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[@alexandergrace5350]

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[@FreshFitMiami]

Alex hit me on IG @unplugfit. We want you on the freshandfit podcast.

[@your_royal_highness]

The last one about the house has or had other potential outcomes. First the husband could have provided for what is known as a “life estate” giving the widowed second wife the right to live there as long as she wants, but she will not inherit the property. She would have to pay the taxes, utilities, etc. and make sure she proves she is taking care of the house and associated expenses. Also, I hope the life insurance has a contingency beneficiary; meaning, HIS daughter, in case she predeceases him.

[@Bloodcurling]

Bought a box

[@miidoo443]

im gonna be honest here ....the laws of the land that protect women have a lot to do with this... for a woman to have to guts to say to a man who works hard for his money that he is broke for not paying their bills especially say it to his face.. they must really be confident that they are well protected and free to do so... maybe because the majority of people are a bunch of politically correct wannabes who want to win women'approval by saying you should never hit a woman... i mean they basically gave a halo to each lady in there... that's a ridiculous statement to make quite frankly.... where i come from if a situation like this occurs those 2 women would get smacked in their mouths and they d be lucky if the judge doesn't do the same

[@miidoo443]

2nd story... how are they still married after the incident with some other man pulls her away while she goes along with it... i mean how does a man accept this in his life in his home... it pains to hear men in such positions

[@michaelsantangelo7997]

My ex-wife cheated on me and then asked me to hold off on divorcing her so she could stay on my health insurance. I divorced her immediately.

[@jasonBGI]

😂😂😂😂😂 wow

[@arnaudbakyono461]

The nerve 😂

[@mrsquidwardtentacles9001]

The effing audacity lmao

[@devilsadvocacy]

Yeah, but he probably got stuck paying her health insurance anyway

[@michaelsantangelo7997]

@@devilsadvocacy nope. Not only did I kick her off my insurance, but I kept $26,000 she gave me as a gift to pay off my student loans "as an investment in our relationship". It was hilarious when she tried to get the money back. The mediator was like pfft. It doesn't work that way. All of our mutual friends took my side. Her own family took my side. Her parents were like I can't believe she did this to you. You were the best thing that ever came into her life. She ended up alone and miserable. Good for her. I'm now 100% debt free and making $33k a year more than I was making when we were together. Legally speaking, the divorce was super easy. No kids. No shared property. No shared car. Separate bank accounts. I didn't even need a lawyer. I paid a "mediator" and it cost $60. I made her pay half.

[@jeffb.140]

As a guy in health care, I'm still surprised seeing guys seriously dating and marrying women in health care ..

[@poopingwhilestanding5801]

As well as am I. Women in healthcare are some of the most hypergamous, entitled women of most professions. All it takes is that 'dreamy' Radiologist she works with....and your gf or wife is planning how she can trade up

[@blu5543]

Went on a date with a girl last Sunday, who worked in healthcare... nice enough, but a walking red Flag. I pitty the man that is too blind or desperate to notice who she ends up with.

[@chrispekel5709]

​@@blu5543you should have slept with her

[@maxmaximus7773]

@jeffb.140 that's quite interesting. Why do you say that? They work in healthcare so they should have a lot of empathy and be kind, no?

[@SP-1414]

Why do you say that?

[@paulweston285]

I had this happen in a club an attractive lady sitting with 3 female friends smiled at me i walked over introduced myself and offered to buy her a drink, she turned to her friends and said " who wants a drink " ? i just walked away.

[@zakzwijn8410]

WTF that's extremely rude. And women wonder why men don't approach them anymore.

[@maxdudomite]

Tell them you’re buying drinks if they take turns getting your pickle wet.

[@beavisbuttgoblin]

Why are you offering to buy a woman a drink? By doing that YOU are complicit & encouraging women's entitlement. Stop that.

[@zakzwijn8410]

@@beavisbuttgoblin Tbh it used to be a polite starting point of interest. Answer could be yes or no and that was that. But yeah, nowadays it's often seen as an opportunity to get free stuff.

[@moradtaouati5633]

Never lead with your wallet

[@patrec7638]

Even older happily married couples suffer from this slight. For instance, I was told my a female friend of my wife, that fixing things around the house is a "man's job". So when I turned around and said that cleaning the house is a "house wife's job" they suddenly both became very offended. Interesting how that works.

[@traviskalmoni]

That's unfortunately the case today.

[@rejthree]

So true.

[@marcostation1000]

Women only have double standars. They lie so good they lie to themself and believe it

[@petervaczovsky9211]

Exactly! The double standard is strong these days.

[@Nick_Nightingale]

There job is to gossip, complain and cheat... hence why guys are getting their passports.

[@PSALTISK]

As a woman, I would NEVER ask my husband to pay for my friends. That is outrageous thing to ask of your spouse and tan disrespect him. Not much of a marriage if you ask me.

[@beasthaven1571]

Can we get more women with this mindset the other one has become normalized.

[@boodledemic6430]

Same girl. I always think of the inverse situation and if it doesn’t feel right that way, then it’s not right any way

[@reesedds]

If you are out with your husband, and the friends were invited not a big deal. In which case it would probably have been discussed beforehand by you two and therefore not a problem. SPRINGING it on someone however, especially when it's a date, nope. Wrong, haughty, entitled, delusional and just bloody rude. Or the man should be like ok, but me you and your 4 friends are all playing doctor when we get back to the house.

[@jacobmckenzie3854]

Once you see women as children you can't unsee it. Its kind of painful really.

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

Schopenhauer articulated this perfectly in Essays and aphorisms.

[@ddotduval]

Yup it's never been the same again.... They are absolutely children

[@ChaadFairservice20022]

^always have been.. you dont argue with children.

[@me1sTerweeD]

@@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT do you have a quote or where he said that ? am really interested

[@retheisen]

Children you can do doggie with.

[@JamesJones-mg3ts]

That's funny. I had a lady that I met with her friends and I thought she was kidding at first. They were already eating and drinking before I showed up and this lady told them I'd pick up the check and they had some expensive dishes and drinks. All said, I was still 'vetting' this lady and I was just meeting her for a 'casual' lunch (just her so I could get to know her). Once I realized she was serious, I didn't complain or react in any way to demonstrate my boundaries were crossed. I just politely excused myself that I needed to visit the mens room and just walked instead to my car and left. I got calls and texts and I just blocked them all and didn't listen or read them (a good reason for a ghosting).

[@BreezeeGreenz]

A good reason for ghosting indeed.

[@redbaron07]

These days, if you live in an urban area, that would get you doxxed on a "Are we dating the same guy?" FB group, which is full of entitled women wanting petty "revenge" (in quotes because they _haven't been wronged_ in any way). But in actuality these "He didn't even pay for all of us!" women are telling on themselves.

[@gabrielWachong]

Legend 💪🤣

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

Your wallet, your choice!

[@redbaron07]

@@jean-louislalonde6070 Men should start claiming "My body my choice" because you're earning that money by spending your time and effort working hard in a job. Even if you commute to an office or work on Zoom from home, it's _your_ time and effort. Not theirs for the taking. Oh and it enrages feminists when men say it, so that's a plus!

[@jeremynedrow7003]

If a woman acts entitled and selfish when your dating just leave.

[@hyperteleXii]

Do *not* brush it off. It won't get better - it'll get worse.

[@AndyKirtland11]

Exactly, narcissistic women belong to the streets!!

[@MrTchupam]

That’s why we’re not dating anymore… we can tell previously

[@Panz82]

a lot of women are self aware of this and they hide it.

[@Dragonologist]

The only way to invoke a change in others is to become the shining example of who they want to be. Be so great that they want to be like you and abandon their selfish ways.

[@Jeff-tt7wj]

Man…..I get lonely being single sometimes but hearing stories like this and then remembering my cheating ex wife’s behavior makes me feel incredibly grateful and at peace lol

[@johnkidd1226]

Better to be lonely some of the time than miserable all the time.

[@NoMoneyOut]

​@@johnkidd1226-- This yours: 👑 ?

[@michaelbullen3104]

Bro I know it sounds insane but STAY celibate and alone. Don’t deal with meaningless things and transitionary disgusting fleeting pleasures and you’ll be truly happy in life

[@4514rooster]

I have gotten so many things done I have always wanted to do by staying alone

[@ColeTurner-sr8mc]

I started dating a woman, we were both in our 40's, I owned a commercial drywall company and wasn't concerned with money as I had enough. I overheard her comment to her daughter that she was running short of cash and she couldn't afford their spa day. A few days later I gave her $250 & said to use it for bills. I was building a multiple story building in her town but had to go to another city to work on another job for that weekend. While I was absent she went to a restaurant with friends and she used the money I'd given her and bragged her new boyfriend could afford it... I wondered from time to time what happened to her but never so much that I inquired.

[@davefalk1878]

Got out of that one cheap 😂

[@ambakaro]

En Asia generalmente las mujeres gestionan el dinero en casa, solo digo eso

[@ambakaro]

En Asia generalmente las mujeres gestionan el dinero en casa, solo digo eso

[@free2chasehappy]

Imagine being betrayed by your wife and her friends… only to be later betrayed by your own parents and friends. I guess this is the life of most men sadly.

[@LiberPater777]

My best guess is they were all very "Christian". The number of times I've heard so called "good Christian women" say they're to be cared after by men in all things is astounding.

[@sergiofonseca2285]

Don't worry, you don't even need a wife for that

[@free2chasehappy]

@@sergiofonseca2285 very true.

[@JVP_thephobic]

Yep.Gaslighting from both sides is real. This is why I keep a small circle of bros with their heads on straight. They actually hold more weight in my head over my family as they are more logical than them. Naturally, We hold each other accountable.

[@free2chasehappy]

@@JVP_thephobic amen brother.

[@stevenkelley9002]

These stories make my brain blue screen. It's not even the bad behavior...it's the fact that these poor guys have to ask, "Am I wrong for doing this?" STOP SECOND GUESSING YOURSELF! 😕

[@MrMoriarty100]

Such is the degree to which feminist society grooms boys.

[@Trpmanne]

These guys have no back bone. Be a man. A real man has strict boundaries & won’t allow for any wmn to think or use him like an atm.

[@sadudas11]

Be careful. This is what happens when you get outside opinions and everyone disagrees with you. Even if you are absolutely certain that you’re right

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

The proper reply is: ''I don't owe you nothing. My wallet, my choice. Goodbye''.

[@stuartdparnell]

Those men are beta simps. Sigmas and Alphas will put those women in their place fast.

[@Guildofarcanelore]

“End the patriarchy!” Okay, protect and provide for yourself. “Wait, not that part.”

[@EC-yl7xk]

LOL.

[@Recken1]

🎯 bullseye

[@kpage592]

Indeed

[@adolfgerhardhermann5952]

How about this: "End the idiocracy!"

[@Guildofarcanelore]

@@adolfgerhardhermann5952 In these times that seems like a much harder task.

[@PaulRubino]

💥 I got married ... once. Within 6 months I caught her cheating on me. She begged me to do marriage counseling and some other BS to try and save the marriage. Instead, I left her and never looked back. I don't know what ever happened to her, I don't care. Today I am happy, healthy, retired and happily single. 👍

[@Demochose]

Ahh the old “get caught and say you want to go to marriage counseling” trick. Yeah all that was was just her trying to keep you around to continue using you for whatever she was benefiting from. Plus, that marriage counselor would’ve just tried to manipulate you into believing you should take her back and “forgive her”.

[@roninsamurai8128]

​@@Demochosemost counsellors are women and even if a man they always take the side of the woman.

[@tigeruppercut2000]

Oh so SHE CHEATED and yet YOU have to do marriage counselling?? *Laughs in Divorce and Freedom* 😆

[@roninsamurai8128]

@@tigeruppercut2000 marriage counseling is a sham,most of the councillors are wahmsn and they take side of their kind.

[@wytchend]

I saw this happening once when a GF's friends turned up for dinner. After they ordered (large) I faked a phone call & left. Jesus they were pissed hahaha. Priceless

[@mrgregw]

Women eat a lot more conservative when they know they're paying the bill. They don't go out to the finest restaurants.

[@ThatGrumpyITGuy]

Had a gf once fight over my inheritance.. got mad that I wasn’t leaving her two kids anything.. a gf.. not wife.. met her kids like 3 times.. I was amazed. Didn’t last.

[@frontiervirtcharter]

In the case of the wife of the guy who inherited the house from his first wife, the fair thing to do would be a life estate.. It'll also protect the house from any medical bills she might end up with

[@aaronsinspirationdaily4896]

I had one that wanted to renovate my house (modern, built 11 years prior) starting with my bedroom. She wanted me to pay for it and her to do it the way she wanted. When I said I wanted to design it as it was my house, she lost her bananas. I told her once she was paying rent/mortgage/insurance/utilities etc, and staying at my house 50% of her time, then we can do it together, 50-50 even all the way. She outright refused and chucked a huge tantrum. Withheld affection, sex, quality time. She visited once, maybe twice a week at best. And made that a battle. Then I told her I wanted to renovate her house. She lost her mind. Pretty sure she’s a covert narcissist. Went no contact. Only thing I miss is the s3x, she wasn’t worth anything else.

[@mrgregw]

They invest nothing and feel entitled to the comfort of a relationship. It's very common.

[@julianfell666]

His first wife died suddenly, relatively young and without a will. In my jurisdiction the house equity would be inherited by husband and daughter 50:50. Second wife would only be entitled to a share of the husbands 50%. The amount of the share would depend on a range of circumstances.

[@racebannon96]

@@aaronsinspirationdaily4896 Run Forrest Run!

[@lenniegodber7805]

Divorce ASAP If this is how she acts at such a young age then she will become a nightmare as she gets older Leave NOW while it will cost the least

[@whenpigsfly8178]

Just act in an unattractive unmanly fashion and make her want to leave by herself. i.e. exploit that hypergamy.

[@Thynqikan]

@@whenpigsfly8178 I did that, it took way to long!

[@steveburke7675]

....and certainly before kids.

[@michaelhurlbut4830]

This applies to both stories 1 and 2.

[@leopardsbasketball]

How did he miss so many red flags in the first place though.......

[@CyberJedi1]

First mistake the guy made, married that girl.

[@rp7r54]

THE FIRST MISTAKE HE MADE IN HIS LIFE.

[@SISU_LIFE]

All these guys were correct in how they handled the situation. Where they went wrong is they apparently didn’t do enough homework on these women before getting married. Or maybe I should say their mistake was getting married at all

[@lightbringer9940]

Makes me wonder how Alex is not scared.

[@nope9858]

First mistake was actually approaching her.

[@warpedreflection3650]

Who the F does that? I don't know any women that would expect a man to pay for their friends. People have lost their damn minds.

[@Fucyourfeelings]

Then you don't know any women cause they'll all do thus to you. This concept just hasn't caught up to them yet.

[@dougiedorite8296]

Women who do that, have already bragged to their ''posse'' how "in charge" they are. They intend to prove a point.

[@Devast8r34]

Wait till they notice guys wont give away protection for free either. Women are in for a hard ride and im here to eat some popcorn

[@dougiedorite8296]

A big ''re-do'' starts with a messy clean-up. The strong silent type is always a sure bet.

[@grreed3300]

Many of them do expect that.

[@michealmully3294]

Back in the late 1980s me and some mates were at the pub having a few beers and woman came up to me and asked if she could buy me a beer i said yes but you will have to buy my mates a drink as well. she went to the bar and got everyone drink. All my mates said she's a keeper . were married for 27 years till she passed away form cancer.

[@andrewpinkham9904]

The dinner thing happened to me. I told her friends i paid for my girlfriends meals because we have sex together. If they wanted to come back to our place and join us id be glad to pay for them too. They opted to pay for themselves. damit

[@TheNCcope]

I feel like this is a good response, although you will get called sexist but who cares

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

Great reply!

[@donvee2000]

Nice one brother 💯

[@brucetownsend691]

How I wish someone had videoed that and put it on the internet. It would have brought joy to all men everywhere.

[@danf4447]

good answer

[@josephsimontacchi2285]

I was dating a MANipulator (Apparently) I was in her area and I asked her if she wanted to get together. So I met her at a nice outdoor bar that had a lake. We had I drink, and I said to the bartender what to I owe you. $86. I said What. 1 drink? He said she was here for hours drinking and eating. She said do you want Me to give you some money ? I said No. I want you to pay your bill, except for the last drink… Not the first of stories like this. The damn nerve of Women. Not a kid. She was in her 40’s.

[@thenerdrobert3815]

Haha i would never pay a dime for a girl over 27. She is not prize anymore dude. She is leftover.

[@wshyangify]

Nice, she tried to spin it around and shame you with that line. Great recovery in your part.

[@CruceEntertainment]

She is a child

[@mrgregw]

It had worked for her other times.

[@Aenygma_]

If I go on a date and the woman brought 3 of her friends, I'm leaving immediately.

[@John-k2n6u]

First I suggest a 6-Some (me wife and her four friends), put out or get TF out. The next morning I would be calling a lawyer.

[@Sigurther]

"Oh! Are you all going to take turns riding my baloney pony tonight?" *looks of shock and horror all around* "No? Then looks like you're all paying your own bill! Fugk outta here with that nonsense, ain't nobody got time for that."

[@Rafutah]

The second woman that wants the man to do therapy, is a prime example of gaslighting. I Have been in a relationship where this exact thing has happened. There's only one thing you can do: GET TF OUT OF THERE ASAP!!!!

[@TwoBassed]

He shouldn’t need telling!

[@ik7578]

I went on a date and she brought 2 friends. She insinuated that I should pay the bill for all of them. I walked over to the waitress and paid MY part of the bill. As I walked out I passed by the table and said I asked YOU out not them, lose my phone #. 😂😂

[@jimjohnson394]

I had a coworker that was a pushover. Other coworkers would take advantage of him. He was a decent, hardworking guy but he spent so much time covering for others that he neglected his own work. The upper management saw his numbers and laid him off. A couple years later, he called me up asking for a reference. In our conversation catching up, he said he was cheated on and divorced. Guess his work life wasn’t much different. Don’t allow yourself to be used. People will lose respect and take advantage of you

[@georgiosdoumas2446]

This comment deserves to be read by all young guys. But a question: what was the job about? What kind of position did he had in the first company?

[@jimjohnson394]

@@georgiosdoumas2446 He is a mechanical engineer, I'm a civil engineer. We worked in the same department in a utility maintenance company.

[@nope9858]

This is how society will treat you if you arent worthy in thier eyes. Dont trust anybody that is blind (ignorant, leftist)

[@arsenelupiniii8040]

At this point one almost has to fist fight an employer just to keep some dignity. I work for myself and will never, ever work for a contractor ever again. They have expensive wives to take care of. And they are ego trippin on their employees.

[@roeboat72]

I can tell you right now the lady who made a big deal about the party is only using him to finance her medical school. As soon as she graduates she is bailing regardless of the party. If he had lost his job she would have bailed, and likely moved in with one of her male classmates.

[@simontmn]

She certainly isn't going to remain faithful. Sounds like Narcissistic Personality Disorder especially the gaslighting "You need to go to therapy"

[@mattjack3983]

@@Rider-hh9it She will definitely still be interested in his $150K a year. She will divorce him and take half of everything he has, plus alimony. His mistake was marrying a woman who was not worth marrying

[@effexon]

waiting for her 30th and 40th videos drinking vodka alone at condo.

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

Then he should pretend that he was fired.

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

​@@Rider-hh9itAny wife who doesn't side with her hubby (in a case like that) in public is no wife.

[@gsmollin2]

I have seen the end to this story. When Dr. Wifey finishes residency and gets a big enough salary under her belt she will leave. The divorce will be ugly, because she now has a 6-figure salary and will be liable to pay child support and alimony. She will have access to large legal teams to fight for child custody and not pay alimony. He won’t even recognize the woman she becomes. And, in my case, I warned my friend not to marry her.

[@LiberPater777]

We must have had the same friend. He just wouldn't listen. Came up with excuse after excuse for red flag after red flag. But he was _"iN lOvE",_ and she was _"teH oNe",_ lol. Guy was raised by a single mother and wasn't the sharpest tool in the shed. A proud mommas boy to boot. And boy is he gonna learn the hard way... Oh well. What can you do? 🤷‍♂️

[@effexon]

Ive seen those examples , high school sweethearts, man works, she graduates from university, boom they divorce. Some found a guy and got kids, soonafter divorced. All highly educated at that, with good salaries in big city. idk what it is but big cities seem ideal for women to live in, not so much for men(that tiny 1% of men of course thrive, but often not solely on their own merit,wealth).

[@davidgalloway1526]

i was married to a taker for 19 years. i will never do that again. i was very unhappy and will not risk being unhappy again.

[@willia451]

My wife died suddenly going on 2 years ago. Today I am completely out of debt, working on my new goals, and able to do so much more for my children than before; which makes me feel great. What do you think the odds are I'll ever have another relationship with a woman? Yeah. You're right.

[@beasthaven1571]

Wait is this real!?

[@MiguelTavaresMAT]

Very little, Im sure.

[@gytosas]

so sorry brother, stay strong

[@NormanInAustralia]

I'm a doctor and I can confirm that a lot of doctors have very privileged childhoods, allowing them to achieve the marks necessary to enter and then graduate from medical school. People around us tell us that a high-achieving woman is a high-quality woman but that's not necessarily true. That young man writing made the mistake of listening to everyone around him. I hope the wife ended up with the orbiting doctor, so they can make each other unhappy.

[@effexon]

yah it is not hard to see high achievers men or female, prioritize work,career #1 and private life morals can be very secondary. it depends on person are they "guts" to promote career via those means but still, they arent home loving person. Doctors seem very competitive, at least those in demanding fields like surgeons and so on, so all is fair in love and war I guess. At least in high achieving students things can be wild, no matter what field it is.

[@myvideosetc.8271]

@@effexon Correct there's a difference between someone that thrives in their career with raw skill and people that thrive though having zero morals and enough skill, the first one is a nerd and may, or may be not be a good partner, the second will always consider you dead weight if the time comesm male or female.

[@TastyFarts5]

In uni it’s so obvious to witness this. Definitely huge class differences in the UK. Even in dentistry.

[@christoph3187]

It’s repulsive, he should have called that guy out instantly at the party and pulled her away. She probably slept with that guy anyway when he left. She’s so disgusting.

[@Recken1]

@@christoph3187she probably slept with him long before the party. I hope he didn't go back to her.

[@CarrinaCarrillo]

Any woman who pulls this stunt should be divorced immediately.

[@jimmyzarkis6276]

and then she takes half of whatever the man has. No penalty. Wedding was already paid for as well by the husband.

[@rastalique8114]

Even better. He should start sending presents to her friends. Perfume, bracelets, etc. If he is supposed to pay for her friends, he should get them things on Valentine's Day too.

[@CarrinaCarrillo]

@@rastalique8114 If the husband should pay for them as well, he should be getting some pussy from each of them. The wife should not have anything to say about this as she insisted, he pay for them as well.

[@gytosas]

@@rastalique8114 this a bit much but may work :DD

[@NGMonocrom]

That poor man married the wrong woman.

[@hekutoru_2131]

There is no right woman to marry.

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

There is no "right" xx either..

[@realistic_delinquent]

You coulda stopped at “that poor man married”

[@dreday77764]

Poor man or poor decision maker? A Man who has no options or self worth tbh

[@mikegetstuffed225]

Unfortunately, MOST of us have married the Zwrong woman! Learn men.....vett MUCH HARDER! I'm SSOOO happy being wealthy, independent, FREE

[@veger2001]

I was in Peel Pub once a long time ago and I was with a friend of mine drinking, a young girl ( about 18-19 ) came over and said to me "Can you buy us a pitcher!" as she pointed to her female friend! then I looked at my friend a little in shock - And then she said " Comon, you know you want too " -- I quickly said well -> "Don't you think you should maybe sit down with us for a bit first!" Her face went from smiling to a look of dissatisfaction and disgust and went back to her table with a pout look on her face. Me and my friend were both shocked!!! and this is over 20 ago! -- So this is not a new thing it's just that now they think it's more socially acceptable behavior and are more out in the open with it!

[@davidtoda1751]

This is grounds for divorce. Never would i allow my wife to do this to me.

[@bazookacat8421]

There used to be days where a woman would reach for her purse to make a show of attempting paying for the bill. Now they want you to pay their bills when they're not even present.

[@wanderingdoc5075]

No it's worse than that my friend. My Mexican and Japanese girlfriends pay for hotels, flights, resorts, and at least half the meals. Some cultures that women are feminine and submissive in, still like to contribute financially. You should consider leaving the United States once in awhile

[@simontmn]

​@@wanderingdoc5075 Yes I have a Filipina gf and she keeps paying for stuff 😂it was date number 5 she eventually let me pay ❤ I think Western men have been groomed by Western women, we have no idea how much better the rest of the world is

[@davidm4566]

There was once a day when women were grateful for what they were given as well.

[@trevharpa9371]

There once was a day where even if she didn’t take ur number she’d still chat for a bit and or try an hook u up with a friend she has

[@AEdHR]

@@wanderingdoc5075 I can't speak for japanese girls but being a mexican myself I can tell you, girls in México in general are not like you describe your girlfriend, you seem to live a privileged life, so that might explain why a girl like that got into you, because a lot of girls here (and I guess around the world too) are willing to change their ways in order to secure or at least try to secure a wealthy, successful husband, specially being a foreign individual like yourself, so that most probably skewed the odds in your favor. But in general, the dating scene here in México is looking a lot like the US. And of course, there are exceptions, like the really small towns, but that's not the whole of México.

[@Erick-zg6qr]

2nd story: Why is this guy still married to this woman? As soon as I read her being in medical school I knew other men would be in the picture. Not only she disrespected him, with her lover, but also I'm 100% sure she was unfaithful. Men nowadays should start having some selfrespect. And dont be afraid to be alone. Allowing this behavior is how women end up saying "i want a real men".

[@jamesdotson1080]

Yep, she took that orbiter dude back to her place and banged him in their bed the entire time hubby was gone.

[@chikotembo]

And she took the jab daaaamm

[@Leonhart_93]

@chikotembo Pfft, after this F'ed up story, that seems like the most minor and harmless thing in the world.

[@davidm4566]

Don't divorce her for that. There were no grounds for divorce here. Just say no. It's placing proper boundaries and communicating what you will and won't tolerate. It's healthy to do this in a marriage.

[@Erick-zg6qr]

@@davidm4566 He said that guy has a crush on her and asked her out a couple of times. She probably told him. Why didnt she stop those advantages? Also that guy took her hand and she didnt say anything. That shows there's something between those two. Maybe not phisically but sure emotional. I wouldnt tolerate that level of disrespect.

[@thomasscott199]

No wonder marriage and even dating is all but obsolete nowadays

[@rp7r54]

A LOT OF PEOPLE SAY THAT MARRIAGE IS DEAD.

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

I’m saving so much money not paying for the privilege to be promptly ghosted after the date

[@Heywoodthepeckerwood]

Marriage is unfortunately the only way at least 80% of men have access to sex. Unmarried men throughout history are sent to war, empires have literally had to find something for them to do in order to keep order in their own countries. These are historical facts. I don’t think this will end up being the blessing you think it is. For the record, I’m not saying men should marry but there needs to be honest expectations about what will happen.

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

@@Heywoodthepeckerwood if you think getting married gets you access to sex than you are way way off. Often the most sexless men are married ones.

[@Heywoodthepeckerwood]

@@BrianWaller-qe7gr I didn’t say me, I said most men, and this is a fact. Look at the stats, 2/3 of men under 30 now, haven’t had sex in over a year. I suppose there is always the chubby chasers and dudes that visit prostitutes who think they aren’t settling but that’s a fantasy.

[@traceytillery382]

Abusing men is just so common that we don't even blink at it. EVER!

[@dougiedorite8296]

Supply/Demand. When WE stop the supply, which WE control, demand will fade away.

[@minima7947]

As a woman this is all so sad to hear and sad that there are very bratty women treating good men this badly. If I had a daughter I would disown her if she grew up like brats and would give all my money to dog shelter and my son & husband.

[@lucasfabisiak9586]

I recently met the two best friends (both female) of this girl I've been dating for about a month. We just met for a couple drinks. The friends paid for their own drinks, and the girl I'm dating paid for ours (she insisted). This is in Montenegro, mind you. Time to renew that passport guys.

[@jamesrussell2936]

You're right, but unfortunately it's getting worse in non-Western countries really fast.

[@trakkaton]

it IS a beautiful country.

[@azazelreficulmefistofelicu7158]

A young woman was asked: Are you open to date? She answered: Yes, I always enjoy a free meal. That was posted on her social media, advertising she was open to "date".

[@chadthundercock646]

Ah, so we've determined what you are, now we are negotiating on price.

[@Thynqikan]

@@chadthundercock646 and once that price becomes known absolutely do not pay it, not worth the squeeze in the slightest

[@SaltyBallzz]

If you date some1 like this you deserve everything that’s coming your way !

[@TruthProvider]

At least she was being honest! lol

[@CruceEntertainment]

I went through that recently. With a couple different girls. Fortunately only a couple, not many. I have learned my lesson.

[@ronnie5329]

The entitlement among a lot of women today is crazy

[@rp7r54]

CRAZY AND DELUSIONAL

[@Yggdrasill8]

They don't know how to weild their power anymore. If they acted more with attractive feminine traits like being agreeable, loving, passive, caring, gentle demeaner, soft speaking, flirtatious, nourishing, helpful, etc they would make any guy want to do things for her. Instead what we got now is masculine, demanding, resentful, delusional, selfish, childish, attention seeking, disagreeable, life sucking women who seem out for revenge with the justification of feels.

[@TheByron130]

The solution to parasitic behavior like this, is to simply walk away from it and never talk to those people again. Anyone weak enough to put up with that kind of crap can be the ones who feed them.

[@robinj1052]

"How she promised her friends I'd pay." What a disgrace. Making promises on behalf of someone else, without discussing it with that someone else. And yes, he was totally right. Never ever accept that someone else tells you what to pay and for whom. As Murphy said, he was a wise man: "He, who has the gold, makes the rules."

[@andrewmackenzie325]

The wife has little respect for her husband. Marriage is done, he just doesn’t know it yet

[@antonsimmons8519]

His parents and friends are idiots. Of course he shouldn't pay. If he were paying for her friends all the time, she'd be disgusted with him for being ACTUALLY BROKE.

[@idonojiepius4425]

The parents especially are pathetic people, & i question if they ever cared about him

[@SISU_LIFE]

Yeah… the reaction of his own parents was truly sad. He was totally correct the way he handled it. Men need to keep this mentality!

[@effexon]

I heard some joke somewhere that women as single are socialist, okay with same pay at work (ie what higher taxes and their dates to give free meals and so on) but once married want as low taxes as possible and otherwise keep mans income inside family(for benefit of her and kids of course, not some neighbor or random person). I dont know updated version where woman can earn more than man nowadays. Though I heard anecdotal story of married couple where man when they are outdoors pays for things, while woman dont need to buy anything or can buy for herself. Weird dynamic in modern urban big city setting where both earn nicely and have couple kids(but main point man doesnt earn any more than woman these days, not like 70s where allegedly men could earn double).

[@MikeG82]

@@idonojiepius4425 most people in society always take the woman's side in any dispute with a man my cousins wife cheated on him, his mothers first response when she heard about it was "what did you do to her?", they always blame the man no matter what

[@Albus_Rex]

@@idonojiepius4425 The parents just want to be grandparents, pronto.

[@Mustang_Dan]

When my girl throws a tantrum and yells at me for nothing or something not even my fault, I just get up and leave for a while. She HATES when I do that. But she’s starting to put 2 and 2 together by realizing that if she doesn’t want me to go for a walk or a drive at 2am, “then act like an adult, even when you’re angry.”

[@Keith-san3022]

Yeah that type behaviour pisses me off

[@jimmyzarkis6276]

been there done that. Best way to win an argument. Don't have one. You can't just walk away while I am yelling at you! yes I can. Even if you are in my house. I will leave. Then when things calm down you will be kicked out and not invited back in.

[@boodledemic6430]

Women love fighting so the worst thing you can do to them is 1) not respond 2) walk away. I see that with my parents and my mom goes ballistic when my dad doesn’t feed into her aggression

[@HoosierThrottle]

If a girl expected me to pay for her friends, ever, let alone on the first date, I'd laugh at her out loud, pay my portion of the bill, and leave.

[@dougiedorite8296]

"Any of you that thinks that's a little crazy raise your hand." Grab the raised hand, and help her from the seat. "Ladies, , , Meet my new girlfriend." Business will "pick right up''.

[@michaelstrohmaier5456]

No mentally and morally healthy woman would ever believe that the man should pay for her friends.

[@kirstenferreira3008]

Not too many of those around!🤭

[@SingleTax]

0:55 - Upon hearing that, any self-respecting man would have politely excused himself and calmly walked to the cashier table; paid for whatever meal he ordered for himself; informed the cashier that his soon-to-be ex-wife would pay for whatever she and her friends ordered; turned off his smartphone; drove home and gathered his most precious belongings; drove to an undisclosed hotel; blocked her and all her friends on social media; and filed for divorce first thing the next morning. And if she knew where he worked, he would also have filed a restraining order. That's the only sane and rational way to handle a situation like that. You don't fiddle around with a dead tooth; you simply extract it and be done with it. Then sleep like a baby afterwards.

[@idonojiepius4425]

If he were smart enough to methodically break it down like that & make the logical decision in the heat of the moment to disengage completely then he wouldn't have volunteered being entangled by the obvious trap, & certainly wouldn't have married the 304 in the first place. These 304s can smell weakness from a mile away as it is their domicile, but they also instinctually, by mere proximity, know who they ought to be cautious around & who they cannot mess with.

[@VersionBest]

I like the way you think. I too also have a no nonsense no BS attitude. I don't tolerate bad behavior. It's either a yes or a no, no maybe or in-between. It must be my military upbringing so I have a very straight forward and direct personality. I don't F around when it comes to dealing with women; they're either with me or against me. No ifs and buts about it!

[@starfeel6127]

To be fair, there could be some context missing. Maybe his wife is wonderful but since she's a goofy 24 year old, she falls for the friend group hivemind, and her friends got into her head that day. I don't think that merits an instant divorce. Pay for your own meals, leave her friends to pay for themselves, and then show her how those assholes don't deserve your money just by virtue of being friends with her. When she's that dug in with her friends she might have been blinded from the logic, build it up for her and show her that you're not gonna throw money around just to impress her shitty friends and that she shouldn't assume things about you like that without talking to you ever again. Stick to your guns and show her how wrong she is, if she's still not convinced then you go for the divorce.

[@boyantrifonov]

@@starfeel6127If my WIFE lets her “friends” insult me HER HUSBAND directly at the table - I have chosen the wrong person to be my wife. A woman that is in love with a man can potentially cut off her mom and dad to be with her man. If my WIFE does a bait and switch like in the restaurant - I have chosen a wrong person for a wife. The man did not do his due diligence or doesn’t know female nature. I was nice guy in my mid 20s but I learnt from my mistakes!

[@Neoteny374]

Once paid a several hundred dollar bill at a top restaurant for a table of six. The hostess was wonderful. She knew who's name was on the reservation and asked me if a rooftop patio table was an acceptable upgrade. I conferred with the group and told her yes, we will accept her offer. The server on the other hand only took direction from the two women in our group. Only the women were asked if they were ready to move on to the next course, only the women were offered suggestions or comments. Looking at our group it was obvious who had assembled and invited the group together. It was obviously me. The server knew that all along, cos at the end of the evening, she finally came to my end of the table and handed me the bill.

[@ChaadFairservice20022]

Tip 0% and leave a comment with the manager about the "very poor service that will make you think twice about returning".

[@chitownbob9714]

The squeaky wheel gets the oil. The two women were the most demanding in your party. You knew it too. Why did you have to confer on an upgrade? You just showed you did not have the power to make the decision.

[@donvee2000]

Unreal....14% tip

[@dougiedorite8296]

Then hand the tip to the women, to decide how much the server gets.

[@MisterDaryn]

Feminism has gone way too far. That’s the problem. In these examples, women want all of the benefits from men, and non of the responsibility. Wow, Head shaking…

[@dreday77764]

This also rests with the man. Women will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. The problem is that bad behaviour is not checked by a lot of men and they end up letting things slide which is unacceptable. You really have to treat women like kids.

[@Defooriginal]

All men should go on strike. Let the wemen fix the roads, build the malls, deal with Sewage and power plants, oil drilling and military ... See how long it takes them to wake up.. shouldn't take too long. Men will just have to rebuild and repair a lot of stuff when we return, but I think the juice is worth the squeeze. Once the remaining wemen are done pulling eachothers hair, they'll be happy to step back into their natural traditional rolls. They'll beg for it.

[@dash4800]

Stories like this are why I have accepted I will be single forever. I absolutely refuse to put up with a single moment of bullshit like this. I dont know what the hell is wrong with people that makes them act like this but I'm sure as hell not going to have it infect my life. And from what I've seen there is approximately a 0 % chance I will find the unicorn of a woman who is actually a sane, caring, decent person. They all seem to be hiding some sort of insanity that often doesn't get revealed until you have locked yourself in a marriage with them.

[@wolflarson1]

I was dating a nurse at one point. An out of town mutual friend came to town. We decided to take her out to dinner. My girl started ordering bottles of wine, of which I had one glass. The bill comes and she gives it to me. I tell her and our friend that we’ll split it. She tells me that I’m the man and that I should pay. I did pay to not cause a scene. After our friend left, I flipped out on her. She told me that whenever she goes out with her doctor friends, they always pay. I sternly told her, “I’m not a doctor. Don’t talk to me until you pay for all the wine.” 3 months later she calls me for some “fun”… when she came over, she gave me all the money and a bit more. 😉

[@user-jz6to8md3c]

These women of today are so entitled and insane.

[@beavisbuttgoblin]

*Some*. Not all.

[@Playboysmurf1]

​@@beavisbuttgoblin*most

[@LiberPater777]

​@@beavisbuttgoblinExceptions prove the rule. And Western women are _far_ from exceptional.

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

@@beavisbuttgoblin all

[@beavisbuttgoblin]

There ya go. It's important to throw that in there lest you scare a good woman away with a pessimistic /.kinda hateful attitude towards women.

[@DefineReality2023]

Women young or old are extremely protective about their money but want their husband and boyfriends to get totally broke at every date on them and their friends. Such women are best left for the simps who are happy to get broke for no value in return.

[@mgntstr]

is it any wonder women are the primary target for advertising?

[@LiberPater777]

​@@mgntstr_The Spending Gap has entered the chat_

[@mgntstr]

The easily swayed (higher in agreeableness) are a better ROI for advertisers. @@LiberPater777

[@thenarrator1984]

My girl shared all her money. I took her young and trained her young. She has good values because i instilled them within her. Not all. Women. The problem is this freedom they have and abuse.

[@EC-yl7xk]

As a woman let me say, "welcome to the world of women" LOL

[@jiansonz]

Imagine if a guy showed up with three of his friends and expected HER to pay for them, too.

[@MiguelTavaresMAT]

Since the pay is a transaction for intimacy the correct example is awful, so i wont spell it out.

[@Dansyoung]

Walk away when you are disrespected. If there is no respect in your marriage it is over, don’t be a doormat.

[@charliewhon6548]

I’ll bet my husband of 25 years is glad I don’t really have female friends that I go out with much. Maybe a lunch or coffee every couple months, but honestly, I’ve never asked my husband to go on a meal meeting with my friends. If I did he would probably look at me like I slipped and hit my head and say: “no.” We’ve had dinners with other couples whom we are all friends, but usually when the guys go shooting or something, then we wives will go do something too. Most of the time she comes and rides my lesson horses with me since she enjoys that, and it helps me keep my lesson horses tuned up for my students. When I do actually go with a friend, that’s my time. I don’t expect my husband to want to come along. That seems silly to me. He and I spend way more time together than I would ever want to with a friend who is a woman. When I was raising our 4 children, I homeschooled, so my time was spent with them during the day 99.9% of the time. In fact, he used to tell me I needed friends to do things with, but I never saw how it fit into my life, and every time I spent time around other women, I got exhausted by how much they complained about their lives, husbands and children. I always saw how on the outside (materialisticly) they had it way better than I did, but were never content. I feel like most women are just whiners who want someone to feel sorry for them, even when they are the ones who got themselves into whatever it is they are complaining about. Going out and playing dress up is just a coping mechanism to have a momentary escape from their lives that they aren’t happy in. They need a good hobby most likely. My work is my hobby and I love sharing my horses with children every day! Now that our children are grown, I work at the barn way more, and I seldom take out time to do much else aside from come home and spend time with my husband. We learned a long time ago that eating out was a huge waste of money. So many times when we would actually go out , we would leave and my husband would say that I could have made that meal WAY better and saved us more money making it at home. The only date I do on a weekly basis is with my 76yo mother and her 82 yo husband (not my dad). Because I’m so busy and he loves bowling, I meet them on my way home from the barn , and it allows me to see them: we laugh and are silly, which I think is healthy for them. It costs us $14/person total for two hours. I don’t even like bowling. 😂 I’m thinking maybe I’m quite boring , but I doubt my husband minds not having to foot expensive outings.

[@restingsmirkface]

She's basically complaining that she can't retire at 47 as a housewife? Insane

[@hyperteleXii]

(who doesn't even clean the house)

[@Sapanator]

If she raised the children, cleaned/maintained the home, made home-cooked meals and pleased her husband regularly it would be a different story. But this woman sounds like an entitled trophy wife who didn't get to use this man as planned.

[@crazycrazy7710]

I think it was cruel of husband to do so. Give or take 10 years for him to be alive, she is near her 50s and it is very hard for people to find financially rewarding jobs at that age. Lets take her mooching off on her husband LC from the table for few moments, what options does one have for living off at that age if they are to start from scratch ( this is an assumption as I dont know the full story ) and whether they can afford low wages and survive in a harsh economy ? Nobody can live old age off on rent. She will literally be homeless the moment her husband dies. If she appeals in the court, the judge can find this to be done in a bad faith and will cause daughter to be pulled into this unnecessarily. The best decision was to allow wife to be able to live there till she is alive in the will but I don't know how that works in legal context. While I know that the wife should have gotten into the relationship after thinking about it, no matter how independent one can be, late stages of life is extremely tough to be alone.

[@watamutha]

@@crazycrazy7710 She's got another 20 years to work and save up since she doesn't use her own money anyway. She can save up a lot during that time.

[@left-handedstan4506]

As someone who listens to waaayyy too many true crime podcasts, the husband of the 47 y/o needs to watch his back. This callous B knows her husband is worth more dead than he is alive. + Life insurance - every expensive trip/vacation = she knows the math.

[@SMuld]

Lol, I'd actually had a woman ask me to pay for her movie ticket even though I was not there - I said no. Another one tried to take my stuff and made up a weird explanation that it could have been hers (logically does not make sense) I made her hamsterwheel a bit and said no. Another one felt so entitled that I had to pay more than 50% of our date even though she has a great salary and can definitely contribute. She still got away with paying less by being sneaky, and she rejected me physically as a consequence of me holding her accountable. The same woman also had the belief that she was so pretty/great to be around that she should be catered to/paid for. 😢 I have many more experiences, but this is enough for now.

[@Trpmanne]

“I’m not your atm to be used” “A real man like me isn’t a push over, you got me in the wrong category of male. Just come over to my place & cooking tacos.” Men need to set boundaries. Know your self worth.

[@maxgalaxykid7309]

Bullshit behavior from that woman. That sort of entitlement needs to be shut down for GOOD. And we guys must do it by showing them that they aren't the only fishes in the sea. Let them go chase the "fishermen" they want and see if he'll rope them in.

[@jameslebeau7078]

The more I learn about modern relationships, the more I realize love is dead in the modern world.

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

With women, it's always transactional...

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

It never was real. We men deluded ourselves with that childish thinking.

[@Momonga32]

Love can't exist in the 1st world unless she's extremely religious then maybe

[@arsenelupiniii8040]

Once America hits second world quality, all this crap will clear up. Folks will have a healthier BMI ( due to loss of good food). People will not tolerate any BS at all anymore, and simps will be extinct due to their inherent uselessness. If we 3rd world, then heaven have mercy.

[@jameslebeau7078]

@user-rw6df2rg1v Yea I've heard some people say they've seen good relationships. All of people had said they've seen Bigfoot too

[@sherry356]

A wife that does not support her own husband against others, and acting as one unit to support and commit to each other, is no true wife. In this case, she went against her husband here, acted a fool, made a fool of herself and her husband by extension, by taking her ‘friends’ side over her own husband. She made a promise to her ‘friends’ that she couldn’t keep and didn’t communicate with her husband beforehand either. Both husband and wife should be defending and supporting each other, acting as a single unit towards a common goal. Loyalty is dead and this particular case is absolutely disgusting, you’re right. She should have stood by her husband no matter what, defended him when her ‘friends’ made fun of her husband, and told her so called friends to pay for themselves. Note: there are occasions where the social norms vary by culture and the host pays the meal for everyone (and vice versa), but in this case, she was clearly in the wrong and did not communicate beforehand.

[@boomynote]

8:45 she told him he needs to "learn how to behave in a marriage" I usually have a very solid temperament and don't let things get to me but this whole situation ending with the woman saying that as a reason to go to couple's therapy saying I need to "learn how to behave in a marriage" in this specific scenario where she's clearly in the wrong might make me snap, I couldn't imagine being with someone like this.

[@dougiedorite8296]

I would agree to a therapy session. Just to see the faces when I brought out the divorce papers.

[@dontreadmyname4396]

if a woman disrespects you, she should disappear form your life and get completely ignored

[@jerryc3088]

It tells a lot more about how much of society is down the drain when your parents and friends even say you should have paid it. I'm beginning to believe that at least 7 out of 10 people are actually insane

[@ambakaro]

Hablamos de 700 no de 50 o 100.....yo no dejaría que nadie pagase eso, pagaría mi parte encantado

[@dougiedorite8296]

The world is no crazier than it ever was. People , not so much.

[@peripheralparadox4218]

I’d divorce her on the spot. There’s no better option if she has that much disrespect for you.

[@chipsteve]

Yes, I tell everyone around me (and live by this these days) - one sign of clearly intentional disrespect, and I'm out - goodbye, wish you the best, blocked on all channels of communication.

[@soydansogukcesme470]

I left 2 times woman in a Restaurant where her Familie was too. Both times they expected paying me for all the stuff. Both times where more people then planed(she her familie and me)..there where almost all her girlfriends and some guyfriends. They keep flirter with her heavy ..not the typical talk who you would have when you meet someone. There i was.. the first time i stayed till the end and wwas like ok i want see where this leads. I should pay for everything. I sat to her dad and said that i was willing to pay for them her and me not those 15 other people. This is not our marriage or something simillair. I never agreed on so many people. He understand me. I went to the waitdress payed only our meels and left the place. Never called her again. The second time was simmillair but this time there where more guyfriends then girls. There where 25 people in total. I asked her what is this. She said dont think about it let us have fun today.. i said i am going wash my hands i am coming and i went out and she never heared again from me

[@Mexican_Marauder]

Worked on a case similar to the 3rd story. Man was married and had 3 kids. Wife died and all thr land she had from family was given to him in the estate. He remarries and the woman has a son and daughter. The man becomes ill and the wife and daughter isolate him from the kids. The day he dies, the stepdaughter comes into my office with her attorney and files his estate and his will. Of coarse the new wife gets everything even the previous wifes land. Her children fought her daughter in court because by this time the mother became very ill. Nobody could talk to her or see her. They claimed she was in a nursing home. But they believed that she was already dead and her daughter was hiding it to try and get all the land. The judge eventually made them split the land and they had to pay her for her half of their mothers land. And of coarse a few days after the order cane in, the mother died. And they filed her estate but in the county where the daughter was having an affair with the chancery clerk. Yeah. She has a son whose middle name is the clerks last name. Just be careful with your wills and who u marry. Family is the worst.

[@twofarg0ne763]

After 2 failed marriages (both my ex's left me for greener pastures and nearly bankrupt) I found the key to success. Marry a woman who isn't born and raised in the US. It took me 10 years after my last divorce to trust ANY woman until I met my current wife of 25+ years. She's highly educated (PhD), demure, loyal, beautiful, not materialistic, with an awesome sense of humor, plus she's a terrific mom. Bottom line here: she was raised with traditional Hispanic values in South America. Now both of our sons (in their 20's) have followed suit; one married a beautiful girl from the Netherlands and the other married a doctor from Mexico. Both are very happily married. Why deal with all the manure from "entitled", toxic, controlling US women.

[@dougiedorite8296]

Everest is a long hard climb, but when you reach the summit ? It was worth every step.

[@TannerCLynn]

I had a girlfriend years and years ago who got mad at me cuz I didn't buy some stuff for her friend and the guy she brought on the double date... I remember getting into a big argument cuz I refused to admit I did anything wrong. The other guy can pay for his date. I am not paying for 4 people.

[@techienate]

She lied to her friends and tried to manipulate him into paying. And then again tried to manipulate him with her anger outburst. This is obscene.

[@Robidu1973]

The only problem is, there is method in this madness.

[@i-primeproductions1517]

The bigger issue is the woman and her friends disrespecting her husband. “Excuse me? First off, you will NEVER allow your friends to disrespect me again like that. Second, you will not talk to me like that or there’s the door.”

[@nealb1a]

Yeah, the guy in the second story should have told her that he wanted her gone by the time he got back from his business trip.

[@petermendelsohn4944]

You can't negotiate genuine desire, and that woman didn't have it for her husband. Imho, she's immediate history. The proof is how she treated him afterward - she sided with her friends over her husband. She doesn't deserve a man.

[@i-primeproductions1517]

@@petermendelsohn4944 yeah, she really doesn’t deserve a man at all. Let alone a good guy.

[@anllvr]

If I was married and suddenly I receive such treatment, I would question my decision of marrying her.

[@cleanwillie1307]

My wife did this to me ONCE. The worst part of it was that I told her that we should not be picking up the bill (These were friends from out of town and we had been providing a lot of free home cooking while they were visiting.) After dinner at the restaurant she grabbed the bill and proclaimed I would pick up the tab, thinking I would be too embarrassed not to. I was mad as hell and told her no. Extremely embarrassing for all parties, but it never happened again.

[@akula9713]

Any red flags pop up, disrespect, childish entitlement, dump straight away! Don’t try to fix. You can’t. When you’re with a girl, you’re with her and her circle of friends. Everything that happens between you and her is relayed, talked about, taken out of context, etc. Deep down they are looking for a master, someone to look after them, tell them what to do! You have to lead, straight away! Otherwise there is no fixing. Only more disrespect!

[@philyeary8809]

Who cares how she feels at that point?

[@nope9858]

Better to live in a desert than in a house with a quarrelsome woman. Let silence be the answer to thier entitlement.

[@WarriorNoldor]

Stories like this is why I'm glad that I'm single. So many women have become egomanical narcissists and don't hide their high insanity anymore.

[@knotengajin7359]

The Reddit guy should have told them he’d pay for the friends if they all came home with him and the wife for fun time!

[@jwg9338]

😂😂😂😂

[@gabrielWachong]

Sounds like that would be fair 😂😂

[@Albus_Rex]

At least he'd get his monies worth.

[@Stef3m]

Was thinking the same, that would have been my answer 😆

[@lennychorn147]

​@@Albus_RexYou think? Women like these are all too often dead lays. Back in my player days, learned real quick that woman who think they're God's gift to men, are the absolute worst lovers in bed. They're so full of themselves that they believe just making themselves available is all they need to do. In all honesty, the best lovers in bed, were small breasted average looking women that give the appearance of being sweet and innocent. In my opinion They're the most pro active tigress in bed.

[@camberwellcarrot420]

Imagine if you had a business partner who thought that entertaining her friends who will never make the business any money is a legitimate business expense. The business would eventually fail, and the sensible partner would suffer as much or more as the profligate one.

[@katadromeasgr]

9:28 - 9:35 amen. F*cking amen... I literally lifted my head up and shouted "finally someone said it". Amen...

[@MageBlackstone]

Either the salaries in the US (or Canada) must be so high or everyone in that story, from his wife to his friends and parents, don't know how hard it is to earn money. On other words, they are all financially illiterate.

[@tajayi78]

Yes they get paid well compare to Europe.

[@knotengajin7359]

They are all financially illiterate. The majority of grad school students expect to immediately earn over $130,000 upon graduation but the top paying field only starts at $97,000. (It’s also not a field that women typically enter). If you watch the on the street interviews or channels like Fresh and Fit, you’ll see that many young women think high six figures to seven figures is common and are completely blown away that the median single income in the US is $42K while the median family income is $67K. Modern women’s expectations are completely delusional in all things and they have no concept of fiscal management. This is why most college, consumer, and credit card debt belongs to women. The men aren’t much better, but the men aren’t handed free stuff so get a brutal, practical education.

[@MichaelGlitzos]

You don’t have to tip in Europe though. And $700 would still be considered expensive even for going to a nice restaurant.

[@schmoemi3386]

"financially illiterate"... I really love that one! 🤣

[@GTRNights]

Women are simply used to living off men's money.

[@184ktmdm]

Pay for all her friends?!?!? ABSOLUTELY NOT!

[@rymreaper]

$700 FOR FOOD? BRUH THAT STEAK HOUSE IS A SCAM.

[@xXxDarkSoulxXx]

He did the right thing. He has NO RESPONSIBILITY to pay for the friends. I once met a woman for a date at a bar and grill. First date. She was at the bar and on her second drink when I arrived. We sat there for an hour chatting. She had two more drinks. When I left I paid for my one drink and left. Just after I left the parking lot I get a text from her saying she won’t go on a second date because I didn’t pay for her 4 drinks, two of which she drank before I even arrived. I told her I wasn’t going to ask her out a second time because if she eats as much as she drinks I’d have to mortgage my house to take her out. Then I blocked her. I bet she was FURIOUS! LMFAO!

[@stephenzimmerle7053]

I bought a lotto ticket that won $1100, my g/f stole the ticket, cashed it and spent the money. No consideration for me whatsoever, yes I left her.

[@takumifujiwara4503]

Women in our society are considered valuable and are treated just like basic humans, until they prove that they are bad (and even then it's not always applied). Men are worthless and not treated as humans, until they prove that they are good (in in a very broad sense - they have to have money, muscles, big social circles, career etc). That's the main reason why depending on gender we are treated so much different, and a very harsh but true lesson that all men need to learn. Because if they don't, then the stories like in this video will happen again and again.

[@JoeJ-8282]

Sadly, this is currently true, however things really need to change and improve into the future, otherwise it's just going to continue to get worse and worse... for BOTH genders actually! (Women are ultimately hurting themselves with this type of behavior and attitude also!)

[@MevrjannahHirzallah]

Yes but this category man is never for one woman in this day and age. For him,these high class women turn into fake angels because they want to keep him and will cry if he cheats

[@jkbrown5496]

"charity girl" culture is alive and well. Charity girls were the working class shop girls in cities 1890-1910, who lived in apartments, often with roommates, but couldn't afford their nights out on the town. These girls were "treated" by men with the woman's frequency of being invited out based on her being "fun". "....dating was a problematic new practice for the middle classes. Its origins were decidedly not respectable; they lay in the practices of "treating" and the sexual exchanges made by "charity girls". The very term "date" came from prostitution. While the urban working class and frankly sexual origins of dating were fairly quickly obscured, ..., notions of exchange lingered."

[@effexon]

I read famous also called early femisnist(praised for doing that) did exactly that in NYC some 100 years ago, somewhere 1900 to 1940 period while being pretty broke but could get free meals and live decently middle class without job. No intention to settle and marry any of those gentlemen either, just enjoy these "benefits".

[@Sensorium19]

If you have it at hand may I ask the source of the quotes? I haven't turned them up from a search.

[@jkbrown5496]

@@Sensorium19 From Front Porch to Back Seat: A History of the Date Author(s): Beth Bailey Source: Magazine of History, Vol. 18, No. 4, Sex, Courtship, and Dating (Jul., 2004)

[@Sensorium19]

@@jkbrown5496 Thank you. I appreciate the detailed reference.

[@anonmouse956]

"notions of exchange lingered" I would say so.

[@Blacktsalagi73]

This anecdote hits very close to home. My friends and family would have (and had) taken my girlfriend’s, (and later my ex-wife’s) side no matter what. Her cheating, verbal or physical abusing, public shaming, etc… all my fault in the eyes (and mouths) of my inner circle. As an over 50 year old man, my biggest regret is not staying on my square. I cared more about the illogical world/culture I was born into and later nurtured more than my own principles. I can laugh at it now but at least there are spaces to get another perspective. Lastly, please change or distance yourself from your inner circle (even family) if you have to put up with this.

[@frankmustermann7272]

I don't know how someone can enter into a relationship with such women. These character traits are already visible beforehand. My wife is what is now called a “traditional woman”. We love each other and we would both do anything for each other. If my wife turned into such trash, I would throw her out.

[@mammab9367]

I’m a 63 year old woman. He is in the right. She should have spoken with her husband first, asked him if he would pay for her friends before inviting and telling her friends that he would pay. I would not blame him if he leaves her, everyone telling him he should have payed are idiots. The wife literally has no respect for her husband.

[@2ndTim3_1-6]

Those stories make me angry , none of those women deserve the mem that they mistreated

[@CorvusHyperion]

Similar story: my (now ex) GF organised a dinner for me to meet her sister and some of her friends also came along. We were already on a trip that I was paying for. I was actually sick so it was all I could do to turn up and sit at the table and do my best to appear engaged. I ate a cracker (literally one cracker). At the end of the dinner she expected me to pay for the whole table. She was outraged that I didn't. Even her sister was angry that I didn't pay. Same entitlement mentality. I couldn't believe that I was expected to pay for everyone (including her sister's husband), especially when I was sick and didn't eat!

[@chrino21]

I had a wife like Man #2’s. Let me tell you how that ends. After you put up with way too much, she leaves for another man (or other MEN) but not before leaving $35k in debt in both your names. She ultimately finds “a real man” who, how can I say this… rearranges her dental work quite severely before heading to prison. Then the apology calls start. If this isn’t your definition of a happy marriage, gtfo NOW.

[@TonyRule]

It's good that she got what she deserved, but you didn't have to do the time for it.

[@Albus_Rex]

She got her bad boy in the end, lmao.

[@charlieb9064]

How some men decide to wife up such terrible women is beyond me. I've been married 8 years and my wife would never expect me to do something so unreasonable, let alone get mad for not doing it.

[@nunyabidness7052]

This is why I stay alone. Too often I've found "Friends and family" is more like "finesse and demand"

[@squodge]

I saw how unhappy my parents were in their marriage when I was a teenager that I decided I'd never marry. My sister and I came to the conclusion that our dad was a womaniser, and mum just put up with it. I'm now almost 50, still never married. I learned a few years ago that our dad wasn't a womaniser. Moreover, it turns out mum had an affair, and dad wasn't our biological father. So there you go. I dodged a bullet. Marriage offers no benefits to a man.

[@Rickywwx]

Wow. Sorry bro. There's an additional part of this story I think needs telling. Why did you and your sister come to the conclusion your dad was a womanizer? Was it the way your mom spoke of him? Or the way she treated him?

[@squodge]

@@Rickywwx - it was mostly the narrative we're told when we're young... that men are all womanisers, and women are poor fragile innonent creatures that are used and abused by men. Since my sisters and I were very young when our parents separated, there was no way we knew what was going on. And when dad went out every night and came home super-late every night, we assumed he was sleeping around and that mum let him do that. But we later discovered he was meeting his buddies at the casino every night and just drinking his sorrows away. Well, I think his buddies were doing the same thing!

[@lennychorn147]

For every story like yours, there are stories like mine. I've been married for 38 years. We had our ups and downs, good times and bad. Raised 3 kids and now enjoy the grandkids. The only thing is, relationships like mine are boring stories and not full of scandalous stories. So nobody talks about my type of relationship. The crazier the scandals the more it gets talked about. Which leads to the false perception that this is the new norm for women and relationships.

[@squodge]

@@lennychorn147 - I'm guessing you grew up like me, with a dad who wasn't your real father, who treated you like crap. If you suffered childhood trauma like I did, then sure, yours is a great success story. In which case, you should tell it because it has value.

[@lennychorn147]

@@squodge No, I am not a bastard child. But that doesn't mean I had a happy health childhood. What got me through life, was the words and wisdom of my immigrant grandparents. From a very young age, they thought me the most important life lesson everyone needs to learn early in life. That lesson is knowing that the only person you can ever fully trust to have your back, is yourself. And always keep at least a $20 bill under the insert of your shoe. My marital success, isn't because of my upbringing. It is because I have always respected myself and refused to allow toxic people into my life. That included my immediate family.

[@DonEdward]

Those women are also abusing the wife and always have. Her "friends" are actually manipulating her and probably always have. They pretend to be her friend but abuse her through emotional manipulation, probably humiliation and prey on her insecurities. The wife's money is also the husband's money and she should be defending their wealth. Not giving it away for free to her manipulative "frienemies".

[@deanayer3822]

Really, really good point, she has probably been dancing for these mean girls since forever trying to get in their good graces and so she threw her husband and their combined checking account under the bus to be a pleaser. She's mad because her attempts to impress a group of hags failed. You wonder if any of their husbands would have fallen for that crap.

[@cisium1184]

This is the best comment to the video. Props for looking deep enough to see the whole shitshow.

[@mimicotom]

With regards to the wife and house inheritance to the daughter; I have seen this happen in my parents Florida seniors park. Woman was living with a man (not married) in his house, that he owned. He dies and the house is left to the kids. Kids fly to Florida, put the house up for sale, that sells in one day for a good price. Kids want her to leave as the house is not hers, and has been sold. Woman moans about having no place to live now. Kids say; not our problem and to GTFO.

[@Archnail]

The man who is being attacked for refusing to pay for leaches should file for divorce immediately and save himself many years of misery.