All the RED FLAGS in Nia Long & Ime Udoka's Relationship 🚩

[@yetundepink]

We need to stop acting like some women are more worthy than others. No woman deserves to be cheated on. Whether she’s deemed as attractive by society or not.

[@ReRe_642]

Exactly it does not matter.

[@nicolet8652]

I truly believe it's says everything about the cheater not the one cheated on.

[@sunshinelove6802]

Facts

[@CodyCole80]

Right! 💯 And I’m not putting Nia down, but I don’t see her as this goddess, queen to look up to the way everyone else does. I’ve known for a while that she doesn’t have good morals and values behind the screen. Probably why this guy never took her serious. I remember she and Chris Rock being interviewed on a tv show, and she joked about how Chris gave her the wrong number after a date, but his reason was because of her tacky disposition. He asked if she was seeing someone, and her response was “No,” but I know where to get some good “D” when I need it. 🙄 What woman tells a man that on a first date? 🤨 STUPID!!! I didn’t like her disregard of matrimony before kids in a magazine either . Like complete, fulfilled families shouldn’t matter for Hebrew Children. 😒

[@dezinechic]

look in this shytty meriCON society being an attractive woman is thought of as an armour if you will.......to everything in life. like most simple ppl will say "omg i cant believe that happened to her.....b/c shes go attractive/hot/good looking/fine". so wait things cant(or more like shouldnt)happen to a woman just b/c shes attractive? extremely weird thinking!

[@Leonaza7]

Let's be honest here she's been "engaged" for 10 years. That's a red flag in itself. Nia, Halle, and Beyoncé got cheated on like Lisa, Crystal,and Tammy none of us are above it! I'm sorry for her embarrassment but I doubt this is a total shock. How he trashes his career behind a broad and he has only been there a few months is equally disturbing! That's why I hate that "relationship goals" crap! You have no idea what goes on with people! Stop making strangers your "goals

[@binkyfaith]

Thank you cause none of these couples are goals…. And most stay due to money and etc… not our business😒🤷🏿‍♀️

[@MsTanisha2009]

Thank you!!!

[@wflive21]

I fully agree a lot of us need to focus on ourself and not put anyone on a pedestal

[@BeautifulDreamerK]

Amen. I used to put will & jada as “relationship goals” and put them on my manifestation board. Now I realize “relationship goals” is not a good phrase. I think most of us would like to have our relationships at peace and contentment, no relationship is perfect but I now strive for just “we’re okay, we’re good” because we’re all trying to survive and keep it good everyday, especially women with being a wife, mom, career woman, sister, friend, while taking care of ourselves

[@pettybee3860]

I just don't get the whole thing about them getting engaged in the first place if they BOTH didn't believe in marriage. That's weird

[@salmaal-shaoily5809]

Cheating on someone is a character issue, not indicative of flaws within the person being cheated on. That's is all.

[@rrg]

facts

[@h.peters]

That

[@OHoneyPot]

This‼️

[@Lexx1192]

I _really_ wish people would get this!!!

[@tmcurly]

Yup I keep seeing stuff like if Beyoncé and Nia long get cheated on blah blah even the most beautiful and talented women ther Va*inas are not good enough and get cheated on. Stupid comments like this. Nope nothing to do with the women….😛🧐

[@Tamisha7]

The fact that he apologized to his family last is also red flag for me.

[@rrg]

👀

[@theadvancedforce1017]

If this coach was a caucassion man the media wouldn't even be talking about this. Brett and Robert sarver don't get the same energy. It's popular to only drag brothas. What he did was wrong but still keep the same energy. Otherwise it will seems like many girls are on board with protecting actual racists like robert sarver.

[@wadilotus]

Thank you!

[@miracle4_019]

Omg I thought that too but it’s good to see I wasn’t the only one who thought that lol

[@charlenemckinney7858]

EXACTLY!!!!

[@sojournerwatkins2964]

People can notice red flags in other’s relationships, but not their own.

[@phyllisfoster6589]

That's true in some situations, but I think she knew.

[@banyana6515]

Their

[@lasonia2]

FACTS!!!

[@shannilove2801]

U right

[@Tamisha7]

That part

[@daniellevaughn4598]

I don't believe that marriage is a necessity, but if you believe in marriage, and are engaged for 5+ years, that seems like a red flag.

[@MrHammer2088]

She did a 2020 podcast that she don't care for marriage - I'm surprised RRG never mentioned that It sounded like she was the one who was against it and is why the engagement went on for so long

[@oliverphippen1957]

Sounds like a community thing ?????

[@titanjake8640]

I agree with you. It is on 📜. now financially yes it is a plus but if you both are exactly on the same page and have guidelines you are good. These days in times ya know?

[@Heyu7her3]

Yeah that was on both of them

[@narcissisticabusechronicle6586]

@@MrHammer2088 Sometimes women in her position say things like that because they're embarrassed that their man hasn't fully committed to making it official.

[@CaressLorthaya]

He had been cheating for YEARS. This doesn't happen overnight

[@jdfodio]

Right. By the time a cheater is exposed, GOD is tired of them and started assisting in the exposure. 👀💡😂 Ephesians 5:10-16 Try to find out what is pleasing to the Lord. Take no part in the worthless deeds of evil and darkness; instead, rebuke and expose them. It is shameful even to talk about the things that ungodly people do in secret. But when the light shines on them, it becomes clear how evil these things are. And where your light shines, it will expose their evil deeds. This is why it is said, "Awake, O sleeper, rise up from the dead, and Christ will give you light." So be careful how you live, not as fools but as those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity for doing good in these evil days.

[@thomasvivian8400]

And she knows it!

[@MJBABYPHAT]

they lived apart their whole entire relationship if to even call it that. Left her to raise his son by herself basically and she accepted that too.

[@stevewoodson4635]

Original King David

[@CaressLorthaya]

@@stevewoodson4635 EXACTLY 💯

[@Vesta0831]

It’s always interesting to me when people can commit to kids but do not want to commit to marriage.

[@jayscribe7547]

cuz relationships are harder

[@willdiesel8431]

It's dumb but the rationale is a legacy is left behind.

[@Meo9131]

Facts

[@sixfigurebosschick538]

He didn’t commit, he got her pregnant and literally left her and the child. He doesn’t care about her or the child. This is why you don’t date men who don’t have their stuff together. They will forever be chasing that as they should

[@MPPG663]

Make it make sense.

[@NoBadEnegry]

Growing up I would see the pain my mother dealt with by getting disrespected by my dad, and I always said to myself that I wouldn’t do this to anyone that I said , I loved. I rather say I’m done then lie to you and disrespect you . Anyone who cheats your actions affect the people around you too ,not just the person who you cheated on .

[@eboni257]

I said the same thing once... but things happen 😒

[@princellasmith7562]

Thank you! I wish men understood this. They love to say: "That's my business." However, the problem with that is that when you do dishonest actions, there is a ripple effect on others. Men never think of this at the time, but after they're caught, they're begging, pleading, and apologizing to the wife/girlfriend/significant other to keep them. What's sad about this is that 1.) if Ime and that lady hadn't been caught on that doorbell camera by that lady's husband, he'd still be cheating. 2.) Ime had a prominent role as a young black coach which has not been easy for black men to attain. He was at one of the most prominent storied franchises in the NBA in one of the most powerful cities in the world, and he has now thrown it away because of all the women in Boston, he chose to have affairs with women within the organization where he work--one of which is MARRIED TO AN EXECUTIVE. Just so, so, so, reckless! I doubt he gets his job back. Just sad. Players and commentators have fought and fought for more black coaches, and Ime does this. Ugh.

[@michelleflowers7345]

He let the public down but he really let his kids down! I really feel sorry for them the most. I know Nia is embarrassed and hurt but the kids are devastated by his behaviors. He is supposed to be an example to two young men in his life. They look up to him, love him, and respect him. They are exposed to this mess and find out that he doesn't respect himself, his life, his job, his significant other, or his children. He lost everyone's respect and his own money for extra sex. Because if he wanted sex that bad it was a plane ride away. I don't follow basketball and I feel disappointed in his behavior knowing that there are very few head black coaches and he has made it 10 times harder for the next one all due to sex and being greedy about sex. Just a fool hanging with them and thinking that he could do as they do and forgetting that we always take the punishment in situations.

[@jennypotts2008]

Amen brother ❤🙏🏾

[@WheresTheVodka]

*useD to

[@sigmalady07]

She not the only one to ignore red flags, she just happens to be in the spotlight

[@Bikinbottommunch]

Most women ignore red flags that’s why 80% are single mothers while 60% are working full time also! There’s tons of people with multiple kids by the same person and that person wasn’t doing shit with the first kid but their dumbass either kept getting pregnant or kept impregnating people! I guarantee there’s not one person in a shitty relationship who wasn’t warned repeatedly….yet nobody listen so enjoy the consequences

[@ladylady7848]

Facts

[@ladylady7848]

Sometimes the red flag be so bright that is impossible to miss! I went out with a friend and she brought this guy that she been seeing for 7 months at the time. He also came with his cousin. We all hung out at a bar He started complimenting me, and then kept discussing me. It got worse and he started grabbing on me and trying to touch me. TF? Basically harassing me in her face. And she still continued to mess with dude after that happened. I wasn't just mad at him, I was salty at her too

[@prophetess_cb5941]

Absolutely

[@pipedreamism1]

She had no choice her industry ran thru her so no one was going to wife her

[@thatgirlPAIGE94]

I’ll never forget “meeting” Nia Long at a KINGS games many years ago. She was extremely kind and waved when I yelled “OMG hi Nia Long!!” Lol

[@beckygoldblack2049]

Funny I met her twice, once at Fox Hills Mall and again at House of Blues. You’re right, she is very nice.

[@willdiesel8431]

That's a nice story. God bless you. I would've been a groupie.

[@jessisrael535]

Met her & had lunch in New Orleans. It was a great 3 hours. She is really a kind soul. 💞

[@Leonaza7]

I think Ime Udoka and Adam Levine were having a competition of who could embarrass their woman the worse this week.

[@Mfitz90]

Adam won😵😵😵his wife is currently pregnant

[@Renee_nf094e]

@@Mfitz90 ANDDD he wants to give his child the same name as the woman.

[@SagRising19]

@@Mfitz90 oh wow! I didn't know she was pregnant.

[@Mfitz90]

@@Renee_nf094e whew chile it don't get messier than that 😵

[@Mfitz90]

@@SagRising19 yup with their third Child!

[@kenandy2608]

If she doesn’t care for marriage why even accept an engagement ring? The next step would obviously be marriage.

[@rrg]

Interesting, ain't it?

[@kenandy2608]

@@rrg us women sometimes do anything to accommodate our men. She knows he’s not the settle down/marriage type but she wants to be with him so she’s not pushing it. Not worth it 👎🏽

[@MsBadBody]

@@kenandy2608 Fax

[@oliverphippen1957]

She has done nothing wrong ???

[@pettybee3860]

That's the same thing I said

[@camecex]

Those weren't just red flags it was a towering inferno.

[@rrg]

Dang 🔥

[@alabamabornball9957]

Right😂😂

[@iamcarita]

😂😂😂😂

[@Rickys_working]

Dam lol

[@alexisedwards4796]

🤣 🤣 right!

[@madamtbutterfly]

The Red Flags 🚩 are on point, loved the commentary.

[@cadillacdeville5828]

I genuinely don't understand why she has been engaged for 10+ years? 👀👀👀. She could've dated other types of men and been married , however what she decided to do and stay is her choice. No matter how baffling it is us or others. Those aren't red flags, those are just huge flames.

[@SagRising19]

That part^^^ It's the 10 year engagement for me.

[@syria0110]

I thought they got engaged in 2015

[@Creole164]

That was apparently her choice to not marry.

[@rrg]

@@syria0110 They did ❤

[@cadillacdeville5828]

@@syria0110 I was rounding up 🤣🤣

[@ptrco5]

It’s such a shame that this has happened. Whatever Nia decides, I wish her and the family the best ❤

[@barbarahenderson8496]

Who? In hell stay engage two years let long 10. Looks has nothing to do with cheating they'll tell you I don't like skinny or fat women dark or light. Even blind _cripple_ maybe crazy when caught that's who you catch him or her with. Women cheat like crazy!!!

[@MJBABYPHAT]

The fact he thanked his Family Last..dead last says alot!!! Their relationship was living apart basically so you know he had numerous women or girlfriends everysince not just now.

[@cindyc12]

Though I feel for her, there's a saying "If your not married, your single".... 🤷

[@michellegriffin9604]

One of my mother's favorite sayings lol..

[@Ash2beauty]

@@michellegriffin9604 and if you’re single, you’re free game I’ve heard lol.

[@Lola_Loren]

And there it is, simple and plain!!!!!

[@dianneturner7026]

Even Tho You Can Be Married and Still Single Because of Lack of Love, Morals, Committment...Etc. Marriage doesnt make it lasts...People With Love, Morals, Respect for God, Self and Others, Dedication and Loyalty Towards Each Other Makes The Union as One Lasts!!!

[@deebar5218]

True

[@mspishposh]

Unfortunately, Nia was out here ignoring the red flags. Beauty does not equate to self-esteem/ self-worth. As women, we need to be more serious about who we're creating families with because these types of men are embarrassing! My father always told me if I can't picture him being a good husband or father, don't even take a man seriously. Like, my guy really thought... "my kid is 2 months let me leave him"... *cheats* on Nia long... just bad decision-making all around.

[@aGwEENapple]

Yeah he said because his son wasn't doing a lot. Sounds like a very caring father huh?

[@tlm3646]

Who even said beauty equates to self esteem or self worth? Nobody 🙄

[@godlove5912]

Very fortunate that you have a father active in your life to give you great advice.

[@AS-wj1du]

@@tlm3646 People do sometimes and beauty is also subjective

[@withneymcknight212]

Well said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@me_not_me]

Ladies please don't have kids with these men....Issa trap🥴🤦🏽‍♀️

[@johnjovanovichwick4194]

“Ladies” damn who raised y’all “ladies” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@marriejames01]

@Mrs. Accountability oh please. A lot of “men” impregnate women to “humble” them and keep them trapped. Now she’s not so appealing with another man’s child. In the end Nia is another baby mama who happens to be a celebrity.

[@Ash2beauty]

@@johnjovanovichwick4194 probably had no daddy which is pretty common wouldn’t you say???☺️

[@CodyCole80]

I actually think she got pregnant intentionally to trap him. He’s been “tolerating” her every since. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@1990BornBaby]

@@marriejames01 a woman knows what she is doing when she has unprotected sex with someone who hasn’t committed to her . Both parents are EQUALLY responsible for the outcome of the relationship and the results of the decisions they make!

[@kiishasmith5460]

I feel sorry for the son. I find it interesting when people say they don't want to get married but they want the benefits of marriage ( i.e. solid commitment, living together as a family unit, raising children together). Playing house never ends up well. Love yourself enough to set a standard based on a solid relationship on principles or your foundation will be built on sinking sand. The children suffer the most when adults fail to consider the residual effects of their behaviors and choices.

[@godsfavorite616]

Sis u said a word, ok🤔

[@michelleflowers7345]

I can only agree with part of your comment. You can be a good parent and have principles to stand on without being married. Another of people are married and unhappy as hell. Their kids know it because it shows in everything they do. So marriage is not the solve all our problems key to life. Married people cheat too alot.

[@barbeegirl7196]

I couldn't have said it better myself...You summed it up perfectly..

[@lql1094]

But neither of them wanted to live together and Nia accepted single parenthood with their child, so. And long distance relationships DON'T WORK, so we can strike commitment too.

[@goldenblue3865]

Yea yea… But marriages are NOT guaranteed …Hence Divorce Court 🙃✨🙃

[@lesleys9414]

I hope Nia recovers from whatever it is she is feeling . It’s embarrassing for her to have her man’s personal business aired out for the public to hear. She seems like a beautiful person inside and out, who is low key and mind her business. It goes to show you, it doesn’t matter how beautiful you are or how much you try to do right in your relationship, you still can get cheated on.

[@sylviamcdaniel4590]

Right! Look at Beyonce. Look at Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis.

[@WheresTheVodka]

*mindS her business

[@lesleys9414]

@@WheresTheVodka Excuse my typo . Next time I will try to be perfect like you.🙄

[@WheresTheVodka]

@@lesleys9414 | No one is perfect 🥴; check your ego and welcome being corrected. 🤓

[@lesleys9414]

@@WheresTheVodka BYE BYE😒

[@wolfhernedez7739]

He's a Narc We need to come to terms with narcissistic relationships and how they operate. Not all cheaters are narcs, but all narcs are cheaters. They're selfish and will destroy your life by sabotaging their own. And keep you as a placeholder or marry you, while living separate double lives.

[@CC-si3cr]

Hmmm. . .what do you think a "narc" is bc you are not using it right. First you use it as a proper noun then you don't. I am confused on your definition bc I know it's not the same as mine or Webster's.

[@wolfhernedez7739]

@@CC-si3cr Narc = narcissist I'm using the correct term, it's just shortened. And focus more about learning the behavioral patterns rather than the spelling of the word 🙏🏼

[@wolfhernedez7739]

@@CC-si3cr naysayers = trolls Trolls make arguments JUST to argue, bc if you looked up the word you would've noticed I'm right but you just want attention. I even said their relationship is Narcissistic (aproper noun to the situation!)

[@Aioki.Germany]

@@wolfhernedez7739 that’s not what Narc means . You may have tried to shorten it and believe you are using it the correct way but you’re wrong . There is already a very Clear definition for Narc, as the other commenter tried to tell you. You seem to just write things and say it’s true. You can’t diagnose someone as a narcissist from a video. Seems you may also need to explore more of what narcissistic traits are and the clinical definition of how we define someone as being a narcissist. The internet catches on to buzz words and uses them incorrectly. Just like psychopath , using it and don’t know what they’re doing. If you were actually qualified and understood then you would know that you can’t diagnose or have a basis to diagnose as a narcissist. I won’t even address the “All narcissist are cheaters and vice versa”. Too silly to discuss.

[@mrsonpoint]

Not for ntn but Matt Barnes always in somebody’s business. Like his situation wasn’t on the 100 messy scale 😂😂😂

[@rrg]

For real 😭😭

[@ShayMac311]

Right?!😂

[@4.carmeljwn]

Forever fiance..smh. Ladies we have got to do better. It doesn't take a baby and 7 plus years for a dude to decide to make you his wife

[@kamieyonce]

In his defense he said he HAD to speak on it because he is apart of the media now (sports/culture podcast) 😩🤣

[@toragirl2189]

Word up!!!

[@cosmicbrownie333]

Women getting in relationships with athletes and expect them to be monogamous is laughable tbh. If you get in a relationship with a public figure, you can expect to be a part of a polyamorous or open relationship. Nia has been with that man for like 12 years and he's significantly younger than her. She knows how he is and industry men in general are. She probably accepted the infidelity, but more annoyed with him getting caught out there

[@Queenofsole100]

💯

[@shannilove2801]

He's embarrassing her basically

[@deestevens2883]

Prob so... Alot of athletes have proven this time after time 💯

[@cosmicbrownie333]

@@deestevens2883 I think she's more concerned about him messing with her image/brand more than the cheating. Cheating comes with the territory with certain lifestyles.

[@alb5801]

While I agree that athletes are notorious cheats, and age gap relationships rarely work out when the woman is significantly older their 6 years age difference is not a significant age gap.

[@Latasharamsel]

Udoka has been doing him from the start of that relationship. Nia was far from blindsided. She’s never in the middle of drama so it’s sad to see her get embarrassed like this.

[@PHlophe]

LaTasha, for all we know she has her own side piece. never believe what you see.

[@Latasharamsel]

@@PHlophe for her sake, I hope she did.

[@calvinwilliams9722]

@@PHlophe that’s so true.

[@michellekirkendall818]

@Latasha Ramsel: The story is not about Nia Long. The story is about Ime Udoka, talented head coach. In his debut, he brought a fledgling Boston Celtics to The Finals. This is about a man you had an affair with a married Celtics' staffer, who husband is also on the Celtics' payroll. This is about throwing away a great opportunity; a one-year suspension that ultimately leads to his firing! This is called greatness tarnished by stupidity. Nia Long doesn't have to grant an interview; she doesn't need to comment. The ball is in Udoka's court.

[@michellekirkendall818]

I meant:. This is about a man who had an affair with a Celtics' staffer....

[@nickoletcampbell4657]

His indiscretions are NOT Nias fault. I blame Nia for staying soooo long. She should have BEEN left that dusty. Too many red 🚩🚩🚩.

[@King_JappyJoe]

Let's be honest, it's not the Celtics responsibility to inform a wife that their husband is cheating.

[@rrg]

true

[@godlove5912]

A heads up would’ve been great!

[@peggyneal2927]

Based on that theory, its not their responsibility to get involved with who an employee dates. I'm not saying that's how I feel, but I'm saying if they won't tell a woman when her world is about to be rocked, then why are they involved at all?

[@mspennyisaac]

@@peggyneal2927 They should be involved if two of their employees are dating - especially if it’s happening on the DL and nobody knows about the relationship. Anything can happen... especially if the mistress is his subordinate; it could be flipped as an assault or harassment case, opening the organization up to lawsuits and bad press. Him cheating doesn’t affect their bottomline unless he’s cheating with another employee. He didn’t get suspended for cheating. He got suspended for breaking the rules in his contract by sleeping with an employee.

[@brendashacks7407]

He wasn't married

[@shuifeng1333]

He used her. But, she also settled for it. I don’t believe Nia was “blindsided”

[@CodyCole80]

I think they used each other.

[@shuifeng1333]

Exactly. So no surprise.

[@tigerkhanshort3053]

No one can use you without your permission.

[@asiahmajor]

It cracks me up when you say HOT STANKIN' mess lol 😂

[@rrg]

😂😂

[@pettybee3860]

Why's it stankin? 😩

[@ladylady7848]

@@pettybee3860 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@junkfoodvegan]

I like these red flag style videos. It helps us regular degular people.

[@christopherdieudonne]

Dear RRG Narrator, you narrated *the hell* outta that video. That was great. BRAVO !!

[@kyleking284]

WOW! I really feel for Nia as she has to deal with this BS, but Ime didn't only embarrass her, he embarrassed her sons as well! But Nia is strong and she will bounce back from this and raise her sons the best way she can! Thanks for another great video RRG🙏❤👍⭐

[@oliverphippen1957]

Another young male being brought up by the mother ?????

[@shon0032]

@@oliverphippen1957 The fathers are still living! Men make decisions not to be a part of their children’s lives. Not sure if you knew that.

[@sarahdavis1312]

Mia is a beautiful strong amazing Black Woman and I believe that like anything else God will see her through all of this hurt and disappointment from a man who didn’t know or understand Nia worth so maybe they can work it out or not but my girl will be alright believe that 😊❤ so let’s lift our sister up 🥰 love you Nia

[@Ash2beauty]

@@oliverphippen1957 yeah thanks to another scumbag man 👍🏾

[@Ilove2teach52]

She saw the flags! She just ignored them. Now here we are!

[@ashley2sweets]

Well I think that’s why she said marriage was not a priority 🤷🏽‍♀️… seems like a smart move to me

[@danavixen6274]

Key word: IGNORE Big facts!

[@kamieyonce]

@@ashley2sweets it could still end up bad, remember jhud and david never married and were forever fiancees too but that custody war got ugly😩

[@CK-yo7ub]

Women need to start knowing their worth and stop settling for liers and those who bring nothing to the table except their male anatomy.

[@MsBadBody]

Per usual

[@brianafranklin8164]

Insightful video. I wasn’t aware of their relationship history but you’re right there are red flags everywhere

[@cherrymoonproductionscmp3378]

RRG you're killing me "wait, did he say seasoned" 🤣🤣🤣 I'm very seasoned with salt, black pepper, garlic salt, onion powder, all-purpose seasoning...wait!! am I seasoning meat? 🤣🤣🤣

[@carbar3936]

Does seasoned mean he has here where she'll do/go along with whatever he says and wants? Such an odd term to use for his lady love.

[@ideefineme100]

That's some good meat!

[@robincain5287]

WE ALL BEEN THERE AS WOMEN ONE TIME OR ANOTHER.. PRAY FOR NIA AND HER FAMILY. LIVE AND LEARN.. THESE MAILES WILL EMBARRASS YOU.. CAUSE YOU TO BE A STATISTIC OR FIRST OR REPEAT OFFENDER. THE APOLOGY WAS LAME AND HE SAID FAMILY LAST.. SHE WILL DO WHAT SHE FEEL IS RIGHT.. IT WILL NOT BE EASY EITHER WAY. WE CAN NEVER GET TIME BACK BUT THERE IS A LESSON!

[@rishablessed4249]

❤

[@allartismental9319]

Yes, was waiting for your story telling!🙋🏽‍♀️🔥❤💎

[@rrg]

Hope you enjoyed it!

[@allartismental9319]

@@rrg But ofcourse, no question!

[@tmac7734]

New drinking game take a shot every time you see a red flag 🚩

[@pettybee3860]

Drunk as hell 🤣

[@therealmssparkle1729]

@@pettybee3860 Right!🤣😂😅

[@joshukaotasowie1864]

I think this isn’t his first time cheating, this is the first time it went public..which is an embarrassment. But I have a big feeling she’s gonna go back to him cause of history they have, hopefully she makes a good choice when she’s ready ❤️🙏🏾

[@lamargobrown5569]

Yup

[@shawtyizanadult]

I feel like being engaged for so long is a red flag. They’re probably comfortable being engaged but don’t want to get married.

[@CC-si3cr]

Basically. Can anyone name a couple that had a long engagement that resulted in a long marriage? Jennifer Hudson stayed engaged for nearly 10 years before breaking up with her baby daddy. Singer Miguel's 11 year relationship outlasted his marriage and divorce. We all saw how Olivia Wilde & Jason Sudeikis went down! They were together for 10 years. Engaged for 7 after having 2 kids together. 🙄A mess!

[@sylviamcdaniel4590]

Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?

[@tonimckinley5260]

Yup 🤣 my husband proposed to me after only 7 weeks. I initially said no, for all the obvious reasons. But 14 months later we were married. Going on 30 years now. When a man knows, he knows.

[@shana_mcd]

@@CC-si3cr Miguel and his wife reconciled, but I agree

[@chocolatethundercherry143]

Some Scorpio women will ignore the warning signs & red flags for as long as they can !!!!! Her and Gabrielle union take long suffering to a whole new level !!!! Prayers to the children !!!!

[@lionsheart1582]

When the story about him cheating came out, I saw a lot of comments about how nia has a difficult personality, that she's mean and that's why he cheated on her. But this don't justify his actions, he made the decision to cheat on her, that's not her fault at all. If he wasn't happy anymore, why didn't he end the relationship? he knew very well that this story was gonna come out one day. I hope she leaves him and get the support that she needs.

[@oliverphippen1957]

Why are you protecting the cheating brother ??????

[@phyllisfoster6589]

It's bizarre how those same people who "blame" Nia for his cheating can't discern Ime Udoka 's lack of morality and integrity. Its not as though he met some random woman in a bar and hooked up with her...he chose another man's wife who just happened to be married to a yt Sr. V.P. within the organization that he coaches for. You'll find a lot of "idiots" like Ime Udoka in the comments section on these KZbin platforms attempting to defend the indefensible.

[@mildredfierce999]

I met Nia at a MJB concert in the 90s. To say she was unnecessarily rude and dismissive is an understatement 😳 That said, nobody deserves to be cheated on. Just leave, don't cheat.

[@sjohnson4285]

😂😂😂 Nah , it’s more like Nia is a Scorpio and just NOT going to take shit off anyone and be a doormat lol. Plus , she always said that she didn’t believe in the institution of marriage and no court was going to control her assets. She said that at the time her net worth was 3x his. Can’t be mad that she didn’t want to be a Sherry Shepard etc💀🎯🎯🎯

[@phyllisfoster6589]

@@sjohnson4285 How can you make an assumption about someone's private life? Ime Udoka is the one who has made a total ass of himself and humiated his family and team, not Nia Long.

[@awomanwhoknows]

This is heartbreaking for Nia, her children, and if the rumors are true, the husband and family of the woman with whom he was involved. At the same time, I think people have to leave space for the reality that Nia knows exactly who she has been involved with for over 10 years. She knows his predilections and she was not naive about the way he lives his life when she's out of sight and out of mind. At some point, she has to begin prioritizing herself because he has certainly been prioritizing his and his needs. As far as the Celtics, they had absolutely no contractual relationship with her, so there was no obligation for them to tell her nada about what was happening. They probably trusted him to tell her to the truth but clearly, he pled the 5th. This is not my relationship so I'm not deeply invested in it, but if it was, there is no way on God's green earth this man would ever have any place in my bed again. His deception with her was ugly. As far as the other woman making travel arrangements, he knew she was making those arrangements as well! At the end of the day, your relationship is with your partner, not the third party! Your partner is accountable to you.

[@audrey2761]

This woman knows more about Nia,than Nia knows of her, f him,he's for the streets,no woman whose loyal should ever be treated this way,women are so messed up when it comes to self worth, never count someone else's BLESSINGS

[@VIdishaSpeaks3]

I truly believe they were in an open relationship…..especially in his mind & she just accepted it smdh…..

[@cassherrera4442]

He apologized to his family last, because he puts them last

[@rrg]

Damn

[@criminalmindsgirl2936]

My sister has been dating her boyfriend for 10 years. Whom she's known since the 3rd grade. She found out he was texting and talking to girls like 3 times or more. But because they have a son together. She doesn't want a "broken home". And she's very insecure about herself. They broke up for a few months and both moved on to dating other people. Now they're back together. And she pretty much knows that they're not gonna get married as they both are 30 years old. And he's not doing much with his life. These videos are pretty much an example of why these women needs to wake up and pay attention. You deserve better.

[@CodyCole80]

You need to pray that she comes out of that mindset. She’s still young enough to find someone that truly loves her.

[@criminalmindsgirl2936]

@@CodyCole80, exactly! And thank you!

[@AS-wj1du]

30 isn't too old to get married. Maybe one day she'll find someone who treats her how she wants. It can take time to leave that trap. BTW, she has no say if anything were to happen. She is not wife but baby mother. Wife trumps all. Sometimes you only realise that later

[@carbar3936]

Your siser seems to be stuck on "son's father" syndrome. She already has a broken home, because they aren't married and allowing her son to learn how a man treats a woman and his mom. Reality, daddy not doing much is a bad experience for the child as well. If she gets out of the lie "not a broken home" and what her son is learning from this relationship she can "maybe" get to movin'. Unfortunately your sister taught dude how to treat her & her poor son has to watch. SMH Unfortunately there's nothing the fam can do, she has to do it for herself or love her son enuffto have him not witness a disrespectful relationship. Because all the son will do 9/10 times is repeat daddy's move onto somebody else's daughter. SMH

[@dramaticroses94]

I mean....staying with a shitty baby daddy also falls within the "broken home" spectrum.

[@cole3495]

This was such a classy sip of tea, I love your approach, great video.

[@idellatah9685]

The problem here is these women don't know their worth!10 years engagement? It was to shut her up

[@MrHammer2088]

She didn't care for marriage- she did a 2020 podcast that spoke on it.. why didn't she travel and be with him on all his moves before Boston? Out of site out of mind! A man's loyalty is as good as his options.. P/S: no matter how beautiful a woman is - there's somebody somewhere sick of her shit..

[@CK-yo7ub]

I'm certain that he's been cheating the whole time. What red-blooded man - an athlete at that - do you know who will stay celebate when his woman doesn't live in the same country or state?!

[@pettybee3860]

@@MrHammer2088 but is she stupid? Why accept an engagement if you don't believe in marriage? Tf does that make any sense

[@yvonnemorten7776]

@@CK-yo7ub The Laker player Green was a virgin and stayed that way while playing for years until he married. He took a lot of flack from his peers and was eventually admired for his willpower. I can't recall the player or his wife right now but she went to every game, including the away games, and when possible stayed in the same room with him or the same hotel at the least! She said she knew and saw these groupies giving everything for these athletes! Her husband seemed ok with her doing this. Or so he said! 😗🙄🤣

[@michellemoore4585]

@@yvonnemorten7776 A.C. Green! I remember him. Yes , his wife was very present. She understood the life and didn’t play. He didn’t either that’s why he was perfectly fine with her traveling with him.

[@melvinmarshall2736]

This is a superb synopsis of the story! Kudos to you! Well done!

[@SoulVibr8tion]

I believe him wanting to leave her to go to different areas by himself was a red flag for sure. I don’t believe not wanting to be married is a red flag. Some people don’t need to even say the word marriage, let alone get in one. While I feel for Nia, she has to take some accountability. Sometimes we see red flags and choose to ignore them. I’ve done it, we’ve all done it. I hope they heal from this. I can’t even imagine how embarrassing this is for them.

[@awomanwhoknows]

He probably had her move to Boston as a hail Mary to try to get the Celtics to go light on him. I doubt she knew the game he was playing, but he certainly knew that making that sort of move might quell some of the concerns that people had about him continuing to sleep around. It's just chilling and heartbreaking that he couldn't just be honest with her.

[@carbar3936]

Said & thought the same. Got her to say they're working on it in case he stay w/ Boston or new Coach gig her staying suggests now she's w/ him he won't cheat again to the employer. He's full of it.

[@reneenay7006]

Y'all don't play around. I knew this was coming. 😄 Can y'all eventually do a video on Nia and Sommore? Surprisingly I've learned that many people don't know they're blood sisters.

[@rrg]

We discussed their childhood and upbringing in our other Nia Long video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mWS7cnetmsSsps0

[@reneenay7006]

@RealRealityGossip Oh wow. Y'all replied before I finish the video. 😅 My bad. I searched Sommore's name before making the comment and didn't see it. Didn't know it was mentioned in Nia's video. Ill check ot out. Thanks for all of your hard work.

[@rrg]

@@reneenay7006 ❤😘

[@ladycp2287]

Yea they don't put it out on front street much. Sommore said she preferred it that way. She didn't want to ride Nia coattail for her career

[@sxybbwms]

Their father was my English Teacher at Trenton High School

[@keithbell9348]

"So you two having been dating for quite some time now." Nia: "Yes we have" "News has it that you guys are engaged?: Nia: "Yes." "Congratulations! When is the big date?" Nia: "Date for what?" "Date for the wedding?" Nia: "Oh that. Well I don't believe in marriage. It's not in the cards for us" "Oh...ok..." You gotta have the midset of a hollyweird celebrity to make sense of that...

[@MPPG663]

She's cute, but stupid.

[@sherrimcfadden3142]

Love you Nia..we support you and pray for you and your family at this challenging time.

[@CarmeSanders]

Life is all about choices. Nia Long chose to stay in a long engagement hoping to reap the benefits of a “wife” without being married. She made the mistake by staying in long engagements exceeding over 12 months. Ime Udoka kept his options open until he got caught having an affair with the V.P.’s wife. I can’t believe Nia fell for the okeydokey about being in a “Spiritual Marriage”. She got played! Nia will be okay. At 51 years old, I hope she learned a valuable lesson from this and not to stay in long engagements with men who have no intentions of building a future with her. Nia Long is a very beautiful woman who can have any man she wants except Nia finds herself at the short end of the stick.

[@nongcebomchunu3894]

You have such a great great channel!!

[@rrg]

Thank you bestie!

[@edenise1004]

He should have told her before she uprooted their child. It would have at least given her the choice to make such a big move or not. All the best to Nia and her sons.

[@2004mojo]

Your comment stands out above so many others. Letting her uproot her life to move cross country showed not only did he not love her. He had no respect for the mother of his child & didn't give a damn how his mess impacted his son's life. He was having sex with the woman who also was keeping his family in check whenever they traveled to Boston or away games likely booking a room for herself on the same floor sometimes! I read they got caught because her husband heard their conversation on the ring doorbell camera,. Ms Long please don't cry over this dog. Don't hide either . Hold your head up and do you!

[@banyana6515]

Nia long has beautiful sons. Her oldest in particular needs to model. Period. She is blessed. This man did her dirty, I pray she focuses on her blessings, thanks God that the trash is taking itself out. Trust God Nia. He removes people from our lives for a reason.

[@mariandavis1791]

I'm not shocked but saddened by another woman's pain. I and many other women have trusted their men only to be heart broken. Nia take the time to get yourself healed.

[@lisettes.9598]

Why does everyone hold celebrities to the standards of regular people? Most of these people have agreements and open relationships.

[@LadyFay88]

I was thinking the same thing. They probably agreed to have an open relationship from the jump. Especially knowing they would have a long distance relationship. That's probably why they never pushed the marriage issue.

[@katbrooks4462]

What a BEAUTIFUL SOUL Nia Long appears to be. Still aging gracefully, still being an AMAZING MOM, while her man out here making a fool out of her! I tell ya!! The super power of black women is totally underrated! Thank you RRG for the update, I love your channel.❤️🤗❤️

[@Nissis.future.mummy1]

Wishing Nia all the best 🤗

[@hoodpreident1282]

RRG never lets me down!!

[@pettybee3860]

But I don't get it. Why would you get engaged if you BOTH don't believe in marriage? What's the point?

[@tiffany29]

She prolonged marriage for so long because she knew what kind of man she had, this ain't the first time he did this, I think she just decided to give him more chances, and it happened to blow up for the world to see

[@markstaten9526]

seems like Matt Barnes was on the HOT MESS list not long ago surprised he had any words on this hot mess

[@goodlife8044]

Ok! I’m like I know he ain’t talking 😒😅

[@sierraxx9979]

He needs to mind his business

[@valerieirvin4330]

Wow!!! Old fashion relationships is no more!!! Toxic relationships is the new thing. Smh!!!

[@music_istherapy8860]

Right

[@Umadataninternetstranger22]

What year did people start cheating ?

[@briannab1202]

a lot of those old fashion relationships were toxic too, divorce/separations were just less socially acceptable back then so many ppl just stuck together for appearances.

[@tinyking11]

@@briannab1202 Facts! Toxic relationships have been around since the beginning of time. Women back then just dealt with their miserable marriages/relationships bc they had to depend on their husbands for everything. Also for the kids & gender equality wasn’t a thing. If it was most of them would have left.

[@rachellove4797]

@@Umadataninternetstranger22 lol

[@msladylibra8373]

I'm here RRG good morning may the Lord protect Nia she deserves it and we ❤ her

[@patrice6139]

I feel bad for Nia Long having her business out in the open about her boyfriend's infidelity. I feel like her love life can be used as a cautionary tale to not wait around for a man to marry them. Hope she has the courage and strength to end things and start fresh. And maybe open her options to other races of men.

[@izyou__r0llin]

If y’all seriously think that Nia been engaged to that man for 10 years and didn’t know he was cheating/messing around then y’all are truly Gullible 😂! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jan4177]

Exactly 💯

[@oliverphippen1957]

Ha hahahaha- other races off men ???? are you sayin that Brothers can not be trusted ????

[@pettybee3860]

@@oliverphippen1957 they've been proven to not be trusted multiple times. You gotta search high and low and far and in-between to find a good chocolate brother, you feel me. I may be exaggerating but black men have done this to themselves. Famous or not. Not all of them but a vast majority

[@patrice6139]

@@oliverphippen1957 That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying black women should be more open and expand their options by dating interracially to increase their chances of finding a partner. Black men have dated outside their race for decades.

[@divineselfentity]

😆The narrator tore Ime Udoka behind up!! U go gurl!! The red flag dings were hilarious.

[@rrg]

Thank you baby!

[@quiqui5793]

Been waiting on this one RRG

[@rrg]

We hope you enjoy it!

[@prophetess_cb5941]

I pray that she heals from the consistent disappointments & build with herself. She's very beautiful

[@WLAs_Finest3x]

The thing that upsets me is that people are so nosey and pushy, trying to enforce society's beliefs as to how the family dynamic should be. Marriage is not for everybody!, and when these celebrities tell you their family situation works for them, both parties are good to each other, and they both participate in their parental activities, leave them alone! Plain and simple.

[@lorettapayne1623]

I think that Nia knew what type of man she had from right from the beginning l think she accepted & tolerated his behavior.

[@beautifulsoul4521]

It has to be hard to have the whole world finding out you have been cheated on. It is super sad, she can not even heal in peace!!

[@michelleflowers7345]

This part!

[@lyndielynn496]

Lol...Baby people get cheated on EVERY DAY ..AND WE ALL HEAL SHE'S NOT SPECIAL..NO DIFFERENT THAN ANY OTHER WOMAN WHO'S MAN STICKS IT SOMEWHERE ELSE

[@globalspiritualrevolutionmedia]

Matt Barns was threatened by the system!

[@ericmatterson9905]

The biggest red flag was an engagement longer than 2 years......if he really wanted to commit he would have married her by now. This is a blessing in disguise for her...she can dump him and not have to pay anything to him. Her net worth is much higher than his.

[@TribalLotusFlower]

Chile, I clicked the like before I started watching the video. I knew y'all were coming with a drop and I'm here for it. 🤭😂

[@rubyrodman2423]

I myself no longer look over those red flags I'm to damn old. I pray she heal and move on and finds true love 😍

[@jensendavenport1406]

Was waiting on this one hey gurl

[@alabamabornball9957]

She suppressed that Mess. Bless her heart

[@herbertdavis82]

Man I bet it took the whole weekend to put this video together hahahahah so much info I can’t wait to listen to this

[@Mfitz90]

I'm here for it!!!! Snacks and all☺! Thanks RRG

[@rrg]

Hope you enjoy it!

[@Mfitz90]

@@rrg Always do !!!!! 💚

[@abafrancois72]

Oh, didn't know her mom is a Trinidadian 🇹🇹... My country! Girl you wasn't blindsided, you knew and you stayed... Majority of the time he wasn't around and choose not to marry you... Now see why you wasn't around, cause his side chic was making all the travel arrangements 🤦‍♀️... Why as women we do that to ourselves!? We see the sign/ red 🚩 and still stay!?

[@phyllisfoster6589]

Sadly, only black women do that. We seem to want to prove how loyal we are by constantly being cheated on and disrespected by men whose behavior says they do not value you!

[@MsBadBody]

I didn't know she was part Trini either. I wonder the same. Why women keep playing themselves. They refuse to do better.

[@DeeDiamond2981]

I knew she was trini for yrs. She would come visit over the yrs. That man cheated to shame her... he suckss

[@pettybee3860]

Love is a drug. We gotta learn how to stop this mess for real.

[@mjbankhead9063]

Yeah it’s mentioned in one of A Tribe Called Quest’s songs…I heard it the other day

[@leonardreid2911]

It’s a shame that the woman he cheated with was the teams travel planner and was planning for Nia and the kids to move to Boston to be with him! SMH! Thanks for the info as usual RRG!

[@Lexx1192]

Ooo another red flag video.. I LOVE them!! 😍😆 Happy Monday RRG!!! ❤️

[@applewood6]

That HHHOT STANKIN MESS has me on the floor 😂😂

[@AMWTSCAM82]

Nia Long in her 50s she not as freaky when she was younger. 85% men gonna cheat but won't give their heart to a side piece.

[@missch78]

Nia is a class act….he lost a good one💔♥️🙏🏽

[@floridacocoabrown643]

Cheating is such a high level of disrespect. What it says is despite the love I have for you, there is a lack of self discipline in the ability to show commitment to one person. Seriously, we as a people need to know who we really are in relationships and if we can’t honor the people we’re with, stop being selfish and let them go. There’s is always a person waiting for you that will love and treat you the way you were meant to be treated. Nia should definitely forgive him and work to rebuild her family IF she believes he will do the work to change. If not, let his behind go. He’ll survive.

[@shanteli5970]

I love your videos!💖🙌🏾 You always give the real 💯. It's so insightful to see how you break down someone's relationship and the signs that ppl often missed. Soon as I see a notification for your latest video I always watch the clip or save it for later. Can you do a video on Kayla Phillips and DeSean Jackson? 👩🏾‍💻💁🏾‍♀️I'd love to see someone do a timeline on their relationship.

[@rrg]

We have to be picky with our sports stories because a lot of our viewers are unfamiliar and uninterested in sports/athletes. ❤

[@shanteli5970]

@@rrg Aww okay 😩 well keep up the good work girl! Love your channel 😊💁🏾‍♀️❤️

[@TheFemaleBoxingFan1]

Some of these men . Prayers to Nia and her kid and immediate family .what every he gets he deserves.great vid RPG

[@TheHomegirlHealer]

RRG live life with they foot on the gas honey! Bc this fast af! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@rrg]

😘😘😘

[@SpiritLedLisa]

Can I just say I love the little red flag sounds lol! They are everything 😄

[@IXIKAYAKOxSAEKIIXI]

Seems like Matt got some calls from his superiors

[@drwisis6996]

Thanks 4 posting this. We learn from everything here and that includes others mistakes and problems of the heart. So the person who said we shouldn't b on here and feels like we r pathetic, I beg 2 differ. Even though she's what we call a star, they're still people with feelings. U pointed out the signs while others pointed out criticism. I had no idea about them at all but if the rumors r true about multiple women and abortions, then she's in pain and I wish her well. but her position brings things 2 light 4 some of us. Peace and I humbly bow.

[@hoodpreident1282]

ULTIMATE RED FLAG WAS HIM BEING MUCH YOUNGER THAN HER.. I WOULD NEVER ... THAT WAS A TOY.. A SNACK..

[@deliteful1991]

Not Matt Barnes adding his toxic $0.02😂

[@rrg]

🤣🤣🤣