Reading MEAN Comments about me being a Transwoman !

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Alexis Blake

Alexis Blake

Күн бұрын

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@katiegnomes
@katiegnomes Жыл бұрын
Next video should be "Reading NICE Comments about me " - Because alot of people love you, myself included x
@WalrusMittens
@WalrusMittens Жыл бұрын
Forget the whole "you make a great woman" thing. You make a great human being. Seriously. You are an absolute delight. Keep smashin it.
@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw
@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw 11 ай бұрын
but they are a man
@WalrusMittens
@WalrusMittens 11 ай бұрын
If you don't like her why watch her?
@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw
@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw 11 ай бұрын
@@WalrusMittens who said i didn't like HIM
@Sywiar
@Sywiar 2 ай бұрын
@@BornAgainVegan-gp4iwthis is actually one of the few very reasonable transgenders out there. But yes boost the video by commenting if you hate her so much 😂
@WaterMonkey-369
@WaterMonkey-369 2 ай бұрын
Your tone lol
@daisymeadow6662
@daisymeadow6662 Жыл бұрын
I am so so so so glad these comments don't bother you. Honestly I would never have believed you are a transgender woman alexis. To me you are the embodiment of femininity in all aspects of your looks and your personality. Im sure the mean commenters are just very very jealous. Im a biological woman, and I am so grateful nobody can see me right now on youtube with a moustache that needs bleached, a chin that needs tweezered, and eyebrows that are fast growing to meet my hairline. Honestly, some people need to get a sense of perspective and just get a life for themselves and leave you to your life.
@susanmarie7777
@susanmarie7777 Жыл бұрын
I agree, I think she is very womanly. Probably more than myself at times… lol
@daisymeadow6662
@daisymeadow6662 Жыл бұрын
@@susanmarie7777 I feel exactly the same, more womanly than I am most of the time!!lol
@carolinaargandona4132
@carolinaargandona4132 Жыл бұрын
Amen to that ❤
@IvyWhiskeyDram
@IvyWhiskeyDram Жыл бұрын
Alexis is definitely more womanly than me, I never learnt make-up and still struggle knowing what to buy etc. I am envious of her style and the little touches of jewelry or hair accessory that just ties in the whole look, and I'm pretty sure she puts on lovely perfume too.
@louisebeck9912
@louisebeck9912 Жыл бұрын
Well said 👏
@Spiritsong1111
@Spiritsong1111 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry people are so unkind. You have been so gracious, and lovely.
@gscrafty4801
@gscrafty4801 Жыл бұрын
As a tall, big handed, no curves, woman, I can attest to the fact that not all women are tiny, cute, curvy individuals.
@briannahudson6329
@briannahudson6329 7 ай бұрын
I am a woman and while I am curvy, both a blessing and a curse, I am tall with big hands, big feet, broad shoulders and an androgynous face. Not all women are short, soft, curvy or have small limbs. We are human beings so like every other person on the planet are unique in our physical appearance and personality why do people think its okay to say things like that.
@gscrafty4801
@gscrafty4801 7 ай бұрын
@@briannahudson6329 I do not understand that either. I’m from the older generation, and while I think everyone should have their opinions, I still think that the silly age old rule of “if you can’t say something nice, say nothing at all” has its really good points. I am completely guilty of not always following that “rule” but I try.
@davidw4781
@davidw4781 6 ай бұрын
I met this friend while in college, she is biological female, she is 6'1" tall, and her younger sister is 6'3" tall, also biological female; who says women cannot be 6 feet tall?
@davidw4781
@davidw4781 6 ай бұрын
@@briannahudson6329 I met this friend while in college, she is biological female, she is 6'1" tall, and her younger sister is 6'3" tall, also biological female; who says women cannot be 6 feet tall?
@kateg7298
@kateg7298 4 ай бұрын
You're my husband's dream type. I'm a short waisted, too busty, short legged type so I'd trade with you :)
@carolc.1334
@carolc.1334 Жыл бұрын
Truthfully if I passed Alexis on the street I wouldn't think anything but that she is a beautiful woman.
@gretakelly1383
@gretakelly1383 Жыл бұрын
First time I came across her I was really confused when she mentioned it. I didn't realize she was trans. I just saw a very pretty woman putting on makeup. 🤷‍♀️ Immediately hit " subscribe"
@annetteallen5171
@annetteallen5171 8 ай бұрын
Agreed
@katiecoollady
@katiecoollady Жыл бұрын
Slaying em back with humor and grace and I love it. I think you are one brave and beautiful lady.
@emmyruiz4057
@emmyruiz4057 Жыл бұрын
You are such a beautiful person. I am a cisgender woman you have helped to enlighten me to your situation and change some of my preconceived notions. Your respectful and compassionate way of addressing things should be commended. Ignore the negative comments and please don’t ever change. You are helping to inspire and educate people, which is invaluable💜
@jeannemarie3704
@jeannemarie3704 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for stating that so eloquently. My sentiments exactly!❤
@amandasmith171
@amandasmith171 Жыл бұрын
You are beautiful inside and out ❤ big hugs to you soul sista
@c.a.greene8395
@c.a.greene8395 Жыл бұрын
You are not cis gender anything, you are a WOMAN The term 'cis' has been used as a slander, a slight, a rude way for us gays to be rude back to the straight community... It's not ever said to be kind...it's meant to be a put down...might as well call you a breeder...
@jessicabanda5310
@jessicabanda5310 Жыл бұрын
​@@c.a.greene8395Truth!! Even Alexis hates calling us WOMEN cis anything. Alexis is a trans woman and knows it and is fine with it.❤
@sthom3052
@sthom3052 Жыл бұрын
You are not cis gender
@thatswhatshesaid14
@thatswhatshesaid14 Жыл бұрын
I find that most of the time, when others insult or judge, it's a projection of their own insecurities. How fun knowing you take up that much headspace in other people's lives 😂💚
@thatswhatshesaid14
@thatswhatshesaid14 Жыл бұрын
@@cindypowell8978 I have no idea what you are saying. Try punctuations?
@SeinIshamiado
@SeinIshamiado Жыл бұрын
​@@cindypowell8978wdym misrepresenting?
@Justmemyownself
@Justmemyownself Жыл бұрын
100% it is in our nature to judge others. But how we judge others is 100% about what is going on with us and not anything really to do with them at all. So the next time you look at somebody and have a negative thought about them ask yourself why do you think that way? Why does that bring up something negative for you. Now dig deeper. 🙃 everyone should do this practice. The world might be a better place.
@cindypowell8978
@cindypowell8978 Жыл бұрын
No it does not it is the person who is misrepresenting our transgender identity that is why many comment negatively towards that person misrepresenting all of us..
@cindypowell8978
@cindypowell8978 Жыл бұрын
@@thatswhatshesaid14 c b w
@Justmemyownself
@Justmemyownself Жыл бұрын
Can I just say….. I’m a biological woman. I think you’re absolutely stunning. And my sister and my cousin are both biological women and are large boned, super tall, big hands and feet. I love your attitude, you’re graceful and beautiful.
@IvyWhiskeyDram
@IvyWhiskeyDram Жыл бұрын
I am a biological woman and I have to look at the mens section for shoes (took me a while to accept that, now I'm very comfortable but I wasn't always)
@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw
@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw 11 ай бұрын
he is a freak dress in drag
@Justmemyownself
@Justmemyownself 11 ай бұрын
@@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw okay herbivore
@Justmemyownself
@Justmemyownself 11 ай бұрын
@@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw how about a nice greasy pork sandwich served in a dirty ashtray? 😘
@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw
@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw 11 ай бұрын
@@Justmemyownself i have never smoked in my life
@dezraboudreau1871
@dezraboudreau1871 Жыл бұрын
As a biological woman with dark hair, I suffer from a mustache as well (I also happen to stay female as I am comfortable with my biology). You are absolutely gorgeous.
@itsacarolbthing5221
@itsacarolbthing5221 Жыл бұрын
Please don't take this the wrong way; I actually find it impossible to see you as a man. You're more feminine than I am, for a start! But also, you are so beautiful, compassionate, intelligent and kind. Your demeanour is very feminine. I also think you will be a great mum, when that time comes, however you decide to achieve it. I really value, and applaud, your respectful and common sense approach to the ever more convoluted issues that are coming up. I'm really happy that you've been able to grow into being the more authentic you, a truer representation to the world of who you are. You look so happy, it makes my heart smile. I'm not sure you set out to be a trans spokesperson, advocate and postergirl, but you are amazing at it. I wish you and Liam all good things for your future. Much love. Xxx (ps I wonder if the hormones you are taking will change anything in your bones, like the mineral and chemical deposits? Will future scientists be able to detect differences between men, women, trans men and trans women? Interesting! I won't be here to find out!!).
@mysteryegg340
@mysteryegg340 Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe how mean some people are!! I’m a biological woman and I can’t have children because of PCOS, so what does that make me according to one of your mean comments? I wasn’t born male and apparently I am not a woman either? Also, I think you are beautiful. I am glad you don’t take these comments to heart. I don’t understand the hate. You aren’t one of these trans women that goes on the attack, you have empathy and understanding for women as demonstrated in your previous videos. I think you are lovely and very respectful. Oh and I wear tonnes more make up than you!! Haha
@michaelteeter8721
@michaelteeter8721 Жыл бұрын
By your nature, you could have had children. Unfortunately, something went wrong. This commentator never was designed to have children. The male and female reproductive system are different for a reason. You are a woman and this person is a trans person.
@susanmarie7777
@susanmarie7777 Жыл бұрын
Being raised in an evangelical christian faith, i have to admit that I was very black and white in my views at that time. After having seen a few things and lived 56 years, I have come to realize a few things, which I won’t get into. Listening to you, I have found you to be a very decent person. I’ve also found you to care about people, especially children. I know you feel that children should be allowed to be children and that forcing certain things on them too soon is not part of giving them a voice or freedom. They need a chance to grow and experience life. I do not see how these negative comments by others help or would ever make you want to listen to them… even slightly. I remember posting on Facebook a picture of myself after being at a festival and I had on a steam punk top hat, with a medieval blouse (reminiscent of a bar maid lol) and fairy skirt. I received a horrible comment from a friend of a friend of how unwomanly and sinful I was. I blocked that person without another thought. I was having fun and the last thing I thought of… was doing whatever they were thinking. It was simply Cosplay and getting in the moment. I had never dressed up for a Renaissance Faire before and I felt beautiful. It was very judgmental and unfair. Won’t put up with it… not after all the crap I’ve been thru.
@susanmarie7777
@susanmarie7777 Жыл бұрын
@@darwinbeloat8911 who are you replying to? I didn’t turn away from God, nor did I change my gender.
@CashLundBeats
@CashLundBeats Жыл бұрын
​@darwinbeloat8911 it's funny how you defend your religion, I've heard stories of priests and popes praying on children, but I know in your Christian heart that's okay because God said so 😉
@CashLundBeats
@CashLundBeats Жыл бұрын
​@@darwinbeloat8911 there's no hate like Christian love ❤️ 😊
@HappilyCarnivore
@HappilyCarnivore Жыл бұрын
You're mannerisms are definitely on point. No backwards compliment here. I never really wanted to comment on it because there might be other transwomen reading on here that don't really "pass", and I never want to make anyone feel like looks or mannerisms make them any less of a woman. But you definitely look, sound, and act very feminine, and you're very pretty.
@freundinano
@freundinano Жыл бұрын
You're my favorite trans person on KZbin xx Thank you for sharing your story
@siobhanlambert607
@siobhanlambert607 Жыл бұрын
I think, in this world gone mad, you are a wonderful breath of fresh air! Thank you for joining us and not trying to beat us xx you're beautiful 🎉
@chantalarnesen7913
@chantalarnesen7913 Жыл бұрын
People can be so unnecessarily mean. You're a beautiful trans woman, and you seem like a very balanced person with their heart in the right place. Ultimately your lifestyle is bound to challange.and intimidate some people, but that doesn't justify their nastiness. Sending you a big hug.
@debbiemorgan4537
@debbiemorgan4537 Жыл бұрын
Alexis, I came across your channel a number of months ago and can't tell you how much I've enjoyed it and how much I've learned from you. You are the voice of reason in a storm of crazy. As for the comments regarding the size of your hands, shoulders, etc., I was born a woman and I have big hands, shoulders, and a deep voice but so what. If I met you out on the street I would never have thought you were a man or a trans gendered woman, just a woman. There are lots of women with no hips and are very tall, they're called super models. Please never, ever take to heart what these haters are saying. You know the old saying, (my version) if you can't say anything nice, shut up. 😊 Love you to pieces. Hello from Canada .
@Jackie_Mills
@Jackie_Mills Жыл бұрын
So much of this is stupidity as opposed to ignorance. The ignorant can learn, but stupid is what it is. You are fab not bc of your beauty, but bc of your heart, humility, kindness, intelligence and openness. I do not know you personally, but we would be fast frens. Keep being you, however you got there. ❤
@kekkelpenneypeckeltoot5700
@kekkelpenneypeckeltoot5700 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you’re able to let these comments go. Those people have something missing in their hearts. As a biological woman, my mustache shows sometimes too. It’s so aggravating isn’t it!! Also as a woman who is 5’1 I’d love to be tall!! Just remember we all look in the mirror and see lots that we would like to change!!
@amandayoung8564
@amandayoung8564 Жыл бұрын
This is very true 👍 ❤❤❤
@adamdavis5383
@adamdavis5383 Жыл бұрын
He*
@rasaan2011
@rasaan2011 Жыл бұрын
Alexis you also have a lovely voice, very soothing/relaxing! You should start an ASMR channel!
@MommaSullens
@MommaSullens Жыл бұрын
I’d listen to that!!
@Marsenvy
@Marsenvy Жыл бұрын
As a short curvy biological woman, I have always envied woman/females that look as fabulous as you... Ive always wanted to be tall with those gorgeous shoulders of yours... like Linda Evans in Dynasty... (While I don't have large hands, I do have huge feet for my height). You are wonderful & a joy. Thank you for being you. The world is a better place when you're allowed to be happy & therefore share your joy with others.
@Theworstaltinthesystem
@Theworstaltinthesystem 8 ай бұрын
Totally get you. I think it's really easy to get lost in which characteristics I'd swap out. I'm short and have big boobs and had body dysmorphia for years trying to starve myself into looking willowy and wishing I was 5'10 so i could just buy a dress and not look like im wearing my mums clothes. It feels like such an epic waste of time now I'm in my 40s. Im glad i spent a lot of it learning to make dresses 😂
@SuperReader1
@SuperReader1 Жыл бұрын
"That's an incredible insight...."😅 That just about sums up all of those comments! Meanwhile, you continue on with grace, compassion, and humor!❤
@JenniferBJonesgirl2012
@JenniferBJonesgirl2012 Жыл бұрын
“Man in a dress”… and I’m wearing one right now!!! Mic 🎤 drop lol 😂 I love you Alexis!! ❤❤❤
@heleninglis9961
@heleninglis9961 Жыл бұрын
"You need help" yes. Some help around the house with the cooking and the cleaning would be great 😂 ❤❤❤
@toasty.waffle.
@toasty.waffle. 7 ай бұрын
I absolutely "love" you both so much; especially the longer format!
@carolinepaige217
@carolinepaige217 Жыл бұрын
I want to thank you for your positive attitude. As a transexual myself, you have helped my so much and I truly thank you. Love and hugs. xxx
@amandayoung8564
@amandayoung8564 Жыл бұрын
Sending you positive vibes on your journey. Alexis is definitely a wonderful person to follow if you are also on the journey of becoming your authentic self ❤❤❤
@kingoverseas9052
@kingoverseas9052 Жыл бұрын
What did you learn from those Alexis? Hopefully that your haters are an uneducated bunch of basement dwellers who aren't deserving of a single second of your time. Disregard them and keep slaying queen. 💅
@kingoverseas9052
@kingoverseas9052 Жыл бұрын
@@darwinbeloat8911 I'm not worried about her in the slightest, she knows herself. You on the otherhand, seek help.
@Jackie-oz7np
@Jackie-oz7np Жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful person Alexis and one of my favorite You Tubers. I'm really glad the mean comments from these complete fools don't bother you. Hugs.
@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw
@BornAgainVegan-gp4iw 11 ай бұрын
Alexis is a men
@erindrake93
@erindrake93 Жыл бұрын
This just goes to show that no matter how nice, respectful and accepting you are people will still have an issue. Love your stuff!! 100% my hair, grew it myself! Had me rollin!!
@melissaoyarce5203
@melissaoyarce5203 Жыл бұрын
Let’s do it… love laughing at ignorant idiots!!! 😂.. Girl, you are beautiful and have a glowing soul!! I adore you ❤❤❤
@adamdavis5383
@adamdavis5383 Жыл бұрын
He*
@melissaoyarce5203
@melissaoyarce5203 Жыл бұрын
Ignorant^*
@k.c.3022
@k.c.3022 Жыл бұрын
It makes me so sad and frustrated that you receive these comments from people who go out of their way to be mean when all of your content you put out into the world is so positive and down to earth!! You are just living your life and sharing your journey, and you never deviate from or deny the reality of what being transgender actually is. There’s tons of other trans content creators going around and spreading misinformation (ie. “trans women get periods” 🙄) and making a scene about pronouns, which I could definitely see prompting angry comments from trolls. But you’re just here minding your own business and being a positive light in the trans community I’m so glad you don’t let these people bring you down! Hoping to see your channel grow so more folks can see a positive example of a transwoman 😊 ps. I absolutely love your makeup!!! It’s not too much and not too little! And as I woman I love wearing lots of blush, I just go with a more muted color with brown tones in it so it looks more subtle since it’s close to the natural redness of my cheeks. However more pink-y blush is definitely trendier nowadays so you’re doing it perfectly! 😆
@AMunee
@AMunee 9 ай бұрын
3:53. The look on your face when saying "Help with what?" made me lol
@Myviewingtime07
@Myviewingtime07 Жыл бұрын
I’ve never understood how some people get so upset about how people live their lives, or what they are doing. I accept people as people, and see everyone as a person first. From what I’ve seen in your videos, you come off as a kind, sensitive, and caring person. The way you explain things don’t come off as judgmental or one sided. Your beautiful on the outside, as well as the inside 😊
@JM-rf3lv
@JM-rf3lv Жыл бұрын
You always been very real, honest and straight forward on where you stand and I respect you for it. There are those who feel it necessary to belittle and attempt to hurt others to feel better about themselves.
@Crimetheoriespod
@Crimetheoriespod Жыл бұрын
Omg I love making a joke as these 😂 I had a few people call me a serial killer, so I got a spoon with a saying cereal killer. And ate cereal while responding 😂😂
@Elle_M_Gem7
@Elle_M_Gem7 Жыл бұрын
1. I think you're beautiful and transitioning phenomenally!! 2. I deeply appreciate the logic you speak, and your respect and acknowledgement towards biological women. Thank you. And 3. I am so glad you can find humor in the nasty comments left for you, as unfortunate as they are. 100% agree with you on not understanding why they don't just go elsewhere. There is literally an option to "not recommend channel" or "not interested". Lol Keep doing you Alexis, and thank you for your content! I hope you and Liam enjoy the upcoming holidays and hopefully it cools off soon! 💕 p.s. wheeeeere did you get your dress?! I love it! AND - I have been washing my hair the way you recommended/learned about. Amazing! It's been amazing, my hair was so frizzy and it's gone down to almost no frizz. And I desperately need a trim, so that's impressive! Much love!
@moog3581
@moog3581 Жыл бұрын
It’s interesting you mention your hands - I’ve often thought how slender and pretty your hands are 😍 mine are short and dumpy, and even worse because I don’t have my nails done ahaa 😂 I understand it’s easy for me to say that, though ❤️ Much love 😍
@mrsp4720
@mrsp4720 Жыл бұрын
Your story is such an inspiration. It’s refreshing to see your confidence, and the fact that these comments do not bother you!! 👏👏👏👏👏Girl, slay! I plan to keep watching.
@sixteezchild
@sixteezchild Жыл бұрын
I've been following you for a bit now...like 6 or 8 months. You are beautiful inside and out! You are so honest, transparent, and compassionate. Please do not let this darken your light! Some of us look for your light everyday because we all can use positivity in our days and our lives. I look to you a lot for that needed positivity!
@debbieivey226
@debbieivey226 7 ай бұрын
You’re a lovely kind person Alexis. People are mean for no reason ❤
@matthewsnively9849
@matthewsnively9849 Жыл бұрын
You are such an inspiration to both transgender folks, but cisgender folks as well. I love how classy you are and really want to emulate you so much! Love you girl ❤
@fallabeaufaebelle
@fallabeaufaebelle Жыл бұрын
I realized some people just look at a thumbnail and/or title of a video and don't even watch the video or read other comments or the description or anything. They might see the click bait and instead of seeing what it's really about, they dont challenge their assumptions and just post whatever hateful thought comes to mind. There's also trolls who set out to be hurtful. And then there's kids who are immature who say rude things that don't make sense. Overall, it's sad but a lot of people just don't bother with anything before commenting something intentionally malicious. If you're going to comment impulsively at least be kind about it! You're as lovely as ever, Alexis. As always, I appreciate your perspectives and Im so happy that despite those hateful people in the world who just can't seem to mind their own business, you're finding the support and love you deserve! I don't wear any makeup anymore but that's for personal reasons. Plenty of women in my life wear it daily to different degrees but I used to wear like foundation, powder, eye shadow, lipstick, I did the cat smoky eye- it's literally to each their own. Some guys like wearing makeup and it's not always feminine. Sometimes they do it for photography stuff or just a bit of eyeliner. I used to do just a little on my eyes to make them pop sometimes too. It's literally got nothing to do with sex/gender. In any case, yours is super lovely and looks really natural overall. The eyeliner you do is so on point!! Makeup is a skill and it's up to the individual on how they wanna do it. Thanks for being based
@jessicagerard1380
@jessicagerard1380 11 ай бұрын
You & Blaire White are GORGEOUS!! 😭😭 And loved all the grammar comments! Tough to read, huh? 😅
@robertnewell5057
@robertnewell5057 Жыл бұрын
Well, I think you summed it up in the captions. These are just mean comments. You are simply a fine person.
@halloweengirl5523
@halloweengirl5523 Жыл бұрын
I wish we could see you on an Jubilee middle ground episode to give the whole world a piece of your mind! Love your content!
@jenpotatz6194
@jenpotatz6194 11 ай бұрын
The comments make me angry but you made it fun to read and hearing your opinions is so refreshing! I'm new subscriber and you are so well-putted and such a delight to be around
@mrsk4343
@mrsk4343 Жыл бұрын
Women come in all shapes and sizes. I genuinely could have watched you doing true crime or make up videos and not even known you were transitioning. Keep on keeping on, and know you really are an inspiration. ❤
@davidw4781
@davidw4781 6 ай бұрын
I met this friend while in college, she is biological female, she is 6'1" tall, and her younger sister is 6'3" tall, also biological female; who says women cannot be 6 feet tall?
@silvipaskov9147
@silvipaskov9147 Жыл бұрын
Alexis, remember that a lot of people love you for the way you are! One of the most amazing women ever in the youtube world. ❤ Some of my best friends are transgender and I will always support you no matter what. As a gay man it was funny when my BFF- a transgender man, said - you are like a princess, I feel so much more masculine when I am with you. And I was like - it is not exactly a compliment but it is what it is, are you going to be my bodyguard?
@AngelaValentine
@AngelaValentine Жыл бұрын
I love seeing your video updates. I hope your channel grows far and wide. You’ve such a practical and wise perspective on lots of topics. And your accent is just the cherry on top. ❤
@amberlynn8591
@amberlynn8591 Жыл бұрын
Funny thing about the makeup comment....if that is considered too much makeup then we are all over doing it😂 I Love the way Alexis does her makeup, it's classy to me and I am a dang sucker for blush😊At the end of the day it doesn't matter what we think as long as Alexis is happy❤
@amethystsamia
@amethystsamia Жыл бұрын
The hair looks great! To be honest I think it looks better than the long hair extensions/wigs. Just my opinion. You do you. 💜 Love it when creators read the mean comments. It always makes me feel better about myself because at least I’m not them. 🤣🤣🤣 The person who said you had the feminine mannerisms right is proof you made the right decision and are following the right path. YOUR path. Honestly I think you’re a beautiful woman, trans or not. Keep up the good work!
@rosalindgeorgiefenn477
@rosalindgeorgiefenn477 4 ай бұрын
I transitioned socially at 18 and finally got gender affirming surgery at 24, through the NHS (under the gender incongruence diagnosis). I'm 6ft 2 with a shoe size 7 and have the same hand size as my 5ft 7 cis gendered mother. Until recently, I'd felt very insecure about my height and if I told anyone, it was usually the "I already knew" reason. A few months ago I met a cis gendered lady of 6ft 3 who changed everything. I love being tall and don't feel so self concious of my height anymore. Also, I have a cis gendered female friend who is under 6ft with size 10 feet. We're all different! Now the thing that really got my goat, regarding makeup... clearly that individual isn't vintage... has anyone ever seen Fanny Craddock? That TV cook literally wore ball gowns and a lot of heavy makeup to cook in. Yes it was a very different time but she was a cis gendered woman and the ritual of wearing makeup, and using it as a form of self expression, is part of our cultural heritage. Sometimes, I stop by the front door before heading out and suddenly think... 'Oh, heck, I'm not wearing lippy... grandma would not approve'. Sometimes, the reason someone wears makeup goes deeper and is more meaningful than an arbatory gendered association but because it keeps a memory alive or comforts us, without it becoming a political statement. I'm so glad you posted this video. You come across so beautifully, and you're a great source of strength to so many. Thank you, lovely lady x
@jamiecole2096
@jamiecole2096 Жыл бұрын
This was gold. Especially the grammar takedowns ❤. Love ya Alexis.
@justinchetham-strode5234
@justinchetham-strode5234 Жыл бұрын
I've watched a few of your clips here on KZbin, and I love your relaxed down-to-earth attitude, your common sense, honesty and your empathy. I admire your strength and your bravery too, and your restraint when responding to insults is almost saintly! Seriously, I'm so glad you can rise above these morons and their despicable comments, you're worth so much more than them and their like.
@nancywidener2157
@nancywidener2157 Жыл бұрын
You know, no matter what anyone thinks about you and your situation (whether they agree or disagree with your life choices), I don't believe that people should spend their time bashing you, being disrepectful or rude. To me, they are expending energy to be negative. If they don't like you or don't agree with you, why can't they just not watch your videos or scroll by? It eludes me why people spend so much time worried about what other people are doing. I'm sorry that you have to endure this...although, I suppose if you decide to put yourself out there and be vulnerable, you probably expect comments like this. While I realize they don't bother you now...after awhile, I think the negative comments will begin to affect you, subtly at first. I'm glad you are secure in yourself, but you ARE HUMAN and you do have feelings. Protect yourself, Alexis. Take care and hang in there.
@crisvillarino1715
@crisvillarino1715 5 ай бұрын
Gosh, you had me cracking with this video, girl. And honestly thinking how much I would actually like us to become friends!! You really are lovely. ❤
@parula26
@parula26 Жыл бұрын
Love your attitude towards these comments! I think we could all learn something from this: people trying to be mean just end up looking like fools. Thanks for making me smile today, as always! 😊 ❤
@lindy765
@lindy765 Жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why people feel the need to say anything mean it’s none of their business, I work in a pharmacy and have seen 2 patients transition , male to female and female to male, I have never seen such happier people and such nice people who finally feel the person they should of been, I love your content and these mean people don’t even deserve to be mentioned because they clearly have issues themselves, love to you x
@amzlakezxxx3048
@amzlakezxxx3048 Жыл бұрын
It’s a shame people are so quick to be negative and feel the need to put others down. I think you are brilliant because you’re a very grounded individual. I appreciate your opinions and I like how you explain things from a transgender perspective. It’s refreshing to have someone like you on social media. Plus, you do your hair and make up better than me 🤣🥰 xxx
@sheryljohnson2695
@sheryljohnson2695 10 ай бұрын
Lmao. I just found your channel and you are great Alexis. I'm cracking up that while these are supposed to be mean comments, you are too busy correcting all the bad grammar to even pay attention to the negativity. Although I am right there with you, because my brain hurts too from just seeing them on the screen. 🤣
@nadjazeindler
@nadjazeindler 9 ай бұрын
I actually had to laugh at your reaction to the mustache comment. "Maybe a little bit" 😂 Brilliant! But I agree with what you said about mean comments. Yes, if you disagree with something, it's okay to post a comment. But why waste your time being mean when you could just ignore someone?
@ryzardt
@ryzardt Жыл бұрын
Hi Alexis, I love how the comments you receive, is like water off a duck’s back. Even receiving all the negativity, your positivity just shines through! My husband and I are loving your content! How is the wedding planning going? Love Rich and Si xx
@Candice-Tara
@Candice-Tara Жыл бұрын
I think you’re really sweet😊 I hope you continue safely in your transitioning journey. Stay happy and healthy!
@emmastephenson5097
@emmastephenson5097 Жыл бұрын
I find it really really strange how there were comments about your hands. From the first video i saw of you, your hands were something that i thought were really feminine. Even how you express with your hands.. the things you do that you probably dont even notice with them.. Love your content.. very glad i came across one of your shorts and subscribed.. i enjoy seeing your videos, i think youre brilliant, beautiful, intelligent and just a genuinly nice person..💕
@blondi681
@blondi681 9 ай бұрын
“You need help”…help with whaat?? 🤣🤣🤣. You are great! If you never mentioned you are trans, I would never have assumed it 💕
@gerisnede7307
@gerisnede7307 Жыл бұрын
Fave quote babe, may I call you babe, cause you sure are looking good today. No I’m not a twisted entity of society, rather a 63 years young, mother and grandmother and just think you look absolutely amazing and keep locking your heart down to all the twisted entities who choose to serve poison ☠️as their main course. Oh yes, that quote, I get so distracted, not an age thing, just a me thing that is getting more and more stretched, like a used rubber band. So here it is, I keep it on my fridge, cause sometimes we just gotta love our precious heart a little bit more, and be reminded, not everyone has 20/20 vision. IT’S OK IF YOU DON’T LIKE ME; NOT EVERYONE HAS GOOD TASTE. Sing it, dance it, repeat it. Loves ya my girl, and I don’t say that lightly, cause love comes from deep down, through many chambers of the heart, and you my girl, reached that far down into mine ❤.🙏🇨🇦🥰
@ElizabethDohertyThomas
@ElizabethDohertyThomas 11 ай бұрын
Those comments were amazing... English teachers are rolling their eyes at their now adult students who didn't learn anything. You have such a natural sense of humor. I hate sweating - and with makeup on it's so gross to me, like I want to just wipe my face down but then it'd smear everything. Keep rocking your awesome channel!
@gscrafty4801
@gscrafty4801 Жыл бұрын
I do not understand the level of animosity. I have listened to many of your videos, you are such a voice of reason. I love the level of respect and kindness you show. You are very simply a lovely human!!❤
@AmberSpellcraft
@AmberSpellcraft Жыл бұрын
I"m small and petite and i don't have "Hips" lol Also so many forget that even women have body hair sometimes on the face. It's common.. Some people are just mean and rude. Also on good notes That lip color IS soo lovely on you also you have pretty hair and very nice eyes. so there you go :3
@iitzSammie
@iitzSammie 2 ай бұрын
You are NOT ugly!! We love you Alexis you're amazing
@Mrsmess6466
@Mrsmess6466 Жыл бұрын
Alexis you have class and grace! Stay true to yourself as your a great human being!!
@smcgovern9278
@smcgovern9278 Жыл бұрын
I was always told when younger to be kind and if I had nothing nice to say then just shut my mouth. Iv brought my children up the same way. I love how you delt with these people with poise, and beautif. You are stunning with or without your make up . If I was your mum I'd be very, very proud of you. X
@emrainbow
@emrainbow Жыл бұрын
Hi Alexis, I’ve appreciated your videos and sharing your views. It brought me great relief to hear your takes on the insanity that has been happening with trans issues being pushed on kids and athletes etc. You reading these even keeps my eyes open to what you have to deal with. You’re right…people do not need to say these things…they are just spreading their internal poison and trying to make people feel the way they do inside. I’m glad you’re happy and doing well.
@rosemaryjoynson7447
@rosemaryjoynson7447 Жыл бұрын
You are fabulous. I rave about you. I am a 5’11 bio woman, have size 42 feet and broad shoulders and large hands., so don’t worry about that. Your makeup is brilliant. Ps thank you for educating me about gender being a social construct - i think you are probably the only person that could have got me too understand it.
@DebiBrady
@DebiBrady Жыл бұрын
I remember a Seinfeld episode from years ago way before being trans was talked much about. He was hyper-focused on his recent date whose hands he called, "man hands"...you will never please anyone else 100%. It's not just about biology it's about guys cringing that they might get the hots for another guy or woman who has masculine attributes. It's on them, not you. I think you're gorge! Keep on keepin' on!
@mercyt2828
@mercyt2828 Жыл бұрын
I think YOU look very elegant. I have big hands as well. You come across like an honest and happy person. We need more POSITIVE people in this planet. Bravo!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@herelt54
@herelt54 Жыл бұрын
you are glorious and stunning- and beyond kind to respond to this vile garbage with kindness and grace. The more these "people" complain- or just be hateful bigots- the MORE i think that they are protesting toooooooooo much and that they IN FACT are JEALOUS of your ability and strength to be your unique self. I am about to slam a verbal beat down on soooo many people. I sometimes wish i was a centipede- but with arms instead of feet because there are sooooo many people that i need to punch (to varying degrees 🤣) I hope that eventually all the hate and fear mongers are able to one day heal the trauma that is causing them to find the time to be mean or hateful- or simply idiotic- to a completely wonderful stranger. I hope you get a fan soon! - or a crisp breeze
@IvyWhiskeyDram
@IvyWhiskeyDram Жыл бұрын
First off these people are blind! You are a very good looking woman (as you were pre trans, I mean Liam is no fool, your a keeper) I honestly thought you were a biological woman when I first found your shorts. Your make-up is much better than mine will ever be, I won't be having any children and this has been a difficult decision. My mother-in-law has no boobage at all (she's always joking how I should give her some of mine, as mine are big enough for two 😅) she isn't curvy and her hands are very strong boney man like hands. I have a friend who is also from Yorkshire that is tall and has male features and many people assume she is trans female to which she replies that if she was she'd have gotten much bigger boobage. 😅 Also, if a man is classed as a cross dresser for wearing womens clothing, yet a woman dressed in mans clothing is merely butch or a tomboy. The world is made of all sorts of people and anyone who has been outside their bedroom and away from having their heads in technology will notice this. Have a good day Alexis. 💐
@gekko6tee2
@gekko6tee2 Жыл бұрын
My goodness those comments are just plain mean! I always find you very sweet & genuine, & you handle yourself with grace, even when people are hateful or it's 29C! That's a warm day even here in Australia! 🔆
@mumdelum
@mumdelum Жыл бұрын
Love this xx I live in Australia so 29 is a beautiful day!! Don’t give a thought to the comments I hope you get as many positive as negative. Love your content. ❤
@vg7735
@vg7735 7 ай бұрын
I'm Australian too but in humid QLD 29°C is unpleasant.
@deneeblstmama1128
@deneeblstmama1128 Жыл бұрын
I want to write a whole book about these comments 😅 thank you for always being real!
@kaile5050
@kaile5050 Жыл бұрын
I'm loving the Hair! So Cute & I think it frames your face so prettily 💖 Also, your hands look so delicate to me, the nails are Elite 💅
@leahc4297
@leahc4297 Жыл бұрын
The lack of periods and commas is killing me. I have to pause to put these awful comments together in my brain. My daughter and I just had the conversation about just not watching content we don't like. We don't get the hate comments either. Love your positivity
@dtulip1
@dtulip1 Жыл бұрын
Bless your heart Alexis..never lose that humour and northern down to earthness 🥰 Fun fact I AM a bio woman, and I have no hips but giant shoulders (from swimming) also comically large boobs (not Anne Widdicomb large ..but large) but I do have stupidly small hands and feet..almost stumps really...so there's that
@robertbodek4473
@robertbodek4473 11 ай бұрын
People are ignorant! You look great .I’ll never be able to transition but so glad to see you make it. Live as yourself and be happy!
@susanturner4129
@susanturner4129 Жыл бұрын
Omg, have you seen social media? Some woman put makeup on with a shovel lol. Your makeup is so nice. I even went out, and got some of the make you use after watching you xx
@Girlysocks2
@Girlysocks2 11 ай бұрын
I am trans and I am more jealous of your makeup, hair, drive, and positive attitude than i have ever been. I wanna take you shopping for some bright fun socks! But 500 pairs i might have a problem lol. Thank you for adding confidence to my vocabulary!!!
@michellesmolek2904
@michellesmolek2904 Жыл бұрын
Keyboard warriors live in fear of what they don’t understand and lash out. Or maybe they are angry because they are talking about their own feelings about themselves and projecting. Either way, you know they are cowards hiding behind a screen and in real life likely know how to behave and just move on. I think you kind, gentle and beautiful. I think you are a great representative for the community. And no to you haters out there, I am it Trans, I am a proud supporter of the community. You got Alexis..and thank you for being your authentic self and sharing with us out here..🌈
@melissawoodman1655
@melissawoodman1655 Жыл бұрын
Hahhah this is gold..!!! What intelligent academic people there are out there judging you!! You should feel soooo privileged they had the time to help, advise and guide you to better understanding urself 😂😂love from down under🇦🇺
@georgieriggs3728
@georgieriggs3728 Жыл бұрын
You impress me so much all the time as another transwoman. I appreciate everything you do for the community. And how you speak, keep it up, and these are hilarious. I love your reaction, but I would react the same way.
@karencharlton1796
@karencharlton1796 Жыл бұрын
I think you’re beautiful both inside and out. Keep doing what you’re doing, you are an inspiration. Liam is so lucky to have you.
@chrismurray3140
@chrismurray3140 Жыл бұрын
You are just fine the way you are. I think the people who need help are the ones who leave mean comments. I hope you prosper! ❤
@PaigeNicoleKomar
@PaigeNicoleKomar Ай бұрын
People who go out of their way to say nasty things, have something horrible going on in their own lives and need someone to unload their emotional garbage onto! It's not an excuse and people like that need to see a psychiatrist... You are absolutely stunning as a woman, and just because you have larger hands or feet, doesn't mean you can't be a woman 😅 I'm a BORN female and I'm 6'6" with size 12 woman's shoe, so those people that comment on that can go fly a freaking kite! I feel for you having to read such nasty messages, because it can hurt anyone's feelings and you truly are beautiful inside and out. PLEASE don't let them get to you... They are hurting and taking it out on you. Love you girl ❤❤❤
@kateq7212
@kateq7212 Жыл бұрын
Your hair looks great. You look so cool. I am sweltering in the heat and my makeup seems to have migrated to my neck.
@HeatherRuffniteowl
@HeatherRuffniteowl Жыл бұрын
These comments were painful. Only in that they were so grammatically incorrect. 😂 Alexis, you have a fantastic spirit. I’m glad you don’t take these personally. You’re beautiful and funny. So much love for you and Liam❤
@sarahjones7383
@sarahjones7383 Жыл бұрын
Alexis I just wanted to say you are beautiful both inside and out. Please ignore the keyboard warriors they have nothing better to do. I am a biological woman 100% and I swear my shoulders are broader than yours. Keep being you as you are now at your happiest and that's how things should be in life. All the best to you and Liam xx❤❤
@garianclarke5970
@garianclarke5970 Жыл бұрын
Alexis I’ve never even noticed a lump on your neck (adams apple) I cant stand that saying! Like poor Adam 🤦‍♀️ if you wanna get surgery then you do you girl, but personally I’ve never noticed it till you point it out, I’m always stuck noticing your style, I’ve gone back to headbands because yours looked so cool and you bought it back into fashion for me and your mannerisms, and femininity and how truly gorgeous of a person you are and I leave your videos thinking I need to get more in touch with my own femininity put some effort in and show it more so personally you inspire me to be a better me and just be me and be confident in that, that’s what I take away from your videos and I’m thankful we are lucky enough to have you on this world 👌❤️
@karenharrison6407
@karenharrison6407 Жыл бұрын
This highlights the people that have a high opinion of themselves. They pick a fault and rattle on about it. Like you don't know about these things. Keep going girl xx🎉
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