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[@alexandergrace5350]

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[@aaronmicalowe]

I rejected my masculine instinct a long time ago. Just shed it like a skin. Gained some things and lost some things. Life is like that. Everything is always in balance. How you feel it depends where you are. Not saying others should follow but it wasn't serving me.

[@PremiumUserUltra]

Thanks for the continued uploads, you're my favorite coach!

[@easter_sunday]

“How to date mentally ill people” by Alexander Grace. 🤣🧂

[@aaronmicalowe]

@@easter_sunday ?

[@easter_sunday]

@@aaronmicalowe !!

[@rajakghosh6602]

“Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will.” - Socrates

[@clbaird40]

My goodness Socrates was wise!

[@JJHurst]

I've used this many times in conversation with male friends...

[@AnthonyKellett]

Yeah...over 2,400 years and most men still don't get it.

[@lukmanalghdamsi3189]

i, a guy i can do that. and I used when i was young boy.

[@sash1ell]

@@lukmanalghdamsi3189 A grown man crying commands quite less empathy, and almost always only from other men, as a man crying is usually repulsive to women.

[@Guildofarcanelore]

I have daughters. I had to nip this in the bud very early. The tears don’t work on me. They tried that as small children and I would tell them “yes, your behaviour makes me want cry too. I’m very disappointed in you.” The older daughter told the younger one “don’t bother it doesn’t work”.

[@sideshow4463]

Savage 🤣

[@leemonsampson1844]

❤

[@alwaysright3718]

My daughter is too scared to cry around me...

[@Guildofarcanelore]

@@alwaysright3718 my daughters are not scared of me, but they know I can't be manipulated by tears. They know how much I love them.

[@ibrahim_-_-_]

the fact that she said “don’t bother it doesn’t work” is actually scarily eerie it implies it’s biological, that they biologically know this works on men. thank god i’m not manipulated by tears

[@alanlee8590]

Basically all women can be very terrifying. And it isn't just men who allow women to escape accountability with their tears, but society as a whole. Sadly, there are still a lot of weak men or male feminists out there who believe all women are innocent angels.

[@flamewarrior599]

Yes They are actresses Cocaine princess can act They lie cheat and steal They are criminals They want to be criminals They are nightmare family members

[@spacecandygames7575]

I never believe them but for me it’s hard to not feel strong emotions when a woman cries.

[@Neutrino4Eva]

Me again, thanks to my mother and also one relationship with a severely disturbed girl, I have developed a strong (warped, but working) mechanism of not reacting, and even feeling a kind of pleasant feeling when I see a girl/woman crying (I'm not talking about a child, it's a different category of emotions about the perception of reality). When a teenager or an adult of the 'fairer' sex starts sobbing, I feel quite a lot of satisfaction - let me emphasize right away that I do not contribute to these emotions, I simply observe, either on the screen or in my life, when my partner, due to her inability to influence my decision, its snorting mode is activated.@@spacecandygames7575

[@alanlee8590]

Well I agree it is difficult to watch a woman cry, especially young or teen females, but this is exactly why they pull this trick: because they know it is hard to watch, so once they start crying, most ppl are likely to let them off the hook@@spacecandygames7575

[@josmclove4426]

Let them cry😅

[@Chris-0113]

Crying is a woman's hail mary. She knows if denying, lying, minimizing and then shifting blame doesn't work, turning on the water works usually will. They just go down the play list.

[@purplesprigs]

The ability to make one's self cry is characteristic of psychopathy. If a woman can make herself cry, she is a psychopath. They should not be allowed in society, but should be locked away, where they can't hurt anyone.

[@bobleglob162]

Is your playist in the chronological order in which they employ each strategy?

[@Chris-0113]

@bobleglob162 lol not necessarily. But watch videos of women getting caught cheating. She'll use all of those before she just starts crying.

[@oscaraurelio8869]

There is a saying in the tones of "women cry when they want, and laugh when they can" . Would this video prove the saying is right?

[@cattraknoff]

@@purplesprigs Kinda sounds like all women are psycho. I thought we knew this. The key is finding the kind of crazy that you can live with.

[@RTFLDGR]

what an excellent lesson, Alexander. Thank you. I am a grandfather, directly raising a granddaughter. I witnessed many dysfunctional behaviors from my granddaughter after she attended public school. I call it out on her. I am not afraid to hold my ground, make my argument and refuse weird behavior.

[@RTFLDGR]

@@thebestpill4947 thank you very much for your words & wisdom. much respect.

[@tetedur377]

@@thebestpill4947 G. Gordan Liddy once said that women do not belong in combat, for the simple reason that they do not honor the conventions of warfare. You are correct, sir.

[@johndoe5715]

what about your daughter

[@SilverPaladin]

Just wait until she comes home and says she is a boy now and you need to call her Cory....

[@RTFLDGR]

@@SilverPaladin It's already happened. My daughter went trans 5+ years ago. :-/ I know how it happened. She suffered abuse from stepdad. She searched the dark/freak side of the internet. She fuqued-around and found out. She got (g)raped in college by a Kansas University teacher. She made lots of bad decisions, took lots of drugs, went places she should not have. :-/ The trans path happened by traumas, not so much social pressure. I was not there for any of this. She was raised by her single mother who was out "finding herself". :-/

[@Nunak91]

Once my fiancee broke into tears during argument. I believe it was our the biggest argument so far. I sort of ignored her crying and kept explaining my point. At some point although still crying asked me "can't you see I'm crying?". An argument ended shortly after. Interestingly she hasn't cried during argument ever since.

[@Scriabin_fan]

Well done.

[@billstrasburg384]

Nice job. That's the proper way to deal with that. "Are you CRYing?"

[@-lord1754]

I dont understand. How did you respond to the question?

[@Nunak91]

@@-lord1754 "yes, I can see that" and then I got back to the matter we were discussing. You need to differentiate between actual tears and "trying to avoid responsibility" tears. Take a look if she cries because something terrible happened or because she did something terrible.

[@TemporalBarrage]

​@@Nunak91Uh. I'm confused on how she's your fiance. She seems really childish, I wouldn't have the patience. I'm guessing she has other positive traits...?

[@sendtosw]

Got it, buddy. I had a mother who my whole life very manipulatively cried to get what she wanted, and by about age 12 or 13 I was on to her. Today, if a woman cries I treat it with the grain of salt it deserves and wait to hear what she wants. It's hilarious how, when I don't react how they expect, they sober right up!

[@ENIGMAXII2112]

And sober RIGHT UP they certainly do..! That is when one knows, and knows well that there was an attempt to set them up. Female nature is a very, VERY sick thing...

[@abigailcosta1716]

That's not sobering up. That's shutting down, and giving up on the hope that we'll be understood.

[@numaruldoi3031]

@@abigailcosta1716😂😂😂

[@ironchurro8957]

⁠@@abigailcosta1716it’s just ironic how you say it’s hopeless to be understood given your interpretation of this comment

[@abigailcosta1716]

@@ironchurro8957 A mother who "cried to get what she wanted" and "when I don't react how they expect, they sober right up." Yeah... I understood just fine. Totally not a toxic mentality 🤦☕

[@NGMonocrom]

No.... She's a normal woman. All of them can do that. That's why I'm no longer moved by their tears.

[@HI-ty6kv]

💯

[@turmalinofdreams2778]

All of them? Nah if I start crying because something hurts me and I can't get the pain out of my sythem but through my tears, then I am just not able to smile one second later. I nearly had to go home from work because I had a cry attack over a cat I had to say goodbye to in the morning because she was going to the vet later that day to fall asleep for ever. I used up my entire lunchbreak to cry and get it back together but laughing like nothing happend was not even thinkable. She was not even my cat, she was the cat of my mother in law but I really loved her ❤

[@HI-ty6kv]

@turmalinofdreams2778 men and women cry for different reasons. Most women figure out by the age of 13 (sometimes sooner) that they can use it as a weapon. Men need to go home and cry because people are disgusted when men display human empathy. You missed the entire point of this video and the OP comment

[@jackspinner4727]

⁠@@turmalinofdreams2778maybe he should all are capable of doing it. Not all will do it.

[@tetedur377]

@@turmalinofdreams2778 Same, except it was my dog of 7 years. I was at work, and for 2 days in a row, I had to go out to my buddy's motor home that I brought in to work on, break down, and cry like a baby. After that, I was good to go. I still miss that dog, more than 25 years later, but after a couple of crying jags, I was able to function and move on.

[@--Justin--]

Tears stopped working after a few years of adult relationships for me. Since then I've tried to hold women accountable and not let them off the hook when they cry, and it has led to them swapping tears for anger at "always being told I'm bad". There's no introspection.

[@thetjdman]

None at all. Completely non-existent

[@DennisNeijmeijer]

I always wait for that switch to flip. NOW We're two people in a discussion, not a person with a persona.

[@theathlete771]

This is so real. They really try to destabilize you with tears and when it doesn't work they get angry.

[@OneHitWonder383]

@@theathlete771 -- When women don't get what they want it's the tears first, then they always resort to _violins._ There is a video of a woman proposing to a man. He said no. She started to tear up, then she threw the ring box at him and went in to hit him and kick him. She checked all the boxes.

[@aeggeska1]

They don't view the problem. The problem in their mind is your reaction. The problem in her eyes is that you're getting upset at her. Alexander Grace has a great video on this somewhere in his channel.

[@kitatit]

My wife who I have been with for 15yrs is an absolute darling. In 15yrs I’ve only seen her cry 4x and two of those were happy tears. She is so reasonable and doesn’t manipulate me. She will charm me, but doesn’t use dirty tricks. I’m blessed, she is such a sweetheart!🤗

[@redridingcape]

​@@SappyAmonThat sounds good but I doubt most people would watch it. People are more fascinated by drama and conflict.

[@kitatit]

@@SappyAmon My wife and I don’t have social media and we met before the Tinder era. I feel fortunate in away because I’m not smooth and know all the right moves. I’d probably be on the scrap heap these days. She is a fantastic cook and loves it. I fix everything, and do most of the blokey jobs. She is good with accounting and does our taxes. Even though we have a joint bank account and joint credit cards when we are out for dinner, she always lets me pay, even though it’s both of our money anyway. she’s not demanding and entitled and this is why I love taking care of her as much as she takes care of me. She honours me as a man and I her as a woman. We aren’t in competition and don’t belittle each other in public. I tell my workmates about how I get spoiled all the time. Yep, it wouldn’t make good TV. I view, my wife, family and the rest of humanity as a garden of infinite variety. If you water, encourage and love this garden, you not only help it grow, but you enjoy the vista too. Make your mark, feed the system with your colours. Together we are unstoppable! Peace friends from Perth Australia!✊🤗🤘

[@jay4239]

Lucky you man! Take good care of her!

[@kitatit]

@@jay4239 Thanks Jay✊

[@sideshow4463]

Maybe she is just super happy but to me, if my girlfriend only cried 4 times in 15 years, I would find it weird 😆

[@Habaen5]

"What a great advantage a man can have over women, if he only knew what cold and calculating thoughts are going through her mind.... while her eyes are brimming with tears." - Esther Vilar. (The Manipulated Man, 1971.)

[@zuhairreza]

Will you believe me if I told you I was just looking yesterday night for “that banned book about female nature that I, after seeing mentioned in a KZbin comment some months ago and looking it up, I was so interested to read”? I tried searching for “banned books about female nature” and “banned female authors”, and even “banned books from 1970s” (I remembered the year it was published). Anyway, what luck! To find the very book from your comment just now… thanks so much! And who knows, I might have originally heard of the book from a comment you made as well…. 😅😅😎

[@SnapThority]

wtf based

[@mehoyminoy1326]

Just looked into that book. Amazing. She essentially wrote the foundations of being red pilled in dating. Very interesting. Saying what we all know but can’t say.

[@SnapThority]

@@mehoyminoy1326 the foreword itself talks about sexual market value linked to beauty of the woman. Granted I am reading the 2010 edition but that's still way before it was mainstream

[@wayofthekodiak3118]

Excellent book.Every man should read it.

[@MikeOchtman]

My missus used tears to manipulate me for the first two years until I twigged what was going on. Since then, tears in any women do nothing for me. "The only real tears a woman sheds are the tears she sheds alone"

[@HaploStrong]

My mother warned me of these girls when I started getting noticed by girls when I was around 12. She said women will always try to manipulate you with these types of tactics. She said do not put up with it the same your father won’t with me. She told me to not give one centimeter on this subject. I will not be manipulated by anyone to this day. I just tell a women trying this crap with me “grow some ovaries!” & I watch them changing immediately then get very angry 😤 They are angry that it didn’t work with me! I have been told that I am “MEAN!”. WHO-CARES! That means I am not manipulatable! Haha I had the best mother ever! She taught about all your stupid tricks women!

[@DavidBaronStevens]

My ex was an extreme version of this I learned quickly not to let her get away with this sht and she would later blame me for her eyes being puffy when I wouldn't console her after her hysterical crying bouts AFTER she had committed wrongdoing against ME. Now my dear daughter has been imitating this with me and I've had to arrest it on the spot explaining that she will not be allowed to cry when SHE has done wrong. It breaks my heart but I cannot allow my child to be turned into a sociopath by imitating her psychopath mother.

[@garysuarez9614]

Same. My daughter respects me for keeping us both on track.

[@redrustyhill2]

Why would you breed a psychopath???

[@redridingcape]

​@@redrustyhill2 I imagine she hid it. That or he was in denial about it because she's hot.

[@yoshi314]

i'm too jaded to believe woman's tears. comes with age.

[@okeythegoat2332]

😂😂😂😂I’m like no way you’re falling for a fake tear 😂not me and idc about feelings, only logic

[@John_Wood_]

the funny is when they look at you and can tell you arn't buying it. They are thinking "sh it e, i've got nothing else up my sleeve".

[@gumdeo]

@@John_Wood_ their last card to play, and it didn't work...

[@gravedesires]

Same

[@jasonBGI]

"Believe All Women" destroyed in 16 minutes

[@clarkvaughan]

I saw this for myself while over a female's classmate's apartment playing cards. She got on the phone with her man and cried hysterically. Face red, tears, nose running, the works. Inconsolable! Then she hung up, she wiped her face, smiled, and said, "that should get him," and continued to play her hand.

[@randomsimpson]

I assume you stopped being friends, to spare yourself that kind of trouble in the future. Because it WILL happen.

[@GamingProspector84]

That technique only works about once or twice, because she’s instantly “happy” the moment she gets her way. The first time is usually actual tears and then every time afterwards is whimpering à la “crocodile tears”. “Fool me once, shame on me, fool me twice… you ain’t gonna fool me again” ~GB

[@P46430]

I was raised by a TRULY narcissistic, bipolar & sociopathic mother and I have initial disgust & suspicion at all women crying.

[@brianchristopher8843]

My daughter has actually taught me so much about female nature. Ive learned more from my interactions with her than any other place. Luckily i dont fall for her emotional manipulation ive learned to flip it on her. Calling it out and not taking it seriously is the best way to deal with it. Of course if it is real and not just a manipulation tactic i can empathize with her.

[@knightsberryipad4152]

I have to say it has never affected me as having a sister and knowing she played on this I learnt at a very young age women do this. Also my mom was a great inspiration to me and she saw through it and when I saw girls in my class do it I applied it through life. If what I was asking was reasonable and it made them upset then I felt it was their problem to deal with it. I was told I was callous but being true to oneself was more important. But I got upset when other males did not have the foresight and made stupid decisions based on the tears and not the point really made me cross.

[@BouncingTribbles]

I was actually blind sided by this. My mum only ever cried in private, I found her crying about how hard things were a couple times because I went to the bathroom or something at the right time. Then I got out into the real world and women would use it to get their way. It worked on me in my first relationship, but it was SO confusing. Then I figured it out, it's amazing how fast it turns to anger when I stonewall them

[@PussInBoot414]

My ex once told me she was a great liar and would always get what she wants in two separate occasions, somehow this didn’t immediately make me worry but slowly but surely her behavior towards me and others made it clear something was very wrong and how awful she could be. Really opened my eyes to how certain girls are incredible actors and have been trained to put themselves first over everyone.

[@frankb389]

This gets many Men in trouble when Cops are called for a domestic squabble, on the occasion it was the woman's fault. Anyone remember the video bar maid that did not like Her tip? The guy was with His sister and was well inebriated His sister was helping Him walk. The Waitress ran up to Him and threw herself on the ground crying. Then two brutes that were near by beat the guy to a pulp, hospitalizing Him. The Waitress got jail time.

[@BreezeeGreenz]

Pathetic. Do you have a link?

[@KoaxialKable]

It took me several years of marriage to realize some of this. In scenarios where im being reaosnable and shes crying, its because she needs to cry, and I need to let it happen. One of our best interactions was one where my wife was being completely irrational about something, and I called her on it, and she yelled back, "Well maybe injust feel like being irrational right now!" I replied without anger. "Okay, then." And left her alone to be irrational. She told me afterwards that my calling it what it was AND refusal to engage with it made her feel immediately better. I don't fully understand, but I know when shes being crazy its got nothing to do with me.

[@ichdu7310]

My little Sister started out acting in this female way pretty much exactly around the age of 8. Before 8 she was a normal kid, getting around the age of 8 she started to turn into a female.

[@BreezeeGreenz]

Sounds about right. According to the old nursery rhyme, little girls are made of "sugar and spice and everything nice." _Little_ girls are. Up till a certain age. That saying was never meant to apply to anything but little girls. By around the age of eight, the saying no longer applies. But most men think it applies for a woman's entire life. Oops. Gotcha.

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

I have always taken crying at face value. However, it seems that it can often be used as a manipulative tactic to avoid accountability, responsibility and repercussions. I wish I had known all this stuff 20 years ago. The youngsters of today have so much golden info available to them on YT. Incredible video.

[@mohdmohtashim9841]

Alexander if that is terrifying then you should see my family, I was born in a pit of vipers. The dark triad scores are through the roof.

[@OrwellsHousecat]

🤗

[@Gaizaz]

SAME. My mom is a pure SOCIOPATH. Shes mellowed out with age, thank the Lord, but growing up she was just nightmarish.

[@jaronevans2468]

I dated a woman very briefly a long time ago that started crying after her ex-boyfriend contacted me and I confronted her. She had just dumped him after meeting me, I wasn't aware that she was in a relationship - she was monkey branching. When confronted, she started crying in public. I remember a passerby visibly glaring at me. I never spoke to her again after that. If she'll do it to him, she'll do it to you.

[@Revinance88]

A woman’s tears are only sincere when she is alone.

[@John_Wood_]

I was watching a game at the Rugby World Cup recently when the camera cut to a close up of a female in the crowd looking absolutely devastated that her team were about to be dumped out of the competition. Once she noticed she was on the big screen she changed instantly, HUGE beaming grin, ecstatic, joyful, delighted, blowing kisses, bouncing. I just laughed, another chameleon.

[@iamsyourdadi]

which team were you supporting? Were you happy the Boks won?

[@John_Wood_]

@@iamsyourdadi I'm Irish, so beaten by the All Blacks. Was not overly concerned who won in the end.

[@iamsyourdadi]

@@John_Wood_ Damn. I watched that game and was heartbroken for you guys. But Ireland is now a powerhouse..i expect future great things from the team. Cheers bro. Good to find another fan in here. I was pro-France so yeah, loss for us as well

[@TheBazino]

Since I saw my first video of a woman who cheated crying while saying it's the guys fault about 2 dozen years ago, IDGAF about women crying anymore. Since then I have seen so many videos of women being bad that I have lost all empathy for them, because I've realized that women are incapable of empathy in the first place - contrary to what Disney, Hollywood and the Media are trying to tell us.

[@legobuildingsrewiew7538]

They cry whenever they want to manipulate its hella funny.

[@OrwellsHousecat]

*womanipulate

[@legobuildingsrewiew7538]

​@@OrwellsHousecatdon't use gay words please

[@OrwellsHousecat]

@@legobuildingsrewiew7538 why, does it turn you on too much?

[@Ariapeithes_]

Manifest! Manipulate! Medicate!

[@The-Man-On-The-Mountain]

I remember an anecdote with the last girl I was dating, like 10 years ago: we were having dinner, and we started a conversation with different opinions. I can't remember but it wasn't political or mem and women or anything like that, I think it was related to actors and movies. The thing is she was wrong and I showed her. Then, suddenly, she started to give me an attitude, and when I asked what was the problem, she started crying, crocodile tears, saying that she can't talk to me because I start yelling at her. I ended up apologizing. When I went back home, I started to think about it and I was like, "WTF! I neither yelled at her nor anything like that! Why the hell did I apologize??". Lol I was so pissed off alone at home 😂. Ooooh man, beta moment, I know. They manipulate you and you don't even notice. I apologized for something I didn't do, just because she was wrong and couldn't take a little L.

[@dreadpiratekeane]

My last relationship, about 5-6 years ago was horribly toxic. I finally got the courage to leave when I realized one day how many times I had apologized to her for something SHE had done to ME. The crocodile tears, the silent treatment, the passive aggressiveness it was all to escape accountability for her toxic behavior. So many times I heard "You always yell at me" when I had made the point of talking like you would to a skittish horse.

[@wayofthekodiak3118]

What's worse is when she makes a public display and any moron or white knight nearby starts to ask "are you okay honey"? Or worse, calls you an asshole without any knowledge of what's happening.

[@salimr4718]

Grown women crying does not soften me. It puts me on alert. Is she trying to hide something? It is the little baby girls and toddlers who melt my heart.

[@BARZEL343]

Her: Cries Me: Plays air violin.

[@jackspinner4727]

Haha mr krabs little violin

[@jimmycccc]

Been there, learnt that lesson, got the tshirt and emotional scars to prove it. They cry with no tears and use it as a weapon which is very effective. And if you don’t instantly demonstrate massive amounts of sympathy you are the bad person. Even when they did something really bad. It’s z as nice mix of narcissism and dark traits. But it is a very good red flag to look for at the start of any relationship. First time I ever see this I would walk away. Female or male manipulation is a major red flag.

[@BreezeeGreenz]

Manipulation from any source is a major red flag.

[@Brian-L]

I’ve been watching police body cam DUI vids lately and it’s (un)surprising how many girls go from flirty and innocent to “you’re ruining my life” alligator tears Oscar worthy performances in less than 30 seconds.

[@THX5000]

They never mature mentally beyond teenage girl. Hence the Karen epidemic.

[@steveb8269]

Holding a position in the workplace that means I work with a large team of people, I've seen this behaviour time and time again, even from men...

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Feminisation of Society

[@radmcbad1576]

I have seen multiple women in real life stop crying in a heart beat just like that, when I told them to stop, when they were trying to get their way. Don't let those crocodile tears fool you.

[@seanmar1738]

I have had this used against me so much and for so long, that a woman crying without context, actually causes me to think of her as abusive. My gut reaction is to be angry. I know I used to have a different reaction.

[@neonmajora8454]

It really says something how people will make videos of themselves fake crying like "look at me, I can be manipulative" lol

[@ashfordj81]

They're just narcissists announcing on social media not to take them seriously. If men these days aren't looking back over their dates' SM accounts to prepare for the psychological battle ahead that modern women have made the dating field, they're going in unprepared and unarmed.

[@matthewcoombs3282]

Those women are telling on the sisterhood, betraying their secret wiles.

[@jomojojo6603]

Babies learn that if they cry, a parent will come running. Toddlers then do it subconsciously. Boys grow out of this. Girls run with it.

[@mkworkgroupis1739]

very well contectulised

[@MikeG82]

boys are told "big boys don't cry" girls get what they want when they cry

[@SmartK8]

I hate it in the movies and TV shows. Woman obviously does something and nearest person tells her: "You did nothing wrong." or "It's not your fault."

[@Yut00bisSUS]

That twinkle in her eye when she smirks after welling up is the jezebel stare.

[@Frost-yw9sz]

I'm at that age and level of experience in my life where tears don't phase me out at all. In fact, too much of it will make me lose interest and/or respect.

[@MbaliSaliwa]

when backed into a corner, women cry and men get angry...its hilarious and terrifying in both cases. she cries to invoke sympathy. he gets mad to threaten silence. basically, one is a toddler sobbing. one is a toddler throwing a tantrum.

[@michaeldale-vw5xs]

Awesome subject! I’ve had my ex, my teenage daughters and even older women pull this on me! My ex used to scream bloody murder and when I would hurriedly come to see what I need to do, she would be laughing 🤨

[@min5899]

I am a woman who is ashamed to cry in front of others. I've never done this technique.

[@schoolworkaccount3887]

Same. I can’t imagine ever doing this on purpose. It’s disgusting.

[@StillAwesome21]

Exceptions don't disprove the rule. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@elissitdesign]

I learned long ago to be more scrutinizing of crying situations. I dated a narcissist who thought she was a pro and drove her crazy when I didn’t fall for this tactic of crying and gaslighting.

[@bluebutterfly5062]

I really appreciate this. Not allowing women to get away with manipulation while validating their emotions and giving men permission to feel theirs.

[@jblaze114]

my poor daughter, when she was little and cried i would ask "and how does crying fix it?" or tell her "let me know when your done and i'll come back".

[@redrustyhill2]

My mom learned from her mom how to deal with it "if you don't stop crying right this minute, i am going to give you something to actually cry about"

[@abigailcosta1716]

Totally not toxic.

[@gamalong3966]

@@abigailcosta1716 congrats on finding how out how men are treated since birth

[@michaeldemarillac9992]

The sad mid 40 woman will be fine, she is young and has so much to look forward to. She can own two cats back to back over the next 40 years before she truly drops off the perch. She can do it. Meanwhile I will own the cat food company shares.

[@KillerstingrayK-cm4pi]

Profit from pain, thats win win

[@veger2001]

I really like your take on this subject matter! In Portage ( A major rehabilitation center ) their was a saying which went " FEEL BAD AND CHANGE " -- Feeling bad is like a meter to tell us to do better for ourselves and others.

[@bonfirehazemusicanime]

"I've been around the world. I've seen everything, things you couldn't imagine, and this... this is the only thing I've ever seen that terrifies me." -Euron Greyjoy

[@Animatthias]

The very first instance of female manipulation I have ever witnessed was my sister using spit instead of tears to fake being sad in order to get treats to sooth her. Nobody showed it to her, she just tried it out one day. She was five...

[@uroslukicc999]

I didn't expect to hear everything you said based on the title of the clip and I'm literally delighted and speechless. Great subject. Well done, Alexander!

[@johnhammink2716]

Great. So they're manipulative children.

[@agoogleuseranonymous2658]

The worst thing is that 46 yo mature woman just waking up on reality. This is what this toxic society has become. And it started back at a young age with Disney and Cinderella ... Sad that it took so long for that woman to wake up from that bedtime story. Like to my standards, someone who takes this long to realize that isn't just smart. Like seriously, even to a cat it doesn't take him that long to realize that there is a problem ...

[@oldgraybeard3659]

I'm the oldest brother of eight sisters. Having watch them manipulate my parents against me, no I can't go for the tears. My wife was a soldier when we met. being successful in my world meant she could never appear to be a victim just to gain advantage, or the community would turn against her. In the first month of our dating, I told her point blank to never bring her problems to me if she wasn't willing to fight for herself.

[@CallmeMasta]

Not anymore.. But I'm 47 and scarred.

[@crazyguywatchnu]

Never been happier to be a sadist

[@WexMajor82]

Hate, disgust, distrust. I feel hate. I've seen this happen WAY too many times. I've overwritten my response.

[@johnholt4233]

Is it bad that I felt nothing when those girls were crying? Not to me. I'm no longer the white knight in shining armor riding in to rescue the damsel. My armor is bent and bloody. Having to bring myself back from the brink without anyone's help, I'm now a diamond and it's going to take more than tears to break this shell. I used to be this way. I was stupid enough to treat my daughters the way you're talking about, and it's ruined them for their husbands. I treated my wife this way, and she left me bankrupt and destitute while still having to pay for her and her boyfriend's lifestyle. Never again. I'm not going to intentionally make you cry, but if what I say does, that's your problem not mine. Be an adult and handle the truth or go back to your girlfriends and wallow with them in the pigsty of delusion. FTW

[@jackspinner4727]

Bent and bloody armor. I like that.

[@mattmattmatt131313]

Had family friends and their 5 year old granddaughter over for lunch. Something doesn't go her way and she comes to the adults table all distressed big teary-eyed crying her lungs out. I of course switch into the concerned "Oh poor you, what is wrong how can I make it better" mode, but the grandparents knowing exactly what is up, turn it in a joking and laughing dismissive sort of way. Odd. As soon as she figures out that the manipulation is not working the red crying face turns off in a second and she starts laughing with them. That was shocking. The grandparents later explained how she started doing this whole manipulation through crying recently when she doesn't get her way. I was flabbergasted completely. I failed this test ... to a 5 year old. Now imagine a grown woman.

[@user-nq5hy7vn9k]

There's something definitely wrong with me. I rather feel indifference looking at a female cry

[@_Solaris]

There's nothing wrong with you. If she's been crying alone with no one around to see it, and I enter the room, she _may_ get some sympathy & an ear. ...maybe.

[@user-nq5hy7vn9k]

@@_Solaris yep. My empathy and ear is only available based on situations

[@ShadowbannedAccount]

Terrifying? This is hilarious dude lmao. I have been immune to women's tears since the very beginning.

[@gameon2000]

That's why I don't trust the news. Neither you should.

[@davidgarcia8782]

I learnt this 25 years ago. I know all about this. I have no guilt reflex at all.

[@ShonnMorris]

I don't feel anything anymore when women cry, or appear to cry. This is due to a an exgirlfriend I had some years ago. I learned from her that women can cry on queue and they use it to get what they want out of men. Now, when a woman cries, I just sit there and wait for her to realize I'm not falling for it and then BOOM! The crying instantly goes to anger which was always there in the first place.

[@thepariah3516]

Sometimes, I'm glad im ugly and generally repulsive to women.

[@Leptyzz]

I’m happy for you. I’m handsome and the only attention I get is from fugly old women which sucks. The young ones generally hate you as they project their insecurity unto you. Also have ASD so my dating success is a good zero despite my looks. Wish I was average looking or slightly ugly. Not super ugly because those guys really have it hard too with being projected on.

[@thepariah3516]

@@Leptyzz I'm also on the spectrum, yeah, it does make interacting with women hard.

[@Sovnarkom]

The fake cry babies I can handle … the person who starts screaming like volume makes them correct. 🤯

[@pinktfatrabbit]

I even broke up with a girlfriend because she was unable to apologize and started crying all the time. I lose all respect for people like that.

[@MyMy-tv7fd]

yes, the snivel tends to have the opposite effect on me - my mother was particularly bad at it so I was never taken in. Had a knock-on effect with other femme.

[@Germania72]

Not my case...My mother was the disciplinarian and my dad just followed. It was a joint effort. She didn't care about my tears. LOL

[@JohnAnderson-ev3lp]

It's easy for evil to recognize evil

[@p4inkiller981]

Because your mother knows this strategy of manipulation

[@jyyyb]

It’s just accountability avoidance, like everything else they do

[@bobleglob162]

I get concerned when my daughters start to cry. My wife just rolls her eyes.

[@alexlaw1892]

Be careful my friend you're on the fine line of cuckery there.

[@_Solaris]

She knows... she knows... 😄

[@tennbones]

It used to work for me when I was of the mind that women were human beings. I have learned better over the years. The realization of it however is profoundly saddening.

[@bujin5455]

When I see the water works turn off like that, it makes me feel like I'm looking at a predator, and the survival instinct kicks in.

[@thepassman]

This behavior fits the German-Danish philosopher Johannes Nicolaus Tetens "trichotomy" of feeling, understanding, and will. Most women have mastered this trifecta of emotional display to great effect. I wonder what would happen if the Father/Husband/Boyfriend started clapping a round of applause 👏👏👏 every time their daughter/wife/girlfriend started this "acting"? 🤔😅🤣😂

[@hyperteleXii]

What about the recent study that revealed when women feel regret, they don't change their behavior.

[@davidradford9417]

My older sister would do something bad to me (ie; hitting, teasing, stealing my things) I would point it out or try to rectify things, and she would start to cry and go into hysterics, and my dad would come in and beat me. Unfortunately, this made instinctual response be, "Oh no, girl crying, I must've done something wrong, even if I didn't no one will believe me, better do whatever it takes to stop her from crying or I am going to get punished." No, when a girl/woman flies into hysterics and starts to weep when her bad behavior gets called out, I get called "cold-hearted, unfeeling, uncaring, heart of stone." The only difference is rather than rush to try to make her feel better I just sit and watch her in silence. Of course, when I initially don't react to the hysterics a woman will start to double and triple her efforts to get me to react. And the more they freak out the more I feel less of an impulse to comfort and more puzzled and bemused as soon the "act" " or show that she is putting on becomes more apparent. And the technique isn't anything really out of the ordinary, rather than following my initial reaction to rush in and comfort, I wait for about 15 seconds and just look. I just watch her be upset for 15 seconds, I don't say anything or do anything, just watch. I've even had some girls/women open their eyes while pretending to sob and look at me to see if I am paying attention. After a while, you begin to differentiate between her really feeling bad and her just playing pretend. A great indication is that if she is just pretending her outburst will increase in intensity after those initial 15 seconds. Most likely she will assume that you didn't see or hear her and that's why you didn't jump to it trying to make her feel better. That's the "tell" (to use a poker term) whether this is real or just a game. If after 15 seconds of just looking if she starts to get a hold of herself and tries to calm herself then the sadness and hurt is real, if she ramps things ups after those 15 seconds she's playing you.

[@jimjohnson394]

As a dad with two daughters, I made a conscious effort to not give a care when my daughters cried. Now that they are teenagers, I rarely see them cry.

[@superbirden57]

"Limbic Resonance". No wonder concerts, and sporting events are more exciting viewed live rather than on TV.

[@Lucas-mf1tc]

When my daughter cries my only response is “why are you crying.” Don’t ignore it, don’t give into it, simply ask her to figure it out…. My daughter almost never cries.

[@animestyle92]

To answer that question in the beginning of the video, I wouldn’t need to ask my sister because she’s done it to me before when we were kids so I wouldn’t even be surprised if other women have done that as well

[@almightycthulhu3651]

"Never trust the words of a woman, for their heart is upon a wheel which is eternally spinning." -Odin

[@ferrosjewellers4558]

The first two examples should be given something to cry about.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

I was 13 when I had a girl literally try to flutter her eye lids at me to get what she wanted. I looked at her like "what the hell was that?" From that day on I KNEW women are manipulators. It's probably why I am single (had a few long term relationships), but I simply do not accept manipulation and THEY don't like that. Crying.... I "feel" I can tell when it's for real, if I "feel" it's a manipulation, I simply say "I'll let you work through this on your own" and I get on with my day, you have to walk away to demonstrate you are not going to be controlled like that, so I'll go to the garage or do something in the garden. It is quite amazing how quickly they start feeling better and THEN we can continue the conversation where we left off - rinse / repeat as many times as necessary. You cannot allow them off the hook if it is serious enough. And PS: I did state I am single, you have to be comfortable with loss, THAT is often the hook they try to hold you on, the fear of loss.

[@John_Wood_]

Same here, once we see through their tactics it is nearly impossible to enter a relationship. And once they figure out their game is up they have no option but to either improve or move on. And we know they don't do improvement.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

PPS: I recently suffered an event which triggered PTSD / C-PTSD and part of the recovery process was to frequently recite some personally defined (but guided) "affirmations" whenever the feeling of being "overwhelmed" began to rush in... It involved some neuro-linguistic programming to break the subconscious choke points. They went something like this (for me personally): 1. My emotions are not me. 2. I welcome all of my emotions, good bad and ugly. 3. My goal is to remain present in the moment and be capable of expressing love in a healthy manner. 4. I am engaged in my self interested actions and I will put myself first whenever necessary. 5. I am my own person with self agency and freedom of will and choice. My recovery was SWIFT, I noticed a difference almost immediately - thank you Richard Grannon and your Fortress Mental Health Program (trauma recovery). This is a thing, you MUST allow ALL of your emotions to flow, just don't act on them.

[@dreadpiratekeane]

@@John_Wood_ A woman's idea of self-improvement is getting with her girlfriends to validate and justify her terrible behavior.

[@John_Wood_]

@@dreadpiratekeane 💯

[@ronchandler320]

Wow! The first image details my experience with my mother and very ex-wife. Basically my entire childhood. The evil behind the manipulation is just insane and very dangerous for any man in its path. Be careful and take care everyone.

[@GenuineFlolie]

I have known my wife for 17 years, i have only seen her cry twice

[@rodrigo100kk]

I used to sympathize with women, now I dont. Im colder than russian winter.

[@Shreenjan07]

❤

[@socialcommentary1014]

Gay man here. Long time viewer of the show. I learned very early on that my tears and my emotions brought scorn and ridicule, while my sister’s emotions brought sympathy and often times a reversal of her fortunes. Let’s be clear: Becky tears are real, and they have ruined, and even ended many lives.

[@vergil1us]

I might be on the other side of the spectrum or even a bit (or full on) psychopath, because when I see a woman crying (in person and doesn't matter if she is close, relative or a stranger) and I see it's clearly fake tears - I just start to laugh and it's so effective because they either stop or start to get angry and at that point they lose. But if the tears seem to be genuine I am indifferent, I might say "Oh, it is what it is" without laughing but I'm not gonna offer comfort.

[@sweetness_5772]

My maternal grandmother had a great saying. Let her cry. She's not crying blood so let her cry her eyes out.🤣

[@ronmexico5908]

Trust is necessary to communicate. If she lies and you believe, she doesn't value communication. Once shes found out no hope for a relationship exists. Men value honesty, integrity and dependability. If you break those he won't want anything to do with you. It's long term vs short term thinking

[@alwaysright3718]

My daughter is too scared to cry around me...

[@jrpgaddict7726]

Hard lesson i had to learn too...now i see right through it!