All Men Want The Same Thing | Layah Heilpern

Credit: Strike It Big Podcast

[@kholif_bihaque]

Beauty makes men stare, kindness makes men stay

[@darrenstar4557]

👍

[@ilovedogs6329]

this is the best quote i've ever heard

[@Hockeyconph]

Amazing quote 👍

[@CESRex21]

Well said brother

[@ezra8545]

Men cheat

[@rustytanks]

4000 languages in the world, and she chose to speak facts 😊

[@JJLom777]

My favorite language.

[@losendos8963]

Yes....the rarest of languages that oft goes unspoken....

[@SuperBranFlakez]

She’s a known scammer

[@losendos8963]

@@SuperBranFlakez You're gonna have to elaborate on that a little. I can say "he's a known bank robber" about you, but it would be a lie (I think).

[@anacorreia8058]

That’s so true though. Men want love, support, peace, loyalty, and kindness. And obviously, good 💦💦. Give him that and he will be happy!

[@beatleographer_10-51]

I was the kind of guy that would only have the prettiest, perfectly shaped woman on my arm. Then one day i met a woman that was over weight, nice looking but not actually pretty. She had the greatest personality, smart, and kind, of any woman i had ever met ... just lost of fun. Not being anything like i was used to, i fell head over heels for this lady. My friends & family couldnt understand it, but i really didnt care. She became the love of my life!

[@LoveFaithLive]

Happy relationships happier communities in my experience. Dare I ask, ever cheat on her??

[@Catty19748]

That's beautiful.

[@beatleographer_10-51]

@@LoveFaithLive Never, not one time. I wasn't going to do anything that I might lose her over. Prior to her I was the cheating kind. Not something I'm proud of.

[@billwalter9917]

Way to go brother!

[@LoveFaithLive]

@@beatleographer_10-51 Thanks for responding, wasn’t sure if you would I wish you the best, you’ve committed to your commitment to each other not just to the romance of it. God bless you both.

[@againstthegrain3664]

She’s so right. I found a good woman and it makes me understand the purpose of life. Getting married. Having kids. Working. Creating something valuable in life. When a man has a bad woman. He feeds off that and becomes an even worse man. Women make us who we are. I hate to say.

[@user-hh6hd5sn1k]

I’m so lucky, my wife is these things she just described. I’m just a pool builder and a handyman, but when my wife sends me out in the mornings I feel like I can do anything and most importantly on the days I can’t do anything she loves me unconditionally and after 20 years she knows exactly when to intervene and when not to. She’s amazing! I see other men at work that have wives with these governed relationships where one wears the pants and the other is just a walking blob of darkness and it’s sad.

[@RottenMelonProductions]

You’re not “just a pool builder and a handyman” you are a provider and working man. Be proud.

[@petervanhoesel149]

you can beat around the bush forever,,most men require bedroom action daily.if this is not the case,we dont care what youdo

[@lanapope4517]

Your a very lucky man in today's society.

[@AubrieRicheson]

This is the sweetest. So happy for you!

[@SovietUnion-yg3km]

Yea right jon

[@christopher726]

PEACE……. That was the most important word in this!

[@stosh4803]

Women could literally live life on easy mode. Yet they choose not to. I’ll never understand it.

[@Bai_Su_Zhen]

@@stosh4803 Yeah ask boomer men why that could possibly be lol

[@user-wy1kw1cu7v]

​@@stosh4803 If the man is out cheating, or gambling, or come home falling over drunk, or high, or only every other day.....how could you expect peace. Just let them!?? Smh.

[@robrobinson2207]

​@@user-wy1kw1cu7v Ever wonder why he's doing those things? Could it be that there's no peace at home?

[@starr234]

If he brings her peace, she will be able to bring him peace. It has to be reciprocated.

[@EmmanuelMoore88]

And most woman want security and masculinity. Woman and man is the most powerful duo on the planet

[@Aqua_she_wolf]

Not only men. I also want the same. I want to come home to have food on the table, the flat clean and a supportive nice guy at home. Everyone wants the same 😅

[@Dante-vf4sd]

Gender roles

[@JamesHolbrook-eh5sp]

If you had that from a guy, you'd get bored of him and kick him to the curb (or kerb)

[@musahbaharshat4501]

When women also at work, they think the same.

[@tomthumb5445]

What the hell is a flat?

[@Dante-vf4sd]

@@tomthumb5445 English word for apartment

[@Aden_Ilyas]

Who thought something so easy and simple would be so hard to find. Hope anyone seeing this finds their special someone as I do…

[@xpaf4209]

Thx. Bro

[@rubentello9792]

When I leave mine for akways cheating , deceiving, lying, disrespecting, to me. I hope I find a real, honest, loyal woman. Seems east but I bet I can find a needle in the hay stack before I can find a woman like that.

[@gloriavis]

And what does she get? Do you have to listen and obey him?

[@Aden_Ilyas]

@@gloriavisWhy you acting like she’d be a slave. Any woman who finds their right guy would want them to take the lead. Being submissive is what women need to be in order for them to be happy

[@lamadesurvivor5216]

@@gloriavisgo away, and be alone. That’s what you get. Women who say shit like they gotta “obey” a man, let’s me know they grew up with out a dad. Cus if you did, you would know that “dad” wasn’t trynna control you. He loves you, cus he knows how cruel this life shit is to men and women. Go heal, and don’t even worry about any of this. Cus how you sound no man is gonna want you anyways

[@robpolaris5002]

I dated the warmest, most generous, kind hearted female my first year of college. On one of our first few dates she asked if she could have a jacket and blanket from my trunk. My group of friends would go to the beach a lot at night so I had quite a few blankets and jackets. She walked off with them and I didn’t want to leave her alone so I kept my distance but followed her. She gave the jacket and blanket to a homeless man we passed. She came back to the car and didn’t say a word. She didn’t know it but I was homeless for a year when I was 8-9. I absolutely adored her from that moment on. How many 17 year olds would be more concerned about a homeless man who might get cold than whatever is going on in their lives? I’ve never met anyone who appreciated anything I did for them as much as she did. . Nothing made me happier than doing things for her and seeing how excited and appreciative she always was. She did a lot of things for me as well. It was the best year of my life. I left for two years after that and I broke up with her, like an idiot. It has been 30 years and if she called me and said she needed anything I wouldn’t hesitate for a second. I think most women would be surprised how far we would go for someone who treats us with kindness, affection and positivity.

[@Neresdipity]

...but you broke up with her 😕

[@Jwild004]

Had a similar thing happen to me bro… had it all and threw it away. Then you look at the current women in your life and notice how much you lost

[@V.E.R.O.]

​@@NeresdipityHe was young, now he knows better.

[@Neresdipity]

@@V.E.R.O. so a lot of men talk about wanting a young woman, and a kind woman, but we should all just accept that young men won't appreciate a young woman until after he's taken her for granted. Okay.

[@V.E.R.O.]

@@Neresdipity That's obvious based on what he wrote. Sounds like he was around 18 or 19 when he was with her and now is around 50. Some people become wise with age and others never do, it would be interesting to know if she eventually found someone to value her.

[@AJyfm700R]

As a man i fully agree with this message.

[@Lesly-ic3mq]

I would say the same...because a woman can be ...externally...adorable with NO personality!!!!

[@danparnic-wz3se]

SHE'S KNOWS THE TRUTH ABOUT MEN BLESS HER

[@georgenic64]

As a man’s man I 100% agree with that girl’s statement. God bless her !

[@user-sn5zs9qh4w]

I'm a man's man I would do anything just to have 1 girl who liked me God bless this lady for such wisdom I pray for a lady who is nice and loves me

[@georgenic64]

@@user-sn5zs9qh4w You will find her buddy. Sooner or later you will, trust me

[@JamFlava1]

Beta males….

[@forestbrooks4025]

She’s absolutely 💯 correct!

[@Trdundee]

I am very happy to hear from you the truth about Men. You are 100% correct. The Media is turning in its Grave.😅

[@ddenise8428]

Nope she's not 💯% correct! I'm attractive, very kind, cook, clean, works too, not fat either!!! Not enough got stood up/ cheated on/ lied to/ and abandoned !!!!!!!!!!

[@susannugent6136]

That's a joke

[@0NightFighter0]

It's exactly what I am looking with my man, him being kind, supportive, not fat, going to the gym, putting a little bit of make up but not too much, waiting for me at home when I am working hard and bringing me food on my table for dinner...

[@MissionForward3]

She's 110% correct.

[@thats_plenty]

Percentages are like fractions, parts of the whole. You can't have more than 100 percent of a finite capacity

[@joshferguson2870]

I say she is 99% correct for most men.

[@borealis5379]

Some men, recently more and more, just want sex with as many women as they can get. I mean, we do live in hookup culture and 'dating gurus' are on the rise for a reason. I guess you can't count love, kindness and being supportive in a way you can count bodies. I guess being yourself and just enjoying some quality time far from everything isn't as photogenic as partying in exclusive locations. The choice is hard...

[@user-qz6jo2bh2m]

& she's gorgeous!

[@user-qz6jo2bh2m]

I definitely want what she said as well

[@kengaroo5170]

An agreeable woman not a conflicting headache.

[@oo131193oo]

So i am one of the few 1%

[@xelnjare3945]

She is absolutely correct. We just want peace. Not chaos. Simple.

[@CChance1]

Absolutely!!

[@picklejho420]

frfr

[@smoly37]

That's what women want, too. It's bloody what WE ALL WANT!!! You really think there are women walking around thinking: "YEAH!! Let's create chaos!" It's all SO superficial. I keep saying: we ONLY have two flavours and the children's version of those. How did we manage to even f*ck thát one up?? Humans are hopeless in communicating and as a 61 year old, it amazes me to see that how more the technology grew, up to everybody owning a cellphone that can measure your quality of sleeping, the less the ability to thoroughly communicate, or so it seems. I worked in the healthcare system for a long time and even on that level of communicating between doctors and their staff, a lot of misunderstandings and faults were just down to NOT listening or leaving out important information. It frustrated me to no end...

[@Sheshini]

Hetero relationship are disgusting

[@mementomori5374]

@@smoly37peace is always present even when there is chaos

[@AdamtheLarsen]

She is 100% correct

[@mrbmillet]

I am like that and my husband always say this and thanks me. Guess what happened? I just learned that he was cheated on me several times since he learn I got pregnant. I saw messages with girls even there he was telling how nice I am and he loves me 🙄 His cheating reason explanation is ; when he learned that he is going to be father with more responsibilities so he got stress about it and wanna feel like not marry not responsible about anything 🤦‍♀️ But still thanks me about how I am 😒 soo girlss this can make a man love you but not avoid cheat on you. Never say he will not do it 😢

[@76MUTiger]

This is what happened in your case. It is not common. For women who want to be married, this is the model to follow, not feminism. Engage your Friend Zone.

[@angeldeschain0]

As man who has cheated, but not anymore. What changed in me was that fear of losing my spouse. I've never cheated on her (8 years together) but that responsibility and change came with experience and age. I'm 36 now and the idea of not having my best friend and companion next to me terrifies me, something that I wouldn't even think about when I was 20. Back then was; whatever I can always do better.

[@Canadian_Bajan]

There's nothing you can do to stop cheating. You won't understand this but he loves you just the same. That other woman was sex only. He doesn't care about her one bit. Sounds crazy but he'll actually love you more. He will never leave you for her unless you're insufferable and fat.

[@shiwangee]

​@@Canadian_Bajanoh wow, so convincing

[@noxy_667]

If he cheated, he doesn't love you, there is no other option. If you love someone, you don't go for actions that will break the person's heart and soul, completely aware, on purpose. That is no love. There is never a way to believe he would stop cheating, if he did that more than once, it is a pattern. He will keep on doing that, maybe just trying to hide better. And this explanation... cause he didn't want to feel like he is married and have responsibilities... that is already more than enough to not believe anything again.

[@stevansiregar8853]

She said the truth, simple and clear.. But it's not easy to find such women these days

[@nobodi2840]

Yes it is you probably pass by her all the time. Working hard and caring about people are big pluses. There are waitress videos all the time about such woman. It will take time for her to trust you maybe not. Some wild horse guy abused I would think a woman like that. Would be worth the effort she may not be a waitress that is just a example. I doubt that you will find a good woman in a bar getting drunk. A good woman's heart is very fragile handle with care.

[@ikingdavis7988]

Proverbs chapter 32

[@MariaElena51185]

We’re out there for sure. Most of us are older with more traditional values, but there are younger versions of us everywhere.. but not so much in the US as in other countries. The US got slammed with feminism more than anywhere else, but there is presently a backlash. My aged 18 granddaughter is still a virgin because she is very picky and quite beautiful inside and out.

[@user-ci1bs1gf4q]

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife 😂

[@honeyvilloria7066]

​@@MariaElena51185 18 years old is too young and should be a virgin herself. In my country, the average virgins are around 25 and most women are waiting for their marriage before engaging in sexual intercourse. The west really is messed up.

[@user-vg8ox3he1i]

This is how our mothers and grandmothers dealt with men. They didn't idolize us. They didn't demonize us. They understood us.

[@manifest2203]

But most m3n aren’t nice people. That is why those wom3n warned the next generation of wom3n. M3n want so many things and nag wom3n endlessly for everything. They never bring peace. Which is why they cry so much about peace. They whine, gossip and complain about wom3n endlessly in ways which defy all logic.

[@shittywizard9805]

Ur grandma got her shit rocked 😊

[@federicoebiesuwa6029]

Underrated comment 😢

[@nikki1400]

You can't compare maternal relatives to romantic partners. I get what you are saying but no shit your mom and grandma treated you in that way, it's an entirely different dynamic.

[@gabeeskridge8291]

​@@user-qv2it7ic4bEasy to know what sex you are 😊.

[@joesmelser2784]

She is a Dreamer !!! It's not that simple !!!

[@kittykat334]

All men cherish the act of appreciation from their loved ones. They come home from a long day of work oftentimes working with hateful colleagues and all they want is the kindness and appreciation of their love ones. We are simple creatures; that’s all we need to sustain us.

[@CuriosphereYouTube]

Girl, that's what humans want. A nice, supportive and kind person.

[@doofusboy7054]

Exactly

[@TerminatorT10]

Thank you. You wrote the right. 😅

[@jonathanberry1111]

That's what men want, a lot of women don't want just that, they want a man that is dangerous, a man that ticks all or 20 or so different boxes and does nothing wrong. Women often in our current society have unrealistic standards.

[@CuriosphereYouTube]

@@doofusboy7054 Isn't it? XD

[@CuriosphereYouTube]

@@TerminatorT10 Thank you bro, it's obviously

[@leegregory5617]

As a man I can confirm that this is what I want. Not necessarily tea on the table when I get home from work, but just somebody who cares about me, who I care about. That's what life's about.

[@chrisburke624]

Amen

[@Redpepper7376]

Been together 35 years, we just always look after each other, simple.

[@cruiser6260]

Coffee then

[@user-eu4yl4gh5c]

❤​@@cruiser6260

[@GhoulReviews]

Same brother but apparently it's too much to ask for today 😢

[@chopntalk7465]

It's a shame that such an obvious truth needs to be articulated as if it's a brand new discovery for mankind. Good on you, girl!

[@Fireandsword444]

Protect this beautiful woman with all costs🥺

[@user-dp2gp5ol9f]

Her beauty comes from her mind & heart. If we have a million woman like this, the world will be in peace.

[@c.markdavis2143]

She isn’t wrong.

[@dr-ng8te]

We are looking for someone like our mother,soft pillow to put our heads on,peace,food,kind ness ,clean house, RESPECT,love making that shared...Girls are made of EVERYTHING Nice !!!😮oh yes LOYAL..she's correct 😮

[@Sweet_Jazz]

She isn't right.

[@wichitadisciple9874]

@@Sweet_JazzShe’s 100% correct.

[@notsorandumusername]

@@Sweet_Jazz She is 100% right. She simply reminded you that you do not act like a woman men actually want. That's why they don't stay with you.

[@Nico-ze2gl]

Wrong! Most men would want a beautiful girl if they could afford to get one. Nothing wrong with it. That’s just how men are built. Facts! 💯

[@mrgideonff7446]

That is right... My wife is exactly like that.. That is why I love and respect her..

[@goodkarma6951]

I heard a girl on the internet say that if a man wants his woman to be his peace then hes toxic. But the problem is that women are scared to call each other out on their bullshit and men always check each other

[@johnmora5599]

Very good statement

[@DarkWandererAU]

That's an oxymoron - how can peace be toxic?

[@Springfeel_]

Growing up i always thought a woman would at least contribute to my overall peace. Now that i'm an adult and after living with a woman for many years i realize how foolish that idea was.

[@robert-zj7ef]

That girl DOES NOT HAVE A MAN!

[@Cocod73]

Always and never make liars of us all.

[@mrg2803]

We all want a partner that makes our lives better, not harder.

[@goranmilic442]

OK, but she doesn't explain why should women do what men want.

[@martybritton267]

Wow finally one that understands men ladies it's not that hard give him what she said and your man will try to give you the world

[@Mr._Tony]

She is right and this is coming from a man married for 22 years and still going strong ☝️

[@this_is_it_sports20]

Half of your beauty comes from how you treat people and the way you speak to them and how you make them feel about theirselves it's really that simple. And yes she nailed everything from the moment she spoke until the end of the video spot on 🎉 good job We are truly that simple.

[@godfreypeters6653]

Quote OF the week!

[@TheIvyLens]

“He wants to go home and know that there is peace”. This is the ONLy thing that matters to dudes.

[@Time.for.tea.]

It’s what women want too. It takes two. Come home and pitch in and don’t whine if the house is a mess and dinner isn’t on the table.

[@ghhvfhuy2397]

​​@@Time.for.tea.for most men that is the expectation of women in the home, women tend primarily to take care of the home, whilst men like me are out here building the modern world as we have always done and continue to do so is it too much really to ask to expect a clean home, dinner cooked etc. We both play our parts they are just different parts but when put together it becomes like ying and yang bliss, if one stops on either side that's where it starts becoming a problem. When you say pitch in, the man has been pitching in infact all day out in all weather doing the jobs most women won't do and we do that to keep the world running and to put food on the Plates of our families, we do pitch In no??

[@jannelouhi5187]

This!

[@Adler_GGG]

Nah don't be fat matters.

[@gamegurutwitch1094]

If there is no women at home then you have peace in the house.

[@wildnfree24]

For a second, I felt I fell in love with this woman.

[@schweizer1940]

Thats the Truth! My wife of Sixty years has been exactly that, I am 84 when she was attacked by a bully last year I immediately went into attack mode!! I would gladly die for her!!

[@2852DamsVult]

Beauty!! Wish you good health Tiger!

[@richgl31]

To be fair , when you are in your 80’s an unopened tin is a bully. (Just jesting- well done mate; I hope I can do the same in my later years- if I get there!).

[@mortenovergaard7397]

Well done. Respect.

[@rishabhshukla5979]

Well, that's what we do, sir. It's one of the things which makes us what we are, 'Men'.

[@beatleographer_10-51]

❤❤❤❤

[@curtiscrow8997]

I feel so blessed that i found a woman who loved me when I had nothing, and worked with me to build the life we have together. She supported me through triumphs and failures. I am the man that I am today because of her.

[@NrecapsAnimeSeries]

God bless you two...

[@curtiscrow8997]

@@NrecapsAnimeSeries Thank you for the kind words. God bless you as well.

[@NrecapsAnimeSeries]

@@curtiscrow8997 thank you sir 🙏

[@sushilkumar-wb6ig]

you are so lucky

[@gentlebabarian]

I wish i found a woman like that!

[@C.Brown5150]

And that's it , we're not asking for the world , just respect and loyalty.. I don't need a Diamond , Silver is fine as long as it has a heart of Gold.🙏

[@Trad_chad1122]

Kindness is all I want from a woman. This is all true. Not that hard. 💯

[@thedalillama]

Yes, and this almost brings tears to my eyes. A) to see a young person recognize this and B) knowing nearly all men will never experience such happiness. My time has passed. Best of luck to the next generations to find a person like in the video. Choose wisely.

[@shawntailor5485]

Me 2

[@Menirules]

I was married for 13 years to a woman for whom I was never good enough, who constantly reproached me and told me what I was doing wrong. Now I have a girlfriend who asks me how I'm doing after a hard day, pats me on the head and just makes me feel good. I've never felt better in my life than I do now.

[@jlsg87]

Like literally pats you? Because it sounds literal lol

[@tommyhubbard5733]

We must have married sisters......

[@FARBOLUOS]

Good for you. I stayed for the kids and it’s been very difficult to say the least. It’s been 42 years. Now, it’s about protecting the estate to pass it on to my children. Otherwise, a lot of money will be wasted and the ones making money will be the lawyers.

[@joshtuk]

They’re all like that the first year or two. Report back after you’re married.

[@sylvainbauge]

​@@tommyhubbard5733😂😂

[@RandallSampson-hp3gz]

Lady.. Men has more then just sweet words there's so much to marriage then a kind sweet women... 😢❤

[@dbrezzell]

She's 1000% right!

[@iammaximus614]

… we would conquer worlds For this kind of respect & support

[@DFM_0618]

Spot on sister! We really are simple creatures willing to work hard, provide and protect.

[@user-ci1bs1gf4q]

Protect from what ?

[@enshanoldmanvilla]

Who doesn't want that , there is no difference between men and women on this matter, everyone wants a nice and supportive partner, just be loyal and be kind to each other ❤️ I wish love and happiness for everyone 💖

[@ursanirak2870]

You are correct. That is all men want. But most woman are more than kind, sweet and supportive. They are also intelligent.

[@samsaldate5828]

This woman is a genius!!! She figured out what 99 percent of them couldn’t!!!

[@morriswheatley9856]

It takes a genius to figure that out?

[@ScooterOnHisWay2024]

​@@morriswheatley9856A genius when compared to 90% of her fellow women.

[@morriswheatley9856]

@@ScooterOnHisWay2024 Yes. So not a genius then.

[@timloffel4196]

Because it's not true your virgin... Men want variety to stay attracted to their girl.

[@TheSongofSaya]

​@@morriswheatley9856don't take it too literally lol

[@paso193]

Guys…..This woman Is spot on! That’s _exactly_ how we think and feel! Period!

[@karlewen2112]

She ain't like that in reality tho 😂

[@cammontreuil7509]

Not a sigma male.

[@paso193]

@@cammontreuil7509 …….What’s a ‘sigma male’?

[@alenaadamkova7617]

I think in every habit "compound pounding" effect is the best solution.. People probably know this effect but forgot about it because of being too distracted by media or thoughts etc. in sport, in business, in relationships. 1. If you use compound pounding in sport, (exercissing for an hour) you will see no results in 5 days,but you will see big results in 100 days. 2. If you will say a good morning to people, you will see no effect in 5 days, but you will see a great difference in 100 days. 3. If you will practice the compassion for your partner and make some good deed, you will see no or small difference in 5 days, but you will see a great difference in 50 or 100 days, you will see how much you mean to them. People see this compound pounding effect in the nature, the garden looks the same after few days, but after a 100 days it looks different. Therefore you can not tell if your values are working after one week, because you see the effect after 100 or 140 days. Maybe each couple should practice this technique, If I will make something small to make my partner happy, for a little moment, they will remember these little moments, and good calm or happy mood increases the immunity of the body by 50 percent in 4 days. So their kids will learn the same technique. They will learn that if they will read a book 10 minutes a day, it has a great impact on brain. Next time it may be 20 minutes a day. But if you stop doing the healthy habit now... after a week it makes no difference after 140 days the results change for worse, you loose muscles or you lose some skill or motivation etc. Good deed may be also making a pizza or small things. People actually enjoy small things much more than big gestures, because it´s about living in the moment...... Big gestures (expensive car) mean that you actually burned out too much energy to make a small effect, rather than small gestures that after time create a great effect of connection, and people like you for your authentic personality. You may be a not a genius, but if you decide to do healthy habits regularly, the habit creates a genius, who will thanks to compound pounding effect start understanding life and values. if the nature can work in that way people may too.

[@viktoriax7228]

But I am curious: do you approach that women, or you just wait for her to approach you? This is the main problem in today's world.There are no men, only boys seeking validation.It’s important to cultivate a culture where maturity and confidence replace the need for constant affirmation.

[@jeffolley2712]

Where do you find a woman like this ??? This woman is a very rare definitely one in many millions

[@j-u-n-g-l-i-s-t1544]

Peace is key for any man

[@10ToGoPro]

Loyalty and respect, reciprocated

[@ernestoduenas2466]

Fr that one is important 101

[@ezra8545]

Then be like that too

[@bontexx]

A man after my own heart. When women figure out to do these two things, life will flow.

[@nathantv_1]

Spot on

[@deedee446]

Not always. Men respect cold and demanding women more

[@junieboom602]

I did all that and more. They stay with you but take you for granted.

[@michaellopez4018]

Communication is key to any relationship, talk to each other. Only we can choose our own happiness!

[@vaxrvaxr]

Everyone takes things they get used to for granted. It's human nature.

[@staciacrick3373]

@@vaxrvaxrNo, not everyone

[@vaxrvaxr]

@@staciacrick3373 I suppose you could make an effort not to, to varying degrees of success and profit.

[@rukshanaali4958]

Me too..my husband swears nd shouts at me

[@0patience4flz]

This young lady is an angel....❤

[@bee21194]

We need support because us men need it we been thru a lot.

[@youngfeezy7969]

She got it. We just want a faithful good hearted friend. Life too short to waste time with selfish evil people. Everyone wants a loyal person to live this crazy life together

[@yurfaultwinner4314]

What all men want can be summed up in 1 word RESPECT

[@Joe-hf3cn]

Yep

[@erwinl.8152]

What do men think they should receive without earning or reciprocating? Respect.

[@Alixir1228]

And respect is EARNED.

[@Joe-hf3cn]

@@Alixir1228 I’m a man .. isn’t respect automatic 😃

[@dream_on_sammi]

@@Joe-hf3cn. I used to think that not anymore. She’s right. It’s earned. You can give respect and everyone should but that doesn’t mean you’ll get it back and after awhile if you don’t you’ll definitely come away with a completely different perspective.

[@henrymillwood5176]

As a masculine man I endorse this message.

[@Michael-xg3cj]

She is right for the most part

[@drakelessner3981]

This is 100% correct. My gf is amazing. Very supportive of me, does things for me. Doesn’t nag or anything but she also has her own life going on to. it’s great.

[@jameswyman3973]

Wait until she meets a new Chad with more wealth than you and start putting it down for him lol Unless you are the best she can get she won't stay, that's just the truth.

[@alexanderg5386]

​@jameswyman3973 pretty much facts, just a matter of time. That's why you don't let your girl advertise herself on social media or talk to other men, because hypergamy is never really satisfied. Woman need protection from themselves.

[@drakelessner3981]

@@jameswyman3973 And i do agree with you. That likelyhood is always in the back of my mind keeping me from acting out of line. At the end of the day i wake up with my mission as the first thing on my mind. She’s a great girl but i’ll never ask someone to stay again

[@nobodi2840]

If she is a real keeper then why you get married

[@FreedomRider-id6yv]

Keep her your GF and don’t marry her, they change at that point

[@nitramfox2511]

She said it perfectly 👍

[@markovujinovic3110]

Sister just spitting facts.

[@TheJustReyes]

100% correct. Women think big lips long nails and plastic surgery will get the guy but honestly, that doesn’t do it. The Kardashians are garbage

[@stevemcniel9515]

Women do that shit to impress other women

[@ak-47intelligence75]

And yet, you idolize them 😂

[@balanced4harvest552]

The Khartrashians

[@VoniLive]

@@ak-47intelligence75woman do i don’t see any men doing that lol

[@glennday7802]

The K's have never met a Tyrone whose hose they didn't want to pull a vacuum. Vile 304s.

[@kenadams3419]

As a man, I couldn't have said it better myself.

[@alanbeniston1304]

Wow. What a lovely, beautiful thing to say. But so true in my mind. Nobody is perfect, but you have put a smile on my face. Bless you.

[@latoshamitchell3760]

They don't all want the same thing. Some don't appreciate a nice, sweet, supportive girl.

[@ManieElias]

Married 52 years, happily, my husband never worried about my weight. It’s, love, trust, understanding, passion. ❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏

[@stephenkasamu7996]

"don't be fat, like go to the gym",well said.

[@kresivarivkah612]

Very.

[@heidikeller50]

He better, like go to the gym, too. 😂

[@aaroncruze4638]

Exactly. I need to know thar I can carry you out of a burning house. If I can't, that means I need to do more push-ups, or you are just too heavy.

[@jr.solaris253]

@@heidikeller50She’s specifically talking about what men want in a woman.

[@Thealabsi]

Agree,, but only an all-women gym. Otherwise I'll buy her tools to gym at home

[@Vincent-en8kp]

She is Beautiful on many levels...marriage material. ❤

[@Fernando-vb9ti]

Exactly …. Not someone that will go to family when they’re sick and be gone 2..4..days

[@pyroglyphic1]

She's absolutely right. Just treat us well. We'll give you the world. It's not that complicated. Be kind to us and you become more beautiful each day.

[@blueseptember2174]

Aw, I did that. He treated me terrible after trapping me of course. Maybe next time I'll meet someone better.

[@rukshanaali4958]

Same here I give the world to my husband but he still shouts and swears at me I wish I cud meet someone who deserves me

[@anosvoldigoad8817]

She needs to be protected

[@martinloss4171]

From what? 😅😅😅 The T-Rex?

[@anosvoldigoad8817]

​@@martinloss4171, from the feminist, they will corrupt her

[@martinloss4171]

@@anosvoldigoad8817 Oh, I see. Because they do mind control. All these alpha male advocates and hardcore feminists are the same. They are all in the out-of-reality bubble. Look what she is saying: "House should be clean and food should be on the table." That girl is delusional af. She obbiously looks like someone who would work 8 hours, come home, clean the house, cook the meal .... NOT. That is out of reality. Most families need both salaries and I'm pretty sure that most women love cleaning/cooking as much as men. In the end of the day both should clean the house and cook the meal. If not men will end like the current old generation who can't even make a damn soup.

[@annielorson6720]

😂

[@PowerofRock24]

@@anosvoldigoad8817 A feminist T-rex? Short arms, small brain, very loud, smells like a reptile, probably scavenging from someone else's work, septum piercings. Are feminists T-rex??

[@user-xt2mt6xk1g]

She right that what life is All about

[@markpearcey-ph5nh]

So very true and most men would do anything for a woman like that.

[@garyfbell4446]

Your are 100 percent CORRECT💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥🙌👌

[@captainhybrid4045]

Peace is a good start, but support, honesty, empathy, and humour helps.

[@riddler3856]

47 years 7 months . And so far this is the best life for us. 3 kids, 4 grandkids . We love ❤️ and support each other. We're both retired now, still have each other. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Leon-Servant-of-Christ]

But then why are you on here? Shut off the tablet and go read a book, spend time with your family or get closer to Almighty YAHWEH(this is my favorite) and may HE bless you.

[@DonaldDump2024]

Congratulations on a beautiful life.

[@jamesz80]

A very fortunate life

[@adrianace1725]

When I was young I would have said yes but the older I get not so much. Learnt to find my inner peace and embrace the single lifestyle! 😎

[@ilikeknafs9563]

Guys we all want this . But that harsh reality is we have to become the guy that deserves it

[@hiddencabbage559]

We don't inherently deserve peace?

[@ChilleDINJerseY]

No I think a harsher reality is that when you become the man who deserves it; you STILL may not be able to find this

[@g.s.632]

Exactly.

[@danielsparrow3767]

Plenty of guys deserve this. But then he isn't over 6ft tall or he doesn't make 7 figures a year or he's not a super model or any other reason for a women to move the goal post And that's fine. Men should open cat businesses. In 20 years they all gonna be booming

[@kellyemo9491]

Your not smart are you. You can see what happens around you.

[@The_Liquidator]

She is totally right and additional Loyalty and respect!

[@ridgebriar17]

Too many times all that kindness loyalty and support .... is only going in ONE direction. Ask how many kids would tell you that their parents broke up because their "DAD" was angry and abusive and violent ... compared to their mom. Look at the percentage of inmates that are Male and compared to Women, how many commit violent crimes, how many have physically abused their spouse ....and how many have "cheated" repeatedly on their spouse. Yep .. those "wonderful" husbands aren't looking too good - when you look at the data.

[@The_Liquidator]

I am not one of that so called data. You think men are all like that huh? It’s a sign of weakness if you are abusive against women.

[@GalacticCatMeowMeow]

The evil got a lot of wife from us that is so sad to see we must to go back to God a he will help to us

[@stevep5408]

I hate to admit how simple men really are but they really are!

[@Eric-ep9rd]

This woman has figured it out. And she's way younger than many women who still think men are difficult

[@overlord8152]

She's 100% right!!!

[@furfekkia93]

No, she is not

[@MusicLovingCritic]

@@furfekkia93you must not be a man then

[@evanblu3295]

Usually, when anyone says all "men or women are the same" they're about to speak some bs. But she nailed it right on the head 👍

[@davespears2241]

Your completely correct most of us men just want that.

[@Kerry-zk3jk]

She said clean house and food on the table. That knocked out 95 percent right there.

[@ajcassataofficial]

hahaha, in america, for sure. I live in Asia, my wife is vietnamese, and its a different world

[@Kerry-zk3jk]

@@ajcassataofficial yeah in America. These women are worthless lol

[@hopegota2658]

She acts like men don't appreciate it

[@Gunter_Custom]

Maybe 99.9% 😂

[@maddiem-sg4vi]

Ya this statement left a ? in my mind.

[@user-mf4pu7sz8r]

As a woman, I want the same thing too. A nice supportive man.

[@amandacrown7307]

And a clean house with food on the table when I get in lol

[@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206]

It's not the same

[@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206]

​@Infimathy It's not the same though

[@vasile.brinzan]

First you have to be that kind of woman.

[@GriefStrickenLycan]

Modern female$ want that Plus a list of about 100 other absurd unrealistic expectation$ from men.. its no wonder the suiicde rate, drug-addiction & homelessness is almost 90% males. More men are giving up on this lifetime when they wake up to the realization that women don't truly love men for whom they are or unconditionally. Just for what they provide & how men can serve & benefit women. Everything is rigged, esp in good ol' merica

[@busydem6161]

Fit , Feminine, and Friendly

[@crouchingwombathiddenquoll5641]

This girl is a genius 😮

[@Veggiematic]

It's true. A lot of the times being single also means that you have an idea of the peace you want, but you want someone to share it with.

[@bengeldenhuys7894]

i whole heartedly agree with "He wants to go home and know that there is peace" I don't need the lust I don't need the romance I don't need the chores done.. I want someone in my life where we both can make eachother smile even after a difficult day

[@tspoter]

It's called a friend.

[@kjshow4173]

Amen.

[@draganminic4928]

But you do need lust and romance. So does she.

[@Uknowjusticemill]

​@@draganminic4928 She might, but not all men need those things.

[@emaneasler]

I think this it pretty good however I disagree with all men are the same because we’re not.

[@Hash-xq2ir]

Its so simple man... 100 percent true.

[@k0001tr]

Yeah, men needs a supportive and caring women that's a natural thing. Understanding each other is need for a good relationship.

[@mosheglick295]

She definitely has the right idea!. Which makes me wonder why do so many women have a completely wrong understanding of us?

[@rokzane]

Or, maybe we do understand, but what we rebel against is the inability to compromise? A marriage isn't just about the man and what he wants. You get back what you give out to the world.

[@Derpeh150]

​To be fair the younger you are you tend to mistake loud and arrogant for being capable, mistake lust for love and then flock to the red flags. All generations before did as well just that most wisen up alot earlier where as today you have social media egging on that lifestyle. ​@@rokzanethe newer generation (for the most part from what I can see) definitely doesn't understand and is definitely more into living life to the fullest without understanding sacrifice for both male and female for that matter. If a male wants a high value wife then they also need to be a high value man. Women with those qualities would have most likely many men who are interested and would not settle this applies vice versa.

[@truerosie]

Could be because that is a very boring life for a woman.

[@truerosie]

Could be because that is a very boring life for a woman. What about what she wants? It's a 2 way street.

[@Derpeh150]

@@truerosie Not agreeing or disagreeing with you but I find that a very large percentage of women who enter the workforce after couple of years trend down the road of want to start a family. Their job then becomes the lower priority when their kids enter the picture. Most jobs (that pay decently) have a high level of stress and take up a lot of time. If you've worked for even a year or two think about it logically, when given the option most people would much prefer staying home when the alternative is slaving away at a job. Those who are willing to slave away for the next 30-40 years of their life with a 2 week break a year so that their significant other doesn't is admirable imo.

[@davidh7799]

This woman is a genius, definitely a step above all others around her. Women make us simple men complicated.

[@bigjon9596]

Shes right!