a few days in my life in nyc (a chatty vlog & life updates)

spend a few days in my life with me in nyc! today we are having a very long and chatty vlog where i give some life and health updates. i'm going to be so honest this week was a bit of a struggle for me, but i still tried to authentically film and capture it because i am hoping sharing some of my struggles can help someone else. you are not alone!
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[@Tdaddysmooth]

The “out and about” montage music and videos are also so soothing.

[@alexiseldredge]

thank you!!

[@peppermedley8271]

I am always entertained by how your throw pillows move around the room during your vlogs...First one on the couch, then the view from the kitchen shows two on the couch, then one on the couch and two on the bed behind you. LOL

[@Sophiademongo]

Love how relatable your content is . I know health stuff is stressful, but it’s mostly the “not knowing” that causes that. You’ll have answers soon and feel so much relief!

[@kellypruitt2362]

I have health anxiety really bad, I almost passed out at the eye doctor from them dilating my eyes. Don’t worry, everything will be OK❤❤❤❤❤

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@heavenlymorsels]

This - I have dental surgery in the morning and am freaking out! 👀 🙏🏻 Being put under terrifies me! 😳

[@kellypruitt2362]

@@heavenlymorsels good luck, you got this😊

[@sax_25]

Another health anxiety girlie here! You’re going to be fine! Sending prayers for you! Edit: You can ask for a referral to another radiologist and go to whoever is covered by insurance. I would do some research and find another radiologist. Doctors have referral programs with one another.

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@addy1071]

I am loving how real you're being tbh! It's great to see vloggers/influencers whose lives aren't perfect and who are relatable. It kinda feels like listening to a friend on facetime!

[@Kelps_K]

I know that I'm a year late to the video but you are not being annoying in this video at all! (as you said at the end of the vid). It felt very nice to see a more vulnerable side to you, even though it wasn't nice since it was due to health struggles which is always scary and stressful. I liked the calm and sincere conversation you had throughout the video where it felt like we as viewers could really connect with you. Kinda felt like sitting down with a friend late at night, drinking tea and talking about deep things and feelings. It's fun to see your life when things are fun and at a high pace but also the more "mondane" and down to earth things to :)

[@richardottley4611]

I'll definitely keep you in prayer Alexis, sending all the good vibes your way. Thank you for being honest, about what you are currently go through. It's okay to cry at times.. we got yah support Alexis 😊❤💯

[@alexiseldredge]

thank you!

[@heavenlymorsels]

Sending lots of love ❤ and hugs 🤗 hoping you got your test scheduled since posting this and you can find some answers and get some relief as to what’s going on. Sending healing positive vibes your way!🙏🏻 2023 has been putting me through it as well in my own health journey! Please know you are NOT alone! ❤♥️💜 Oh and let’s acknowledge the wholesome Bennett content! 🐈‍⬛

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@LuNaLoOn02]

Yea I have this anxiety about doctors so I really relate to u I love it when you chat as well hope your well!!

[@kim9erly]

I had a similar thing with my lymph nodes under my armpit and had the ultrasounds and a biopsy and it ended up being nothing! Wishing you the same, and your feelings are valid it felt so scary at the time. Always look forward to your vlogs🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@alexiseldredge]

thank you so much ❤️

[@crisramcas4726]

Thanks for sharing real life and when you are overwhelmed, I am the same so I understand when you need to resolve before continue with your daily things. HOPE everything will turn alright!!!!

[@Simplylakesha]

Prayers for you! It will be all right…hope you get in very soon and thanks for sharing, being transparent ❤

[@katyagabriel8505]

This is the perfect video showing how messed up our health care system is.... we are the patients have anxiety and worry while we can't even get someone to call back...sorry your dealing with this that's sooo frustrating you have every right to have the feelings your having.

[@jeannelle_]

I’ve been to nyc once and it was too short! I really want to go during Christmas time because it seems so magical!

[@jessicamoonharris]

Health anxiety can be so overwhelming my boyfriend suffers too! CBT can really help❤ sending love xx

[@_bebeboudeur_]

i had something removed from my throat as a child (a normal procedure that some people have to do) but i don't think i could handle the anxiety of an operation as a full adult so, sending you the strongest lovely vibes !!

[@callmecoops1722]

Hope you got your appointment. ❤ That noise would drive me insane at the best of times, let alone if you have health anxiety on top of it and are worrying about that x

[@em.slowlyreading]

Girllll hang in there!!! And thank you for being vulnerable and sharing REAL WORLD STUFF WITH US! Life ain’t always rainbows and sunshine but you are doing great and it will work out😇

[@karin9373]

So sorry you have to go through this. I totally get the anxiety, I am terrible with appointments and then waiting for results. Your mind plays out all these what if scenarios. That said I always need to know because then at least I can deal with it. Most of the time it’s nothing but it’s always good to get checked rather than not doing anything about it. How frustrating though trying to make an appointment for days. 😔 I admire your honesty about dealing with health issues and sharing the process. Sending positive thoughts and hugs across the pond ❤️❤️

[@alexiseldredge]

thank you! the what ifs are always the scariest part for sure

[@raychilll25]

Sending you lots of love and support! I relate to you so much because I have bad health anxiety too. Whenever I feel the slightest bit off, I automatically assume something is wrong and I’ll spiral. Lately it’s been helping me to just face my fears and get things checked whenever anything is off. It’s better to have piece of mind than to go off the deep end! Keep us posted!!

[@lauraelisee]

Hey Alexis! I know how you must’ve felt through all of this. I found a lump in my left breast this summer. I had to make a mammogram and ultrasound appointment and then wait. And then I needed a biopsy followed by a lumpectomy. All is well and I’m going to be monitored as high risk now but it’s so frustrating having to play the waiting game ❤

[@suzydolan6723]

I just love you! You are so real and you feel exactly like I do when something plays on my mind. You are right in feeling the way you do. Definately should NOT take that long to book an appointment for a medical test. Thinking of you and hope all goes well. 💖

[@s.joseph-747]

First off, I just gave you a hug, you needed one. Next, we love you and we are here for you always!!! You are getting through this pretty good, keeping busy, with vlogging, bennett, editing, food, friends. Your determination to get answers is impressive, you are doing all you can do just so you know. The 43,709 of us want to hear from you always, we are like family, all Alexis all the time. Things will get better I just know it, have a wonderful tomorrow and see ya next time.😊

[@lynnhurst7365]

Alexis I'm so sorry you have to go through this. It really shouldn't be that hard just to make an appointment. You have the stress of the procedure already heavy on your mind. Hope by now it's all arranged and hope all goes well 🙏. Bennett is adorable he's always by your side😊. Take care sending love and hugs from Rhode Island

[@donna8264]

Wishing you luck with making this appointment!! No one deserves this type of frustration when you’re worried about your health!!! Sending you a big hug!!! ❤

[@alexiseldredge]

thank you!!

[@caseified]

Having worked in the medical field for 15 years, this vlog frustrated me sooo much! It's so frustrating how some places function, or don't in this case, when patients really need them. Idk if you tried, but when things like this happen, ask for the office manager. I really hope you have been scheduled by now. Thinking of you & sending positive vibes ❤

[@paintedpreppers-airguns]

Defo did not talk about the appointment too much, it's good for us we get to see the real life you have over there, another cool vid thanks

[@williamsmit619]

that Georgia shirt back story was so funny 🤣.. Brilliant

[@madisonhouchin4709]

sending you love and good vibes! I have listened to the Podcast 'A Healthy Push' as I also have a lot of health anxiety and she has had some good stuff.

[@411GossipGirl]

I have Celiac Disease and OCD that is mostly health compulsion related! This was a VERY relatable episode.

[@vickitollemache5000]

Condensed juice. They were frozen in those tubes. Minute Maid made a lot of them.

[@alexiseldredge]

yes!!!!

[@richardottley4611]

when I saw the word chatty in the title of this episode.. I have a feeling this going to be a special one.. Hi Alexis, Hi Bennett and Hello friends 👋😊

[@Billy33753]

Love your honesty thanks for sharing

[@roadmap9]

Hey Alexis, thanks for the honesty and sharing with us what's going on at the moment. I love your content and your overall vibe, I hope all goes well. Sending positive vibes your way. You're not alone.

[@alexiseldredge]

thank you so much!

[@marylou6765]

Sending positive thoughts your way - won't tell you not to worry because you will anyway - that's just the way it is! Keep us posted.

[@jaytee419]

hope you got the appointment ❤

[@freebyrd19]

Thank you for sharing. I suffer from swollen lympth nodes as well. Typically swollen lymph nodes indicates the body is fighting, or more so possibly autoimmune and inflammation. Whatever is going on with your skin may be causing the swollen lymph nodes. Mine were from my autoimmune disease. It is most definetly connected. What I found helped me is eating a super anti-inflammatory diet and staying away from alcohol, sugar, fatty/processed foods, stress, and gluten and dairy. There is so much you can do to feel like you are in control until you have a diagnosis. You got this. You will be okay and stay positive. Your body is magical and can heal itself if you give it the proper things. Stay well

[@loriv828]

I can relate with health anxiety. I think it helps to talk about it. It’s like you know it’s over the top stressing, but you cannot help it. And Google. Oh man, if you go down that path, it’s awful. I have been able to let Google go and that’s the single biggest help that I have found. I also stress more about health when there are other stressors. Anyway, share, share, share. You’re not alone and no matter what happens, you will be okay.

[@alexiseldredge]

yes google is the WORST!

[@DanielleJ27]

Hi Alexis, hope your appointment has been booked, it’s so frustrating to have to wait. Thanks for doing this vlog despite your health issues, hope it’ll be nothing serious. 💕

[@alexiseldredge]

thank you ❤️

[@iammarccolomayt82094]

Love your chatty & lifestyle vibes in NYC vlog so much, Alexis! ❤❤

[@alexiseldredge]

thanks!

[@emilytweber]

I’m sorry it’s taking so long to get scheduled. I had to wait almost 3 weeks for my doctor’s schedule to open for them to even call me, and then the appointment was another month out. It’s very frustrating when you don’t know if there’s more that you could/should be doing to move things along. Hopefully you hear back soon.

[@VaneezyTV]

😅 the "I'm fine" around 12 minutes in the vlog is such a vibe lol. Like you're not fine, but you're fine 😅 I'm in the same place 😩

[@gladysarnau2839]

Hope you get your appointment soon hang in there sending prayers your way

[@mansoor3159]

Wow Alexis what a wonderful wonderful vlog and I really really love this type of vlogs so so much you are my inspiration and I wish you have a best week ahead💗💫🙂

[@kiaracarter3093]

Sounds like you’ve been going through a rough time! Hoping things get resolved well for you ❤ Thank you for sharing this experience with us. The health insurance thing can be a real headache and I can really relate to weird health stuff going on right now. A while ago, I discovered that I was gluten intolerant and it made a difference for me to cut out gluten but still focus on getting my nutrients. Btw, love Brooke Miccio!

[@donjulio4025]

I have had one on the left side of my neck. So far its not cancer after 6 years

[@summerbias1317]

If it gives you any peace of mind, Hank Green has recently been sharing about his lymphoma and he talked about how QUICKLY things moved after his original appointment (because his initial results looked very concerning). So even though it’s extremely stressful, it’s kind of a good sign they’re being slow with you! I have been down the lymph node stress road too, and mine ended up being fine…they are big for no known reason. Bodies are weird sometimes. Sending good vibes!

[@AngelsLieToKeepCtrl]

I'm really sorry that you're going through this! I hope you get some answers soon 💕💕

[@terysamalootian1762]

Can you do a video about health insurance?!? I live in NYC, self employed and about to be 26 but not sure where to start! Thank you!

[@itscarolinemary]

I can understand the anxiety, it's so tough! I hope it all turns out fine in the end. 🧡💛 I tend to avoid appointments, I need to get examined for endometriosis and just get it done with but I keep delaying it.

[@alexiseldredge]

the hardest step is always making the appointment and going, I totally understand

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Good morning Alexis happy Wednesday morning and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

[@shellyhalacy3777]

🙋‍♂️Hi my name is Shelly and I also have health anxiety. You are doing all the right things to take care of yourself, never feel bad about that or second guess yourself. Sending you positive health vibes!

[@samartin13]

I like the matcha sticks from Trader Joes!

[@Azindz]

Hope you got the appointment really 🙌🏻 I watch the adds without cutting them, please next video put more if you want too, so that way you get paid more 💓💜

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@erinbailey3360]

It can't take a hot minute for these places to call back. Some of it is because of insurance approval. I have a ct scan once a year, and I usually hear back from scheduling in about a week. I've had the same insurance since 2007, and they still wait for my insurance to approve the procedure. It's lame. Hopefully, you've heard back and have your appt scheduled

[@parkerrose3590]

Will keep you in my prayers. No one should be treated like this. People need to show more compassion. I have eye issues and dental issues I don't even know if my insurance will cover them. I just keep putting it off. I don't have the money. It all sucks in this country.

[@CynthiaLevy-o2l]

Agree. I need dental work but no insurance.

[@alexiseldredge]

thank you! the system is so broken 😔

[@JesusIsLord896]

He replied, “Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and obey it.” Luke 11:28

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@stefslyfe]

We Love ya Alexis ❤️❤️❤️….sometimes life throws us curveballs just to keep things interesting, helps to build character 😃…..Keep trudging through though, you’re just becoming someone who will now be able to help someone else who might be going through some of the same things😃….#adultingsucks #sometimes 💪🏽😃✌🏽

[@juliejames3338]

hi Alexis; thanks for sharing your journey with us: i am sure it will all be fine, good luck; sending prayers for youxx

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@ervinsmoviecorner8748]

A nice trip in New York!❤

[@MAHAN1755]

If your insurance covers it. Try to get a doctor affiliated with Memorial Sloan Kettering in regards to your lymph nodes if results come back bad. Its one of the top hospitals in NYC.

[@lesshustlemorecoffee]

I hope you get the appointment squared away. Let us know. Cliff hanger lol Everything seems to take forever everywhere. It’s so annoying and slow.

[@kristinestocker]

Medical tests and follow ups can be scary. I hope everything is okay ❤

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@PamelaNicole]

I understand the struggle of healthcare here. D: I wish you the best!

[@oliviagiles]

Sending love. All the best girlxxx

[@hilsbeasley539]

What an horrendous time for you. I hope you have good health news on your next vlog. Big hugs. xx

[@Life_with_iih]

I also have some health anxiety. I am vlogging about this rare chronic neurological disease that I was diagnosed with last october. At least a year before I was diagnosed I had a lot of anxiety and doctors visits and was also wrongly diagnosed with a severe stress disorder. I am still monitored by doctors and have anxiety before my appointments. Hopefully this is not something serious for you and I wish you all the best. Also, I love your vlogs and your editing style.

[@MsSassyMT]

The good thing is that you are getting checked either way instead of just putting your head in the sand. So many young people do that and when they finally get seen, it's too late. Not to freak you out either, but my daughter had breast cancer at 27. Thankfully she knew something was off and went to get checked, just as you are doing. She's cancer free and just celebrated her 35 birthday. So again, good for you for getting checked. Hopefully it's nothing but at the end of the day, it's such a good idea to be sure. Thank you for sharing this with us. I think more young people need to open up about their health concerns. I think you are talking about the frozen concentrate for flavored lemonades. I believe they still sell them.

[@deblairson3977]

Thank GOD you are getting tested for celiac. I was just talking to you through the screen saying, "You should really be tested for celiac"!!! I don't know if you know this or not, but my daughter has celiac and I am gluten intolerant. So... even if you test negative, you could be intolerant. Now I am anxious about your health too!!!

[@Tiffanyapplesful]

still loving the longer vlogs :)...

[@johnnyc5382.]

I've dealt w anxiety & depression my whole life. Cut way back on coffee Alexis. Keep dancing. Live one day at a time. All shall be well

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@klouisedraws]

You are being proactive and that’s awesome! Sending lots of love ❤

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@sh-fe2zn]

wishing you well :) we're here for you!

[@alexiseldredge]

thank you!

[@MilesToGoGo]

If it makes you feel any better, I don’t think I’ve ever dealt with any medical issue without crying out of frustration. They certainly don’t make it easy

[@alexiseldredge]

it can never be easy haha

[@suelyons531]

I'm allergic to avocados as well. Some people who are allergic to tree pollen and latex show a higher sign of avocado allergies. Isn't that weird? Anyway, I feel your pain. Getting any procedure scheduled these days is a pain but I'm glad you're getting this all checked out!. Lots of people would just ignore it. It's going to be okay! Love your content!

[@alexiseldredge]

interesting! and thank you ❤️

[@vickitollemache5000]

Also, you need to eat gluten before you test for celiac, otherwise you’re compromising the testing process. So hold off on the gluten free untul after you get tested.

[@alexiseldredge]

I know! I never actually fully removed gluten from my diet before the test so all is well!

[@islacat1372]

My 15 year old would like to know if you could choreograph her hip hop dance ❤️ you are a really good dancer

[@user-zq4ir7mo3g]

being/becoming disabled is like a part (or full+) time job!!

[@Hereismytwocents2011]

Call different imaging places, and if one can schedule you, have your doctor send the order there.

[@rebeccacartier153]

😂😂 I have a rash that I’ve had forever… and my doctor was like what’s with this rash, and I was like oh that’s my gluten rash.. and she goes oh, do you have celiacs? And my response was no, I don’t know. She goes have you been tested? And I said no, it just flairs up when I eat gluten, and she just looked at me and goes; you should be tested, we’re just going to do it. Turns out the test celiacs test is negative.

[@alexiseldredge]

interesting! it must just be an intolerance!

[@joannk.2557]

There's a KZbinr, Lindsay Rae, and part of her persona is being obsessed with matcha. She has many videos about it!

[@benjaminwagner8141]

Never related more to a vlog. I feel it on the health anxiety

[@alexiseldredge]

it can be the worst, but we are getting through it!

[@sallysmith4492]

You eat really well, you don't have any addictions and you are very fit!!! The chances that you have some terrible illness is probably very slim. Don't feel bad about your anxiety...the twenties is a season of life that breeds anxiety. I'm in favour of you finding some decent new distractions or developing your spiritual life.

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@richardottley4611]

haha.. we can still be friends 😅 you a Yankees fan.. I'm a Mets fan.. you a Jets fan.. I'm a Giants fan.. and lemme guess you a Knicks fan too, however I am a Brooklyn Nets fan, but thanks for the sports report 😊

[@alexiseldredge]

you guessed it!! I am a Knicks fan

[@richardottley4611]

@@alexiseldredge cool cool 😅🏀

[@ForgingMyLife]

Alcohol and caffeine could also function like diuretics. They both could dilate the lymph tissue and cause more swelling, and as a result, exacerbate the lymphedema. Don't adopt a low-protein diet.Nov 29, 2017

[@ClaireSteber]

Do you have a gym membership? Getting in solid daily workouts (particularly dumbbells and weights) on top of all the walking you do can help your endorphins and will calm you down at least for a few hours. Seems overly simple but it seriously does wonders for anxiety.

[@alexiseldredge]

yes! i have not been going to the gym consistently the past month, definitely could be making my anxiety worse

[@lanamichalski3208]

It's Minute Maid (they may have a store brand that's similar)...a tube shape container in the frozen food section...they have oj, lemonade, etc. You mix with water.....so good....Try not to worry...I know that easier said than done. You are in my prayers. 🙏❤

[@alexiseldredge]

omg yes!! that’s the one!

[@noradedios7639]

Alexis sorry to hear about your health and anxiety; a big hug to you and if I had an address I’d send you a gift card to more Duncan donuts. Sending positive vibes. 😊❤️

[@madeleinesvensson-m3y]

I´m so sorry you´re experiencing health issues. I hope it gets better soon :)

[@alexiseldredge]

thanks!

[@DancingKitkat13]

Yasss new vid 😸😸😸

[@kristenphillips7784]

I love you so much

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@RebeccaABeaudoin]

It is what it is kid

[@katycooper2287]

I have a question: why aren’t you a rockette??? You should totally audition!!

[@alexiseldredge]

i'm too short!!

[@julieward1761]

I also have enlarged lymph nodes in my throat. Have you been tested for mono? My doc did an Epstein Barr panel on me and it showed I have mono. However, the lymph nodes aren’t shrinking so I’m scheduled for an ultrasound too. I also watch Brooke Miccio so this is all wild to me!

[@Yogeshvlog1437]

Hi how are you nice video 😊

[@btk1243]

Thyroid ?? - I'm not trying to be an Internet doctor, but I had a female friend who had neck lymph node issues and it was connected to her thyroid (which can be detected with a simple blood test -- which I'm sure your doctor already issued)

[@heavenlymorsels]

Agreed my grandmother had this and she was low in iodine which in turn affects the thyroid. She took a seaweed/kelp supplement or something like that - my point is it could be soemthing simple! ❤

[@alexiseldredge]

yes! have gotten some blood tests I’m hoping to see if something like that could be the case

[@Courtney-Alice-Gargani]

I love your videos. Do you post videos on a certain day and time?

[@alexiseldredge]

always tuesdays & fridays! the time is usually tbd, i try to update on my instagram story when they will come out

[@WLK668]

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[@sergioin3D]

So whose as exited for spatial 3D video on iPhone???