I decided to QUIT my job after everything that’s happened.

[@sarahrowley486]

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” one of my favourite quotes from Eleanor Roosevelt Love ya chick, keep your head up xxx

[@Alexis_blake00]

I absolutely love this quote! Thank you xxx

[@saltycat662]

So true. I think we give other people too much power over ourselves.

[@missgoldie2763]

Monetized your channel and make this your job. You have a lovely positive energy and I'm sure you can grow this into a well paid income stream. All the best Alexis!

[@Teapotdaisy]

Ditto that 👍🏻

[@SuZ4242]

Best Reply Award 🎉😂 This kid has got "it," and I love to listen to her. HER. Transition Done Right.

[@KMLT0002]

Yesss!!! Agree 10000%

[@Liam_blake00]

​@Sue Sue she has monetised it. Once you hit 100k followers or more you can live off monetisation alone especially when you start getting sponsored videos. Alexis has been self employed now for over a month and so far it's been OK for us.

[@missgoldie2763]

@@Liam_blake00 that is fantastic, I'm sure she knows to make videos at least 9 mins long to get in those mid rolls. With Alexis' positive energy and consistent uploads her channel will grow. I wish her the very best of luck.

[@ERRiver-es7dm]

Love your content, Alexis. I'm a straight woman, married, mother of three and I have to deal with sexists jokes at work. It sucks. I thought about quitting my job because of that but I complained to the management and things calmed down. It dowsn't matter how good the pay is, if the work envionrement is toxic then it's not worth it. And if the pay isn't that high anyway, the job it's not worth it. You'll find something better. :)

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you! I’m glad things got better for you, no one should deal with that! Xx

[@lisamuta5202]

I am so proud of you for getting yourself out of there! Seriously, that takes a lot of strength. I've had some severely toxic workplaces that were taking a toll on my mental health and I was too scared to leave. Please don't minimize it. You shouldn't feel uncomfortable like that in a place you have to dedicate so much of your time to. I have a really good feeling this is going to set you on the track you need to be on!

[@Alexis_blake00]

Awww thank you Lisa. It’s just not worth it is it, being in a toxic environment !! When it starts affecting mental health it’s defo time to leave. Sending love xx

[@pbj0815]

Being scared to leave is real! People think it’s so simple to just stop going

[@mojojo1980]

I honestly don’t understand about trans people so I’m learning and I think you are a genuine person it makes zero odds to me what goes on in your life but I wish you happiness and peace ✌️ and good on you for quitting I’d have done the same ❤

[@mojojo1980]

Oh and subscribed because I like your content keep it coming ❤

[@goodforthesoul3050]

Of course no one is upset with you. You have so much support. You’ve absolutely done the right thing x

[@ELH603]

Never thought id say this, but ive grown to really love and appreciate and respect you. I really do see you as a lady. Hope thats not offensive, just trying to show some love!

[@ArchitectAnna]

Thank you for sharing your story :) I hope you find a new job that makes you happy and comfortable or that you can pursue content creation full-time! Enjoy the freedom

[@Alexis_blake00]

Aww thank you! Xx

[@samanthalouise37]

Hello Alexis, I've just discovered your channel and it's been a bit if a revelation to me. Im a straight white woman and a mother to a little boy. I am liberal and i feel like i've been twisting myself in knots trying to find the right inclusive language, to be inoffensive but live in reality. I really think you hit the nail on the head with almost everything. Trans women (and men of course) have the right to be safe and included in society. However, to hear SOME say they have periods, demand access to our spaces without making enough effort to be less threatening, insist that they are biologically female, makes it impossible to take those types of people seriously. You are doing an amazing job of reminding everyone that the loudest, most hysterical part of the community does not reflect the rest of the community. Keep up the great work. I hope you find a job you are comfortable doing.

[@Julie-si3hi]

My mum always said...if your not happy anywhere job etc, move ...your not a tree. I'm sure it's a quote from somewhere but it's so true. Good for you for getting away from the toxic environment x You are perfect for ytube, your content is informative and your genuine and that goes a long way on social media, wish you the best.

[@bettyjeanmcfall1374]

Girl I’m proud of you. Job well done No need to stay in a place that makes you unhappy or have to think about it going into the job every day And wow on the part you had to ask to get head pain meds from where ever you kept it. Your make up looks amazing too

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you!!!! ❤❤❤

[@kaninbunny1064]

No job is worth your joy. I too recently quit with no back up plan in place, but mental & physical health is priceless. You had excellent reason for resigning and never second guess it.

[@philosophy_schilling]

I think you can definitely exist on your YT/socials. I think you are perfect for it. I'm sorry you had such a shitty time at your job. Good for you for prioritizing your emotional and mental health. Also, your eyeliner looks perfect to me! I won't even attempt eyeliner but I like the way it looks on everyone else.

[@jilljarrett7442]

Girl! You totally got this, you own being the divine feminine. I really enjoy watching you grow. Stay strong there’s a lot of people that love you 🇺🇸❤️

[@imcrazygnomie6642]

Asa woman, I just want to put it out there, that sometimes there are individuals that use the terms Dude, Mate, Bro, Gurl, and all that other stuff as unisex terms. I call my best guy friend "girlfriend" some times, and he calls me "His bro" and I never really thought about how that might make someone on the outside feel, though I don't go out of my way to do that to everyone. I just think some folk should be aware that sometimes just because I might look at you, trans or not, and call you dude, or girlfriend, doesn't mean I am ignoring your true identity, I m trying to use these words in a way that you can just say them to anyone. PS. I have also been misgendered most of my life, I unfortunately am a female with prominent facial hair growth, and sometimes shaving or putting make-up on doesn't help me so I have been met with "Hey man." or "Have a nice day sir" many, many times so in a way I get it. Alexis, if you read this, you can take it however you please, good or bad, but in the end I just want you to know that how you look on the outside does not fully define you, it is how you feel on the inside that matters most, and no one can ever take that away from you. Love you, and I hope for all the best for you in the future that comes your way.

[@crimeneysake6207]

I am almost always the only woman on the job site. Former boss would often say "You're the man!" as praise. I new there was no ill will on his part.

[@jojowynne233]

@@crimeneysake6207 sounds like he was actually complimenting you.

[@lindseyspence3140]

I get called mate all the time I have more guy friends than girl friends. and there's times I were I've used the word mate for my female friends,like I've said me and my mates are going out clubbing, I refer to my friends as mates a lot , like my mate Claire has asked me to look after her cat. I think depending on were your from as well as to how you address people,

[@bettyjeanmcfall1374]

Well some May fell not so nice considering the person one who is working hard to be in her skin and always on guard about it. It would be nice is they new NOT to call her that ya know considering all she’s been through to get where she is

[@jacqattacq19]

As an Aussie I call everyone mate. But I guess it’s not the word, it’s the context that counts.

[@sarahk3925]

Sorry that's happened and you felt you had to leave. I hope it leads to better things for you. Your videos are so down to earth and I don't know any trangender people but you are doing a great thing sharing your experience because it brings gs more understanding and compassionate. Hopefully the type of person who stares like that or have made yiu feel so uncomfortable will understand and realise, we are all human and we should care and respect each other x

[@lisajackson605]

Although I have not gone through what you have, I have done quite a few admin jobs in my time and could relate to that. No one seems to realize just how much you take on, etc. I now come home from work exhausted but with a smile on my face because I love what I do. If you’re coming home dreading going back, then you absolutely did the right thing and kudos to Liam for being so supportive! By the way, I am loving the make up and taking note of the shades!

[@justb4769]

Good for you girl!!!! Your mental health is so important ! I have a feeling now you will be so much happier. Proud of you!

[@justb4769]

@@silkebroxdude7625 life is tough enough why would you go out of your way to say hurtful things? She is a girl and a beautiful one but mostly she is kind and sweet. Her life doesn't affect yours so why go out of your way to try and be nasty and ruin other people's day? It's easier to be kind or say nothing at all. Hope you have a good weekend.

[@Soulfulshal1962]

I'm so glad your Channel came up for me to watch - you have a natural ability in from of your camera Alexis - use that gift/talent to create the future you want. I've learnt a lot from watching you - much of what is shown online/media baffles me and if I'm honest has made me feel sad for people that are trans. I want to learn and understand. I'm a 60 year old lady, married with 1 Son - I hope I'm open to all things, but importantly that we can live our life without prejudice. Keep doing you Alexis - you are a 🌟 Watching from West Wales xx

[@laurensanford8629]

As long as you're happy and healthy that's what matters. Screw what anyone else thinks...live your beautiful life for beautiful you. You're gorgeous and I'm sure you'll go far in this life ❤❤❤

[@ximar0ckstrx]

Love you Alexis! So happy you are putting yourself and your mental health first! I'm definitely here for these longer content videos! 💛💛💛

[@kj-pn8ll]

I wish you the best! I really think we need more content creators like you! People (myself included) need to be reminded now and then that for the most part, trans people are respectful, level headed and well adjusted people. But the algorithm likes to push the most delusional and narcissistic people in any community unfortunately.. I'm sure everything will work out in the end, you seem like such a sweet and down-to-earth person, there would be so many other places that would be lucky to have you, and pay you better too!

[@glennpatrick8908]

Feeling uncomfortable and stressed at work ( ontop of regular work and life stressors) is always so much worse to go through that it is to explain. I definitely understand what it’s like

[@rondaborgert5170]

Alexis, I'm happy and very excited to hear that you will no longer be subjected to that uncomfortable environment. You deserve so much more. You can now concentrate on growing your social media. Personally, I would love to see a variety of videos from you. For example, you and your fiance doing fun stuff, cooking together, out shopping, etc. Maybe do a live video now and again where your followers can interact with you. Maybe do a question and answer video. You will have 100,000 followers in no time. Just watch. You have a beautiful presence and I just love your accent. YOU ROCK!

[@misstlc3]

I have mostly just watched your shorts but today I was having a rough go so I tuned into your videos. There’s just something about you that gives me hope in this crazy world. So thank you and congrats on your new start! Can’t wait to see your channel really grow! 💕

[@Pixelhoarder4life]

Good for you! Don't feel bad for quitting, your mental health is way more important than any job. I wish you luck finding a new one or expanding on your content.

[@julierocketqueen6257]

I’m so sorry you were treated like this, but I’m so proud of you for being so mature about it and being such a good example of being the bigger person. You are headed for BIGGER & BETTER THINGS & I’m excited to be able to follow your journey. Thank you for being such a positive & wholesom example 💜💜💜

[@seminolesilverdove]

I'm so sorry this happened. People can be jerks. I appreciate you and how you explain your journey. As long as you're happy. 😁

[@deedee7733]

I've worked in offices, they always find someone a little bit different to gossip about behind their back. It's a horrible experience.

[@autummsun]

You are a lovely person . Do your thing and shine your positivity on line !

[@mycatharvey]

I love you! You have such a beautiful light that radiates from your soul. Thank you for sharing yourself with us! ❤

[@neon___am]

Alexis, I only just watched a short of yours that came up in the feed where you were in your car outside your job, and all I can say is you don’t deserve to be at any job or environment that makes you feel like that, it’s utterly heartbreaking and demeaning for you. You deserve respect, understanding and support, so what you have decided to do is one of the strongest decisions you can make, you are looking after yourself and you know you deserve better. I hope you can find a place where you feel belonging, happiness and inclusivity. I wish you the very best of luck and I hope you find a place that lets you fill your potential as you are, you truly deserve it.

[@kayleigh9355]

Those nails are on point. I watched the whole video, about halfway through you had your hands up in the camera and I'm like 'Ohhhh my GOSH her nails are so nice!' Then you said you just got them done. They look so good, Worth!!

[@karenshow1963]

Oh honey, you are a delight. Just found you here and find what you say, how you present. Well, you're a breath of fresh air, so sorry that you went through that shit. Much love from Australia. ❤❤🐨🐨🦘🦘💕💕

[@saganhuxley]

You should try Tarte Amazonian Clay Matte Bronzer in the shade Park Avenue Princess. It’s super soft with a hint of glimmer, blends well, and is sweat proof. I think you’d love it! (It’s what I use!😊)

[@sarahh9132]

Hey, new subscriber here 😍 I think you've done the right thing hun, no job should make you feel that way, when you're anxious and just can't face going in, time to move on. Your own wellbeing and mental health is far more important. I proper laughed when you said "they're not even sisters, ", I've never heard that before 😁 I think your wings always look perfect ❤️ x

[@90sGrungeKid]

While I haven't been through what you have, I quit my job last year. Was the best thing I ever did! I didn't have anything lined up either. I just snapped lol. Good luck and I hope you find something better soon ❤

[@Lexielouwho]

Do you feel that people like Dylan M and Jeffrey M have made it harder for you and other trans women?

[@jojowynne233]

@@outlander_... is that Dylan or Marsh doing that? You’re right I believe both are doing it for nefarious reasons too.

[@zoey4881]

@@jojowynne233 Dylan admitted in an interview that he started the ‘days of girlhood’ thing as a joke and then kept doing it because of the response he received. He’s not just mocking women with his theatrical and insulting portrayal of what he thinks women are, but he’s also mocking people who genuinely have gender dysphoria. And Jeffrey Marsh is just a groomer.

[@jojowynne233]

@@zoey4881 Thank you. The person I replied to, their comment has gone. I didn’t know Dylan admitted that. Good to know. In regards to Marsh, I fully agree with you on him too!

[@soulcenterhealinghypnosis]

I think don't give the negative toxic drama people (no matter who and what they are) any attention. Rather give our attention and love to awesome people .. like this beautiful soul ❤

[@Lexielouwho]

@@soulcenterhealinghypnosis I asked my question because of the good person on this channel. I find that the bad ones like DM and JM make a mockery of women which then makes the lives of the good ones like Alexis that much harder. Sorry but I'll never believe either of them are truly trans but rather have found the attention they so desperately seek and wealth playing caricatures of what a woman is. It angers me to have men make jokes about women's lives as they have done. It angers me that they care not about all the trans men and women who have fought really hard to be respected in their authentic bodies but parade in beards and make comments like let's normalize the bulge or run around pretending to be a cartoon little girl like Eloise. This stuff is not someone who's trapped in the wrong body and who suffers body dysmorphia, and it makes it incredibly hard on those who are. I love Alexis and respect her thoughts. I don't always agree 💯 with everything but I respect her and am open to learning from her hence my comment.

[@dani.dee4213]

babe ironically i just quit a job i worked at for 11 years because they held my pay after i did the work, and so i took personal days to try and figure shit out, and low and behold HR calls to threaten me with termination because i needed time off. our attorney is having a blast with that, considering our supervisor would forge doctors notes for the people she liked and wrongful termination due to issues with pay. If a job brings you stress, anger or is bringing you down, NEVER choose to ride it out. I woke up when i realized a company i bent over backwards for, for 11 years didnt give a single shit if i were to drop dead tomorrow. Never be somewhere, where they make you feel any less then you are. Money sometimes just isnt worth the emotional and mental gymnastics youre going to inevitably be put through.... Im glad you did it, because just no. Screw being belittled or ridiculed by people who wouldnt even consider helping you, if you needed help. Just not worth it.

[@hollyvalentine2286]

Your makeup always looks gorgeous! And I'm glad you decided to follow your heart/ instinct with your job life is way to short to be unhappy and uncomfortable! Best of luck with your new journey!

[@daisymeadow6662]

I could listen to you all day. You are so articulate and your delivery is just so soothing and just so listenable to. Im an old lady, 61!!haha, but listening to you reminds me of listening to my mum and her friends having a chat when I was a little girl. I hope Im not speaking out of turn, but you are so so so feminine in all your mannerisms and way of speaking, you are more feminine than some women I know!! Ive not listened to the whole video, Im in the middle of it, but I just wanted to write my thoughts down straight away. Ive always wanted to comment but Ive always been a bit afraid of saying the wrong thing. But I think you look amazing, and I don't think if I had met you, I would have suspected your background at all. Keep shining your beautiful light.

[@Liamf986]

Such a lovely thing to say x

[@MP-co1qk]

I am really pleased you’ve made a change that I think will make you much happier. My partner has a very stressful job and I have convinced her to leave and have a breather and do something else. Happiness is everything !

[@v12vlc]

I’m so sad you were made to feel that way but hats off to you for not standing for it. I’m new to your videos and love your content. Hope you feel a sense of relief and calm after quitting. Life’s to short to stay in a toxic environment! ❤

[@RalphieLykin]

I know I'm a little late here but I just found you a couple of days ago so I've been trying to catch up on all your content... love watching your stuff & glad to hear that you are doing what is best for you & I'll get to see more of that, which puts a smile on my face \o/

[@penguin3225]

You have a lot to offer & are enjoyable to watch; I hope you can build up your subscriptions to the point of this being your full time job! As a woman who feels Dylan is mocking; I would prefer you having all those endorsements instead. Good luck & keep your spirits up; it helps when you have loved ones supporting you! 💜

[@evaveronica5222]

I had a similar situation (I work as an admin in the warehouse). Months of talking about me by my supervisor and another colleague with the young staff that didn't even know me just because I had a courage to speak with this supervisor openly about some issues. December was the worst cause they did not hold themselves any more: sights, comments, lies, judging my work (not working directly with me). I ended up with depression and anxiety. My biggest mistake when I reported that to my supervisor was: I don't want anyone to lose the job, just want them to stop to talk about me. So it was yours as well. No one experienced any serious consequences. After months I see that I should have expected them to take a legal action. Everyone works and behaves like nothing happened and it's me feeling extremely uncomfortable and not happy at work. And I'm sorry to say that, but the English are the masters of being so sweet and nice to each other and the same time talk behind the backs. I observe that since I work in admin's and I don't even know how people here can deal with that. You did right to quit the job. You have support there. They all the time need admins in warehouses and as you know, Yorkshire is full of them. Sign up to Linked, expand network and you will find something quickly like part time or something. Or just do what you do right now.

[@janiceburnett-holler2206]

Do what you need to do to be happy! Anxiety is no joke and if work is causing that much stress, it’s time to go! Things always happen for a reason! You will be perfectly ok! You are an amazing person and I love your videos! Stay happy and healthy! That’s is ALL that truly matters at the end of the day! Big hugs and much love from Ontario, Canada! ❤️❤️

[@milliemaw]

So refreshing to see a sensible & grounded, non extreme member of the trans community. The next generation of youngsters questioning or exploring their gender need more role models like yourself. So many seem to promote themselves as trans first and foremost but actually it is just a part of who they are as a person, there is so much more to an individual than gender. I enjoy watching your content and appreciate your mature approach to life.

[@welshrose]

Im so sorry things didn't get better you deserve respect as much as any other person fingers crossed things get better from here on out and you find a better job with better pay Anyone upset with you aint worth worrying about Theres clearly something else out there for you that you will also love doing BTW you look beautiful keep smiling it can only get better 💖💖

[@paisleyhendrix43]

Im happy for you . Life is too short and precious to be somewhere unsafe, experience bulling and ostracism- and not be compensated fairly for the job you do . As a single Mom I worked a retail job so grateful to be employed but it was really a struggle to feed my family and pay the bills within their pay / commission structure . Then a very abusive manger came and it went from being a pleasant, creative , supportive atmosphere to anxiety, fear and disrespect and having to watch while he dressed down other employees in a humiliating, degrading way . I couldn’t stand it . I would go to my car and cry at lunch . My colleges would beg me not to quit because I was the only one who advocated for a respectful workplace and stood up on others behalf( HR did nothing ) The day I quit I was terrified at how irresponsible I felt - a single mom with no paycheck ….. but that made me start me own business doing something I love . Its been 7 years and I make more money each week than I ever did working that job in a month ! I cant wait to see what unfolds for you

[@davidhorwood6741]

You seem very happy and light, I think that speaks volumes to your choice to leave. Best wishes for the next adventure!

[@KatieM786]

Bullying *is* a big deal, regardless of the reason for it. I'm sorry you had to quit but I'm glad you prioritised your mental health❤

[@karenharrison6407]

Good for you young lady. Don't tolerate any work place making you feel upset x

[@sallymuhl846]

Bullying is always a BIG DEAL. You have made the right decision. ❤

[@SilverCloak09]

Stay strong, You are a lovely person. I have no doubt you will find the best career and work environment for you. Blessings to you.

[@ashleighcollins4963]

I recently found your channel and I love it! You are so fabulous!

[@anabubakar]

Hi Alexis, I like you to know that I genuinely like your content and you as a person. You seem a nice and kind person and that’s all that matters to me. Truly, you are so beautiful inside out, so lucky that I come across your channel and I look forward to more of your content. 🥰 I wish I have someone like you as a friend because you have this ‘I feel safe with you’ vibe and I won’t be surprised you have loads of genuine friends/family/people in your life. Lots of hugs and love from Brisbane, Australia. ❤

[@almariekuit56]

Not sure if this will help, but if I happened to have been working with you, I'm pretty sure you would have been the one person I would have gravitated to sit with. You look lovely and kind. Well done and good luck. 🎉

[@lesleydixon3283]

Congratulations, looking forward to more content. I did put up a nice comment before, but got quite a bullying reply from someone called Evelyn who's opinion I had not asked for, and was so shocked I took my comments down and apologised. Still getting over how someone can make you feel bad for giving an opinion . Anyway, have a lovely Sat and looking forward to your journey going forward. Hopefully old Evelyn will leave me alone 😂

[@CJPDeQueen]

If that person hassles you again either report them or block them. You shouldn't have to put up with any kind of unwanted or unnecessary harassment. Take care

[@lesleydixon3283]

@@CJPDeQueen thank you so much, not used to this platform but have so loved Alex's content wanted to send a positive love hug. Got a total stranger telling me

[@millie8535]

Good for you Alexis your mental health and happiness is important. You will find something soon better yet I believe your KZbin will be extremely lucrative real soon.

[@CarmenAlmeida90]

I think people need to stop thinking that quiting a job without a plan B is always reckless. We don't know about someone's savings, or their support system or their emotions and struggles at the job. I'm glad you had the chance to quit an anxious situation that was harming you. You are a nice lady who deserves respect and to be happy.

[@moonsical3278]

Something better will come your way. You are so strong, and no one should have to deal with such discrimination in the work place. I respect you as a woman, and all the content you put out.

[@kosmic77universe90]

I’m from Aus; and we say cheers mate, as a sign of thanks- it’s for both males & females to use as appreciation for each other as well as a toast when drinking!!!! I’m glad you didn’t take it to personally- I hope it wasn’t meant in a derogatory manner. 😘😘😘

[@emilia8620]

I thought mate meant friend?

[@narindaovens8410]

I get the anxiety, I get panic attacks. You are a lovely person. I don't understand why people carry on like that. I would have been happy to hang with such a fun, lively person. People can be so dumb.

[@elainegorman8579]

If I'm not the same place you worked before, you made the change. You went back as a woman, and in the beginning, you liked working in the office You made the right move to quit. I'm the type of person to find the one who sticks out and doesn't fit in and try to be their friend A little kindness goes a long way Shake off the bad vibes and go forward with your head held high. You will find the perfect job in time. We are here for you.

[@leeroyjackson991]

I would've done the exact same thing, Congratulations 🥳🥂 People were probably staring at you because they envy you. When you're trans you feel totally "normal," and it's easy to forget that to most people, you're something unique.

[@lindwurmchen]

You seem really happy about the decision! And after watching all the shorts regarding your job over the past time, I feel like it was the right one. I'm excited to hear everything you want to share and I have to say that I love these longer videos. It's very calming to listen to your voice and I always appreciate such a cool person from the trans community (I'm ftm from Germany). Stay strong and hopefully enjoy all upcoming additions to the house (like a shower😄).

[@octoberdawn1087]

Reckless? Or taking care of you! Stress kills. ❤🎉 Be free, lovely bird. It is inspiring.

[@melissahodgson1958]

Good for you dahling! You need to work in something you enjoy!!!! And a space that you enjoy! Hugs!

[@ScotVenus]

Aw Alexis, it’s an awful feeling dreading going to work and I hope you’ll follow your own path and do your own thing to create an income. It’s painful to listen to your sense of apology saying “I know it’s not the right thing” [to phone in sick]. It bloody is if you are made to feel so uncomfortable that it’s affecting your mental health to the point where you’re escaping at any opportunity you can to sit in your car. I do hope you contact ACAS for advice and take them to a tribunal. Chin up sweetie x Side note - watch those nails! So many nail bars don’t give a damn about the damage they do to the natural nail. (As a beauty therapist from days gone by, would suggest you try a Backscratchers stockist) it makes me cringe to think of the damage most ‘nail technicians’ do to the natural nails x

[@annika9930]

So proud of you. You are you and the work is not you. A lot of people don't get it. I have an extremely toxic colleague who makes me think about quitting sometimes. Otherwise there are many aspects that I do like about the job. She won't ever win, I won't quit just bc of her comments. However, I know I would be much happier somewhere else. But I would rather her go than having to quit. Ps. Hoola bronzer is very good

[@itsacarolbthing5221]

Your nails make me want to have acrylics back on! Alexis, if I had worked with you, we would have been friends and everyone would have wanted to be in our gang! Srsly, I am so very sorry that you went through this. Look to your future being bright and beautiful, just like you. Big hugs and good wishes xxx

[@frankpierce8489]

You be you and you be happy 😊number one! Your eyes 👀 look great and whole makeup 💄 for that matter. Thanks for the post and you inspire me in so many ways. I know it’s tough when outed but I’m so proud of you for all you achieved while there. You rock on!

[@clodabellabees]

Your channel is growing because yiu are your wonderful beautiful self...... my name is teresa, cloda bella is my little girl, so thats our business name, but i do alot of spiritual work and i love your energy, i could listen to you all day. Your makeup is amazing. Wishing you so much Light & Love from Ireland

[@cherylbaker4290]

I'm a Trans woman too I love your channel ❤️

[@mycatspethooman5590]

A change is always a bit unsettling but I'm sure you'll make good, best of luck in your new venture I'm keeping my fingers crossed everything works out for you ❤

[@carolinekennison5242]

Thank you for your authenticity...your honesty....and bravery. You're a voice of reason....I'm a 60 yr old woman...biological woman....and i get you. and thanks for your opinions on trans athletes etc...your opinion is extremely relevant and sane....I send love, hugs and support....Caroline.

[@zevleigh4735]

I’m so sorry this was the outcome for you , sadly human beings are at large disappointing , but in a positive way this is a chance for a fresh start work wise , I wish you the best xx

[@SandraLopez-xb7kv]

You're going to be fine!! A door closes so that a better one will open!!! I wish you the best!!!

[@sheilalynn3615]

Hi Alexis, I feel like I'm playing catch up, on your KZbin posts. I hope you are working again. Being outed at work was never an issue for me. I was open with my employer and associates about my transition. I have received amazing support. I work at Sephora so the large majority of my customers are women. Only a very, very small amount of them find it important to them to misgender me with malice. I never confront them, they aren't worth my time or energy. Your insights on be trans have been so spot on for me. Thank you for being the voice of, I believe, so many trans women. Stay beautiful, inside and out. Peace Sheila

[@amandacoleman876]

I love watching your videos so much! I think you are lovely ❤ Glad you put your mental health first and wish you all the luck and good vibes on your new endeavor!

[@tinak6484]

You are a lovely person and I hope things work out with your videos!!❤

[@d_raymags5561]

Aww Darling, when you are stuck in such a stressful environment where you are being judged through no fault of your own, it takes strength to get out, really happy for you and proud of you, you have not let anyone down, your mental health comes first. Whatever is meant for you will not go by you and that job wasn't it ❤❤

[@desireebarfoot9717]

I love your makeup look! So classically beautiful, I hope everything works out for you.

[@elizabethparker848]

Good for you 👍 you have definitely done the right thing. You don't need all that stress and upset. You spend most of your day at work, so it needs to be a healthy environment. Give yourself some time to recover, and then you will be ready for the next adventure. Take care ❤️ from Australia x

[@dogsinrio]

Ive just come across your channel your channel and what a breath of fresh air you are! I'll be honest with you, it was getting harder and harder to see transgenderism as something positive. As a woman im appalled at what has been happening to woman's sport and how some men are just using woman as a costume. You look genuine and with a wonderful energy. I have nothing but respect and appreciation for you darling. Plus you are trully beautiful. Wish i had your eyes :)

[@tanyaosterman]

I wish people were more compassionate. You look beautiful!

[@raedawn-rorodoll37]

I’m glad you had a back up plan ❤ good luck🤞🏼 in your future endeavours. Sorry you had to deal with all of that.

[@GW-gz8jh]

Proud of you for doing what’s best for you!!

[@NadinePierre111.]

I hate people sometimes. I'm glad you're over the worst of it since I'm commenting one year later! 🥰

[@vikkiledgard8483]

You've been right through the wringer and I don't blame you for quitting. ❤❤❤

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you for this xx

[@madeleinelaird6951]

Thank you for showing us that Trans doesn't have to mean angry and unreasonable

[@annyoung6560]

I am so sorry for the way you were treated . You deserve to be treated with respect and equality.

[@gemmagreene362]

When things like that happen at work, it isn’t “just” about the events themselves (although, in your case, that is straight up bullying, so it is serious), it is about how draining it is. It effects your whole life. The stress and the dread are constant. You did the best thing you could do for yourself, but it is annoying that the people making you feel like that did not suffer any real consequences.

[@karinkeeble1993]

I love your looks, you do beautiful makeup. You are so right to have quit that job.

[@Rosiew86]

I wish I could do my eyeliner like you, always beautiful!

[@smurfmonster]

I really admire you and all you stand for I think you’re beautiful and kind and open minded which is why I feel I need to write this comment to maybe give you a different perspective. I think you’re being a little unfair on the workplace. They’ve admitted that they’re not yet where they would like to be on the diversity front and they’re actively addressing that. By the sounds of it they have supported you publicly and privately in an attempt to provide a workplace where everyone feels comfortable. I’ve worked in male dominated workplaces and quite often was called “mate”, I say “mate” to both my male and female friends. As for the having to swipe out to go to your car, EVERYONE had to do that. If it’s company policy that, for security sake staff don’t leave the working area you have to abide by that like everyone else. Here’s the biggie - You say you “tried the canteen for a week” and you felt uncomfortable, have you considered that being in middle Yorkshire this will probably be the staff’s first encounter with a trans woman and as such maybe they felt uncomfortable too? It’s all a learning process, for you to learn to let your guard down and for them to learn that working with a trans person is no big deal and is part of normal life. Being in the depths of Yorkshire this is all new to them, they don’t know you well enough to feel that they can come up to you and chat about how you’d like to be addressed or what is ok to say and what isn’t etc This is made worse by the fact the other guy got sacked (quite rightly) for saying the wrong thing, you think they’re going to risk making small talk with you in the canteen when they might inadvertently say the wrong thing and end up being sacked? There’s no doubt it’s a difficult situation and I think some things the employer has done to sort it has in fact made it worse (the guy getting sacked didn’t help!) and has actually highlighted and singled you out to be “different” and getting special treatment compared to the other staff. Add on the fact that you go out to your car at every opportunity so don’t mix with anyone during breaks and lunch that then reinforces the whole she’s different” “untouchable” perception leaving people not knowing what’s appropriate to say and not say, can’t talk to anyone to find out, can’t talk to you for fear of getting it wrong and then getting sacked. I think the reality is that your social media is taking off (yaay!!!) and is taking up a lot of your time, your not particularly enjoying admin work and the pay’s 💩 , so you’ve decided to Jack your job in and give it a go! It doesn’t matter what that employer would have done you wouldn’t have been happy because what you truly want to be doing is focusing on social media because it’s your passion. Even if your employer had got their diversity measures perfect, the staff were 100% inclusive and everything was textbook perfect you STILL wouldn’t have been happy because you DIDN’T WANT TO BE THERE which is an absolutely fine reason to want to leave. In fact there’s no better reason to want to leave a job than to follow your passion (and I wish you EVERY success with it, you’re going to smash it!!!!) but please be honest about it, don’t say it was the employer’s fault you left. They were working HARD to do things right and at a time when a lot of employers wouldn’t bother I think they deserve credit for their attempts and what they achieved in a short space of time. All the VERY best for the future, I look forward to seeing LOTS of videos from you in the coming months 🤞🏻 xx

[@jennifermcmillan9518]

You have to do what’s best for you. If you enter a workplace and feel suffocated, it’s not a healthy environment. If I couldn’t get away from people at lunch when I worked, I would have lost my mind. Add in your layers and it’s like someone is holding your head under water. Keep smiling beautiful.

[@omnium_gatherum]

Ugh literally *none* of their business. So annoying that person did you like that! But sometimes when there's a direction we should be going but keep putting off, life just decides to *push* us in the right direction. I hope the very best for your channel!

[@3003suzieq]

❤bless! no need working somewhere that makes you uncomfortable ❤️