Why growing your hair makes you attractive | My experience dating as a guy with long hair

[@alexorlandocross]

Thanks so much for checking out my channel! Part 1 can be viewed here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHPEqmBmibyLatU Please follow me on instagram: @alexorlandocross

[@connlaffan6232]

Great video Alex, found your channel through part 1. I'm growing my hair out as an upside to lockdown and your advice is definitely keeping my me on track to seeing this hair growth journey through ! Question however, did you dye your hair, or are your highlights natural? Because your hair colour contrast looks so cool to me !

[@alexorlandocross]

That means a lot man. I really appreciate your feedback. Dyed, a took a photo of a guy called Jack Greystone into the hairdresser with me and let them do the rest

[@connlaffan6232]

@@alexorlandocross The fact I wasn't sure, it was dyed is awesome because I think a natural look truly complements long hair. That's definitely an idea for future me to think about. Anyways cheers Alex

[@soeffingwhat]

What's the background music on your Video here?

[@joeysassine1103]

Rule of thumb: You want to attract people who are attracted to the version of you you like. Be attracted to yourself first, then you will feel like you're out of everyone's league.

[@alexorlandocross]

Exactly. The minute you’re not being that it stops being fun

[@thegreatestislove8604]

It seems like men who wear that look tend to be more outgoing and open minded to having new experiences. Also it looks like they are in touch with their spirituality and may be deep thinkers. At least that’s what I perceive when looking at a guy with longer hair and a beard. He’s not afraid to go against societal norms and is comfortable with himself.

[@alexorlandocross]

You just summed up my philosophy to life lol

[@FishingForLife28]

I've had long hair for 2 years. Cant wait to meet the kinda people he talks about

[@joeysantiago2960]

LOL...

[@FishingForLife28]

I've met them now. Apperently being in lock down has an effect on how many people you meet

[@lukagames4436]

@@FishingForLife28 Lol what?...

[@FishingForLife28]

@@lukagames4436 I emerged from my awkward stage right in the beginning of covid, so I have only really seen people I already know until the bars opened up again in my country and I could be active in my local barscene again and meet new people. Alot of those people dig the long hair

[@therealrandymandy]

Men with long hair are just...better lol In my experience more chill, open minded and self assured.

[@xod7xo614]

This video really encompasses all my thoughts and opinions on the matter, glad to hear I’m not the only one shares the same frame of thoughts I’ve had over the years.

[@2546478]

Very Good and Positive message. Appreciate the honesty. Keep at it! All the best

[@alexorlandocross]

Thank you so much 🙏

[@subhamgogoi3989]

Thank you so much bruh!! I really needed to hear this. There couldn't have been a better time. I am growing out my hair and it's been 10 months now. Thank you so much! 🙏

[@alexorlandocross]

You are more than welcome my man, glad it was there for you

[@Bannanakick]

ITS FUN TO SEE HOW YOU FIGURE OUT "to be yourself is all that you can do" Im glad you found yourself

[@fairybueller]

I made a promise to myself today to be more authentic to myself in my style and general self expression. I’m also 31 heh. I will always remember this and the precious video as a push on the night that I made this pivotal decision. Cheers.

[@alexorlandocross]

That’s awesome. You’ll be so much happier the more authentic you are

[@joakimolsson8623]

Omg, Are we the same person lol? I have little more than shoulder length now, started too save it for about 2 years ago.I am soon turning 33. I have also left the bodybuilding/fitness and clean cuts behind me now becouse as you say it didnt serve anything. My life is so much better now. Good video bruh!

[@alexorlandocross]

I don’t miss the bodybuilding or clean cuts at all lol. Thanks for the kind words man 🙏

[@travisjones4001]

Love this video. Keep them coming!! Subscribed

[@alexorlandocross]

Thank you 🙏 means a lot

[@twonulator]

Brother this is absolutely what I needed to hear in my long hair journey which I started a few months ago. You just articulated everything I subconsciously wanted to achieve, and have started by changing my environment and growing out my hair. Absolutely brilliant. Thank you!

[@alexorlandocross]

Thanks for the love man 🙏 glad it was what you needed

[@marcelodesa2751]

Truly well said man I feel the same way I did the same exact thing you did the way I feel it is the most important thing I attracted better quality people that way as well, because the people there was not supporting me I found out truly and very very low self-esteem individuals and I'm not like them I like my hair grow out and styled it just like you did and this is the true me and I feel just awesome I'm not a negative low self-esteem like those other people thank you very much for your support man 👌👍🤘

[@alexorlandocross]

That’s awesome man. There’s always support here 🙏

[@jasmohi]

You are underrated Bro Definitely channel will grow

[@alexorlandocross]

Thanks man. Much appreciated 🙏

[@fd375]

You are to self-esteem & physical well being as Sadhguru is to the mind & spirit. Authentic, wise & true (v cool too!) I am growing my hair out and appreciate the challenges of the journey and the path with sound advice & encouragement that you post. Thank you for sharing your wisdom which I am sure many will relate to and resonate with. Thank you Alex!

[@ricardodelacrvz1400]

The same happen to me on that "I need to be better, I need to be bigger..." thats actually called body dysmorphia.

[@alexorlandocross]

Perfectly said. I cover that in lots of my other videos

[@dylannash3514]

love this mate! Needed right now too, top content.

[@alexorlandocross]

Thanks as always mate!

[@Mkitoo]

Keep up dude 💯

[@alexorlandocross]

Thanks 💯

[@atticcus7935]

I'm in the process of growing my hair long for the first time in my life. ive always kept short hair because its wavy and I can't do anything with my hair without gel. my hair is about 7 inches long right now. by the end of the year it will probably be about where I want it. I want it probably about like yours maybe a bit past my shoulders.

[@rawoodward923]

How’s that going for ya?

[@LongNguyen-gq1kq]

Thank you sir

[@alexorlandocross]

More than welcome

[@Ryan-sc4ht]

You speak the truth man

[@alexorlandocross]

Thanks man

[@irisrosedouze2610]

Ugh don't cut your hair guys! Unless you want of course Men with long hair are so hard to find 😫😫 the longer the hair the wetter my chair 🥵🔥🔥😏 haha

[@AshdinDoctorOrmax]

hahahaha I'm going to use that🤣🤣

[@privatsphare5802]

I Love Long Hair on guys

[@alexorlandocross]

That’ll make the guys who follow my channel happy to read

[@leox434]

Finaly growing my hair and my girlfriend(about to be ex) wants me to cut it. Huh. No way girl

[@friskygoat]

Did you recently (somewhat) cut your hair partly for the reasons of feeling judged or because you think women did not find you attractive?

[@alexorlandocross]

Nah I discussed that in my one newer videos. Neither of those were factors

[@imadba5023]

Thankk you :) , and i got a question.. so there’s this girl she gave me looks and we made eye contact many times but i hadn’t the courage to go talk to her . That was back when my hair was short , no i got long hair and I’m scared she’s not a fan . What should i do ?

[@alexorlandocross]

If she's not a fan of you with long hair then she's not the girl for you. Never change your appearance for a girl lol

[@imadba5023]

@@alexorlandocross thank you so much , that was helpful 🥰

[@johnferradino]

Lol what did your mom say when she saw that photo?

[@alexorlandocross]

It’s her favourite photo lol

[@aymanhimself]

Very tangent

[@lexlooter6789]

👍

[@jeandupont8501]

You don't seem in such a better place now though..

[@alexorlandocross]

❤️

[@soeffingwhat]

It can work both ways. I wore my hair long for many years and loved it for a long time and cut it short over 10 years ago and it was the best thing I did. Its not cos of any pressure, I went through all that before, especially in the 90s. Occasionally I had some threats and horrible things said to me cos of my long hair. but it just made me more determined to keep it long and in the early 00s that happened a lot less. Its only that after a time I'd started only wearing it tied back and rarely wore it down anymore. When I cut it short it felt the right time to do it and it felt great. Now I love it short, shorter the better lol. That's just me though.