Alexander Kay - Painted Him Perfect (lyrics)

[@missadug]

I don't know how in the world I stumbled on this song, but it hits like no other. Wow, the comments are encouraging for the people who left the abusive man to a healthy man. I'll never know why men can have the ability to break women to pieces, but they do so we have to guard our hearts but not harden them ❤ there's a difference! The most beautiful rainbows 🌈 come out after the storm. Be encouraged ladies! I hope this encourages someone 😊

[@daydreaminggirl2372]

I feel this song. I remember my divorce and wondering if that was what love was. Until I met someone who really was pink sky's at sunrise. It gets better and there are good men out there who will love you and make you feel like you shine like full moons, and fill your night sky with greens and purples. And while you heal in the night, he will be your aurora borealis..

[@Kk-ln1nm]

I hope they are out there

[@reglagomez281]

😔

[@DeannaPedersen-n1k]

You give me hope ❤

[@makelifematter1896]

Happy for you sadly 68 husband left me after 30 yrs ...don't see it happening at my age but so very happy for those that do find true love we are wish for and especially happy for those blessed to have found the best in their life men and women alike love music it keeps you going

[@elizajewels]

I had this. After a loveless marriage I divorced. I met the one, he painted my whole world in beautiful colours. We had 6 years of wonderful until he died. It was short, but we loved a lifetime.

[@daltonfairchild8796]

This song has been on repeat since I stumbled upon this gem!! Amazing, if she wrote it, then she is already more talented than I thought. She is amazing.

[@gretchenlenz6781]

I feel this one on so many levels. I painted a very pretty picture of our marriage. But I had to honest with myself & not embarrassed to kick him out. He cheated a lot…and got a girl pregnant. He passed away & I never got the closure I needed. I truly loved him & he broke me to pieces. I am now happily married again & loved the way I am supposed to me loved.

[@margopierce9511]

I'm blessed to not be able to relate to this. But it is still such a well written, powerful, catchy song.

[@WhitFyffe]

I too painted one perfect. Unfortunately I couldn’t paint enough makeup on myself to continue to cover the bruises. 8 years later I married my best friend. I never have to worry about painting him perfect he paints this life for both of us ❤

[@ktrudy1]

❤❤❤

[@sheilamarie4020]

Honey I had to cover my bruises too. That was until I came home with a hole in the back of my head

[@geraldineanang7701]

I love this for you ❤️

[@MissShards]

For those who are still at this point in their life, I promise you will find hapoiness again. I left my ex fiance after years of hell. I am now with the man of my dreams. I never thought i would find my perfect match, but I did. When i left I wrote what i thought was an unrealistic list of what i wanted in my partner and 3 years later I found him. We've been together 4 years and i have never been so in love. You are allowed to be happy and want more.

[@jessicaburton7252]

I have a full testimony you def find love again.

[@yzelsogan3572]

That is just so sad. My heart breaks for everyone going thru this.

[@jeremiebrown7269]

You’re still amazing. Ain’t said that in a while. But it ain’t changed. 🎉

[@angelagerard6228]

Hit harder than I'd like it to. I swore he was everything, just to get walked on, and used

[@tinaschultz1976]

Same we will get through this friend

[@MaryFrancesWeirbach]

I feel all of your pain!! I too painted him perfect and no one believes me because he is so very kind, considerate, polite snd friendly to others and many organizations view him as being an upstanding person but behind close doors with me its terrible. When i had my hysterectomy years ago I asked for a blanket while I was laying on the couch, he took the folded blanket out of the closet and threw it at me. I should have divorced him 18 years ago. August 14th is my Daddy's birthday, he passed in 2006. I miss him and my Mom so very much!! 😢😢

[@Cherokee-oz6tk]

Love this song and her voice is so beautiful!!

[@jastinehamasaki3462]

Perfectly summed up my thoughts & feelings

[@jenniferjaime1468]

I feel this on so many levels. People only know/see what we show them

[@Lilletrille1977]

I did too, with my narcissistic ex. He allmost destroyed me and my son. I made my daughter so strong she makes him cry, feel sorry for himself and guilt trip her. He never got under her skin. Thankfully.

[@lafayetteshenanigans3349]

Love this song

[@shaylawhite8050]

Just heard this song, while on Instagram..though I haven't gone through this, I can feel the meaning behind this song.

[@dianam1968]

Wow!!!!!! You have to know I have been stuck for 3 decades with someone like him!!!!! But where do I start? How do I go? I don’t know how?

[@gentlegiants04]

One step at a time, that's how. Going through this myself right now, divorce will be final in March. 20 years of unhappy marriage.

[@debbieortiz6801]

That was me, and I am now divorced after 30 years of marriage. My kids say they see me in a way they never had. I thought I hit my sadness, but you can’t fake real joy. We were created for freedom to be ourselves. We are not created to be someone’s prisoner.

[@gracenie5165]

Drove 4 hours and cried out to this song with my daughter behind me 😢

[@amandadeutsch29]

To think being at that show in AC (TidalWave Festival) while this was going on. She was so good on stage and couldn't tell anything was going on

[@alecias8250]

Omg my bday is august 14th

[@angelicaseilaff1284]

I feel this song. I have been divorced 6 years this July. And it still hurts because I tried so hard to make it work. Even through all the bs and him spending all the money before bills were paid. I tried. I'm better off now. I have been with my fiance almost 3 years and we have a handsome son together and trying for baby #2

[@mandydoddFL]

I feel this

[@TessaMiller-ul9jg]

Damn... that hit way harder than I thought it was going to. Everyone was shocked when I asked for my divorce because I had made it look like everything was great while behind closed doors I was constantly being hurt.

[@roxanneshelby1012]

Same!!

[@rhondapeavy8736]

I just discovered this song and I am in love. It reminded me of the Narcissist that I was engaged to. I tried telling my parents how he was and they said that it was all me and that I needed to stay with him as they really wanted me to get married. They finally realized how he was and he broke it off with me for the last time and that was it.

[@AnneMarie-lu6lk]

How im feeling currently i tried so hard to make my family work that i made up so many excuses for him and why he is the way he is etc... this song hurts me now that i have a clear mind

[@renaworks4596]

I love 😂❤

[@joannagregory5271]

Can't help me now have no where to go family all dead guess ill just keep giving till GOD calls me home.

[@wellsmichelle31]

He tries but it just isn't working. We each expect different things from each other. He just ends up saying things to me that chip away my soul.

[@areebspetzone1014]

Its my favourite

[@amyblanken1985]

It's Alexandra Kay....

[@shsamuel]

❤

[@brittanybreese9960]

This song reminds me of my abusive ex boyfriend, I stayed for 4 years and I kept making excuses & I kept covering for him & I told my friends my bruises were from me falling but it was him who put them there , I painted him to be an perfect guy when he was an nightmare, thank god I got away & I found my prince who showed me what love was but unfortunately god needed him more as he became my angel on 3/2/23 .

[@caitlynkerlee5025]

I’m going through this right now. Freaking sucks.had to admit to myself that a man who won’t take no for an answer and makes me feel like shit is not a man. That’s a boy and I deserve so much better.

[@makelifematter1896]

Pretty much sums up 30 yrs of waste listed above Narcissistic husband and family all same boat I tried to keep afloat...but wasnt worth the "you do your thing Ill do mine" that was the last straw

[@angelachambers1611]

My exes bday is August 14. Made the entire week all about himself. Every year. I'll regret painting him perfect every day for the rest of my days because he tarred and feathered me to my own kids.

[@ChRiStY4t5]

Thos song means something very dif to me

[@ZoeSterry]

I dont know how fix us it broken

[@theworldofruby6962]

Deep song😢

[@alishacruz1657]

17 years, almost 7 years of marriage.. and he wants a divorce because we just dont work together, and he's bored of me..like sorry i have to stay home and take care your kids 24/7 and lost myself.

[@lindsaywasielewski5436]

Its ok honey! Keep fighting

[@patriciap8564]

R u trying to torture people who have their songs on shuffle so when that weird torturous noise is going on after the song it somehow hypnotized them to subscribe

[@destinyhuff4731]

Dont you know, pink in the morning is a sailors warning

[@trwent]

Alexandra, not "Alexander". Good God, you can't even proofread a title?

[@bethclark8088]

Why do they put a minute of stupid ass music after the song. That only makes people not want to listen to the video 🤦‍♀️