experience. 10: change, it's good and healthy, do something that you hang on to, for me it's my hair, so I'm planning that next time I get my hair cut I'm chopping it all off to shoulder length. 11: you don't need a lot of friends, you just need a few really close ones. 12: learn or try a musical instrument, I didn't want to do piano but I loved it that I've been playing for 6 years. 13: get a fish. 14: wait to date. 15: last but not least be confident, or...just try.

[@nataliea7507]

This was the absolute sweetest thing, oh my goodness. I started crying when she did😭 have a beautiful birthday you sweet person😍

[@usvlife]

does anyone else find it sad that she's making her own birthday cake :(

[@fazlianafasha8475]

usvlife i think so. but i love to hear that "sometimes being alone doesn't mean to be lonely" maybe she do love more to share her birthday with her fans.

[@carolinesantosalvr5590]

I started thinking about my grandma, because we share the same birthday too and I miss her a lot (cried with you also.) Anyways, awesome video lex, you are so grounded and real and I love that about you! Keep doing what your doing girl❤️

[@laurenb1277]

I just discovered your channel 5 minutes ago and all I want to be is best friends with you

[@ashley83097]

I watched this video so many times and still cry every time you talk about your grandma because it makes me miss my grandma even more

[@ameerahfawehinmi8653]

I'm muslim in high school 10th grade and have one friend sometimes I feel lonely like at lunch when she's not there I guess I hv social aniexty and don't nw if it is a problem and because I were I veil on my head I feel like I'm nt attractive because some people don't socialize with me any advice

[@sabssads]

Hey, if you don't mind me giving you advice.. I'd love to chat w/ you on twitter if you have it?

[@ameerahfawehinmi8653]

Yes I do

[@ameerahfawehinmi8653]

Saba Sadia​It's accept200

[@marya.6689]

Just because you're different than others doesn't mean that you're bad or not attractive actually it makes you unique.You're beautiful :) I know what's like not to have friends in school and feeling lonely it kinda sucks but if you need any kinda online friends you can write me :D

[@ameerahfawehinmi8653]

Maryam Alizade tht feels beautiful to hear thank u

[@yesvember11]

I'm so sorry about your grandma dear... mine just died this year, a few days before my 20th birthday, last month, so I almost broke into tears when you said spend as much time with your grandma as you can because she isn't going to be around forever. Lovely advice from a lovely lady.. happy birthday!

[@manelumi]

i just lost my grand ma recently i was so emotional

[@SL-mb8kg]

I have just started watching you today, and I can truly say that you are the most inspiring, genuine person i have ever come across of in my existence. you know so much at such a young age and i believe that suffering comes with wisdom and boy are you wise. Thank you for becoming my role model, thank you for inspiring me to be a better person. Your struggles have done so much for so many people and your honesty makes me elated and reminds me to be soulful. I am so lucky to have come across someone like you, even if it was just 30 minutes ago. I don't think I've ever commented on utube before so this is kind of weird. Love, Your in awe subscriber :)

[@MonikaRosaable]

My mom is more of the finance person than my dad 😂 she's great

[@gigglesgirls3847]

I love how this was so honest and true but casual and not overly serious at the same time.

[@CrazyLyn013]

I love the part you said about education. Like seriously as boring as it can be school is important.

[@JungianHeights]

Livi's Vlog Not if it's boring. You did tomorrow and the last thing you did was boring. A waste of life. I will always resent the time forced in to school. Absolutely disgusting that it happened.

[@GeorgiexoxoTV]

You're so wise Alexa! Wishing you a very happy birthday and incredible year ahead xoxo

[@baraom2011]

can't be the only one who thinks she looks like Lindsay?

[@andreavivas2769]

hadi ahmed ikr

[@fatimai19]

I feel like Alexa would be a perfect best friend like she seems like a great person who would do anything for her friends.

[@backstagewithcaitlin]

YOU'RE 21???? JESUS FUCKING CHRIST FIRST THING I FIND YOUR CHANNEL A 17-YEAR-OLD ALEXA AND NOW YOU'RE 21???

[@HaleySchumann]

I've watched this multiple times and I cry everytime you bring up your grandma because it reminds me of my own, I love this video so much

[@eleniplota4578]

my grandma & I also have the same birthday...I'm so very close to her and I don't want to lose her. Happy birthday, you're a true inspiration and you've probably experienced a lot!

[@everybeautifulday]

Alexa!! Happy birthday! You're my favourite youtuber just because of how real and honest you are. You don't just do makeup videos or the usual beauty guru-y videos (which are still fun!) but you also break that stereotype by making such awesome heartfelt vids :-) love you God bless you always

[@Lozzzaaa55]

Oh god i started crying when you mentioned your Grandma, my Pop passed away two weeks ago, he was such a sweet man. I am also 21, and some of those things you have learned, I have also learned. Stay true to yourself Alexa, you're going to be just fine :) xx

[@Lozzzaaa55]

+Lozzzaaa55 and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

[@KethiKreme]

when u mentioned your grandma it made me tear up and notice how much i miss my own grandma. LOVE THIS

[@beatrixmueller1590]

I was tearing up while you were talking about your grandma😭 i love my grandma soooo much and can't even think about her not being around anymore...

[@miroscovarrubias5594]

THIS IS MY FAVORITE VIDEO YOU'VE MADE: you are so down-to-earth in it and it seems like this is the real YOU. I loved it. Thank you.

[@HaleyCairo]

I LOVED this! Even cried

[@imagination_55]

I'll be 21 tomorrow so im just watching this for some comfort, for some inspiration and because i just watched her "22 things i've learned at 22"

[@quynciwisdom4189]

This made me cry. BUT YES THE SCARLET LETTER WAS AWFUL, THANK YOU.

[@lalalauren111]

Such amazing advice and the part about your grandmother made me cry, just remember she's looking down on you. Happy birthday! ❤️

[@suzannevanschaik3766]

I love this. I honestly love this more that life. This is the realest, most true and inspiring and beautiful video ever. And I love it. You made something special, Alexa.

[@drmnOFtmrw13]

Best video ever! I'm 20, will be turning 21 in February. I can say I agree & can relate with you about all your life lessons learned, especially about your grandma... You are a beautiful human being 💓

[@BrendalfTheGlitter]

when you started crying i teared up and realized how much I miss my grandma again :(( She died when I was 7 so I don't have many memories but I do remember how important she was (and still is) to me

[@abelle5859]

i teared up at the grandma part😢 i'm so sorry , beautiful video though thank you for making this.

[@AlisonholleyTV]

This is the cutest, most inspiring, most real, most honest, video I've watched in a long time and it made my heart melt. Have an amazing birthday, Alexa! Your grandmas still with you and she loves you with all her heart. Happy 21st.

[@dovestone_]

Me and my Grandma have the same birthday as well! I'm so thankful that next Saturday we're going to get to share our 18th and 80th birthdays. I hope you have a good birthday inspite of the fact it'll be without your Grandma xxxx but she'll be there in spirit! Xxx💗

[@hannahfaber97]

wow alexa... wow. I really liked the way you made this. Baking a cake while talking to the camera. And it was so beautiful when you opend up and talked about your grandma. And I loved all of the 21 things you learned. You are inspiring!

[@tammyhdz2921]

i actually started crying when you mentioned your grandma because it got me thinking about mine and how long she would be here with me