All The Rage - why dressing up helps us speak out | Lucy Clayton | TEDxExeter

[@serenamarz3739]

Anyone else hate it when you dress up and someone goes " oh who did you dress up for? " boi I dressed up for myself.

[@nairocamilo]

Everyone asks me if I'm having a date whenever I dress the way I like. My answer always is "yes, and you know who it is."

[@Sqlut]

In psychology and communication it triggers the feeling of double constraint. It's what stops people the most into doing new (and usually good) things, because if they do new things, they might break the homeostasis of how things go in their familly/friend circle. It blocks people from dressing up, it even blocks alcoholics from stopping drinking. Better explained in Pragmatics of Human Communication by Paul Watzlawick, Janet Beavin Bavelas and Donald deAvila Jackson. Very good blook.

[@nairocamilo]

@@Sqlut thank you very much for the read recommendation! Will check it out

[@Sqlut]

@@nairocamilo you're welcome, but it's not the most entertaining book if you are not fond of communication tho ;)

[@KriegerT]

i asked my female colleague the same thing and being the blunt german that she is, she just said: i just felt like it. i was so impressed by that, that the next day i put on a nice dress shirt, dress pants and jacket and went to work like that. of course someone asked me why i would dress up. i also answered "meh, i just felt like it". we are the only 2 colleagues dressing up 3 or 4 times a week for work and no one asks us anymore. it does so much for your confidence! after work it is crazy how authoritative you seem to look and how people react to you with respect in the supermarket etc.

[@Jenkkimie]

I admire the courage of her. I've never really been into costumes, acting, fashion or any of the sort. I admire her for wanting to be seen and having that confidence. I often hide myself from the public to hide my deepest and darkest secrets under a veil, under an act, a display of my own kind but not of courage, out of fear.

[@robwelch1229]

I loved this talk. Lucy has the power to take you for a walk somewhere you didn’t expect to go. She’s totally brilliant.

[@wandalee5010]

Why do we grow out of everything truly fun in life?

[@rrandlerouge]

What a cracking talk. Brilliant presenter and such an intelligent and joyous take on the role of fancy dress. Really love seeing this kind of content from Ted.

[@sewalidoloi]

To the 1% of you looking at this . . . Hope you have an amazing day! 😄

[@lydiaz8189]

Thank you, you too💕

[@00ooo000o]

. . . . . i’m having a terrible day :)

[@lydiaz8189]

@@00ooo000o why what is going on?

[@RedAndTheCompany567]

👍👍👍👍👍 I make an effort to dress up more now and it's almost like I offend ppl......OMGGG Why??? Look don't project your issues upon me ok. You had those issues before me anyway💯

[@The_Dapper_Millennial]

Because people don't like for someone to look well when they don't. It makes them uncomfortable.

[@yasminesharifian3964]

@@The_Dapper_Millennial never even thought about that, we are such a selfish species...

[@The_Dapper_Millennial]

@@yasminesharifian3964 yes, the human race is naturally selfish

[@joeldwest]

@@yasminesharifian3964 especially since capitalism and it's selfish greed has gone unfettered

[@Jenkkimie]

In my middle-school years over 10-years ago I still remember this one girl who always dressed up a bit like a doll. I remember thinking she was a weirdo and I am not proud of my preconceived bias. Since then I've grown up to believe that it is really none of my business what someone wants to dress like for example. I think whatever makes you happy, as long as it is legal, go for it and do not let other peoples opinion of you define your reality.

[@yasminesharifian3964]

I'd dress up every day, but I couldn't handle all the strangers talking to me, I'm too introverted. Loved the video though :)

[@folatooreal8582]

Yasmine Sharifian introvert doesn’t mean unconfident

[@yasminesharifian3964]

@@folatooreal8582 no, it means you get drained from socialising

[@folatooreal8582]

Yasmine Sharifian I know so we agree

[@yasminesharifian3964]

@@folatooreal8582 I just don't know where you got unconfident from 😂

[@greaterfleshmachine]

I just smile and thank them and be on my way! it takes practice. I am so very introverted.

[@tisviv]

Fascinating talk by a brilliant presenter. A great, insightful TED contributor.

[@lydiaz8189]

I loved this talk and the outfit was awsome

[@karengalvez5279]

Lydia Z música de mNiño

[@karengalvez5279]

Música de niños

[@stevelarouche1780]

Paint your shell for what represents the content...the communicating Truth of your Core...cast your Light on our Planet...our World...our Home. Great talk girl, thank you. It's time. 💫⚡💞🌎💞⚡💫

[@wildones9339]

When I dress up..I show up for myself..

[@AmandineYlan]

Thank you! This is a very interesting talk

[@barbaragatteschi7282]

Why don't these videos have italian subtitles? Please, put them.

[@colourswift]

So beautiful

[@edanurbocek]

Altyazı olsa keşke

[@aylbdrmadison1051]

Bu talihsiz bir dil için altyazı yoktur. :(

[@ThatGuy-yk1ey]

These people saying great video before you even have enough time to finish watching it.

[@DonnyBrav]

Maybe they adjusted the playback speed?!

[@ThatGuy-yk1ey]

Donny Brav I thought that but these people were saying it a minute after the vid came out.

[@joeldwest]

@John G and you are so high and mighty...you just want to put women down, lame insecure Dusty man

[@aylbdrmadison1051]

Yea, the lame and insecure part is almost too obvious to bother pointing out. But _"Dusty",_ that just tickles me to no end for some reason, lols.

[@Jenkkimie]

What is a dress really? Is the clothing we wear daily any less of a dress? No. So then why should any other dress be out of the question?

[@upgrade1583]

Who gets rage about dressing up ? News to me

[@joeldwest]

It is a colloquial expression Dumbo

[@shahansindhi8141]

You are an amazing woman

[@7thequest]

Why take down my complimentary posts? ):

Maybe they haven't been taken down, they just disappeared in the middle of the comments pool. That happens quite often.

[@aylbdrmadison1051]

Did you search through literally *all* of the comments? They often get bumped back. Sometimes youtube has buggy issues as well.

[@amadeaeverman6913]

so if i dress up as Spiderman, i can pretend like im half spider.... sounds good to me! - - - have a good day my peeps😁😄😝

[@aroyalaustralian]

Interesting, though hard data answering the question of how effective some of these 'activist costumes' were/are remains unanswered.

[@dh.maitrijit4462]

Thank you so much ... 🌹🌹🌹

[@EvilEves1]

Very well done. I too love to make a statement with my clothes, in the 90’s it was the saying shirts to today doing fun runs dressed as super hero’s for dads rights.... ❤️

[@minihoney13]

Beautiful skirt and blouse on Lucy, she's so lucky not to be an apple shape 😁👍

[@angrytedtalks]

I should start wearing clothes. Nice outfit by the way, a very good looking lady.

[@blessingsungai3472]

She is kool ...

[@sevgi828]

Bir gün o sahneye çıkabilmek dileğiyle

[@Rien--]

most interesting video ever

[@SunriseFireberry]

Remainers, those anti- global warming and 'anti-re-elect Trump in '20' types better ramp up their fancy dress then.

[@crazylife1098]

What's wrong with TEDx ?

[@Sqlut]

1985 dystopia?!

_The Handmaid's Tale_ has been written in 1985, hence the 1985's dystopia reference.

[@abesleistigal2819]

Ses ver türkiye🇹🇷

[@abesleistigal2819]

Ses yok yanlış yermiş🤣

[@abesleistigal2819]

CcC türkler gidiyor

[@sevgi828]

@@abesleistigal2819 burdayız fghhvf

[@joeywd2885]

Really??

[@Test7017]

The most Autistic TED TALK EVER

[@joeldwest]

And you are another Dusty man

[@Test7017]

@@joeldwest 👍

[@Test7017]

@@Jenkkimie it's like saying how a sunny day is better than a cloudy day. 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@Jenkkimie]

@@Test7017 That's not Autistic, only subjective. That I can grant.