All things Black and White: keep your baby out my bed!!!!

[@teetee9248]

I'm so proud of u Tamar. U gave JR his time to talk without interrupting him. Keep up the good work guys❤

[@rakialogan3372]

Finally constructive criticism is needed alot of single mothers over talk loud talk its like i had to turn my sound down then i couldn't hear JR he is more mature and regular level voice he shouldn't have to shout to get a point across they are adults Tamar was over talking him loudly being rude im like how old is she not to be negative but constructive criticism as in lower your tone she came back and said dont watch i comment again constructive criticism is good for mature adults no one is perfect but the loud yelling was too much and disrespectful to Jr

[@TJ-yv3kp]

Yes, she toned down and didn't talk over the whole conversation

[@kandikane923]

Ha! Don’t hold your breath..ja🤷🏽‍♀️😁

[@loveallshay1659]

Just let her be her. Stop criticizing and analyzing everything

[@starlett077]

😳😆🤣

[@graceannecreque5491]

Tay girl this man was selected by the universe and sent special delivery for you. The level of maturity and depth of conversation exhibited in analysing and discussing these topics is on another level.

[@One_of_Greatness]

But Tamar still needs to learn maturity!!

[@Karen_Mosley]

Loagan should not be sleeping in the bed with you and this man!!! Girl please, Loagan will be fine. Make him sleep in his own room. Asp

[@One_of_Greatness]

@@Karen_Mosley yeah! What is she doing??

[@daniellejones537]

Truth

[@Mk2Creww]

I'm a single Mom.II have Seven sons and my youngest is 10 and he sleeps in my bed. Still. I have a king size bed, and I have a twin size mattress on the side. He sleeps in it when he wants. Some times. My 17 or even when My 31 son Him and his Fiancee they Sleep in my bed.

[@robinharvey7828]

JR is absolutely right - children need to learn boundaries at every age.

[@loveallshay1659]

Fact

[@jacquelinebrown2348]

💯 JR

[@nicolesmith4312]

That part….as they getting older the boundaries increase, keeps them safe and learning what’s inappropriate for them and them towards other people. I do understand her though, that single mom with one child and it’s a boy….nothing like it!! But it can be the most loving, unhealthy thing. How’s that for a oxymoron-ish. And you have to be careful how you transition because the boy could receive it as rejection my God speak to me😮

[@batcgray]

I hate clutter and if you’re not careful you accumulate a lot of stuff that causes clutter!!!!

[@batcgray]

I love JR transparency!!!

[@MagnoliaMolasses]

Once again, JR is coming with that much needed wisdom and manly/fatherly perspective on big kids in the bed with parents or parent and spouse. Creating healthy habits and setting boundaries on unhealthy ones is REAL.

[@MrsBlackButterfly]

You better listen Tay. This is a very smart man. It’s highly inappropriate to allow your child to sleep in bed with you and a new mate. Come on now girl, you should know that. If it’s not his dad, then that’s nuts that you would think it’s ok. JR is a blessing at this point, because he’s schooling you. Too many predators out here to allow this. After 5 years old and that’s being generous, they should be on their own.

[@rakialogan3372]

5 years to old infants can not sleep in bed with parents single parent either way they have cribs to sleep in you cannot cure loneliness by sleeping with children

[@amazingg8238]

She did NOT say she thinks that’s okay 🙄 She actually agreed with JR, and explained that the reason it happened initially…is because while he was YOUNGER (about 5) he wasn’t used to not sleeping with his mom. So when he had nightmares, he’d crawl into the bed with her (which is normal). She also made it clear that he DIDN’T sleep NEXT to her man. However, when JR agreed that it shouldn’t have happened…she understood. That was 5yrs ago. Logan is now 10. I’m pretty sure he’s not sleeping in between them. Y’all have to BE CAREFUL with the narratives you put out there in the comments, when you’re not comprehending well. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@amazingg8238]

@@rakialogan3372 She made it clear that it wasn’t about her loneliness…but the *child’s* comfortability, and not being used to his mom being in a new relationship & sleeping elsewhere!

[@arimababe40]

Well said

[@MrsBlackButterfly]

@@amazingg8238 I comprehend very well. You can’t create a narrative when the facts, from the source itself are on full display. Moreover, she was/is resistant to the notion of separation, because it’s been going on for a long time, and of course I understand. Yes, she agreed in the end, because intelligent reasoning always wins. So calm down: it’s not that deep. She can do as she will, I’m merely commenting as KZbinrs encourage you to do. Right?. I also liked it too.

[@amazingg8238]

I commend JR for being honest about this topic & I commend Tamar for being receptive about it, and understanding, instead of on the defense. There’s NO manual to being the perfect parent. We can only hope we’re doing the job right. I love this conversation (as it’s much needed). 💯

[@kenakeen8360]

JR seems like an intelligent, intuitive, considerate partner.

[@alexjabot4628]

The lawyer in him

[@lc-il6wr]

He's the smart one in the relationship

[@janetbishop9713]

That's why he left TAMAR, to find someone who's intelligent, intuitive, and considerate. JR, you need to hook up with Toni Braxton! Tamar ain't it.

[@janetbishop9713]

LOGAN is a 200 lb. boy. We're not talking about an infant or toddler. Good lord, Tamar.😮🙄

[@SCain-pz2ck]

JR is right on. Sometimes you can't even trust family to babysit your children so you definitely can't be allowing them in the bed with you and your partner. I don't care if it's a new mate, a step daddy, etc. It's sad that it has to be that way but you can NEVER be too careful when it comes to your children.

[@tonicrawford375]

Amen

[@joannmcnear9246]

I love the maturity that JR shows!!!! He compliments Tamar.

[@summervinsen]

JR is a great communicator Girl you blessed

[@vickie9662]

JR, my father was the monster. Thank you for stepping up and protecting your babies the way a father should and wanting the best for Logan. This episode hit hard on so many levels. Thank you BOTH for sharing. Tamar, you’re an amazing loving mother!!! ❤❤❤

[@jbboykin2000]

I wholeheartedly agree with you. My biological dad was my monster from 12-17yrs old.

[@rfolks7729]

That was great..his answers to those questions were on point and very responsible. There definitely needs to be boundaries for kids in the bedroom…

[@harveyrause9363]

JR is 100% correct as it relates to kids and their sleeping environments.

[@gailm.4324]

I think JR is in Logan’s life at the right time…Tamar needs to allow JR to instill certain values..in her son…

[@norarobinson2830]

Vince is required to Teach Logan. Because David, JR are just men dating his mom. Vince is the FATHER

[@gailm.4324]

@@norarobinson2830 sometimes men dating the mom can instill certain things that the dad is not..let’s give the flowers to some .. fiancé..stepdad and good boyfriends…when they are deserving.. didn’t you hear Tamar is unable to get him to sleep in his own bed.. JR is able to get the soda’s out..I think he is good for Logan.. that Marine has discipline…

[@lady316]

You can have a father and a father figure. That's why they are called Step parents and in-laws because they are an extension of your biological family. They are still family and are expected to have your best interest at heart. No one said anything about being a replacement, you are a bonus parent and an addition. If you are involved with someone who does NOT want or expect to assist in raising your child that should be an issue. It takes a village... @@norarobinson2830

[@LynnieQKCZZ]

@@norarobinson2830​​⁠you are so right however, I had a great father but my step dad was also very amazing and taught my brother and I so many valuable life lessons and he still does to this day. He is my father and have been since I was 8. That will never take away from my biological father. They both played their parts in my life and I appreciate them both.

[@sharalhall5911]

@@norarobinson2830I saw JR & Vince speaking. They’re cool with each other. Logan has his dad, grandmother Braxton & lots of others to instill values.

[@kimberlynash-williams6709]

I think it’s difficult for most people to share their space when they’ve been single for a long time. I didn’t get married until I was 55! It’s almost 4 years and I’m still adjusting however, it’s working❤️

[@cynthiawade3852]

Well I guess I'll keep looking at these old episodes. Shole miss ya'll.......😩😩

[@purpe34]

JR is completely 100% correct Logan is too big to be sleep in a bed with y’all

[@Millionaireyl]

Tay is living a celebrity life and glory to her , I kinna get were she is coming from with wanting Logan right beside her. She is keeping him safe i totally get her but yes JR is right .I trust and believe Tay did this for the right reason and the answer maybe she just goes with her instincts aa a mother of 1 and having to move around alot . Re the sharing well ok , Tay has sisters and she use to go off at them for a bag or 4 when they took her stuff especially Wanda smile , I can see from the Nile that JR is a little ocd also his possession give him a sense of order so it maybe wise in order to make him feel in control to leave his stuff . However his son is coming for half anyways cos my man's son left his dad with his school shoes 👞 once the 2 of them got big his waldrobe was a rap .

[@feliciabbrown719]

He is way too old to be in there bed come on now

[@nicolejames3054]

Mother's have to do better, that's why it's so important for a man to be in the life of children. Structure is needed for them.

[@D.Milton-Husaw6819]

She said that his kids are independent even the little ones..how many does he have??

[@jenaccess4luv]

Bottom line my significant man kids is not sleeping in the bed with us. The bedroom is for the King and his Queen! It isn't about so much trust its about boundaries and comfort.

[@ravenfloris1425]

Jr you are very wise. That’s just wisdom and common sense! You are not wrong !!! you teach your kids boundaries at a young age especially with someone that is not there parent. This is a great conversation and these are true issues and so many people make these silly mistakes by not protecting their child by trusting the wrong person.

[@june6949]

I understand both sides to this topic of kids sleeping in the same bed . I agree with jr on boundaries & also protection but i also understand Tamar’s perspective as a single mom . Tamar you’re an amazing MOM !!!! I also love that you’re listening to feedback and letting jr talk & fully explain himself . This was a great episode . I look forward to more episodes like this .

[@mirical4871]

RIGHT ON JR

[@lindalove6227]

My son stopped sleeping in my bed at 2 when I bought him his first real bed. Always very independent.

[@s6009]

This was my favorite episode yet!! Love the fact that you both have differences but still respect each other! Was nice to hear both perspectives ! I love you guys as a couple sooo much

[@tiffanymiles2885]

JR does it again! Such wisdom and maturity. Tamar love you to pieces. but Logan needs to be in his own room. I pray this couple makes it to the altar. JR was obviously sent to Tamar.He has such patience with her and her big personality.

[@ReneeValentine-r2d]

Listen and take heed. JR speaks with wisdom.

[@yolandatyson6346]

OMG😊 I just love Jr. His knowledge is versatility his patience Tamar you got the one❤❤❤❤❤

[@rayvaughnrose1516]

1000% agree with Jr, kids need to sleep in their own bed!

[@DeeM-zj9lk]

I 2000% agree with JR about the kid in the bed situation. And for ALL THE SAME REASONS. He nailed that response.

[@JACKIESTROUD-z5r]

I agree with JR and I love the way he explains things without being confrontational.

[@alexjabot4628]

Or accusatory or judgemental

[@brendahill2133]

Tamar, “Please listen to Your husband he is a man and very experienced and intelligent smart man. “You are raising a son to become a man honor your husband decisions, to help you to raise and teach your son to become a strong man. I’m a single mother with two sons. A single mother can’t teach a son every characteristic he needs to becomes man. At a certain point he’s going to need that male role model to understand teach him as a young man to become a man.🙏🏽

[@JeSlade-vk6uu]

Didn't know they had gotten married

[@Coconutvibez8401]

JR is so right. Boundaries and establishing independence is so important to establish with your kids early. As a single mom I definitely understand Tamar’s perspective because you become so close to your children and love them so much it’s hard but you learn later it’s so necessary.

[@o6libra]

I love how open, honest and transparent y’all are with each other. This always sets the tone and foundation for a healthy relationship. ❤

[@aquariangypsy8892]

I agree with JR when it comes to sleeping arrangements!

[@sweetpotatopie4283]

I've been watching the series of conversations since the very beginning. I absolutely love how incredibly open and completely transparent you both are on ALL subjects. I only wish that each episode was an hour instead of 30 minutes. Continued blessings to you and your families.

[@bbnowens]

I missed you guys being together. I am praying for u both

[@usomidiala4003]

I miss my people lord we ask for restoration in ramifications, we are all flawed and we ask for ur mercy cos we see the love and connection here 😢😢

[@aimeepinard3466]

Totally agree!!!!

[@amazingg8238]

I’m reading comments…and it seems most of you are already misconstruing Tamar’s words. She did NOT say that it’s okay for a child to sleep in the same bed as her & her partner, and *agreed* with JR’s stance on why it isn’t. If y’all listened before jumping to the comments…She clearly explained that when it happened initially…it was a situation where the child wasn’t used to not sleeping with her (in the way he did when she was single). So when he’d have nightmares in the middle of the night…he’d crawl into bed beside her (NOT next to her partner). Which is very common amongst children. So we’re not going to attack & act as if it’s not. I commend Tamar for being honest about it, especially coming from a single-parent household, it’s hard & there’s no manual. Thank you Tamar for transparency. I know it isn’t easy 🤍

[@S.Milano]

You explained it very well!👏🏾 I saw a lot of negative comments about what Tamar said. People just take her words and make them to what they want to hear instead of listening to what she is actually saying. She is even explaining reasons why, and people still take it wrong!🤦🏾‍♀️

[@amazingg8238]

@@S.Milano Exactly! 💯 It’s unfortunate that because people already have a negative preconceived notion about her…they block out comprehension when she’s speaking & immediately jump to attack, without understanding what was thoroughly explained. Everyone wants to act holier than thou on social media. It’s actually VERY normal for children to have separation anxiety (especially when it comes to their moms). It’s VERY normal for children to crawl into their parent’s bed in the middle of the night. However, as long as she understands why she shouldn’t continue to allow that & correct it…that’s most important. I pray for the day people aren’t so judgmental & seek to understand, instead of running to attack. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@aliciapayton2609]

They've been together a year. It hasn't been that long ago. also he clearly said Logan still does it from time to time and she said I be ok with him not wanting to leave. Than you ma'am should go home and than all parties can sleep comfortably. As an assault victim she should know better is all I'm saying

[@amazingg8238]

@@aliciapayton2609 Umm she was NOT talking about her relationship with JR. She was referring to when she was with her ex before him (which was YEARS AGO). She was speaking on people who got upset, because on Big Brother, she mentioned Logan sleeping in the bed with them & in this video she gave more context about that PRIOR situation BEFORE JR. Fast forward, she clearly stated that Logan doesn’t sleep in the bed with her & JR. She made that VERY clear. She said when it’s time for bed…she allows him to stay for 15minutes & if he wants to extend that time, she’s fine (but eventually goes to his OWN bed). Y’all don’t listen, or comprehend 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

[@amazingg8238]

Let me lastly comment… Tamar said a WORD when she said _“a predator is going to be a predator, whether the child is in the bed or not & easily go in the other room”_ Which is VERY TRUE. It’s scary that we can try & be as protective as we want…but the ONLY blame is the predator, themselves‼️

[@feliciabbrown719]

Truth but it makes it easier if they are already there

[@mybelovedj]

JR i agree with you about trusting people with your children that you barely know.

[@freetobme]

We need many more JR's in the world! he has a good head on his shoulders and I really appreciate his perspectives! He has a realistic and aware sense of reality and Tamar still has some more work to do.

[@MrsReese1125]

Tamar JR is a winner. He is so honest just like you. He doesn’t sugar coat anything he just tell it like it is. Thanks JR for being so honest ❤

[@NippyIncognita]

Logan shouldn't be wearing his(JR) clothes . That's disrespectful to me ! Kids dont wear their parents,siblings ,friends clothes until they ask & are given permission .🙏🏽❤️

[@feliciabbrown719]

Truth

[@aliciapayton2609]

I'm glad I wasn't the only one that thought it waa strange. If you know you may decide to stay at JR house from time to time keep an bag in your car. If this was a girl and Vince allowed his daughter to do the same she would be ready to fight. Tay this man loves you so stop pushing the limit. No man or woman would like that let alone their kid on a wing in another mams room. Go home if that's the case. Otherwise empower Logan so he doesn't live life thru your fears .

[@freidamartin3281]

Right!! I was like what the hell?🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@patwhite9230]

I usually don’t get too involved with social media stuff, but for some reason I watched this entire dialogue between Tamar & JR. With that being said, I was very impressed with JR’s outlook on the parenting discussion. I 💯% agree with his stance on kids in the parents bed. I thoroughly enjoyed this video.

[@bevjj4]

I’m so glad love found y’all and you both look very happy ❤ together.

[@T-heMIXx_30]

This was too cute 🥰 and seems authentic 💙

[@katashasibley3879]

Great show. I thought it was a great balance of opinions and perspective between both of ya'll 👏🏾👏🏾

[@ourbreakthroughpodcast9353]

And JR provided a great alternative. You get up and lay with them in THEIR bed. In the bed with 2 adults is NOT a “safe space.” Period.

[@mswondr]

Tamar, It is such a Blessing to have a man who’s honest with you about who he is and what he likes and doesn’t like. Relationships are comprise and y’all are still getting to know each other. Be patient ❤. Love conquers all.

[@knl5330]

I'm with you Tamar. I don't like people opening my new stuff before I do.

[@DeevaMor]

OMG did y'all caught ' JR Calling our gorgeous talented sister Tay Tay 'MY WIFE'? I'm crying ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@katashasibley3879]

I caught that

[@tamikawilson9272]

I caught it❤

[@kimjenkins7866]

I caught it too.. I’m happy for them ❤

[@DeevaMor]

@@kimjenkins7866 me too. Love in in the air.

[@Mandymelissa1231]

Great conversation !

[@watchnatalzz]

Amazing tonight Tamar was more relax and listening

[@MrsReese1125]

Tamar I love how you love being a mother to all the children it’s so sweet.

[@angieb2120]

😂😂😂 The snore and lean back! Tamar! 😂😂😂

[@z.h.8454]

It was a pleasant switch to see JR take lead of most of the show, and hear his perspective about the topics discussed. He made strong valid points. Very intelligent man.

[@alexjabot4628]

I agree. He has a lot to contribute, and well needed and a value add he is to their relationship

[@brendamathis5266]

JR has intelligent answers as well as opinion. Yet Tamar has great intelligent answers too based on her lifestyle. They are together this space is providing their opinions not that one opinion is better than the other. Parenthood is adjudicated based on parent preferences. JRs opinion is grand as well as Tamar. Not trying to split hairs one person has greater information over the other. ❤

[@kimberlynash-williams6709]

Full disclosure, I don’t have children. My mother was a single parent & we did not sleep with her. I agree with my mother’s position on that.

[@Anitajonesify]

Wow this was a another great important topic especially about children sleeping in the same bed. Jr, I really like how you break topics down with being mindful and caring about Tamar’s feelings.

[@stephaniezeigler2811]

So happy for you Tay! And you guys are DEFINITELY THE FAVORITE COUPLE!!! We Absolutely LOVE JR............ GOD SENT!!!!!!!

[@carolynlong8701]

JR is going to be a great bonus dad 😊

[@prettykitty1099]

The laughs the smiling the funny jokes y’all 2 are so comfortable in where y’all at in the relationship I love it! I think every woman want a man like Jr so glad y’all found each other Tamar🙂 really do so glad you happy u so happy🙂💯

[@jasmin6941]

I love the two of you together … I hope you never lose that bond ❤️❤️ Awesome 👏🏽

[@D.Milton-Husaw6819]

Tamar is so animated and this man seems wise beyond his years..boundaries are a must with children and if they are not in place early on in a relationship, just know that THERE WILL BE PROBLEMS

[@janetbishop9713]

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ SO TRUE, BRO. SO TRUE

[@renitaking8398]

I agree with JR let the kids sleep in their own bed! We have to create boundaries Healthy boundaries! We have to create a comfortable space for both you and the partner and for the child

[@lynnjones185]

He is the change that she needed!..she listens to him!.❤

[@tawannaware5043]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Not the weave pulling.... Jay Rrrrrrrr'rrrr😂😂😂😂😂

[@yvonnepittman7525]

I am Definitely 200% team JR on this subject.

[@moniquemichelle7295]

Girl 10000%. Phew!

[@kimjenkins7866]

I’m one million!!! Logan is to old … raise him to be independent… protect him at all cost….

[@lisayourbeautifulenterpris2128]

Enjoyed the openness & honesty of this conversation . Like a breath of fresh air. It is well needed in these days and times. Keep it going!! All The Best…. Always!

[@mellanesepittman3965]

Men have a tendency to buy just because gifts, and most times the excitement they feel buying the gifts overflows to the point they want to see the excitement from us right away

[@theresasmith2302]

Hi Tamar and JR, I love you open honest conversations, communication is the key. Continue to keep it💯.

[@robinw.6721]

Good conversation about boundaries with kids sleeping in their beds. I'm a single parent and my baby slept with me until she was 5. Side note: I never dated and not dating now because of the fear of predators. She was doing well until her dad died after turning 6 and she won't let me leave her side. She is going to therapy and she has support animals (guinea pigs). It is a struggle but I am trying and it is important to show her independence is okay.

[@svmitchell90]

I love the way he touches her leg, it shows reassurance ❤

[@moniquecobb9051]

JR is so mature and you can tell he’s used to a mature relationship. Love him.

[@lizrobertson7077]

I had the same thing Tamar in my marriage. My son used to sleep with me and when I got married my son used to cry at the door wanting to still sleep with me. It wasn't my boundary but it was my husband's boundary. It was a good decision in the long run but it was tough for me and him. It is true it's the nurturing nature of a mother. Fathers wouldn't understand. I'm so glad to hear you and JR discussed it and weaned your son from your bed. I'm sure it's still tough at times but at least you are open enough to discuss it.

[@prettykitty1099]

I love how y’all can agree to disagree to agree it’s all about the understanding and I love that about the both of u🙂💯Keep understanding each other needs and wants love it y’all 2 will be growing strong then EVER! More & more happiness yet to come! 🙂💯

[@alexjabot4628]

Man! This episode was outstanding! I am loving the balance, growth, and maturity in your relationship together. This episode was seamless, educational, and a joy to watch. Many can relate and be inspired by your candor. Continue to grow together, love together, and respect each other in the process. Great job JR and Tamar!!! 👏 👏 👏

[@rowenawashington9354]

So Happy for both of You. GOD has a Person for EVERYONE. Blessings to YOU ALL. JR. Keep this Woman.

[@SBRLimey]

Great discussion…and a great example of respecting each others perspective.

[@denisehodge8577]

Tamar you are very much growing jr is a good man I pray your situation be blessed !

[@EmpathPOV]

JR...She knows the passwords to my phone so she can see it ALLLL! LOL My Leo is the same way. They love openness & honesty.

[@svetlana_plantbased_nutrition]

What I Love about your show is that you guys are having honest conversations about relationship issues that people dealfl with daily, and you are sharing from your experience, not fantasizing your relationship. Thank you for creast ting a different platform. JR thank you for being the man that loves Tamar right. We love the way you love her. You two have a divine mandate and God bless your union guys. ♥️♥️ from Namibia

[@Southernfaith]

I agree with JR, that's how I got hurt. People trust too much. Just don't give place to the devil.

[@kimbeautyglam]

Tamar you seem to have found a very nice compassionate man. I will say that I absolutely agree with JR. You have to break that habit of having your son in the bed. It’s very healthy for a child to find some independence of sleeping alone…this goes for girls also. I love seeing you in a loving relationship that allows you to be the true you and JR communicates very well…I’m wishing the both of you love and happiness 💕

[@S.Milano]

Great video! I definitely understood both points and have learned a lot from this video. As a single mom or a single dad you’re always going to be protective of your children no matter what. But after a curtain age your child should be able to sleep in his/her own bed and get used to sleeping alone in there own bed. Ofcourse if a child has a nightmare or something than I understand that a child would want to sleep in your bed, but it shouldn’t be a habit.

[@paulettestreater6653]

YES...JR!!! Teach this girl!! As you can see JR, it's needed.

[@MsHJones]

That sleep scenarios (spooning & snoring), was EVERYTHING 🤣🤣🤣😂 #FACTS

[@fiesty6082]

She contradicted herself she don’t like him touching her stuff but she touches his stuff make it make sense Tamar

[@giggles0145]

definitely caught that...smh

[@singterriesing]

This was good!! Great conversation that many couples won’t discuss. I absolutely enjoy these weekly shows.

[@tdavis5079]

Tamar you are blessed to have a man filled with wisdom and understanding. A man not just a male but a man. Someone you can trust being the head of the family.

[@neefah23hh]

Am I the only one that has taken notice to the very telling body language here. Tamar has not reciprocated this mans affections once. He is damn near palming her whole thigh and her arms are crossed. This is cringey!!! This is the epitome of oil and water. Im surprised this sham of a union lasted as long as it did. All this passive aggressiveness and gaslighting going on. Chile!

[@devishaking6044]

I’m over here hollering😅 and weak. ❤ loving you both and today’s topic.

[@carlospar6896]

I can't get enough of u guys oookkkuuurrrr 😂😂😂😂😂😂 both too adorable 😍💕😍 may God continue to bless you both with the greatest of health ALWAYS. And don't let social media push y'all to get married. Do it in ur own timing. It's just a piece of paper. Keep dating and loving AND getting to know each other. Y'all will be ok. And I agree with hubby on all he had to say about child sleeping trust and new environment and boundaries.Y'all too cute as hell. Please y'all I love y'all topic. This is called reality of Life. This is what's needed on social media. Great topics keep them coming Enjoy the rest of the week ahead 🙏🤓🇨🇦💃

[@dawnjohnson9504]

Such real down to earth people. Love you guys so much ❤️

[@MichaelAlexander1967]

I can certainly understand Tamar's emotional defense on the topic of children being pushed into sleeping in their own bed, because a mom knows the emotional maturity of their child and can sense and feel things that others don't. God designed it that way for a purpose. I believe she was right on target when she emphatically said, "Weened", because mom's don't want their children associating fear and horror with something their mommy has decided to do. Associate fear with the power that God allows Satan to have, but not with mommy. I feel you, Tamar, on that notion, because I'm my mom's only child, and the weening process affects that child for the rest of their life, and no mom wants to make a mistake with their process. I believe that it's a Spirit-guided process for all families. You two, Tamar and JR, have done an amazing job sharing your perspectives on that topic. JR definitely raises valid concerns and expresses true emotions on how men feel about their kids being in "the bed" with another man without their input/consent/consult, etc. You two are setting a great example for Kingdom living for blended families. Kudos!!!

[@amazingg8238]

Yes! 💯👏🏽

[@TekaLachic]

JR is speaking truth throughout this whole segment....They both are learning from each other though!

[@MargueritaLee]

I LOVE JR!!!!

[@deborahrobinson6244]

I love y’all together! ❤❤

[@merchellemartin3916]

I totally agree with JR and from personal experience of Friends and family telling me situations that I cannot say 😢you cannot never be naïve about real life things happen that you will never understand in the bed .

[@mschari1484]

I agree with JR about the Logan thing. Logan is a big kid not a infant/toddler. He shouldn’t BE FORCED TO SLEEP IN THE SAME BED AS A KID THATS ALMOST A TEENAGER . That also messes up intimate moments.

[@joannmcnear9246]

I totally agree with JR! That is not appropriate.

[@msbcherry78]

I love love this episode: Bath and Body Works, snoring just everything. 😂❤. You are my favorite KZbin couple. Keep up the great content!

[@chrisssy9016]

This was a great episode. Loved the laughter and the growth is so apparent. Adults adulting 😊

[@Sderistel]

I’m laughing so hard! JR gone back to the VA and get that sleep apnea machine and Tamar, you can get one too!😂😂😂. Y’all make me laugh and happy for both of you!❤

[@DeeM-zj9lk]

JR 🙌🏾 I'm loving the way you explained your thoughts on this topic. I AGREE 💯