Alexandra Kay - How Do We Go (Official Audio Video)

[@amiealcala3723]

This is my relationship right now. We used to be so close, intimate and have fun. Now it’s like we don’t even have a relationship just live together.

[@erindavidson3426]

I feel this so much hope it Gets better

[@joysonderup98]

This is how I feel right now.

[@jaimec1692]

I'm going through the same thing. We used to be close. And it's just like we just exist in the same house

[@jessicaknowles2497]

Felt this, girl.

[@rkw2259]

I have a bit of advice and yes I'm an old woman who might know a bit about relationships, my suggestion is the two of you sitting down and just talk ! I know that sounds like just a simple thing to do but there are rules to abide by before you do it ! No yelling or blaming the other person , be in a calm relaxing atmosphere, and only talk about the two of you bring no one else into this conversation , retrack your steps in YOUR relationship just simply talk to each like two adults , ur talking to each others best friend find your way back there and the journey where you fell in love and knew you wanted to married ! Trust and find your way back to each other then embrace it reconnect with each other ! Remember no shaming or blaming you must learn how to reconnect with all the cards on the table and compromise where you can and hopefully these conversations you will find your way back to each other but it has to be both of you not just one both of you have to want and believe you can do this ! ❤

[@srivage9764]

To anyone going through the feelings of no longer loving one another. Living in the same house, sleeping in the same bed but you feel like strangers. If you still love them fight for what you had, tell him how you feel, give him a chance to fight with you. If he/she doesn't want to change with you then you know you did everything you can before you walk out the door. Don't stay in unhappiness, it's your life, your heart!!

[@kellieomary5763]

I feel like I can't convince him either way

[@Dangerbottem]

It’s hard when they keep cheating

[@tiffanybunch3735]

@@Dangerbottemthen my friend, they don’t love you. Get out and get yourself happy

[@madisonsmit8454]

I can never find the courage to say goodbye... but I've tried for so long to save my marriage and its never gotten any better....

[@michelleb7139]

Literally going through this right now wanna let go but i dont wanna be the only one whos fighting for us

[@SingerAuto1967]

I balled listening to this today. As a man it’s hard to face things that are out of our control. Life beats us up so bad. I had to remind myself today that 1 bad day doesn’t mean the end. In the course of a lifetime together 1 day is nothing. We have to fight for our spouses, we have to give 100% when they can’t. They give 100 when we can’t. It’s a team effort and sometimes we have to help the other one out. People are far too often quick to walk away. I choose to stay, I choose to fight for it, I choose us and always will.

[@abbigailsarber8128]

❤

[@jodijohnson6034]

Thank you for posting this comment. I agree in this as well ...28 yrs of abuse made me resentful. I got help and still want a divorce. The man has done many devlish things to ruin my reputation and all I am. And says mean hateful death threats and I was held at gunpoint etc. People hear about murders, and never do they think ,they see an end or way out and for those that have seen any abuse, any kind, should seek help. And leave! You cant get help until you speak out. I was too confident MY marriage would be successful with my 'want' alone...but with severe control that started our relationship. I tried to be perfect in all ways just to see him happy. He is pestimistic, and only degrades me. This leads people to defensive places. I chose US every time... But I need respect and a loving partner for my golden years. So I am taking time to myself and treasuring moments I have with my ex and kids (rare) And see grandkids as much as possible. But divorce means moving away from all I love and worked for....without taking a penny. And truly wishing him the best. I will forever be heartbroken. But I still give advice to ALL to work for your relationship...when all the "I cant do this anymore!" Catches up. When its done? you feel it. Ive been so crazy these past 2.5 yrs. I had to grieve my marriage. Worse than any death. And Ive seen many. God Bless all that read this! Still working on me as to not let my faults destroy the beautiful person Ive grown to be, humbled and kind standing by the word of God! We GROW through What we GO through. 🙏

[@matchewy07]

I promise you are 100% the greatest new female country singer.

[@rhondalarimore8196]

Her voice is AMAZING!!! Thank you FB Reels!! Plus she’s from the St Louis area as am I

[@sallycanfield2775]

She is fantastic!❤

[@juliphillips7991]

I absolutely love this song I spent 20 years in a relationship that was so empty thank u this song gave me the strength to walk away

[@ashleygriggs8738]

After 15 years of being married it sure is hard not taking things for granted. I’ve caught myself and him letting those little things slide by until it bothered one of us enough to say something. The problem is at that point the emotions are high and sometimes we don’t listen to what the other one is saying. We can unintentionally hurt the other one….just remember that the little things matter more than the big things !! Showing courtesy and respect can go along way

[@toddwilliams4083]

Just recently found your music - I'm 55 and lost back in the 80's rock and 90's country. Only 2 artists have given me that feeling that their voice is magic, and both have the same initials (AK). Alison Krauss and now Alexandra Kay. You deserve all the stardom that is coming your way! Keep the great songs coming, Alexandra!

[@fauthcassie]

Sadly it didn’t work out 😔 this song made me cry but I needed a good cry. You are an amazing singer and songwriter

[@pamelabrumfield1981]

This one hits hard, going through this now. Love her voice.

[@ahernandez7022]

Me too girl i felt this pain

[@amandacardwell4322]

@@ahernandez7022 prayers to you as well!

[@amandacardwell4322]

Prayers for you Pamela!

[@dillonhollins7036]

@@amandacardwell4322n Nv a Be

[@amandacardwell4322]

@@dillonhollins7036 what did you mean to say??

[@thrivedontsurvive2023]

This song... hits me right in the heart... So heartbreakingly on point.

[@samanthahuelsmann8429]

So glad to be able to hear the whole audio finally. It's such an amazing song, Alexandra! You're an incredible singer and I hope to be able to see you on tour soon! ❤️

[@stacybrown4225]

Absolutely Amazing Song

[@camillewalker2962]

This song is amazing I heard it randomly on KZbin music and it stopped me in my tracks so beautiful in story, lyrics, melody, vocals, production! Truly a special song. Thank you for making it and sharing it.

[@alexandrakaymusic]

Thank you for listening & taking the time to leave such a kind comment!

[@janiceleslie4868]

Love you Alexandra ❤and your music 🎶 🎵 hits me hard and feeling like your song

[@crystalvergin6803]

I wish there was more to say about this then it just being relatable....be asue let's be honest you already know that. But this is truly like it's coming right from my brain and heart. This is what music is supposed to do. Thank you.

[@kimberlymatthewbarton6353]

My marriage right now 100% seems like we are roommates not husband and wife😭😭😭😭💔💔💔

[@itsmecrystal1643]

Yes !! It's so worth fighting for. This is why it's called the good fight. We fight for what the enamy wants to distroy. All praises to the most high that he got us. Trust Abba father and forgive daily 🙏

[@jjredbud]

Great song. Thank you, my marriage is worth fighting for. This song reminds me. 🔥✝️❤️

[@pollyjlemon]

Yes!!! So much of this!!! We fell in love, we took vows and we promised we would stay together for better or worse. But when the going gets tough it seemed we forgot about those vows. I am so thankful that God opened both of our eyes, before I lost the love of my life

[@jjredbud]

@@pollyjlemon Amen 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼✝️

[@MrRyan-wu4jx]

Who are you fighting?

[@Fr3ck1e_Face1]

@@pollyjlemon please don’t lose yourself though also for him as well… Many blessings and good energy to you and yours. Hope y’all start dating and never stop ❤️❤️

[@hopehernandez9873]

Mine wasn’t worth it

[@Indiemusicbus]

This song qualifies to win all awards given out there! I never get tired of listening to it and it will always spin on our radio station. Can't wait till we are able to meet you and see you live on tour!

[@tsullv8303]

Such an amazing voice and song!! Cant wait to watch your career flourish!! Thank you for sharing your talent!!

[@cherispear3532]

I love everything about this song and I love everything about you...I love how you put everything you have into a song it’s so touching and relatable and I can feel the story behind every song you sing 💕

[@jamesrodgers8215]

Love this song! Reading comments is rough seeing so many people missing that feeling, just know it's never truly gone. Times change and things around you change, people usually do not. That person is still there, just need a little reminding from time to time. Words can paint a beautiful picture in your mind, but actions can paint a beautiful picture that can last forever! Guys are simple creatures (sad but true) so just showing them those simple things you used to do can unlock those thoughts and feelings and make him do those things and want them to!

[@jamescovington3935]

My baby mama had me listen to this song and honestly it took me a day and a half maybe 2 to actually listen to it but when I did it's honestly making me think our relationship is worth fighting for I just wish that we can together

[@tiffany6walker568]

I love you and want you to be the dad to our son that i no u can be i wanna spend the rest of my life with you we just have to come to a common ground

[@jessicaknowles2497]

Fight for it. Trust me.

[@mikejones3155]

You both want this , i say it’s time for both of you to fight for this , like you have never fought anything more … talk to each other ,listen to each other and take steps every day to better your lives together.!!!!

[@jordanbrown8213]

You are pure perfection! Your voice is absolutely outstanding. When you sing, your songs speak to me. You are one of the greatest gifts from god alongside Reba McEntire and Carrie Underwood. I pray you go so far 🥰

[@smittyisking]

No doubt in my mind you are the next big female country artist :) your voice is so angelic, all of your songs where added to my playlist before they even finished playing

[@brittanyneiswinger2953]

Holy shit this is literally my relationship right now. 10yrs together 5yrs married and idk where we stand. Feels like we r strangers in our own house

[@praktikalnurse504]

Fix it while you can. At the end of the day, all any of us can say, is "I tried my best".

[@lawrenceguidi2058]

Exactly the same. Together almost 11 years married 8 & we are so distant and cold. Most days it feels unfixable, like we are nothing more than roommates 😢

[@amberpettit7880]

This was me we finally divorced in 2019 it’s so hard I sometimes wish I fought more

[@trinahopper5840]

The best thing that happened to me is when I learned we weren't worth the fighting for anymore. Fight to fix your relationship if you can but recognize if it's unfixable and fight for you instead.

[@rocky11top]

Always gonna be here for a song drop from you.

[@julezl9658]

Your voice is so beautiful. Absolutely love your songs. So glad i recently found your music.

[@eleashatateandfamily4691]

For me the book closed going on 2 years now. But for some reason this song still feels so emotional when listening to it. What you sing about is exactly how my marriage was for many many years and now after the book has closed I am hearing my life in the lyrics of this song.

[@willemjooste935]

Absolutely Stunning. Your Voice is like an angel, The Story, The Lyrics, The Production, And the feel of the aong is Stunning. Well done hopefully we see you sometime In SA soon.

[@christinakimm2131]

This song is so meaningful. And your voice is so pure and beautiful. Looking forward to more songs. I watch your tik toks daily

[@alexandrakaymusic]

Thank you so much!

[@Kimberly143]

I just discovered you on TikTok. Love your voice! 💖

[@ffmedicbeaverdragon8421]

Me too!!!

[@ginaheiderscheit6058]

Me too!

[@chloegrice4867]

You used to smile and say, "You're beautiful" I would laugh 'cause I was uncomfortable Now I'd give anything just to hear that again I remember nights we'd sleep so close I could feel you breathin' soft and slow And I'd give anything just to feel that again I wanna get on track to getting us back Just tell me where to begin How do we go from rust to shine? Just gettin' it done to gettin' it done right? Not talkin' at all, passin' you in the hall To needin' to hear you say goodnight I gotta know, is it worth the fight? Should I just let it go or try to change your mind? Is a chapter about to start Or the book about to close? How do we go? How do we go? So many nights we'd cry and say how we feel Know what we gotta do and both say we will But we never seem to follow through now, do we baby? 'Cause every time I get you all alone We're both here, but it feels like we're already gone I hate the feelin' that I don't even know you anymore So how do we go from rust to shine? Just gettin' it done to gettin' it done right? Not talkin' at all, passin' you in the hall To needin' to hear you say goodnight I gotta know, is it worth the fight? Should I just let it go or try to change your mind? Is a chapter about to start Or the book about to close? How do we go? Oh, how do we go? How do we go from rust to shine? Just gettin' it done to gettin' it done right? Not talkin' at all, passin' you in the hall 'Cause I need to hear you say goodnight I gotta know, is it worth the fight? Should I just let it go or try to change your mind? Is a chapter about to start Or the book about to close? Are we gonna walk this road together or alone? How do we go? How do we go?

[@lisalynn8217]

I absolutely love it!! I'm starting to feel this way, we got to complacent, and I need to get us on track cause I love him 💜💜💜

[@kayleebug1276]

RIP my first love. I'll never get that back. I miss you every day. I should have gave u another chance.This song is beautiful.

[@trevorwhite932]

Can you contact them?

[@mikepoe6631]

She literally said rip. How clueless can you be?

[@missybrown1541]

I'm with you. It would have been 39 years together on Nov 11th. RIP my 1st love. Beautiful song

[@rachaelpartin1319]

Awww im sorry dear

[@hollireese2649]

I feel the same. All I have is our son who never knew him.

[@tommysoles626]

She amazing I get chills when I hear her sing

[@shawnoverton7625]

I miss your live streams Alexandra kay congratulations on all your music is really outstanding!

[@FairyMomma]

This came across my KZbin shorts and had to look up the whole song. I've been obsessed with all your music and every song you've written has spoke to me but this one hits really close to home for me right now. I love you and if you ever tour close to me, you best believe I'll be there singing with you! ❤️❤️❤️

[@JenniferGreen-ip3mc]

This is my relationship right now , I miss the way we once were

[@Kim-okiepb8h]

Another beautiful song! I feel like this now in my marriage! I got use to hearing certain things that I no longer hear! I miss it!❤❤❤

[@ritajernigan-md4jo]

I absolutely love your music real life issues real country ❤️❤️❤️

[@jasminemcduffie5213]

I've literally been waiting for this to be released!!! I've got it on reply.

[@jamiebadillo7104]

I’m so glad I came upon you I’ve been listening to your music over and over your voice is amazing 🤩

[@lisamariewooley4904]

Dealing with this issue right now....I dont know what to do anymore....thank you for making this song.....

[@faithmbutha5580]

O my God ...I love you... Started following you lately and I can't get enough of you ...keep going baby girl ♥️♥️♥️

[@alexandrakaymusic]

Thank you so much 😊 🖤💕

[@tiffanyhawthorne2919]

You have an absolutely amazing voice. I love to hear you sing. I put my ear buds in and listen to you every night. Keep up the good work. I saw you with Tim McGraw at the Wharf in Orange Beach. Absolutely wonderful

[@stacieburke3530]

You should have way more subscribers for sure. You’re truly amazing girl

[@brittanyjackson4960]

I grew up listening to country with my mom. Occasionally I get in the mood to listen and turn on my 90s country station (pandora). But lately I’ve been typing in your name on KZbin. I love your music!! Your voice is amazing🤩 can’t wait to hear more from you!

[@alexandrakaymusic]

Brittany! Thank you for the kind words. I love reading comments like this 💚

[@richie369]

Thank you for singing all your songs! Wow! I’m going through a hard time right now with a man I’ve been with for 5 years, but we have since ended it and these songs are helping me get through everything! You are amazing and I hope to see you in person and singing in concert one day! Thank you for being you! I love your music! 💕

[@mandylynnswarts]

Beautiful 😢 19 years and the rough patch definitely needed this

[@MrsEdgar0812]

I have to hear this daily. This song seems to have all the feels & some relate in such a way we can't even begin to describe, but you poured your soul into this for every one of us to feel with you. Ty for such a beautiful song!💖🥰😍

[@alexandrakaymusic]

Thanks for listening! Glad you can connect to my music 😍

[@-Kate-Kate-]

I hate how much I my relationship relates to this song😭😭😭 I want to talk to him but I get brushed off. When the saying "it feels like I'm talking to the wall" becomes so real and not just a saying. I have never felt so ignored in my life.. I'm so alone

[@laurakae1007]

I'm in the same boat as you. It's a super crappy way to live. I hope that you both can get back on track ❤

[@hamali8126]

Huggs

[@melissamoss7203]

I love this song ❤ I have to listen to it at least 10 times a day

[@jenda2821]

i love country music❤ listening from Philippines 🎧❤

[@saraboulard4730]

I was married to who I thought was my forever for 10 years…this was the last 4…the vicious cycle of knowing it’s over…even talking about how we both knew and felt it was but couldn’t wouldn’t walk away

[@k.b.mckenzie]

12 yrs and I’m right where you’re talking about. Last 6 months knowing it’s over but nobody wants to let go…how do you move on?

[@darlenemichele7195]

Thank you for this song💕out but home right now.... it's good to know others go through it also🙏🌈💕

[@tiffanyreed9156]

This is exactly what my relationship is like right now and how it's been for a long time now if I'm being honest. It kills me but at this point idk what else to do. She definitely hit the nail on the head with this one for so many people.. love her so much.!!

[@loriwhite1136]

I am so glad to hear the full song Alexandra i love you an your music you have an amazing voice an have great things happening great job this song hits home.😍

[@bobbierobinson9715]

After been through domestic violence relationships this song have help through a lot thank you Alexandra Kay for all the great music

[@sharadodds-alcantar1126]

Ughhhh this has got to be one of the world's BIGGEST and most cruel hurts.... the in-between.. its like ur drawing while getting cpr but still underwater

[@kasidy101]

❤️❤️❤️❤️ One of the most powerful songs I’ve ever heard. So many emotions with this - it’s a hard place. Lonely place.

[@abriannagodfrey6182]

I love this song so much it hits so close to home. I love your voice also. So beautiful

[@melaniethompson2676]

I just love you AK!!!! I always have you blaring while cleaning my house !! 🥰💚

[@catmac4287]

Alexandra is such a wonderful singer/ songwriter I love her album!!

[@sarahslife2315]

I can relate to this song SO much right now and I have been waiting on the release of this song since you showed the demo on tiktok. I’m obsessed with this song it is SO SO SO GOOD!!!!😩😍❤️ My mom even listened to it and said I really like that song it’s pretty.🥺🥰

[@tabithaabbott6310]

I literally CANNOT WAIT til your concert tomorrow with Cooper Alan && Thomas Mac 🤗🤗🤗 IVE LITERALLY BEEN ON A COUNT DOWN !!!

[@gailashby907]

You're such an inspiration to country music ❤ Absolutely love this one also

[@taylormorriss8612]

LOVE LOVE LOVE this song. Thank you for these amazing songs!! Keep it up AK!! ❤

[@jessyguyette7029]

This song is amazing and so relatable. I love how you put your heart and so much emotion in your voice.

[@marcelorodriguez5749]

You deserve all the success coming your way. Long time fan here. Keep up the awesome job you are doing.

[@alexandrakaymusic]

I always appreciate your kind words and support, Marcelo! Thank you

[@adventurefan840]

I love the lyrics to this song. You have a beautiful voice. Thank you for sharing this message.

[@allanmacek4413]

Beautiful! I think you have hit song! ❤️

[@lisacicconi737]

Such an amazing song. Glad to hear the song all the way through. I just love every song you put out. You are a star

[@alexandrakaymusic]

Thanks, Lisa!

[@timcroft2836]

This girl seems to be real and sings real country , I hope she goes far in the country world and I'm sure she will

[@jsergent72111]

I love your voice, I’ve followed you on multiple platforms for along time finally I’m gonna be able to see you in Memphis on the 7th and can’t wait to hear you live.

[@PikeRoadFan]

So so good…keep climbing that mountain…should be mandatory radio rule that one of her songs is played a minimum of twice an hour ❤

[@dedicatedmother3325]

Just heard this on Facebook reel and needed to learn the words. ❤❤❤ I cannot wait to go in May 😊😊

[@tinaschang8390]

Your voice is absolutely magical. I just love you so much and your music.

[@alexandrakaymusic]

Thank you!

[@Yourlimitlesspinay]

I really love her songs. It all make me cry.

[@shawnoverton7625]

A very pretty song and a gorgeous voice and singer from shawn Overton.

[@Jess90102012]

I don’t even like most country but your voice is INCREDIBLE and your songs are relatable. You’re going to be the next big star!

[@alexandrakaymusic]

thank you sooo much !!

[@mommamary6799]

Wow, I love your voice is so precious, is as beautiful as you are, like listening to an angel, thank you so much for sharing your amazing voice with us. God bless you baby girl

[@ilisapeciravulo4835]

Literally this is my life right now, 10 years ago we used to have fun and loved deeply now it’s just like 2 strangers living together and raised our 4 little children together 😢😢🥹🥺😢😭..

[@cassiechowdhury6838]

Beautiful song!! Love your voice!! ♥️♥️♥️

[@rebeccabarkley3009]

This song reminds me of one of my closest friends I had for 13 years we went from talking everyday to not talking for the last 7 years. Love this song Alexandra Kay

[@ldsutton]

I don't care much for country music, but you've got an amazing voice. Hope you reach your dreams. God bless.

[@alexandrakaymusic]

Thank you soooo much for the kind words!

[@rebeccahawkins3672]

I love this song. It reminds me of my relationship right now

[@katlynkitchens7939]

I love this song. I follow your tiktoks and you inspire me to be more happy even when I am sad

[@rach7640]

Everything I wanted to say, but couldn’t find the right words. Thank you for finding them for me.

[@93chevygirl]

Speaking to the heart right now. Marriage can be so tough, and there can be so many obstacles to navigate.

[@Shedhaulershane]

Great job! Keep it up you’ll get where you want to be..

[@willwheeler4068]

Wheeeeew. Taylor swiiif who? The sheer meaning time and emotion in this song is one that should resonate with everyone that hears it weather they will admit it or not. This song and that voice is beyond beautiful.

[@alexandrakaymusic]

She inspired me so much in my early music career, and still does!

[@willwheeler4068]

@@alexandrakaymusic Hun your skill is levels above hers. Sorry not sorry. Looking forward to sharing your music with everyone I know.

[@danagrooms7584]

I love it! You have an amazing voice!

[@jasonlibby703]

This song fits every aspect of my life right now. You are the most complete artist I've ever heard in my 42yrs. I love your voice,your personality is amazing. Not to a sound like a phyco stalker but you are so close to perfect in my eyes. I kno this is weird coming from a man but I just feel like so close to u but having never met u I can only hope. Thank u for just being amazing and bringing this song into my life at the best time possible

[@breekeenan4160]

Been single for 4 years and this song still hits me hard. I still love him to this day, I just wish he would have tried to be better. 😢

[@light6274]

A dash of every country goddess icon but your so smooth and natural and the authentic beauty and pure energy from your heart is straight to zone where people feel it to their core

[@bettywinslow6387]

Have lived this in the past and have to say it was worth fighting for it! Going on 51 years and better every day!!

[@dougowenpower]

probbbbbbably real late at even knowing this song exists... but, from the mans perspective... thank you for writing this song. it HITS

[@ericredd7464]

Beautiful... something we all go though... no matter 20 years like my husband or I or his his grandparents at 80... fighting should never stop... fighting means its not over and worth it...

[@spiritseeker8220]

well this just got added to my favorite playlist along with tall boys. you rock girl. someone that knows the meaning of real country music ❤❤❤😊

[@joeysul4342]

I feel like im in this situation right now. Trying to figure out what the best route is. Went from living with the love of my life for 10yrs. To being 50mins. Away and living in two different cities.😢

[@marjorieherderhorst3487]

What a beautiful song and beautiful woman. So much talent. She will be in Chicago tomorrow night JULY, 13th.

[@fancypants145]

Love your music and voice! This song is my life for the last 20+ years. I walked away or thought so but something keeps pulling me back. Unresolved feelings? Chapters unfinished?