How To Successfully Date Over 40!

[@june6949]

I hate how much shade Tamar gets . If you haven’t been a long time fan you wouldn’t see the growth and the work she’s put in , to be a better person. People have to understand the type of relationships she was in before being with jr. This is her first time that she’s really free to be herself and express herself freely without judgement, abuse and more. Let her be! She’s grown and her growth looks great on her . Her being loud is HER , deal with it or don’t watch .

[@S.Milano]

Period, couldn’t had said it any better!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tamar from BFV and the this Tamar is totally different! People don’t want to see past BFV, and you can definitely tell in the comments. Tamar has been loud and smacking her lips even before BFV. Give her some grace, you can clearly see a difference in her!

[@lovenicole1704]

Yes! They say she listens to respond but they’re watching to critique.

[@S.Milano]

@@lovenicole1704 you just said a word!!😫👏🏾👏🏾

[@koalateamagic]

Omg.yesss

[@rakialogan3372]

Ill keep watching 👀 but she need to lower her voice talking that loud is a bit much its not to shade or hurt her feelings its constructive criticism to the viewers who watch if she has grown as you said she should be able to deal but when you get to the point where someone constructive criticism go un heard it could and will block future blessings remember there is a time place for loud talking we learn that as children

[@Nubian2200]

I really am enjoying seeing Tamar truly happy. There nothing like having a partner who has your back and works to protect your peace.

[@lashellemchenry]

Me too girl!

[@veronicacarter4443]

❤JR is just who Tamar needs. Her whole vibe seems more relaxed and Happy..

[@KJC1220]

YOU’VE GROWN SO MUCH TAY! God is doing a awesome work in you! As well as thru you! #Here for Tay and Jr❤

[@Ms_Ronda]

Jr is matching Tamar’s energy and I love it. He’s definitely alpha and bringing her to that feminine energy state

[@mode.or.culture]

Don’t they just melt in together! I like them together. I think this might be the one she will stay with.

[@Ms_Ronda]

@@mode.or.culture absolutely I agree. She’s able to be herself. And jr still has that hood in him which is what balances her

[@nicolewilliams1620]

That’s a word Tamar! We repeat ourselves because we don’t feel heard! Preach!

[@theadamsfamilyfoundation]

Tamar is a special lady. She has a boisterous, fabulous, round the way exterior but a soft, reserved, loving heart. All she wants to do is love and be loved, unconditionally, flaws and all. But isn't that what we all want? To not be judged, criticized, and ridiculed for what's different about me from you? I'm glad that Tamar has found a place to share her feelings. I hope that JR will forever be Tamar's safe place, and she will be his.

[@s6009]

Y’all are funny af . Love that you both can agree to disagree . I see why you both are a pair ❤️. Wishing you both lots of love ❤

[@lutoniaalexander3208]

Exactly! 👌🏾👏🏽💯🔥❤️

[@graceannecreque5491]

JR and Tay you are both discussing topics that are thought provoking and forces you to think about the quality of your relationship and where you can improve or maybe change course.

[@MumDulay]

I swear JR is the guy version of Tamar! No breaking-up here - God ordained this! Hallelujah !!😅

[@brandyt.569]

IDC IDC I LOVVVE Tamar...She is authentically her and the prayer cloth comment almost took me out 🤣😭

[@cynthiawade3852]

I love love love watching. It’s just the screaming loud when you talk Tamar. You are so beautiful. Stop talking over JR.

[@nicolewilliams1620]

Yesss! A good man will make his woman feel safe and secure.

[@prettygirltingz9077]

Yea man.... JR got a lot of patience

[@teetee9248]

I swear to god!!!!!!!

[@MSD.4543]

JR honey 😂 you are something else tonight. You're hilarious😂😂 Tamar baby I am so happy to see you happy . Many blessings to you all 🙏💛

[@shalomewhitfield1734]

I agree with JR on being able to be uncomfortable with being uncomfortable for the right one.

[@designzbyjulez9838]

He said hallelujah! And Let The church Say Amen!!!! I Love this Tamar, seems more mature. Not talking Loud, or smacking her lips.

[@lovenicole1704]

JR out here preaching. It’s so intriguing to hear a males perspective unapologetically.. I only know of those who walk on eggshells and issue half truths.

[@shalomewhitfield1734]

One more thing, I agree about being at the same place at the same time. That was me and my husband. We both were looking for the same thing, and we were at the same mental status, and both knew within minutes that we were for each other. God confirmed it.

[@S.Milano]

Great conversation! I’m young, but it was great to hear from both female and male perspective. Hope to hear about the engagement ring and proposal in the next video!✨

[@sashagoodwin920]

Really good convo but from their past debates around certain topics, Tamar is holding on to traumas. Around contillong relationships from her past. She overcompenates by thinking they are controlling when they are just healthy standards and personal boundaries. He is emotionally way more mature. Hope they make it! Love them!!!❤

[@kimaniquillin3695]

I met my amazing husband on a dating site ! Best thing I ever did ❤

[@joyb2840]

It's called being wiser being beginning to be wiser when you get older and you can foresee things in a relationship. Learning from your experiences and being wiser. Which is a good thing some people are slow Learners and some people are fast learners😊

[@lisa196409]

Y'all are doing exactly what it takes to be successful when it comes to dating PERIOD. I LOVE YOU ALL'S ENERGY. ALWAYS CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU AND YOUR PARTNER HAVE TO SAY LISTEN. Ain't nothing good out in these streets so you better LOVE THE ONE YOU'RE WITH doodoo doodoo doodoo doodoo❤❤

[@angieb2120]

Tamar, I LOVE what you said about women not admitting that we can be in that same place as men, where we're "outside"! It's true, I did it after my divorce. I don't know why some women don't want to admit it either!

[@sweetmamarms8167]

I’m glad to see Tamar is happy and has found perfect partner!! Y’all seem to get along well can actually communicate and laugh have a great time. God bless y’all ❤

[@MumDulay]

Tamar you’re funny as hell… click that’s how that goes… I’m here for it😂😂😂

[@JillsusTarot]

Can also do a background/personality check with a tarot reading! 👀😁

[@lb1798]

16:40 I love how JR said WITH me not FOR me. With is a word for making a strong bond . I like him for Tamar. They seem good for each other.

[@reginahalr3519]

You guys are dropping a lot of Truth. Love the statement about men being comfortable and uncomfortable. I also like Tamar talking about emotional connection.

[@tamikawilson9272]

JR is so into Tamar, Tamar loves to talk, as JR as well, but be sensitive Tamar, I think they need to date longer before this show. Know each other first before you go Spreading your new love, just so your relationship can be strong to go throw the hurdles, this is cute tho

[@kimberlykenney4566]

Loves how he keeps his hand on her knee

[@luckyladybird3851]

I'm fifty and single after a 30 year marriage. I don't even know how to date anymore.

[@lisayourbeautifulenterpris2128]

It will be well..🌸 Take it one step at a time.

[@nycole8192]

Same! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️😒

[@nycole8192]

Not single...yet but, if all we have is all these years, we don't have much. 😒

[@celesteredding1550]

Be open to conversation, be pleasant, be interested, take it very slowly, be cautious & careful

[@luckyladybird3851]

@@celesteredding1550 very good advice

[@dianes529]

Absolutely Loved This! Tamar had me cracking up😅 talking about the hip man😂😂.❤

[@karon88wells]

This was great conversation I love it I been a fan of Tamar for a long time she grew a lot, some of y’all in these comments saying she too much is just mind blowing I just don’t think we watching the same episode cause Tamar was very kind and well spoken and this episode, she let JR talk and got his points out. What more do y’all want from this women is the question y’all been knowing Tamar and know how she is so why are y’all on here saying she loud she always been loud why she have to change🤷🏾‍♀️ Tamar know her man love how she is so why would she give af about what y’all even talking about. Like she said if you don’t want to hear her smack are talk loud log TF off her page simple. But anyway Tamar keep being you boo and JR you better give Tamar a baby like now cause she ready 😊

[@briond4263]

I’m glad y’all made this. I messed around in my 20’s and found out lmao so now I’m single in my 30’s and just wanna work and be at peace lawd

[@RB-sy1vp]

Tamar I have never seen you so much in love, y’all both are just GLOWING!!! I LOVE LOVE, Your love God bless 💕

[@barbarawinns3197]

This is the first time I ever subscribed to anything on KZbin. Love your show. You’re a beautiful couple. Tamar I have followed you immensely. You have a beautiful voice and I love the way JR treats you. Take a deep breath and stop over talking JR. Give him time to respond to the topics too. Love you guys. ❤️

[@sonjahoward7659]

I love my Tuesday catch ups with T&J very funny and informative. Love you guys ❤ sending you a shout out for pathing your own path from a Pisces ♓️ NYC woman 💪🏾

[@laurapetty6493]

Both of you are awesome! Continued blessings to you both. I love the conversations. They are needed.

[@mosesmahone8663]

Jr is officially louis vuitton ambassador low key.. great video guys

[@GoldenRoots360]

Love you lady but turn it down a little I actually had to turn the channel dam! I was enjoying the conversation just got to loud! You ever heard the saying ‘ you talking so loud I can't hear you? Great show and couple.

[@brendakeel5980]

Hi Tamar and Jr. I can watch you too all the time. You are amazing people loving your content.❤❤

[@Aquieife4me]

.....Like your Mom said "I've been married since birth!" After 35 years of marriage and now single! I know what I want sadly the few men I dated I felt I was settling again. Still single and not looking. I feel maybe he whomever he is will show up eventually. Lol

[@besslee7905]

I think she is settling too. I'll never settle. I rather be alone than to settle.

[@anglu9]

JR is cool as hell . You all such a lovely happy couple.

[@GoldilocksOfficial1]

Ta is so Out Spoken n Strong...I pray this Man got what it takes for the long haul! Prayers Peace n Love 🌺🙏🏽🥰

[@melissawilliams6324]

Not every man is weak😳

[@carolynlong8701]

Tamar you have matured so much since the Braxton Family Values 👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾😉❤

[@s5white]

We just want to see your growth Tamar...Stll love you!!

[@gloriajwhitley7771]

I’m here for it Tamar. What ever you do, greatness was already destined for you.❤

[@aimeepinard3466]

I really enjoyed this conversation and loving the random lives. Keep them coming. The two of you'll are hilarious. My favorite youtube channel.

[@tyieshathomas7257]

I just absolutely love you”all energy and chemistry and the convo’s are so on point and juicy. it’s a powerful dynamic. ❤

[@MumDulay]

Bring the prayer blanket!🤣🤣 only Tamar!

[@blessed1155]

Tamar we need the engagement ring conversation…sis

[@francine4651]

It's true we do have to repeat ourselves sometimes we want to be heard 🙏🏾

[@Avahefdnvx]

Thank you! An important topic and timely for me after divorce. In my 40s and last time I dated was in my early 20s .. before all these Apps! I’ve been nervous to even think about dating again when I’m ready but now I’m intrigued to date emotionally mature men who have learned lessons from life experience (as I have) and in my age range 😊

[@amworld3166]

My brother found his wife on a dating app and they been married for years now

[@Discernin8]

_Hey Tamar & JR. I’m enjoying your show. Tamar said can the mothers of the church bring JR a prayer cloth please 😂🤣Blessings on the two of you & your families. I’ve been married 26 years & love wins_ 🤍

[@jayclarke8767]

I found my forever on a bumble. I guess it was destined. The most important aspects of dating is truly being ready, putting yourself out there, and walking away when it doesnt feel right. Ladies date multiple men and have fun until you narrow it down to best option for you.

[@graceannecreque5491]

Love Love this podcast watching a rerun just love the dynamics between this couple and despite the hills and valleys which is common in every relationship, hope they are able to find a amicable resolution and move forward in faith because human perfection doesn't exist. In the final analysis as mature individuals if the relationship is founded on genuine love, mutual respect and a commitment to be successful in the partnership then " rock it out".

[@SNOB4LIFEE]

This is so beautifully written. It blessed me, thank you 🫶🏾

[@micheleg8026]

I love these talks. I’m sure a lot of people need to hear this. 🙏🏼

[@kasandraguilbeau5762]

These videos have been amazing!!! I really like JR now! He is really good for Ta because he got a lot of patience 😂

[@aminabright355]

I live this. I'm glad you touch on how long y'all have been together. If you pay attention to the show you would know.

[@Quiology]

Good job with that one Ta, I’m practicing loving and accepting the blessings that I earn and deserve ❤

[@keeshabrooks1]

I love this Tamar... I see the growth 📈

[@Psalm5110]

Another good episode! I learned about hip sales & king swipe😉😉love it!! thank you both.

[@coast2coast500]

I am 52 i feel old when it comes to datng know everyone meet on apps or Facebook i like the old school dating style meeting in person

[@SBRLimey]

I love the way Tamar asked, “I have questions…..?” Lol😂

[@suzanneiu7269]

Tamar- I’m so happy that your sincerely happy!! ❤❤❤

[@stef623623]

Great episode , loved hearing JR prospective of dating in your later years lol . Would love to hear more on when is it the right time to move in together and how was that adjustment mending family’s . You know as your older you get set in your ways of living and so sharing that space how was that transition

[@DS-wv7lf]

Tamar has definitely matured over the years. She has come a very long way from how she used to disrespect poor Vincent. She gave him HELL. She is not disrespectful to this guy. Good for you Tamar! Tamar is just being Tamar as always being loud and funny! LOL

[@robibabe]

Lol, just love how JR is Tamar's biggest fan 💯💯💯

[@paulasullivan18]

So Happy That Y’all Found Each Other Beautiful Couple🥰😊💯👍🏼

[@Davtrice0511]

"Datin this thing right hea!!!" I felt that in my New Orleans soul and fell out laughing! That's how we talk baby! It's all fun! - Ms. Pat

[@sunnylove9511]

I love see the love you both have for one another and your kids love the content much success 🙏🏽

[@67Chevi]

I love them together,I don't see color I see love

[@kimberlykenney4566]

Well that's because he acts more black than white. He has soul and swag to him...shoot you think he is Black until he takes off his hat and see that straight hair with a part. It throws me off everytime .not matching his swag😅😅. I often think now when white folk get a perm it makes their hair curly. He should get a perm..lmbo and then cut it super short with a fad. Jr would be poppin frfr... a white man black with privileges. 😅😅😅. Right??!!! Awe man,😅 I so love them together. . Jr is a straight cool swagged out Caucasian man. So wait, how many kids does he have and he's been with sistas b4 right, I heard. I have to hear his back ground other than the blogs that first came out about him when they were first dating. I hope he's a good one and they construe this joining. I'm happy for Tay Tay especially if he has money from being a successful lawyer. Thats what's up. As long as he has some money not like that last Jamaican swindler Tamar dated.

[@taynaj1972]

Great conversation!! Thanks you two🥰

[@dorothy2220]

I Love Love Love Love y'all❤❤❤❤❤Thanks for showing up and showing out ...Enjoyed you guys 🤗

[@thobimakama3745]

Tamar has grown a lot. The old Tamar didnt listen or care how someone receives her comments. You can tell that she is very conscious and emotionally mature. Different vibes I love this happiness on her

[@levlogs24]

Look forward to you all's videos every week! Great chemistry!😊

[@cgt18777]

Tamar is low key hella spiritual🌟

[@charolettehawkins7988]

Good show. Lots of energy and lively discussion. 👍🏽

[@charlottegreen8676]

Enjoy you both every week ❤❤❤❤❤

[@lydiarogers9046]

😅 this is so much needed and your energy tells us the truth you don't need to say it is very much shown and thank you so so much and I will continue to watch❤ and listen

[@racheller8753]

A man willing to work on communication is a beautiful thing!!

[@andreavassell3252]

You guys are the most interesting couple in the world! Tamar asked some excellent questions. I would love to hear a bit more about what her therapist said about creating new memories. Also what advice she received about how to move forward in life after disappointments. And with both of you guys being so attractive, do you ever feel insecure or jealous about other people trying to holler at your mate?

[@carolynlong8701]

You guys are hilarious 😂about the hip person 😊

[@divine9ase]

I’m sooo here for Sista Tamar she did her work she winning in her soul and she has meet her MAN‼️🙏🏾 Tamar you have always been for the people your supporters. I’m a day one you actually followed me on Twitter when you was following your supporters way way way back in the day. Your evolution is good to see. Your eyes smile and JR matches ya vibe.. Love you in real time glad I found your show.💯💯💯

[@joyb2840]

Okay I see you can't take constructive criticism Tamar. And yes sometimes you don't listen and you should listen but you're not listening because you're talking loud and trying to over talk somebody that's just constructive criticism nothing against you so you don't have to take offense because you have to be able to take the bitter with the sweet when people are on your page and commenting. And the loudness we can't really grasp what you're saying because you are being so loud and the audio makes your voice even louder. That's all people are saying. But growth comes with being able to take constructive criticism. You don't have to tell people to get off your page. Cuz nobody's putting you down or anyting like that. It's just stating the obvious things❤

[@amazingg8238]

Actually, a lot of people are putting her down in the comments. The way you phrased it is a bit more respectful than the other commenters who try to convey the same message. They call her “ghetto” simply because her voice resonates. Maybe her voice is just naturally loud & she can’t help it. She also sings loudly…so it makes sense. Just like JR doesn’t speak loudly, it’s his natural voice tone. So I don’t think she’s telling commenters like you (with constructive criticism) to exit…but the rude complainers, for sure! They can exit stage left 👉🏽🚪

[@shawnaw9750]

This was a great conversation. Keep them coming, and thank you for sharing.🙂

[@SmplySoulfull]

I agree!! Who cares if you’re at a spot that your partner used to bring their ex(es). Creating new/better memories is way more important. ❤

[@unezsimpkins9107]

Love you two,I love yall vibes,Love it that it's okay to disagree but not fall out about it.Keep it poppin you two .Love you guys❤❤❤❤🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@deekay313]

Loving your channel! Great conversations ❤❤

[@graceannecreque5491]

I agree catching a vibe or not I agree women should not be in a hurry to become intimate but as JR says you need to have that time of courtship which is so necessary if you are hoping to build a long term relationship.

[@tammywilliams9335]

I agree to

[@bohotodaro]

Allegedly JR was still on dating apps while sitting on this live! Ask Tasha K! The nanny spilled the tea! This video looks different now. He was fighting to do all the talking. He wants to be the star. No matter if folks like her or not, she is the star.

[@Celestial26]

Baby I’m 26 and I don’t date. I always despised the idea of dating. It seems like too much of a chore and I stay in the house too much unless I’m working, but I need a “swipe king.”The way Tamar pulled out that card? She came ready.😂😂😂😂

[@michellehood3345]

I'm so glad you two found each other!❤

[@carlospar6896]

U guys are too adorable 🙏😍🤓 great conversation. Keep them coming 🙏🤣💃🤓🇨🇦

[@mode.or.culture]

I think she might have got it right with this one. I like him for her!! I do! People have said they were shocked because he is not black. LOOK WHO CARES HE IS HELLA COOL & HE IS AMAZING! Does he have a single brother?? Lol

[@christinependergrass6023]

Yes Tamar love seeing you happy

[@ronniebmerobinson6803]

LOVE U Twooo together!!💕 When JR said Tamar is shy I could tell by her expression that she actually IS!! awwwe sooo cute!!😍